>>214966137
Your mother never called you handsome?

>>214966166
no, shes not one to mince words

>>214966201
Do you have a resemblance to your dad?

>>214966220
no

>>214966220
I mean the white half of me, yeah.

>>214966232
Sure, you do. You're real dad, that is.

>>214966137
she wanted his gabagoo if Tony died

>>214966332
other than hair color i dont really look like my dad

>>214966137
she was trying to compliment AJ / give him positive feedback / make him feel confident because Tony just made him scared and anxious and insecure

>>214966137
Some Weedipuss shit right Ton'?

>>214966137
you have autism

>>214966521
Hes just shit posting you stupid fuck

>>214966137
Sergeant Bilko didn't dress like that, why would Tony get his classic TV confused when he spends all his free time watching it?

>>214966419
That's not your dad.

>>214966137
Good mothers are somewhat aware that their feedback is one of the primary factors that will shape the character of their children.

If your mom reinforced the idea of you being handsome, you are very likely to feel handsome. If you receive no such compliments, you will be shaped by other factors. If your mother regularly calls you ugly, i wish you all the luck in the world, you are going to need it.

>>214966649
what about if your mother treats you like a young child all your life while also swearing at you and invading your privacy and throwing/giving away your stuff while you're at school? haha

>>214966232
>>214966419
Look up your mom's phone and ask to meet anyone with "handyman", "personal trainer", "accountant", "electrician " in their name.

>>214966691
>what about if your mother treats you like a young child all your life
Dependency issues and unhealthy attachments. Irresponsibility as well.
> swearing at you and invading your privacy and throwing/giving away your stuff while you're at school
Low self-esteem most likely.

You're bound to develop an unhealthy attachment to the first woman that shows you any attention. If she's a good woman, she will eventually break up with you when she realizes you're holding her down. If she's a bad woman, she's bound to treat you like shit and get away with it.

If you're on the lookout for these patterns and do your best to correct them, there is some hope however.

>>214966137
>Poppuhsh and whead shecks

>>214966235
lmao yuck

>>214966767
too late, it was number 2.
shortly after that 2-3 year insanity experience, health was destroyed and any relationships after that have been short lived and muted - I'm going to die alone and completely unrealised, unfulfilled and probably decades younger than I would have otherwise.
wish I'd been able to speak to someone who knew about this stuff when I was 14-16, so I could have had a chance of escaping it.

>>214966931
It was number 1 for me and 11 years.
>wish I'd been able to speak to someone who knew about this stuff when I was 14-16, so I could have had a chance of escaping it.
You probably wouldn't get it at the time. It's very hard to without hindsight.

>>214967046
some kind of input or advice or guidance at that age would have been extremely helpful.
for me.
i knew something was up even at 14 and wanted out, but didn't know how to proceed with life or fix any of it and just ended up retreating completely. managed to extract myself some years later, fell into it with that girl as i/you said, so more catastrophe