I just don’t like going to the gym no more
Gym is for fags. Woman like skinny chads more
>>215526672but you hit chest yesterday
>>215526703why do people keep saying this?>watch one of those dating reality shows aimed at women (love island or whatever the fuck) >all the men are ripped >watch a romance movie/tv show aimed at women>usually at least one scene where the male lead takes his shirt off to reveal his chiseled physique>go to the romance novel section of book store>once again, all the covers features muscular ripped men women don't want roided up mr olympia bodybuilders, but they don't want skinnyfat nerds or twinks either
>>215526703This. Women love my twig legs and bird chest
>>215526703teen girls like skinny pretty boys. Adult women like "dad bod" which in reality means a lot of muscle but also 20% bodyfat.
>>215526795But Black Dynamite, I AM a skinnyfat nerd!
>>215526795>>watch one of those dating reality shows aimed at women (love island or whatever the fuck)Well the women in those are plastic surgery nightmares, so...
There are peaks and troughs. The important thing is to push through, even if there are some weeks where you feel shit and like you're barely holding onto what you've got. Have a deload week. Have two. Eventually you will hit a vein of good form and fruitful sessions again. Keep on top of it.
>>215526703Stopped going to the gym when I got a gf. It woke me up to how few people actually work out. Most people I see are fat. I can go days without seeing someone who looks like they lift. And when I see someone who looks like they lift, I just think of all the time they waste on counting calories, minmaxing their food to hit a protein target, going to the gym, spending all day thinking about it, and doing it all because they think being in shape will get them a gf or because they don't want to feel weak. People come up with all kinds of reasons for why they lift but it's ultimately one of those two. It's a colossal waste of time.
>>215526795Most women (and men, I'd actually argue most men are even worse in this regard) "want" whatever the zeitgeist tells them is appropriate to want.There are some Lindy archetypes that will never go away (a strong man to protect her, a sweet woman who won't nag him to death). These are what always show up in "romantic" fantasy stories aimed at the respective sex. But pop-sexuality is always shifting based on reality, since people love falling into trends completely removed from what the heart actually wants. Women convincing themselves they like schlubby irony-sleaze guys (since most guys are gormless pieces of shit), men convincing themselves they want a "thicc muscle mommy" to dominate them (since most women are fat harridans). I don't think evolutionary biology is the key to everything, but I think a lot of people are driving themselves insane because they won't admit they're "into" what's essentially a "healthy relationship dynamic with traditional gender roles".
Does the tired thing go away as you get older? I feel fucking drained by the end of the day, im only 33
>>215527836It goes away when you quit caffeine alcohol and tobacco. Figure out how to make a salad box every day too
>>215526672Just be strong enough to lift heavy shit and don't be outright obese, and you'll be fine. Women tend to care a lot more about the face and hair anyways, you'll get a lot further by good skincare and haircuts (not to mention the genetic lottery) than by going to the gym.
