I'm 27 and have had a gf for a grand total of two months in my life when I was 25. I miss the intimacy but I felt relief like nothing else when I dumped her.

>>215650408
I'm 27 years old and a virgin.

>>215650408
That's female propaganda

I am attractive enough where girls have taken pictures of me sneakily while I’m standing near them but I’m 27 live with mom have no job no confidence and don’t really want a girlfriend anyways and never did. Not gay. There’s porn. Not entirely gay I mean.

>>215650408
I'm like decades past that certain age

>>215650432
You never had a gf before at that age and yet you still dumped her? You showed some integrity. Unlike every other virgin/incel type I've ever met that got a gf after a seemingly endless dry spell.

>>215650455
Girls take pictures of you?

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>no gf
>no desire for gf
>guys who couldn't hack it are hooking up with literally anything with a hole
>rare occasion where it comes up, co-workers bewildered by no gf
>felon types try to bully about no gf, but you know they can't do anything because parole officer
It's like being some radioactive x-men, but more lame.

>>215650505
At least one really notable time where I was standing near a campfire with other people, we were closer in age than everyone else there.

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>>215650408
I kind of consider myself male femcel. That might sound like a contradiction in terms, but hear me out. I *could* date. I certainly get enough attention. However, I'm dissatisfied with the women who display interest in me. These women arent even fat or ugly. I just dont feel anythingfor them and/or they dont measure up to my autistically specific criteria which seem tailored to filter out 99.999% of the dating pool. You see, an incel cant get what he wants, a femcel doesn't want what she can get. If I dont want anything outside this one tiny sliver of the population, could i be said to want anything at all? Hardly! It's like the absence of desire. Therefore, I identify more with femcels than incels.

>>215650529
Also I’m not a normie who ever leaves the house to do anything social, that was a one time thing

>>215650506
>be 34
>"are you married, anon?"
>no
>confused fluoride stare like I just confessed to murder
>...why?

>>215650539
There's no such thing as femcels

>>215650560
Because I hate all you NORMALNIGGERS!

*whips out katana*

>>215650629
Said the increasingly nervous anon for the tenth time

>>215650629
>heh, had sex
>>>200 pound gf fucking coworker in the distance

>>215650539
>Doesn't want what she can get

This is literally the issue with modern dating for both men and women. Back in the day, people just married because they were expected too and didn't really have much choice. That's why so many loveless marriages existed all around the world. Nowadays though most people have a choice, but hold out for perfection. And this has been a disaster for the dating market as people become too picky.

>>215650673
I'd rather be single for life than be settled for and later dumped or cheated on

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>>215650673
>before: marry some broad because you have too, while she fucks guys on the side
>after: don't bother marrying, play vidya
"back in the day" fags are the biggest cucks of all

>>215650432
Basically this. I dated a "wonderful girl" for two years. Normal people were a bit shocked that I had broken up with her, but I was relieved. Fuck it.

>>215650560
Male surplus, look it up, I'm on the leftovers team

That's it, that's my response.

>>215650673
Yes. Im probably too picky.

>>215650408
Alright, then. Provide me with a gf.

>>215650673
People should be picky

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>>215650920
I agree. This could be you!

>>215650920
People should be picky about partners genes since this is what you hand over to your offspring. It's pointless and retarded to be selective about shit like "compatibility", "emotional connection", "love" and other useless garbage. Your child benefits if you breed a tall woman with fair features, nobody cares if you love her or that you share hobbies

Everything is fucked, even obese tatted up whores are empowered by several orbiters

>stalking girl from high school
Yall pissed me off with that one, I went through a lot of shit from that rumor.

I need to stop telling everything about myself online

>>215651002
People like you are finally being bred out of existence by women being able to actually have standards the way nature intended

>>215651043
That's just gravity

>>215651085
lmao what are you on? The future belongs to r-selective mutts who will breed any warm body, usually by means of rape. Good luck to women and their "standards"

>>215651044
First time I learned the true nature of people and how people with a lot of friends and acquaintances are hard to fight against. They have a social safety net and Armour, and have the numbers to back up claims even if they're false. Making it, or whatever claim or rumor theyre spreading to be more believable, having that power in numbers. That sometimes it doesn't matter if it's not the truth, or a lie that's purposely spread, and people won't even judge and take and hold it as fact.

>>215651167
Same thing in mopeds, this guy got his own ass beat, went after me running his mouth and had others do the same to anyone that would listen or was around me in the present and past.

there should always be a lot more women in than men
historically this has been the case as about half of men died from going to war and just general violence and drink/drug addiction etc
so every bloke was effectively gifted a wife at some point. even if they were complete faggots its just what happened as there was a glut of females around

>>215651153
only if you live in the UK lol. my condolences

And i dont think anyone will disagree with me here, you have to be a complete faggot to get your ass beat at a moped rally.

I was incredibly happy with my gf, we had a wonderful year together and then out of the blue last night she dumped me on the verge of tears
Today she told me that I can and must go forward and that I'm strong
She's wrong lads
I want to die
I was so happy

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>>215651481

people (women) at work have been nagging me on why i'm not talking to other women at work. i tried telling them ''well i'm past the age. it's too late to learn how to date in your late thirties.'' they insist i'm wrong making excuses to not socialize. it def feels like a bad thing that i can't shake off

>>215651591
Take the hint

>>215650432
The most peaceful time ever is right after you break up with a girl. You don't have to deal with the hassle of having a girl, but you also aren't feeling the need to get another yet.

>>215651606
there is no hint to take. these are taken women telling me this nonsense

>>215650471
Well I appreciate that but she was a real handful and I probably should have done it sooner. I figured out little by little that she was
>bipolar
>bulimic
>daddy issues
>mommy issues
>probably bisexual
>and more
I figured this out little by little and decided I was dating a ticking time bomb. But I do miss having someone to hold. Maybe 2026 will be the year of the gf for me.
>>215651481
That sucks man. Hope 2026 brings you better luck.

>>215651704
women past 30 are always taken, they're never single again cause they just trade in one man for another, sometimes cheating on one of them before officially moving over to the other one

>>215650408
he's right desu
without the distraction you tend to (((notice))) things
and once you start it never stops

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>self sabotage whenever a girl actually likes me

>>215651481
Brother she likely cheated

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Are you a single man approaching middle age?

I’m 36 and never had a gf. Mainly due to asexuality, schizoid personality, and being boring.

Current plan is to read the entire Wheel of Time series and maybe some Brandon Sanderson books if I have time, then go to JordanCon in April to flirt with my massive book knowledge.

It probably won’t work, but at least I have a plan… I’m so fucking lonely bros.

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>>215652195
>approaching

I'm 32 and the older I get the more I just want to be alone. I used to be able to larp as a normalfag from time to time. But now just being in a room with people chit chatting is like nails on a chalkboard for me.
I just want pure peace and serenity.

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>>215651002
>>215652319
>I’m 36 and never had a gf. Mainly due to asexuality, schizoid personality,

Movies about this?

>>215652548
I mean this is me, but I know it's from trauma, not some in born characteristic because I was extremely normie and expressive as a little kid

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>tfw just attractive enough to lure girls in for a date before they then experience my autismo personality and ghost me or 'just want to be friends'
>this has happened 3x so far this year
>I'm 28

I think it's over for me at this point. I can only handle so much rejection in life.

>>215652672
What trauma does this to a man?

>>215652877
Same. Went on two dates with a girl this summer. Even slept with her after the first date, which seemed like rushing, but she was the one pushing for it. After the 2nd date, she leaves me on read for a week before texting some chatgpt-scripted "break it off nicely" message. Said everything was great, thanks so much for everything, but that she wasn't capable of something long distance, as if she didnt know where I lived at the start. I suppose its just as well. I'm sure it would have ended in pieces anyway, had we actually made a go of it.

>>215653124
It's a strange feel

>>215652877
my million-dollar idea is to create a video series for autists on how to behave on dates and other high-stakes situations. maybe even hire some nice girls to do mock dates over Zoom or something so that the guys can get practice. but I'm too autistic to even know how to do that myself.

why are you guys such whiny bitches?

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>>215653165
I know of no films or television programs that deal with the "ho-hum" nothingburger side of dating; when there's no drama, not really even any thrill. Just a routine chore you put yourself through 2 or 3 times a year that involves exchanging rote messages about shared interests and experiences, a few trite dates that only reveal the awkwardness and rough edges concealed by online profiles, followed by a period of tapering off, when one or both parties gradually ghosts the other.

>can be

yes exactly. So it's not necessarily bad. Why does he make you seethe so much?

>>215650408
Where does the fear of being alone come from? It seems incredibly powerful considering how many people I know are in relationships they hate but choose not to leave. I'm glad I don't suffer from that ailment

>>215653308
from fear of death. This is why we should support scientists working on aging reversal

>>215650408
Hahahahaha imagine unironically wanting a gf or wife in 2025. Chad doesn’t settle down. Only beta bucks deluxe want to pressure other men into getting pussy whipped. The betabucks can’t stand seeing a chad pump and dump whores while he had to give his entire life up for ONE (1) pussy lmao!

>>215653124
Fuck off, normalfag

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>>215653333
Based quads of truthnuke

>>215653308
Humans are hard wired for companionship, and we would almost always rather have a shitty relationship than be alone.

That's why solitary confinement is considered the worst punishment in prison

>>215650629
literally me

>>215650408
niggas who get no pussy either become lifelong incels or simps.

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>>215653333

>>215652319
>Current plan is to read the entire Wheel of Time series and maybe some Brandon Sanderson books

The only women who will like those "books" will be mouth breathing retards. You might as well go to an adult special ed class, you'll find the same fans who read that slop

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>tfw genuinely not bad looking, decently charismatic, know how to talk to people
>decent childhood, no trauma or anything like that
>just turned 25 and have never had a gf

I honestly feel like I should seek professional therapy at this point because on paper I should have had at least one gf by now.

>inb4 "you're much uglier than you think"
even if that was true, every day I come across guys who are far uglier, shorter, and fatter than me walking around with their gfs. I have a friend who's been fat his whole life and he had a gf at 15

>>215651153
R-, R-, R-, Rrrr-, R-Type.

>>215653650
Bro having a gf is beta as hell. Anyone giving you a hard time for now having a gf is actually an evil little faggot who wants you to be whipped up like he is. The only people getting married or dating have been seeing each other in high school or college. No one meets their gf after those days unless it’s fresh out of schooling. Besides you don’t want the left over women, they are just as bitter if not worse. I know girls who get attention of good looking guys and hurt them intentionally to self preserve themselves
> yeah that guy dated me but he was too weird so i ended it even though he’s more than i deserve.
Type of shit


Dating is cute and fun initially but women expect you to make them your main hobby. I’m not kidding, girls need you to make them your favorite hobby otherwise it’s just not going to work out or they will become the most needy little children ever

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I'm 29 and have a shitty job and I've never had a girlfriend thst wasn't an LDR. I'm tall and attractive but that just means girls flirt with me sometimes and that's all. I want to ask this girl out at the grocery store but I'm afraid shes like 18 and I don't want to date anyone that young.

>>215653375
>we
Speak for yourself, fag

>>215650539
You’re a volcel and a fag

>>215650433
Lol
>>215650455
>where girls have taken pictures of me sneakily
nobody tell him

>>215650408
men age like wine, know your worth king

>>215653833
That’s literally the best age to date girls. 18-22, everything after that and they are on a journey of healing kek. Ask her out anon

I'm literally dating a trans girl right now and she mostly passes.

AMA

>>215653751
I want to lick her hole so bad and hear her moan as I gently jack her off

>>215653892
Why did you vote for Kamala Harris?

>>215653926
I didn't vote.
They're both communist retards.

>>215653650
>I should have had at least one gf by now.
it doesn't just randomly happen dude, you have to specifically try to make it happen. Dudes who just blunder their way into having a gf like out of a sitcom are rare. You have to be acting with conscious intent to be trying to make something into a relationship (or incredibly insatiably horny)

>>215653650
Are you expecting one to fall out of the sky? To get a girlfriend you need to ask a girl to become your girlfriend. They're not going to ask you. You ask one yourself or you never get one.

I am in a new relationship with a qt3.14 I met on hinge. Last night we had sex and said we loved each other for the first time. There is no better feeling on this earth than being intimate with someone you really care about. Even when a relationship becomes routine it's still the best feeling ever.

>>215654007
she will soon one-up you for a taller, richer, handsomer etc chad

>>215653986
don't you have to get them to agree to a date first? you are already skipping steps you dick head

>>215653986
I guess i just never quite understood relationship dynamics.

so men have to initiate otherwise they die alone, whereas women just sort of go through life and know that a man will ask her out sooner or later?

>>215654007
>new relationship
>saying i love you during sex
you're going to hit serious trouble at some point in your relationship

>>215653986
>They're not going to ask you.
proof?

>>215654044
Yes, you make the first move or you die alone well the girl you liked eventually gets asked out by another guy.
No it isn't fair.
And no it's never going to change.
You can learn to deal with it or you can die alone.

>>215654076
you're saying I have to do some sort of song and dance like im nothing more than a male animal out of some documentary?
society is so cruel

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>>215654018
>>215654064
Jelcels

>>215654116
he's right, tread carefully. those lovey dovey sex tingle feelings won't always be there and both of you need to know how to be together even when things aren't going great. saying I love you for the first time during sex in a very new relationship isn't a good start.

>>215654116
never forget that it's just your turn, anon. She will never be truly yours (assuming she's hot. Whales can be yours)

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what's going on here? why are normalniggers coming into these threads and boasting about their gfs and how heavenly it feels? can you fuck off?

>>215654290
>normalniggers
because they're normal. they have empathy and want to inspire hope

>>215650408
I finally have a girlfriend and she's out of my league and I let it out that I wouldn't break up with her even if she cheated and she of course told her best friend and now she's trying to get my gf to fuck some random dude and has called me cucky when it was just the 3 of us. I don't want to go back to being single and I don't want to get cucked, bros.

>>215654386
>I let it out that I wouldn't break up with her even if she cheated
why did you say this

>>215651481
see >>215654018

>>215654399
Because I'm in love with her and it's true that it would hurt me but I wouldn't break up with her because I will miss thecintinacy and sex and she is honestly too hot for me.

>>215650432
Same, except I was 31. She was..
>too needy, always wanting to facetime
>nonstop medical issues like lupus that were a major stresser
>BPD
>vag had yeast infection on and off and the smell was foul
>over 30 tattoos
>moved to the west coast for law school and always wanted me to visit
>always sending me these shitty emo songs
>we honestly had little in common overall
I think I also have PIED so I think I'm better off not having sex again until I can manage to overcome this issue

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>>215654386
>I let it out that I wouldn't break up with her even if she cheated
This cannot be real. Oh wait... this is the real world. Many people I have worked with or hell even my own family members have gone through these "cuck" situations. Cheating, cuckism, trading one partner for another then getting back together later... how the hell do normies do this? Then again these are older people mostly and the sex/relationship scene was absolutely bonkers prior to the "prudishness" of the modern generations.

>>215654386
>act like a cuck
>"d-don't call me cucky!"
moron. you have no excuse.

>>215654438
just admit you want to get cucked

>>215654438
you do not have real love for her if you would tolerate her cheating on you
you are instead deeply insecure with low standards willing to accept severe abuse and this is why your gfs friend is trying to sabotage you now because you made it very clear you aren't a real man

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>>215654386
>I let it out that I wouldn't break up with her even if she cheated

>>215654488
faggots here don't like to hear this but I think there is a pearl of wisdom in religions which advocate for chastity until marriage or at least engagement. see here >>215654438 this cuck-in-training saying that he is putting himself in an objectively terrible situation for mediocre pussy. if you keep sex off the table in a relationship it helps your head do the thinking with these problems instead of your dick.

>>215651085
Womens standards are retarded and ruin civilization, patriarchy FTW

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>>215654386
Break up with her!

>>215654492
It was a mistake I know this but mistakes happen.
>>215654529
She didn't have to tell her friend. Her friend called me cucky and is actually pushing for her to cheat on me, if it wasn't for her my gf would probably not really consider it.
>>215654559
I don't.
>>215654562
Maybe it's a bit of both. But I do love her very much.
>>215654568
Yeah I know I fucked up.
>>215654589
Who said anything about mediocre? She's a 10/10 and she's a good and fun person too, it's her friend that's a bad influence.
>>215654649
No way I will never find someone as hot, beautiful and sweet as her.

>>215650539
Stupid volcel

>>215654662
Too fucking bad, have some self respect

>>215654664
They choose this fate for us

Willingly

>>215654670
My problems would all be solved if her friend would just drop dead.

>>215654662
>She didn't have to tell her friend. Her friend called me cucky and is actually pushing for her to cheat on me, if it wasn't for her my gf would probably not really consider it.
lol it's over OR you're a cuck fetishist writing fantasies on here for some God-forsaken reason

>>215654662
Buddy I'll be real with you. Why do you want to be with a woman whose friend advocates for a threesome? That's fucking weird. Normal people don't do that.

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>>215654684
The only person who can stop this is you.
Be a man, and tell her to fuck off, if you can snag that, you can snag again.
I'm almost 28 and I never had a GF but I know better not to humiliate myself like that for pussy

>never wanted to have sex when I was younger
>start running and strength training
>now almost constantly horny
I’m 32, where do I even begin?

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>>215654662
Enjoy the ride while it lasts, son. But if she does cheat, then you need to realize the joyride is over and pack up your stuff. Maybe fuck her friend while you're at it.
Yeah, cheating is fucked up. I have no idea how normgroids can do it so nonchalantly but oh well, that's how the world is. That is one really scary aspect as I've grown up... I can't trust any woman. You don't watch her for one second and it's game over

>>215654734
How long have you been exercising? I'm 27 and would like to feel that kind of energy. I've been sexually dormant most of my life.

I doubt people would care as much about women/pussy if porn didn't exist.

>>215654771
Just work out and eat Zinc

>>215654698
Why do you wish misfortune on me? She's the best thing that ever happened to me.
>>215654704
Her friend is just a bitch and probably hates me because she thinks her friend deserves better. She's not trying to get a threesome going, just wants to hook my gf up with a guy.
>>215654709
>if you can snag that, you can snag again.
Definitely not. You don't understand how hot she is and she is good for me, it's just her friend trying to get her to cheat that's bad about it. You will understand when you find a gf yourself.
>>215654740
I was serious when I told her I wouldn't break up with her, my life has gotten so much better since she has been in my life it's impossible to put in words. And her friend probably harbors some dislike for me because she thinks her friend deserves better. I just have to hope my gf will not cheat.

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>>215654734
I know that feel, m8. Porn and fap free and benching 140kg for reps, but I am short (5'10 in a country where 6'2 is the standard). And guess what? Prostitution is illegal here.
But I make good money and the country right next to me (a few hundred km) offers top tier escorts for a good price so at least that is my consolation.
I try to go once a month but I think I will skip this month to instead go on a small vacation to a place without any light pollution (I've always wanted to see how the night sky looks like and it's just a few hours by flight).
Thanks for reading my blog

I am 26, I am 5'9 and balding. I live at my mother's house and have to friends

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>>215654802
Fucking simp

>>215654022
>>215654850
>where 6'2 is the standard
6'2 is not average anywhere on the planet. Even the Netherlands only average 6'0.

>>215654886
>I live at my mother's house and have to friends
You're not missing much

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>>215654802
>my life has gotten so much better since she has been in my life it's impossible to put in words
I get that. Something a lot of "redpillers" try to refute and negate but a good woman just elevates your life to unimaginable heights. She can brighten your shitty day with just a flash of a smile.
A lot of guys get that shit together either because of a woman or because they knocked up a woman. Most guys are kinda like that. But of course everyone on the internet is an alpha badass

>>215654662
>But I do love her very much.
you actually don't though if you would tolerate her cheating on you
at least not a healthy love is what I mean at a minimum.
you're not viewing her as a real person and seeing the real her if you would love her despite cheating. If she cheats on you it means she doesn't love you. And if you love someone who abuses you and doesn't love you, you're self-harming and not engaging in healthy love
Trust me when I say it is NOT a selling point to a woman that you wouldn't break up with her if she cheated. You in fact just made being cheated on much more likely.

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>>215654076
>And no it's never going to change.
The foid fears the plastic replacement

>>215654889
Not a simp just maybe a bit pussy whipped.

well this thread was a sad read. but i suppose at least there's others in a similar boat

>>215654771 #
About 16 months now sexually dormant is a good way to put it. I even had a dream last night about fucking this chick I used to have a crush on.
>>215654850 #
Paying for sex was out of the question for me most my life but again, once I started exercising, I seriously considered it. I’m American though so not only is it illegal but I’ll likely be having sex with some poor trafficking victim.

>>215654926
Finally someone gets it.
>>215654929
She doesn't abuse me, my life has never been better.

>>215654933
Women might hate sex dolls but they're not going to change their behavior to compete with them.
99.9999% of women would sooner die alone than ever make the first move to ask out a guy they liked. You can already see this happening in Japan. The men stopped asking out women, and the women simply stood their ground and remained passive, and now their country is going extinct. Countless other countries are also now following that trend today.

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>>215654902
Come to any large city in Northern Europe. If you are below 6 feet, you will stand out. A lot of women are my height (5'10) or taller. Heh, of course that is also influenced by my idiotic bias, but everywhere I go I feel completely dwarfed. I am the shortest in my large family and among all my cousins. Shortest at work where everyone is above 6 feet. Just feels bad man.
The worst feel was when I got called out as "compensating with my muscles". Yeah I love working out, fuck me I guess

>>215650408
This is literally how normies view men. If you are the weird single guy you will never be seen as a good, stable investment or a man who can attract and lead people and you will never be promoted to important positions in any hierarchy of people

>>215654973
commit to your future humiliation then. Screencap this thread. Set a reminder or delayed email so it pops up a year from now for you. Do not lie to yourself that you were never warned, or else you will repeat the same mistakes in the future.
Your utter lack of self-esteem puts out a vibe that encourages others to mistreat and abuse you. You do not have true love with your woman if you would tolerate her cheating on you. You have in fact almost certainly destroyed your relationship and it's just on a ticking timer now. You brought it up and are blindly defending it here because on some level you realize just how badly you messed up and you're trying to cope and make it be okay. Your relationship is zombie status now.
No worthwhile woman would love a man that's okay with her cheating on him.

>>215650432
>>215650737
>I dated one (1) crazy bitch out of desperation and I didn't like it
ok

>>215654589
You don't have to believe in Jewish mythology to make good choices in life. Most loser men make these choices because they're desperate, not from a lack of faith.

>>215655036
You're just being an asshole.

>>215654985
>Countless other countries are also now following that trend today
Not fast enough, the earth would be better off without people, we can accelerate it by aborting daughters

>>215655001
Your anecdotal perception doesn't best actual statistics that are freely available online.

>>215655072
Yes. Because you are being one to yourself by having the standard that you'd not leave a woman who cheated on you. You are treating yourself much worse than I'm treating you. You are inviting my mistreatment by having such low self-esteem and standards for how you want to be treated.
As Robin Williams said in Good Will Hunting: It's your fault.

>>215655001
>Northern Europe
>only 182cm
are you finnish? where i live here in northern europe everyone is like 200-220cm
6 feet is legit manlet status

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>>215654930
>with some poor trafficking victim
Yeah hell nah that would be disgusting. Not even Christ himself could absolve you of such amoral action. But here in Europe there are a lot of good places or even uni students that are whoring themselves out for a good price. Sex carries no stigma in a lot of countries and actually virginity in women is something a lot of guys scoff at (wtf eurocuck mentality... not even joking).
>>215655076
Anecdotal perception is in a lot of cases the best data. Blindly trusting statistical data. Who knows? I should check the validity of the data. Their datasets, if they include immigrants that are much shorter, whether they include different generations, in cities or countryside, and so on.
>>215655095
Indeed. I was just using that as an example since that is the designated figure on the internet. Shit is ridiculous.
That being said, I still see couples where the guy is below 6' or even shorter than me so there is hope.
Fuckin hell, I even have a 7 inch schlong but only escorts get to see it. Absolute state of me. I wonder what my parents would say. Pathetic

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>>215652548
>>215652672
>>215652891
I'm a similar way. "Trauma" is an overused, excessive word I think. I first realized I might be different from the other kids at age 12. That feeling greatly intensified at age 15, by age 17 I overwhelmingly knew I would die alone.

I remember being really loud and talking to anyone and everyone, and my teachers and all the adults in my life always told me to stfu. so i did around the 6th grade, but i guess i took it to far because i stopped talking, or reading, or playing with other kids. i had normal friends until age 16 i think, by 18 had 2 weird friends, by 21 I had no friends that I regularly talk to.

I dont try and make friends at work. if i speak to a superior or coworker, it is only about work. every place i have worked at shit talks about everyone and anyone, and i never participate. i do know they shit talk about me. at my previous job everyone had a nickname, mine was "Dahmer". i confronted the guy who i figured out came up with that and told him to knock it off, and i was told it was just a joke and to calm down pretty much. but i could tell from how they treated me different they didn't like me and eventually i got layed off, even though there was 2 guys lower on the chain who got hired after me. my current job is better about this because it involves being alone in a vehicle for most of the day but pay isnt amazing and no health insurance benefits are offered so no im uninsured

i am certain i could get a gf if i tried, im not ugly and not misogynistic at all. but i see how much like my father i am, and my dad is a manchild who yells at my mom all the time and me when i was a kid, and i dont want to become him

>>215655090
Because it would bother me that some other guy would put his dick in her but if you can't understand that my life has been a million times better since she's been in it then you are an asshole. I know she loves me too but sex is sex and maybe she wants to fuck a hotter guy that can fuck her better than me once or twice and I can actually understand it on some level just how a lot of men cheat on their wives and they never find out but I just don't want this to happen to me.

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>>215650560
Its just funny at this point.
>"do you have gf?"
>no
>confused stare
>''why?''
>im not looking for one
>more confusion
I understand why girls asks this but why are men so bothered about this. Who the fuck cares? If i really wanted talk about my relationships i would talk about it.

>>215650408
>Jesus says in the Bible that niggas without GFs are the most holiest
>Random anon on 4chan says it’s le bad
Why do you think you’re wiser than a guy who could walk on water and heal niggas with his hands?

>>215650408
Theres a cute enough girl at work that obviously is into me, shes so clingy and gets so close to talk to me
But idk man I dont know whats wrong with me, Im just not able to get into that horny headspace at work at all and having a gf just seems to come with a lot of bullshit i dont want to do
I wish i could care, but I dont, but is that the same as caring and im just lying to myself? Idk

>>215655200
>but if you can't understand that my life has been a million times better since she's been in it then you are an asshole
I do understand. And it's besides the point. You will hate your life and yourself if you stay with a woman who cheated on you. Your insecurity over losing her is exactly the thing that will drive her away. A self-respecting woman does not want a man who would tolerate her cheating.
>but I just don't want this to happen to me.
Then make it clear you'd leave her if she did cheat on you. You basically gave her permission to cheat on you. That's the part you're not understanding.

>>215655200
>I know she loves me too but sex is sex and maybe she wants to fuck a hotter guy
Anon if you want to be a cuck then fine, whatever. But know that she doesn't love you. She will resent and look down on you for being weak and pathetic. She might stay with you out of convienience or whatever but the relationship will always be doomed

>>215655253
I made a mistake telling her I know but what's done is done.
>>215655267
Stop talking as if you know us. She does love me.

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>>215653865
I don't have anything in common with people that young and I already feel like enough of a loser creep as it is.

>>215650560
>>215655205
Single men without a family of their own have always been considered suspicious. No one knows you and, because you're alone, not a single person can truly vouch for you and you're automatically (and rightly) assumed to have something wrong with you. In the past you'd be banished from the tribe for making everyone else uncomfortable with your presence.

>>215651771
Thank you, anon.
Right now I'm in pain, and it feels like sometimes life isn't worth it

>>215655192
>I remember being really loud and talking to anyone and everyone, and my teachers and all the adults in my life always told me to stfu. so i did around the 6th grade, but i guess i took it to far because i stopped talking, or reading, or playing with other kids.
Same here, I was damn near mute until my mid 20s. I wouldn’t even say hello or good morning to my coworkers.

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I don't mind living alone or not having a gf but waking up every day being aware there is absolutely nothing I'm looking forward to is depressing.

>>215655287
>I made a mistake telling her I know but what's done is done.
It was a mistake to tell her, but the bigger mistake is to actually mean it. If you don't make it clear to her that you would actually leave her if she cheated on you, that is the real mistake.
Remember that when you find out she cheated on you, and that horrible, awful feeling you get, and when it instantly dawns on you like a truck hitting you on how right we were - that you were the architect of your own demise. That it was all entirely your fault. If and when she cheats on you, it will be your fault.

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>>215650408
it was my birthday the other day
only 7 more years left till i get my powers

>Low quality, off-topic troll bait demoralization thread for lonely losers to whine in gets reported
>Remains untouched
Why don't you fucking faggots just take it to an incel subreddit or incel.is where it fucking BELONGS?

>>215655212
It's tactics by sluts.
By perpetuating the lie that relationships are absolutely necessary they make sure that even low value women (sluts, whales, single moms, fatherless pierced/tatted hoes) get a selection of dozens of desperate guys.
This way more attractive foids get a better selection of men, too, since they now don't have to wade through shit as much.

>>215655374
I'm 33. You get no powers.

>>215653833
kek I had a friend who tried asking out a cute cashier. He was around 24 and she was 19. I went with him because he was nervous and pretended to shop so I overheard the whole thing. He asked her out in a pretty normal way. He just started chatting and she reciprocated because he was a regular. They had a couple of laughs and then he said he'd like her insta and to chill sometime. She just said no pretty politely and that was that. Nothing seemed wrong at all. But when we exited the store and just chilled outside for a bit, the cops showed up. She had immediately called them after we left and now he's banned from the store. He did not get arrested but the 2 female cops detained him for an hour and lectured him about stalking. I was just standing off to the side recording and in disbelief. Then they suddenly randomly uncuffed him and left without a word.

>>215655374
>23
>DOOD, I'M LIKE, TOTALLY HECKIN' ALMOST 30 YEARS OLD XD
Shut up, pussy.

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>31
>got my first gf
>it's chubby leftist
bros, it's possible to get her to drop weight, right?

>34
>Just plucked my first two white hairs out of my beard this week
It's so incredibly fucking OVER.

>>215650673
But that's good, why is better to be forced to marry some dumb roastie you hate?

>>215655410
No. Fat women do not ever want to make the slightest effort to lose weight.

>>215655410
If you have to ask, then no. If you respected yourself then you'd make it clear it's something you want. And if she respected and admired you (the only way a healthy relationship is possible) then she would already be putting in the effort to do so.
But now that it's been some time and you've basically accepted her fatness, she will continue to be fat. And if you bring it up now she'll just start a fight and resent you.

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>>215655397
im wise to your tricks

>>215655412
>Started balding at 16
It never even began for me bro

>>215655410
you're the one who made her your gf while she was fat, you've told her you're obviously okay (enough) with it.

>>215655205
>why are men so bothered about this
Men are closer to being women today than men, this is what gynocentrism and single motherhood has done

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>>215655374
turned 30 recently but it was so fucking over long before that. doesnt get any easier but you get used to it

>>215655205
>>215650560
because at 34 it means you're either a gooner or a degenerate banging prostitutes
successful men have healthily managed sex drives, that's why you get gatekept if you don't have a wife
no one wants a Director or VP that constantly jacks off to hentai, or a Director that every Friday night is banging whores
no one cares if you have a wife that you cheat on, just that you formally have a wife or committed partner of some kind

All major world religions with thousands of years of accumulated wisdom and traditions:
>It’s better to be bitchless

Modern libtard GDP society that only existed 100 years:
>You need bitches lmao

>>215653833
Attractive people don't have a right to complain

>>215650432
I broke up with my girlfriend of four years on Christmas and it was the best Christmas I had in years. I finally managed to get restful sleep and I stopped drinking.

>>215653308
Scientists have theorised that's it's an evolutionary mechanism to prevent extinction. We evolved to feel loneliness to prevent us from being comfortable in ostracisation and being killed by predators while isolated.

>>215655544
>>It’s better to be bitchless
that was just to convince the excess men to not throw a fit and overthrow their local lord

>>215650408
>past a certain shitpost, you should kys

>>215655480
Jeff... that you?

it's interesting how women (at least in the modern age) seem to handle being single a lot better than men.

>have female coworkers and relatives who are single in their 20s and 30s
>they're all pretty happy

>all my male friends in the same age bracket who are single are borderline suicidal and always bring up how badly they want a gf

the statistics back this up too, unmarried women are much happier than unmarried men. it's strange too when you think about how the gender that evolved to be reliant on men for resources, safety, etc is actually happy without them

>>215655715
That happiness collapses by mid-30s

>>215655715
"success" for a woman is not having sex like a man, that's why her happiness collapses in her 30s if she doesn't feel like she has a good man committed to her, because if she doesn't then she feels like a failure regardless of what career she has

>>215655518
Ok Don Draper except now that a majority of under 35 males are single so should the majority of men be left out of civil society? What do you think will happen?

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>get a date at certain age
>"so anon, how about your last relationship?"
Haha. Yeah. My last relationship.

>>215655715
“Single” women are still having sex. Still having some dude come over, fuck her, and have a conversation. Single men likely aren’t having any sex at all.

>>215655753
You'll just stay hermits for the rest of your life while the rest of us have harems? Just like it was for most of human existence.

>>215655753
>civil society
we're talking about the middle/upper rungs of corporations and the like
Yes, under 35 males should be gatekept from power if they don't have a wife, this is entirely reasonable. You do not want some virgin hentai addicted gooner or guy addicted to hookers to be in charge of hiring and firing people and making strategic business decisions

>>215655715
>>have female coworkers and relatives who are single in their 20s and 30s
>>they're all pretty happy
They seem pretty happy.
I'm not saying this because they are women, happens to men too. 99% of people you see are not going to show how they truly feel, specially not at work.

>>215650408
>after puberty, a woman without a bull is a bad thing

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>>215655789
>gooner

>>215655768
what are you supposed to do in this situation?
lying doesn't seem right, but telling the truth could end terribly too

>>215655715
They have a safety net, most men don't have friends even the one with gfs/wives

>>215655789
Instead we put mentally ill women in charge of hiring and firing people based on who gives them the ick.

>>215655830
>most men don't have friends
whose fault is that?

>>215655789
>Yes, under 35 males should be gatekept from power if they don't have a wife

What age should a man be married by? Should men just settle for the first woman willing to marry them?

>>215655789
Thi si obviously bait, but none of what you said is mutually exclusive. Let's not act like a significant portion of world leaders are literal paedophiles and sacrifice children

>>215655852
Where did I mention fault retard? Faggot can't read?

>>215655715
the reason is that most women know they can still turn heads and get male attention on command until mid-30s. they always have "more time" to find a sucker who will settle for them. men on the other hand have less friends on average and don't have the looks to get immediate interest from women.

>>215650432
How do I break up with my gf? I can't stand the tears and devastation

>>215655889
>What age should a man be married by?
by 35
>Should men just settle for the first woman willing to marry them?
If you're a man worthy of power in society, you'll be able to find a woman to act as a suitable wife. If you can't figure it out it's a skill issue and you're being gatekept for good reason

>>215655950
Depends. What are your issues with her?

>>215655918
the reason is that a man is a net drain on a woman's life. the offer nothing of value, only more stress and misery

>>215655852
>whose fault is that?
women complain about men not being social, but they do a lot to make sure men don't try to maintain social networks that don't involve the woman

>>215655950
Fake your death

is it possible to have a relationship but where you don't talk or keep in contact 24/7?

I have no problem having date nights, eating together and shit like that but would it mean of me to say "I just want to be left alone for a few hours"?

>>215655950
send her a 15 minute calendar invite on teams with no detail for what it's about except that it's mandatory to attend and incredibly important. Dress up in a suit and calmly explain that you are letting her go and you're appreciative for all her contributions to the relationship but it's time for you to part ways

>>215655715
That's because "single" women are still having sex as often as they want, getting attention and free food and drinks, and dates and gifts whenever they're in the mood.

>>215656001
Isn't that also men's fault for having absolutely no standards and being controlled by their dick?

If men collectively stopped giving women so much attention, the dating dynamic could significantly change

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I am 35 and have never had sex. I own sex dolls. I hate myself, and I hate women. I will be the one to delete women from the earth and will give every man his dream robowaifu.

I implore you, stop giving holes attention and invest in the tech with which we shall replace them. It is an international emergency that we phase out women as soon as possible.

>>215656019
>Isn't that also men's fault for having absolutely no standards and being controlled by their dick?
Yes
It's infuriating seeing men lower their standards for walrusses and goth whores

>>215655994
>but would it mean of me to say "I just want to be left alone for a few hours"?
no but if she can't handle this it's a massive warning sign
I would try to phrase it as needing time to connect with yourself

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I took my best friend and his wife to a rock concert with front row tickets and after the concert she told me that they were essentially separated and just staying together for the kids and a bunch of other awful shit and when we stayed at my sister's who lives in the city my buddies wife sent me a picture of her tits and wanted to fuck.

I told her "NO" and locked my bedroom door. I'm genuinely pissed off that this is the only potential pussy I've had access to in the last 5 years.

I fucking hate women. I've denied more pussy than I've fucked on personal moral grounds and it kinda pisses me off sometimes.

>>215656019
>If men collectively stopped giving women so much attention, the dating dynamic could significantly change
No it wouldn't. I explained this in another post earlier in the thread, but you can look at Japan as an example for what happens when men stop performing their role as the initiator. The women don't start taking up the initiator role, they just keep being passive, but now the men are also passive, and nothing happens. No sex, no dating, no no marriage, no children.
Women will absolutely let the human species go extinct before they start asking out men or splitting the bill on dates.

How the fuck am I even supposed to approach women. No one ever taught me

>got married this year
>been together with my wife for 5 years
>moved to the US for her
>watch movies, play games together
>still get some alone time when we want to
>looking to now buy a house together

I'm happy bros.

>>215656070
>I've denied more pussy than I've fucked on personal moral grounds and it kinda pisses me off sometimes
SAME, I just wanted a nice girlfriend FFS. Why does every chick interested in me have to be some home-wrecker?

>>215656082
Are they really not dating and fucking in Japan? I thought they were doing all that but just not marrying and using birth control/abortions

>>215656082
>Women will absolutely let the human species go extinct before they start asking out men or splitting the bill on dates.
As they should

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I'm a 33yo KHV and I had a date for the first time literally yesterday (now just V) and it went really well and we're meeting again next week.
Never give up. Keep going to the gym. Socialize where you can to keep that muscle working too.
WAGMI (We are all going to make it)

>>215656110
Obviously I was being hyperbolic, the entire country hasn't literally stopped all inter-gender interactions. But the rates have been rapidly declining for many years with no signs of changing course.

>>215656095
If you can't read social cues or actually gauge whether a woman is actually interested in you ie. flirting, playing with hair etc. Then I suggest avoiding approaching them.

>>215656095
it's an innate thing that is supposed to be awakened when you are like five years old. your parents didn't socialize you enough while you were young

>>215656134
Then what the fuck am I supposed to do?

>>215656122
keep in mind that if you go back to each others places, she will expect sex. To initiate sex, just say a compliment of some kind at some point "really been having a good time with you etc", make out some, remove her shirt, gradually remove more clothes/move to bed, and BANG

>>215656158
dollmaxx

>>215656158
Leave them alone

>>215656070
>I fucking hate women
Good to see a fellow Kazakh in here

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>>215650408
>Find out my dad has pancreatic cancer
>My free days become just taking him to the doctor for medical procedures
>My overall mood is lower because of this
>Gf dumps me because she says "I need to work this out on my own"
>Months pass
>New girl I'm talking to potentially trying to date says she doesn't want to date me because of this either
So do I just not get to have a gf until my dad dies or what

>>215656168
No

>>215656162
reminder she will expect you to expertly take off her bra, one-handed, without looking at her back

>>215652195
I feel intense disgust whenever I see those premade meals.

>>215656158
Accept that you will never breed. Trust me, it takes just ONE mixed signal throwing WHORE getting pissed off at you to ruin your fucking life.

The modern "dating market" is beyond fucked. These creatures aren't looking for love or companionship. They're looking for washboard abs and a meal ticket and cheat on a whim 9 times out of 10.

Modern women want chaos. If you treat her well you WILL be walked all over.

>>215656181
The fact that you more fixated on this than taking care of your father proves you're a faggot who should kill themselves

>>215650432
similar but i had a gf when i was 17 and 20. neither for more than 6 months

>>215656181
ask your dad about it, if he's worried he's going to die he'll want to set you straight and for you to get laid if he's a good dad

>>215655518
>no one wants a Director or VP that constantly jacks off to hentai
What does Reddit say about this?

>>215650408
last girl i dated was cute and drained my balls 8 times a day i miss fucking that much but relationships are exhausting and i think marriage is stupid

>>215656252
I wanted him to see me have a kid while he was still alive. I'm 35 and it's not looking like it's going to happen

>>215655950
>I fear the manipulation she will pull on me
>>215656000
And then mention you have to go return some video tapes and dismiss yourself

>>215650560
hookers and random hook ups have asked me if i'm married. not sure whether to take it as a compliment or not

>>215656287
hookers want to know their customers and what kind of leverage they have
random hook ups, they're probably sensing your emotional distance

>>215656181
lmao i'm with >>215656227 -- why are you even actively trying to start romantic relationships with that going on right now?
>>215656225
you are just bitter
>>215656095
take the first step which is to start doing it. you'll have to learn as you go.
>>215656019
it depends on what side you are listening to. because the men who are engaging with the women clearly don't have a problem talking to a woman for starters. so do you even consider them when addressing what's going on?

>>215650950
There’s literally nothing wrong with this. Why are guys so weird?

>>215651481
sorry bro it's painful when it just goes away

>>215656325
>hookers want to know their customers and what kind of leverage they have
i pay them to be discreet and not fuck up my life i hope this isn't true

>>215656134
The problem though is like every possible cue a woman could give you can be interpreted as a hint or just being friendly

I've seen women say that them just making eye contact is a sign that they want you to approach them

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>>215656336
>you are just bitter
You're just naive. You'll either suffer and learn how things really work or remain a virgin. Modern women are essentially just moral-less, narcissistic uber darwinists.

>>215650408
When’s it going to get better? Not just dating but life

>>215656381
>Women don't know what they want and it changes from moment to moment and is subject to environment and emotion
Correct.

>>215653308
most people are stupid

are you basically fucked if you don't meet your partner at school or at work?

>dating apps are soul crushing
>virtuous women, the kind who most anons would actually want to date don't hang out at bars or clubs
>real life isn't a romcom and approaching strangers at a coffee shop or book store is weird and creepy
>social hobbies like dance lessons, co ed sports, etc, most people join those with their friends and aren't looking to be hit on

>>215656492
>are you basically fucked if you don't meet your partner at school or at work?
it takes effort yes

>>215650408
Dating sober because I'm an ex-alcoholic has been absolutely soul crushing.
I got way more women when I was drunk off my ass all the time

>>215653650
it's because dudes are invisible at 25 don't take it personally. when i was 25 i had a gf that dumped me then went on a several year dry spell despite being fit
>mid 30s
>drink a ton so gained a little wieght
>horrible childhood, i have a death wish
>start smoking a doing drugs
>banter so well i can get good looking chicks to take me home fuck them raw and induldge me fetish
>turn down a relationship while juggling multiple wome
>fuck a danish 24 year old
34 is when it turned around embrace the void and laugh at it. make bitches giggle you'll make them wet

>>215655410
Walk your plapjack gf.
Walk her as regularly as you would a dog. 3 miles a day, every day, for one year, will cut 30lbs off her. And Keep her from snacking.

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>past a certain age, a man can be a bad thing

>>215650560
>"haha I'm just not ready for that kind of commitment"
It's not even that weird. Marriage levels are practically at an all time low

>www.4chincel.is

>>215656492
It is way easier to vet and get to know women if you're forced into a social setting like work or school. Meeting over dating apps comes the expectation that you're gonna date, so you'll never get to know the other person, only their dating persona.
Approaching strangers where they're not expecting it is offputting unless you're actually a top 1% type man. Bars and clubs have pretty loose women you don't want in your life. And hobby clubs and groups, which reddit always claims is good for meeting women, are crawling with desperate losers trying to do the same, so the few participating women are highly guarded.

But at work/school, you can talk to girls, get to know them a little bit, observe how they are with their friends, observe how they solve problems, etc without any expectation of dating. So you can actually see what kind of person they are before ever trying to date them.

>>215653248
You've literally just describe pickup artist forums and seminars. And people did not react well to their success

I've joined a church and haven't found fuck-all, lmao. It's all a meme.

>>215656070
I've slept with girls that had boyfriends (I didn't know at the time) and they actually tried to convince me that they'd leave their boyfriend and be loyal to me. Women must think all men are retarded or something.

It really feeels like if I was born just a few years earlier, I could’ve got a kind acute gf in middle or high school. I was decently popular in middle school. Ever since 08, women have been so stingy with who they choose for dates

>>215655715
>have female coworkers and relatives who are single in their 20s and 30s
>they're all pretty happy

Yeah. Here's a little secret: they're all getting action on the side from a oort cloud of beta orbiters, ex's, and traveling hookups.

>>215656381
Thats not the problem, as long as youre not autistic you can easily pick up the cues. The real problem is identifying the girls giving out signals to farm attention and validation, which is easily fixed by approaching them and expressing interest, she reciprocates = youre in, she doesnt = attention whoring or nervous.

>>215656070
You did the right thing. I think you’ll be rewarded in some way after you die.

>>215656541
I think the reason why you did better isn't because you became older, it's because you gained confident and stopped giving a fuck, all of which a 25 year old can easily do

>>215650408
I turn 30 this month.
Never been in a relationship, never kissed a girl, never had sex.

>>215656659
lol, lmao.

>>215656671
?

I was in love with a lesbian for 10 years. She was my oneitis hard. First time I saw her i told her that she was perfection in my eyes etc. She got out of an abusive relationship with a woman and I just randomly messaged her one night and she agreed to hang out. My lesbian oneitis agreed to hang out with me. At this point, I was a severe alcoholic and looked the worst I ever had in my life. Absolute bam margera levels of bloat lord. We hung out and talked for 8 fucking hours. It was amazing. The entire time I was thanking god that my life would finally get better. That I dont have to drink myself to death anymore. That I held on for this moment and that I would finally be saved from myself by her. My princess finally took me in. So I asked her if I could kiss her and she said "yes I was just going to ask you that." Anyways, we kiss for a bit and then go to her bedroom. We get naked and her body is amazing and mine is a mess and she didn't care. She was ready and willing and wanted me legs spread. Now, given that I was an out of shape alcoholic and was roughly 23 drinks in that day (average for me) my dick wasn't getting hard. My dick was right next to my oneitis' beautiful pussy after having been pining for her for 10 fucking years. 10 years and there she was. Byt my dick just wouldn't get hard. So I laid next to her and began panicking and blurted out "will you be my girlfriend" to a woman that just spent an hour telling me how she got out of a long abusive relationship. I didnt play it cool. I panicked and said the lamest possible thing I could have in that moment, to which she responded to by getting out of the bed and putting her clothes on. I began panicking more and started to apologize but at that point it was over. She drove me to my friends house and I got black out drunk the next night and called her and cussed her out for 30 minutes then tried drinking myself to death and woke up in the hospital

>>215656679
stop posting this

>>215656673
I sincerely doubt it anon. I don't even net good karma from it in this life. 99% of us are going to burn in hell and I'm no exception.

>>215656679
wait a second, I've read this story before.

>>215656070
Based, would befriend and wingman for, you did let him know, right? She was probably looking to hit close to home somewhere even if his best friend turned her down, fuck, the best friend turning her down would tank her self-esteem and she might go for someone even closer to home...

>>215655297
Unironically if all of us "suspicious" losers teamed up we could burn their pathetic western liberal democratic anti-utopia to cinders because they're just that fucking clueless. Simon says DIE *record scratch intensifies*

>>215656699
He's well aware of all of it but I did tell him, yeah. He's pretty much mentally checked out of the entire thing, I can tell.

>>215656623
The local church used to be a community institution where you already knew most people. It was a good way for the whole community to get together and parents to pair off their teen kids. That's how couples used to meet in church.
It was never a place for an adult single man to show up and try picking up adult women. Adult women that attend church are already married or committed. And in 2025, churches just have a bunch of old people and strangers you don't know. The modern world has made local community institutions like churches completely obsolete as social venues.

>>215656696
Why would you burn in hell? You’re not a bad dude, you did the right thing. And I doubt He’ll even exists. The most likely explanation of what happens after death is getting reborn into someone else’s life.

>>215655518
>no one wants a Director or VP that constantly jacks off to hentai
not with that attitude!

>>215656729
>You joined the church to pick up women!
My grandfather helped build this church and was the president of it. I went through a shitty 3 year long relationship with a narcissistic fucking psychopath woman and failed a suicide attempt where I tried to electrocute myself to death. I spent two weeks in a mental hospital.

You know fucking nothing.

>>215652548
wtf, that's literally me. Am I a Schizoid?

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>>215650408
Next year, i will get a gf to make all of you /tv/bros proud!

>>215656785
that list contains traits that everyone has. pill pushers diagnose any introverted behavior as something to medicate.

>>215656779
I'll also retroactively add that I took over custodial duties for said church because the previous guy was a disabled kid who fell down the stairs and injured himself if that adds extra context.

I literally work there now.

Your gf? Fucked another man. You? A cuckold. Lol!

>>215650408
test.

I'm not lonely, I have you guys.

>>215656779
>>215656868
I don't even know what your posts mean. I explained that churches are not good places for adult men to meet adult women in 2025 which you seem to agree with

What’s the end goal? Why are you guys even alive? It sounds like we don’t have purpose or anything to dream of.

>>215656925
I love you too anon.

>>215650560
>>215655205
It doesn't matter what I say. They just stare. Am I always saying the wrong thing?

>>215656968
You made it sound like I joined said church specifically for meeting women, which isn't the case.

I'll also point out that 98% of any church flock is literally just elderly people.

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>>215655192
>I remember being really loud and talking to anyone and everyone, and my teachers and all the adults in my life always told me to stfu. so i did around the 6th grade, but i guess i took it to far because i stopped talking, or reading, or playing with other kids.

>>215656998
I consume media and post on this website.
That's my entire existence outside of work (where I also spend a significant amount of a typical day consuming media and posting here)

>>215650432
I only went on one date in my entire life at the end of college and all I wanted to do the entire time was go home and play vidya.

>>215655768
I would just tell the truth. My psychological state can't tolerate telling lies.

>>215656998
well growing up I was completely useless, no one wanted me on their sports teams or in their clubs or part of their friend groups. so what I want is to be of use to someone. I'd like to make a woman feel happy and start a family with her so that I can create more good in the world. but I'm a loser so who knows if it'll happen.

This thread has nothing to do with TV or movies and yet it's still up. This angers me.

>>215656998
We are surplus men. The result of the past 100 years of boomer excess, financial crisis, and COVID. We will probably end up dying in Iran/Venezuela/Ukraine/Taiwan fighting against other surplus males because that’s how societies deal with surplus males.

>>215656998
Too chicken to kill my self. I’ve already done a bunch of work to try and give myself purpose. At this point all that remains really is doing a lot of drugs and traveling, along with finally having sex.

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>>215656925
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>>215655192
>I remember being really loud and talking to anyone and everyone, and my teachers and all the adults in my life always told me to stfu. so i did around the 6th grade, but i guess i took it to far because i stopped talking, or reading, or playing with other kids.
same

>>215657179
What if I'm 38 and obese? Surely they won't expect me to fight

>>215657329
They expect one of us in the wreckage

>>215656070
Many such cases. Good for you for having the good character not to cheat on your bro.

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>>215656659
>>215656699
>>215657510
I try anons.. it doesn't get any easier, but I'm trying.

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>>215656162
Nobody explained this to me. I had to learn the hard (easy?) way, with women inviting me baxk to their place
>"for tea", "to watch a movie", or "its too far, too late to drive home" etc.
I would just acquiesce in an oblivious manner. I dont want to be a creep or predatory or pushy, so I dont do anything. But the women will literally take me to bed, undress, start pressing themselves upon me, and im like
>"are we doing this? Is she drunk? Am I pressuring her?"
Totally in my head about the whole thing. Also obviously I get worried that im not the first guy she's done this with.
>"Am i hooking up with some town floozy?
>Gosh, this seemed rather easy..
>She seemed so nice and demure..
>I dont really want to be coupled with a loose fast woman.. Shit, and there goes my boner"

Anyway, this is why I (>>215650539) dont date.

>>215657724
Wow that's rough buddy, here's my experience.

>women don't invite me to their place
>women don't talk to me at all

The end.

>>215657724
hard for me to sympathize since you've had multiple women show interest in you, which is not the case for many others itt. but I hope you get your shit sorted.

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>>215656287
Hookers want to know if you're married cause they could see you as their possible sugar daddy and eventual savior.

>>215655001
desu i don't even like tall girls i can't manhandle them and carry them around. come to america and plow short chicks

>>215652495
Similar experience, tho I'm 23 and (this is going to be the big one) Polish :(
Living in Poland.
That's it, that's the only difference.

>>215655518
rich men IRL bang hookers all the time i don't think you know what you're talking about. that said being married does seem to bring this kind of veneer of trustworthiness for some reason

>>215656998
>What’s the end goal?
Burdenmaxxing
>Why are you guys even alive?
Personally I live so I can prey on women and terrorize them