>identify a problem
>don't solve it
Why are chudcels like this?

>>216054764
its because women are individuals who cannot be controlled. It's almost rng as to whether you get laid. Most things are totally under your control; hobbies, career, projects, etc. You can make measurable progress and improvements on them because they are something you can personally control. Women on the other hand might get the ick if you dress a certain way, there's no way of really knowing. My girlfriend is obsessed with me, but I've been ghosted by girls for not being "interesting" enough over text or taking things too slow (I was a virgin so didn't know what the fuck to say or do).

>>216054870
to add to this, the only way to break the cycle is to put yourself out there. If it really is rng, then at some point you just have to talk to as many women as possible. yeah I know, it's not fair, chad can get any woman he wants, etc etc. but some people need to put in more work than others, it's just how life is. You can do things to increase your good rng, like lifting or getting money, but over all, you still have to put yourself out there, not be afraid of rejection and things will work out