>Past a certain age, a man rejecting perfectly adequate women to settle down with because he keeps chasing manic pixie dream girls that resemble his unfulfilled highschool crush that has haunted him ever since can be a bad thing.
>>216510725Roasties aren't entitled to my savings. Young bpd whores all day.
>Past a certain age, a man without 64gb of ram can be a bad thing
Past a certain age, a man who keeps wasting his time grinding the screenwriting game despite being a house painter at 27 and no gf/friends and then goes on 4chan to call Hollywood a den of Jews and faggots while secretly daydreaming about being in the industry and imagining interviews he does with famous cool actor people he likes can be a bad thing.
>be 31 year old virgin>friend is 34 and his girlfriend at the time is 25>he abuses her and makes her work, cook and clean>eating lunch with him one day and he mentions how bored he is of his girlfriend and wants to leave her, tells me the sex isn't worth dealing with a person he hates>can't even understand why he would hate a woman who takes care of him, cooks, cleans and pays bills>he dumps her and buys 2 anime sex dolls>she even cheats on her new boyfriend with himAm I taking crazy pills or is he just retarded?
>>216510811>she even cheats on her new boyfriend with himWait, he dumped her and she was still coming back to him for sex?
>>216510725>I fantasise about my high school crushIt’s probably just your mom dude. You can admit it.I would have nailed her too back before she popped you out and you tore it all to pieces.
>>216510725>Past a certain age, a man still downing 4 vodka bottles a week after 6 years because his gf of 10 dumped him for the most retarded of all his friends and only calls him once in a while to boast about how proper fucked she's being every day and he just picks it up every time and listens to it silently seething but without being able to put it down for unknown reasons, can be a bad thing
>>216510797>Grinding>GameAnd I can tell you you didn't get a degree.
>>216510725Don’t be a bitch, don’t be a circus freak. Those are my only requirements.
>had a massive crush on a cute jodie foster/kristen stewart tomboy because her being a tomboy made her less intimidating/confusing than any of the other girls and thus more attainable >heart melted everytime i saw her>first real crush of my life>somehow sneaked into her friend group through a common friend>was able to talk to her>after last period we were all heading home and she happened to take the same path home as me>was too chickenshit to talk to her and she figured i was a weirdo for not taking the obvious chance in front of me to get to know each other and i never was close to her againi sometimes remember it and smack myhe
>>216511017why do """tomboys""" always attract incels?
>>216511024>t. trans btw not sure if that matters
>>216510904Holy fuck man, that's horrible
>>216510725relationships are a scam, fuck as many girls as you can for as long as you can stomach it, then retreat from romantic interpersonal relations and enjoy a life of financial and emotional stability and independent fulfillment>t. fell for the marriage meme and i wish for freedom every day
>>216510904Brother you need to beat the shit out of your ex-friend, if you're weaker just sneak up on his ass and sucker punch him in the back of the head or something, then stomp on his balls for good measure while he's out. Bro is fucking scum if true and you gotta get that out before moving on to other women, don't fucking live like this man, that's absolutely insane.
>>216511051I was a former NEET incel who through a bit of nepotism because my uncle is one himself and has good pull with a company i was able to become a trucker in euroland and in 4 years ive saved up nearly 100k from overtime. i literally worked 24/7 for 2 years because i wanted to make up for being a neet for most of my 20s. i'm now 28 and work all day and just get my fill of female flesh through prostitutes and lot lizards.
>>216511118He's retarded and she's manipulative, I don't think the blame is his.
>>216511038I'm a straight man and you are attracted to something that doesn't actually exist. Tomboys either do it for attention or they end up chopping their tits off and becoming butch tranny dykes.
>>216511145you're doing well, man, just watch out for sexually transmitted shit and enjoy your life
>>216510845i know a woman who was abused by a boyfriend, left him for her childhood sweetheart, was with that guy for years, dumped him randomly to go back and fuck her ex for a while and surprise surprise the guy was abusive again so her childhood sweetheart took her back (she told me she isnt sure which is the father of their now adult son)
>>216511236Men are absolutely pathetic for putting up with shit like this. Islam was right about women.
>have a huge crush on a girl in middle school>vividly remember one day she was staring into my eyes and said "you have really, really pretty eyes">didnt do shit>go to a school dance, she kept hinting for me to ask her to dance over and over but too retarded to realize>we both end up going to different high schools>after graduation i'm out drinking with friends, i've downed two 4lokos (back when they were still good and had caffeine)>literally spill half of one can on my pants, looks like i pissed myself>girl staring at me from across the bar>recognize that same look from middle school>holy fuck fuck fuck>she's on a date but she doesnt seem interested in the guy>go to the restroom>on my way out she's heading into the women's restroom>just stops and stares at me>"uhh... hey.">"Hey? Really? That's it? This is you now huh? Drunk and pissing yourself?" >just sort of stammer and try to tell her its booze but she's gone>stumble back to the bar>she and the dude leave>never see her again
>>216510725>High school crush I briefly dated who ultimately rejected me comes back to me at age 32>She's still gorgeous and fit, makes no excuses, says that turning me down was the worst mistake she ever made and she's been wanting to reach out to me for years but was too scared >Start dating, she's incredibly loving, great sex, morally supportive >Wants to marry me and have my children >Still feel like I was her backup option and I'm settling and a cuck by being with her, even though I'm otherwise incredibly fulfilled Why am I like this
>>216511291That must have been at least 15+ years ago. I've been getting drunk and ghosting a girl for like three months now but her dumbass still seems interested lol. A few weeks ago I was supposed to hang out with her but I got way too drunk while emulating Pokemon Mystery Dungeon games and then blacked out and pissed myself. I woke up to a bunch of missed calls.>>216511346>Why am I like thisbecause you are the backup option and you are settling like a cuck
Reading through this reminds me why chasing women (or even the thought of being with one) is laughable, especially in the current year. I'm not going to bend over backwards to appease someone's shallow/materialistic/aesthetical/meta-meme-physical expectations of me for them (who typically ends up being someone who doesn't really give a shit about me anyway). I'd much rather stay single and continue giving a shit about myself, with myself, and only for myself.
>>216511236Women crave cruelty, it's bone deep. It's God's punishment for Eve being retarded.
Whoever first said that women have all the power in their 20s and men have all the power in their 30s (if they're not a complete bum or look like an orc) were right.A ton of women in their mid/late 20s want emotional and financial stability that guys their age can't provide, and women in their 30s are desperate and will settle for anything
>>216511362Yep, the last incident was 16 years ago. The middle school shit was in 2001. I'm cringing over a missed opportunity that happened years before many posters here were even alive.
>>216511051>hurr durr i picked a horrible cunt, so everyone should be singlebiologically we yearn for families, and psychologically we're more adept at pair bonding if we have fewer partners. Anons with miserable lives will always try and tell you to follow a life of empty hedonism like some "cool wine aunt" and think they're somehow different from women.
>>216510725Tfw you never rejected anyone because no one liked you in the first place.
>>216511507It's alright. Can't miss what you didn't have and - for that matter- didn't try to get.
>>216511507I get a huge sense of relief sometimes because I have rejected numerous girls.
>>216510725>Past a certain age, a man who still gets drunk at his parents house on Christmas can be a bad thing.
>>216511478you've clearly not met many women
>>216511346some part of it is probably, to some extent, true. You're both settling, doubt either of you is a 10. Doesn't mean you can't be happy, especially if you get to raise kids of your own that you love.
>>216511291you're in the second act bro, don't worry she'll come around
>>216511580And you clearly have a woman's brain. "I started a family... But what about my freeeeeeedommmmmm????" Quit being a faggot. Do you eat a healthy meal and think longingly of cheeseburgers because they're more fun? Life isn't about doing everything that feels good right in this moment. Delayed gratification will always be superior.
>>216511609you simply don't understand the context so you're projecting your own insecurities into what i'm saying. all women stop trying eventually, it's a shitty reality you'll eventually have to confront directly. it has nothing to do with my supposed lack of commitment because i am an excellent husband, i just know i deserve more. good luck.
>>216511650Like a woman, you'll never understand that you sound just like every other delusional, entitled woman. You've even written off every other potential relationship as the same dead end to preemptively justify a life of empty hedonism. Delightful.
>>216510754They make more than you. Keep your "savings" lmao
>no bitches in my teens and early 20s>lost virginity at 25 to a 43yo woman>90% of the women I've fucked were old enough to be my mom>10 years later, even the old bitch fountain has dried up>too unattractive to pull zoomettes
ever since being cheated on by my ex fiancee 4 years ago now, no woman has show interest in me it feels really bad man
>>216511051>t. beta who fell for the first woman who gave him the time of daylol12 years married here, I'm happier than I've ever been. I already got more pussy than was worth it in my teens and early 20s. Your 30s are the time to be a man, not pine for things you missed out on and can never get back.
>>216511925At this point you must be comfortable enough with girls to chat them up and escalate. You might have to drop your standards and pay some minor attention to your aesthetic but I think you could still pull them if you wanted to. Today's zoomettes are tomorrow's leftover hags.
>>216510725My gf is sub adequate
>>216512003>telling former hagmaxxer to chat young girls uphe's no game other than "menopause, amirite?"
>>216512003I'm a zero game computer nerd, what the fuck are you talking about?I've never chatted anyone up in my life.>drop your standardsOh fuck off, they've always been very low.
>>216511974Other people can sense when you're a self-loathing sad sack. I know it's a meme but you need to face your demons and find happiness. Can't be with someone else until you like being with yourself. That kind of betrayal you went through is terrible, and it's really difficult to get over. But you only have one life, so you'd might as well try as hard as you can. Find a male, non-jewish therapist if need be.
>>216510725Based
>>216511974>Waah she cheated on meAlmost everyone gets cheated on or cheats on others at some point. Big deal
>Past a certain age, a man who has never held a conversation with a woman that was not family, a teacher, or medical professional, has never received a text from a platonic female acquaintance, has never gone out on the weekend with friends, has never gone to a bar or house party ever, but still fantasizes about having his first kiss, can be a bad thing.Was he right?
>>216512186brown hands typed this
>>216512186yeah it is a big deal you fucking retard
>>216512116i’ve had some real improvement this past year and ive had sex with several women but its not the same. i also saw her randomly in my city a few weeks ago and it definitely threw off my groove.
>>216512267I'm not saying that seeing her should have no effect on you. Seeing a cockroach and not feeling any revulsion would be weird. But you need to be in a place where encountering someone doesn't have so much control over you. I hope you can find fulfillment in work or a hobby, that's an important first step.
>>216511712I'm not the anon you were replying to, but very insightful mr anonymous virgin on the internet
>>216512329i genuinely hadn’t been thinking of her for the last few months, wrapped up with life stressors like income and work, and seeing her through a shop window i happened to look inside was something i was not prepared for in the least.i’m too old for this shit to be so consuming.
>>216512406I won't pretend to know you but there's some aspect of your relationship with her, or her attack on you, that you still haven't grieved and moved on from. I hope you can find it, face it down, and recover. You definitely can, it'll just take a concerted effort. I wish you well anon.
>>216510725>35 yo fatties and single moms with half-orc kids are perfectly adequateNo thanks.
>>216511167Straight guys don't need to qualify that they're straight nor do they ask 'why tomboys?' Literally only trannies and faggots are confused by the appeal of tomboys.
>>216512486Have you ever thought that you're their male counterpart? If you want better, be better.
>>216512440thanks man i’ve spent a lot of time reflecting i know my flaws, insecurities , and boundaries now but heart cooks brain sometimes
>>216512539Normal men don't want masculine women they call "boys". You're a weird repressed homo.
>>216512539see>>216512567
>>216510725Didn't he cheat on his wife with the hot 18 year old college girl?
>>216512546>but heart cooks brain sometimesNo one escapes that, you'll be alright if you continue working. Stagnancy is what kills the brain. Take care anon.
>>216511167this is false btw
>>216512539Based and true. The attack on tomboys is literally an invention of the last decade by trannies to get them to join their doomed 41%
>>216511236Seriously i cant fathom shit like this
>>216511236Women bond with the first man they have sex with. It's not rocket science.
>>216511346You are both settling but at the same time, she's treating you well. Like the other anon said, marrying her might be the right move for you. Only you can know that.
