Why are romancekinos about fixing BPDqueens with hugs, love and affection so rare?
>>220118727Fantasy shows are usually about knights and dragons
>>220118749But this one has a knight and a dragon
>>220118727Too unrealistic
>>220118727What compelled this guy to do what he did? At first I though he was on a very bad trip and just spiraled in the worst way, but no he even boobytrapped his apartment with explosives. Did he hate the Nolan trilogy that much?
>>220118727>fixing BPD queens with hugs and affection Outed yourself as having no actual experience in a relationship with a BPD girl. Love and affection do nothing, she will still rage at you and abandon you and betray you. Your fantasy is nothing like the reality
>>220119175Maybe your heart wasn't big enough
>>220118727Because it's never been done. Not only is there no fixing a BPD bitch, but rewarding her mental illness with affection is the most retarded thing you can do
rag status?
>>220119194NTA but no heart will satisfy a demon like that. I've learned my lesson hard
>>220119302Your failures are your own old man, I shan't be repeating them
>>220119330you're quite literally dumb brother enjoy your mental rape if you want
There's no such thing as good person with BPD.
>>220119330Looking forward to your obituary
>>220118727You can only "fix" them by being a stone cold schizoid (but it's simply not worth the effort, even if they are somehow "interesting" as your diametric feminine inverse). You're still being taken advantage of as the "stability" she anchors herself to.Alternatively you can "fix" them by being NPD/ASPD and making them worse
>>220119465I've never been in a relationship, what's the worst that can happen? She's hot and into me
What compells a man to bait post like this?
>>220119211Nah, I know some BPD patients who got it under control fine and have regular jobs and friends and relationships. But they're all in therapy. Love and affection alone don't cure mental illness.
>>2201195544chinners have dumbest sexual fetishes. Not so long ago used to be daily threads on some boards worshipping BPD bitches. Can't say if astroturfed or not
>>220119516>what's the worst that can happen? She's hot and into meHalf of the time. And the other half she hates you and will yell at you, hit you, tell your mutual friends you're mistreating her and more than anything, hurt herself. Dating a mentally ill person's not easy. Particularly if it's untreated mental illness. Just being with one because no one else will have isn't gonna end well.
>>220119516You don't want a relationship with a BPD girl trust me (I've never had a relationship either) but you can "have" one by being a genuine schizoid and accidentally being her "favourite person" and occasionally having sex, and everyone remains at the appropriate distance
>>220119194If they can get to a place of feeling stable love for you then they aren’t a BPD girl.
>>220119622I'm not going to engage with OP, because his trolling couldn't be more obvious, but this is how my first marriage was. Getting out of that relationship was hell. I was so codependent with her that I hated her but I also wanted her back. It's my fault though, when we were dating, she flat out told me her therapist said she was a sociopath and I just thought, "Oh yeah, right, I'm sure she's overstating it". I did it to myself when you think about it.
>>220119875Easy for you to say that, at least you've been in one
>>220118727you will never fix her, OP. but she will ruin you
>>220119194she doesn't have any heart at all so whats the point, mon ami?
>>220118727[Agent Smith explaining that humanity rejected paradise]
>>220120000Don't say that
>>220118727Because the types of girls with bpd arent the type of girls to let the type of guys who want to give those types of girls hugs and kisses and affection and only go for the types of guys that take advantage of those types of girls.
>>220118727The whole Manic Pixie genre from the 2000's was basically about fixing BPD girls with some TLC and it was derided as unrealistic. The love interest was always quirky and cute. She asked the guy out first. Unlike actual BPD girls they didn't have tons of orbiting "guy friends" and ex-boyfriends gunning for their new guy(Scott Pilgrim being the exception).
>>220120996Wholesome
>>220118727she can only be fixed if she’s the quiet bpd type and not a whore
>>220120249sorry but it's true. it's even worse when she's brown. dealing with one like that is like cutting wires on a bomb everyday especially if you're a golden retriever kind of man
>>220122887>brownbag em and tag rm
>>220120996Manic Pixie Dream Girls weren't written as BPD patients, nor BPD coded. They are supposed to be quirky and bubbly, not mentally ill. That's why they're Manic Pixie Dreamgirls, not Manic Depressive Pixie Dreamgirls.
>>220124203BPD girls are quirky and fun when they're in a good mood and you're in the honeymoon phase. They also mold themselves to your interests(being into niche things makes them feel superior). So you're a dude who hasn't had the greatest luck with dating and suddenly meet this adorable girl who likes DnD and Death Metal and she asked you out first. You think you've won the girlfriend lottery. She tells you about how all her exes abused her which appeals to your protective instincts. And then the terror begins after a few months. She gets the ick and wants to escape so she starts believing the worst in you and bails. And she's telling the next sap about how you raped her.
>>220119025>my life sucks>fuck it I'm just gonna kill a bunch of people
>>220125996Sometimes I miss the chase of dating and meeting a new person and enjoying the honeymoon phase. Then I remember this shit and I'm glad I never have to do it again.
>>220122887I unironically blame it on Latino men. They seem to fetishize BDP bitches way beyond the healthy ground
Don't stick your dick in crazy.You have been warned.But given the chance, you'll still learn this the hard way.
>>220119565It’s like a junkie or an alcoholic though. They have to acknowledge that they have an issue, and are themselves a willing participate in the recovery process. My dad’s ex-wife was a psychotic cunt who married into a situation where my sister and I existed from a prior marriage, and then proceeded to treat us like we’re the invading foreign body, and did everything in her power to make our lives a living hell, and the experience fucked me up for life, along with my brother who she and my dad had together (turns out, he’s not even blood related as a little bonus), and one of the kids from her marriage after my dad became a goth trans, so I’m going to assume she fucked him up too.The problem was that every time she would destroy a family, she would find some other swinging dick with kids to latch onto, so she was never really forced to face up to what a shitty person she was. I recall that when they brought my brother in to talk to a counselor for “bad thoughts”, all it took was them talking to her for a couple of minutes, and they recommended that she go talk to someone. She refused though, because after all, she’s the perfect one, and it’s everyone else who are the assholes.
>>220126090That’s always the part that I hated. It always felt like an extended job interview to me, fun never even entered the equation.
>>220118727because they can't be fixedthey chew threw men, family, society and life
>>220126492God I wish my bones were popped and broken by giant girl jaws
>>220126159Unfortunately this. They can't see past "le crazy sex" until they wake up sitting in jail on a fake rape charge with their house burnt down.
>>220118727If you ever think that you can 'fix' them, bless your heart.You'll likely just stay the emotional tampon, but you know what, it's the thought that counts, you big ol softie, yeah, you super extra absorbent little FAG lmao
>>220127453Wild sex.But also huge regrets.And they will absolutely eat your soul.It's hard to believe if you never experienced it.
>>220118727It's what bpd cuckqueens constantly seek, innocent simp faggots like you to fool.