Why didn't he just make friends?
>>220396972He probably smelled bad.
>>220396992How do you know if you smell bad?
>>220396972He was a creepy self righteous sperg
The friends I thought I had aren’t replying to me. Now I’m kind of just done. I might have said something that bothered them, oh well. They don’t reply when I ask if I did something upsetting, time to get the message if not an actual message.
>>220397006take a shower and spend a moment to notice any difference
>>220397027Samefagging but the real problem is when you’re actually getting along and bantering etc but then they just stop and ghost forever, like what the fuck.
People aren't interesting.
Because he was a chud like most of you. I was a chud myself. Obsessed with statistics, fertility rates, immigrants and fucked up shit like that. Something clicked within me and joined Salsa lessons. Joined a Salsa club and started dancing Salsa 2 times a week. Made a bunch of colombian and venezuelan friends and we hang out every weekend for drinks and some salsa at the club. Got a latina gf and I've never been happier in my life.So sick of white life. Most whites are so uppity it keeps you from being happy. Fuck chuds.
he could have just hung out with tony danza and andy kaufman and everyone talking shit all day at the depot and been 'one of the gang' or whatever
>>220397083This is rare 5 star bait. Good job waiting to the end to make it obvious. Or maybe I have just become more gullible.
>>220397083>Made a bunch of colombian and venezuelan friends>cocaine cures chuddinessDuly noted
>>220396972He couldn't, because he was miserable, and normal people don't want to be around miserable people. Source: I'm miserable and nobody wants to be around me.
>>220397054yeah this happened to me about 5 times. one of them will still message me maybe once every 3 months, then just not continue the conversation at all.
>>220397083Only gay people dance. I'm not gay.
>>220397138People are weird. Also not interesting like another poster said.
>>220397113>>220397114>>220397145Why would I be larping? The Salsa club I joined is fulled of white dudes that just got divorced and wanna make friends. Everybody is at least in their mid 30s and everybody is very polite and welcoming. I even joined Spanish lessons. Never been happier in my life. Fuck 4chan chuddism. You just need to dance and have friends. That's all you need.
>>220396972most lonely people simply never make an effort to initiate contact. they may feel like it's pointless, perhaps they have given up, so insecure that they resign themselves to failure, but the fact remains that they simply don't try. there is a multi-facted snowball effect to making friends/having a social life but that ball needs an initial-push and it won't be provided externally. everyone seems lonely and desiring interaction but you've all given up and it's sad because it doesn't have to be that way.
>>220397182But I don't like dancing :(
>>220397225you don't like being a bad dancer. if you were a good dancer then you'd enjoy it.
doubt I'd interact with pick-ups if I was a taxi/uber driver irlwould be tapping that sign until its fare time
>>220397027>when I ask if I did something upsettingcringetalk to them like they're men not women
>>220397182Dont listen to this guy. Chuddism is awesome and hating on spics and blacks is much more rewarding than having a gf or doing some gay monkey dance.
>>220397196You're exactly right anon, I don't try, and the reason why is because most people don't try, friendships just happen to them naturally. If normies aren't putting in effort to make friends, get girlfriends, and it still happens then why do I have to?I almost feel like socializing and making friends is one of those things where if it doesn't just happen naturally, there's something really fucked up with you on a deep level
>>220397391attractive, charismatic, personable individuals have a higher success rate, it's not that they don't try. if you aren't these things then you need to try more often, not less.
>>220397236Not really, I suck at guitar but still enjoy playing it
>>220397113Exquisite bait. But it fails because it is a perfect leftists idea of what an anon/chud is. They reveal themselves because they took the satire as truth.
>>220397488do you play in public or only ever in private? if i told you to play in a busy part of the city, would you be enjoying yourself?
he's physically attractive and a bit of a bad boy. not saying women (or gays) would be THROWING themselves at him, but he'd have a hard time making genuine friends. (obviously this is going by our reality, not the narrative logic of the film.)
>>220396972He had his taxi bros.
salsa classes do seem fun to be fairhttps://i.4cdn.org/wsg/1777099069333111.webm
>>220397526Private and with friends. Public only if I had a few beers before I'm too shy. Get what you mean
>>220397652i don't know how to move my body fluidly like that. women just naturally have a knack for it.i did wacky/'ironic' dancing in my teens/early 20s, then i actually went away and followed some tutorial videos, and considered classes, but i just needed to know how to move around in a nightclub.i guarantee you: as a baseline in these classes, the people know how to shimmy and gesticulate in an organic way. the same way you might know how to tap along to a beat, despite having zero music lessons.i think i'm a robot, bros.
>>220397327Shalom rabbi. You kikes are the only fucks who benefit keeping devision sowed so we don't go after the real oppressers, so if u arent a Hindu shill for israel u are a sheep
>>220397295men don't ignore people, ghosting is for women
Who was a lonelier person: Gene Hackman from The Conversation or Travis?
>>220397758Not him but I think he meant the phrasing of it
>>220396972tfw have friends i just avoid hanging out with them
>>220397766The guy from lives of others
>>220397740As I told you before, most people in these clubs are +35 and they just want to have fun and make friends. If you're polite and not a cunt, people will be welcoming and nobody will judge you. You might not know this, but there are a lot of lonely adults. Nobody is gonna make fun of you for being a noob or not having any coordination.
>>220397778Why should he talk to people who act like women as if they're men?
>>220397789i was like that. they eventually take the hint and give up on you. rejoice anon, you won't be burdened with friends much longer.
>>220397806he started talking like a woman first as far as we know, it's okay to ghost gay men
>>220397327>Chuddism is awesome and hating on spics and blacks is much more rewarding than having a gf or doing some gay monkey danceYou're unironically right
>>220397817>>he started talking like a woman first >they started ignoring me>so I asked if I did something wrong
>>220396972Why did he not just go to therapy?
im still friends with my friends from high school but i never cared to make new friends. ive had ample opportunity i just dont
>>220397766Anthony Hopkins in Remains of the Day
Because Travis was a unhinged narcissist
>>220397874male friends aren't real unless you "go" through something together, like school, war, disaster, etc.
>>220397652front for prostitution ring
>>220397083so all Palestinians need are Salsa lessons and they'll stop obsessing about their families being blown to pieces and being such antisemitic chuds?
>>220398153it could help
>>220398179you ever met a terrorist that can salsa?
>>220396972Travis had serious mental health issues. His closest attempt is asking a woman out on a date, but he fumbles because, in his social isolation, he’s completely disconnected from what is socially acceptable. But in a broader sense, it’s hard to make friends when you don’t have a social circle already. Move to a new city and you’ll be surprised how difficult it is. Orders of magnitude more difficult if you’re out of school and your job is a solitary one. People are wary of strangers.
>>220398179I don't know, it sounds like something a brain-damaged, cowardly boomer would do
>>220397196And then the worse case scenario happens where they actively don't care and ignore you because you aren't interesting or have much to say. Even worse when you try but they still don't care and just stay engaged for convience sake while looking at the clock.
>>220396972I took my niece to see an exceptionally violent porno yesterday and I was reminded of this movie. Fortunately my date put out, then right off to back to preschool.
>>220398296Are you the salsa guy?
>>22039697250 pullups and clap pushups a day would be a legit good routine
>>220397923This is why hazing exists in male dominated spaces, you really won't feel like you're accepted into a community unless you're explicitly inducted in through a set of trials
>>220398313The irl guys that do this do hundreds. 50 reps isnt enough to even have deniros body in that movie, it is decent enough of bare minimum to not feel like shit though.
>>220398320>tortures your balls
>>220396972Every person is a two faced hypocrite, only intending on excusing other peoples follies if you can be of some use to them, and with the fervent impulse to push someone out if they can’t. Chads are honest about it, youre not cool, you can’t hang, you scare the hoes, whatever. But the vast majority of people are punks who will try to make it seem like the reason they are pushing you out is some inherent personality defect. We’re all just scum. God have mercy on us.
>>220398490>im a bad person therefore everyone is
>>220398153NOOOOO, THE POOR PALESTINIARINOOOOOSS!!!! DON'T BE HAPPY, ANON, PALESTINIARINOS ARE DYIIIIIING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
>>220398498Show me a good person.
some people don't fit into society, wether you exclude yourself or society excludes you the end result is the same.
>>220397083You really triggered all the chuds lol. And yeah, most of these weirdos that used to fap to hentai in high school would be happier just joining some fucking activity and having some drinks with their friends. What these kids that talk about cortisol spikes call "touch grass"
>>220398320hazing is just gay flirting
>>220397083you are a jew
>>220397652*chair clattering*
>>220396972The only thing worse than not getting what you want is getting what you want.
>>220398498Yes.
>>220397652You will have more fun than browsing /pol/ and being obsessed about the fertility rates, that's for sure.
>>220397795you haven't told me anything before, that was my first post ITT.also i am in that age range. the point of dancing as a young adult was 1. to have fun (there are easier/better ways to have fun), and 2. to dance with girls to potentially have sex/relationships.at my age, option #1 is physically gone, option #2 is socially gone - unless i want to get put on a Twitter list for dating an adult woman 15 years younger than me.
>>220396972Because you can be in a room full of people who are all your friends, but still feel completely alone.Some people are just wired differently.
>>220398974That's some Deep shit, brother.
>>220397391> I almost feel like socializing and making friends is one of those things where if it doesn't just happen naturally, there's something really fucked up with you on a deep levelThere are studies that show autists give off a negative first impression based off how they speak and move. Normies decided you were strange and offputting before you’ve exchanged a single word. But the bright side is that it’s out of our control. And not a matter of “not trying hard enough” like everyone thinks.
>>220396972Some people are not made to be able to just have friends. They're fundamentally defective.If you're lonely now as an adult you may be tempted to ask yourself whether things would have been different if only you could have gotten more "social training" during your development. The answer? Unlikely. Some people are just naturally inclined towards more lonesome activities or are just socially retarded and get ousted, quietly in the most merciful cases, with bullying in other occurrences. If a thing such as natural selection exists then consider this phenomenon "social selection": the collective decides what people have the most appealing traits to be let into the tribe, those who do not make the cut aren't granted entry. To the "normies'" credit, loners do this to other loners to, you'd think their condition would incline them to band together, but in my experience that doesn't happen, I'm as much repulsed by other loners as normies are by me. We're social lepers, nobody wants to be around someone as socially unappealing as us. That's just how it is. Speaking for myself, my defectiveness is not something I feel can be righted, it's just ingrained that deeply.I spoke of social selection, the majority dislikes us, but the collective does have traits that loners do find unattractive, too. There's a lot of "acting" among normies, daily bullshitting that they may be able to put up with but that are exhausting or detestable to loners, they just cannot roll with the pecking order others seem so tolerant of, too prideful perhaps to subject themselves to it and choosing to be alone if they can't be on top or at the very least equals. A reason why many NEETs, I presume, don't mind NOT having a job since it entails sucking up to some assholeI could go on, but this wall of text is long enough as is
>>220398532Me! My son is also innocent and pure.>>220398759No.
>>220398353>>22039831350 pushups are nothing, but 50 pullups are and insane number to do in a row if you're not an athlete. No way De Niro could actually do it
I'm just not interested in other people. Whenever I'm outside and someone tries to make small talk the banality of the conversation makes me wanna kill myself.
>>220400569very true, anon. personally, if a stranger doesn't break into an hour-long diatribe about metaphysical philosophy within minutes of introducing themselves then i shrimply walk away.
>>220400528the average person in never going to be able to do 50 pushups in a row., are you insane?
>>220400811It takes minimal training to do 50 pushups. I went from zero to that in less than 2 months. Pullups, after one year I still can't do 20.
>>220400883>it took me 2 months to do itso you do realize the average person can't do it
>>220397083Id rather kill myself than do something this pathetically embarrassing. Everyone is going there admitting they have no friends and showed up as a last ditch effort to force "socializing" (gay) and surrender whatever dignity they had left in desperation.I can only imagine the quirk chungery among this group of pitiful dorks.
>>220396972is there a word for loneliness without the negative connotation? because that's literally me.
>>220397652what the fuck i could never. i can't even watch that clip in its entirety.
>>220401260Maybe if the "average person" is literally obese.
>>220401323it just made me hate women more. they're basically just retarded
>>220400883I've been exercising for 3 years and have a BMI of 25 and can not do more than 20 in a row
>>220401283What do you have to be prideful about?
>>220397652My ex-gf's cousin married a puerto rican girl and they were into the whole dance and salsa thing, right after they got engaged and bought the dress she ballooned in weight and didn't fit in it by the time of the wedding kek. At least her parents are loaded even though she's high maintenance as fuck.
>>220397083based! I went to a social event in my town today and a woman spoke to me, I still can't believe it
>>220397652I thought it was the PUTA for a second, but it's just a regular puta.
>>220396972Do men actually feel lonely? It hasnt bothered me at all and ive been alone forever. Seems more like an emotional chick thing.
>>220401479Small dick energy with this post.
>>220401342go stop people in the street and see how many do 50 proper pushups in a row then
>>220397083kind of a shit bait but somehow it works so good for you
>>220401479explain
>>220401734Yes, although I never really felt it until I got older.I think women probably feel it more intensely due to hormones and their insatiable need for socialization.
Chuds really got triggered by the salsa post lmfao.
>>220404235Chuds can't handle hearing that they can solve most of their problems with effort because it doesn't fit with their victim mentality.
>>220404425Let them waste their life browsing /pol/.
>>220396972I genuinely don't know why I can't make friends. I must be slightly annoying or slighly boring or a combo of both because no one has ever sought my company after I sought theirs. Even at university the only dudes who actually reciprocated my attempts at friendship turned out to just be gay and just wanted to fuck my buttI've gone without friends for so long I don't even remember what it's like to have friends
>>220397874I've been able to coast on this for a decade but the tides of everyone else achieving life milestones have been tugging since last summer that it can hardly be ignored anymore.
>>220405654its just about small talk, then aligning with the small talk, then finding common interests, and giving the other person the opportunity to participate in that interest. if you can do this, and not sperg out while doing it, you'll be setknow this though, it is a numbers game. so you have to roll the dice so to speak. if you don't roll the dice, itll never happen
>>220404235>>220404425>>220405060ebin samefag
>>220397027>They don’t reply when I ask if I did something upsettingYikes. Here's the hard pill you need to swallow. Thinking you've done something wrong is cope for the fact they just fundamentally don't like you. If they cared about you and wanted things to get better, they'd tell you what you did wrong.
He did have friends though. He was talking about his love life
He's so sexy in this movie
>>220404425it's just a variation on the same, tired, old theme they've been using for years; 'your political grievances aren't legitimate concerns but symptoms of a psychological disorder'. Anyone who introduces psychoanalysis into a political discourse is either a slop spewing midwit or a malicious actor.You know it's fake and gay because we don't tell blm nogs or kvetching jews to stop being 'obsessed' and 'work on themselves' when they express THEIR political grievances and demand action. No, we instantly kick into gear, quickly mobilizing resources to placate them. It's a prescription exclusively reserved for white people. You can literally, and I mean LITERALLY, attribute every political desire to a disordered state of mind - but we obviously don't.They even tried to psyop white males a few years ago with Jordan Peterson going around universities and telling them, 'clean your room'. The message being that you should work on yourself before trying to change the system. In the 60s, Timothy Leary mindfucked boomers with a similar message; 'Turn on, tune in, drop out'.It's always the same; 'hey white people, you're not pathetic, obsessed losers trying to impose your will on society, are you? Stop seeking power, stop trying to influence wider society and just shut-up and start working on yourself or we'll slander you as some kind of crazy person. Trust us, you'll be 'happier'. Also, you have to joyfully take on the political grievances of every black, brown, yellow and jew who slithers into your lands and starts calling the shots'
>>220405654look normal, take a shower
>>220409542Holy fucking schizophrenic post kek
>>220409695fine, I'm a schizo. But the truth is the truth, even if a schizo is telling it to you. Can you explain why when jews complain about feeling 'unsafe', like they literally do all the time, society doesn't attribute their claims to personal problems which can be solved with Salsa lessons and therapy? Why do we instead allocate millions and millions of dollars to their communities and pass all kinds of legislation to make them feel more 'safe'?
>>220409796Yeah, thanks for the confirmation, you are a complete schizo. Nobody else was talking about a vast majority of the random irrelevant shit you started bringing up out of nowhere and it makes you sound unhinged how fixated you are on a select handful of topics that you can’t help yourself but ramble about exhaustingly. You should probably spend less time online or at least places like this, it’s obviously doing your mental state no favors, you’re a bit too impressionable and all over the place.
>>220401283>I'm scared of socializing because everyone will know I'm just a mouthpiece for opinions that other faggots spoon feed me online
>>220397145
>>220409695He's right, you know.
>>220397327based. zased even.
>>220410018>schizo>unhinged>fixated>ramble>t’s obviously doing your mental state no favors>you’re a bit too impressionable thanks for proving my point. I guess you're not capable of answering why we never hear people use similar terms when other races express their political desires? It's really a simple question
>>220397083Based
>>220396972maybe he got burned too much
>>220397138I've had lots of friends drift apart, where we just speak less and less until not at all for no apparent reason other than changing with the times, but not out of the blue ghosting when things seemed fine. Sorry anon
niggas be like 'i have no hobbies, no interests outside of porn and video games and no and no passions. why cant i meet new people???'
Is it bad if I'm a woman and can relate strongly to Travis?
>>220410431You’re the only one talking about this stuff and you’re doing so with yourself. Sorry you and your headmates don’t think my vernacular is original enough or something kek
>>220411037still haven't answered my question, brainlet.
>>220411054Which part of these rambling messes of paragraphs you’ve been typing out was supposed to be “the question,” scatterbrain
>>220397795don't dance around in rain with flip flops on bricksyou'll slip and die and your corpse
>>220411073are you really this much of a brainlet or just playing ignorant? just get chatgpt to help you or something if you don't have the basic literacy skills.
>>220411160Nah. I do find it funny though that you obviously think you’re 2smart4errbody but the sad reality is just that nobody wants to indulge you when you’re wigging out like this, it’s embarrassing.
>>220411219I'm obviously too smart for you. I've asked you a simple question twice and you're putting on this act in order to avoid answering it.why don't we psychologize the political ethnic-based grievances of other races like we do when whites express their racial concerns?
>>220397196I feel the same way about finding a girl.I've never been in a relationship. I'm nearing the point where I am just going to give up and stop trying to find one. There must be something wrong with me.
It's just how things go, people ITT want to act like they have the answer but there was never really any answer to this issue. its one big chicken or the egg.
>>220396972It's explained in a deleted scene, a Gypsie cursed him so anyone he befriends dies of ass cancer
>>220411266Except you did everything other than “ask a simple question,” you’re over there babbling to yourself in circles while I and everyone else watches and makes fun of you rather than engaging in your delusions. This must happen to you a lot though so I figured you’d be used to it by now. Denial can be a hell of a thing
>>220411054>brainletcompletely pwned, other guy stopped even attempting to engage>durr I'll pretend you're being totally zany and silly and your posts are literally unintelligible
>>220411526This isn't a middle school lunchroom or TikTok, idk what's up with newfags acting like it isThere is no real exchange of social capital happening here--that's the benefit of having no accounts and no usernames
>>220397083Lifefuel.
>>220396972he was evil as hell, travis knew exactly how he appeared to other people, he started packing heat to have an excusehis modern counterpart is not a bedroom-bound incel, his modern counterpart is the guy with an AR-15 in his trunk
>>220411875I sometimes wish I was so devoid of self awareness as to not feel any shred of embarrassment or shame, must be nice. Notice though how nobody is arguing with you even? This isn’t the epic debate you seem to think it is, it’s just you being openly ridiculed for being such an uppity spazz lmao
>>220397923not sure why this post hasn't received more attention, because it is completely truethe reason men are so atomised these days is because nobody really goes through anything outside of school anymore
>>220397027People have gotten so fucking conceited and toxic now it's just unbelievable.
>>220412076>I sometimes wish I was so devoid of self awareness as to not feel any shred of embarrassment or shame, must be nice.apparently, your wish was granted about 5 responses ago.
>>220412076I'm not the person you're bickering with, just commenting on your postsAre you worried about what the shills and jannies and glowies think about your whack ass contributions? Someone post the Jurassic Park gif
>>220397652delete this
>>220397083based and salsapilled
>>220412144
>>220397145This>>220401479If you dance, you are gay. Simple as.
>>220401283Unironically, a lot of socializing is kinda gay. Once you start noticing the cringe, it's quite hard to look past.
>>220397652Post the ones where it's just a room full of black guys salsa'ing with white women
Getting a girl would be simple if he were to first, get rid of social awkwardness by getting plugged in socially more, clean up his image, and learn about how the female mind works and how women get turned on. Boom!
>>220400883>I went from zero to that in less than 2 monthsWe're talking with proper form? Or just anything goes? I imagine someone who is minimally fit could do 50 of those wriggly/worm type pushups in a row. But not 50 pushups with good form. That's far above the average person's capacity.
>>220400617>cannot help but feel personally insulted at the existence of people who do not enjoy small talk, swiftly responds with a passive-aggressive, snarky responseGo back to Plebbit normie faggot
>>220413079Nobody enjoys smalltalk. It's a necessary evil for social cohesion. It's like a tcp/icp handshake
>>220396972I just stopped giving a fuck, talking to normgroids is so mentally taxing. I have nothing in common with any of them and don't want to. Everyone is just a brainwashed retard these days who consumes the latest slop engineered to ostracize anyone that doesn't conform to their social norms. I have a small group of childhood friends that I hear from once in a blue moon and I'm fine with that.
He wanted to fuck shit up, and he didn't want to live anymore.
>>220409695You're literally doing the exact same thing he was describing, lmao. You're an actual braindead NPC.
>be me>just have friends>thought I needed a girlfriend to be happy>get one eventually>every day was emotionally draining>gf sad for no reason>come home after a hard day of work>she complains and brings the mood constantly down because she saw a sad movie or some shit>unhappy with her life and can't stand I get promotions while she works at the supermarket>she's totally reliant on me to be happy which puts so much pressure on me I can't even begin to describe itShe was completely distraught when I ended things but fuck me am I happy just never being in a relationship again after that. Maybe when I'm 50 without children I might regret things I don't know.
>>220397083if this was bait then kudos to you cause who the fuck dances salsa
>>220404425It's the same with trannies, women, and the left. And actually much more of an issue with them. "Waah waah why doesn't society validate my delusions that I'm a magical 69th gender waah society doesn't let me be a whore and have as many abortions I like I'm so oppressed waah noooo it's not my fault at all that I was out so late, drunk and dressed like a streetwalker for getting assaulted waah why aren't people more accepting of freaks like us we need to normalize ourselves waaah". They can solve all of their issues by making efforts to adapt but they keep hugging onto their victim mentality too tight. And it's the entire left, it's a cornerstone of leftism as a political movement, unlike conservatism that advocates for making effort to improve one's own life instead of demanding society to bend over backwards like leftists do. So it's actually leftists/liberals that are too stuck in their victim mentality.
>>220401508>she's high maintenance as fuck.
>>220413141That's a good way to describe it. It's awkward if you don't do it. Sure is exhausting though.
>>220396972He didn't have anyone around who could relieve him of the specific kind of loneliness he felt. You can have friends and still be lonely if they don't understand or relate to you in any meaningful way.
>>220413206There are basically two kinds of people. The way she is, and the way you are. These two personalities don't gel together. You'll find a lot (and I mean a lot) of women out there who prefer to keep things upbeat and match your energy. They're not gonna wanna talk about sad topics, same as you. And most people are like that based on what I've seen, so don't take your experience with that girl as being in any way representative of what most women are like. I'm personally more like that girl you described, and I probably would have gotten along well with her. Talking to a person about something that makes them feel sad or upset is an opportunity for good, meaningful conversations that foster deeper bonds.
Why didn't he support his wife and lick her clean after? Incel chuds HATE seeing a woman happy.
>>220413189Lol
These threads are hilarious.
>>220397083Just say you are a repressed faggot who found some escapism, there would be more dignity in just admitting that
>>220413801Just wait until you make a good friend, or better yet a good friend group. It’s gonna blow your fucking mind bro
>>220397083Trvke
>>220397006If you're alone, you smell badIf you smell bad, you're alone
>>220413853Do your parents know you spend your free time larping about having friends on 4chan to "own the chuds"?
Yeah, I get it, stealth off-topic /r9k/-tier shitposting thread, but let me just say, Travis Bickle—what a fascinating character. Incredible film.
>>220410904what if nothing outside of porn and video games interests you?
>>220396972kinda hard to do that when everyone already has their own cliques and gangs
>approaches woman>successfully gets a date>takes her to a porno film for said dateWhat the fuck was Travis thinking?
>>220396972You can see him having a good time with his taxi pals in a cafe, what's he talking about
>>220412113Matthew 24:10-12 KJVAnd then shall many be offended, and shall betray one another, and shall hate one another.And many false prophets shall rise, and shall deceive many.And because iniquity shall abound, the love of many shall wax cold.https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Matthew%2024&version=KJV
>>220414623Not him, but, since I browse /adv/ frequently and I see stupid questions like yours everyday, I'm pretty sure that it's another case where your (probably negative) personal life experiences led you to this pathetic mentality where you concluded that you can't possibly be interested in anything besides vidya and porn. It's a bunch of emotional mechanism running in the background that appear to be racional thinking. I doubt you were always like that, and I believe that you can put in to effort the effort to change (or start wanting to change) whenever you feel like.
>>220414685Like all movies, you have to take a look at what's really happening... Travis is revealing his true self to her. He's not putting on a performance, he's being sincere.
The problem with "just get a hobby bro" advice is that I actually do have a ton of hobbies, it's just that none of them are social. Pretty much everything that I genuinely enjoy doing is done alone in my room. I could take up dance lessons, join a team sport, take pottery classes etc, but why would I do things that I have absolutely no interest in? it'd be like telling a normie sports fan that he should start writing poetry
>>220409542>Stop seeking power, stop trying to influence wider society and just shut-up and start working on yourselfYou really think your gay ass blog posts count as political advocacy? LMAO fucking loser
>>220415236Look for conventions about your hobbies
>>220415693It's just an observation about a double standard that everyone seems fine with. Why does a simple observation cause so many spergouts?
>>220397083People unironically using chud is so fucking weird. I came across a video talking about a kind of scam YouTuber and it was these douchebag amerinutt bros basically lying about being live and getting kids to send them money thinking they can win robux. It was an interesting video and then the guy making the video calls these scammers chuds and it was now just a dead video.
>>220415236You need another obsessive to sperg out with. That's how techniques get really refined and whatever you're into gets pushed forward and evolves.Find something that physically dries up most vaginas like magic and you won't need to defend your boy's space against women as much.
>>220409542Based.
>>220414004Imagine being so far gone that you automatically assume people talking about supposed friends are larping because how could one ever, good grief.
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>>220396972I wish I could escape and actually be alone
>>220405654>turned out to just be gay and just wanted to fuck my butt>mfw gay and attended uni but no one lusted after meLucky you
>>220417482shut the fuck up normie
>>220397795>the jump with kickback at the endastonishing how well this 36 year old man can capture the essence of a 17 year old.
>>220397054Sometimes bantering gets old and you realize you're spending hours with people who kind of suck when it comes to anything serious or important.
Is there anything that could have fixed Travis or was he permenately fucked?
>>220397196There's literally no way to do it, unless the perfect series of coincidences just happens to push you into contact with people. No one wants a complete stranger walking up and trying to be friends. People don't even want that online. I've tried enough times.
>>220409121Nah, people just can’t be honest nowadays.
>>220396972>theres no escape
>>220396972I never bought into the premise that a taxi driver in NYC in the 70s or whatever was lonely. Dude, that job is literally the second most social job that exists in that time. Now if you made him a warehouse worker on night shift or something then k would believe that but a taxi driver? Hell nah
>>220396972Idk why retards here turned it into sob story about their life, To continue , im alone and i don't feel sad about it and I have no interest on friendsWith that said, Travis was a retard for going for a porno on a first date
>>220418468>warehouse worker on night shiftWhoa, that’s me! Haha
am I the only one who have no interest in having friends? I used to enjoy hanging out with people etc. but at 30 I dont really want to just sit around and talk shit etc when I can enjoy my own company. however!!! I would like to have a gf but mostly for the sex
>>220419119or maybe it depends on what friends. if i knew someone who would want to go hiking and stuff like that it would be nice. but just watching football, drinking beer, smoking weed with a bunch of games is gay as fuck
>>220419119>>220419135smoking weed with a bunch of games is BASED as fuck. however, your desires are healthier, and we both know that. i used to go for walks (not really hikes) and even in the beauty of nature, bit of exercise, it became lonely and boring.view it comparatively to HAVING a gf, and it's actually load off. you don't have to be as 'on edge' around the guys, it's just like there being multiple yous in a room.i thought i could survive all by myself in my room: COVID lockdowns proved me wrong. i know (legit) autistic people who can shut themselves away and game for months at a time, but it's like they don't REALIZE they need other people, not that they actually don't. like an anorexic forgetting to eat.
>>220397740>>220397795>>220397225>>220397236As a genuine sperg, I am bad enough at dancing that normies actually get offended by how I dance--or, more accurately, disgusted with my display, which leads to perceived offense because I made them feel that way. I can't recall the number of times someone has said>just get out there>the point is just to have fun, not to be good>people just want to see you having fun, nobody minds if you're not that goodThis all applies to the normal range of behavior. It's like when women say>I like men who express their emotionsIt's a trap in the same way. Those same women will lose all attraction (and respect) for a man who actually does that and suddenly they'll be giving various reasons why they dislike that person and so on (typical normie behavior also) even though it's simply that they lost respect/attractionAnyway, I have taken the bait and seen the result too many times at this stage in my life (34) but I feel like I'm rapidly approaching an age where I can't find the kind of wife I'd actually want to spend my life with Don't care as much about friends, nobody seems interested in being friends except with their established social circles. It's like I need a resume with years of experience to get an internship at this stage
>>220406532>its just about small talk, then aligning with the small talk, then finding common interests, and giving the other person the opportunity to participate in that interest. if you can do this, and not sperg out while doing it, you'll be setYou only think this because you are a non-'sperg'. Being a sperg is like a CHA debuff in Elder Scrolls--your interactions just go shittily because of how it affects the other character you're interacting with. Normal people perceived spergs as 'off' or they get offended/disgusted or something else, even if the interaction is mostly positive - so in the best case tou get the usual small talk script and it progresses the way you describe, but it's usually the bad ending where nodding and smiling leads to a cordial parting of ways and rarely anywhere else Then if you press it or "try harder" you're perceived as pressing it or not reading social cues etc. Normal people are not having to put a huge amount of effort into this, they just naturally slide over/around one another like amoeba and it goes well 10-20% of the time and doesn't the rest of the time, contrary to the spergs for whom it goes well 0-1% of the time and only because the other person finds some other quality about them interesting enough to disregard the perceived flaws, or some other extraneous thing like that It's convenient to think that this is self-defeating incel-type logic because it is, IF you are not actually autistic. If you are you know what I'm talking about
Wow, I was the one that posted this >>220397083 can't believe the thread is still alive. Is 4chan dead? It would be a good thing because this forum promotes ideas that make people miserable. I had a great time during the weekend, I danced salsa with my colombian and venezuelan friends and had seks with my colombian gf. You just have to dance. Move your body. I once realised whites are really uppity. You can't be happy living like that. You just gotta dance and stop watching Nick Fuentes and Sneako. Stop being a 4chan chud
>>220420126It seems dead as fuck. Look at the duration between posts and the fact that your post got so many replies
Real men have no friends, they're so alpha that they don't need them. That alpha is me
what's he trying to say with all these characters he writes?
>>220421209You've been brainwashed by /pol/ and righ wing podcasters
>>220396972Have you ever tried to make friends? It's literally impossible.
>>220396972>feel alone around friends >they stop talking to you >feel the same as ever kinos for this mental illness?
>>220421987I will be your friend if you're not a racist chud (I'm black)
>>220422033What makes a black man browse 4chan? People are so goddamn racist here. I'm a white man and this place disgusts me.
>>220422194Every other place on the internet sucks now. 4chan has gotten worse too, but at least it's still somewhat entertaining. And there are a lot of black anons, especially on /co/.
>>220400883your form must be shit if you can "do" 50 pushups in one go
>>220404425let me just undo 16 years of severe physical and mental childhood abuse by talking to people
>>220409670shut the fuck up you gaslighting niggerfor the small change that a little bitch like you wouldn't switch the street when he saw me walking, and spoke these retarded words, you'd be very lucky to still wake up in the hospital
>>220410904god,thinking about choking out a faggot like you with my belt really gets me going
Most of you would be happy taking Salsa lessons and getting some latino friends. But you've been brainwashed by /pol/ and it might be too late for you. Just keep watching Nick Fuentes and Sneako
>>220411411not reallyevery single one of you little bitches would never dare to open their whore mouths when I stand in front of themand for that reason I will continue to use you like a toola savespace for faggots like this is the only way you can run your retarded mouth without immediate consequences
>>220397182you're a faggot. i'd rather be lonely than some salsa dancing divorced dad lol
>>220423834You basically illustrated his point using two lines of text. You're not the first broken person to ever exist and certainly won't be the last. You're not special. You're a human, a social animal, inherently programmed to not only seek, but NEED to have positive/satisfying/meaningful social connections in your life. If misfortune found its way in your life and made you miserable, you can choose to: 1. Put in the effort to do whatever it takes to be less miserable (the specifics of which, it's mainly up to you) or 2. Stay complacent and keep being miserable (you're here, probably).
>>220397130I sometimes really struggle to understand why people want to be miserable
>>220398490It must be painful to see yourself in the world around you
>>220399439I see a lot of choice in this
>>220424031This is true. I've seen many people who refuse to see it though
>>220423961>3 foot tall dumpy manlet weakling third worlder with aids
>>220424031you should meet up with him and be his friend.you lying dirty shit
>>220424182for you
>>220424157The cost of changing(effort; discomforts; tribulations) is always higher than the cost of staying the same (complacency; inaction; comfort). Thus, it's less cognitively taxing to hold on to what's is familiar (in this case, misery) than to risk facing the unknown (human's greatest fear since the dawn of time).
It's tough to make friends after school if you're kind of a sperg, but it can be done. I've seen it happen.
>>220424274They expect one of me in the wreckage brother
>>220423953Yeah whatever post more of the puta dance teasing the camera >>220397652
>>220423961Bruh I’ve said worse things irl without immediate consequences, people just look at you funny if you do or socially isolate you, which they were going to do anyways. No one is a tough guy irl, I’ve met like a few in school and they don’t last long in the real world, there’s a place for people like that and it’s called prison.
Is he supposed to be attractive in this role?
>>220397083>Takes up some Mexican dance lessons >Not martial arts where the cute girls train barefoot>Dates a goblina instead of a white/Asian gfNGMI
>>220397182>is fulled of white dudesGood morning sir, this is Steve from Microsoft, is there a lots of white dudes dancing the Mexican hat dance? Pls to do the needful and help with the same.
Some people say he was lying when he said he was in Vietnam. What do you think about that? How did he avoid the draft then? Because we don't see him having any disability.
