He's literally me, I'd kill billions to be just 10 years younger and a chad. Being 30 is suffering
>>220565107I'd kill billions.
The world would make infinitely more sense and be more honest if birth control was never invented. Chads would have like 30 kids rather than 60 hookups so it would self-balance. Men rendered themselves irrelevant with technology.
>>220565107being 30 is easy if you have a little bit of money
>>220565342No it's not, it's worse if you're ugly. The realisation that you'll die alone, that you'll never have sex while seeing couples younger than you in ever increasing numbers while your peers settle down and have kids. It's pure hell
>>220565292Online dating is the bigger issue for modern menUsed to be women in your town didn't interact with men outside of their social/work circles and maybe other randoms they'd run into on a night out putting their options in the dozens or MAYBE 100's range for potential male partners at a time.Now every single woman from the 10/10's to the 1/10's can just go online set their search radius to 20km and find thousands/tens of thousands of guys that will try and bang them which means most men are "digitally locked out" of these women at all times
>>220565441Let's agree on the entire situation being fucked beyond all recovery. The fact that there's 2/10 landwhales on onlyfans is the dead canary in the coalmine
>tfw you reach the acceptance stage of griefnot having a girlfriend and being a 27 year old virgin bothers me in the same way not being a millionaire bothers most people. like yeah, it would obviously be great if it happened, but you know it probably never will so why bother getting upset over it?
>>220565441kekwhy is 9 a child?
>>220565107OP, if being 30 is suffering for you, then I hate to break it to you, but being 30 isn't the problem. It's the part where you want to be a chad. If you were a good looking dude, you wouldn't be acting like being 30 is a tragedy. 30 is when you're seen as an actual person.
If you didn't get pussy in high school it was already over for you. It is what it is
>>220565591This. School is basically a free dating service if you're put together and not retarded. You needed to secure a Stacy and a back up Becky when you had the chance.
>>220565107Fun fact: the guy on the left is José Garcia, a comedian well known in France for his comedy movies and his contagious positivity which makes this movie even better.
>>220565533Why are you mentally ill?
>>220565508You shouldn't be in grief at 27, you should be making a last hurrah before you cross the threshold of 33-35.You're in the process of wasting the last part of your youth on self-pitying resignation. You have a certain opinion of yourself, and that opinion is 99% not correct and you'll only see that way too late.At 30-something you're going to wake up and realize you wasted your late twenties, and that you're now ACTUALLY in the dead zone where it has stopped being socially acceptable for you to date young girls. It's 100 times easier to be a 27 yo sperg than a 33+ sperg.
>>220565670he's a childfucker, what did you expect?
>>220565508Fuck you I'd kill to be 1 year younger. >>220565566True, 30 is the age where it's set in stone.
>>220565671Not him but it's honestly incredibly tough to change in your late 20s, imagine getting fit, you'll only see results in your 30s
Had a pretty vivid dream where a woman was infatuated with my style and look, but that's pretty unrealistic for a 34 year old
>>220565727>Not him but it's honestly incredibly tough to change in your late 20sQuite, but you must forge the metal while it's hot and you must strike it hard. When it gets cold, you'll need to strike it much harder and it might not even achieve the same results.My point is that you must face the hard change now, and not wait for the inevitable "I'm old now, I don't give a fuck" second wave of self-confidence that comes in the thirties, during which you'll reflect on your late twenties and wish you could teleport back to them for 3 months just to be able to swipe right on 23 yos without feeling like Weinstein.
>>220565671what should I do then?
>>220565795But I'm 28 and skinnyfat, I can't swipe them now either. I'll never be able to swipe them because I'll be 30 soon
>>220565107I've fucked 2x as many women in their 20's while in my 30s than I did in my 20s.
>>220565938If you actually want a relationship (and not everyone does, you need to make up your mind), you should do your best to be "boyfriend material" (get your life in order as much as possible, try to have some fun money and try to make yourself look as good as you can) and get to pursuing girls any way you find comfortable. If you have friends, do things with your friends, go somewhere where there's a chance you can meet girls, events, summer vacations, places where people go to have fun.You should also be on apps, especially if you have a shit social life which you very well might if you're posting here. Apps can be demoralizing due to the sheer number of retarded Instagram whores you'll see there, but just present yourself honestly, including your nerdy interests, and you'll get matches eventually no matter what, and those matches might turn into dates. You need to be creating opportunities for contact with women to turn into something more. The more of those opportunities you make, the better. Boomhauer is literally right about this (but you don't have to hit up random women on the street like some PUA gaylord).>>220566017Skinnyfat, skinny, fat and ugly people all get to date and fuck. Do not be paralyzed by your physique because your physique is not what's really stopping you, it's one of those situations where an elephant thinks a very small rope can hold it because it grew up leashed by it.A skinnyfat virgin at 28 is significantly better positioned to improve his dating life than a skinnyfat virgin at 35. You want to enter your 30s with some experience so that your foot is in the door.Don't be scared by 30, 30 is a transitory number and isn't important.
>>220566207Man I wish but I'm not so sure anymore, everyone else has a better physique
>>220567649You should work on it for a variety of reasons, but like I said, it's not the thing that's stopping you, it's your lack of opportunities for meaningful female contact. It's more important to create those than to have the best possible physique.
>>220565107>>220565234>>220565292>>220565379Cry more pathetic "woe is me" faggots. Shut up and do something worthwhile with your miserable life or KILL YOURSELF and try to have better luck next time (if there's a 'next time')
>>220566049So still zero?
>Cry more pathetic "woe is me" faggots. Shut up and do something worthwhile with your miserable life or KILL YOURSELF and try to have better luck next time (if there's a 'next time')
>>220565727i got fit and found my wife in my late 20sif i can do it so can anyone
Have you ever considered the reason nobody likes you is precisely because you're the kind of person who values vapid shit like that over the lives of other people?
>>220565379I just see a guy being nagged by a wife who he hates and a daughter who will grow up to be a brainrotted whore. What's there to envy? This isn't your 1800s trad larp land. The modern world is irrevocably fucked. Live for yourself until it all comes down.
>>220565234they must die, that's for sure
>>220566207why do i have to jump through all these hoops to get just a crumb of pussy when normies can get it with zero effort?
>>220568777>when normies can get it with zero effort?>when normies>normiesfuck your lucky trips you brainless incel.
>>220568909>there's no such thing as people who fit inis this what you're trying to say
>>220565671>Socially acceptableWho gives a shit you tranny. KEK
>>220568777Because,broadly speaking,Le Normies often have decent enough upbringings that allow them to navigate the world for many years in a more constructive and less turbulent way, making them mature (debatable) and grow as people with seemingly little to no effort, which also includes their access to the so called "societal milestones" that estrogenic autistic incel faggots like (you) bitch and moan so much online. So, it's unbelievably stupid to compare yourself to them because if you were one of them, you obviously wouldn't be here. And despite all that, things are not completely hopeless, incels retards can have satisfying lives if the pulled themselves out their self-pity bottomless pit.
>>220568273Honestly, this. I'm 34 going on 35, I'm "technically" a loser, but I consider myself lucky in a lot of ways and I am somewhat happy.
>>220568273>>220570711fuck you, i'm gonna stay here just to piss faggots like you off
>>220570989Why are you triggered? Because I choose NOT to be a sad sack just because I'm over 30?
>>220569055>So, it's unbelievably stupid to compare yourself to them because if you were one of them, you obviously wouldn't be here.and yet you're here as well>And despite all that, things are not completely hopeless, incels retards can have satisfying lives if the pulled themselves out their self-pity bottomless pit.just "satisfying"? that's it?
Just go to a local bar. It will be awkward the first time and then after a few visits you'll be a regular.
>>220571006seethe
>>220571065Yes, we know that's what you're doing.
>>220570989There's an entire containment board dedicated to people like you >>>/r9k/ but you lobotomized retards feel the need to spread your cancerous crab mentality as much as possible to feel righteous and vindicated in your shitty life. Like the old saying goes 'Misery loves company'.>>220571040>and yet you're here as wellDismissive non-argument. I suppose that you're implying that I implied to be a normie in my post, which obviously isn't the case. And yes, satisfying. Life isn't like whatever it is your escapism of choice. If you have food, water, shelter and an internet connection to whine like a bitch then you're doing quite well. If you have some *extreme*/physical/mental disability then, whatever, feel free to check out. My last replies since you're probably just farming attention to feel less lonely. See you tomorrow when you post the same thread again. Seethe+Sage+Sneed.
i honestly dont see the big deal with getting a gf i had a gf through highschool and never felt like getting a second
>>220571246>/r9k/looks like tranny shiti cant believe you were a tranny this whole time
>>220565107>He's literally me, I'd kill billions to be just 10 years younger and a chad. Being 30 is sufferingSucks to be poor.
>>220565107Men peak in their 40s.
>>220571246/r9k/ is a shadow of its former self, and that's putting it kindly
>>220571424I'm not well off but I have more than half a mil in inheritance coming up, not that it does any good
>>220571246That's not me you were arguing with if it matters. Not that I agree with your points, you can be normal and an incel, they're not one or the other type of things like sexualities
>>220565671>that you're now ACTUALLY in the dead zone where it has stopped being socially acceptable for you to date young girlsNo one in real life cares you’re dating an 18-23 year old when you’re 33 if you look attractive. Women in their 30s and incel young males might but who cares
>>220565379I only go outside to go to work
>>220571246Just hopped over to /r9k/... What happened? It used to be sad 20 and 30 something losers whining, moping and making up problems to be sad over. Now it looks like diet /b/.
>>220571883i think more and more are t.bh. the internet IS real life now unfortunately
>>220565234thisToo many fuckers
>>220571776Normgroids really think that incel is a state of mind and not just a factual description of someone's romantic/sexual status lmao
how the fuck did we get like this
>>220571246lol r9k was overtaken by literal faggots and trannies almost a decade ago>>220572183does it? means it improved last time I went there
>>220574054Eh. I remember 2010 /r9k/ when it was people of all types sharing stories, then the early 2010's onward it was sad sacks moping and whining about what losers they are. I had to force myself to stop browsing because it was sucking me down. Glad I did.
I'm 30 I'd just kill for a cigarette desu
I might rewind to 25 but 20? fuck no can't even legally drinkhonestly I don't mind being 30 the only reason I'd even turn back the clock would be the extra lifespan out of it
The best thing that happened to me is that the incel angst didn't follow me into my 30s. I can't imagine what use I could possibly have for women anymore
>>220574524Yeah, that's the reason men bully each other over being emotionally incontinent. Because if you don't, your whole community becomes a bunch of sad mopey fucks
>>220575022That's because you don't truly appreciate how chasing women is a remarkable waste of time until your brain is fully developed.
>>220565671>socially acceptable Nigger my entire existence is socially unacceptable. Shits retarded I get called a school shooter and a serial killer multiple times a year at minimum. The fuck do I care what normies think? I’ll harass their little slut daughters all I want, what are they gonna do, get me fired from my non existent job?
>>220565379Envy is the thief of joy, anon. Stop seething about what other people have and try to carve out a comfy existence.
>>220568273>if there's a 'next time'There isn't. When someone dies, that's it. They are not coming back. Choose your words wisely. You get one shot and if you miss it, that's it. I've just chosen to live out of spite. I hope others in this thread can do the same.
>>220576297If you get called a school shooter or serial killer just by walking around in public, maybe there's something wrong with y->I’ll harass their little slut daughters all I want, what are they gonna do, get me fired from my non existent job?Ah, there it is.
>>220576361That’s kinda retarded cause in the grand scheme of things 50-100 years is a blip, so why are you around now and not in a state of non existence? The truth is probably closer to reincarnation or infinite recurrence.
>>220576297Based.
>>220576384It’s literally always from people I have had no prior contact from. Unless you believe that there’s some big conspiracy around me it’s literally “vibes” as normies say, but I’ve known people much worse than me who everyone worships.
>>220576407You're around because your mother's egg was fertilized with your dad's sperm and the DNA contained therein constructed a body for you out of the resources your mother consumed from other life forms. Reincarnation is extremely retarded and it's amazing that someone other than jeets could believe in it. Nothing in this entire universe is infinite, so why the fuck would souls be infinite? There were 1 billion people in 1800 and there are 8.2 billion people now. Where the fuck did all these extra souls come from? Did enough ants gain karma to fill the human bodies with souls? It's so fucking retarded to believe in this it's unreal.
>>220576407>why are you around now and not in a state of non existence?What are you on about? I was born 31 years ago, that's why I'm here now. If my Dad didn't have sex with my mother in 1994, I wouldn't exist. It's a miracle I'm making this very post. Don't give me that existential shit about "grand schemes", in reality, I'll be dead in 30-40 years and I'll never be back. My window of existence will be over. If reincarnation was a thing, I'd have memories of my past life. If I don't remember the life I have now, I wouldn't be myself, I'd be someone else.
>>220576450I can surmise just from your posts that you give off bad vibes IRL. You have antisocial thoughts and people can tell.
>>220576466It’s not about souls, and if the material conditions can be met once for (you) to experience a conscious reality, what’s to suggest those conditions can’t be met again? You are just spouting off about something you know nothing about, there is no evidence for non existence since nobody has experienced non existence.
>>220576498Exactly, and these whores give off bad vibes too, which is why I accost them for sex.
>>220576502If "it's not about souls" then how the fuck would a new organism be me reincarnated? The concept of the soul is central to the concept of reincarnation. You make no sense whatsoever.> there is no evidence for non existence since nobody has experienced non existence.I "experienced" non-existence for the entire period of time from the universe's formation until I was born. What the hell are you talking about?
>>220576490>bringing up memories of past lives out of nowhereThe traditional view of reincarnation makes a lot of assumptions sure, I was suggesting that what comes after death is probably closest to reincarnation. You kinda argue like one of those guys who says “well if evolution is real the why are there still monkey?” If you can’t even entertain a complex thought then why do you think you know anything for certain?
>>220576550I said closest to reincarnation, maybe reread the post, I never said anything about “souls” you brought that up yourself.
>>220576581Evolution is still a theory, genius. Also life after death makes no sense either. If I have no physical body, my life is over. Doesn't matter if my conscious somehow goes on after that, I wouldn't be myself anymore.
>>220576594Reincarnation literally doesn't work without the concept of the soul. If there is no soul to transfer between the old creature and the new one, then how is it reincarnation? It's just two different organisms.The thing that's "closest to reincarnation" is your offspring, which contains part of your DNA. That's it and that's all.
>>220576622You need to reread my post, slowly, maybe multiple times over and really try to grasp the difference between someone saying “the truth is x” and “the truth is closest to x.”
>>220576621I was attacking your character, not trying to discuss evolution in any capacity. You need to read my posts slower
>>220576466>>220576361>Reincarnation is extremely retarded No it isn't. https://med.virginia.edu/perceptual-studies/wp-content/uploads/sites/360/2017/04/REI42-Tucker-James-LeiningerPIIS1550830716000331.pdf
>>220576663I think that's called a "coincidence".
>>220576950Coincidences stack upon coincidences?This research department investigated 2,500 cases of reincarnation over the course of 50 years. https://med.virginia.edu/perceptual-studies/our-research/children-who-report-memories-of-previous-lives/https://psi-encyclopedia.spr.ac.uk/articles/jenny-cockell-mary-sutton-reincarnation-case/https://psi-encyclopedia.spr.ac.uk/articles/ryan-hammons-reincarnation-case/
>anons start talking about reincarnation in an incel threadthat's a new one
