I was thinking about the common trope that good people suffer more, "nice guys finish last" and so on.What I think really happens is that such people are simply more sensitive and thus experience more difficulty ignoring the plethora of negative stuff and suffering that goes on every day. They end up giving their attention to it and where attention goes energy flows, etc. It multiplies in their lives.I noticed in myself a difficulty not to judge myself negatively for things related to the common lower vibration stuff of life. Zero sum games like food chains, success in relationships or just success in general (you unavoidably caused jealously and envy in others through your success).Another example, my sexuality is very dominant, which I think is common and even healthy in men, but I still can't help but feeling bad about dominating and degrading my partners, even if it's all consensual and they enjoy playing that part. I'd rather be more vanilla and find partners that only enjoy that as well.Any tips on how to stop giving attention to bad stuff and judging oneself for those kinds of things? I want to discipline myself and be laser focused on what I want and get rid of things like guilt and shame for good.
>I want to discipline myself and be laser focused on what I want and get rid of things like guilt and shame for good.you answered your own question. start taking yourself more seriously instead of others
>>39242805>Any tips on how to stop giving attention to bad stuff and judging oneself for those kinds of things?Tell me if this works for you, or if it seems like it could work for you.Compare your bad thoughts to biblical scripture. You don't have to be a Christian. You don't even have to believe in God. You definitely don't have to believe in Christ at this point. You just have to be open to the idea that there is a creator and that this wisdom came from that place.Start Googling (don't use google) "What does the Bible say about [anything]." Google what the bible says about any problem you're facing. You will begin finding scriptures that you can use against your bad thoughts. You can compare scriptures to bad thoughts like, "Life sucks but I deserve it." Wrong. Bible scripture says>The thief comes only to steal, kill and destroy. But I came that you may have life and life more abundantly.God wants you to have life. He wants you to have a good day. He wants you to get out of bed in the morning, fresh, and optimistic, hoping. It's the truth. It's in there. Search "what does the bible say about depression." Namaste.
>>39242933evangelizing a book that was composed hundreds of years after the death of jesus. would you discuss what happened in year 1724, now in year 2024? so, how can you say what a god wants if you weren't there just like the people composing the bible weren't. good god how simple christians are
>>39242963It just resonates. If you try it, it works. But you have to be open to believing in a creator force. You don't have to believe. You have to be open to believing. Then, if you try it, it works.
>>39242963>would you discuss what happened in year 1724, now in year 2024This is one of the negative characteristics of the modern (classical) liberal mindset. The question would have been meaningless or even offensive for most of human history since the truths of human nature exist on time scales much greater than our lifetimes. Choosing to ignore thousands of years of wisdom means resetting yourself to the level of a child who needs to learn all over again that fire is hot and how to feed his daily hunger when the answers were already available to him, and which he discarded only because great grandpa never saw a cell phone.
>>39242887Thanks. Simple but powerful answer.Everyone is one (God) at a deeper level, but there is a reason I am me in the superficial 3D level. I have my own purpose and I must focus on it and prioritize it.Also, it's not like the world is becoming a paradisiacal utopia any time soon. Food chains, suffering and the likes ain't going nowhere anytime soon no matter what I do. I do try to be kind and helpful in general but this isn't my priority/purpose in this life. As soon as I rid myself of religious and cultural shackles I automatically knew what I had to do.
>>39242805I can tell from the way you type that you're an npc so this isn't even about you. You're practically a robot following code. You know that right? You can't imagine an apple in your mind. You are chatgpt compared to me. You probably don't even have a soul.
>>39244380>You know that right?I can tell from the lack of a comma there that you're a Jewish space shapeshifting lizard and it's the white man's job to defeat you :-D
>>39242805Good guys only finish last because they do not have a refined methodology. Victory is not predisposed to good or evil but whoever is the most refined in their methods. You want to win being a good guy? Work on your strategy.
>>39242805In terms of love and romance good guys finishing last at least in my opinion is because "good guys" are predisposed to the love language of agape (unconditional love) and "bad boys" are predisposed to the love language of eros (erotic love). In order to be skilled in the art of romancing a man must be aware of the entire spectrum of the types of love (pic related). A good guy can win with women but they must have an equal focus on agape and eros in my opinion.
>>39242963>unga bunga more recent temporal baseless tautology better than older one uhhhh because uhhhretard
>>39242805this is you https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4TVTm5xfvjk
>>39242805Start by not drinking, not taking drugs, refusing to help people and slamming the door in the face of charity collectors when they ask you for money, then you will make them all suffer and they deserve it.
>>39242805When the charity collector says "Do you have any time for homeless orphans over christmas?", you just say "NO!" and walk away, really fucks them up everytime.
>>39242805>my sexuality is very dominant>healthy in men>degrading my partners"Dominant" as someone who manhandle his woman in bed is normal and healty. "Dominant" as being a Marquis De Sade freak isn't. Learn the difference
the absolute lowest form of discussion is bringing up personal experiences then cramming them up with christianity in any shape or form. next time someone comes evangelizing irl i perform proper suplex in the name of god and curb stomp the shit out of their brains as it was 100% confirmed in the revelations
>>39244515>eros>storge>pragmaI pick these. Also, the average bad boy you're describing is more a ludus thype rather than eros. And the good guy is more storge/mania
>>39242805You've already gotten a simple but powerful answer from another anon, I would just like to say my personal opinions on this trope.I like this >>39244463 anon agree that "Good" can win as well as "evil" and that all you need is the right methodology to do so.However what is "good"? What is "evil"? Many different cultures and religions have differences in what they consider to be good and evil and this goes all the way down to the individual level.I don't think it exists in the way we think of it as a concrete reality...I think it exists if we give power to it but if we reclaim our power from it then it no longer exists. I agree that nice or good guys finish last a lot but I don't think that's inherently the case, I think it's the case because they were never taught how to thrive in the world or to have control over themselves.It's a case of the blind leading the blind and the "evil" typically has had to refine their methodology and/or believe in themselves so they either go down the jail or execution route or they end up much more successful beyond everyone else while the "good" typically get compliments and never taught to take care of their resources and to be ambitious in helping so they end up being on the bottom having gave everything away whether that be money, time or effort to someone else's dream. However some "good guys" do end up successful if they learned how to play the game so to speak.But my 2 cents is this: Both good and evil only exist as constructs of our mind, the world is more complicated than that and we can be more than just good and evil. If you want to win, learn how to play the game, and winning can take many different forms such as spiritual enlightenment...it doesn't have to be about getting rich or starting a family or what have you.if anyone else wants to discuss this with me on this thread, feel free.
