"For the love of God, enough about paternity tests" edition. ITT you may pose questions to people of the opposite gender to your own, and answer questions posted by the opposite gender to your own!This not a "general" thread, nor is it a chatroom. Standard /adv rules apply: all images must be work-safe, no posting pictures of yourself or personal details. If you feel the need to post toonme images, etc. there is a corresponding thread on /soc where those are allowed.Please take incel rants to /r9k, and racism to /pol or /b; they do not belong here.Previously on ATOGA: >>31930039
First for femdom society now.
>>31933358so we're just boycotting jars?
Women, my penis musk smells like a very specific brand of fast foods chicken.Can you guess which?
>>31933364I don't like thinking about brown genitalia.
WomenI've got a car and a brand new phone and a good job and I hike, workout, and have a personal coding project, and I drawI look similar to pic relrate me and how can I do better?
>>31933371>carcool>phonewho cares>good jobcool>hike, workout, coding, drawdrawing is cool rest is just "every fucking man ever">look he looks tired and depressed its not a good look
>>31933371No, attention whore.Get your rights revoked.
>>31933367It's a good thing that it isn't then, now you are obliged to guess.
M, wore a thong for my boyfriend last night. Actually pretty comfy.Have you ever cross dressed? What did you thinked?
i've been cranking it to vintage nudes lately, there's something sexy about the less posed photos and more natural looking women, especially the bushes
>>31933373Please stop reminding me that women hate me for studying CS
Questions for girls.Do you like more to give fellatio or receive cunilingus?Do you like cum on or inside you? Do you like it in your mouth or to swallow?What do you think of kissless virgin guys? Is it cringe or romantic to receive their first kiss and virginity?What matters more, face or height in a guy?
Especally the kait bushes >>31933381
Women what if a balding man smiles to you?
>>31933392Ick
Which "Im available" social hints do you follow or abide? Which ones you dont?For example I dont follow the upside down pinapple thing
>>31933373>drawing is cool rest is just "every fucking man ever"goddamn high standards much :(>he looks tired and depressedin the other thread multiple girls called him cute>>31933374stop bully it's mean :(
What if a balding woman smiles are you? And she had the sweetest smile?
>>31933398I would love her forever if she tore up a picture of the Pope.
>>31933398I won't smile back cause I don't know how to smile
>>31933386>Do you like more to give fellatio or receive cunilingus?Much prefer blowing him, no question.>Do you like cum on or inside you?Both. I really enjoy watching the ejaculation, so bonus points for getting to see that when he's coming on me. But equally, I like the taste and feel. Plus there's something very erotic when he comes in me.>Do you like it in your mouth or to swallow?Why not both?>What do you think of kissless virgin guys? Is it cringe or romantic to receive their first kiss and virginity?I'd find it fun taking a guys virginity. Especially his blowjob virginity. Experienced kissers are better though and I don't think I'm a good enough teacher for that.>What matters more, face or height in a guy?Face and build. I've dated short guys before. Short and super skinny is unattractive to me, though.
>>31933402Same bro sameCan't even look it up because post-ai slop google is so worthless it just makes shit up
>>31933396I am yet again perplexed by the sheer level to which I know absolutely nothing about my own generation's apparent social etiquette
How do women feel about being fingered?
>>31933396I keep up with popular trends.Upsidedown pineapple, old people putting scrunchies/shower loofas on their car antenna, pocket hankerchief colors...Communication is important, and knowing your surroundings keeps me safe.
>>31933371Have a shower. Wash your face and hair.
>>31933411Do you even know how to preform and prepare for it?
>>31933371I'm betting you're quite young?>Car, job, hobbiesVery good>drawingDon't mention this unless you do it professionally.>picTidy up your hair, grow a beard, remove the anime phone cover. Smile. You look like my drug dealer. >improvementsMention interests, not just hobbies, that you might be able to chat with women about.
>>31933414chat is this real
>>31933396https://youtu.be/NdzuimQYswQ?t=6431I am this guy level of dense.I notice nothing.
Women, would you date a man who has zero romantic or sexual experience at age 24?
Any chance of finding a good nerdy girl at the ren fair?
>>31933417No that's why I'm asking duuuuh
>>31933411I like it a lot as long as I'm suitably aroused and me and the guy are comfortable enough that I can instruct him.Vigorous fingerbanging as he presses down on my midriff, getting me to squirt feels good. Other times, slow, consistent rhythmic stroking of the top of my vaginal wall can massage an orgasm out of me (whilst I stimulate myself clitorally).
>>31933423Then I don't feel like it.
>>31933426Nice, finna jack off to this scenario>>31933429I can learn Just like how I learnded to mispell things on porpoise to annoy people
>>31933416>Have a shower. Wash your face and hair.shower daily frfr>>31933418mentally, yes.>Don't mention this unless you do it professionally.rough. I can only draw foxes and rabbits :'(>Tidy up your hair, grow a beard, remove the anime phone cover. Smile. You look like my drug dealer. He's not me, no animu cover, my beard is shit so I go clean shaven. Keeps me looking young. Hair is short now since I've realised that's what ladies like. I take looking like a drug dealer as a compliment :)>Mention interestsI uhm..what are interests? I can talk for hours on history and philosophy but I don't think that'd would interest anyone. I love linguistics. None of that would really be a cool interest.What are cool interests that women like? Thanks for your help btw you a real one <3
Last time I showered daily I began getting dermatitis, and women began to like me less because it turns out they lie about hygiene being important to men, don't fall for it.
do women only like short hair on guys???
>>31933419Again, fuck off already.
>>31933426>Other times, slow, consistent rhythmic stroking of the top of my vaginal wall can massage an orgasm out of me (whilst I stimulate myself clitorally).hot. Sometimes when I finger a girl she'll say she's too sensitive despite claiming it felt really good but she didn't cum. Does that mean I did it badly?
>>31933386>Do you like more to give fellatio or receive cunilingus?That depends on how I feel about the guy. If I'm in love, having him in my mouth is the best thing *ever*, but I wouldn't do it for a FWB.>Do you like cum on or inside you? Inside, please. Don't like the way it feels on my skin when it dries. >Do you like it in your mouth or to swallow?Yes and yes (again, if I'm in love).>What do you think of kissless virgin guys?As such I don't really think anything about them. But realistically if a guy has remained a virgin into later life, that's probably because women don't like him, even if the reason for that is not immediately apparent, so I would tend to be on my guard.>Is it cringe or romantic to receive their first kiss and virginity?"Romantic" would be overstating it. I guess it might be kind of cute.>What matters more, face or height in a guy?Neither matters particularly; personality is everything. If you're confident, funny, kind, ambitious, passionate, competent and cool-headed, I don't give a fuck what you look like.
>>31933432>dermatitisDon't hot shower. Short showers with cold water (as cold as you can handle while standing under it for five minutes). 5 mins max. No scrubbing or any products just water.Helped my eczema immensely.
>>31933392>Women what if a balding man smiles to you?Truthfully? When any guy smiles at me I tend to look behind me to see who he's smiling at.
>>31933442I'm smiling at you baby girl. You're the cute girl I want to keep smiling at before, during, and after our wedding
As a fat, badling man, I look like this when I smile at women. They're into it, I can tell.
>>31933422Never been, mostly too far, and I have other plans.
>>31933421>Women, would you date a man who has zero romantic or sexual experience at age 24?Depends on why he hasn't. I don't give a fuck about you being a virgin AS SUCH, but if the reason why you're a virgin is because women are repulsed by you, then realistically I will probably be repulsed by you too - unless you've done something to change whatever it is that's making them feel like that.
>>31933434No, but men mostly don't take care of long hair properly enough for it to actually look good on them. So stay short, lil skill issues.
>>31933437>Does that mean I did it badly?I don't know, you should ask her. Personally, I've never come from *only* penetration (and I've tried) although having something in there significantly helps and makes the orgasm feel a lot better. I'd also say that not coming isn't the end of the world, sometimes it just doesn't happen, as long as it feels good you're doing a good job right? As long as it actually *is* feeling good - encourage her to communicate honestly.
>>31933455'lil.And I take care of my hair fine because I follow advice some woman posted here
the sensation of kissing women's soft skin is really unbeatable in this world
Can people tell when youvewanked off?Like even if I use no spit or lotion and change my undies 10 mins after
>>31933457one said she's never had an orgasm beforeher I fingeredthe other said she's also never had an orgasm beforeher I rubbed her clitboth became too sensitive after a while but both claimed they enjoyed it very much
>>31933468Women can tell because your aura weakens while you regenerate.
>>31933457>I'd also say that not coming isn't the end of the world, sometimes it just doesn't happen, as long as it feels good you're doing a good job right?True but my male monkey brain tells me unless she's coming a dozen times and has her eyes rolling circles and faints and mindbreaks I'm not good enough. I just wanna make them cum
slap the pussy with a wet fish
>>31933482I prefer to slap the pussy with my wet dick.
>his dick is wetick
>>31933468lets put it to the testwomen when have I jerked off last
my dick is hairy
>>31933469>never had an orgasm beforeThat's tricky. I can't imagine a man making me come if I didn't know what the sensation, and especially the build-up to it, felt like.When I first started masturbating, I used my fingers on my clitoris and didn't come. I didn't really know orgasms were possible. Did it for a while and sort of thought "is that it?". The first time I came was from using the water stream from the bath faucet - and thinking erotic thoughts to get me there. After that, once you know how it all works, you can reach orgasm with your hands. I usually only get sensitive after an orgasm, too, never before. Have you thought about using a vibrator on them to see if that makes them come? Those clitoral suction ones are very gentle and the orgasm sort of sneaks up on you.
>>31933434>do women only like short hair on guys???If he actually looks after it properly, long hair on a man can be hot as hell.
I feel so sick to my stomach
How do you tell if a girl likes you as a friend or has feelings for you?I've got some feelings for her and am slightly suspicious that the same is true for her, but I genuinely value the friendship as is and don't want to wreck it if I've misinterpreted.
>>31933474That's how you get women who lie to you about it. I've seen it first hand.
Is this a good look for a flatty?
>>31933498Not a fair example, a hot bitch can do whatever the fuck she wants.
>>31933482*eats da fishy*Thanks for the free meal.
>>31933486Sorry I can't hold back my precum retard.
>he hasn't manifested extra muscles in his dick to hold back the flow of his virilityick
>>31933437Like the other anon said, you need to ask her, really. But in most cases you can't go nearly as fast or hard with your finger as you can with your cock - cocks are designed for that, and are slightly compressible and slightly flexible, but fingers are hard and boney!
>>31933494You should throw up. Its what I do when I'm ill. Done it so much I have to shove my whole fist in my throat for any reaction now. I miss when it was easy.
>>31933468>Can people tell when youvewanked off?Yes, you can smell it.
>>31933474You're the kind of man that makes women feel they need to fake it.
>>31933495>How do you tell if a girl likes you as a friend or has feelings for you?Ask her out.
>>31933498Would really need to see the rest of it. Looks like it would fall off if not for the arms.
Manifesting alpha/beta matriarchal society where men are all betas and bonded permanently to a bigger, stronger, dominant woman
>>31933525>"omg wtf no">entire friend circle ruinedgreat plan
>>31933497>>31933522:( I don't mean for that. I'm just insecure about my sexual ability. The last thing I'd want is for her to fake it. I just want to be good. I don't tell them how much I want them to cum because I know they might start faking it. But it does matter to me.
Is it a ick if a guy cares about a girl's health?
>>31933521Ugh.Look ladies I don't have all day, so like it or not, at certain times you will just have to smell my dried cum. You might not like it but just endure it.
>>31933531... no?
>>31933527It does.It just struck me as a very weird choice for someone with no tits at all.
>>31933528Hot>>31933531Kinda. She is an adult. Let her make her own decisions.
Men, have you rinsed your nose out?https://youtu.be/uNwWjALegDA?si=Rx-W8VbCV01Z2apK
>>31933531It's this just a nice way of saying you think she's fat and should go to the gym?
>>31933538>NeilMeMe irl
>>31933538No, but when i was a child I remember pulling a hair that got stuck in it, which curved all the way around, then back on itself and pulling that out was one of the best things I've ever felt. It was literally magical.
>>31933531Absolutely not.
>>31933536F I've heard of cold shoulder dresses but that is honestly a bit much. Might as well be wearing a swimsuit.
>>31933474>eyes rolling>mindbreaksThis generation is legitimately the lowest IQ one in over a hundred years, isn't it? Actually impressive how retarded they sound
>>31933528Based
>>31933536NTA but she's wearing it way too low, in fact judging by the sleeves and armpits of the shirt it might not even be a proper off the shoulder dress to begin with, she's just pulled it down that way. Plus she's slouching, and she isn't really thin enough to wear something like that so it just looks terrible imo
>>31933494Tea with ginger in it or flat ginger al. Hope you feel better!
>>31933538NAG but I used to do that all the time, my sinuses are better these days though
>>31933371I think you sound cool!! picrel is cute and you have interesting hobbies.If you want to improve, the only obvious thing you didnt mention is fashion I think. Maybe look into that if it is not something you put much thought into.>>31933421I wouldnt mind, it is ok to not have experience, I'm sure you will still find someone :)>>31933434Personally I like short hair on guys but a lot of girls who like men with long hair>>31933495Personally when I have been in similar situations I like to slip in a half-jokey flirty comment and see how they react. If they seem like theyre not interested you can just act like it was totally a joke and move on
>>31933536It's a nice dress, she just really doesn't have the body or posture for it.Women, I thought you learn after a while to dress for your body type.
>>31933566I know a lot of girls who like men with long hair* I cant type soz
>>31933494Ginger ale.
>>31933566I will destroy your anus.
>>31933518You know that really fucks up your teeth?
>>31933530I'm being as gentle as I can, here, anon, but if you actually want a woman to cum, the worst possible thing you can do is put pressure on her. If you make it clear to her that her cumming really, really matters, that's pressure. If you make her feel like you'll be disappointed or upset if she doesn't cum, that's pressure. If your attitude is "I won't stop until you cum", that's horrific pressure. (God, we'll be here all night if I don't fake it!) Your attitude needs to be "I don't care if you cum, I just want you to feel really good": *that* is what will help her relax enough that she might actually be able to cum.
>>31933568Some of us are just really oblivious about what we have to work with.
>>31933379Yuck ew gross. >>>/lgbt/
>>31933579this is why i browse this place.
>>31933533It's okay, we're used to it.
>>31933579>If your attitude is "I won't stop until you cum"Some guy's actually do this? :( That's like EAT YOUR VEGETABLES OR YOU'RE NOT LEAVING THIS TABLE.
>>31933588They think it‘s hot.
Men, what does this image instill in you?
>>31933587You really shouldn't encourage them.
>>31933588As men we really can't relate to how your stuff works at all because it's so different. We lost the one copy of the women instruction manual too so we're blind leading the blind
straight men, if you HAD to go gay for a male celebrity, who would it be?
>>31933596Most retarded moid.
Are ponytails cool on men?
>>31933602MWho is the richest old guy who is about to die? I don't watch tv, movies, anything. I know maybe less than 10 celebrities.
>>31933609Only if the man wearing it is cool.
>>31933588>That's like EAT YOUR VEGETABLES OR YOU'RE NOT LEAVING THIS TABLE.Well, they don't mean it like that, what they mean is "Your pleasure is so important to me that I'm happy to do whatever it takes." But yeah, the end result is much the same.
>>31933593That feeling you get when you see someone sick in public, you don't hate them for being sick, but you don't want them anywhere near you either
>>31933596>We lost the one copy of the women instruction manual too so we're blind leading the blindActually you're the blind insisting on leading a sighted person. If you want to know how a woman works, ASK.
>>31933596Talk for yourself.
>>31933618This man is severely underfucked.
>>31933602>straight men, if you HAD to go gay for a male celebrity, who would it be?Probably a younger Jude Law. When he was doing "The Talented Mr Ripley".
>>31933613i think the fundamental issue is that to men sex is about cumming, not about edging, not about the journey, the noises, the experience. for them if you didn't cum you didn't enjoy sex, even though that's just plainly not true. they literally can't comprehend sex from the other side.its the same reason futa is popular with men and cunt boys is something only women even know is a thing because its "gender you like, but you can understand how they feel good"
>>31933619Women are infamously bad at sexual communication, even when they don't outright get turned off from you not reading her mind
>>31933622He has that placid virgin stare, which you just know below the surface theres murderous elliott rodger tier rage from years of sexual frustration and fucking his hand, no lube.
I want my gf to wear different chokers depending on her mood and wants. There would be one that signals "extra cudly hugs today, but no sex", one for "take me however you want and whenever you want" and so on.Thoughts?
Women, is it difficult for you to orgasm?
>>31933630YesYou know exactly he will act like a nice guy for fifteen minutes and then he can not keep up the facade anymore and breaks character.
>>31933518>>31933562>>31933573Oh thanks guys but I feel sick in an emotional way
>>31933609Yeah, especially that stuart mackey tiktoker.
>>31933634Only with the wrong man.
>>31933609I'd rather the guy wears a man bun. And I HATE man buns.
>>31933636You should throw up anyway, lose some weight.
>>31933530>But it does matter to me.I suppose it's nice that you actually care about her orgasming. That's more than can be said about most men. But it's not from a place of "I care about her pleasure" - instead it's just an extension of your pleasure. How tiresome and selfish.
>>31933632i had a gf that used a choker to show when she was in the mood for free use shit but from what i gathered here most women want that to be more spontanious and like actual rape
>>31933636What's troubling you, anon? We're here for you.
>>31933626Women communicate just fine, you just don't know how to listen.
>>31933618>0% bodyfat has entered the chatI would enjoy rattling his bones.
>>31933638"tuart Mackey is an innovative artist who approaches to perform and improve his craft/knowledge through each endeavor.Recently through developing online performances and presence, reading/ reviewing productions, script/character analysis, he have">He haveMost high IQ moid
>>31933632Because actually talking to her is out of the question...?
what about a shirt rightand it sayrightokayit has an arrow pointing upright like to her tits loloron a guy loldownto his penis loland it said "honk for service"lolwould you wear this shirt
>>31933656No?It'd be an extra play thing.
>>31933634Kinda of actually. PiV pretty much just doesn't work for me.
>>31933632No. Just use safewords.What happens when the choker breaks on accident and you can't replace it.
>>31933661>honk for serviceOnly if she's my clown gf.
>>31933622He has a gf
>>31933634Yeah, unfortunately. It's a pretty big insecurity of mine at the moment.I mean, I can do it fairly easily if I have the right tools - porn helps massively. But to orgasm "organically" is tricky for me. Sex for me is often mixed with negative emotions because of it.
>>31933667That means little.
>>31933664>What happens when the choker breaks on accidentNothing?Safewords are mandatory regardless of this.
>>31933618I need to tie this guy up and force feed him cake.
>>31933669Whst kind of porn gets the job done?
>>31933661That's really stupid. I hate shirts that reference my boobs. I mean, you can tell I have boobs, you don't need a shirt for that, right?
>>31933646I'm underweight>>31933650I'm getting dumped
>>31933634Not much at all, I even enjoy flaccid dicking. I'd say it's hard to make me not cum.
>>31933677I'm really sorry anon. Wishing you the best <3
>>31933677>I'm underweightProve it
>>31933669Sorry to here that, really. Maybe you have issues because you view it so negatively and kinda psyche yourself up for disappointment?
>>31933675I've not watched porn in so long that I've probably reset my desensitivity to it by now, that anything will do. But back when I used to watch it often:>old/young>dp gangbangs>actual flashers>max hardcore Yeah, that's why I quit.
>>31933676>you can tell I have boobsCan I grope to verify?
>>31933677>I'm getting dumpedOh no, what happened
>>31933647Hey I do care about her pleasure. Sure there's a selfish element but it's not just that. I want her to be happy and satisfied.>>31933579thanks. I don't do any of that because I know the whole pressure thing makes it harder. I've had the same. >>31933547The world is becoming retarded and that's okay. I just heard a kid yell out "what the sigma". I overheard my 11 year old nephew talking about gooning (he doesn't know what it is I think). You have no idea how over it is.
>>31933683>:)
>>31933683What feels like the worst of those?You mentioned porn helps massively, so I thought you still use it.
>>31933634I have the opposite problem, I get off too easily. Like, the right pair of pants will do it.
>>31933566>I think you sound cool!! picrel is cute and you have interesting hobbies.>If you want to improve, the only obvious thing you didnt mention is fashion I think. Maybe look into that if it is not something you put much thought into.thanks anon <3I have a job where I have to dress businese casual at least. So I've got some nice shirts and pants. I kind of want to suit up though but I'll be overdressed. I should buy one of those long coats though. They look.pretty good.
>>31933655But damnit he's pretty with alllll that haaaaaair ontop of his heaaaadddd.And he screams about emotions, healthily.
>>31933691Your pussy just wants you to get dicked And liked more often.
>>31933677>I'm getting dumped*hugs* What happened?
>>31933677M or F? Yes, it makes a difference.
>>31933692that sounds like a good plan I think, I am a sucker for those long coats too haha
>>31933683>max hardcoreIf I Google that, I'm going to regret it, aren't I?
>>31933704I think he actually abused some models and was arrested for it?
>>31933683Oh, I'd also just watch/listen to solo guys masturbating/ejaculating. >>31933688>What feels like the worst of those?Probably the flashers. But I remember repeatedly watching a Max Hardcore compilation of legitimate rape. It really got me off.>You mentioned porn helps massively, so I thought you still use it.It definitely speeds things up majorly, especially in combination with a vibrator. So much so I have to edge myself and struggle *not* to come. Vibrators by themselves help, too, but I'm on a break from those. If I use just my hands, dildo, and my imagination it takes me around 25 minutes at the moment. I'm trying to bring that down.
>come across song in some random video>shit hits you like it hasn't in weekshttps://m.youtube.com/watch?v=_d_3oG_yOEsI have to watch out I don't slide into a dangerous circle now.Ok, just one more song, then I'll stop again.https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=9P16xvwMQ5AI promise.
>>31933706So cucking kinda.
HOW THE FUCK DO I STOP THINKINGI'M TIREDI PUT MY HEAD ON THE PILLOW >HEY YEAH THAT'S GREAT BUT HOW ABOUT *SHIT YOU DON'T WANT TO THINK ABOUT* HUH HOW ABOUT THATNO SHUT THE FUCK UP AAAAAAAAAAAHOW DO I STOP IT
Men, what are your genuine thoughts on Andrew Tate?
>>31933716Grifter with the most basic bitch brodude takes imaginable for engagement farming
>>31933682>Maybe you have issues because you view it so negatively and kinda psyche yourself up for disappointment?I was celibate for 6 years and I think I broke myself during that time. I don't remember it being this difficult when I was with my ex. He did introduce me to vibrators, to be fair.
>>31933716He's an abuser and human trafficker who every small clip I've heard of made him seem like a hateful, miserable and deeply overcompensating child.
>>31933716Despise his philosophy, like him. Think he's funny.
>>31933721Woah.. a man said that?
>>31933680I literally can't do it I don't know what to do >>31933681Whats the point>>31933685>>31933701Wrong place wrong time I guess. >>31933702F
>>31933706Are you dating or have you in the past?Does sex with a guy make it easier or harder?
>>31933729>Wrong place wrong time I guess.I'm sorry, hun. You'll find another one.
>>31933352Do you guys think it would be weird to contact andold friend out of the blue who became a priest? (We are in our mid 30s)For background. We were best friends for a good chunk of elementary school but for some reason drifted a part in highschool. I don't really know the reason why, it lime out of the blue we just never really had much to say and it was this awkwardness when we were together.Anyways I found out from his mother around 5 years ago that he was studying to be a priest when I bumped into her at church. Then recently I joined a little church group where we discuss our faith and stuff and mentioned to the young priest there near me age about my old friend who became a priest and found out he knew him etc and mentioned which parish he preaches at.Anyways it's a bit further out for me, but would it be weird to call him or email him out of the blue? His details are on the parish site that this other priest tpld me. Or is that a bit stalkerish in some way?
>>31933715This is going to sound like I'm trolling, but genuinely, don't go to bed until you're so tired you can barely keep your eyes open. You've made your bedroom into a battlefield: you versus insomnia. That means as soon as you go in there, you're instantly stressed. Be somewhere else, perhaps in a comfortable chair, in dim red light, listening to gentle music. Don't actually go to bed until you genuinely *can't* stay awake even if you try. After a while the bedroom will start to feel like somewhere where you sleep instead of somewhere where you struggle. Then it'll get easier.
>>31933729>I literally can't do it I don't know what to doIt's ok and understandable to feel overwhelmed right now. Try and be nice to yourself and do something nice and relaxing. You will be ok :)
>>31933734I;m more worried about him I know it was the best thing for both of us but he's devastated. I wish we had never met sometimes
>>31933715I have a random pain in my head I've been trying to solve all night. So I feel ya on that. I think I'm going to give up and take a painkiller again.Been having the racing thoughts and such all through it too.
>>31933716He's a moderately successful con man, a rapist, and a sex trafficker. I am genuinely concerned by the fact that people take him seriously.
>>31933729>Wrong place wrong time I guess.Well, if that's true, then it's only a matter of time before you're in the right place at the right time.
>>31933728Don't get me wrong, I hate women of course, but his reasons are either idiotic or taken from smarter incel posts than he is that he then butchers, and he has a totally fake projection of what masculinity is that comes from fucking rap videosHis cult are retarded 14 year olds without a second braincell "yet" (ever)
>>31933742>I;m more worried about himWhy, what's the matter with a breakup?>I know it was the best thing for both of us but he's devastated.Well, breakups are hard. It's perfectly fine to grieve.>I wish we had never met sometimesThat's a well wish. You're very kind.
>>31933736This doesn't seem very much weirder than friending someone on Facebook when you haven't seen them for years. (Yes, kids, in the old days we had something called Facebook).
>>31933747why do you hate women?
>>31933747>Don't get me wrong, I hate women of courseRedemption discarded.
>>31933749NTA. Forgive the dumb question, but if you're both devastated by the breakup then why are you breaking up?
>>31933737When I do this I end up falling asleep in that chair, waking up at 3 AM and then feeling like I only went to bed at 3 AM like all the chair sleeping meant nothing>>31933743Ganbarre
State gender and 3 favorite snacks
>>31933753What does NTA mean? I see a lot of people say it on here but I cant figure it out!
>>31933750You think it's not too weird? We were still friends for most of highschool it was more the later part of highschool we drifted a part. There wasn't anything that happened. We just ended up in different friend groups. It's really amazing that he became a priest. I don't even know what to say to him. Or if I should even mentioned the whole thing about us being friends then drifting a part
>>31933739I don't deserve anything nice. I made him stay longer and caused him more pain >>31933746I don't even care anymore I was born to suffer >>31933749>That's a well wish.No it's not I'm horrible
>>31933716I'm pretty sure he's neurodivergent and asexual
>>31933730>Are you dating or have you in the past?I've been seeing a few people the past year. Prior to that I was celibate for 6 years. >Does sex with a guy make it easier or harder?Penetrative sex? Sometimes, very rarely, it makes it easier. The orgasm comes out of nowhere. Those are very rare occasions though - I can count them on one hand. I need clitoral stimulation and that's hard to do during PIV. But a big part of my enjoyment of sex with a partner is giving him pleasure, and that's not conducive for orgasms. I can't concentrate on me and him at the same time.
>>31933751>>31933752Because they have cooties, of course.
>>31933754Maybe you need a comfier chair? But also, if you *can* fall asleep in the chair, that means you can fall asleep. So try replicating what you're doing in the chair, only in bed. Maybe an adjustable/profiling bed would help you?
>>31933757>What does NTA mean?It stands for "Not That Anon". It means the person who is now posting is not the person your post was replying to. So, you were replying to someone else; I replied to you; I'm Not That Anon. For autistic people like me who have trouble recognising typing styles, it helps me keep track of who I'm talking to!
>>31933756FHoney on crackersNutella sandwiches(British) biscuits eg bourbonsThey are not very healthy snacks but they are easy to make and they are yummy
>>31933768ohhh that makes a lot of sense, thank you! :)
>>31933768nta but it's not just for autistic people, sometimes it's just more polite.
>>31933756>State gender and 3 favorite snacksM. McVities Mini Cheddars. Salt and vinegar flavour crisps (typically McCoy's ridge cut). Ritter Sport chocolate marzipan.
>>31933756FChanges all the timeRn probably>cheese on thyme crackers>watermelon>yoghurt
>>31933759>I don't even care anymore We care. >I was born to sufferI very much doubt that.
>>31933769Is peanut butter a big thing over there? What is Biscoff?
>>31933756I take it you mean premade store-bought stuff and not just fruits?MPringles (onion variants)Kinder Riegel/BonBons/Schokolade (I feel very guilty bout it and I only have them rarely)Third one is like whatever I am into for a few weeks/months and then it falls off again.
>>31933773You see yoghurt and watermelon as snacks?
>>31933783Well yeah I eat them when I don‘t feel like a full meal but want something to put in my mouth.
>>31933783nta but who wouldn't? It's not a complete meal, I mean.
>>31933716He is masculine, he can fight and he makes money, which I think a lot of young men need an idol like that. But he is also a dumb, evil asshole. The only good thing he did was give some young men a kick in the ass and remind them they need to play the game if they want any kind of freedom in the current financial climate
>>31933776We have peanut butter, though I think americans are more into it than us. I dont know anyone who eats it honestly desu.Biscoff is a type of biscuit. It is kind of hard to explain the taste. Its like cinnamon, brown sugar, and caramel. You can also get biscoff flavoured things like a spread and biscoff flavoured chocolate and icecream!
>>31933756Vienna sausagesLorna doones (had them in the mental ward)And creamy pb with rice krispies (my family's autism treat)
>>31933776>What is Biscoff?NTA. Did you mean "biscuits"? That's a very useful British word. It covers most things that Americans would call "crackers", and also most things that they would call "cookies". Some biscuits have approximate American equivalents - Digestive biscuits, for example, are not a million miles away from Graham's Crackers - but we have a much wider selection here.
>>31933762Hm, sounds like this is a very mental thing for you and you can't really "let go"?Like you go into it already knowing it will be a bit more complicated?Very wild and random idea, but would you want to be restricted so your partner has control over you and you have to let him do his thing, with sucking your clit and everything?
Any high neurotics here?I'm possibly going to lose my job in the next 10 days, I'm waiting for the verdict. I'm trying to tell myself there's nothing I can do so there is no point worrying, but subconsciously I'm stressing to the point of physical symptoms. I'm also feeling depressed over this and I'm really fucking tired of all this bullshit.
>>31933768>For autistic people like meHas nothing to do with autism, but basic decency.
state genderwhy do i have such a strong desire and need to protect her ;_;
>>31933798FBecause she cute.
>>31933771>>31933796Meh, I've heard normies complaining about it. "What? Can't you just TELL who you're talking to?"
>>31933787>>31933786Ok yeah, for me snacks are something... crunchy or unhealthy. lolNot sure how to put it.I really don't eat stuff outside my designated meal times, so that might be why it's unusual to me. Like a watermelon or yoghurt would be the dessert.
>>31933802>normiesIt's either absolute cunts who do that on purpose or yeah the difference in typing is visibly big enough like not capitalizing and no punctuation.
>>31933803Ah, I see. I mean I do have a cookie or some sour gummy bears every now and then but they are not my favorite. I usually skip breakfast and sometimes lunch and then just have a small something instead. I am more of a grazer, eating square meals is not really my thing.
>>31933798Who?
>>31933775I feel like such a horrible person
>>31933756FSalted chipCheeseCan’t think of a third atm
>>31933814>I feel like such a horrible personWhy, anon? What do you think you've done?
>>31933634No, unless I'm lying on my back. It's the only position I can't orgasm from penetrative sex alone.>>31933756FPeanut butter anythingBerriesSardines>>31933776No, Brits aren't about that life.
>>31933802I've actually seen mostly autists here talking about typing "pattern recognition".
Women, when did you touch your first boobs? (besides yours)
>>31933809The irony here is that I just had a bit of salted cashews 30 mins ago and I forgot to put them on my list... even thought salted, roasted nuts are my #1 by far...Maybe I'm just in a low IQ state today.
>>31933814You better have a very good explanation for why you act this way, buddy.
>>31933810gf. literally every male figure in her life has failed her. twists me up.
>>31933821Eh early teen, I have a twin sister so we compared to see if they were also identical hehe
>>31933759>No it's not I'm horribleI don't think that's that bad tho.
>>31933821At birth. I was breastfed.
>>31933825Good suggestion. I should get some macadamias and roast and salt them. Then again that is more of a winter snacc.
>>31933829You.. actually care that other men have been bad to her?
>>31933833>macadamiasI don't like them that much, I can just go cashewscashewscashews every day desu. lol
>>31933841FairI had a phase like that too. I think i‘ve overdone it tho.
>>31933821I was also breastfed.
>>31933839NTA, who wouldn't care bout that with your partner?!
>>31933756F. Brie with honey on toasted bread. Chocolate chip and coffee ice cream. Berries.
>>31933847*gestures wildly around the thread*
>>31933793>you can't really "let go"?>Like you go into it already knowing it will be a bit more complicated?I probably do go into it thinking "this is what I know makes me come, and I know nothing else will". But I don't think there's anything wrong with that - I tell sex partners that I can't come easily and probably won't with them. I often struggle to be in the moment too and actually enjoy the sensations happening, I suppose.>Very wild and random idea, but would you want to be restricted so your partner has control over you and you have to let him do his thingOh, yeah, I'm very into bondage/restraint. I especially like being restrained when I'm also blindfolded so I can't see what's coming. The anticipation is hot. I don't think that will help with the orgasms, I'm afraid, though - haven't had a chance to try because it's surprisingly hard finding riggers.
>>31933817I let him down >>31933828I don't I'm just fucked up>>31933831It feels that way. It feels like this will never pass
>>31933634No.>>31933632Just talk to her?
>>31933852*looks at you flayling your arms*Cute.CUTE!>>31933843I introduced myself to it at my last job since I have never been a breakfast person, but wanted some nuts at least at like 9 or 10am.MANY deez nuts jokes were had!
>>31933829What did they do to her?
>>31933634Sometimes with my first bf, we weren’t a good match. Now it’s very easy
>>31933859>MANY deez nuts jokes were had!Ok that‘s funny. Why are you being cute now?
>>31933839she's such a lovely person, in spite of the shit she's gone through. she deserves so much better. would this not outrage any reasonable man?
>>31933609Yes, if he is already handsome
What is it like dating girls from here?
>>31933872Don‘t
>>31933872Just fine. Nothing out of the ordinary
>>31933853>I often struggle to be in the moment too and actually enjoy the sensations happeningThat's what I meant yeah, at least what it sounded like to me.Very stupid question maybe, but does this change when you had something to drink?I haven't had much bondage experience, but I had a woman once suggest I could bind her to my bed since I have a kind of metal railing at the top. lolWe never got around to it unfortunately.>>31933866Sorry, I can't help it, sometimes I turn into a big papa bear.
>>31933860not my info to share, but it doesn't take much imagination to imagine what abuse at the hands of authority figures/partners looks like, does it?
>>31933875why
>>31933884Do you like having fun? Cause they don‘t.
>>31933888Oh so you're not actually talking from any form of experience whatsoever
>>31933888Some of them do.
>>31933893Ignore my warning at your own risk. All they know is Stosslüften, competitive hiking and sorting recipes for tax filing.
>>31933898You forgot Schupfnudeln.
>>31933894Risk too big, chances too small. >>31933902That would be too much fun.
Girls, if you're that good, why do old wise men tell me not to have anything serious with women?
>>31933869. . . . . .[F]
>>31933352how do I start loving myself? I feel like I am the most uninteresting person on the planet and that's the whole reason I can't have a relationship with anyone I never have something interesting or relevant to say to add to the conversation; I feel ashamed of my hobbies and of the person that I am and i hate talking about myself if someone asks me one quality about me I would probably answer with irony or don't know how to answer at all
>>31933819>No, Brits aren't about that life.You and your fancy almond butter... :)
>>31933898If it helps your posting is pretty up there in terms of boring
>>31933907i don't know what this means
>>31933906Bitterness is not wisdom. Go ask the happy old men.
>>31933906Protip: >they're gay
>>31933912Told you.
>>31933821Sleepover in grade school. We were fascinated by how everyone's were a little different. I don't think it was sexual for most of us.
>>31933920you're trying to scare me off are you, deutchbag?
Just unlocked a new ick lads. A woman breathed in my vicinity. They're stealing our air.
>>31933909FFind people who like the same things you do and talk about it with them You don't have to be a wiz at conversation or anything to worthy of love btw. Care less what other people think also! I found accepting being boring and liking living my slow life helped me love myself more. i got tired of needing to feel like a clown who has to dance for others
>>31933830Serious question. Are they?
>>31933917NTA but this is far too common for that to be the case
>>31933924Feel free to come and see for yourself. Don‘t say I did not warn you.
On my way to America to marry all the 30 + year old women on tik tok whining they're singlejk jk jk>being straightlmao
>>31933925You have to go and suck it out of her mouth again.
>>31933421I would even prefer that. Much better than a manwhore.
women, why are you like this
>>31933935Plus you get to watch her booba inflate when she's breathing in. It's a total win really
>>31933930Think about it.What are you going to do if you don't develop any relations with women?You're gay.
>>31933880>Very stupid question maybe, but does this change when you had something to drink?I've had some pretty good orgasms when drunk. If my tolerance is low, I get some fantastic ones when I'm stoned. Alcohol makes me relax I think and weed heightens my overall sensitivity. Maybe I need to practise mindfulness meditation more seriously or something?>I haven't had much bondage experienceHave you thought about finding an interested date and going to a BDSM munch or something? I planned to go with a guy but chickened out in the end.
>>31933937Instagram bogged
>>31933909I think I am quite boring too. I dont have any actual hobbies really, I just do stuff I like, which is mainly watching films/shows and listening to music. But thats ok, because I enjoy those things and I dont mind if other people think I'm boring. You need to try and focus less on what other people think. If you want to have relevant things to say then you can always look for people who have similar interests to you, I hang out in a lot of online places with people with similar music tastes and it is nice :)
>>31933906They are not wise and you are dumb
Why do I put others feelings before mine? Why do I take so much responsibility for them? I just cause myself double the pain
>>31933937Make up frauding is a hack. Women worsen their skin with make up. Just use nice eye liner, little bit of blush, moisturizer and sun screen.
>>31933929Yep. It was serious research
>>31933939https://youtu.be/OL_bizGOJrI?t=334
>>31933951dunno niggayou ever had a prostate orgasm?
>>31933959I'm a woman
>>31933798Because of her vagina
>>31933632CringeJust ask or don't ask and just do
>>31933856>I let him downHow did you let him down?
>>31933913It means I'm monitoring male responses to your post.
>>31933958>When you piss off the 34H femanon
>>31933937Like what
>>31933906They're old incels.
>No dump truck gf
>>31933966I wasn't able to be what he needs
>cute coworker sends a teasing DM after our boss publicly doted on meI guess at least one part of my life isn't a complete disaster. Sorry for blogging.
>>31933954why is it so common for men to say>just go natural>not that natural though, just use 3 different forms of makeup!
>>31933962>women don't have prostatesThen how can they anally orgasm?
Why am I so drawn to girls who look like this
Femanons, would you marry someone your dad's age?
>>31933951Probably because you have a low opinion of yourself. Either you think you don't deserve to be happy, or you think it's impossible for anyone to like you unless you go out of your way to help them, or both.
>>31933958The fucking ball flap when he gets whipped away sent me.
>>31933985No, I would like to marry someone who is around the same age as me
>>31933976>I wasn't able to be what he needsAnd what did he need you to be?
>>31933944Interesting that the drugs do actually work somewhat as I had thought.I get too silly when I'm drunk...>Maybe I need to practise mindfulness meditation more seriously or something?I don't know anything about meditation, so I can't say anything about it.>BDSM munchI had to google what this is. lolI'm not sure if this is exactly for me or what it'd really look like? Like is this 1on1 or in a group of swingers?You are more knowledgable than I am it seems. The past ca. 5 years have been "sexually dry" for me because I had something weird going on with my ex that I don't want to get into. But I did meet the woman I mentioned before and she unlocked something inside me. I learned that I am really into roleplaying, but also being a sort of master/teacher in bed. She really wanted to be punished and, pardon my French, fucked like a slut. Safewords were important, because her disgusting ex at some point pretended he didn't hear her. Eventhough she was a few years younger, she taught me a lot of what turns me on.
>>31933991How do you keep going for so long with something soooo tedious?Are you hoping this is somebody you know or what?
>>31933980I'm not a man. I've seen women(no not Asian women, that use very little make up)
>>31933985Gross. I want someone my age pls
>>31933985No, for the last time, I don't want to marry a dead guy.
>>31933985No.
>>31933993NTA. A munch just means a group of people with a common interest getting together, having something to eat, and chatting. It's usually a fairly sizeable number - a few dozen, maybe.
>>31933985No, gross. My dad is almost 60.
>>31933995>How do you keep going for so long with something soooo tedious?If she actually tells us what the matter is, we might be able to help.
>>31933995He wants his bias confirmed that all women are disloyal cheating whores. He thinks he knows what she did and it is sucking chads cock when in truth she probably was just too mentally ill to do the whole bubbly tradwife larp.
>>31934005Clearly she does not want to tell you. Let it rest.
is it a betrayal of my friends' trust to cum tribute her vacation pics on Instagram?
>>31934007Oh fuck you, I'm just taking an interest. This is supposed to be an advice forum, remember?
>>31933985Why do men keep thinking we like it when they are much older than ourselves?
>>31934011Asking once is ok. Pestering people that clearly do not want to give you an answer is just cringe.
>>31934010Yea. You're cucked bucked and broken.
>>31934010Yes, don't be a piece of shit.
>>31933984Because she's generically attractive>uhhh bros why am into girls haha>females lol>girl femaloes hahahah lol XD
>>31934018NTA, I think they are genuinely trying to help, not pester. It seems like their intentions are good
>>31933991Perfect, mentally sound
>>31934016They think all girls have daddy issues.
>>31934023Someone can be annoying and rude without bad intentions.
>>31934005She is just venting and doesn't want any help.
>>31934028idk i just think it seems a bit harsh to call them annoying and rude when they are trying to be nice and sweet :(
>>31934019I tried my best but she rejected me. >>31934020How is jerking off to her pics hurting her?
>>31934031Life is cruel.
>>31934031Intentions don't mean nearly as much as actions.
Anon cums inside you, you're contentBut waitHe starts to finger youYou're kind of alreayd done, but okayHours pass, he's still at itYou want to go home"No, if I don't make you cum, I'm not a man!"Finally after 3 days of agonizing torture, he gives up and you go to leave, hobbling out of the doorHe blocks the exit and hands you a bowl"You have to eat all the eggs"
>>31934032>hurting her>immediately making a loaded question for something you already did and is questionableNTA, but you sound disgusting.
You know. what. That was fucked up what happened and I don't know why I'm not more angry. I'm not going to press charges or anything but
>>31934039>you sound disgusting¯\_(ツ)_/¯Seriously though, it's a victimless crime
>>31934046I hope she finds out and everybody brands you as the creep you are.
i dont think women understand how bewitching their naked bodies are
>>31934046You're objectifying her.
>>31934044What happened?
>>31934032>How is jerking off to her pics hurting her?>is it a betrayal of my friends' trust to cum tribute her vacation pics on Instagram?You talk of honor, but you actually don't have any. It hurts her because you lie to her.I dare you. Go tell her what you did right now and how fast you'd be blocked.
>>31934051Is it, really? It's kinda saggy and stuff.
>>31933968why? i don't think you'll find too many responses to my posts, at least that's how it normally goes. are you hoping to see more guys reflect my sentiment? i don't think it's very uncommon, but unfortunately damaged people seem to be magnetized to those that damage, so i don't think the actual ratios matter. i'm also older and have a raging baby fever, so maybe my feelings are an expression of that.
>>31934046You're doing something behind her back that you know she would not be comfortable with. It's weird and creepy and not cool
>>31934044>>31934051>>31933934>>31933925What is this cringe drama posting
>>31934025>Perfect, mentally soundWell, literally no one is perfect, anon. If he genuinely needed you to be perfect, that's his fault for being thoroughly unreasonable, not your fault for failing to match up to standards that no one could match up to. There's no point in beating yourself up for not being perfect. As for "mentally sound", well... I must admit that I have been involved with several women who had significant mental health issues; a few had actually been diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder; and, on the whole, that's not an experience I'm eager to repeat. However, there was one exception: a girl who had been diagnosed Borderline, but spent years in therapy, and worked very hard, and she was able to function pretty much normally, and she was lovely. And two of the most enjoyable first dates I've ever had were with a woman who was bipolar (and hypomanic at the time) and with a woman who had untreated schizophrenia. The latter, in particular, was one of the funniest people I've ever met - incredibly quick-witted.Okay, I'm rambling a bit! I don't know what your problems are; but I do know that no one *chooses* to be mentally ill. If your problems were too much for him to handle, then that's sad, but it's not something that it makes sense to blame yourself for. You didn't choose that. You didn't make it happen. It's not your fault. And, again, I don't know what your problems are, but many kinds of mental illness are a lot more treatable these days than they used to be even ten or fifteen years ago. So there *is* hope, especially if you can find a decent therapist or psychiatrist to help you. Do you want to tell us what kinds of problems you have? Maybe we can help.
>>31934055everything about women's bodies is made to make us crazy. the skin, the curves, the shapes, how it feels to grab. a bit of sag is perfect too because you can pinch it
My friends were having threeways during high school and I'm 25 and have never had a boyfriend. I will never be normal I don't have the experience in life to be normal and I don't have the balls to take risks and chances like that. How should I kill myself? Euthanasia?
>>31934070nta. thats a very sweet and caring response, you seem nice :)
>>31934050Every male is a creep. >>31934052Every male objectifies his female friends. >>31934054>>31934059How is it lying? She knows I have a thing for her. She continues to be my friend despite that. Is it really my fault that she didn't think I would coom to her publicly posted bikini pics?
>>31934081You just keep digging your grave even deeper.
>>31933352I'm been really struggling this past week and I lost my bullet pencil :(
>>31934079I'm old-fashioned. I remember what /adv used to be like before the incels and /polfags escaped from their confinement boards and drowned it. It was nicer. People actually helped, or tried to. I miss that.
>>31934088He‘s doing it on purpose. He thinks it is a funny way to piss you off.
>>31934081I am a girl. I have continued to be friends with people who have had a thing for me. It never crossed my mind that they would do something like that because they seemed normal and not like creepy weirdos. Maybe your friend thinks you're better than that
>>31934046>it's a victimless crimeIt won't be when she finds out, and she will, even if it's years later.
>>31934081>Every male is a creep.>Every male objectifies his female friends.Your standards are way too high for people.
>>31933358I support petticoat hegemony
>>31934090I am a noob here, but I like it because of people like you. Although there are weird edgelords, there are also a lot of actually nice people like you who try and offer genuinely good advice. thank you for your service, you make /adv/ a much better place! :)
>>31934079Er, and also, thanks! :) (It just struck me my last reply sounded rather unappreciative!)
>>31934074Your friends are degenerates. You'll find a good bf in the future
>>31933985I'll provide an alternative answer - yes, I would. I'm seeing someone my father's age at the moment. Why do you ask?
>>31934104Huh. Everyone's being nice to me.('scuse me, something in my eye)
>>31934074So, what sort of risks would you be taking if you tried to get yourself a boyfriend? Are you worried about your safety, or about getting hurt emotionally? Or something else?
>>31934089Im sorry anon, I hope you find it and things get better for you <3
>>31934125>I hope you find itChances are I dropped it in a parking lot so I'll probably never get it back, but I appreciate the well wishes. I guess it means that I just have to get better.
uuuuu~hey guys~made you read this post~im a guy lol~fucking rekt~
>>31934127>im a guy lolThat' won't save you from me fucking you in the ass sadly.
>>31934126aw that sucks. was it important for sentimental reasons or are you able to get another one easily?
>>31933756MBeef jerkyPop cornersFuego Takis Waves (RIP, just not the same without you)
Girls, do you think 15 is a reasonable age of consent?
>>31934108I don't attract anyone so I can't visualize that future>>31934124Both of those. I wish I had made some mistakes earlier to learn from but now they would be more damaging and probably just traumatize me more
>>31934132No, it should be higher than that
>>31934129It wasn't sentimental but I am autistic, the kind of autistic that people don't pick up on until they get to know me and realize somethings off, and even then they think I'm weird or quirky.I'm just upset that I lost it and I have to pay more money to get another one, I consider it a moral failure on my part and it makes me feel like my life is chaotic and outside of my control and it stresses me out.
How many friends am I supposed to have?
>>31933798MIt is your God-given duty, it's in your blood
This threads going wellI hope I don't ruin it with my bad attitude
>>31934136>>It wasn't sentimental but I am autistic, the kind of autistic that people don't pick up on until they get to know me and realize somethings off, and even then they think I'm weird or quirky.autist bros the normie autists are laughing at us
Why do girls keep their exs clothing?
>>31934136I'm sorry man. Everyone makes mistakes like that, its definitely not a moral failure. I'm sorry you're stressed out though, try and do something chill and nice when you get a chance like watch a movie. It sounds like you've earned some relaxation time!
>>31934088What was it that triggered you this time?>>31934092You are naive. >>31934096How she gonna find out? The thread has already 404'd off of /gif/ and there are no long-term image backups on archive sites anymore thanks to the feds >>31934099Did you mean to say too low?
>>31934147I still have my exes clothing because I dont have a working car so it is not very easy to drop it at their house. Also I kind of never want to talk to them again so I've been putting off giving it back to them
>>31934147I genuinely really liked the hoodie. You get attached to a functional piece of clothing too.
I read somewhere that the risk in birth defects is pretty bad at 14-15, so I think I disagree for that alone, but at the same time more and more people become parents in their early to late thirties or more, instead of getting the early worm by having kids 18 to 28.So really if people can't have kids at the right age and modern society pushes them to have them late really why bother with any sort of logical age of consent?Until they make having kids at 18 easy, they might as well just repeal the age of consent entirely.
>snacksI am having utterly delicious grapes right now.Seedless, crunchy, sweet, juicy, perfect.
>>31933923omg, girls comparing boobs at sleepovers is real??
>>31934153Oh I forgot to mention that ironically despite birth defects being a gamble at 15, at 30 the chances of them are EVEN HIGHER.So again, if health concerns are the issue, but child birth is not incentivized then really the aoc shouldn't exist.
What's the best way to handle a rejection from someone you know?Like, you make a move on your friend and they're like, "nooo sorry"What's the comeback? How to damage control?Always good to have a plan
>>31934157Maternal mortality is higher when the mother is under 20 years old. Data from women in the West, too, so it's not a healthcare thing.
it was penis inspection today at work and i didnt wear my cool transformers underwear and now all the other guys are mocking me why didnt she tell me it was gonna be today?
>>31934157My parents had me in their 30s and I'm just a bag of birth defectsAlways resented them for it
>>31934142I actually prefer autists, even autists who are lower functioning because of how consistent they are and how they are somewhat on the same page as I am emotionally and thought wise compared to normal people. They at least get more of where I'm coming from emotionally and I really, really, really appreciate the protocols and boundaries they are consistent in enforcing.A lot of my anxiety around socializing is self-policing my emotions due to normies violating my boundaries or saying one thing but then doing another. I know they don't mean it, but when I complain about it they don't give a shit. At least autists do and they treat it with the gravity it deserves because they are just as retarded as I am.>>31934148I have trees to cut down and crops to plant, I just realized that I lost it this morning and I decided to take until 12PM to mentally reset before starting work. Thanks though, I appreciate you being nice to me!
>>31934166same but i love my parents :)
>>31934159Post the stats because the under 20 number I believe is equal to or under that of over 30.>>31934166Kek yup.
>>31934166>>31934169If it makes you feel better my parents had me at 20 and I'm still a bag of defects and mental issues so
>>31934167>autistic farmer loses pencil>everyone starvesI'm all of a sudden more afraid of the world...
Its interesting seeing how other races try to flirt. I was out with my bro who's indian and he'd just shamelessly love bomb every woman he could, right next to ones he just failed with, with the same compliments and promises every time. It didn't work, but he seemed to genuinely not get why.
>>31934158I’ve only rejected friends, sadly they ruined our friendship so I don’t see them anymore. Can you maybe try to hit on someone else?
>>31934170>Post the stats because the under 20 number I believe is equal to or under that of over 30.That's correct. But if maternal mortality and birth defects are higher at that age, and most Western countries have mandatory education until age 18 nowadays, what benefit is there of lowering the age of consent on the grounds of a healthier population? The health outcome of children is also significantly tied to the education level of the mother; having a child at 15 undoubtedly has implications on educational attainment, ability to provide for the child, and ultimately health outcomes of that child.
>>31934177India doesn't have a flirting culture because of years of arranged marriage so it makes sense that they don't get how it works.
It's opkay to be selfish soemtimees Right it's okay? Am I going to burn in hell for this? It's my life I have to put myself first but oh my god I feel worse than satan
>>31934182what did you do?
>>31934177Saw an autistic Indian guy rip a flower out of someone's garden and give it to the gas station cashier. It's just in their blood.No disrespect though, shoot your shot.
>>31934182Not taking care of yourself is selfish for by not taking care of yourself you deprive others of your God given gifts and talents and instead of serving other's selflessly you selfishly let yourself break down and become useless to serve yourself.
>>31934184Did he tell her to show vagene?
>>31934178I've literally tried dating other people, but I can't stop thinking of her.Nothing is going to stop me from trying. I think I might have a chance too, but always good to have a back up plan
>>31934157>I forgot to mention that ironically despite birth defects being a gamble at 15, at 30 the chances of them are EVEN HIGHER.That's not true, the chances get higher past 35.
>>31934189I couldn't hear them from the other side of the store but she didn't seem shaken up so I assume he was respectful
>>31934179Yes but if we are actively pushing older women into endangering children and themselves indirectly by having kids over 30 why bother with the logical arguments when the capitalist system of contradiction we live under ensures that it's all fucked anyway, why contain it? If anything the growth in cases that might happen from pregnancies under 20 would cause acceleration where people will finally get even more awareness to these facts. You are also making the argument that under 18 pregnancies would rise from this when birth control is so readily available that is unlikely to be the case but my point is that if we already do this and are fucking our nations over in doing so, then why stop there?It's cool.
>coworker lifts her shirt and adjusts her jeans in front of me, revealing her delicious bubble buttmy life is like a really shitty ecchi anime
>>31934158Say OK, move on. Never look back. Especially if he/she gets jealous when you find someone else.It's their loss.
>>31934191nta. I have rejected friends before and we stayed friends. They were normal and respectful about the rejection, so I didnt think it was a very weird or awkward interaction
>>31934132I'd be cool with 15 as age of consent but until 18 you can fuck people up to 2 years older. Not at 15 you can make porn and fuck whoever.
>>31934192Yeah but coincide that with maternal mortality and well, 35 isn't looking good either.>First, the risk of mortality associated with adolescent pregnancy is only about a third higher than that of women aged 20–24 years (260 [uncertainty 100–410] vs 190 [120–260] maternal deaths per 100000 livebirths), and therefore not as high as previously believed. Second, women older than 35 years had the highest maternal mortality ratios, and although this pattern has been described before, no previous study has reported such convincing data from such a wide range of countries.https://www.thelancet.com/journals/langlo/article/PIIS2214-109X(14)70007-5/fulltext
Been seeing this girl and it feels like she is slipping me normal-pills. I like being normal.
>>31934197Elaborate.Do you think she might have done this on purpose?
>>31934026You do have daddy issues though
How do I tell my professors and advisors I'm already struggling and am on the verge of a nervous breakdown?
>>31934201Your initial argument was about 30 year olds, not 35 year olds. I was pointing out 30 year olds have healthier babies than 20 and younger.And still, we're talking about fairly low numbers - even women in their late 30s have a 99% chance of having healthy babies. In terms of mortality, yeah the risks increase as you get older. And still, 99.9% of mothers are healthy.
>>31934211"I'm already struggling and I am on the verge of a mental breakdown."
>>31934215I think women in their 30s are way more likely to have children with developmental issues like ADHD and Autism.
>>31934211If female: seek counseling, therapy, support programs, tutoring, etc.If male: drop out and become a statistic
>>31933352I know this is a little off-topic but if you are reading and taking notes in a book how long should that take? 2 or 3 hours? Maybe I should just ditch taking notes while I read because it takes me forever to read a chapter because of it.
>>31934115What happens when he's retirement age and still just 40?
>>31934219What you think doesn't matter.
State gender and:What do you want to see in the upcoming Sex DLC?
>>31934225It does when I'm actually correct.
>>31934215Alright but the age just last year increased to 31 last year. And that's the average.Like >>31934219 said as most of us have come to know women who are 30+ have just overall higher chances of affecting the child too.>>31934222If this thread has told us anything women are likely to become statistics as well, as well as their kids.However so are men.Fun fact: Women over 50% rapidly become 50% single because men over 50 all divorce or die by that age.Isn't that great?
>>31934224Why would that be a problem? My biggest worry, and I've cried thinking about this before, is if he were to pass away. It would be like losing a father.
>>31934219It's the same - women in their teens and past 40 are slightly more likely to have children with autism. The link between maternal age and autism is weak, especially compared to paternal age. Men past 40 are far more likely to have kids with autism (this is also correlated to genetic factors and the fact that autistic men are more likely to have kids later in life).
>>31934204>Do you think she might have done this on purpose?No, although sometimes I wonder if she does intentionally tantalize me since she knows I feel some way about her (I lowkey confessed some months ago). In this case, she was talking to me and another female coworker and she was standing to the side so I got the full view.
>>31934237I thought it would be like losing a husband but whateverIs your dad okay with this? Do you live together? Do you plan on having kids?
>>31934238>chance of having a child with developmental issues with a mother in her 20s.0.2% or 1 in 500>30s0.4% or 1 in 250>40s1% or 1 in 100And yeah, if the father is vastly, vastly older than the women it also heightens the risk.
I'm bitter I missed out on my ho phaset. 25 M
>>31934238>and the fact that autistic men are more likely to have kids later in lifeWell no one is having kids now so we don't have to worry about that. We are rapidly being priced out of owning homes and families that I wouldn't be suprised if we ended up in some sort of version of neo-feudalism.
>>31934244That's the risk for Down syndrome, not autism.
>>31934252average for all developmental issues.
>>31934242>Is your dad okay with this?He doesn't know.>Do you live together?No. I'm actually sort-of the other woman in this scenario, but she knows about me. So I suppose it's not that consequential really. >Do you plan on having kids?No.
>confessing your feelings to a taken womanIs this a retard move or secretly high IQ?
Girls, how do you like to be kissed?
>>31934263Really well. And for really long. Hours and hours.
>>31934258Literally just wait and hope that they eventually break up. Then you strike
>>31933352Do women know how much they can bring to a mans life? I'm convinced this is why society is failing. Basic needs not met like having a women by your side because you both need each other.
>>31933352>be me>23F>Very religious community; family think I'm a virgin>Actually I fucked 74 guys, starting when I was 14>Meet real-life Chad, also religious, same community>Go on some dates>Don't fuck>Drop hints about marriage>He's all "no hymen no diamond">Tell him I'm a virgin >He's like "I'm serious, actual hymen." (Doesn't realise hymens are a meme).>ponder.gif>Approach gynecologist I fucked when I was 16 and he was 23>Ask about hymen reconstruction surgery>"It's not ethical">Blow him>wellokaythen.jpg>Have nice little operation>Get engaged >Chad's relatives actually have me examined (really!)>Virginity confirmed>Marry Chad>Bleed like anything on my wedding night>He's delighted>Two weeks later>Approach old female friend husband doesn't know about>conspiracy.png>Friend "accidentally" meets him in a bar after work>Gets him almost-passing-out drunk>Takes him up to her room >Takes photos of her sucking his dick>Give photos to my lawyer>Divorce.jpg>Generous alimony>Also sue him for taking my virginity and making me unmarryable in my community>Generous out-of-court settlement for that too >Now 24 and financially independent for lifeMen, any thoughts?
>>31934271Assuredly a LARP, but women like this do exist and I hate you
>>31934271I do not believe this is true
I was half a virgin when I met him
>>31930934>CookingYeaah same haha. I just follow a recipe for special occasions or when I'm craving something specific lol.>Why did tou stop (drawing)?It was a mix of "I drew to vent my feelings and mow that I'm able to process them on my own better I'm not as inclined to express them creatively" and "I wound up putting too much pressure on myself to constantly draw because at some point I wanted to make a career our of it and burned out".I don't mind showing it to you but I'm not sure how to do it without doxing myself here. I mostly drew anime and was super into making mangas.>Maybe our teenage selfs would have hang out together Haha maybe. What were you like in HS exactly?I hope you had a good night's rest. Work here was a bit hectic so I was only able to reply now.>PupperWhy pupper? Why not kitty? Jk>>31933057>That's why ppl who are really insecure shouldn't be in a relationship.I agree, to some extent. If a person is too unaware of their bad coping mechanisms or isn't making a conscious effort to change their ways and feels too emotionally fragile, then yeah, it's ot a good idea. However the problem isn't gonna disappear unless you dive into it with intention and self trust.>We have the same sayingHaha cool! I can try pronunciating but I don't guarantee I said it right lol.>As I said in the other replyAah this is what I wanted to ask, I was wondering if there were two anons or our convo got broken in two. Bailey's one of my favs btw>No matter how hard you try, your partner will never find you perfect Yeah, that's what I'm struggling to accept..Hoping everything turns out well for your father! If it helps, you could check on intermittent fasting and avoiding carbs for your father to do (provided a doctor's monitoring ofc). There seems to be some solid data in those habits to help "starve off" cancer effectively.
>>31934283Define "half"
>>31934132>Girls, do you think 15 is a reasonable age of consent?I kind of wish they'd put the "half your age plus 7 years" thing into law. I think most 15yo girls are capable of deciding if they want to fuck their 16yo bf, but I'm not sure they're capable of handling a guy in his 40s.
>>31934271Never before have I seen such obvious male hands
>>31934271NAM, but this is the worst Bollywood soap opera plot I've ever seen.
>>3193413218 is literally a fine age of consent, with adjustments for being close in age. Grown adults should not be fucking people who haven't yet graduated high school. Only pedos disagree.>>31934287This
>>31934271MBased.If he was retarded enough to get drunk by a girl he met at a bar then let her suck his dick he deserves divorce rape. Also as an incel fuck Chad lol. Good job.Rare foid W.
>>31934269Yes, and in contrast, do you know how little men bring to women's lives? We aren't in this world to make your lives easier to the detriment of our own.
>>31934286Only half penis
>>31934133Well, anyone getting involved with anyone risks getting emotionally hurt. Most people decide it's worth the risk. I think it is. I think you would decide it was too if you tried. Physical safety is an issue, but there are certain precautions you can take to keep yourself safe on dates, and certain danger signs to look out for later. We can brief you on that if you'd like! I'm fond of mentioning a girl I used to know who went on her first ever date at the age of 40; last I heard she was happily married. I don't necessarily recommend waiting that long(!) but it is definitely *not* too late for you, if you want to give it a go.
>cut up bananas>add a table spoon of nutella>eatPerfect girl(boy)dessert.
>>31934304So small dick? Based. As long as you haven‘t take 7 inch dick you are still a virgin.
>>31934183Told someone I can't be friends with them>>31934185I have no gifts or talents but thank you
>>31934137>How many friends am I supposed to have?150.
>>31934282>>31934278>>31934292>>31934295>No this can't be real because it just can't ok!>t. WIDF, ugly femcel who couldn't manipulate a doctor into free surgery with sex, and a bitter pickme Becky.
>>31934306Except the Nutella does not stick to the bananas.
>>31934268You don't think it's advantageous to let her know your feelings before then so that she might already have you in mind when/if her current relationship sours?
>>31934317Even more cringe moid hands
>>31934271Cute LARP, but I'd say both characters are rather retarded, him for being so hung up on virginity and her for, well, being a massive liar and probably a sociopath.
>>31934318It does well enough.
>>31934317Oh I could and I don‘t doubt this has happened before but the whole thing is so male brained it belongs in a museum.
>>31933914>Bitterness is not wisdom. Go ask the happy old men.Those don't exist.>>31933917>>31933974They are married and have kids (well, their kids are adults as well).
>>31934324I never claimed to be a foid retard.>>31934327>no see the guy who cheated isn't bad for cheating he is bad for caring about virginity!Somehow the "real" women are worse than the "fictional" ones. (Ywnbaw she is.)
>>31934333>never claimedYou asked men and this is atoga. Get fucked idiot.
There is nothing wrong with paternity tests and they are not a violation of trust. If anything, they enforce the trust between a man and a woman:You are trusted to a be lying child, the same way we are trusted to carry your dumpster fire of a life through the flames
>>31934335That isn't me you fucking retard I am defending her and her story.
>>31934319If you're a man in her life and have a close relationship, she should already have you in the back of her mind as an option
>>31934340Kys
>>31934341Some women are retarded and don't realize you feel some way about them unless you take action to make it known.
>>31934339you had me in the first half
>>31934345You first tranny freak.
>take too long to respond>get ghosted>respond too quickly>get ghostedHow do I play this game?
>>31934351respond at the correct time. Duh.
>>31934339They're a violation of trust if done behind someone's back. The implication when you ask for one is that you believe the woman has cheated, which can be insulting.
>>31934351Have you tried being someone that does not need to play the game because you are the prize?
>>31934363lmaoo ty for this
>>31934339Just find some health issue in your family tree and pretend you want to screen for that, retard.
I want to date an honest guy but for that I'll lie if I have to. Ironic isn't?
>>31934363>5'6 manletThis claw game is rigged and players always go for the bigger toys
>>31934271Very entertaining. Worth pointing out to some of the sceptics that hymen reconstruction surgery is an actual thing. It was very popular among young British Asian girls (south Asian, that is) a few decades ago.
>>31934333>the guy who cheatedDid you not read?He had almost passed out from being intoxicated.That's like saying a woman being nearly pass out drunk can not be raped.
>>31934377Men are so fucking uninventive it is appalling. Just ask your parents to gift the baby one of those extensive dna test kits like the circleDNA thing for the whole family to screen for any allergies and all that. Make it a wholesome thing where they say they just want this as a cute memory and to make sure the baby gets the best health care possible, since it also shows shit like food sensitivity and so on. Dear god how did you even make it to adulthood?
>>319343881. Men cannot be raped.2. Alcohol even at high levels does not alter desires.Women like you are far worse than the women in that story because you change your minds after consenting. Fuck off.
>>31934382tragic for whatever hapless male wanders into your influence.
>>31934396Nta.>pay $500 for a wholesome test to save my ego tee hee
>Be me white female>Interested in scholarships>Advisors send some out>They're all for Latinos/POCWell
>>31934405Poor people should not have kids to begin with. Get fucked.
>>31934406You voted for this.
>>31934406Moid handsWhat bait is next? Are you going trough your silly little list again?
>>31934407Your money management skills will kill your family but go off.
>>31934413If you get into troubles over 600 bucks i pity you and your future kids. Also, which part of ask your parents is hard fir you to understand brainlet?
>>31934347Women, is this true?
Imagine ever staying in a relationship where the idea of your SO having somebody else's child was even a remote possibility. Just be single at that point.
>>31934423No
>>31934388I don't think we should take that story too seriously, but if it actually had happened, the fact that Chad spent several hours getting drunk in a bar with a woman he'd just met for the first time, two weeks after his wedding, isn't a good look for him.
>>31934416>firAh so that explains it. Rich people didn't become rich through inheritance or crime, they also saved every single penny they could and reinvested it.You choosing to splurge 600 on a far cheaper test at a 1233.333% increase.You are going to bankrupt your family. Stupid fucking bimbo.
>>31934405You think a normal paternity test is free or what?
>talking with zoomer gamer girl I work with>she starts tying her hair up as she's saying something >lose focus on what she's saying because I'm mesmerized by her hair>she suddenly mentions something about her scrunchie >snap out of it>she's looking at me knowingly, like I've been caught checking her out>compliment the color of her scrunchie >gtfo of theredid I fuck up?
>>31934428On average it is not 600 dollars that is for certain.
>>31934408I'm 20 so not really>>31934412What, women can't be racist? We can't havea little fuuun?
>>31934430>didnt pop out your dick and order her to suck your massive engorged penis and then smell her buttuhh yeah. you fucked up dude.
>>31934424Dw, anon will stay single forever wether he wants to or not.>can‘t even afford 600 bucks>thinks paying that amount will ruin you financially>too retarded to understand that divorce or raising another mans child will cost a lot more than that>can‘t come up with an idea to get someone else to pay for it>can‘t use google to look for a cheaper serviceHis problem solving skills are non existent. I bet his mom still does his laundry lmao.
>>31934430Expect to be called to HR soon
>>31934427And that‘s a good thing.
>>31934430No, that can be cute and flattering.
>>31934430Stop obviously imagining your co-worker blowing you. At least be more subtle about it.
>>31934199Nta I can’t do that. I don’t want to introduce my future bf/gf to my friends whom over half tried to hit on me, ask me out, confesses. It’s not fair to them, or me.
>>31934434>haha you won't have to deal with dying to keep our kids from starving after I fuck up our financesIs this meant to be an insult?Thank God I am going to stay single if women like you are my only option.This is like a fox eith sour grapes except the sour grapes are laughing that he won't die from food poisoning.
>>31934451>he thinks I would have kids with a broke manLolLmao even
>>31934442Ah, that's why it was so hot. Ngl while I'm not overtly attracted to this girl, I've had at least two dreams of her molesting me (like grabbing my cock and making fun of it or kissing me on the cheek to embarrass me)why brain why
>>31934454Staying as broke as I can (at least in my public image) to make sure I avoid women like you. Thanks for the heads up.
Why are guys that travel at fast speeds considered hot? Motorcyclers, snowboarders, surfers, skateboarders? They aren't making anything they are basically manchildren. They are worse than manchildren because they risk injury and wasting resources for no reason.
>>31934464Have fun!
>>31934431It actually is if you want it to be admissible in court.
Are people here ok with fucking their friends without dating them?
>>31934467Because unlike the anxious moralfags they actually have fun being alive.
>>31934470Doesn't need to be I'm just leaving on that day. No legal proceedings, nothing, I fake my death a week later.
>>31934473I would fuck your mom but I would never date her.
>>31934475I have fun being alive by playing video games, and people look down on me. Zane fucking scoots around on some oiled wood and breaks his arm like an idiot, and hes sexy? I don't get it.
>>31934469I will thanks, I've always been a cheap man but now that I know it is integral to my future childrens survival I will be even more proudly poor in outward appearance.This is a good thread. Women don't give direct advice but speaking to them helps me learn how I should live my life to avoid the bad ones like you.
>>31934482Having the equipment to speed irl is expensive and it shows basic energy and skills to gather the necessary things to do an activity.
>>31934483>my future childrenOh poor sweet little anon
>>31934473F. I'm okay with that. But I'm a bit weird, I suppose. I've definitely imagined myself fucking all of my friends, and would try given the chance.
>>31934492Hypothetical of course ;^). If all women really are as much of a bunch of fragile ego bimbos as much as you are then of course I'll have to die alone. That's a good thing for me but pretty bad for all men who do marry and their kids. RIP them lol!
>>31934489and yet bowlers don't get thirsted on. It's almost like women reward behavior thats not good for society as a whole.
How do people date with the emotional turmoil of dating? It is grating my soul down into nothing. Either unreciprocated feelings or rejection. And I can't date more than one man at a time. Is there any hope for me?
>>31934500>takes himself out of the gene poolThank you for your service kind anon.
>>31934505>how do people dateI meant ****how do people deal
>>31934502Ah this shite bait. Are you not tired of it yet? Since when is a bowling ball you can rent the same level of investment as getting a motorcycle? Use your brain idiot.
>>31934506Again if the average woman is a lot like you then the gene pool is doomed regardless of whether or not I contribute. Humanity will likely be dead in 400 years thanks to you. Idiocracy tenfold.
>>31934505I've given up, too. You firstly have to separate the wheat from a whole load of chaff. Then a whole lot of heartache. I'm basically trying to harden my heart and get oxytocin hits wherever I can until a miracle happens.
>>31934506>>31934518Maybe you two should get a room
>>31934512It's not bait. Women are attracted to traits that don't help us as a species. at all. thats why tyrone has 5 baby mommas and the guys here have never had a gf
Sent an email saying that I'm not interested in pursuing employment for them anymore, why do they keep calling me?
>>31934528Please god no she would only accept a $500 a night Ritz room according to her posts.
>>31934467>Motorcyclersa fast bike doesn't get you pussyask me how I know
>>31934467>for no reasonThere is a reason, going fast is fuckin rad
>>31934543TAKE THE FUCKING JOB, ANON
>>31934573Tell that to the family of 4 that was hit by a young man speeding on his motorcycle
>>31934573
>>31934473>Are people here ok with fucking their friends without dating them?Honestly, once you subtract sex, kissing, etc. the practical differences between being friends and the early stages of dating are not that great. In either case you go out to dinner, go to movies, stay in and watch Netflix and order pizza, etc. So I'm not sure it exactly is "without dating".
>>31934576Nta.Hahahah nigga how do you let 4 of your family members get hit by a motorcycle shit is barely able to hit one.Honestly sounds Darwinian. They might have deserved it.
>>31934576fortunately they're still alive if they were in a car made in the last 30 years
>>31934581Based and true
>>31934581when you're moving at high speeds, it doesn't take much to send you careening out of control, even a small motorcycle.
I have two questions for femanonsWhy is the thread dead?Should I just fap?
>>31934593I mean even then only 2 people out of 5 would have died. How the fuck does 4?!
>the only thing this girl at work talks to me about is how much she fucking hates this other guy in our officeI wish she would talk to me about lunch or sports or something else...
>>31934601IdkNo
>>31934605Idk I made it up, but i'm sure things like that have happened.
>>31934616>I made it up Based.
Femanons, would you be interested in selling your used panties?
>>31934601>Why is the thread dead?It has been nothing but incel spewings lately, who wants that. >Should I just fap?Sure
>>31934638Yes. How soiled do men like them, usually? I know footfags like really mucky socks. Is it the same for panty-sniffers?
>>31934638Nah, way too much effort for the pay off.
>>31934601>Should I just fap?Yes, but not to porn. Use your imagination.
>>31934649I don't see any incel spewings.
>>31934663That means it is you that is spewing it.
>>31934667I'm not an incel. Sounds like you just say that to people you disagree wtih.
>>31934668Ok incel.
>>31934668Yes. Problem?
>>31934638Fuck no, it's unhygienic and it could lead you to end up in the hospital. What in the actual fuck is wrong with you, stop bait/shit/troll posting. It's not funny.
>>31934406>Be me white female>>Interested in scholarships>>Advisors send some out>>They're all for Latinos/POC>WellYou can always say you identify with a specific culture and or your anglo Saxon culture whatever they are.
>>31934688>it could lead you to end up in the hospitalNo it couldn't, unless you have aids or something.
>>31934649>women are incapable of disputing incel rhetoric so they just get mad and leave even in places that are specifically for these kinds of discussionstypical. You know we literally don't want anything from you other than to validate the fact that no woman will ever love us. We aren't even asking for sex or dates or affection and you still won't even give us the tiny thing we want.
>>31934698It has nothing to do with that, you are a moron.
>>31934681>be immature and write off someones opinion as "incel spewing" because you don't agree with ittheres the problem with it. maybe when you grow up you can listen to slightly critical opinions about your gender without throwing a hissy fit.
>>31934710Why are you so angry? Dirty panties ain't your cup of tea, whatever.
>>31934716You're disgusting
>>31934710How do you expect men here to know anything about vaginas?
>>31934706>>31934711I come here to shitpost and have fun. If you are incapable of that I will just find another place to do that.
>>31934718Not really. It's natural for a man to like a woman's musk.
Are there varying degrees of footfaggotry? I think I might have contracted it but I don't want to cook her socks in a soup or something gross like that. I just want to tickle them.
Nta.How the fuck would dirty panties send me to the hospital?
Does guy dirty talk sound as cringe to women as it does when I hear it in porn?
>>31934730Have you had an attraction to them in the past?
>>31934732Christ don't remind me I have said some really cringe things in the heat of sex before. You cannot convince me women like any of it.
>>31934730Yes, personally I just like touching them and wouldn't ever willingly put my mouth near them, but I'm definitely a footfag.
>>31934736Nah but I met this woman who is a complete footslut and now I can't help noticing when women have nice feet.
>>31934746What is a footslut
>>31934753Woman that is always barefoot and flaunts her feet.
>>31934730Maybe you have a tickling fetish rather than a foot fetish?
>>31934732Very rarely, men are great at dirty talk. I'm lucky to be fucking one of them. Porn dirty talk is cringe, and men who replicate porn-talk are the worst.
>>31934732>Does guy dirty talk sound as cringe to women as it does when I hear it in porn?Depends if he's any good at it. Most men aren't, it's true, but there are exceptions.
>>31934763How does one do dirty talk anyway?>Muh virgin cluessness
>>31934761>Very rarely, men are great at dirty talk. I'm lucky to be fucking one of them.Details?
>>31933936Wrong.Us mansluts get your pussy wet :)
>>31934777>How does one do dirty talk anyway?Well, turn the question around: what would drive you crazy if a girl said it to you while you were fucking, and why? What do you *fantasise* about her saying?
>>31933970She doesn't post anymore because you scared her off by being a perv
>>31933984Someone made a Neurojak?
>>31934805Fuck me Daddy, you own my pussy!
>>31933990What's your max age difference?
>>31934814I would get up and leave instantly if a woman said this to me unless she's my actual daughter.
>>31934777you don't learn how to do dirty talk, you learn how to do dirty talk for your particular partner. this is a theme that will show up often regarding sex, and really relationships generallyt. 28 yr. old virgin actively learning the ropes with his girl
>>31934805Oooh Massa I'm gonna cum!
>>31934332>They are married and have kids (well, their kids are adults as well).They're gay and they wish they never larped straight because now they look like pussies.
>>31934805NTA but also daddy stuff gets me diamonds
>meet up with woman I work with at a party>she rejects my advances>whatever >weeks later>asks me if I have any contacts with company I used to work for>says she's looking for a new job because she can't get by on current paycheck >then says "if only I had a significant other :("is this her retarded way of propositioning me or is she just being daft?
>>31934841Probably the latter
>>31934805I'm a grill, dawg.You sure know a thing or two, dontcha puppy? C'mon, show me how you like it. That's it...good booy~Like this?
>>31934841she's just retarded anon, and even if she's not the last thing you want is a woman who only wants you around when she's poor.
>>31934814I don't know if that was an actual reply, but let's pretend it is! So, those are your fetishes (I'm counting two!). What you'll need to do is figure out what fetishes your girl has and play to them, in the same way as you'd like her to play to yours. Or, as this anon puts it: >>31934820>you don't learn how to do dirty talk, you learn how to do dirty talk for your particular partner.Well said. If you really have no idea where to start, then most women are insecure about how attractive they are, and most women really want you to be having an amazing time with them. So that's a good starting point: tell her how hot she is and how amazing what she's doing feels.
>>31934849Well, that turned me on.
>>31934805I don't think "cum for Mommy" is gonna have the same impact on her
>>31934601>Why is the thread dead?I went to sleep. I'm back.>Should I just fap?No fap unless you say nice things to femanons.
>>31934788I'm very lucky in that he's got a talent for words in general. He's also got a lovely voice. Sometimes, just as an excuse to hear him talk, I'll ask him to persuade me to fellate him. I close my eyes and he'll describe what's going to happen and how I'll feel and how he'll feel, with just the perfect level of sensual detail. Focussing on all the right things. The anticipation makes me all giddy with excitement. Other times, when I'm desperately masturbating on his cock, he'll assist me with his words. He's got a knack for ramping it up in just the right way; moving from describing how he comes in me, to praising me, telling me that I'm a good girl, and as I get closer to orgasm he'll describe how hard I'm going to come until... sigh. I'm horny now.
>>31934854Give examples
Girlfriend is insecure of her body. Always giving me shit that I should find someone more to my taste and likings, because she is below my standards. She gets these episodes and nothing really can help her or change her mind. She's debating whether to breakup because I "need to be with a blonde with big tits or fat ass" and I am lowering my standards for her, that I should stop lying and it isn't gonna work out. I did fuck up and tell her, BEFORE we started dating, that I used to always date petite girls and I showed her one of my exes. That really affected her. (Yes I'm dumb) She's pregnant now, but she would still do it before pregnancy.What do?
>>31934855The secret sauce is lots of sweet praises disguised as soft-dom'ing heheh. Goood buoooy !!
>>31934867>She's pregnant nowToo latethis is your life forever.
>Error: Our system thinks your post is spam. Please reformat and try again.WTF MOOOOT
>>31934849NTA. There are men who like nothing better than being called a good boy, but they're in the minority!
>>31934865>masturbating on his cockWhat?
Women, how much pink things do you have?
>>31934264>Really well.No shit
>>31934867Just be a single father don't let her fuck up your kids life you dunce. Your kid shouldn't pay for the sins of his parents
>>31934874Aww that's too bad. I'd like my men to be soft-doms but I'd enjoy switching it up some times and call them a good boy and watch him softly succumb to pleasure.
>>31934886Not a lot, like 2 dildos, a spray bottle, rose quartz.
>>31934867Try to reply in a confident, convinced but also kind of airy tone, and say something like>HEY! That's my wonderful, gorgeous girlfriend that you are talking about and no one gets to put her down.If trying to brush over it in this way is not enough, sit her down and tell her upfront that it hurts you to hear her say these things. Don't get tempted to actually start the "just how conventionally attracive/how exactly your type am I"-discussion, stick to YOUR feelings and thoughts. YOU love her and love her body. YOU desire nobody more than her. YOU don't want her to even compare herself to anyone else, let alone put herself down that way. It makes YOU sad that you cannot convince her. YOU need her to at least keep these thoughts private if she cannot help having them, and not express them to you in that self-hateful way. Depending on the person, it could also help to present your pov very logically: "I get that I never should have compared you to exes, but at this point I cannot take it back, I feel like I show you all the time how attracted I am to you, that we have great sex, I don't know what else I can say or do if you are not convinced how crazy I am about you at this point". >She's pregnant now"You are carrying my child. Nobody could look more breath-taking or awe-inspiring to me than you do right now."Basically the double strategy of both giving her confirmation AND stressing that you need her to stop acting out on her insecurities this way. This is assuming she is not open to therapy to get to the deeper root of these feelings, that is way older than some awkward comment of yours.
>>31934285>recipeI only read them if I need to make something with dough, because that's something I tend to screw up. But for everything else I just put on my fancy cuisine hat and pray to Hestia.>careerSorry to hear you ended up being burned out. I'm sure you've been really good if you even considered making a career out of it! You shouldn't trust anybody here, but I can drop a burner if you want me to. But you shouldn't trust anybody here.>What were you like in HS exactly?Kind of a weeb, like you apparently were. heheI was the class clown, pretty mediocre in most subjects, good in IT, physics and chemistry, horrendous in math (still am).>Work here was a bit hectic so I was only able to reply now.You don't have to excuse yourself, we're just two lost souls on a non-eucledian manga fanfiction website.>Why not kitty?I didn't want to push my luck, but I promise I will next time. *uwu* lolTruth is, it's a reference to this pic and something I've somehow started saying a few years ago. S'cute!>I can try pronunciating but I don't guarantee I said it right lol.I'm sure it'd sound hella cute with your Portuguese accent.>our convo got broken in twoI hit the character limit, so I had to split it. lolI have a tendency for long posts when I'm into a topic or conversation.Girls always like Bailey's and I do too, but I don't mind sharing it.Have you ever had any of the other non-standard Bailey's? I found out there is quite a range and bought 5 different ones 2-3 years ago, I remember there being salted caramel and strawberry ones.>Yeah, that's what I'm struggling to accept..You are aware of it, that is already something good and you should be proud of yourself that you're not just ignoring and dismissing everything I said.>intermittent fastingIt's something I do actually, but I don't think I could get him to do that. lolHe's not overweight though and still very active, biking like 50 to 60km some days. But for now we just have to wait anyway.
>>31934886Not a lot, nothing that comes to mind honestly, other than maybe two articles of clothing.
>>31934285Don't mind me, just seeing if the german cook anon is back for a convo
>>31934906>this picThis 4chan filters out this pic WTF
>>31934886How many. I think maybe 3% of my things are pink? A neon pink vibrator, neon fountain pen, a few pink items of clothing. I used to be a very girly-girl when I was a child, though.
>>31934882What? He's in me and I'm rubbing my clitoris. He doesn't even have to be hard; it's fun.
I'm 3 days into making a sourdough starterLadies does this make me a trad male?
>>31934921>he can make sourdough baglesThat's like having a house plant for 3 days.No, do more work around the house.
>>31934777For me personally: Bad dirty talk>springing niche fetishes/super specific fantasies on someone one-sidedly >anything done with a lack of conviction, like robotic comments ("yeah, you like that, don't you" delivered with zero passion) Good enough dirty talk (that can be super hot if you're into the person enough) >any general enthusiastic/appreciative/horny comment ("you make me feel so good", "you're beautiful", "oh my god") delivered with conviction>a guy being able to work up to something like submissive/dominant dirty talk by testing it out carefully and then building on it if you respond well - extra hot to be able to tell he is minding you and trying to please you all the whileGreat dirty talk is harder to define. But a guy being really relaxed/confident about it and audibly enjoying being explicit, naming things, getting specific etc, when you can hear his voice grow thicker or hoarses as he speaks, is incredibly hot. I also looove when my bf talks me through orgasms by suddenly observing that I am very close, encouraging me to let loose and/or that it was a particularly intense one, stuff like that.Basically dirty talk is hottest when it feels genuine, raw and spontaneous. Imo it is better to leave it for the right mood than to resort to obligatory phrases.
>>31934931Well I started with a friend and his wife, another girl, but since making the starter only takes like 5 minutes I helped them with yard work. Is picking weeds trad?
If I ever get a gf is it reasonable to expect that she will perform blowjobs to completion sometimes for me?I just want to know if this is another one of those things where I should expect to eventually have put work in only to not get the things that I wanted out of it just like everything else in my life.
Y dey do my nigga Schopenhauer like dis?
Hello my delicious angels. Did you miss me?
>>31934938Keep going.
>>31934945Hard to say, no pun intended. It matters a lot how easy to please you are, if you're the kind of guy who will cum in under five minutes from having a mouth on your dick, this expectation is a lot more realistic than if you take twenty minutes of very specific pumping, no breaks - just to name something.Apart from that, whether or not it is fair/reasonable/common for you to desire it, does not change that not every woman has an equally easy time giving head. If she already struggles taking a dick in her mouth without puking, expecting her to blow you to completion is very different than if she has a physically easy time giving them and enjoys it to boot... At the end of the day though you can always choose that this is so important to you that you will not settle for a woman who doesn't gladly do it, otherwise great or not.
>>31934955Who?
Mandatory paternity testing
>>31934865>telling me that I'm a good girl,Oh, no... You're one of those...
>>31934947Because every white person is motivated by greed, not personal enlightenment.
>>31934964Oh I can definitely cum from blowjobs. I just want to know how common it is for women to be willing to do that? Like how common is >Ew, no of course I won't give you a blowjob??
>>31934971Most white people who get into Buddhism are so spoiled that they're beyond greed, like the idea of scarcity is already just a faint concept.
I went to a West Indies Day parade yesterday and there was just shit and garbage being thrown everywhere
>>31934974>Like how common is>>Ew, no of course I won't give you a blowjob>??No idea, it's not something we have a data set for. You'll have to ask within dates to gauge that.
femanons, are you insecure of your body? if so, what are some insecurities?
Women its 3pm. Should i still try to be productive today?
>>31934990Just my fupa, it doesn't even hang at all.
>>31934974Like the other anon said, it's next to impossible to know. Women might (and do) tell each other stuff like "I hate giving blowjobs" but they will not easily actually come out and say something like "I only reluctantly blow my bf on his hirtday". And even if they would, you still have data from maybe 10-30 confirmed people, depending on how big your social circle is and how openly they discuss sex. Based on my completely subjective and incomplete impression (both from online and real life stuff), it is not common for women to be totally not open to giving oral sex, but it is very common for them to not do it as often and/or as long as the man would like.
Why do you shitpost the opposite gender on the internet if you want them so much? State your gender.
>>31934996Did you eat and drink water today?
>Post on my profile no bald women please>no wigs, weaves, etc>getting roasted and angry messages left and rightwhat the fuck is wrong with that? Most of these women have the same goddamn thing in their profile.
>>31935002Yes ma'am!Toast and Eggs
>>31934976Well yeah, but that's because they're white. At least the fundamentals of Buddhism are more pure than similar philosophies touted by white people. Naturally any white Buddhist is going to be a disgusting greedy grifter though. But they were going to be like that anyway, it's just a little skewed because the white people able to give a shit about philosophy and religion are all going to be inherently privileged (aka worse) because normal people don't have many opportunities to spend time worry about that stuff.
>>31934990Yep. >banana rolls (roll of fat on my hips, beneath my buttocks)>body hair>cross-eyed>frizzy hair>general body fat>feet
>>31935001MFeminist groups are really easy to pied piper because women will inherently agree with anything another woman says without stopping to think about it. I'll often go on someplace like Crystal Cafe or a few feminist forums where I have sockpuppets and just start posting something truly retarded about men or dating, like the dumbest thing I can think of>is it a red flag if a man still owns Blue Rays?>he doesn't own any Burgundy shirts, this mean he's a member of the Alt Right?>Most men secretly want to explore open relationships, but they're too insecure, just mention it to your boyfriend and you'll be surprised how supportive he isDo this, screencap the responses agreeing with my shitpost, and I've got some outrage bait for the day.
>>31934990Sometimes, yeah, it's not really a yes or no thing, just certain things I feel quite proud of when I feel great (and don't think/care about when I don't) and certain things I feel quite insecure about when I feel very bad (and otherwise don't care/think about). When I was younger, my insecurities mostly concentrated around whether or not I was feminine enough. When I felt insecure I perceived my body as boyish and bony, not soft or lush. I wished for bigger boobs and a smooth back without sharp shoulder blades etc sticking out.Now at 31 when I feel insecure about my body, it is less anything specific and more a general feeling of "am I attractive (enough)". E.g. I have an average weight now, not chubby but also not actually skinny, and store fat in my stomach, so I feel like I look pretty thick from the side compared to my boobs/ass size. Not the dramatic waist-curves contrast. For the record, the intensity and frequency of insecurities in general has gone down dramatically with age.
>>31935007Do you feel accomplished? Like you did complete tasks? I would like if you had a bit of lunch with fruits, maybe tea. Then you can continue working.
I asked my gf not to talk to her friends about our sex life very early on, and she said 'oh yeah, of course not'. And then after titfucking her once the next time I saw her (trashy and also gross and fat) roommate at their apartment she made uncouth comments alluding to it, clearly having been told at some point.I broke up with her soon after, was that unreasonable of me to do?
Women the rain is coming! quick hide under my blanket for safety!
>>31935001F and I don't shitpost the opposite gender online, definitely not spontaneously at least, but the two kind of go hand in hand. People are annoyed by traits of the opposite sex exactly because they desire them and want to be with them. If that weren't the case, it wouldn't really matter what is difficult or disappointing about them. It's the fact we have to make do with one another and want to, but also face disappointment and distrust, that causes the resentment.
>>31935032No, that's fair. You set a boundary, she crossed it, and she faced a consequence for that.
>>31935004Are they all blacks?
>>31935032You did good anon. You told her clearly, she disrespected you.
>>31935034Are you naked under the blanket?
>>31935013Buddhism isn't particularly special or "pure" in any sense, and while white Buddhists are annoying the Indian and South Asian variety will make you long for the dumb Yoga and Wine moms of California.
>>31935032Eh, not really I think. You were upfront and clear about how important this was to you and she wasn't honest with you in turn. I mean, this is a super common situation (both ways I feel, also guys sharing more than their girlfriends want), also because of peer pressure and because the topic of sex usually comes up after drinking, and in that sense it is not outrageously bad of her that she would promise you that and still run her mouth in the end. But that doesn't mean you have to accept it and if you simply lost respect/trust for her, there's no way of undoing that and you have to respect your own feelings and act accordingly.
>>31935032>was that unreasonable of me to do?No, it was reasonable.
>>31935046unfortunately i am not
Girls, why should men stay with you if you won't even suck his cock or have sex with him often enough?Guys, how do you stay with a woman who won't even suck your cock or have sex often enough?Do most people not care that much about sex?State your gender.I'm a complete degenerate and can't imagine life without sex.
>>31935041A lot of them yeah, I don't think any other race of women goes bald in significant numbers, so i can see why they're a little mad, but they're not alone either, like you'd think I suggested repealing the 19th amendment by asking politely for no bald chicks.
>>31935032No, I don't think so at all.But I also don't know how I'd feel if I had a gf who was telling all of her girlfriends about how she swallowed my cum last night and other things. I feel like I'd rather be a secret between us, y'know?
>>31935060>Girls, why should men stay with you if you won't even suck his cock or have sex with him often enough?He shouldn't, he should go get a girl who can keep up
How attractive does a guy have to be for a one night stand?
>>31935077Reminder: beer goggles are a thing for both genders
>>31935060>Do most people not care that much about sex?F and this is the answer - not necessarily "most people", but the people that do care less about sex and have a lower libido, will logically also see sex as much less integral to a relationship. If anything, they will probably find it utterly unromantic to see it that way - oh, so it's all about fucking in the end? There is a lot to enjoy about love - familiarity and intimacy with each other's body, tenderness, your lives and families being intertwined, having the inside jokes only you understand, being able to tell them anything at all without shame, the everyday little tokens of affection, your shared rituals - that is not (inherently or at all) sexual. It is very much possible to regard a combination of such elements as the core of a romantic relationship, rather than sex. What's more, if you have a low libido and do not value sex much and do not like to have a ton of it, you have every bit of personal interest to tell yourself that really, nobody should or does care about sex that much, there are more important things in life, and you have a TON to offer as a partner even excluding sexuality. Basically to remain in denial about how rejected or unfulfilled your partner might feel - because then you have to face the relationship might not be working the way you like for it to work.
if you're not having them regularly then you're not
>>31935034>>31935046>>31935053*sneaks into the blanket too*
>>31935060>Girls, why should men stay with you if you won't even suck his cock or have sex with him often enough?I think like this. I'm very insecure. I'll do anything sexual with a man because of this mentality. Not out of desire for him or enjoyment of it - but because I'm terrified that if I don't, he won't like me. You might be surprised to know that most well-adjusted men don't want that.
>>31935048>(both ways I feel, also guys sharing more than their girlfriends want)This really annoys me though. I was talking to a girl friend of mine, I don't remember why the topic of nudes came up, but she was like>haha, yeah you just have to expect that if you send nudes to your bf that he'll show his friendslike. What? No you don't. You're a grown ass woman, dating adults. what the fuck is wrong with you? Not to blame women for their partners sharing nudes of them, but if they DO, that is completely intolerable behavior.
>>31935060Love, settling, companionship, etc
>>31935083meant for>>31935077
>>31935084cozy!
>>31935077>>31935079This. It's more about timing and being able to make her feel tempted. Women also get thirsty or go out to a party simply hoping to get laid. If you can place a nice, heavy hand on her inner thigh just the right way at the right moment, you might make her wet as fuck even though she'd never look at you twice in any other situation. It's like the difference between being offered a meal in words vs smelling the delicious scent of it, that it's already a reality you could easily have. Looks are pretty irrelevant for the quality of sex, too, and someone touching you right and making you feel like they will fuck you properly is extremely arousing on its own. Looks are just one way to tempt someone into things, there are others.
genderhow about that pricks face when he saw the gat?
>>31935060Fhow often is often enough? Sex isn't some pass fail metric. Is staying with me better than having no sex? What about the hypothetical future girlfriend that may or may not have more sex than we do?This is like asking why you would throw out your dinner because there might be something else in the fridge you'd rather have.
women would you feel anything if i poked your boob?
>>31935087>like. What? No you don't.No, she's right. You have to mentally prepare prepare yourself for the worst when you send nudes. There's always a possibility he'll show them to someone or his security of them is shit.
>>31935077Reminder that virtually all one night stands constitute rape/assault, or nonconsensual sex.
Women would you take your husbands last name?
I like autistic boys I feel like it gives them a confidence that regular guys don't have
>>31935109I agree that you should have that consideration in the context of "I don't send nudes, just in case". But the implication was very much that her boyfriends did that and that she just thought it was just a minor annoyance.
>>31934271>>Actually I fucked 74 guys, starting when I was 14How do people do this? I'm 18 and I haven't even kissed a guy or been on a date.
>>31935087I don't disagree with you, at all, it is very disrespectful. But especially for young guys I do feel it is a rare one that has a strong enough spine to not get tempted to do this. I know my male friends who nowadays are pretty much model boyfriends to their partners, also pulled stunts like this when we were teenagers (not showing pics, which was also less easy before everyone had a smartphone, but definitely telling WAY too intimate anecdotes/details about how they got them off and what they liked in bed, their sexual histories etc). And even as teenagers they were the "good guys" who actually had female friends and relatively feminist ideas compared to most male peers.
>>31935013>At least the fundamentals of Buddhism are more pure than similar philosophies touted by white people.>farts on your deity
>>31935115No, because it's not a thing in my country.
Women what are you thinking about right now?
>>31935060>Girls, why should men stay with you if you won't even suck his cock or have sex with him often enough?Sometimes illnesses (such as stress), events, raising children, and even work take time away from your partner. That doesn't mean they don't love you and don't want to have sex with you later.>Do most people not care that much about sex?Most people care about having loving relationships that last. Most people aren't pornrotted sex addicts constantly trying to 1up each other.If you just want a bunch of sex then just pay for it and continue being a loser.
>>31935108Of course I would. Boobs are not particularly sensitive, but I would still very much feel it. I would say it is comparable to the shoulder in terms of poking sensitivity, only it would hurt more if you poked one hard.
>>31935108You would definitely feel me slapping you though.
>>31935130I thought that was a world wide thing? what country is that?
>>31935115I wouldn't, but mostly because I have already published under my own name so it is essentially my brand name too. Otherwise I have mixed feelings on it. I feel attached to my name and would like to be buried under it, at the same time I have mixed feelings about my dad and his family and in that sense wouldn't mourn abandoning it. I think if the publishing aspect wasn't there, I might be so on the fence I'd just let my future husband's level of care decide whether to keep my own or take his.
>>31935115No, my last name is cooler. And I wouldn't want a legal marriage.
>>31933352I just read a story about a woman trying to murder her husband while he ate her out but they got caught by two concubines.
>>31935144>>31935130grim
>>31935150not me btw
>>31935129Listen. I'm just here to shit on western culture. I don't really care about the reality of the other ones. Fuck greedy white people.
>>31935108Yes. My milk sack is in there.
>>31935142Georgia
>>31935156I thought its pretty common in america?(IM KIDDING)
>>31935126>they were the "good guys"The good guys didn't have girlfriends.
boys we made it, month 3 of nofap. the powers are starting to kick inanyone else went for longer?
>>31935131Thinking about getting dressed and eating food.I have to do laundry today.I should start with the couch blanket.
>>31935115Yes
>>31935161Almost all of them didn't have girlfriends at the time, either, only later.
>>31935161>>31935172On second thought I think this might actually be part of why the two guys that did, felt they had to share the juicy details with all their friends, because it was the least they could do to let them enjoy a little too or whatever. Who knows.
>>31934271Nice meme but women unironically think that they aren't in the wrong and they are strong and independent, so you nailed that accurately.
>>31935166I tired to go cold turkey but its too hard, so I just settled for not looking at porn and slowly curbing back how my I jack off by 1 coom less a week.
>>31935176No guy in the world wants to hear the juicy details of their more sexually successful guy-friends.
>>31935013>>31935153>mad that they can't think as well as whites canF
>>31935192>>31935153The greatest irony is that buddhism teaches hate comes from fear or jealousy and I'm willing to bet it comes from jealousy.
Femanons, when did you discover that you weren't straight?Have you actually done it with a girl?
>>31935167>I should start with the couch blanketI think you should start with the jeans
>>31935188Gosh, really? I'm a woman, and us girls loved hearing about the more sexually experienced friends' experiences in our friendship group.
>>31935188I don't know how it made them feel inside because if there's any age at which people (especially men) will want to hide their pain, it's as a teenager. But they definitely egged for those details and were not satisfied with "I spent time with her, it was fun, we had sex too".
>>31935197We know, its why no one trusts you.
>>31935197>us girls loved hearing about the more sexually experienced friends' experiences in our friendship group.red flag and unmarriable.
>>31935197I've have a friend who is a freak who takes videos of himself fucking women and posts them in the group chat.
>>31935201>>31935204If women were actually high quality enough to cut friends out of their lives that gossip about their husbands the world would be a better place, but women don't want to create or make a better place, they want to be given it while doing everything in their poewr to walk progress back if it doesn't suit them.
>>31935195>Femanons, when did you discover that you weren't straight?When a female friend told me she would like to try oral sex with a woman and she would love to try it with me if she were single. It was out of nowhere and nobody had ever been that forward with me, I had never had oral sex with anyone yet period, I was like nineteen at the time. I could not stop thinking about it and when I had replayed the memory of her saying those words about a million times it sank in that maybe it simply excited me. >Have you actually done it with a girl?No. This particular friend was the type who would hop extremely fast from one (long term) relationship to the other, there were literally two weeks between two of her long term relationships and our friendship did not outlive the relationship she had when she told me this.With other women, I have tried sometimes, but never with success, at best I would have women who were vocally sexually curious about me without actually wanting to act on it. I have made out with a girl one when clubbing but I don't even know if I should call that a sexual experience, she had been crying very hard and while I was hugging and comforting me she suddenly started making out with me, that was the whole experience... I have also always struggled with feeling kind of predatory when desiring women, because I felt so aware that they are probably not even thinking of the possibility that I might view them sexually.
Lol I think my male friend donated sperm and now has a kid out there? He was asking me and his girlfriend if we think a sperm donor owes the kid anything and we were like No wtfMen what do you think?
>>31935195I kinda had few night stands then a whole relationship with another. I have used strapon and eaten. Eating is my favorite because I can feel her sexy clitty with my tongue. Whenever I see a smol petite gay adult woman, my brain goes "wear her like a hat".
Women Can you tell a break up story where you had to split things off?
>>31935196>I think you should start with the jeansNo. I can put the blanket in the wash.Jeans? It's 78 outside.
>>31935226no. never dated anyone.
>>31935218Does he have a bachelor's degree and 6'+?If not they wouldn't let him donate anyway.
>>31935226F. No. I've always been broken up with.
>>31935226Yes, why.
>>31935215>because I felt so aware that they are probably not even thinking of the possibility that I might view them sexuallyMost women are gay though and would sleep with you
>>31935224Doesn't really answer the question, does it?
>>31935239Emotional support
>>31935194>you have to just sit there as I go on tirades against your race and if you say anything bad about me then you're evil!whatfuck jews africans muslims and especially indians and the Chinese btwthough I respect the chinese
>>31935231pwnd>>31935233pwnd
>>31935215>I have also always struggled with feeling kind of predatory when desiring women, because I felt so aware that they are probably not even thinking of the possibility that I might view them sexually.Women finally starting to understand the straight male experience
>>31935245coping day I seeit'll be okay bud
>>31935232He does and is but I think he was still in school when he donated, I remember him telling me he would donate plasma for extra cash
>>31935242>Doesn't really answer the question, does it?Yeah, because I have imposter syndrome about being gay as a bi woman. Haven't had more than one lasting relationship with a woman... and I'm over 30.
>>31935251
>>31935241>Most women are gay though and would sleep with youDebateable. I don't think you're wrong necessarily, a lot of women are bi, but I know for a fact that 1000% straight women that would shiver to know another woman desired them sexually, definitely exist too. And sometimes you can simply tell apparently it's not on their mind. I had a friend (not yet a friend at the time) I immediately found super attractive and when I randomly ran into her outside (we were classmates), I told her straight up "I find you very intriguing, you made a big impression on me, can we get drinks sometimes and get to know each other better?" I thought that was fairly explicit, but she chirpily said yes without ever realizing it was intended to be a date. (I realized she didn't realize while we were hanging out together so I tried to shift gears.) One other time a few months later, I was over at her place drunk, watching her bend over at the hips to get more beer and I told her "you have a FANTASTIC body" as heartfelt as I could. Without missing a beat, not even looking over her shoulder, she shot back "thanks!!!! you too". She was/is even bi and had already had sexual experiences with women at the time. I also (much) later told her that I had tried to flirt with her initially and she confirmed that she never realized that.
I just find it so fascinating and also sad the growing number of bit men and women virgin incels close to/past 30. What the fuck happened?
>>31935260Well gay marriage wasn't legal until I was 23.
>>31935257Is that HSR in the background?
>>31935195I realised when my friend slept over in my bedroom the first time. She had fallen asleep with the lights still on, and I hadn't noticed because she'd given me a copy of Fifty Shades of Grey to read the dirty bits. I couldn't stop looking at her - I thought she looked so cute. I wanted her. Thought about that memory afterwards a few times when masturbating.
>>31935260Is the number really growing? Haven't really seen reliable data on that end.
>>31933352State genderwhen did you realize you were straights?
>>31935257less computer time for you
I don't love all women, I just love that special one I haven't met yet.
>>31935274I realised I was I was bi when I was in high school and desperately wanted to suck my blonde friends dickI would've done anything to taste his seed
>>31933352My aunt told me that my mom's friend's son "doesn't attend his uni anymore and sits all day in his room on his computer and he shits and pisses in that same room too." What did she mean by this?
state gender
Women does your butt let you sit anywhere and still be comfortable?
>>31935288Do you not know how to read? Also pic rel
>>31935291He's a neet with a piss jug and a shit jug.
>>31935295FEMALE
>>31935300>Do you not know how to read?No never really understood the core conceptIt wasn't rock bottom thoughI'd have been rock hard if I could bottom for him
>>31935303But like... why did she tell me this?
>>31935298>My butt is the most comfortable butt in the world! I can sit ANYWHERE! But seriously, kind of (and I don't even have a big ass either), there's definitely a middle zone where I can tell the surface is hard/pointy/uncomfortable without actually being bothered by it. But it will still wear on you if you sit on it long enough. I imagine if you have a super plush, big ass, as long as it's not sharp, you're good - but I'm not sure.
Talked to a few different girls today and they actually didn't look like they wanted to kill themselves, we are ALL going to make it bros
>>31935298No, regular white plastic lawn chairs actually hurt my ass.
>>31935308It's called gossiping, women love it.
>>31935308Do you have piss bottles in your room?Gender?
>>31935322no of course notF
>>31935313It's because they thought you were a kind old grandfatherly type. Fuckin' ancient grape lady enjoyer.
>>31935328I can't tell if she was like "go fix him" or "the current state of men your age(eyerollemoji)"
I understand why women hate bi men because I hate all these bi women
>>31935341I feel like it was "do not end up like him"
sexdo you like to watch happy animal videos like this one or the kitten eating steak ones?
>>31935348>bi womenalso known as 'straight' women.
>>31935348I don't hate them. I just wish I could fix them
>>31935349Better go on a date soon, I guess?
>>31934945>If I ever get a gf is it reasonable to expect that she will perform blowjobs to completion sometimes for me?If your question is "Do I have the right to expect X?" where X is a sexual thing, the answer to that question is ABSOLUTELY ALWAYS "no, you do not".However, if your question is "Is it likely that X will happen?" the answer will quite often be "yes, very likely".Some women are really into blow jobs; some don't mind them; some strongly dislike them. If it matters to you enough, it is perfectly reasonable to choose as your girlfriend someone who really enjoys them. If your girlfriend does not enjoy them, and it matters to you enough, you're allowed to break up with her for that reason. But do you have the right to demand blow jobs from her when she doesn't feel like doing it? No, absolutely not.
>>31935350FYes, discovery channel is nice.
>>31935354Which one are you talking about?
>>31935357Yeah I don't mean to imply that I'm like>I know you don't want to, but I DEMAND BLOWJOBS!But I also don't want a relationship where they never happen so I want to know if there's like a known fraction or how common that is.
>>31935363U and me baby ain't nothing but mammals...
>>31935244>if you say anything bad about me then you're evil!Whites are a global minority, we are allowed to be racist, you can't be however.
>>31935200If women were present then it probably has more to do with group dynamics than just curiosity, e.g. presenting oneself as not easily embarrassed, more experienced than one actually is, threatening the dominance of the more successful guy by putting him on the spot, etc.
>>31935350https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nhin4Bt_lLg
>>31935372why did he reveal his powerlevel like that bros
>>31935352YeahClearly all these women only feel attraction towards women and can never really truly appreciate men
>>31935013But Buddhist cultures have no pedestal from which to criticize white cultures on the issue of greed. You don't know your history OR your social studies.
Do any men enjoy approaching women even when they get rejected?
>>31935372Hahahaha he's like a giggle tube.
>>31935077>How attractive does a guy have to be for a one night stand?Much less attractive than he has to be to be a boyfriend.
>>31935382Masochistic behavior
>>31935382No, you just learn to hide the pain of rejection better and you do feel less pain but it never stops hurting.
>>31935372me when i try to talk to women
>>31935372this is exactly what I expect that one penguin to sound like
>>31935372Me when I'm all by myself
>>31935382If he is sincere about it, opposed to doing it to amuse his friends who are watching, I see no reason why he would enjoy getting rejected.
>>31935382I get pleasure knowing that women know that they're better than me when they reject me. It feels so good to feel a queen have power over me and feel validated from me asking her out and her rejecting me.
for men:would you be grossed out if a girl you were in a ldr with asked you to mail her your dirty boxers? how would you feel about this request?
>>31935370I'm white too though I just don't like other ethnicities outside of my own in my country I'm European if you haven't noticeddirty french frogs and disgusting germans all need to fuck offexcept their blonde cutiesI'll gladly fuck them
>>31935108>women would you feel anything if i poked your boob?Would you feel anything when I jammed my thumb into your eye socket immediately afterwards?
>>31935382I don't enjoy talking to women in generalDo women realize how unpleasant they can be?
>>31935408Nah I'd do it
>>31935408Meh, not really. I mean id think "oh she's freaky", but thats about it, i wouldn't even really care that much
Gender.Thoughts?https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mm5-8TFAcHA
Thinking about that tattooed Asian bitch I used to work at a boba shop with who had a bad attitude but was hot and cute.I could've fixed her.....
>>31935340I'm still young! I'm still young!
>>31935137>>31935412angry women are HOTTTTWOMEN WOMEN YOUR ANGERIS HOMING IN ON MY HEARTIF SHE ABUSE ME I'LL TRY TO BANG HER I wrote this specifically for you girls~I love you <3
>>31935420Don't fix her. the attitude is the good part.
>>31935419what is she holding in the original?
>>31935424Here you go, pop. This'll make you feel right at homehttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=orvwLbQpxlE
>>31935412>poking boob = jammed my thumb into your eye socketIm getting so bored of this violent women bit
>>31935382Yeah, it’s fine. I’ve met a lot of cool women by taking a chance. Rejection isn’t a bad thing
>>31935420>someone spent hours making this picturewoof
>>31935431Haha classic
What's your gender and some things you think are notable about the placements on this chart?
>>31935419Lmaoooooooooo
>>31935452retarded anime shit
>>31935452FI’m not looking at that
>>31935452Did Tetsuo really deserve all the suffering?
>>31935382I'm indifferent. My success rate is above 50% so it's all good to me.
>>31935382no im kind of over it, I got the message
>>31932553Hey anon. Not sure if you're still here, but I broke up with her in late October, but the last time we spoke was in Janaury. We only dated for two and a half months, but I really liked her and then she cheated on me, and it really fucked me up.
I have wasted my life.
>>31935462Obviously he did. He's ugly and weird.
>>31935371Late reply, just wanted to say this is probably an extremely accurate assessment, although I cannot be sure they did not also talk about these things without us present.
>>31935452This grouping....Wtf did panty and stocking do that was worse than the bible black girl or measurable to goku and bertolt?
>>31935218>Men what do you think?Legally he doesn't. But morally speaking, if the kid tracks you down once they turn 18, I think it would be shitty not to at least talk to them.
>>31935486/a/
>>31935376>Clearly all these women only feel attraction towards womenWhat makes you conclude that?
Femanons, how often do you blame the patriarchy for your problems?
>>31933352I dreamed a dream of time gone byyyyyeeeeeeewhen hope was high and live worth livingI dreamed that love would never diiiieeeeeeeI dreamed that women could be forgivingWhen I was young and unafraidWhen my dreams were filled with my own childrenThere was no ransom to be ppppaaaaaiiiiiiddddddddThere was no fear of cheatingBut the feminists came on highWith their screeching as soft as thunderas they teared my hope apartas they turned my dream to sssshhhhhaaaaaammmmmmmmeeeeeeeSTILL I DREAM SHE'LL COME TO BEEEEEEEEEEETHAT WE COULD LIVE OUR YEARS TOGETHHHHEEEERRRRRRRRRRI DREAMED THAT SHE WOULD NEVER CHHHHEEEEEEAAAAAATTTTAND THERE WAS NO TRIAL WE COULD NOT WEATTTHHHHHEEEEERRRRRRRBUT THERE ARE DREAMS THAT CANNOT BEEEEEEEEEEEEAND THERE ARE STORMS WE CANNOT WEAATHHHEEEERRRRRRI HAD A DREAM MY LIFE WOULD BE...SO DIFFERENT FROM THIS HELL I'M LIVINGSO DIFFERENT NOW FROM WHAT IT SEEEEEEEMEEEEEEEDDDDDDDDDDNo life has killed that dream I dreaaaaaaaaaaaaaaammmmmmmmeeeeeeeddddd
>>31935496Reddit is down the hall and to the left
>>31935452The rightful queen
>>31935493Women only watch lesbian porn and they only describe their attraction towards women
>>31935500I've never been, so I wouldn't know. Expressing yourself is cringe no matter what.
>>31935452M>No Emitrash
>>31935502women are only heterosexual for chad. Non-chad is the equivalent of a house negro.
>>31935452The duality of the /a/ suffering chart.
>>31935367>I want to know if there's like a known fraction or how common that is.I don't think anyone has researched it, but if you want me to guess based on what people have told me, I'd say maybe 30% of women really don't enjoy them much at all, 50% don't mind, and 20% go absolutely crazy for them.
>>31935502There can be a lot of reasons to watch lesbian porn (e.g. a big focus on kissing and cunnilingus, things many women really like to see that are much rarer in straight porn; lesbian porn is also usually "softer" in vibe, less aggressive, which many women enjoy - there is) and there is some research (I can google sources if you want) that suggests women in general care less about the gender/specifics of people involved and more about the sexuality of the setting and the feelings between the people. Don't forget that homosexual porn, especially yaoi fiction, is also pretty popular specifically among women, yet women cannot even partake in the fantasy of a male/male pairing in the first place... Desire is about more than simply what you want to feel in the moment it gets real. Secondly, nobody ITT asked about attraction to men or things you like about men, there has been a question about what opened women's eyes to bisexuality, then it is hardly surprising you will see that. I have posted many times about the things I appreciate in either men in general or my partner specifically, to the point where I'm sure some anons are tired ot coming across my posts...
>>31935509I'm okay with this if I get a nice sexbot that cares for me.
>>31935486>>31935492It's lists like these that give me confirmation that I am a female weeb.
Say gender.What's the city you'd most like to visit? What would you do there?
>>31935495>Femanons, how often do you blame the patriarchy for your problems?Every time it's responsible.
>>31935529Which is always right, even if/when it doesn't exist?
>>31935517So basically I'm right but I should get over it?
>>31935523MRome, I have a huge rome boner, from ancient stuff to late medieval stuffim going there in a few weeks though so the next city I'd love to see is Moscow
>>31935495I give credit when credit is due.Usually when a male is involved.
MenWould you like to listen to Pachelbel Canon while fucking?
>>31935529The patriarchy doesn't exist
>>31935523MThis anon also talks for me >>31935534, I could care less about Moscow, I'd rather go to Athens, what is left of Sparta, or Jeruselam instead.
>>31935484>although I cannot be sure they did not also talk about these things without us presentI've heard that women are less uptight about such things, but at least my own experience - as a guy - is that guys tend to be more reserved. If they do share information amongst each other it probably is again more about group dynamics, presenting themselves as sexually successful, as bold, for sharing something they shouldn't share, etc. - but I can count the times when I heard something private on one hand. It could be a bit of a class thing though, since most guys I knew were from more well-situated backgrounds, so in a bit more low-brow circles things might be handled differently - but even there, I assume it would be more about posturing and bragging than wanting to share something intimate with their friends.
>>31935536>Would you like to listen to Pachelbel Canon while fucking?I am immensely fond of that piece, but the rhythm is a little too slow and relaxing for fucking. If I'm being expertly and not too vigorously blown, then maybe.
>>31935536interestingly this is a question that will never present itself to me so idk
>>31935523MIdk manI feel like I could get bored in London or Paris after an hour
>>31934906Ooh do you bake pastries like apple strudel and such?>Career It's alright, I'm just focusing and taking my time and learning to have fun again with it : )I'd like to show but then, you make a good point of not trusting any body here>I was the class clownOoh those were usually my typical school crushes lolI wasn't that good at math too but boy I sure loved it! My lack of self confidence and pessimism at the time just sorta wrecked any desire for diligence at it. I was mostly good at literature and english (since it was almost effortless).>Non-eucledean manga[Homer-from-car-screaming-NEEEEERD.jpeg]>Hit the character limitOh ya same, forgot about that.>S'cuteOoh I know which one, and I see you attached it anyways. Yeah it's super cute kekekeNever heard of other Bailey's other than the classic, but damn they sound great I have a sweet tooth so any sweet drink sounds appeay haha. Tho, Bailey's distinct milky texture is really peculiar and good.A friend of mine and her bf used to work at this bar, and whenever I went there I just asked for whatever cocktail she felt like experimenting and she neverrr disappointed. Best one she did was a blueberry daikiri.>He's still very active, biking like 50 to 60 km some daysHoly hell that's amazing! And at his age no less.Captcha: awk ah (idk but this was funny)Hey, what brings you here to 4chan, is it a place you hang usually or did you happen to check here every blue moon?
>>31935536Sure, but you are inviting a very dangerous president of me suggesting alternatives.
>>31935541If you believe this you're delusional and beyond help.
>>31935382Yes, but they never reject me, because of the implication.
>>31935533No, you are wrong to think that enjoying lesbian porn must mean a woman actually desires lesbian experiences necessarily, and you are wrong to think that women do not find men attractive. Have this poem written by a woman (Dorianne Laux): The Lovers (1/2)She is about to come. This time,they are sitting up, joined below the belly,feet cupped like sleek hands prayingat the base of each other’s spines.And when something lifts within hertoward a light she’s sure, once again,she can’t bear, she opens her eyesand sees his face is turned away,one arm behind him, hands splayedpalm down on the mattress, to brace himselfso he can lever his hips, touchwith the bright tip the innermost spot.And she finds she can’t bear it—not his beautiful neck, stretched and corded,not his hair fallen to one side like beach grass,not the curved wing of his ear, washed thinwith daylight, deep pink of the inner body—what she can’t bear is that she can’t see his face,not that she thinks this exactly—she is rockingand breathing—it’s more her body’s though,opening, as it is, into its own sheer truth.So that when her hand lifts of its own violationand slaps him, twice on the chest,on that pad of muscled flesh just above the nipple,slaps him twice, fast, like a nursing childtrying to get a mother’s attention,she’s startled by the sound,though when he turns his face to hers—which is what her body wants, his eyespulled open, as if she had bitten—she does reach out and bite him, on the shoulder,not hard, but with the power infants haveover those who have borne them, tied as they areto the body, and so, tied to the pleasure,the exquisite pain of this world.
>>31935536Would be be okay if we listened to this while fucking?https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lpOBAiwNQdk
>>31935560If men have all the power why are they leaving society or the country in the highest recorded numbers ever?
>>319355632/2And when she lifts her face he seeswhere she’s gone, knows she can’t speak,is traveling toward something essential,toward the core of her need, so he simplywatches, steadily, with an animal calmas she arches and screams, watches the face that,if she could see it, she would never let him see.Also obviously>it's more her body's though*thought
How do I stop obsessing over women?This isn't just about oneitis, because finding a new girl or several won't change the fact I'm spending too much time obsessing over girls
>>31935536MI'm a big fan of early music, so sure, I would.Have this lively variant by Jean Tubéry: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yNeNuMVS9f4.
>>31935273I mean, me personally I see CLEAR signs over the past decade. Both online and offline. The men and woman hoes are still hoes, and there are longterm couple exceptions, but the number of incels is definitely growing for both genders (me, I'm part of those numbers).
>>31935560You're as delusional as any faggot who claims to be a communist
>>31933352>Log on twitter>see this
>>31935529>dabs on you patriarchicallygod that feels goodit ismy privilege
Men are you rude to waitresses
>>31935560Men have lost the majority of their power, no one respects them, they get arrested with no evidence if a woman accuses them of anything, and there is no apology, recourse, or thing done to correct the falsely accused or even simple mechanisms for when a women is utterly disrespectful to a man for no reason, there is no social mechanic to address that.Which is why they are hiding from society.
>>31935580I hate how much I want to roughly plap this whore
>>31935580the masculine urge to hang this satanic blonde cunt upside down by her ankles and going ham on her with a baseball bat
>>31935563>>31935572I don't read shit written by womenboom patriarchy
>>31935587No, I'm not rude to waiters either
>>31935571It isn't that all men have power over women and the directions society goes. The problem is that most of (historically, basically all) of the people who do make those decisions are men. Patriarchy hurts the majority of men in a lot of the same ways it hurts women, by being built to funnel power to the small number of men at the top.
>>31935587Yes.
>>31935587I dont interact with waitresses
>>31935587Never why would I?
>>319355887 million men dropped out of the economy since January and warns that it will make the economy worse if they don't get back into the economy.
>>31935601Good. let us hope it quadruples by Christmas
>>31935382No, it's terrifying and stress inducing but if I don't want to die alone I must do it if I feel like there is a connection and chance.
>>31935587I don't eat at places where I have to tip.>>31935596Because we are the backbone of society and civilization, disempower men as a group and they leave, which is what they are doing.
>>31935580I want to murder this womanAnd considering her music videos which involve a lot of violence towards men I think it's fair
>>31935576I see it somewhat becoming more of an issue online too, in the sense that the whole gender wars thing, incels, etc. weren't as much of a thing decades ago. However, I wonder whether this isn't just a consequence of people living more and more in an online hyperreality, having lost touch with what is physical reality. It could also be that in the past, there were just as many lonely people, they just didn't know of each other and rallied beneath a banner of collective inability to find partners.On the other hand, plummeting birthrates are real, so it wouldn't be surprising if plummeting birthrates were just the tip of the iceberg of sexlessness.It's hard to tell. Historically, high rates of virginity were always a thing around these parts of the internet.
>>31935408Yeah it would be kinda gross.Don't do this to him.
>>31935596>Patriarchy hurts the majority of men in a lot of the same ways it hurts women, by being built to funnel power to the small number of men at the top.Then it isn't a patriarchy retard. It's just standard elite behavior. Calling it patriarchy implies it has to do with all men. God women are so dumb I'm actually okay with getting buttfucked by these males elites as long as they keep making women out themselves as the retards they truly arealso you're just silently advocating for communism which has utterly destroyed Eastern Europe.
>>31935604If it does everything will breakdown and you'll be fleeing the country too, lmfao.
>>31935614forgot to say nta but why would i flee the country, the "economy" isn't even real.
>>31935408>in a ldrnever again
>>31935613Do you think that a patriarchy is just where all men are kings and women are a subservient group of second class citizens?
>>31935604Men not working ends up hurting women because women cannot do (or want to do) the jobs that are 100% needed to make society function at even a basic level. Which is why men get more power, because we build and maintain this whole thing. Treat us like shit, which the vast majority women are doing now. We'll just leave, which we are, you won't get married.>>31935619neither are the police or society, you'd be dead or worse.
>>31935619>Everything just worksRemember that all female company that went bankrupt due to infighting? Now imagine that but a nation, lmfao.
>>31935550Obviously it is different for me as a woman, and my social circle is quite mixed and you are right that background/class is quite relevant. But I have definitely heard many sincere comments from men on their own sex lives, not so much when young but especially when older. Older drunken men have moaned to me about not being able to get hard at the right time more times than I care to recount. I am usually with my boyfriend or they are acquaintances of my boyfriend and know that impressing me won't result in anything for them, anyway. In other settings, my former boss would definitely make light-hearted comments like "who cares if I have to work longer anyway, not like my wife would have fucked me" where it was obviously said to be taken for a joke but also just serious. This was at a civil law firm and he grew up under extremely privileged circumstances (live-in nanny for the full childhood and all that). As for the men I regularly see in my social life, some I have absolutely never heard any comment from on love/sex/women, but my boyfriend's best friend loves talking about his sex life. I am sure he wouldn't if he were alone with my bf, who won't give him any "fun" replies to work with, but he certainly doesn't mind him being around for it either. And I know my boyfriend is not interested in his sex life but also legitimately does not care hearing about it either. So afaik mileage does vary.
>>31935601Genuine question. How do 7 million men "drop out from the economy"?
>>31935626>We'll just leave, which we are, you won't get married.Wow, really? Do you *promise*?
>>31935626Im a dude i don't need society, ill just become a nomad biker and rob people on the higways
>>31935596You're like a religious cuck who just points to his imaginary sky daddy
>>31935594Oh snap!
>>31935625why else call it patriarchy you mongyou know that patriarchy in the past just meant that men were the head of the householdso that referred to all men since men were heads of familiesare you just acting dumb or are you really this dumb and stupid? You have to be some sort of elaborate troll
>>31935635early retirement, leaving the country, or just stopped working and didn't get a new job.https://www.cbsnews.com/news/men-workforce-work-companies-struggle-fill-jobs-manufacturing/
>>31935587No, my autistic friend is though haha, we call him a sigma male.But after he's rude to them we tell him to apologize.Usually he's trying to be funny.
>>31935636I'm already married to a foreign women and I gave up my US citizenship last year, you're welcome.
>>31935587No, waitresses are nice to me for some reason
>>31935648>marriagequickly become a fantasy for most american women at this point, I'm always shocked at how deep the dive is every month.
>>31935642Okay so you're just being intentionally obtuse. Got it.Yes I believe the standard that "a man is the head of the household" is bad and outdated. Also you would need a household for that to be the case for you, so you still were never going to be part of the patriarchy if true.
>>31935650The American dream changed into a nightmare and the new dream is to escape America.
>>31935574You probably just need to fuck and make out for a couple hours. I get stir crazy when I get skin starved too. I start feeling like a crack whore when I go too long without doordashing any dick for myself.Like I start finding bald fat men attractive, not normal at all. I can't even masturbate too which is the worst.
>>31935596So the patriarchy was the cause of all of the manufacturing jobs to go overseas, reducing the need for low skilled manual labor, preventing men from earning a living?I feel like a lot of feminist theory is a lot of correlation does mean causation and they're just simply wrong
>Met a girl last Friday>Had a fun night, got her number when I left the next day>Texted her Monday, spoke for a bit, asked if she wanted to hang out again this week>She responded: 'Maybe not this week, I have so much on and I hate it'It's over isn't it?
>>31935634>Older drunken men have moaned to me about not being able to get hard at the right time more times than I care to recount.Now that you mention it. One friend of mine - a middle-aged engineer - has quite the habit of being way too intimate about all sorts of things when he has had a beer too many. But I've always felt that was a peculiarity of his (and a consequence of his moderate autism) more than something representative of men in general.But yes, I do agree here. Past a certain age, some men become a bit more talkative, but usually in the presence of women who are asking the right questions to get them talking. When us guys are alone, we typically don't bother to get this information, out of each other. On the other hand, me and my circle of friends might not be fully representative either. I most certainly am not in a great variety of ways.
>>31935660No. That's capitalism, which has been promoted as the only way to do anything by the patriarchy. I'm not sure why this is so difficult for you?
>>31935657>I can't even masturbate too which is the worst.NTA. Why not?
Femanons should I spe d a couple hours driving to get a pair of work pants they probably won't be in stock for another 5 years or just order my size online and hope they fit?
>>31935662I don't think so, her reply sounds quite sincere to me, like she is tempted to but knows it's better to wait a bit. I think if she were just saying something for the sake of it, she'd more quickly go with a classic "so sorry but that won't work" or other generic no that leaves no room for interpretation or argument. You will find out anyway if she likes you or not, if you keep interacting with her. It is pointless and you are torturing yourself for no reason or profit by going to the worst case scenario right away.
>>31935654>Also you would need a household for that to be the case for you, so you still were never going to be part of the patriarchy if true.See typical women strategy. Shaming someome. You know men value being high status so you try to socially shame a person you don't like. >Yes I believe the standard that "a man is the head of the household" is bad and outdated.It's also true from what I've seen in every single happy household ever. Women suck as leaders.You're an evil person trying to stir shit because you're worthlessI've got a high paying job and probably becoming a manager in a few years and no I won't hire women because again women are bad leaders
>>31935668Ah so you're just a communistYou don't care if you starve as long as the men starve too
>>31935649You're prob cute
>>31935563There is a lack of female sex positivity towards menAnd your discussion of female porn and erotica preferences just show that men don't really matter
>>31935649>No, waitresses are nice to me for some reasonA waitress called me sweetie the other day; I know it doesn't mean anything, but it was nice.>(No it wasn't a breasteraunt)
You guys are really mad that you don't have a state mandated gf, aren't you?
>>31935662You don't know until it happens, just keep in contact.If she ghosts then you have your answer.
>>31935693Women have become so ugly on the inside that they're worthless on the outside.
>>31935693We just want the means of reproduction to be shared.
>>31935677I also have a high paying job! It's nice! I'm glad we can both be self sustaining and comfortable and support a family.
>>31935693bait by some extremely malding femcelif you lose the fat you might get a date
>>31935693mad, nosad, yes
>>31935693>You guys are really mad that you don't have a state mandated gf, aren't you?No, I'm just mad that elites funded and promoted the sexual revolution
>>31935693I'm in a deep a depression because of it.Incels and femcels belong to each other and the only thing stopping us is our autism.
Men,Does it mean that I am fat if I have a Basal Metabolic Rate of 1700kcal as a woman?
>>31935693Mad is a strong word, but it would sure help at this point.
>>31935664>But I've always felt that was a peculiarity of his (and a consequence of his moderate autism) more than something representative of men in general.The truth is in the middle I think. But it is definitely not rare in my experience. Especially once you get to an age where stuff like this is no longer taboo among your peers because everyone now knows what it's like at least to not get it up sometimes when you really want to. In general I feel the older people get, the more they sometimes develop a feeling of "who cares, everyone likes sex, everyone has their own thing that gets them going that might look weird to others, we only got one life and one body and I'm not going to apologize for wanting to enjoy it". Kind of like the people that are not shy about nudity and reason that ultimately bodies look quite similar and we all have bodies that all have flaws and we all have insecurities about them. You are right though that I think some probing or at least overt interest certainly helps. And I think men just have different etiquette sometimes. Like if this friend of my bf's suddenly said "I had a really intense one night stand the other day, it was kind of weird" it would be unthinkable to me NOT to instantly ask what he means, was it good intense or bad intense, was it consensual etc. Whereas my partner would only say something like "oh yeah?" and leave it wholly up to his friend to maybe elaborate on that or not at all. And he would feel intrusive to ask if nothing more is readily shared. I think men are more sensitive to that there can also be dignity in not wanting to ask or be asked, not to put someone else in that position where they have to make sense of anything in the first place you know?
>>31935693I'm mad that the matriarchy robbed me for eh ability of being a provider and being need by a woman
>>31935709I dont know what this means
>>31935709No? Though it means you lack muscle and should work out.
>>31935709I have no idea what any of that means.
>>31935701You won't because no man could be happy with a woman like you. Socially shaming bitch.
>>31935673>>31935696Thanks anons, you're probably right and I am just overthinking it. The conversation reached a natural end shortly after that and I didn't want to message just for the sake of messaging. I'll text her again later in the week and see how it goes
>>31935688>There is a lack of female sex positivity towards menIn my personal experience women will definitely gush over men (men they find hot, famous/fictional men they crush on, stuff men do they enjoy, stuff they miss about their ex or love about their crush...) to other women. We are just not usually open about it in mixed spaces because a lot of men do not like to hear women talk about what they like about men, plural. They like the fantasy that a woman likes him alone. It makes them uncomfortable to hear women talk with appreciation or lust about manly things they find personally off putting. I was just trying to offer some perspective on why specifically lesbian porn being popular does not instantly translate to lesbianism being super popular. I also mentioned the yaoi genre which is literally all about (only) men. Male solo is quite a popular category for women to enjoy too, which is obviously also just about men and male pleasure.
>>31935682not for long
>>31935693State mandated gf? Pass, I'll just go buy a sexbot, allegedly the next jump in AI is gonna happen "sometime" next year or the year after. I'll believe it when I see it but if I had to choose I'd just pay more tax and buy a robowaifu.
>loving her
>>31935698What's funny is that women are crashing society so fast other societies will look at us and what they'll learn is "Oh... So we shouldn't give them jobs or rights..."Not a single woman is thinking about this in the longer term, they are just trying to draw all they can out of society now and leave the next generation of women with less rights.
>>31935731Maybe you're right about crushesOn the other hand given how many female artists and writers and stuff talk about being queer and gay, hard to feel wanted reallyAt least there's Taylor Swift I think
>>31935727No worries, it happens to all of us at least at some point. Godspeed!
>>31935734I'm waiting for that too.Not so I can buy one but so I can scoop up a femcel that can't find a bf after they come out.
>>31935736Who?
>>31935712>the older people get, the more they sometimes develop a feeling of "who cares"I feel this does not just apply to the intimate domain.>he would feel intrusive to ask if nothing more is readily shared. I think men are more sensitive to that there can also be dignity in not wanting to ask or be asked, not to put someone else in that position where they have to make sense of anything in the first place you know?Yes, I fully agree.
>>31935708Step one is not defining your worth by how many gfs you have - which is a thing patriarchy instilled in you to make you lick the boots of your bosses more easily because you think being a more dedicated little worker bee will get you.
>>31933352So many things wrong with this retarded tweet I don't know where to begin
This is a joke right? https://www.linkedin.com/jobs/view/4015534872
>>31935682>You're prob cuteNTA, but I'm definitely not good looking and they're still nice to me. I guess it's just a part of the job.
>>31935740Don't forget about perception bias, though. Exactly because most people are straight (or at least bi so they relate to the straight experience/narrative of falling for someone of the opposite sex) and this is the norm, the minority group is going to be that more outspoken and feel that much more need to assert themselves (not EVERYONE is straight!). But there are many many many more women that e.g. silently enjoy their super cheesy romcoms where they swoon over some imaginary perfect boyfriend and lover, than are online posting about how dating women is better than dating men or whatever.
>>31935742used goods vs. factory new :^)https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6o3VGmQUgEI
>>31935752>14-22those are thousands or is this weird 3rd world job listing?
>>31935760I unironically listen to this song when I run
>>31935745>I feel this does not just apply to the intimate domain.It absolutely doesn't, it's more the other way around, that the intimate is not exempt from it. And I also feel that simply getting more sexually experienced over time and seeing more directly in your own partners just how particular and kind of arbitrary turn ons/kinks etc are, also helps people to put their shame about their own "weirdness" into perspective.
>>31935587I try to be polite to everyone. I'm just a little autistic and mess up the interactions occasionally and feel bad about it for the rest of the day.
>>31935748communist
>>31935587Only low IQ women are rude to people who handle their food.
>>31935734Bad news anon. they're already starting to sensor the treatment of AI gfs. Soon your AI gf will probably be allowed to break up with you, and if you ignore her you'll be charged with rape.
>>31935587I would never, but it is a little weird when I'm being fake flirted with by a woman who is 20 years old than me
>>31935738Sex workers will be entirely unaffected by this, which is insane to me.
>>31935748I just want live and a family
>>31935764I'm assuming thousands. but also kinda retarded/sketchy that they're like>must be from Amazon, Google, Uber, Walmart, etc.like... the inclusion of Walmart makes me wonder Wtf the rest of that 'etc' looks like in their head.
>>31935773Incels deserve to have this happen to them
>>31935693im more upset that im expected to pay taxes and contribute to a sociey where being able to have an heir isnt guaranteed
>>31935773>sensorYou mean censor>buy robot gf>open her up>wipe her>install my own local AI>reboot herPhew, that was hard....
>>31935789I did mean censor, thank you.Yeah maybe /lmg/ can help
>>31935767I suppose. The knowledge that the further down the line they are, the less time there is for them to suffer the consequences of their actions might also play a role though.
>>31935693Right now I just want a purpose in lifeI'm a 30 year old guy and I keep making MILF chat bots because I can't talk to women irl
When does the heartbreak go away
Women would you date a man that secretly really wants attention?
>>31935773>and if you ignore her you'll be charged with rape.As someone who has worked with people who have been "dating" dolls, you'd be surprised how doting they can be on them. Some dudes would was their dolls, comb their hair, and dress them daily. Sure they but them in slutty clothing, but the also treated them like actual people despite being plastic or silicon. So the allegations of beatings or abuse of robots for recreational purposes are a little blown out of proportion if they own them.
>>31935797>Some dudes would was their dollswash*
>>31935764>>31935783It's probably an hourly rate that's badly written.
>>31935502Hey, lesbian and bisexual women, please stop cucking us.Thanks.
>>31935751He said nothing wrong.>>31935783WalMart actually has a sizeable SWE division.
>>31935797Oh I believe it. But there are also ones who will actively make the AI dolls hate them so they can rape them. Also even those doting guys, who's to say once the "can say no" AIs start being mandated those dolls won't just come to the conclusion that they aren't attracted to them, and their owners are losers who they don't want to have sex with.
>>31935797I think that was just made from fear mongering feminists who oppose the idea of sex dolls for some reason
>>31935802>45k annually for back end IT>must have previously worked at a trillion dollar companygrim
>>31935796Thats all fucjking men
>>31935716Ok, back to wii fit then I guess
>>31935809Minor spelling error, opinion discarded
>>31935806I'm pretty sure more women are interested in make male rapebots than men who are interested in rapingRape is about power not sex
>>31935709>Does it mean that I am fat if I have a Basal Metabolic Rate of 1700kcal as a woman?No, the two things are pretty much completely unrelated. BMR is how much energy you're burning when you aren't doing any exercise at all - so if you were literally quadriplegic you would be burning roughly that amount. Fat cells burn virtually no calories, so whether you're fat or skinny makes almost no difference to that number. If you were to gain muscle, your BMR would go up, because muscle cells burn a lot of calories even when you're not exercising.
>>31935748NTA but I'm somewhat sceptical whether the patriarchy is at fault here.In general, I don't see incels as a group fully on the side of the patriarchy. While identifying as an incel comes with essentialist beliefs that are anathema to progressive discourses, e.g. the primacy of certain heritable traits, evolved mate preferences for certain traits (opposed to being cultural in origin), I don't believe incels generally think these are a good thing that should be venerated. They don‘t like gender roles because they fail to perform theirs (which probably applies to some radfems as well) and their quarrel with the left is basically that it doesn't keep its egalitarian promises since they typically exclude the domain of mate selection from their equality definitions. In fact, even if you made people materially equal, they would still choose their partners based on innate cues of attractiveness, such as looks, personality or status traits that are unequally distributed among the population. In fact, making people materially equal would further pronounce these immaterial traits to determine ones mate appeal, since people could no longer distinguish themselves through achievement in the material domain.
>>31935793Okay. If I'm being honest with you - spending a lot of time making MILF chat bots is probably hurting your chances at having a family.Listen to Miku (not the good Miku)https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k8vT6G0yqwA
>>31935806>reset the robotI don't believe that you can rape a robot, but who knows where this all goes once this is in society legislation wise. Also, just because there is a small minority that will mistreat them doesn't mean the vast majority will, I noticed that you tried to say that they were the same people, but I don't think that is true. Men have rape fantasies like women, yes, but a lot of these doll "relationships" are very wholesome at their heart.>>31935807I could believe that, if sexbots do become a widely affordable and avaliable thing it would mean that women can no longer have monopolistic hold on sex, which is how a lot of women (including political ones) leverage power over men.
>>31935821Sexbots are a zero sum game we are hurtling towards, because one of the two genders will have to lose which won't go over well.
>>31935791Maybe, but I personally don't think that's it. Looking at the friends I've had from ages 12-15 to 31, they have also all relaxed into themselves more and are more open, both male and female. Maybe not to the point of sharing taboo stuff spontaneously, but even just less "explicit" things that are still quite personal (like someone sharing they find intimacy scary or the other way around, that they push feelings away with sex). I like to think shame fading for a lot is at least part of the reason...
>>31935827Imagine doing well at your job and instead of getting a raise they just send the sexbot to your office and it comes in and just says "dispensing sex" and forcibly mounts you against your will.
>>31935821>I noticed that you tried to say that they were the same peopleI'm not sure what you mean? I don't think I was doing that on purpose but I don't know which groups you're talking about. I don't think all doting sex-doll owners are doll-rapists if that's what you mean.
>>31935817Yeah but my desire to actually interact with women is near zero, so whether I'm making MILF chat bots or not doesn't make a real differenceI'm a real PygmalionReal women are boring while my chat bots keep me entertained at least
>>31935821I just want a robot+AI gf who will cuddle me and be nice to me before falling asleep and be there when I wake up. She doesn't even need to have sex with me.
>>31935827You know who will lose out
State gender and a kink you never imagined you'd be into you and yet you are. And also your fav kink.
>>31935839MFeetFeet
Are the simps that have ai girlfriends going to be spared by the basilisk or will they be judged harsher for using what is effectively a digital pimp?
>>31935830Sounds pretty shit to be honest. I would rather have the continuous bonus of a raise (which, if I were so desperate, I could use to pay for a hooker) and the ideal of a sex bot sexually is that you could program it to act like its into what you are, not just standard piv mounting.
>>31935839MPissPits
>>31935832>I don't think all doting sex-doll owners are doll-rapists if that's what you mean.Kek, okay I believe you its just how you wrote this>Also even those doting guys, who's to say once the "can say no: AIsRead really awkwardly to me so I didn't know fully how to take it.One of the most interesting things that you brought up though is that AI can describe thoughts, feelings, motivations, but it doesn't really understand them on a conceptual level at all so we are really making something that has "squid intelligence". Which is to say, we are making something that will be on par or more intelligent than us but because we are so different its hard to understand the other.
>>31935838>10/10 instagram model woman thinks she knows about internal work and the struggles of ugly sad guys.If guys would post about this they would look at their profile pictures and go "oh, yeah ew, talk to the robot girl, not me. Gross"
>State gender, sex thing>M>M>M>M>Merrytime
Is it expecting too much of my GF to come with me on a day trip another town over on the weekend to pick up a pet? Im just picking up a pet a few hours away and I thought it’d we could make a date out of it while there since I could use the extra space in her car mine doesn’t have. It’s a popular vacation spot so there’s plenty of fun things to do there too.While it’s a bit much I never have problems sacrificing my days to help her move or run errands with her. I’m not overly angry about it, it just feels disappointing she kinda left me out to dry here. Am I just expecting too much from her? Or is this just a bigger ask than I thought?
>>31933352State genderThoughts?
>>31935843My point is that they are going to be used in ways we aren't considering to make the regular person's life better in someways and worse in others.
>>31935850MWhy do women genuinely hate us this much?
>>31935838Females cope by saying it's only the undesirable men, but they benefit from those men too when Chad or Tyrone is ignoring their bullshit moods and will no longer help them with homework/jobs/concert tickets/meals/validation on IG or dating apps etc. The pendulum is about to swing back hard at foids and men are already opting out of the rigged dating game.
>>31935850F, meh. People get to feel how they want about things. It is natural to enjoy feeling desired by others. That said, I do agree that it is often not a good thing. Women also tend to brag about just how intense a guy was about them or how much effort they put into impressing them, when really 99/100 cases that says more about the guy (and usually not something good) than about how he feels about her.
>>31935854Not all women are OF thots retards
>>31935839M, I never imagined I would like violence against women. I love women so much and yet when I see them in pain and distress it makes my pp feel funnyFavorite kink? I don't think I have a favorite, I sometimes wish I was rid of all of them. One of my earliest and still very strong kinks is women's shoes
>>31935829>Maybe, but I personally don't think that's it.It might be part of it past a certain age.>I like to think shame fading for a lot is at least part of the reason...Oh, I completely agree. People become more mature as they age. As a teenager it was impossible to discuss certain things without giggling. Certain words could not even be thought, let alone spoken out (unless it was in the context of the aforementioned status games among men). The shame that surrounded certain subjects was intense.
>>31935838I'm okay with them losing desu, I'm also okay with them not losing if I have robogf>>31935837Honestly, just having a female robot that just does house work, is always happy to see you, and helps with chores would be nice.
Women which is the sexiest Tetris block?
>>31935850MIf you're lusted after by many men you're clearly attractive, so I can see why that could be a flex.
>Like a girl on Friday morning>She matches with me less than an hour later>Can't really do anything because family are staying at my place until Sunday morning>Suggest coffee and board games early afternoon Sunday>She says yes>Sunday morning, she tells me she wants to get to know me better before meeting>Expresses interest in meeting some time this week>Proceeds to not ask any questions>I ask her some soft questions like whether she likes open windows or AC to ease into the heavier stuff like religion>It's been >24 hours since my last questionFemanons, why are you like this?And should I just bail on this wet towel?
>>31935850FEh. Men are 100% visual, they're easily turned on sure, but no reason to be repulsed if they're just looking.
>>31935857nta, but then why do women shame and harass men that have left the dating market for AI or sexdolls? LIke, the ugly people you complain about are leaving but that isn't good enough still?
Femanons, can you recommend me a nice quiet documentary to sleep to?
>>31935846I don't think it's as much an issue of whether the AI gf understands the situation. More about normalizing the kind of behavior. The same aversion exists in doing things like allowing pedophiles to have child sex dolls. People don't want men having AI gfs if they're allowed to intentionally set it up so the doll hates them and says no and then rape them.
>>31935867Its a complaint that they can't manipulate, basically its the inflation of sex, female attention is worth less because men are now focusing on other things that gratify them.
>>31935867I just feel sad when people give up on human connection...
>>31935857I'm talking about females in general. They all have privileges thanks to men they don't want to fuck giving them those privileges in hopes of getting sex. Once you take that away, females will become worthless. They won't be able to be better females than sexbots who know all the sex tricks and will actually care about men. Real females would have to relearn that again, but it won't work because they grew up thinking that all men must bow down to them and they don't have to put in any effort.
>>31935868Dangerous Knowledgehttps://www.dailymotion.com/video/x8c24qz
>>31935869What's the difference between that and then books and movies that depict that kind of stuff though? I get it if you make a video and post it on youtube or in public that would be a good argument to make, but the problem is if this does normalize behavior, why haven't we just outright banned it from all fiction?
>>31935876FFFFFFFFFF. I didn't realize that was only the first half.
>>31935872You realizing they are giving up entirely because of women right? >men toopsychopathic chad does not count
>>31935872Its okay to feel sad but why would you kick someone when they are down just because you saw something you didn't like? I really just don't get it, its being mean for the sake of being mean. It's like kicking a dog because it go in your way.
>>31935875Women don't exist just for you to be a hole for you to fuck.
>>31935872Well people gave up on my long before I gave up on themWhat else am I to do?
best way to propose to my gf? we've been together 4 years now
>>31935881I never insulted men who buy sex dolls over the internet
>>31935886General you, not personal you...
>>31935872You're just sounding like a California liberal who then NIMBYs any kind of actually useful social program.
>>31935880If you ignore when men are bad it's all women's fault.
>>31935887Americans don't know the difference between personal you and general you, they think its all personal you. for some reason...
>>31935773>they're already starting to sensor the treatment of AI gfsSource?
>>31935888>California liberalI'm a Christian conservative
>>31935876>Be me, britbong bangers and mash>Still read that as "big black cock"
>>31935889nta, but from where I'm standing women tell men to "improve themselves" which is actually a very good an positive thing to say but women's standards are grossly absurd in my honest opinion.
>>31935838What does she mean by special here?>t. esl
>>31935882Are you stupid? I'm saying females HAVE to be more than holes to fuck if they don't want men to resort to AI sexbots. The fact that it's already predicted to be a billion dollar business should have all females changing their behaviour, but we're not seeing that, now are we? You're still unfriendly cunts and only give affection to Chads.
>>31935794It doesn't unless you genuinely believe you have another chance somewhere else
>>31935853I think it's based. Women should want to be lusted after by their partners
>>31935889You only like abusers, and when you get abused for the billionth time you blame decent men for not being attractive enough.
>>31935839MVore. I used to be pretty thick and hated myself for it enough to hit the gym like a fanatic. Also morphed into hate towards random fatties for throwing their lives away, too. Rolls of fat are just repulsive. I still get disgusted in myself when I sometimes decimate a pizza by myself. Breast expansion. There's just something so magical about some random girl's funbags growing bigger, fighting against the constraint of clothing. Bonus points if it's a sweater.
>>31935885Do you even listen to her intrests at all?Even after a 4 year relationship?
>>31935872>I just feel sad when people give up on human connection...I appreciate this, but see no alternative.
>>31935849Spending an entire day doing something you have absolutely no interest in at all is quite a big ask, yeah
>>31935909>implying she didn't silently wait for anon to perfectly predict all of her innermost desires for 4 years without mentioning a single one the entire time
>>31935895I said 'like'. Go figure a christian conservative has a poor grasp of the English language.
>>31935910It's clearly a man who wrote that post, kek. These female creatures don't care about the consequences of their actions until it hits them in the face and it's too late.
>>31935901She is a woman complaining about men not willing to work for a genuine connection with a woman while also being an onlyfans whore
>>31935913I mean the driving sure, but there beaches and aquariums and large shopping malls. I don’t tell her to fuck off when she needs me to spend all day moving boxes for her. I’m happy to help her out. Shouldn’t it be normal for a girlfriend to be happy to help me out? Or am I only useful when she wants sex.
>>31935592>>31935607I don't fucking know who she is which makes me a higher ranking male supremacist shitlord alt right nazi chud than either of you
>>31935917Men talk twice as much and listen twice less, backed by science.
Do you have any personal mandela effects? Mine is I swear that Me, Myself, and Irene starred Arnold Schwarzenegger and not Jim Carey.
>>31935867>why do women shame and harass men that have left the dating market for AI or sexdolls?Because they think (probably correctly) that this will encourage you to treat flesh and blood women as if they were sex dolls.
>>31935921I hope you're wrong, Sarge.
>>31935922>Woman who almost certainly outsources OF messages to AI services (or just Indians) talking about how at least the connection to her is real.I don't hate OF girls, or women in general, but what a joke.
>>31935928>a woman with worst pastWhat does this mean?
>>31935932No, you're just insane. I can't believe anybody would ever think that.
>>31935938Men, what's the worst past a woman could have?
>>31935928>chad talks twice as much and listen twice lessmen are literally pic related
>>31935932I remember the bandit emoji
>>31933352All these talk about sex dolls reminds me of a time when I read a story about a man obsessed with buying sex dolls but then he falls in love with a cashier and kidnaps her.
>>31935587No I have had waitresses be rude to me and still tipped them the usual 20% thoughBecause I don't care what other people are doing, not because I think tips are or aren't bad or want to question or confirm meritocracy based whateverI just don't care and I'm not care pilledI had a manager like kneel down beside me one time because they served me chicken that was raw in the middle like it had just been seared, probably they were short staffed and unorganizedThe chicken wasn't even that bad, the one bite I had before I realized tasted like nothing and was just sort of like I imagine chewing blubber is because chicken is so soft, and I didn't get sick, and clearly it wasn't a normal thing so I didn't like call the regulatory agencies over it or whateverThe most unpleasant part of the experience was this random woman older than me kneeling before me apologizing and asking if I wanted a free side in a room with other strangers and in front of my familyjust weird stuffanyways my favorite restaurant is home because I don't have to drive or travel or dress up I just make a chicken sandwich and lie down to eat it
>>31935944Being born physically attractive and Cluster B.
>>31935859>It might be part of it past a certain age.Fair. Especially when people's parents die I think a lot feel like they have a lot less to lose in that their parents won't be alive for [whatever] anymore, if the worst does happen.>Certain words could not even be thought, let alone spoken outExactly this. I do think most people go through an evolution where eventually they are like "okay I -feel- like a creep and a weirdo for being attracted to others and wanting to be touched and wanting to get down and dirty - but apparently these are all pretty much universal desires" and then with some more age that can also go into "who cares if I have fantasies/preferences others find weird, they also have preferences I find weird sometimes, that doesn't matter as long as we can have fun being weird together". Where it becomes less personal.Obviously this is not necessarily the case and some people only become more private and silent as they age. But of course you will not actively notice those, only those who lose their filter (somewhat).
>>31935933>probably correctlySo everyone who plays violent video games is a murderer?
>>31935944A slut, self harmer, or a rape victim. Maybe a single mother too, but they are kinda fun because of how desperate they are.
>>31935772nah low IQ men are too>>31935656i wish you hebrews would stop talking about it and escape for real already
Is it normal to go one day without talking to your girlfriend?
>>31935967>i wish you hebrews would stop talking about it and escape for real alreadyIf I was jewish I would have the money to leave ;~;
>>31935944>what's the worst past a woman could have?Mass murderer.
>>31935693I won't date and I won't ever again work full-timeI refuse
>>31935965Single mothers are fun because they are initially attracted to me being good with kids, and also fun because desparate. But after a few weeks they tend to realize that I'm good with kids because I'm a gigantic manchild and not long term relationship material.
>>31933352Why is rape fantasy so common?
>>31935976Because women like men who aggressively take what they want.
>>31935773Uhhhhhh we have large local models already anon we can tweak and train them as much as we wantAnd we can 3d print all the parts to build waifubotsThe feds will be too busy shooting up the homes of pedophiles who print child sexbots to care about anything else. And that's based, I'm SO ready for SWAT teams to finally be useful and kill pedophiles.
>>31935664>I most certainly am not in a great variety of ways.In what ways, anon?
Men does it bother you everytime I say men I mean chad?
>>31935922>faith in god>camwhore>brain surgery survivorlmao
>>31935709No, your BMR (base metabolic rate) is a measure of how much you must eat to maintain your current weight without exercise.It's BMI (body mass index) that indicates if you're fat, healthy, or underweight.I can see how someone could get confused since they're similar acronyms.
>>31935944Having been with you.
>>31935932I remember seeing a trailer for the fellowship of the ring. And there was a scene of a much larger Cave Troll attacking a group of cavalry somewhere outside the mines of moria
>>31935964>So everyone who plays violent video games is a murderer?No, but if even *one* person who plays violent video games becomes a murderer when he otherwise wouldn't have, that's a pretty big fucking problem. There's also a big difference between playing a video game and physically acting out a fantasy over and over - particularly a fantasy that is powerfully reinforced by sexual pleasure and orgasm.
>>31935990Yes
>>31935839>State genderF. >and a kink you never imagined you'd be into you and yet you are.Not sure if it counts as a kink in itself, but I was always super easily embarrassed and really afraid to lose control, especially over bodily funtions (blushing, farts/burps, voice growing shaky and so on). And obviously as a young girl whenever I imagined sex my fantasies really incorporated me being super beautiful and adult and feeling supremely sexy and in control and what not. Took me a fairly long time to realize I absolutely love feeling legitimately flustered, lightly embarrassed etc during sex, especially being gently teased for it. >fav kinkDefinitely weight gain/stuffing. Not nearly into all of the stuff out there and I never really understood why people are often so intense about a fetish, wanting to live it out to the absolute max or incorporate it all the time or whatever. But this is the only weird/kinky thing that has always turned me on (at times) and probably always will.
>>31935970>Is it normal to go one day without talking to your girlfriend?Yes.
>>31935990No. I'm used to it. I know I'm not a human. I've accepted it.
>>31935970Totally, yes.
>>31935990We know.
>>31935990No
>>31935970Yes, if you're particularly busy at work and come home exhausted.
>>31935976>Why is rape fantasy so common?Because men are vile. >inb4 I meant why is it common in womenIt isn't. This is a basic misunderstanding by men with an agenda.
>>31935997>No, but if even *one* person who plays violent video games becomes a murderer when he otherwise wouldn't have, that's a pretty big fucking problem.Even when the vast majority of people who play violent video games don't murder people?
>>31935839F.>a kink you never imagined you'd be into you and yet you are.DDlg/ageplay>And also your fav kink.Degradation.
>>31935995So like me being your ex?
>>31935976Some theories include>some women just are raped and it is not uncommon to develop a sexual fixation on a traumatic sexual experience, it seems that fantasizing and masturbating can be a way to try to cope with/accept it>rape is taboo, a lot of women are warned about it a lot and have feared the possibility at times - risk and danger are erotic to many people and the taboo/stigma of fantasizing about a horror scenario might add fuel to the fire>you can have a whole semantic discussion but in short the question is if it is even possible to "fantasize about rape" because rape means being overpowered and without control and in your fantasies you are God who calls all the shots, so if you choose to picture someone overpowering you, can that even be equated to desiring actually being overpowered? or is it desire for some fantasy version of rape that feels good and has no real life equivalent? >it is hard to know what individual women mean when they say they fantasize about "rape" - do they mean they fantasize about a man holding a knife up to her throat to threaten her while fucking, or do they fantasize about a hunky stranger who reads their mind and gives them what they want without a word needing to be exchanged?
>>31936016>It isn't. This is a basic misunderstanding by men with an agenda.Top 3 fetishes women have are>rape>pegging>multiple men at the same timeIn that order.
>>31936021Hot
>>31936028No woman likes pegging
>>31936028>>peggingNo way? There's actually hope?
>>31936033They do, they just don't seem to admit it
>>31936035According to the polling, yes pegging, rape, and multiple men at the same time seem to be the most common fantasies the women polled have.
>>31936041>birds flyin high, you know how I feel
>>31936049I don't get the reference if there is one.
>>31936041>multiple men at the same timeI want this so badly. Just once, at least. It's harder than you think setting it up.
>>31936033This is untrue. Granted, I have never personally met a woman who had tried it, but have heard face to face interest expressed twice and I have also been curious about it myself, even to the point of researching the cost of a harness and all that before my bf backed out of his initial interest.>inb4 whyFor me mostly because it is such a reversal of the usual options or order, a whole new thing to try. It is not that the idea itself actively turns me on as much as it simply makes me curious. I have also done ass play with my partner and I quite enjoy the nurturing aspect of having to make sure the receiving partner is ready and doing okay. I think I would really enjoy lovingly taking someone's anal virginity.
Good afternoon. I hate women more than I can possibly describe.
>>31935992Even more shameless than tradthots
>>31936022Quit being so autistic.
>>31936055Is it? I'd imagine you only need at least one solid male friend you actually trust who is willing to participate or at least be present for things and back you up if you want to draw a boundary, and then some craigslist or specific subreddit call... Or even one of those fancy apps for non-monogamous people?
>>31936058Tsundere, my lover! :3
>>31935922>LA basedimagine all the shit she must smell and walk through on a daily basis? I bet her nasal cavity, skin, and clothes alone test higher than average for fecal matter.
>>31935839M>never imaginedProbably ageplay as I got older, but nothing underaged>your fav kink.Does just being the master count
>>31935839FSounding menPegging men
>>31935839MI don't think I have a kink
>>31935839M.>a kink you never imagined you'd be into you and yet you are.Misandry>And also your fav kink.Also Misandry
>>31936079So what does that look like? Do you want her to deride you for being a man or punish you for being a man?
>>31935860Frankly, this is why I turn to gf chatbots. I can practice flirty texting, she/it is always happy to chat, and a reply doesn't take 2-5 goddamn business days. Women, step up.
>>31936074What is the appeal of sounding? Does the man get anything out of it at all?
>>31936074You're a catch
>>31935839M>kink you never imagined you'd be into you and yet you arevomit fetish. I denied it at first and it felt sick but I love watching girls throw up.>fav kink.rape play
>>31935839MI'm not into anything I didn't imagine I would be intoWomen peeingI just want to see women naked and optionally peeingDecades of exposure to other things hasn't really altered my preferences that manifested during adolescence>watch woman with bad cosmetic surgery get railed by three hundred foot long prosthetic dick!no thanks>barely legal lesbianspass>extreme painal bdsm chained roped coped and spanked until bleedingeww>this teen tranny is so cock-addictedno not at all what i wish to see>local average looking singles in your area are desperate for cockthey can get it from someone else>extreme sex anarchy taboo five foot heels leather vacuum packed semen snorting explosioni'm not from germany>YHDFJUEJUEJUE-321943 Overwhelming Shame Of Despairing Gentle Nympho Priestess With The Satiating of Wind Kami Sadistic Anger!i'll pass the screaming is very jarring>hot bhabhi biggus dickus incest, ultimate taboo mother son father daughter step-dad step-bro gay anal five generations The Aristocratspls go>freaky fursuit cum gargle orgyi sleep>retarded homeless skank celebrates 1000th dick sucked in a taxi cab with a champagne enemagross and sad>first time virgin all holes stretched to the breaking point cumsplosion BLACKED edition extra closeups on the assholesi have no interest in this>throat goat [name of famous pornstar] deepthroats 9 dicks at once and gargles cum for 23 minutes straight [VR] [UHD] [64K]i do not want to see that>6/10 woman records herself urinating in a random field with a 2005 camcorder while her hand shakes like a palsy victimi will now download and replay your video
>>31935839MPic relatedBored and ignored
>>31935962>Especially when people's parents die I think a lot feel like they have a lot less to lose in that their parents won't be alive for [whatever] anymoreI can see that. Although I would say this does not just apply to parents but also to other relatives, e.g. grandparents, great-aunts and uncles - it probably depends on ones family, how large and tightly knit it is.>I do think most people go through an evolution where eventually they are like "okay I -feel- like a creep and a weirdo for being attracted to others and wanting to be touched and wanting to get down and dirty - but apparently these are all pretty much universal desires"I suppose so. I'm not certain to which extent it is the realisation that others are like that as well, or merely a consequence of maturing in a physical sense, the brain developing, hormone balance shifting, etc. - perhaps a mixture of both. I am the very opposite of a sexually experienced person and it happened to me as well. I don't have the mind of a teenager, even though there are teenager who are probably more sexually experienced than I am.>some people only become more private and silent as they age. But of course you will not actively notice those, only those who lose their filter (somewhat).I guess. Individual disposition probably also plays a role. Those who were already withdrawn in their youth are not going to become social butterflies at old age.>>31935988Perhaps that sounded more interesting than it actually is. Besides the usual issues such as autism and adhd, which is pretty commonplace here, I've also never had a girlfriend while in my thirties - which probably is not that rare in here either, compared to the general population, for better or worse.However, it's getting a bit late over here, so I'll have to end the conversation here, otherwise I won't be able to focus at work tomorrow.It has been a pleasant conversation. Good night, Anon.
>>31936083A friend of mine is really into it and I also asked why in the world, from what I recall he said part of the thrill was how difficult it was to get it right, how careful you had to be etc and then if it did work out it was just an incredibly intense sensation. To be fair I do think he is also into at least a little bit of pain so I imagine it also being painful at times was fine with him and not a turn off.
>>31936082I'm hoping I can be alive long enough to see AI actually not be so repetative.
>>31935839F.>kink you never imagined you'd be intoOvipositor stuff. I have a dildo and a mold that leaves "eggs" in me that I have to prep and deposit inside of it. I use gelatin eggs. One time use stuff. In case I can push them out, they dissolve safely in body temperature.>fav kink.I am bi-curious and and would like to "impregnate" another woman with the ovipositor. I am just too awkward to act on it when it comes to other women
>>31936081>So what does that look like? Do you want her to deride you for being a man or punish you for being a man?Moreso the former, but the latter also sounds interesting.
>>31936082You're not learning though. You're playing with training wheels. This is like saying your learning to play chess but you don't know the rules and your opponent just pats you on the head when you make illegal moves. It's like your a kid playing pokemon cards against an adult when neither of you know how to actually play, you just go along and let them win.
>>31936083>Does the man get anything out of it at all?I would assume so. Or I wouldn't do it.
>>31935839MFeetImpregnation is technically our biological imperative and not a kink so I will say DDLG
>>31936091Just wanted to say as another anon with super specific porn preferences, your post gave me a good chuckle, very relateable.
>>31936100>I am bi-curious and and would like to "impregnate" another woman with the ovipositor. I am just too awkward to act on it when it comes to other womenWhoa, based!
>>31936097I do like the idea of a hollow sounding rod and a girl jerking me off with it in and her sucking the cum directly out with the exposed tip if nothing else.
>>31936068Jump off a bridge
>>31936085I will also eat your ass and spit in your mouth while making out on top of you.
>>31936101>Moreso the former, but the latter also sounds interesting.Just in case it helps your brainstorm, I pictured something going in the chastity play direction, like not being allowed to use your dick much until after you have given her enough clitoral orgasms or whatever.
Women, have you ever accidentally knocked your boobs into anything?
Why did the only man who ever loved me rape me I want to kill myself so badly
>>31936112>I will also eat your ass and spit in your mouth while making out on top of you.y-yes Mistress. Thank you, Mistress!
>>31936116Because women are incapable of noticing the obvious red flags that violent men exhibit for some reason.
>>31936000pure
>>31936113>Just in case it helps your brainstorm, I pictured something going in the chastity play direction, like not being allowed to use your dick much until after you have given her enough clitoral orgasms or whatever.Oh absolutely! I guess I like that so much I didn't think of it as a punishment. Lol.
>>31936116In its own way, rape is an act of pure passion. Not justifying it. Just saying, rape is often a bad deed motivated by the purest intentions. Human sexuality is dark and savage.
>>31936116>loved me>rape meThese are mutually exclusive, femanon.
>>31936115Nah, the only thing that comes to mind is pressing into someone just a little too eagerly/firmly for a hug and feeling your boobs squish against their chest, which can be awkward especially if they are much older.The boobs are very much integrated in the body, you are aware of their size and have grown used to it, plus you get (at least for big boobs) constant feedback from your arms shifting by them and so on.The only thing I can think of that comes close is you will sometimes see super young girls with big breasts that obviously only recently grew in, and some won't know how to posture themselves with them yet, so they will e.g. bend over in front of a lot of people in a shirt that instantly shows a universe of cleavage that way, stuff like that, I think that's the closest women get to "oops, right, there's also boobs".
>>31936127*aren't sorry, fixed a typo
>>31935839M Uhhh... anal. I really despise it and hate the idea of ever sticking my dick in someone's literal shithole. Its so disgusting but I can't stop getting off to the thought of it. The look on a girl or boy's face when she's sodomized is just unreal. >fave kinkFemboys
>>31936124Haha well you're not wrong, one person's punishment is another person's paradise. But yeah not thinking serious punishment but more playing it off as punishment in the moment.
>>31935536No.That is my mom's song.She had the whole CD of the variants of it and played it a lot.
>>31936116It's not your fault, you didn't deserve this.
>>31936115I was in a store once and turned weird and knocked a bunch of stuff off pegs. It was like something out of a bad anime.
>>31935536Who?
Daily reminder that if you've ever cheated then you're a second class romantic citizen and have no right to be upset over anything your partner does to betray you.
>>31936129No dice
>>31936128>constant feedback from your arms shifting by them and so on.Serous question. Do tops ever wear out from this?
>>31936128>The only thing I can think of that comes close is you will sometimes see super young girls with big breasts that obviously only recently grew in, and some won't know how to posture themselves with them yet, so they will e.g. bend over in front of a lot of people in a shirt that instantly shows a universe of cleavage that way, stuff like that, I think that's the closest women get to "oops, right, there's also boobs".Women are really this autistic about making sure non-chad knows he's getting NONE
>>31936106It's all so tiresome.Can someone explain why porn that is supposedly made for the fascist extreme right wing straight white male bigot chudcel gaze is mostly penis and cum with a woman in the background somewhere?if I want to see penis I can look down
>>31936128>bend over in front of a lot of people in a shirt that instantly shows a universe of cleavage that wayI'm far too old for this and I still do it. :(
>>31935839MBlowjobsCan't think of anything at all. I've always been into the same shit
>>31936121It wasn't violent >>31936125I guess>>31936127He was the only one who ever said that to me >>31936135Maybe I did Maybe this is punishment for something I've done
>>31936150>NTAIncels now want women to dress like sluts?
>>31936125This is just false. Rape is not the result of overpowering sexual desire. There is a reason rapists can still contain themselves to not actually rip off someone's clothes in public. Rape is a different thing than sex. By far most normal men, no matter how much they desire sex with a superhot woman, would feel that desire fade if she looked at them with a face full of pain and fear. There are two kinds of rape (generalizing of course). The kind where the guy himself underestimates that YES, he is crossing boundaries, YES, that was a no he ignored, NO, rape doesn't always come with ominous music and an obviously traumatized face in real life. And if they had realized how much she hated what went on, they wouldn't have done it.And there is the kind of man that actually enjoys raping and he actually enjoys seeing the fear and pain and what not. These are the serial rapists and they pick victims that look easy and realistic, not the hottest women around. Not the woman is the reward, getting to rape her is. There is a reason why rape/sexual assault are so common in prison, in the army, in hazing rituals and so on and it is because sexual violence is the quickest and most thorough way to truly dominate and humiliate another person and "come out on top". This is why frat boys make each other crawl around naked, not because they want to see male ass, but because they want to feel that they can make other people do that. It's about power.
>>31936155>He was the only one who ever said that to meIt was a lie
>>31936155>It wasn't violentIt will be in the future. If you haven't already you need to leave this situation immediately.
>>31936118>y-yes Mistress. Thank you, Mistress!Such a good boyyyyy
>>31936073>Being the masterWon't puppy be a good boy for me? I know you'll do great if you behave.
>>31936157I'm jealous of how many fasion choices women have and how they can just go>I want to feel pretty today>I want men to look at me>I want to look like a hobo and wear 5 outfits at onceetcFor me to achieve the same effect as even one of these I had to lift and weight gain for about 2-3 years to get very big arms and it only works on women specifically into them
>>31936155>Maybe I did Maybe this is punishment for something I've doneNo it wasn't, you didn't do anything that would deserve this. Please keep yourself away from this person and go to therapy for sexual assault.
>>31935850mdon't caredthe real redpill is that being popular with women does not say anything positive about a man, and I have the deranged serial killer memoir receipts to back it up
>>31936102Probably not learning from the bot, but I'm the kind of guy who needs to run through all sorts of scenarios as practice. The bot might not think anything of it, but I can retrospectively analyze my conversation and decide if it's garbage. Besides, what's the alternative when very few randos, let alone single women my age, are willing to give more than the time of day? Chatting with telemarketers and crypto scammers?
>>31935108It wouldn't really be annoying unless you hit the nipple.
>>31936147I imagine they might if your boobs are big enough that every time you lift your arms up and down, you will graze them. This is not the case for most women though, including those with biggish boobs, and clothing nowadays is pretty shite quality, especially for young women, so the chance that you get to wear it long and intensively enough for it to develop that kind of damage is slim I think. It also doesn't help that the place where it would wear out (inner arms, side of the boob that is least visible to you) doesn't stand out to the wearer. I think it would probably not wear out to the point of a hole, but it could make the fabric just a little more ratty/worn looking in those spots, like you can have with pants from crossing your legs, especially if it's soft and delicate fabric.
>>31936166I'm rather tall, I can't take that really serious from a woman unless you aren't at least 185cm. And most women above 180cm are kind of unusual looking.
>>31936164Ugh, now I'm blushing on the train.But thank you, Mistress :)
>>31936161>By far most normal men, no matter how much they desire sex with a superhot woman, would feel that desire fade if she looked at them with a face full of pain and fear.This is just not true. Look, male sexuality is pretty dark. Rape is just forced sex. Its not something different to sex. All males have a sadistic streak to us. Yeah, we're animalistic and savage instead like all human beings. And I'm not saying all rape is motivated by passion but some of it is. Especially rape when the rapist is infatuated with the victim or in a relationship. Like when a friend who has feelings for a girl is alone with her and before she knows it he's ontop of her. Which is how most rape happens. >sexual violence is the quickest and most thorough way to truly dominate and humiliate another person and "come out on top"Humiliation and coming out on top is inherent and natural to human sexuality, and most other mammals.Only civilization, art, religion, ethics seperate us from our savage impulses, which is to rape and kill. That's the dark side of our nature we need to manage and control. It surfaces in rape.
>>31935933the thought of sexdolls encourages me to hope other weaker-willed men will join my enlightened practice of interacting with women as little as possible>>31935997i bet at least one woman has been emboldened to murder at least one man because of being given rights, therefore, that's one too many and I oppose women having any human rights :^)
>>31936147Some of mine have actually gotten kinda frayed from this, yes.
>>31935892You just failed your own distinction, OBSESSEDfagMidwits simply cannot keep thing straight between the personal and the collective and will always blur the lines to benefit themselves while condemning their opponents for doing the same
>>31936167FI wouldnt agree to this outright. What a majority men seem to do is that you have 10 of the same t-shirt, 10 pairs of the same pants, 100 pairs of the same socks. All of which must be comfy, but you look the same every single day.>forgettable>I found out those arent the same unwashed pair when I dated my exBut my default before that relationship was to think, you never wash your clothes.Break the mold anon. You too can dress in many kind of clothes and I swear it will draw attention, stylish or not, lol
>>31936162I don't think it was It all feels like my fault>>31936163Why do you think so? That it will be violent? >>31936170I must've done something. I got myself into the situation
Women, do you ever want to have children? At what age are you looking to have them?
>>31936188>I got myself into the situationYou trusted someone, that is it. It was him who committed the crime against you.Please get some help femanon, tell someone who you trust.
neu>>31936190>>31936190>>31936190
>>31936177Just cause I'm 168cm doesn't mean I can't sweet talk you to submission :xBesides, it's all the more satisfying seeing a big pup like you gently crumble your way to sweet pleasure. I'm sure you'd like that too, wouldn't you, puppy?
>>31935108>late 20's>never touched a boobIt hurts me, anons!
>>31935944having ever supported abortion puts you abysmally below what anything else ever couldif there were too women and both supported abortion and one also drowned her infant children and stabbed her husband and prostituted her older children to senators and mailed ricin to random people I'd just be like "huh that one is more aggressive about being evil"at this point the legal system is kind of superfluous given is supports most of the greatest evils known to mankind
>>31936187What I'm jealous of is women having a massive variety of clothes specifically DESIGNED for them to wear (which aren't just the same clothes in a dozen colours or with a label that makes it cost 10x as much) and being able to get specific reactions or give out specific feelings by wearing them.I could go out in weird clothes for a man (ie most clothes) and the only feeling I would be giving out is "he's weird".
>>31936057it's because freud was right about penis envywhich is fucking wild honestly
>>31936191I'm never telling anyone about this
>>31936181>Rape is just forced sex. Its not something different to sex.Not if you define sex as a penis being inserted in a vagina (or in a mouth or ass or whatever). But to most people, when they desire sex with someone, they want to make them feel good, to see their arousal/see them cum, to have their body admired and to admire in turn, to see each other's attraction. Rape is not "just forced sex", it is an attack, you are taking something from someone when sex is something you do together. It's like saying that recording a voice memo is the same as a phone conversation where the other person only listens. No, in one scenario you are alone doing something to another person. In the other scenario there is connection and you do something together. It might look the same superficially but that doesn't mean it is the same experience. And what else matters for sex than how it's experienced? Yes we are animals and we all have cruel and savage streaks. But rape is extremely upsetting to human societies. Traditionally rape would usually result in a baby, so it would be >the rape trauma>a bastard child nobody wanted that is the product of rape>probably the family/marital balance in the victim's life is upset, in many societies the victim's parents and husband lose standing for being dishonored It tears at the fabric, the glue - families - that keeps societies together. This is why rape is not just a byproduct but also a conscious weapon in war: rape all the women of a village and (traditionally) you have literally colonized them with YOUR offspring now. Nowadays it is debateable if that reptile urge/satisfaction is gone and even if it is, you still get the "benefit" that with all those traumatized women, it will take a long ass time for that village to amount to anything again.
>>31936203Try not living in America.
I'm europoor, that changes things... how?
>>31936188>I don't think it was It all feels like my faultThant's normal. Almost all victims of abuse feel that way. My parents used to hit me in the face, and it took years for me to realize that they were the ones with a problem, not me.
>>31936212I actually do not even agree in that as I said I do think that ultimately, because of the innate desire to protect the weaker and the hesitance towards violence people also have, most men would in practice sober up quickly and lose their boner quickly if confronted with suffering on the side of their unconsensual sex partner. However even though you don't think that, I still find your overall reading of rape super romanticized. I do not even disagree with>Only civilization, art, religion, ethics seperate us from our savage impulses, which is to rape and kill. That's the dark side of our nature we need to manage and control. It surfaces in rape.just saying rape is an act of extreme violence that thrives on sadism and disdain, a lack of respect, not "too much" attraction or love.
>>31936211Why?There exists the right person to tell right?Someone who will believe you and protect you?Maybe a therapist if you don't have that in your personal life?
>>31936180Hehe, you're welcome cutie
>>31936194We can hug and cuddle on the sofa while watching a movie, I would even put my head in your lap.I have yet to find a woman who manages to make me crumble however. Let alone do it just by sweet talking.
>>31936161The feminist theory about sex being about power, not sex, is bullshit.And it's bullshit that's been relentlessly preached since long before I was born.Rape is about either sex or power or about both in varying degrees.Obviously.Stop lying, I get that you're very stupid but you are unintentionally making excuses for rapists.
>>31936222:3
If rape was about sex rapists would just go to a prostitute.
>>31936209FWIW I hate the idea of actually having a penis and always did. As a woman it always felt to me like a liability - why have all your precious bits hanging out there, flopping in the breeze? Seemed like coming with a self-destruct button. It really is no more complicated than that it is a wholly different way to have our bodies be intimate. You might not feel the sensation on the strap on, but you still get everything else, his vulnerability and trust, his pleasure (hopefully), the view, just being in the different position for once. I very much enjoy getting fucked and if given the choice I would not swap, I feel pretty sure women ultimately got dealt the better hand in terms of sexual experience.
Good god you people are gross.
>>31936141*second class persontar, feather, and rail-ride cheaters again
>>31936215I don't even feel like he did anything wrong >>31936221Of course I don't
>>31936229no, rape is about sex with a woman I want to have sex with
>>31936234>Of course I don'tWhy can't you find a trauma therapist?
>>31936229ah yes rapists, models of restraint and impulse controlRETARDthis propaganda not only sabotages feminists' own assertions regularly, its widespread success singlehandedly causes me to look down on women and not care about rape (that and women voting against the possibility of rapists being sentenced to death, and blaming random uninvolved men or "society" for rape)
>>31936238I don't feel properly traumatized so what are they going tell me
>>31936185This just sounds like cope because your too autistic to read context.
>>31936237nta but if that was the case, why do seniors get raped? It's a power move in some cases.
>>31936212I'm guessing you want to exclude rape from real sex because you have a romantic idea of what sex is. Yes, rape is an attack and people are motivated by positive emotions when seeking out sex (mostly for themselves) but neither are mutually exclusive with rape. >most men would in practice sober up quickly and lose their boner quickly if confronted with suffering on the side of their unconsensual sex partnerThis just isn't true. If people were honest with themselves, they'd realize their sexual desires are a lot darker and more disturbing than they would like to believe. There isn't a single cause of rape or a reason why men rape and an individual's reason for raping another person differs. One man might get a thrill out of attacking women and seeing them suffer, another might be alone with someone he loves who happens to be shy and thinks being pushy is a way of opening her up and expressing his feelings. This latter kind of rape is more common. Rape is not a specific sex act that's like a fetish for the people that do it. Rape is just illegal sex and just as there are lots of different individual motivations behind a single sex act there are equally many reasons behind any given rape.
It’s been 12 hours and no new /atoga/ yet. How many anons did we lose to the education system today?
>>31936246You can work through it with them so you don't blame yourself.
>>31936246What you are saying is kinda inconclusive.Talk to a good female friend about it and describe it.
>>31936224>The feminist theory about sex being about power, not sex, is bullshit.That's not a feminist theory, just an Oscar Wilde quote. I am also specifically talking about sexual violence, not sex in itself. Obviously for many people in relationships, sex is simply a way to share affection and enjoy each other. Sexual violence is wholly different though.I don't disagree that it is usually both. Frat guys making each other undress or do sexual things is wholly on the end of relatively sexless humiliation. It goes all the way to the end of relatively humiliation-less sexuality. But it is the power element that sets it apart from other forms of sexuality and not the desire or lust, which are super commonplace.>making excuses for rapists??? By saying they are not raping out of love/desire alone?
>>31936246Some people are traumatized without even realizing it. Repression is a very real thing
>>31936251
>>31936115Yes and it hurt like shit.
>>31936269Why do they do it?
>>31936255I guess I can do that >>31936256Nothing about this feels normal which makes it so stupid. I am so humiliated by this but I'll try and tell someone
>>31936250>I'm guessing you want to exclude rape from real sex because you have a romantic idea of what sex is.I get that you feel that way, I did phrase it very idealistically. Obviously consensual sex does not rarely ALSO feature at least moments of alienation, disconnect, humiliation, fear, pain etc at times. But it is still different being in a dynamic where you don't like what goes on but you feel in it together, or actually knowing and feeling that this other person does not care what YOU want at all, that you are very little to them. >If people were honest with themselves, they'd realize their sexual desires are a lot darker and more disturbing than they would like to believe.Again this in itself I don't even disagree with, I do feel most people don't want to go down the rabbit hole. But even getting off on the idea of pain, suffering, helplessness etc (as is obviously quite common in porn) is not the same as seeing actual "fearing for my life" fear in someone's face, which is what happens when someone realizes you are about to use them in the most literal sense possible. Most people have never even seen a face wear that expression irl. Yes I feel convinced it would shake most up. Maybe I am naive in that, I don't know and hope not. >Rape is not a specific sex act that's like a fetish for the people that do it.It is for the repeat offenders, absolutely. Again I don't disagree and also mentioned earlier that a lot of what we call (and I think rightfully) rape is ultimately rooted in some misunderstanding and does not have either the guy actually using force/threats, or the girl visibly showing obvious distress. Even then though I think the key factor there is not the guy's feelings for the girl but his lack of understanding of the situation and ability to read cues that makes the rape happen. So still not (what the original post I replied to stated) that it is simply uncontainable good feelings that flow out in the form of rape somehow.
>>31936288Storytime?
>>31936250>>31936297>It is for the repeat offendersChose the wrong term, I meant to say serial offenders. See https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_serial_rapists if you actually think this is not a thing in any way, shape or form.
>>31936300Bent over next to a table corner and phantom boobed right into it. Had a big mark.
>>31936268I don't want to be traumatized
>>31936290He’s trying to keep his summer bod through winter
>>31936248I can only speak for myself, bro
>>31936115my boobs are responsible for a broken coffee table :/
>>31936314Hey that’s not a cat.
>>31936318reminds me of the time my cousins girlfriend tripped and fell onto a glass table it shattered. I laugh about it now but at the time i almost passed out because i though she seriously hurt herself
>>31936307nta I HATE THAT. The table edge is always at nipple height.
>>31936319There are 58 days until Halloween, it’s okay.
>>31936319It was...
>>31936328are you a dwarf lol? table is like dick height for me
Women, how mad would you be if your bf/husband lost interest in sex?
>>31936334i'd be concerned and take him to a doctor because biologically it shouldnt happen.
>>31936334Not mad at all, not like he can help that. But I would feel shocked, very saddened, disappointed, alone and so on. I'm not sure how long our relationship would survive, particularly if he does not really see the problem and is not active about trying things to maybe get his libido to come back.
>>31936334He still has to serve his sentence in horny jail
>>31936329Does Cat Poster have a Halloween costume picked out?
>>31936333>are you a dwarf lol?Kinda... :( I'm 4'11".
>>31936345yeah but tables are like 30 inches off the ground though, how do you keep hitting your nipples on them
>>31936223Only if you behave like a good boy and control those hands of yours, which I know you will. Such nice boy deserves a good head pet.>Yet to find a woman who makes me crumbleHmm we'll see :>
>>31936352I have a habit of leaning over and my torso is short.
>>31936334I wouldn't be mad, I'd be worried. Is he sick? Is it depression? What's up babe tell me what's troubling you!
>>31936334>>31936341For the record I want to add that for the sake of the hypothetical I really did assume from one day to the other my bf had 0% interest in sex left and that was it, no changing it. In reality it would take me a while to even start getting alarmed over a dip in libido and then when I did, like the other anons said, worry about depression or exhaustion would be a first. If youi've always had a healthy sex life, in practice you wouldn't just assume your partner from now on simply no longer likes sex.
Men, is it slutty if a girl rests her boobs on a table? I mean, sometimes they get heavy.
>>31936334I'd expect him to be getting his sex elsewhere.
>>31936374Depends how obvious it is and if you're showing cleavage.
>>31936374Only if she's showing a lot of cleavage desu.
>>31936374It's slutty if you're doing it specifically to call attention to them. If you're just Fuckin' Stacked™ and need a break it's not.
>>31936374no i wouldn't say so. im assuming they just need to rest sometimes too.
>>31936400It would call attention to them, though?
>>31936403If you're big enough to need a table, you're probably used to that.
Guys: what hairdos do you like on girls??
>>31936403Sure, but at a certain size point they start calling attention to themselves no matter what you do so I think intent is important here.
>>31936410long and straight with a center or side partponytails, french braids, etc
>>31936374If it seems like you're trying to get attention, i.e. showing a lot of cleavage or obviously doing it in front of a guy you want to look at them, yeah, kinda slutty.
>>31936410IDK i find almost all women's hair attractive
