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>her

State gender
Is it true that most woman don't like to be on top?

>>31955649
Happy for your loss then! What went so badly in the relationship that made you feel glad to leave? Were the tears for what could’ve been?

>>31955669
M
I don't know.

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Women, how do you compare?

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Gender?
How nervous/confident would you consider yourself to be when it comes to exposing your private parts to a new partner?
Are you happy with the way your doodads appear?

I had a very fetish-y, vivid dream about my oneitis and it has made me straight again.
Thank you, based brain.

>him

>>31955649
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0NWv7HJV_c8
>>31955675
M
Never done it
Yeah, I'm probably considered "small" but that just means the relationship will end sooner cause she is a coomer.

>>31955675
M
My penis is long, thin, and crooked.
I'm worried I'd get laughed out of the room.

>>31955650
Alright, I'm off to be productive, just because its the weekend doesn't give you and excuse to slouch, have a slow morning if you like but chop, chop: your time on earth is limited, make the most of it.

>>31955686
Saying "chop chop" is an easy way to make somebody not want to do something

>new match
>she texted me first
>check it
>it's a fat bitch

Do I even bother?

>>31955689
Its ultimately your choice

>>31955690
exp is exp
maybe she'll suck your dick

>>31955690
ownd

>>31955675
I like my nudes and my past partner has loved seeing them, but I don’t particularly like sending them. Even if it’s sent to someone I love it makes me feel like a cheap whore. It’s also pretty dangerous content to have on your phone

>>31955690
No. Why did you swipe on her if it's even a question

>>31955675
M
I have never been insecure about my penis however I've never known how to arrange my pubic hair in a way that looks maintained yet natural. I do not want to shave either because I have hair on my chest and stomach and it just looks weird.

>>31955675
M
I don't know. I have no experience with exposing my private parts in a sexual context.

>Are you happy with the way your doodads appear?
It's okay.

>>31955650
>Men: women have too high standards and ask for 6 figures!
>Me: I would date a broke guy without a car
>Men: ew gross, you are a loser without a value
why are you like this?

>>31955702
swipe first, evaluate later
That's the best male strategy

>>31955686
What is productivity for you?
>>31955690
You’re gonna get blocked but you should be honest with her about why you aren’t interested. She can choose to change herself for future partners or huff copium.

>>31955675
M
I have walked around commando for most of my adult life. I am conpletely comfortable with beeing seen naked by anyone.

>>31955694
Tru. I'm meetin another girl on Monday.
>>31955702
She close to me.

>>31955669
F. I don't know. I do like it.

>>31955690
How fat are we talking here? Also if you swipe right a lot and don't get many matches the algorithm will show you mostly to girls who do the same thing.

Where am I supposed to meet new people when I have no friends or social life?
>go to le clubs or events or whatever
If you don't already have a posse with you, it's not possible to talk to anyone

>>31955705
You don't exist.

M here
Is anyone else really into the idea of fucking completely under covers? Like motherfuckin' The Sims Wohooing shit.

>>31955669
What do you mean by top?
Like cowgirl? Or pegging?

>>31955717
Honestly, I think we're fucked, brother.

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Thoughts so far femanons?

>>31955675
Zero confidence to the point where I could make myself sick if I think too much about it, but I'm good at suppressing it enough that I just come across as a bit shy
Not happy at all and I keep going back and forth about labiaplasty

>>31955715
More than being bottom?
>>31955723
Cowgirl

>>31955675
M
0%. I'm huge.
I'm very happy with how I appear. I used to be quite insecure about the very slight bend in my cock but literally nobody mentions it and one woman specifically said "you don't have a bendy dick like one of the previous guys I was with".

I'm actually insecure about how I feel during sex, though. Women keep getting hurt and it's just slowly grinding me down. Got to examine that sometime.

>>31955719
I literally do and I was told by a man that I am a loser for accepting broke guys 10 minutes ago

>>31955730
>More than being bottom?
Yeah. By far.

>>31955720
It's pretty fun but it gets sweaty. It's nice in winter.

>>31955717
School and/or work. Hobbies.

>>31955705
>m
guys like that are just looking to shift the blame about why their life sucks.
on the other hand it is frustrating to feel like you're a loser if you can't afford to "spoil" a woman even if you've worked very hard to have your own car, your own apartment, not be a leech, etc

>>31955711
currently brushing my teeth:
>walk
>assemble a keyboard
>plant two bushes
>program next week's run
>various diy stuff around the house
btw I have brown eyes and hair and you shouldn't be talking to me.

>>31955709
At 25-50 yes swipes per day, you really have to choose carefully
Or are you a cuck who actually pays?

>>31955732
how long?
i have good length but about 45mm of it is covered in fat so you only really see the other 129mm.
i need to lose more weight.

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Male, question for the femanons. If you’ve experienced a sexual assault by a man, does that make you hate all men? I had a woman accuse me of some shit when I rejected her, and now I find it hard not to believe all the sexist opinions of women I hear now. I get it’s not sustainable, I’m not good at hiding my power level, but now I feel I can’t even reject a woman without her trying to character assassinate me. What do I even do? Has me very paranoid about life going forward.

>>31955732
When I started doing it with my first gf we were both virgins and we would go for about 5-10 minutes and then she would ask to stop. She kept wanting to do it tho and we had sex quite a lot but I never was able to finish.

>>31955726
Makes me fear you're from california.

>>31955669
How can anyone answer what's true for most other people?

>>31955745
19cm. I'm skinny so you see ALL of it.
>>31955747
Yeah desu, I know that feel. I get a lot of "no, I like the pain" which is nice but those women usually put their hands on your arm/chest and ask you to stop anyway and it's hard to ignore the pain that represents. Ironically I really like it when the woman is explicit that she's a masochist and she wants me to hurt her with my cock tho.

>>31955731
I don't think she responds to desperation very well. You should try asking for BWH.

>>31955731
I’m sorry if I was a whore I would, but I am never posting nudes online. Even without my face, someone would add it to my (file). Maybe without a tripfag but you’d never know if it was me

>>31955753
and girth?

>>31955717
Start with where you live, literally just start chatting to your neighbours or the people in your apartment building or whatever. You may or may not make any actual friends, but you'll make friendly acquaintances which is a start and you'll get to practice talking to people you don't know very well

>>31955735
>School and/or work.
If this was an option, I wouldn't be asking
I'm done with school and I work from home

>>31955739
Just because you have poo eyes doesn’t mean I don’t care about you!

>>31955765
Pick up a group sport.

>>31955756
I didn't ask for nudes, you can post it wearing literally anything.
>>31955755
>try asking for BWH
I don't know what that means

Question for the femanons
What assumptions do you make about a good looking guy who doesn't have a ton of interpersonal charisma?

>>31955771
Bust Waist Hips.

>>31955733
Prove that you exist. Write me a philosophical treatise on the matter.

>>31955744
That's plenty of swipes. Try bumble where you get less than 10 per two days.

>>31955774
Oh I didn't care about that autism unless it's an image

>>31955773
No one spends that much time thinking about and analyzing people they don't know. Any given woman will either be attracted to you or she won't. It's something she feels, not a checklist she runs through

>>31955776
>Try bumble where you get less than 10 per two days.
Wtf? Last time I used Bumble it was 25, each individual swipe resetting after 24 hours
Did they seriously fucking change it to that few?

>>31955675
M
I think my name answers this one by itself. Convenient!

>>31955781
I'm not talking about attraction, I'm talking about any personal assumptions that might be made.

>>31955765
Stop working and go back to university.

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>>31955650
I've been told that I should grow out my shoulders and back in order to look more attractive

Currebt body type is link rel:

https://files.catbox.moe/y3lgiq.png

1) what workouts should I do to accomplish this?

2) what body type do women generally find attractive an show can I achieve that? Pic rel is me

I’ve been invited to an “anything but clothes” party. What does that mean?

>>31955669
>Is it true that most woman don't like to be on top?
Guy here. FWIW, I once posted a question on here asking "How much of a problem would it be for you if the only sex position a man could manage was cowgirl?" and every single woman who answered said it was an absolute deal breaker and they wouldn't even consider dating someone like that.

>>31955773
A touch autistic.

>>31955744
>are you a cuck who actually pays?
what is wrong with paying if you have money doe? if its like 10$ or 20$ for a few days of entertainment then why not? ive seen people pay more for an early access game that they shelved and stopped playing a few days later. ive seen people pay more to go and see some new faggot star wars movie.

>>31955669
F
No, most women are just lazy in bed.

>>31955675
F
I'm very confident in my body, but I do have a bit of dysmorphia about how my vagina looks. I know it's nothing to actually be concerned about, but it bothers me being on me.

>>31955705
They don't want support, they want confirmation bias. They made their minds up a long time ago.

>>31955773
He's probably just introverted.

>>31955794
You should stop being Indian. I know it's a choice.
Secondly, traps, lats, delts, and biceps.
There are various videos and tier lists on what the best exercises for those are, but most important is hypertrophy and eating enough to stimulate muscle growth.
>what body type do women generally find attractive an show can I achieve that?
https://youtu.be/EWC8_vp-bWI

Should I break up with her?
>Relationship became long distance (she went to France as an Au Pair)
>I took some convincing but eventually was willing to try
>Told me her plan wasn't at all to go out clubbing or staying out late
>It's her second weekend and she's already going to a club
>Told me she was going with a skirt and high heels
I feel lied to and manipulated. A lot of things she told me she was going to do she isn't doing. I love her but I'm going crazy over this shit.

>>31955675
M. I don't think my genitals are very attractive, but having been brought up as a naturist, I don't have any sense of shame about them either. They're just there. My gf is very fond of my penis, though, so I guess it must be doing something right. I think she rather likes the fact that I'm a grower - gives her a sense of "Oh yeah! I did that!"

>>31955810
I say this as a woman, she's going to cheat if she hasn't already. Best to cut your losses while your dignity and self-respect are still intact.

>>31955809
>but I do have a bit of dysmorphia about how my vagina looks.
is it not symmetrical or is it something else?
my weiner is uncut so when its not fully hard it does kind of look a little cartoonish.
>>31955815
>naturist
were you still doing the naturist thing as a teen? that mustve been awkward and kind of hot at the same time.

>>31955798
It'd be a dream come true for me.

>>31955775
ChatGPT can do this for you
Ask me what only a woman would know
>>31955809
>they want confirmation bias
extreme victim mentality
Ironically its what they blame women for

>>31955746
>If you’ve experienced a sexual assault by a man, does that make you hate all men?
No, but it does make her wary or even scared, especially in the short term.

My power bill is usually anywhere from $90-$150. I just got an email that this month it's going to be $240. What happened! I'm not aware of anything I'm doing different.

>>31955758
I always forget. I think it's 5 inches/13 cm.

>>31955821
>is it not symmetrical or is it something else?
One of my labia is slightly meatier than the other and the more I loon at it, the more upset I get.

>>31955825
>extreme victim mentality
It makes it easier for them to give up and gives them a sense of vindication.
"It's a good thing I never put any effort in because it would have always ended up like this."

>>31955829
Ask for an itemized bill.

>>31955832
>One of my labia is slightly meatier than the other and the more I loon at it, the more upset I get.
Ew.

>>31955787
Thank you, ChatGPT

>>31955821
>were you still doing the naturist thing as a teen? that mustve been awkward and kind of hot at the same time.
Up to about 18 on family holidays. It was neither awkward nor hot.

>>31955810
You should talk to her, but if she's not willing to respect your boundaries then yeah, you should break up.

>>31955825
>Ask me what only a woman would know
This is a trick question.

>>31955810
I'm about to bite the bullet here, pls someone give me some input.

>>31955835
Thanks, asshole. I'm sure that grubworm you call a penis is quite a sight.

>>31955846
you are autistic, arent you?
Thats not how I meant that. I meant you should ask me something a real woman would know and not a mentally ill tranny or a bot lmfao

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>Straight men are the only group that ranks physical attractiveness over kindness
Moids, why are you like this

>>31955847
How about you eat a bullet and stοp eating everyone's oxygen, faggotron

Why are texts from females so good? I’m addicted to it.

>>31955854
>something a real woman wοuld know
Such as...?

>>31955810
Guy here. This seems to me like a you problem rather than a her problem. The issue here is not that she broke her promise, it's that it was quite ridiculous for you to make her promise that in the first place. Women like going dancing - why shouldn't she? You can't expect her to put her entire life on hold and never do anything that is in any way fun for the entire time she's there.

Recommendations and thinga not to do for having sex the first time as a guy? Don't tell me which is which, I like to live dangerously

Are women even attracted to men? I know the answer is yes, but seeing so many straight women talk about how disgusting the male form is makes me feel horrible

>>31955875
Don't have a big goofy smile on your face.

>>31955872
>Women like going dancing - why shouldn't she?
Because it's a boundary they established in advance and she promised him to respect.

I was in a LDR for years, I had plenty of fun while respecting the boundaries of my relationship - I didn't go clubbing, I didn't get drunk, I didn't spend time alone with men other than my family members. It's not hard.

>>31955859
I'm not. Physical attractiveness is pretty low on my priority list.

>>31955868
Idk, I was just giving you a challenge, ffs
>>31955877
yes men are cute and I love them, dont worry

>>31955887
Thank you femanon

>>31955875
>Recommendations
1) Remember porn isn't real. Don't try to mimic it.
2) Admit that you're a virgin and ask her to tell you what to do.
3) Communicate, communicate, communicate. Every woman likes different things from every other woman, and you have no way of knowing what her preferences are if you don't ask.

>>31955872
I'm sorry but how am I supposed to feel about the fact that she's going out clubbing in Paris dressed provocatively when she explicitly told me she wasn't there to do that? Happy for her? "Yay honey it's so great that your going out to be ogled by dudes and get hit on!!!!"

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I played into a fat girl's ego just so I can have sex again. I have now ghosted her after I had sex. Literally pic related.

>>31955882
It was a promise he should never have asked her to make.

>>31955877
I love the way men look, and when I'm in love with someone I can't keep my hands off of him. I think my husband is the hottest thing ever and can't keep my hands off him.

>>31955887
>just giving you a challenge, ffs
After I challenged yοu first, bitch

>>31955890
>Happy for her?
Unironically, yes. You should be happy that the woman you love is having fun.

>>31955675
M
I am extremely shy about women seeing me naked. Or anyone. Especially my penis

>Are you happy with the way your doodads appear?
No. It looks really small when flacid

I won't ever have to worry about someone seeing me naked, though

>>31955893
It is a perfectly reasonable boundary to have, I also wouldn't want my partner to go to clubs without me.

>>31955895
>my husband
kys hοle

>>31955898
calling women bitches really wont get you a girlfriend

>>31955907
Can't, husband too hot. Would be a shame.

>>31955705
I'm a broke loser without a car and i'm not like that. The guys who would say that are probably rich guys that feel like their efforts were in vain when you say that. They put all that effort into getting money and they loathe to see some loser like me be happy because I don't deserve it for being a loser autist

>>31955859
What they believe they are "looking for" does not necessarily coincide with what they end up choosing.

Women tend to underestimate how much looks matter to them. Men on the other hand tend to overestimate how much looks matter to them. Women tend to underestimate how much socioeconomic factors matter to them. Men tend to significantly underestimate how much socioeconomic factors matter to them. e.g. plenty of them claim they don't care what a woman's income is, but they do have a certain kind of class awareness in the sense that they are looking for a partner they can introduce to their parents, who won't embarrass them among their peers, etc.

These stated preferences aren't irrelevant but they only give you an idea of what people consciously believe they want, but not what they actually want and to which extent.

>>31955908
>calling women bitches
I wasn't calling anything a bitch since you dοn't exist, bitch

>>31955875
Enjoy it and have fun and don't take it too seriously. It's about pleasure and feeling close to your partner, not a performance or a competition

>>31955900
Nah, this isn't what I was looking for

>>31955908
NTA but there are millions of guys out there who call women bitches on a daily basis who have no trouble finding partners.

>>31955912
yeah it was some Arab whose parents are cousins I guess
he thinks if a woman is not a gold digger, she has no value lol

>>31955705
Intrasexual competition.

Broke guys shame you for being too picky in the economic domain and rich guys shame you for being too picky in the domain of looks (or whatever else made you consider the broke guy as a partner), trying to denigrate your mate choices in order to make it more likely you'll choose them next time.

At the end of the day some guys are always going to be mad, no matter who you date, because you're dating someone that isn't them.

>>31955890
>"Yay honey it's so great that your going out to be ogled by dudes and get hit on!!!!"
Also, actually, men hit on women ALL THE FUCKING TIME. It is retarded of you to imagine that you can prevent men from hitting on her just by banning her from going dancing. The only thing you can hope for is that WHEN men hit on her, she loves you enough to say no to them. She probably loves you less now than she did before you tried to ban her from going dancing for the next however many months it is. It really was an absolutely idiotic move on your part to try and make her promise that; if she does end up cheating, console yourself by thinking that she probably wouldn't have if you hadn't done that.

>>31955891
Why degrade her and yourself like that. Yuck

>>31955922
>yeah it was some Arab
That was a crucial detail
Arabs are fucking weird and obsessed with money when they get some. They then think they're just like the white man, they think they're God's gift and pride themselves so vainly for having money. Its the same with the Chinese. Weird bunch of cunts

Gender?
How easy is it to inception a woman into losing weight after having sex with her?
>I think me and this friend of mine are going to plap
>she used to be slim but is a little chunky 10 years later
>guess my confidence from losing a little weight has gotten me this far plus her gaining some weight made her easier to catch her while she was still single
>wondering if she will start emulating my weight loss habits after we do it since i always notice that women like to emulate the last guy they had sex with.

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>>31955926
yeah thats what I realized too
I even made a meme about it

>>31955810
She's going out to find a new partner and there is nothing in the world you can do to prevent it. Better start looking for someone new as well.

>>31955918
>Nah, this isn't what I was looking for
Well, if your girlfriend having fun is not something you were looking for then okay; but again, that's a you problem.

>>31955935
How hot are you? I lost weight for a guy, but he's a literal 10/10 in every way. If you're just some dude, I don't think it's much of a motivation.

>>31955927
I never made her promise that, I never even brought the topic up, she was the one that told me. The issue here is that I feel lied to.

Should I try and look for a boyfriend on soc? Apparently a bunch of girls found nice men on there

>>31955935
She’s going to get complacent instead. I hate to say it but you really have to treat women like children; you need to encourage an active lifestyle and lead by example. If you don’t she is gonna keep going up. Relationship weight is real

>>31955911
Is he buff or skinny

>>31955946
He's slim with a moderate amount of muscle.

>>31955948
What’s he like

>>31955935
Never go into a relationship with the idea that you can change the things you don't like about the person to your satisfaction. If you can't accept her as she is right now then move on to someone else

>>31955859
I'm not. People who are attractive will only be so for a short time in their life. If i date an attractive woman who is also a BITCH, in the long run she will just be a BITCH. Where as if I date a woman that isn't particularly attractive, but nice, she will still be a nice person in years to come. Looks fade. I'm not going to pick a woman just for looks alone

But in saying that, i'm not going to pick a woman I find repulsive to look at, either

>>31955893
Nta but why do you think women go out? While I completely agree that it's bad taste to make things explicit like that, his fear that she will cheat on him or find someone new and break up is perfectly reasonable. Especially given the fact that she's in Paris, he can basically kiss his relationship good bye at this point.

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>>31955847
If I were in your exact situation, I would facetime her and tell her I'm picking up a temporary girlfriend until she's back. "Hey anonita I was thinking while you're away that I'm going to pick up a temporary girlfriend." While smirking. And give every dirty excuse in the book, "my dick can't wait that long", "it's just temporary", "why is it such a big deal". Not accusing her at all of anything, no anger, just explaining that I'm getting a practice girlfriend and explaining in various ways that I have to do it. And however that conversation goes, I'd keep up the "I have to do it" posture in any followup texts or calls.

I'd then phone a friend (or friends) to go to a bar to throw darts. I would tell them straight up that I intend to mess with my long-distance girlfriend and need their help. During darts play I would start conversations with random girls until I find one who sends any signals of interest. I'd tell her she's pretty and ask her questions about where she works and if she has dogs, then abruptly invite her over to play darts. I'd have my friend take a picture of me and the girl playing darts together, I'd probably get handsy for the picture like poking her tummy while she's throwing a dart to mess with her which invites her to mess with me back. And I'd continue escalating and flirting, like asking for a kiss on the cheek, hugging, etc trying to get as raunchy of a picture as possible. Then send the best pic to my girlfriend and say "here's my temporary girlfriend what do you think". And continue saying the dirty excuses from before if she objects, or being thankful if she's destructively tolerant. I'd get the girl's contact information then say I have to head out because I gotta wake up early the next day and that we should meet again sometime, not moving things forward at all that night.

This is enough information to sleep on and make a proper decision about my relationship. And I have the other girl as an exit plan.

>>31955942
as a bf who got a gf on soc, NO, do NOT do that anon. we are NOT mentally ok

>>31955949
Physically? Pretty classically handsome - tall, wide shoulder, tiny hips, slutty waist. Some abs.
Pale, dark thick hair, brown eyes. Great jaw. Wears glasses. Big cute smile.

Personality wise, he's goofy, witty, loving, smart, very curious, a little argumentative. Pinches me a lot when I'm trying to shitpost in peace.

>>31955935
It could be that she becomes motivated to lose weight as well, if she is afraid of losing you. But if you said that it was her weight gain which made it possible for you to get her, the chance for that is pretty slim.

Girls, why are some of you such whores?
Are you such a whore?

>>31955964
>Girls, why are some of you such whores?
Men like you, it's fun.

>Are you such a whore?
No, I don't really care for sex if I'm not in love with someone.

>>31955960
Why? Do you not want me to be happy?

>>31955942
Every time I check /soc/ it is full of disgusting degenerate coomer retards. I definitely wouldn't look for a gf there. And you should MOST definitely not look for a bf there

You might get lucky. But I wouldn't take my chances

>>31955964
F. Yeah, I'm a dirty little slut.

>>31955964
They want to have sex and boast about having fucked hot men.
Me personally I am a virgin

>>31955969
What? No, im just warning you that you shouldn't go on soc ever, for anything. literally go and do anything else with your life so you don't end up with someone as horrible as me

>>31955940
I would say 7.5 face
>5'9" height
>185 weight at like 21% body fat
>penis is above average when I push the ruler into my fat but said fat makes it look stumpy which is what motivated me to start losing
>>31955943
Hoping this ends up as an FWB/open sort of deal but not sure. Im afraid of one of us catching feelings so not sure what to do if things start getting affectionate when we hang.
>>31955950
well i already want to sex her the way she is but would be awesome if she was easier to carry.
>>31955963
yeah I think if she had her OG body she wouldnt be replying to messages at a respectable rate.

>>31955942
>Apparently a bunch of girls found nice men on there
Do you think nice men can be found in that cesspit of dick pics? Better be cautious. Next thing you know you're in Canada with a 40 year old Somali guy living with his parents.

>>31955959
NTA but this is hilarious because it's obvious you've never flirted with a girl or picked one up at a bar, let alone been in a relationship

>>31955980
Heh, I don't really think that an average-ish guy she casually sleeps with will have a huge impact in her life. Especially if there's zero incentive in terms of return.

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>>31955942
Man here. My ex was from the soc. She lived 2 hours away and we met up. Here's how it went:
>We stayed at a hotel for 3 days, which cost me around $500 out of my pocket for that.
>We went to the West Side Story remake, but she got bored and we walked out, even though I wanted to finish it.
>We went to the museum, but she didn't look at anything there and just asked me to buy her an expensive sandwich.
>We got back to the hotel and passed out. We woke up at 3am and she tried to instigate sex, but I couldn't get hard without foreplay and I'm a virgin, she was too. She got moody and went to bed all emotional, so I made a hot pocket and watched Disney channel on the hotel TV as she slept.
>This event traumatized me to the point where I didn't want to attempt any sex afterwards. We went to Target and she said we needed a bigger condom, which was not the problem. I went to the bathroom to text her out of embarrassment that I didn't think we could have sex for the rest of the visit.
>She was very low energy for the rest of the trip.
>I dropped her off at the bus and she told me this was the best experience of her life and that she loved me.
>2 weeks later she said she wanted to break up so she could focus on college.
>She got with some fat lesbian almost immediately after.
>Then months later she texted me on Snapchat that she wishes she had lost her virginity to me instead.

>>31955980
>yeah I think if she had her OG body she wouldnt be replying to messages at a respectable rate.
You should also note: losing that weight would raise her own mate value, so she might get the impression she could do better. In general, relationships are the most stable when the mate value of partners does not change significantly from the point they were entered. One partner gaining social status, e.g. through sudden fame, getting a substantial raise or promotion, usually disrupts the relationship since people become discontent with what they have.

>>31955987
aahahahahahaahHAAHAHAHAHA RETARD(s)

>>31955961
Is he a channer too? Where’d you meet?

>>31955970
I'm scrolling through it now and yea :/
>>31955977
Why are you horrible
>>31955982
Idk I'm being told happy stories
>>31955987
Jesus

>>31955998
>Is he a channer too?
I asked him and he says "I still go on it 3-4 times a week, and while it has always been shit, 4chan is so bad now that I actually miss m00t"
He's now ranting about not being able to find a meme he wanted me to attach to this post.

>Where’d you meet?
Through friends.

>>31955985
i think shes wanted it the whole time weve known each other. always got this "should i?" vibe from her.
>>31955990
true but i still think it would take more than just some new extra attention from other guys for her to decide to stop hopping on my dick for another guys. would be a different story if she lost the weight before we bang.

>>31956002
Would you consider yourself to be his looksmatch?

>>31956001
>why are you horrible
>need frequent companionship
>asking to be in a relationship without fully knowing each others needs and wants

That’s about it desu, other than that we had a lot of fun doing stuff together… and like each other, but that alone isn’t enough to keep a relationship alive. I wish I knew before falling for her, and, i never had the intention

>>31956006
No, I look worse than him. I'm just autistic, have great tits and very nice to him.

>>31956007
You need to be more specific than that

>>31955972
Why? You slept with your uncle and cousin like some?

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M: Nervous about dating.

I've had bad experiences with shitty partners in the past. I am autistic and got weird hobbies. Is it true that you should be yourself because I feel like I'll come off as really weird.

If you're curious what type of woman I'd like to meet...I would prefer something a bit more "bigger" than normal. I'm a fuckin' BBW warrior I guess. I'd like to try online dating but my life ain't so hot. I got a stable job at least and I have moneymaking hobbies on the side writing fetish smut. Do those websites really work or are they just full of bots and scammers?

>>31956009
Is he autistic?

I fucking hate women

>See cutie at gym
>She's blonde, fit, tight tummy, round booty, everything a guy could want.
>Strut to the treadmill next to her
>Turn it on high and jump on
>IMmediately trip and get thrown off, my pants getting pulled down and revealing my shit stained boxers
>"uUUUUuUh"
>Stare at her disgusted shocked face as I get up and try to be cool
>Let out one long wet fart in nervousness
>She doesn't stop looking at me, her mouth agape in shock and awe at the stink filling up the room
>Slink away, change, get into my dirty old toyota camry and drive home, where I drink a whiskey slowly and stare into space

>>31955942
I advise you to lurk. 99% of threads are just about sex and hookups, and at any given time there might be ~5 threads about romance or non-sexual socializing. Within those threads there are people who are genuinely nice, and there are people who put up a front and pretend to be nice. If you can find any good threads, then monitor them for a few rounds to see who shows up repeatedly and why. Some good people are just passing through temporarily, and some not-so-good people will be stuck there forever.

>Too ugly for apps
>Too normal for soc
Where am I supposed to find a husband

>>31956010
What’s there more to specify?

We just have different attachment styles, or whatever the gimmicky name for it is called. It’s just cursed

>>31955859
Ugly people are usually miserable and shitty.
Your health of body and mind directly effect how you look to others. Also, anyone who thinks makeup makes ugly women pretty is a bot.

>>31955987
If you're a virgin adult, you should get experience with escorts first. No bitch likes virgins, not even virgin females themselves. If you're a non-Chad, you should be fucking an escort every month to not get nervous when you get a real bitch.
/thread

>>31956019
Nah, he's just a little weird. Also has ADHD.

>>31956022
Sounds like a lot of work
>>31956025
What were your attachment styles?

>>31956020
I love fucking women

Sexist or feminist bf?

>>31956024
>Too normal for soc
I doubt that.

Gender? Is there any benefits or advantages that a guy with little to no experience that a guy who knows what hes doing might not have?
How honest should I be about my past? Should I stick to my BS story about me just being a normie this whole time or should I admit that I have only had one GF and that lasted 2 months and it was over 8 years ago?
>seems like women like experienced men but they also dislike them

>>31956024
Church

>>31956034
>Sounds like a lot of work
It would be nice if we could find good people without putting in work for it, but that's not the world we live in.

Men, why does a character like Tom Bombadil exist in Lord of the Rings? I heard that he puts the ring on at one point and nothing really happens. Doesn't that really undercut the ring's danger?

Women, how do you use sex in conflict-resolution?

>>31956053
Reward/punishment kinda thing.

>>31956039
True
>>31956044
Young men don't go to church
>>31956049
Where should I extend my efforts is what I mean

>>31956024
>Too ugly for apps
>Too normal for soc
Literally me.

Should I take a nap or go run some errands

>>31956053
I don't. Sex is for fun and love.

I take my gfs out on pricey dates, write them letters, and try to be as gentlemanly as I can with them. But all my relationships crash and burn, am I a loser? Do I need to change deeply? I was raised by women so I’m a bit of a skinny effeminate weirdo.

Gender?
Would it be weird if I kept my top on and asked her to keep her top on while we do it?
>I feel ready for sex but being completely naked with another completely naked person still feels kind of intimidating to me

>>31956067
M

Stop being a pussy anon, but, if you aren’t comfortable taking it off with her just let her know.

>>31956052
Just some dumb absurd bullshit, hurr hurr remember in life you are completely subject to random circumstances, all your kingdom and battles don't matter!

>>31956052
I would argue it emphasises his special nature.

>>31956066
I don't think being nice to your gfs is the reason why the relationships crash and burn. You got to sit down and think critically about why that's the case.

>>31956067
F. I don't see how being naked in front of someone is less intimidating than taking a shot at having a child with them.

>>31956061
What kinda errands?

>>31956076
>having a child with them
well I am hoping the condoms prevent that. I even bought run of the mill ones and not the fancy ultra thin kind in hopes that it prolongs the experience.

>>31956038
What kind of sexist?

>>31956052
The character is actually from a poem he wrote way earlier. He's kind of the personification of nature, which doesn't give a crap about power struggles and stuff like that.

>>31956052
Tolkien intentionally never really explains what Tom Bombadil is, but one of the most common theories is that he's one of the Valar, which would explain why he's unaffected by the Ring. He also hints that he's older than Middle-earth and older than Sauron, which would align with that theory.

>>31956088
Who are the Valar?

Femmes...
Are there men in your life that you want to spend time and have sex with but you dont want to be in a serious or committed relationship with them? How can I become like that?

>>31956093
No. It makes no sense to fuck random guys, it doesn't benefit me in any way.

>>31956093
That would seriously tarnish my reputation. Guys can get away with that sort of thing.

I like a woman I work with, but dating would be impractical for many reasons.

She's 11 years older than me, divorced with kids, has a guy she's currently dating, and we work together, and sit right next to eachother. Every time we talk I fall more in love with her. She's always had a thing for me, and used to ask me to hang out all the time, but I always said no, an told her straight up I didn't want to. Now, that we sit together, we talk all the time and I've developed feelings for her. I want to hang out, but her having a boyfriend will probably make things difficult. What am I supposed to do here? I've always been a loner by choice, but now that I have a crush on this girl, I suddenly feel self aware of how alone I am and it's killing me. I'm dying to spend time with this girl. This is bizarre. I don't understand where these feelings are coming from, but they're eating away at me from the inside out, rotting my bones, and corroding my soul. This is all very confusing.

Seems like an obvious solution would be fwb, but I've always been religious and having premarittal sex would kill me inside. I'd be filled with grief and remorse for the remainder of my existence. I want to so bad though.

I don't think there is any such thing as pleasure in this life. With every descision, there's a brutally painful option, and a mildly painful option, and you have to do your best to discern which is which, and hope you pick the right one.

Sorry, I'm just ranting as my mind fades into complete darkness. I think isolation, and boredom is driving me insane. Not sure why I'm even posting this, I should hide it away in my notes like the others, but I'm hoping someone out there can relate, and give me some kind of insight. something to ease the pain.

>>31956097
I asking about men in your life not random guys.
>co workers
>friends
>mutual friends
>friends of relatives or siblings

>>31956105
Yeah, random guys. I don't see why I would waste my time building a relationship and having sex with some dude who doesn't want to have a relationship with me.

>>31956092
Basically gods. There are the Maiar, the lesser spirits, of which Gandalf is one, as are the other wizards, and the Valar, the greater spirits whom the Maiar serve. Together the Maiar and the Valar are called the Ainur, and they were all created by Eru Iluvatar and directed to give order to creation.

>>31956105
No, there is no man in my life I would just want to have sex with and nothing else. Either a serious relationship or nothing

>>31956112
So the Maiar are like angels almost?

>>31956103
jerk off and move on

>>31956117
Sort of, yeah. And the Valar would be archangels and Eru Iluvatar would be God.

I had sex yesterday. How do I know if my gf was larping and I'm bad at it.

>>31956103
What do you like about her?

>>31956014
>You slept with your uncle and cousin like some?
I wish.
>Why?
I've never had a real boyfriend. All my sex was done outside of standard relationships and in very casual ways. One example: a 62-year-old man picked me up off the street late at night and I gave him a hand job in his car. The USA made me into a major slut.

>>31956122
You don't.

>>31956132
Okay? Then what do I do, then. Do I dump her? I've never had a gf. I only tried it because of this thread.

>>31956041
F. I'd like to be a virgin's succubus. Just be honest with people. If you actually like a guy, things like that aren't a dealbreaker.

I think I have some issues with neediess / anxious attachment, which isn't good but idk how to address these to my partner
For example, I sent her a text earlier just telling her I loved her and wishing her a good day at work, something small, and she never responded but she's been active on social media since

It just makes me feel shitty like she clearly saw I texted her and she doesn't care to respond and clearly doesn't give a shit enough to. It just makes me feel like I'm not important to her and I'm beginning to wonder if I should just find someone who actually wants to communciate with me more or whatever

I talked about this before, but I’m about to look into sex therapy and want to see if there are any other opinions before I go all in on trying to find ways to fix this:

>My girlfriend and I have been together for two years, and we still haven’t had sex. I struggle with ADHD and OCD, which often leads to erectile dysfunction. My girlfriend experiences discomfort, and the closest we’ve come to intercourse was when I was fully erect and inserted my dick, but she started grunting and asking me to take it out because she was in pain.
>I’ve tried quitting pornography and masturbation multiple times to help, but nothing has improved. We’ve basically given up on trying to have penetrative sex. Now, I mostly dry-hump her, or she pressures my body with her legs while I masturbate. She doesn’t like to give handjobs or blowjobs, saying that submissive relationships feel creepy to her, and she prefers not to do anything that doesn’t provide her with equal pleasure. She often says she wishes we could fuck and it just makes me feel bad because a portion of it is my fault. I feel like a total loser.
>What should I do?

>>31956138
nta but if it was your first time, you probably were. No worries, if she's decent she's not going to dump you or anything just because of that. Wait, why are you talking about dumping her?

Girls, I'd like your opinion on:
>prostitutes

>sluts

>OnlyFans girls

>pornstars

>cheaters

>girls who do double penetration

>girls who do triple penetration

>girls who get gangbanged

>girls who participate in orgies

>girls who have sex with animals

>girls who don't know who is her kid's father

>girls with 100+ body count

>girls with 1000+ body count

Women, has a guy ever gone from "just friends" to "maybe" in your mind because of a transformation they underwent (like losing weight and dressing a little better)?

>>31956147
It's pretty much over bud. She needs therapy and dilation, you need medication. Best case scenario you wait for months and the sex is okay and her feeling good leads to her coming around to blowjobs, but don't hold your breath

>>31956157
No. I personally know whether I like a guy or not within the first 10 minutes of talking to him.

>>31956041
M
I suspect the problem with virginity is not virginity itself but the underlying traits which predict virginity. If you're a handsome, successful guy, you could be a virgin and still find plenty of women who are interested in you. The problem is that virgins typically aren't the handsome successful types.

>>31956148
>nta but if it was your first time, you probably were.
How can I tell? I had good stamina and she "came" twice over a few hours. I read that girls fake stuff like that so the dude doesn't kill himself after.

>Wait, why are you talking about dumping her?
I'm psychic and wanted to dump her before she can dump me.

>No worries, if she's decent she's not going to dump you or anything just because of that.
So based.

>>31956093
>Are there men in your life that you want to spend time and have sex with but you dont want to be in a serious or committed relationship with them?
Yes.
>How can I become like that?
Not have insane chemistry with me. Have different views on whether to have children or not. Be too good; ie. be so chaste, sweet, and virtuous that I don't want to corrupt you and spoil your chance at future happiness.

>>31956093
Unironically you'd be better asking some reddit redpillers rather than women here

>>31956157
Honestly no. I was still happy for the guy. That's probably not the answer you're looking for.

>>31956127
I've always been this morbid introvert who hates people, but she has this great bubbly personality that somehow gets me to open up, speak my mind, and joke around. I feel like l'm going through life as a corpse, but being around her fills me with life. I knows it infatuation, and if I got to know her better, I would see sides of her that I'm not so fond of, but for now I can only see the side that I love. I've always thought she was hot too. She has long flowing blond hair, bright blue eyes, and a great figure. I'm not usually a glasses guy, but she has these elegant glasses that look perfect on her face, and give her this incredibly sexy reserved vibe, which actually contrasts with her outgoing personality, in a very endearing way.

We have good chemistry, and we have very honest, authentic conversations, which are just a refreshing change from the way I normally go through life. I really enjoy being around her.

>>31956157
A guy went from just friends to now my bf of a few years. No transformation on his side. The time was just right

>>31955984
Women know guys do everything in the book to start conversations and hit on them. So denying a general approach indicates you're either not a woman, or you're an upset woman throwing doodoo.
Guys who flirt with women know that all is fair game and that random self-inserts into conversations is a common starting point. So denying this approach indicates you're not a guy who typically flirts with women.
So you're either an upset woman or an inexperienced guy.
So I don't even have to address your claims (which are false) because you're not even capable of discussing this topic rationally. You're also NTA, this is an A to B conversation, so C you're way out of it.

>>31956152
I am very much a "hate the sin, not the sinner" on this. I think casual sex and selling your body is immoral and bad for you. I wouldn't want to be too close to them, I try to not associate with people with that kind of lifestyle, but I also don't think they're necessarily evil.
Cheating and fucking animals is evil, and I look down on people who do very much.
Raising a child without his father should be avoided, and I look down on parents (both men and women) who are having children with random people.

>>31956165
Ive caught the attention of a few women but I always chicken out cause reasons. My friends all think or atleast act like Im normal.
>>31956173
Shes always with thin guys and I am now a thin(ner) person. Would be cool if I crossed her mind that way though.

Any ideas for getting into soccer/football teams so I can wear clothes like this for fun? I love wearing sets.
t. American female but I can support other teams from other countries

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>>31956187
Forgot the damn image

>>31956187
Just watch sports? Is there any team local to you?

Also
>not watching hockey
boo

Gender? How do I ask her out or drop a hint if shes always with somebody?
>friends sister
>always seems to line up another guy before leaving the first one
>is rarely ever single long enough for me to notice

>>31956157
yes, many times, but for me it is after getting to know their personality. Men only reveal their true colors when you are friends with them. Those who were still nice to me instantly got a higher value in my eyes. Unfortunately not many men have approached me and out of them maybe only two were still nice to me. I really liked the first one but he is way too old for me. I was dating the other one but we broke up recently

>>31955662
<3

>>31956196
M
She has a backlog and you are not on it, and won't be on it anytime soon.

>>31955674
My butt is bigger.

Men
Let's say you like a girl buy you're convinced that you have absolutely no chance with her. Her boyfriend is a chill dude and he says you can watch them do it. Would you accept?

>>31956195
Well no shit “just watch sports”.
>should have asked for other people’s favorite soccer/football teams specifically

>>31956212
That entire group of people belongs in the trash.

>>31956203
UwU

Anyone here dated a narcissist before? Do you think it might have made you more prone to desiring toxic chemistry?

>>31956212
Absolutely not and I would probably view them as weird people from that point on.

>>31955675
F
Never done it so I would be very nervous

>>31955674
Smaller butt than her but we've got the same waist (i.e. no waist).

>>31955964
>Society (mostly)
>No

>>31956212
There was a girl I would have accepted if she asked. I think in my head it was more okay because I never knew her when she was single so I never felt like I had a chance at all

>>31956212
I got approached by a couple who I could only imagine were swingers since the woman lured me to a table with her someone effeminate male friend/companion.
Nothing happened plus I am paranoid that its some sort of ploy for the dude to sneak in my back door while Im in her front door.
>>31956222
ever tried posting nudes (no face) somewhere on the internet for feedback?

How do I learn to fall in love with people again?
I had my heart broken by two girls I really liked pretty much back to back over a 4 month period, I don't miss them anymore and am living life good but I feel detached from my emotions and my desire
I've dated girls since but just feel like I'm going through the motions and don't really feel anything apart from mild horniness even though I 'know' that I'm attracted to them
>>31956196
>>always seems to line up another guy before leaving the first one
unless you're just there for a fun time don't bother, doesn't sound like someone worth investing in

>women like attention and validation even if it's from men they find unattractive

Is that actually true? If it is, why would they want it from someone they don't want?

>>31955675
Does this include boobs?

>>31956212
If I liked her, why would I willingly subject myself to the pain of seeing her with another guy?

>>31956218
M
I am the narcissist. I still have sex with all my exes because they validate me and message me when they're feeling lonely. Three of them told me they love me, even after I told them I can only love myself.

>>31956234
they cant get enough of that tight bussy

>>31956230
Confidence boosts are always nice. Hell, I get weirdly flattered if a gay woman comes on to me.

>>31956229
she was SA'ed at 14 so I think that plays into her personality and choice of men a bit. they are usually more simpy than I could imagine ever being and I consider them to be more beta than myself even though I have never had full on sex.
>>31956232
yes

>>31956233
Because you love her

>>31956230
I'd say it's generally true, but it depends on the woman if they like it and how much they like it.

I am extremely horny male anons please give me attention

>>31955675
F
I think I'm only insecure about my stretch marks and mild celulite from how fat my ass is. But I feel like my size kind of speaks for itself that if you didn't expect those then they're treating me like a manic pixie dream girl.
Never had any complaints about it, I just want to fix them but that means lose it or apply creams everyday.
I want to get them tattooed.

>>31956234
>Three of them told me they love me, even after I told them I can only love myself.
How do you feel when they say things like that?

No. No (You) for you.

>>31956212
Why would I do that?

>>31956152
>prostitutes
Sad, and often victims of human trafficking
>sluts
You do you
>OnlyFans girls
You do you, depending on content
>pornstars
Usually victims from broken homes
>cheaters
Abysmal
>girls who do double penetration
You do you
>girls who do triple penetration
Ouch
>girls who get gangbanged
You do you
>girls who participate in orgies
You do you
>girls who have sex with animals
Death sentence
>girls who don't know who is her kid's father
Oof for the kid
>girls with 100+ body count
You do you
>girls with 1000+ body count
You really need better things to do with your time.

>>31956230
I think there is a modicum of truth to this, but there are obviously different degrees of "unattractive". I do think women enjoy attention and validation from guys who seem harmless enough that they don't seem threatening, even though they might not classify them as dating material, because on some level of their stone age brain they probably register them as a source of support in case their Chad husband gets killed in war, but they probably don't enjoy attention by guys who are extremely off-putting, don't know boundaries, might turn into stalkers, etc.

>>31955746
>If you’ve experienced a sexual assault by a man, does that make you hate all men?
No it fuels my redirection to be attracted to smaller men.

>>31956251
Because I love her I don't want to see her with another guy. Is this some next level cuckoldry?

>>31956233
>>31956264
Won't you stop loving her if you see her with someone else?

Gender?
Ever been in a secretive relationship?
Why did you guys keep it a secret?
Did it ever get outed?

>>31955773
Hot autism guy

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>>31956274
I can do that without watching them have sex...

>>31956274
No. I will stop loving her if I get away from her.

>>31956262
Please

>>31956228
>ever tried posting nudes
No and I don't need to, I know that I'm unattractive.

>>31956230
I've never heard this. Why would I want to know that someone (especially someone I don't like) is imagining having sex with me?

>>31956284
overweight or something else?

>>31956278
>Gender?
F
>Ever been in a secretive relationship?
Kinda.
>Why did you guys keep it a secret?
We were dating each other but were in the same friends group.
>Did it ever get outed?
No.

>>31955797
It means boxes, lamp shade, toga, etc?

>>31955650
the european mind cannot comprehend the interstate offramp
>>31955675
m
neither nervous nor confident
thngs that used to matter to me no longer do

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>>31956261
I just laugh because I know they're women and can't change how they feel even if I'm toxic. Open phone, read message, reply with gross, close phone.

Where do I meet a clingy woman to make my gf thanks

>>31955859
This is why I prefer bisexual men.

>>31956212
I would laugh in his face and collapse the whole social circle onto them for making such a weird request like >>31956219 said, immediate texts to groupchat "Dave just said he wants me to watch him and Julia have sex, should I????", immediately bring strangers into the conversation if we were in public "bro are you hearing this shit, this guy just asked me to watch him and his gf have sex", I would make it absolutely as embarrassing as possible for them. I'd bring it up to my family "you know Dave? he asked me to watch him and his gf have sex", I'd bring it up at work "last weekend this guy asked me to watch him and his gf have sex!", I'd take it everywhere with me for the rest of my life as maybe the funniest thing that I've ever witnessed. And if somehow my friendship continued with them I'd keep bringing it up, like "do you wanna go downtown on Friday?" "sure i'll bring the camcorder!!", etc etc

>>31956247
>yes
I'm extremely nervous taking my bra off around a guy. They're pretty big and gravity is a thing.

>>31956288
>We were dating each other but were in the same friends group.
This sounds like the path Im going down. Did you find it weird trying to keep the ruse up while you were hanging with a bunch of people?
>>31956303
overweight?

>>31956278
M
Yeah
For one of them, she was cheating on her bf; for another, we just didn't want to weird out the other friends we'd made at the hostel. Idk if they figured it out. I think at least one of them did.
Nope. Cheater girlie told her besties tho.

>>31956282
Chad isn't texting you back?

>>31956305
No, just large boobs.

>>31956299
You sound like a little bitch so I doubt you have any social circle to collapse.

Went dancing last night

I'm supposed to get boners when dancing with girls, right?

State gender
Tits or ass?

>>31956278
F.
>Ever been in a secretive relationship?
Yes. Although, it wasn't a serious relationship and I think he specifically targeted me because he never wanted it to be serious.
>Why did you guys keep it a secret?
My family are religious. And it wasn't a serious relationship, anyway, so who cares if people know or not?
>Did it ever get outed?
No. Except, I'm pretty sure my mother became vaguely aware of it at some point.

>>31955859
I don't believe kind women exist.
Also notice how the less kind and more manipulative a demographic is, the more they seek kindness in a partner to enable their manipulative behavior.
Fags and bisluts rely on the kindness of others to run their interpersonal grifts.
Also also women are simply lying on this, they hate intelligence in men more than ANYTHING.

Women, have you ever noticed a guy's boner? How do you react?

>>31956316
How did you get to dance with them? They approached you?

To those with a significant other
Gender?
What's a song that reminds you of your relationship?

>>31956317
M.
Ass.

>>31956038
Feminist bf
And don't fake it.

>>31956319
>Also also women are simply lying on this, they hate intelligence in men more than ANYTHING.
This this.
If you're an intelligent man, you need to larp as a dumb fuck because that's what females love.

>>31956322
M.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zd23T-1SDeo

>>31956322
M
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=86fkN6hDKPk

>>31956320
F, yes. I try to discreetly not look/stare, which has been easy after puberty. It also does not happen often.

I have once felt a friend's boner during a hug and we both just kind of jumped apart and talked over it ASAP.

>>31956314
so does turning a guy on too much make you nervous?
>>31956308
>hostel
are travelling women easy to get with? ive thought about travelling somewhere warm to try and meet or sleep with women from my own country.
>>31956318
wouldnt be surprised your mom knows, women can smell secretive drama.
>make out with woman for first time ever
>all of a sudden it seems like they all want a piece of me

>>31956157
Nope. Infact, guys have only gone to the reverse for me.

>>31956255
>I am extremely horny male anons please give me attention
Doubt.

>>31956317
F, tits. Ass is cute and endearing, but almost all asses look that way to me and I do not care particularly in terms of attraction how conventionally aesthetic they look or don't look.

Maybe because obviously my own breasts have always been literally more on the foreground and more visible to me, but I have a much bigger appreciation of the specific looks of individual (pairs of) boobs.

Women never make a move first even if you like the guy?

>>31956216
*kissy assault*

>>31956332
I can feel the BPD torture in this track

>>31956230
>Is that actually true?
No.

>>31956316
If she is grinding on you or otherwise dancing up against your crotch, then yes that's supposed to happen.

If it happened during dancing without touching, it's not necessarily supposed to and she might be weirded out if she knew, but it's a 100% common and natural thing and it's fine to enjoy it privately.

>>31956321
I danced with the girls I came with, as well as asked some random girls to dance. It was at a country bar so you just go up to girls and ask them to dance and 9/10 times they say yes. I only got one "no" and I didn't see the girl's bf behind her

My friend kept tightly pressing her breasts against me so I got a raging boner and I'm pretty sure she felt it against her thighs.

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>>31956303
Would you put this on for me if I were your boyfriend?

>>31956334
What's wrong with boners?

>>31956334
>we both just kind of jumped apart and talked over it ASAP
We? Why are you speaking for him, dumb bitch? If his dick got hard, he enjoyed your body and boobs pressed against him.

>>31956315
I mean I *would* punch the guy in the face for trying to make me his cuck, but it's far more effective (and funnier) to tell the whole world about his sexual fantasy. And I don't get assault charges!

>>31956342
Not true, but there are definitely women that never would regardless of how much they like the guy. Usually because they are convinced that the act of making a move will in itself make them look less attractive to him.

>>31956230
No.
When it's text based only, I just pretend it's from attractive and nice men.
If you're ugly and mean and post here, you should say that.

>>31956350
Nothing, just not interested in stirring up feelings that are unwanted and only complicated in a long term friendship.

>>31956351
>Why are you speaking for him, dumb bitch?
Because I was there and that's what happened. We were both drunk and because of a depressing reason/talk it was the third time in short succession we hugged. Your body having a response because to people it just feels good to touch bodies, doesn't necessarily mean you are looking for everything that comes with trying to fuck. He had already rejected me romantically long before that moment happened.

>>31956212
>Would you accept?
I wouldn't judge them for it - YKINMKBYKIOK - but it's not something I would have any interest in doing.

>>31956255
Whenever I read that a fooid is extremely horny I remember that she's faking it and doesn't even lay in her own juices, filled with plastic, drunk/high and gooned out of her mind. Women rarely know how to be degenerate on their own

>>31956278
F
No
But I think one of my fwbs is lying to me and cheating on his girl for me. The sex is pretty good.
Haven't heard from him in a while.

>>31956196
Can't you "slide into her DMs" or whatever it is young people do these days?

>>31956358
NTA but I'm ugly and occasionally mean but I try my best to be kind. Next time you see me post you should moderate your excitement accordingly.

>>31956278
F, yes. We are cousins. Yes.

>>31956320
I did when I hugged a friend of mine. I didn't draw attention to it, I think that would have made the situation worse.

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>>31956317
M
Tits. The smaller the better.

>>31956335
>so does turning a guy on too much make you nervous?
Hell yes. I have to always wear stuff that is more modest than I would personally like to not look too slutty. And even then I get worried.

>>31956278
>Gender?
M

>Ever been in a relationship?
No.

>>31955675
Very nervous. I'm fine with walking naked in front of a professional or a random stranger, but it's hard for me to get naked in front of someone I know, the first time at least.

>>31956373
What happened when it got outed? To who?

>>31956348
Only if we were in an extremely good relationship.

>>31956358
NTA but I'm very ugly and mean. Beware of my posts.

>>31956391
That would be reason enough to try my best.

>>31956322
F
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PUKAcKKQns4

>>31956369
I believe they do a "rizz", hoping not to get a "dab" on, and certainly not wearing a hat becaise they often say, "no cap"

Once in a while, I get co workers who flirt with me, say I have nice hands and face etc.

Then I learn they’re 16 when I’m 21 and it bums me out. The good thing is it stops any fantasies.