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Reposting for the new thread.
https://c.lovense-api.com/t2/gbg67t30

>>11170840
I see they have those on sale, would you recommend it? I haven't delved into prostate/perineum massagers, only plugs and dildos so far. How's the experience of getting anons to control it for you been so far?

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>>11170849
I've really enjoyed mine so far. You do have to do some slight angle adjustments to make sure it stays in and hits the right spot, but it's simple enough to do. I'll stay on for a while, so feel free to use me more~

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>>11170840
Slow thread tonight it seems. I'll be on for another hour, if you all want to have some fun.

I've been thinking about getting a vibrating prostate massager. Are they worth it? I've tried dildos and a pure wand and other maual toys like that and they haven't done much for me yet

>>11170906
A full 20% of the thread before your post was related to this question. At least skim to see what discussion is already happening in a thread before you just vomit your questions out into the ether.

>>11170906
I like mine. It has about 20 different vibration patterns. I recommend getting one with multiple patterns at different levels. They can definitely take your orgasm to 11.

If the dildo i'm working towards is 2.4in at its widest point, what size plug should I get to prep for it? I've already got a 1.75in; would grabbing a 2.5in and a 3in make sense? Or would i need to go even bigger?

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>doing coke and buttstuff
>terrible combination btw, but coke makes me horny
>go to do a bump
>it is very smooth
>too smooth
>i just did a bump of powdered lube that spilled on my mirror
My post nasal drip is very thick to say the least

>>11170988
Might be able to infer it but just in case, it's 2.4in in diameter.

>>11170909
what do you use?

>>11170989
wouldnt this fuck up your lungs? like how tf you breathin'

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Is there any difference between the Ruse Jimmy on Blush's site and a Neo Elite 7.5? They look exactly the same from the given images to me.

I was horny the other day and impulse bought a medium nox from BD. Mildly nervous since I have a medium nocturne from them I have never fully taken. Its going to be right on the ragged edge of what I think I can actually take.

Any tips on how to rape myself like >>11170129 ?

>>11171238
I am still unsure how you prop yourself up on two chairs. I am dumb and need a drawing or diagram.

>>11171006
>Anon admits to doing coke on the regular
>Worries about some other powder being snorted

>>11171244
Same
I also need a drawing or a diagram
I wanna get fucked to the point I am a sobbing mess

>>11170173
yeah but what about the smell and taste and texture

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>>11171246
coke won't, like, coagulate into goo in your lungs though...

>>11171244
>>11171247
nta, but I assume you put two chairs side-by-side so there is a gap between then where you can position the fuck machine to aim up between your cheeks if you were to sit in the middle of that gap.

>>11171293
But in this position you could simply stand up to stop, no?
I want to be unable to stop before a set time

>>11171294
You'd need a somewhat elaborate method of timed self bondage...

Best I can figure, electromagnetic locks are the best bet
I've been considering building something of the sort myself

raaaagh trying to get back into it after a few months and I forgot how annoying cleaning out is for me. Is there anything other than fiber that makes things easier? Somehow fiber makes things less solid instead of more. Cleaner, but there's always loose little particles floating around even if I space my meals out and don't snack inbetween. its annoying as fuck

>>11171294
Self-bondage in a position where you can't get away from the machine. Probably strapped into some kind of frame that is also attached to the machine so you can't move it away either. Secure the straps with a timed lock, leave your hands free to add lube as needed and to unplug the machine in an emergency.
Realistically though, you're not able to implement a solution like this, given that you're asking such basic questions instead of working on your own to figure it out. That's a good thing, because you'd probably seriously injure yourself. Self-bondage is sketchy territory and requires a lot of foresight even for high-IQ anal perverts. Get a partner or a professional dom.

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>>11170828
>>QOTD
My most embarrassing "anal" moment was when my then girlfriend (now wife) found all my dildos and plugs. It was an interesting conversation but ended going really well. I still don't think she knows just how often I fuck my butt.

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>>11170828
I'm just curious has anyone else became gay from playing with their ass too much? I feel like I went from straight "light" to gay "light".
It's not that I think I could only date guys now, but I would 100% need a gf that was dominant and into pegging if I dated a girl now and I feel like that's pretty unlikely.

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>>11171291
>coke
>lungs
The nose is very specifically made to not let particulates into the lungs. The primary mode of transport into the blood is via the soft mucous in the nasal cavity.

>>11171392
Eat pussy good enough and you can have whatever you want, anon.

>>11171392
I feel as though I may have become a little gay. But only really attracted to the penis. I don't think I could ever be in a relationship with a dude.

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>>11170828
>QOTD
When I was younger, I used to unscrew the shower head from the hose and stuff that up my ass, giving myself an enema of sorts.
Two things happened that made me stop doing that:
- I wasn't particularly good at getting all the water out, and so one day I basically had an unintentional yet self-inflicted diarrhoea attack at school. The (figurative) assholes that were trying to break into the bathroom stall later apologised.
- I wasn't aware of the rubber ring that's used as a seal between shower head and hose, and so one day it went missing. Biggest mystery in the family was where it had disappeared off to...

>>11171411
>The nose is very specifically made to not let particulates into the lungs. The primary mode of transport into the blood is via the soft mucous in the nasal cavity.
wow, TIL. Thanks for the education, anon.

>>11171456
I've had similar happen with the shower head
One time I had completely forgot to reattach the head to the hose, and absolutely no one used this shower for anything because it was one of the shitty bath combo ones and we had a dedicated shower downstairs anyway
Luckily they didn't question it a whole lot beyond 'that's a bit weird, who's messing with the shower' but I'm certain for as minor as it was everyone in the house knew about it
That alone still isn't particularly bad but I know one of my bros is gay as fuck and I bet he knows from that alone exactly what I was doing

Have any of the major toy makers announced Black Friday sales yet? Looking to build an OSSM in the near future and I'd like to get something to mount on it.

>>11171494
I know Mr Hankey toys does a black Friday or Cyber Monday sale every year. I believe it is 30% off usually.

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Question from beginner: My best routine is when i massage myself with middle finger in this position until it becomes very hard and then i change to sitting position and just sit on a finger while it presses on prostate. So i have a few(3-5) "miniorgasms?" contractions that last for minute or so with leaking precum, after that they subside. Am i even close to what is considered p-orgasm, how do you keep massaging yourself after prostate is already hard and impossible to feel the progress?

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>>11171527 (me)
I'm now reading full guide and see that i'm retarded, i'm doing this, but for some reason dildo doesn't do anything for me, just some very light stimulation. Maybe i'm doint it wrong, i guess i'll try dildo again later

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Anyone have a lovense gravity or similar "thrusting" dildo that has an internal linear drive of some sort? I'm wondering if they're worth it as an intermediate between pure vibration and full sex machine.

>take my adderall prescribed from the doctor
>turn on my fuckmachine
>all in all i ended up with
>countless anal orgasms, i ignored them mostly
>two prostate orgasms
>and im pretty sure i emptied my balls just by mindgasming because my butt was so sensitive after literally hours of fucking myself
addies has been a disaster for my penile orgasm

>>11171629
fuck, im scatterbrained. i forgot to add
>also i peed myself like 5 times

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>>11171238
Ah, i did not see your reply earlier.

I use two chairs without a back support, then lay on those with my stomach facing down, legs in the air. with the fuckmachine against the wall, these chairs are pretty high up off the ground, and when you are almost about to pass out you kind of just grab whatever nearby so you dont fall off.

Please see provided sketch if there is something you are still unsure of.

>>11171567
I don't have one but every time they come up in this thread they're universally derided as trash

>>11171567
go full sex machine, you wont regret it

>>11171649
Looking at the Hismith 3/4 myself, any real differences? Is it worth getting the one with app control for remote play?

>>11171651
the app lets you set patterns and stuff, normal control is only speed.
the patterns you can choose is like fast then slow then fast etc...
i use xtoys, there is some bangers on there like morph pattern and customizable waves and stuff. you can make your own, too.

>>11171651
the app control is real nice because it can be set to follow a pattern

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>>11171527
If this process feels good and you can tell where to press to feel better, you might want to invest in something like an aneros or another massager. It'll usually reach a little farther than your finger and give you more of the "massaging" feel you're used to.

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Anyone tried THC lube, if so how was it? I am planning to get some THC extract and mixing it with my Boy Butter.

I just had a first session with my new Coyote 3.0 and wow that was sooo good with an Aneros or my Hilt 75 inside. I am new into estim but not into anal play, do some anons have some tricks and anecdotes to share about estim ? I tried the anal electrode provided with the Coyote but it stings too much, better with pads around my hole and my dick and a toy inside.

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>>11170828
>QOTD
To make a long story short, I found myself in a conversation with my neighbors that I didn't want to be in, while high as fuck and wearing my lovense hush that was going off at full strength. Seeing as how I was high as balls, I actually didn't even remember I had the hush in my butt until maybe 2 minutes into the conversation; my neighbor was maybe only 2 or 3 feet away from me but I'm pretty sure they heard the vibration. I had to keep talking (and tried to talk loudly too) to try and cover up the vibration sounds, while slowly inching away from them. I've made my peace that they probably heard it anyway and probably know I'm a perv.

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>>11170828
>QOTD
Post lost my package or it got stolen (It was marked as delivered but I never saw a package) so I had to send an email asking where my horsecock was.
I also have to live with the knowledge that someone out there knows I'm a massive degen.

Does anyone had any experience with the anal bead attachments for their fuck machine? I'm debating buying some but I wanted to see what other people thought.

>>11171874
Literally the best. Others think it's snake oil. I've had nothing but hands free wet orgasms when using it. I combine with an edible for maximum pleasure.

The lube doesn't get you high. Just makes your hole more relaxed and prostate far more aroused and sensitive.

I’m pretty new to this, but I’ve had several occasions where I’ll play with myself with a dildo and it’ll end up feeling pretty intense (in a good way) and afterwards I’ll feel sick. Like nauseous, shaky, stressed, weak, and have a horrible stomach ache and shits for days. I do anal play fairly infrequently. Perhaps I’m not warming up correctly? How do I not get sick because it’s been scaring me from touching my ass.

>>11172343
It could be from not warming up enough or going too fast with the insertion, like stretching too quickly. Might be causing some slight internal discomfort or even possible bruising which you might be interpreting as nausea. You won't actually get sick from just doing this despite how you feel, so just try to go slower, get yourself very horny and in the mood first.

How do you deal with anal fissures?

>>11172550
stop playing, take magnesium & polyethelene glyclol. Had to learn that the hard way

>>11172553
So just take purgatives?

>>11172558
Age a few years

Are the fantasy shaped monster dildos goid for prostate play or us something thinner better?

>>11171651
Get the 3, 4 isn't worth the upcharge

App control is the best

>>11172669
for me, things with a big knob/head is better, i much prefer dildos which has a thick head and a slightly thinner shaft.

they hit just the right spot, violently :)

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>>11172709
So something like this?

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>>11172729
yeah, my current "failsafe" dildo which is guaranteed to work for me is this

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>>11172744
and since that one is a guarantee for me, im working on this now, its essentially just a much bigger version. but it takes a lot of warming up.. (its thicker than hankeys cutler x dildo im pretty sure)

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>practicing stretching, positioning, breathing, better use of psyllium, and overall better use of larger toys
>after a while, start taking bigger and bigger toys up my butt that make me shake and go half limp from my normal hard as a rock cock when playing with my ass
>can finally start using the massive monsters in my collection I bought years ago when my eyes were bigger than my butt

To all of you out there, you can and will conquer your anal goals. Whether they are knots, shafts, medial rings, fists, or whatever you want, you can and will do it. Keep going at it, keep slowly and safely going beyond a little beyond your previous limit, and you WILL get to where you want to be with anal. I thought I could NEVER pop in XL knots, huge horse cocks, and all the various beastly toys I horny bought, but I am finally starting to conquer them all, and you will too. Keep going anons, I believe in you, and you better believe in yourself!

>>11172752
>>after a while, start taking bigger and bigger toys up my butt that make me shake and go half limp from my normal hard as a rock cock when playing with my ass
dont be too focused on being hard, anon. most of the time i have a prostate orgasm or anal orgasm im limp and it just leaks out

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>>11172755
I sort of had one a few days ago when I was using my XL Chance. I love touching myself while riding, and chance was hitting SO right. I felt myself just cumming, but not a proper orgasm. I had a huge, wet, sticky glob of pre-cum just come out like I busted a fat load, but nope, I still had to keep going. I wasn't expecting it whatsoever and it felt so nice, but I didn't even really comprehend it all until after I properly came. Ugh why does anal feel so good lol.

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>>11170828
Got trapped in a bathroom while cleaning a plug, i didn't have anywhere to hide it so i flushed it down the toilet before my dad broke the lock. In hindsight maybe i should have risked it and tried to jam it in with soap as lube

>>11169811
I'm skinny with almost no hair, hetero but have paied for sex with trans prostitutes. I own a set of small buttplugs and a 5 inch skinny dildo. Bought it smaller than my own penis due to insecurity.
>>11170770
Where's that info?
I'm 37 years old.

>QOTD
Not specifically anal, but my ex gf found my miniskirt, garter belt and panties once.
I had to confess I was masturbating in woman's clothing due to a complete lack of sex with her. Went better than expected.
I almost end at the ER when I inserted a screwdriver amd my ass swallowed it whole.
I'd have to call my gf who was outside the bathroom for help, but thank Almighty yeezus, my toolbox was JUST outside the bathroom door. My ass woulda been lascerated. I still cringe thinking about it.
I bought my set of 3 plugs the very next day. I'm never messing with household shit.

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>>11170828
>QOTD
I never had a truly embarrassing moment, but there were a few close calls. I once had a exotic erotics horsecock sitting in the driveway. I shouldve just grabbed it, but I assumed my father saw it and I mentioned it. I was asked what it was, but I believe I told him it's none of his business. Another time I was having a toy from neotori shipping and apparently my dad has some system or alerts in place that show him what is coming in the mail, just not what's in it and he asked "why am I getting something from germany." I came up with a really clever on the spot response of it being a christmas present, despite christmas being like over half a year away. This did workout however because I got my mother something from poland for christmas and she was really happy with it and my dad brought it up "oh so THATS what was coming from germany!" A 3rd time, I bought a bunch of stuff from amazon, including a huge butt plug, and my father opened the box, thinking it was for him because I dont often buy things online in the first place, at least compared to my folks. Luckily, the plug was in a plain brown box, and I had other stuff like cotton bags, discount candy, and other misc things not related to anal and wanted or needed at the time. I feel like I have my luck pushed all these years, and I have over the years, acumliated over 1000 dollars worth of dildos, sex toys, lube and other things used just to help me masturbate. If I ever had myself found out like this I would probably have to move out and never talk to my folks out of shame.

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>>11172819
in this thread you are either a jaw dropping handsome, strong, tall, alpha male who is comfortable with his macho status in life that he delves and enjoys playing with his ass, or youre the cutest, sweetest, girliest twink imaginable that you make girls question what theyre doing wrong in trying to get a boyfriend. No exception; EMBRACE YOUR ROLE WITH PRIDE AND DONT LET ANYONE SWAY YOU OTHERWISE

>>11172550
>>11172557
Would recommend seeing a doctor if possible, prescription topicals like diltiazem/nifedipine are super helpful for healing because it takes a disproportionate amount of time on its own.
>purgatives
If you have hard/dry stool and constipation yeah, but you don't want to become reliant on them. Also psyllium fiber for regularity, but be sure to start small and increase your water intake to compensate because it could add too much bulk.

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>>11172817
should've just hidden it up your ass lol

whats better, caged or not?

>>11172830
Can't tell if sarcastic :/ I'm esl.
Anyway, yeah I consider myself a self made alpha macho but that only started when I turned 34 pretty much. Not drop dead handsome, but enough. Forgot to include i have a concealable, slight beer belly. Lastly I have youthful looks, almost no body/facial hair.
Yeah I'm dating a new girl and want to introduce her to my anal fetish but don't know how :/ also I'm afraid to lose my "macho man" status when i disclose this, since she'll eventually tell a girlfriend who may already know me. I live in a latin American country, so yeah this kinda stufd is still taboo.

>>11172751
well, i got bored. turns out mercury was in retrograde or something, because everything clicked today. was able to relax enough to use that big one on the fuckmachine.

christ, how the fuck am i going to be able to have "normal" sex when a fuckmachine is like 100 times better.

I have 8 or 9 inch dildo with above average girth, but I can't go past ~6 inches. It feels like hitting a wall.
Is it because the colon is like an upside down L, so I'd need extra soft dildo to bend inside there? Some people insert way bigger things, but I don't think those bend.
Idk how to train for this. I'm definitely pushing against something.

>>11172830
>the cutest, sweetest, girliest twink imaginable that you make girls question what theyre doing wrong in trying to get a boyfriend
god i wish

>>11172919
Same. I was just wondering how some people are able to fully take in and hide some of these 8+ inch toys.

>>11172863
if she ever does one of those things that women do where they're like "do you love me? :3" just throw her something like "i love you so much id let you do things to me i wouldnt let anyone else do. hell, you can peg me if you want babes" and then see how she reacts, plant that seed in her head

>>11172884
You'll just have to find someone to tie you down and run the machine for you

>>11172919
Get a spike insertable from topped toys, it'll help you work open the sigmoid

>>11172919
It's a matter of learning how to voluntarily relax the muscles that usually hold the colon in that shape. If you can do that, things move along just fine. You do need something long and flexible to train that and generally to warm up first.
You're ALSO hitting a wall before that, because there's an internal sphincter that leads into the sigmoid colon. And, if the angle isn't right, you may just be pushing into the side of the rectum and not really prodding at the sigmoid sphincter directly.

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i bought the 7.5 inch Neo Elite a bit ago, but i've only used it to frot with and to try to get rid of my gag reflex. i'm hesitant to put it inside me especially after reading the OP guides, i'm scared of injuring myself. i've only used my fingers before. any tips or anything to reassure me? should i buy a plug or something smaller to start with?

>>11173103
Warm up with fingers, stop if you feel pain, you'll be fine

>>11173014
EKSHUELLY, I already told her i loved a thing she did on her own which is lick my asshole (I shave it), so she's doing it more and more.
She visited today and asked me to pretty much be in all fours and lick my ass, I didn't, goddamnit my "macho" mentality got the best of my, I had just showered too.
I just moved on my side and she went to town :p

I'm doing good I guess , and your suggestion seems pretty neato. We're not at the "I love you" stage though, but there's a lot of attraction.

>>11173226
What an age we live in where getting your asshole licked comes before saying "I love you"

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>>11170828
>QOTD
I've played with my ass off-and-on for a while, but I think I was in High School when I lost a diving flashlight inside once. Didn't get caught. I had the house to myself because my mom was on vacation. I can't find a picture of it but it was green with a fabric cord on the end (that I removed), and you twisted the head of it to turn it on. I'm sure I can't remember the dimensions but it was around 5" long, the handle was a bit over an 1" diameter, and the head was at least 1.5". The narrow end was rounded and the whole thing was a single piece of plastic, so it was easy to clean off. I went too deep with it because I was getting used to the sensation, and sat on it on the bathroom floor. I was enjoying the stretch probably and then suddenly I felt it enter and my ass cinched closed behind it. It then found the bend and went at a slight angle, not too deep, but enough that it was stuck at an angle where it didn't line up with the exit anymore.

I had to use every way to work it out; pushing on it from the outside, kneeling and laying on my side with my knees up digging with my fingers, and I had to probe a little deep too until I found the edges of the head. Then every time I would get a grip on it my fingers would slip off. Finally I pushed my fingers in as firmly as I could and gripped the flashlight as hard as I could, pulling while pushing at the same time. I got it to pop the head out and I removed it, much to my great relief of not having to go to the doctor. There were seemingly no aftereffects. After that, when I went to the dumpsters the next time I threw it away so as to avoid doing that again.

Obviously I wasn't deterred because I'm here now, and I've since made my own toys. They're about 1.75~1.8" average diameter and the longer one is made out of 00-30 silicone, insertable to about 9" but the last inch is a pointed animal tip. They have flared bases on them too (no shit).

Anyone here got the atlas xxxl or the beefcake xxl? want to chime in?
my cutler x dildo from they are so nice im HEAVILY considering getting a bigger one...

I woke up this morning to see one of my platinum cured silicone toys had called over onto an onahole I left to air dry. They both had a greasy film on them where they contacted so I cleaned both with soap and water. How much damage got caused to my silicone toy realistically?

>>11173359
Fallen over*

>>11173103
Giwtwm

>>11173359
>>11173362
Fake platinum cured silicone if they're reacting to each other

>>11173611
The onahole is not silicone. This is a case of silicone touching the or whatever they're made of.

>>11173623
Touching Tpe, god phone posting sucks.

>QOTD
Several times I have said "I love you" to a dildo or penis.

The worst: My BF had just came in me when I grabbed his flaccid penis, planted a kiss on it, and said "I love you so much!". My BF started laughing at me, dumped me for being too weird, and then kicked me out of his house. We had been drinking that night, and I was in no shape to drive. So I took the night bus of shame back home, drunk, sad, and still in my dress.

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>>11170828
I'm sure this is a weird thing but I am curious if anyone else does this
Does anyone assign a character to a specific dildo and imagine you're getting fucked by them only when using that dildo?
I like the thought of getting fucked by futa chicks with differently sized and shapes of dicks

>>11173701
I used to do that when I had some dildos that had ordinary male names and professions attached to them (something like Manuel the lifeguard or whatever). I don't do that with generic ones; maybe I should although I find that talking dirty to myself already does quite a bit.

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Here to report my recent breakthrough buttslut discoveries.
Squalene oil is king! it makes my butt feel like it's an entirely new upgraded organ. Definitely recommended. Few drops of Squalene oil into my usual smooth rigid toy and it's made my hole feel as if I was pounding a soft pudding! and my toy felt softer even if it's rock hard. The oil tends to not stick well when I put it on the toy due to poor adhesion but that's precisely why it has powerful lubrication properties. It also helps to know that Squalene is not "acidic" since it does not have fatty-acids or anything similar. (it makes sense now that the vaginal fluid also contains squalene).

It is likely that the longer the fatty acid or carbon chains the better it is for lubrication. In particular the Squalene oil is longest I found and best I tried. Might experiment with Dimethicone and other stuff next and also try out incorporating Essential oils into the lube mixtures.

Other infos
https://mytribos.org /proceedings/mitc2015/pdf/p217_219.pdf
RCO (refined coconut oil) is slightly better than VCO I just found out. I think that RCO might be a superior choice and some are deodorized (if one doesn't like the coconut smell). though in general VCO is far less superior than EPO (evening primrose oil) in my experience and the reasoning is VCO is more susceptible to hydrolysis making it stickier in the long run with water exposure (in mucosal usage). RCO is less susceptible to hydrolysis making it an even better choice but EPO is I think equally just as good and maybe better in presence of moisture.

Since EPO in general has a distinct smell one might not like (I do like it though), RCO might be a better consideration.

>>11171392
I'm still attracted to feminity more than masculinity, but I'm now more attracted to cocks than pussies. It's tough to find an ideal partner now. I think my perfect partner would be either a femboy or a trans woman who still enjoys topping, but they're both rare, unfortunately.

>>41662590
Sorry if this is the wrong place, continuing a message I had with an Anon that was trying to help me with my journey. I'd take any help if anyone is willing though to give advice!
So first, the biggest problem I have is simply getting horny, I feel like I don't ever get that hot feeling in my chest with thoughts of "I really want this" and such, which is, again, very depressing.
As for how I felt, well, it was nice, this was maybe 1:30 into my session or so, I was getting a bit tired for sure but I was rocking my entire body back in forth, sort of like I was pushing myself around it? This was maybe a week or so after I started. I felt like I was sort of building up? But I was losing stamina for flexing the muscle (who's name I've forgotten, but it's the main one) and felt like I was simply not going to reach much higher so I stopped. I think that was the biggest one, after that I could get into a close state like that (albeit weaker) not too long after I started, but this went away after I took a few month break (of when I was not horny at all). If you have any sort of help for getting horny or in the mood, please help me Anon, it sucks! I've tried everything I swear! Even taking Maca (most likely a scam, only 1 scientific article I've found that might help with that).

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>>11174054
NTA, but you should do it proper, nonny:
>>>/mlp/41662590

>>11174058
Do what?

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>>11174062
Linking to a post on another board, silly~

>>11174058
Err, sorry, I meant more how to do it. I forgot to add he talked about jacking off while using the Helix, but I've never tried, and heard it was better to not touch that while doing it? I've tried it with my We-Vive Vector and I feel like I would lose focus on that area of my body. I am tired, I apologize for my stupid first reply

>>11174066
Oh never mind, I just seem to misunderstand everything, sorry. Is that bad to do? If you're trying to help me in any way I greatly appreciate it, I can only wish it gets somewhere. I feel like I'm doing something wrong though

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>>11174069
You're so cute when you're flustered...but no, you're doing fine. Just messed up the syntax a little.

>>11174074
Bahaha, thanks, sadly I'm not flustered, at least yet. I just got home and was eating so, sort of difficult go get in mood during that time. Plus am quite tired. Really sweet of you(s?) to try though, I do appreciate it a lot, just don't have expectations on me, I'd be sad not to reach them (or anywhere near them)

>>11174054
>I took a few month break (of when I was not horny at all)
A few months break of anal masturbation or a few months break of all masturbation? To a certain extent being horny is kind of like a muscle that you have to keep exercised; the human body has ways of suppressing sexual desire for long periods of time when it feels necessary to do so so you should try to avoid that state.

With regards to getting horny to do the deed, I guess the question is to what extent you want to get fucked in the ass the first place. It took me years to eventually get to the point of seriously wanting to do anal play (and even then I would sometimes feel some regret and throw away my toys, before buying more and starting up again), and part of what helped me along the journey was consuming a lot of hentai, especially lighter shotacon / yaoi stuff with more feminine-looking characters deriving pleasure from anal sex which led me to connect a penis (real or fake) going into a man's anus with normal sexual arousal.

>>11174094
All masturbation, which was a huge oddity given I usually did it every day (before I tried butt stuff, and a bit recently).
I'd let my partner (of which I have had none) do me in basically any way, and I think it'd be fun to experiment like that. By myself it's a bit more tough, I used to get quite aroused by some shota and gay stuff (albeit this was in my furry years), and have greatly enjoyed gay pony stuff.
I feel like I'm not super into being pounded simply because I feel like I won't get any pleasure out of it (or just unsure), and I'd like to change that. I did try to imagine myself as the bottom when I tried using my Helix and such. A bit tough, I'm more than happy to being dominated or being very submissive, so that's not the problem.
And I won't be buying anything more I think, at least for butt stuff (which is all I have) and for sure won't throw anything away, I've spent way too much already, and I knew it wasn't some instant gratification thing, but more like a skill. You say that being horny is like a muscle, if you've got any way for me to train that, personal experience or even better lots of people's experiences then please do say so.

>>11174101
>furry
>gay pony
I wonder if maybe you're just kind of burnt out in terms of porn and by extension sexual stuff because you're too used to super niche fetishes, and trying anal is an extension of that. I'm not homosexual so I'm not sure how helpful any advice I can give would be, but perhaps you should try jacking it to whatever you consider vanilla (involving humans, fictional or otherwise) once every other day for starters and not bother with anal for a while.

>>11174108
I've thought about that, and it might be true. I used to read a bunch of doujishins (I preferred kemonomimi, so maybe that's where I got started) but now most of it doesn't interest me that much. Real life stuff even less, though I do think if I had a partner I'd be attracted to them (or hope so, at least).
I might give that a try, before my burnt out I was doing stuff online with other people, though that mainly left me feeling worse in the end, even though the high's were higher, oh well.
I'm definitely more attracted to women in real life, perhaps that's simply femininity though, hard to say.
If only I had someone that loved me bahaha

>>11174101
>I'd let my partner (of which I have had none) do me in basically any way, and I think it'd be fun to experiment like that.
I'm also from that mlp thread and I am the same way, anon. Let's date and take turns pretending to be the filly~

>>11174126
If I like you, and you live in Vanhoover then sure, why not, bahaha

>>11174054
Hi anon! This is the anon that was originally chatting with you in the other thread. The jannies were probably right, that probably wasn't the best place to discuss this stuff. But here seems comfy!

For everyone else, here's some more context in the form of anon's original predicament and questions pertaining to a post of mine mentioning I had experience with anal play, Aneros in particular. It was sadly deleted, along with my original responses, in a thread on another board:

>"Do you have any tips for it? Or in general with letting yourself get pleasure from them? I've had a Helix Syn for a 5 months now (yet sadly, barely used, but here I am wanting to get back into it) and I've read the wiki and other stuff, yet one thing I heavily struggle with is feeling sleepy laying in bed while using it. I have my eyes closed the entire time so I can try to focus specifically on it, maybe I ought to change that but I'd feel awkward in bed trying to look at stuff as well. I also feel like by the time I'm done setting up (only a few minutes, really) I'm less horny, which is a huge bummer given that I don't get horny a lot by myself. I don't know, I also have a We-Vibe Vector, squarepegs, and the big metal n-joy (which I cannot use for the life of me), I've only gotten in any sort of pleasurable-ish state with the Helix Syn, though I quite enjoy plugs. I'm confused Anon! Help! I need a mentor! I feel left out hearing masters of the trade like you, bahaha, oh well."

>>11174131
Oh hey! Thanks for following me here, and they are right, even though it was annoying to be deleted. Hope you can give me some wisdom here maybe

>>11174129
Southeastern US, unfortunately. I wish I could be there to make you feel good, but you'll have to settle for a [spoiler]*kiss*[/spoiler] and an [spoiler]"I love you~"[/spoiler]

>>11174135
Poor spoilers... But thanks bahaha. I'm sure you'll find someone Anon, much more likely than me, that's for sure!

>>11174136
You're so cute, bahahanon. I just want to cuddle up with you, wrapped in the warmth of a cozy bed, and softly whisper positive affirmations into your ear until you truly love yourself.

>>11174140
Thanks, I can only wish someone will do that to me some day. I don't know if it's as much self-love problem as it is just insecurities (which I don't think count as self-love?). If you're willing to go this far for a stranger like me then whoever you'll get will be a very lucky pony!

>>11174134
Hi hi!
My original response from the other thread for further context/continuity:

>"Hiya anon! Yeah, I can provide some tips! So first of all, I was in your exact position when I first started getting into Aneros, so no worries there. Doing research and discovering more info/experiences is key to finding out what has worked for others, and how you can make it work for you! That's pretty much what I did for the first few months too. So, I'd definitely recommend using natural lubricants such as shea butter or coconut oil, and PLENTY of it. What I've been doing for a couple years now is actually melting down the shea butter or coconut oil using a small double boiler setup. I then pour it into a mini ice cube mold tray to portion it out into smaller bits and refrigerate for easier handling per session. They get super slick as they quickly melt using your body heat. I can't stress enough how important it is to ensure that the aneros is highly mobile while in there, like it needs to be able to freely shift around slightly. You'll definitely notice a difference when it is free to shift and massage with your body's natural movements, vs just sorta sitting in there. As far as the falling asleep goes, I only really use mine when I'm feeling very aroused/horny, so sleep usually isn't on the docket then. I have experienced the issue with the prep time though. Sometimes I'll just find some hot pics or read a favorite doujinshi to get back into the mood.
Continued...

>>11174145
>Of course, I can't forget to mention that you absolutely can sleep with the Aneros in! Again, just make sure you're very well lubricated beforehand. There have been occasions where I have either purposely or inadvertently fallen asleep with it in, only to be jolted awake halfway through the night by some VERY intense waves of pleasure radiating through me! Like, leg shaking, core spasming pleasure! Again, this has mostly happened when I was already in a particularly horny state of mind. So, I noticed you had a Vector, that's a nice, high quality toy! Unfortunately, for me at least, I can't really get behind (in front of? onto?) vibrating prostate toys, they feel good for a moment, but then I find the vibrations actually start to numb the area, like, it just rattles everything around until everything feels like nothing. That's just personal preference though. So, when you say you've felt in a pleasure-ish state with the Helix, what are you feeling exactly? If you can describe it. When I first started out with mine, I would just pop it in and proceed to masturbate normally, just with that little extra sensation the Aneros would provide. That's how I learned what the Aneros is supposed to feel like, in that moment just before orgasm, when your body juuuust starts to take over the orgasm autonomously (past the "edge" of your manual input), you'll feel the Aneros pulsate and move with your body's natural rhythm during climax. Familiarize yourself with those feelings! Then, when you work up to handsfree sessions, you'll be more in tune with those feelings, and learn to harness them.

>>11174147
Right, I think I said it here but I do wonder if you believe I should masturbate normally while using it. I think I might have tried once? Recollecting enough, but I guess I'd have to do it for you and give an update. Heck, I was using the Vector when I first put up my message, really gotta force myself to keep on having something there or else I'll get lazy

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is this a normal concern to have when using a buttplug? or is it only if you're already severely GAPED?

>>11174150
It really is a game of persistence and discovery! I know many of the guides explicitly state to avoid touching your penis while wearing the Aneros, and I attempted that for quite a while. But in the end, what really helped me understand the Aneros' place in my bum and the feelings it's supposed to illicit while handsfree, was wearing it while experiencing a traditional penile orgasm, and analyzing and trying to recreate that sensation it generates during that split second your body goes into autopilot right as your orgasm begins. I then started honing in on those feelings during handsfree sessions. At first, it would begin with feeling a nice warm sensation slowly radiating from what I can only assume is my prostate, kinda from the back of my penis if you will. That's when I'll really start searching for and honing in on those feelings, maybe flex my pelvic floor muscles slightly (like you're trying to stop a stream of urine or make your cock jump/twitch, those muscles.) During this time, I've found that laying on my stomach helps with amplifying those subtle feelings.
Continued...

>>11174166
Hmm, I see, maybe I ought to try then. Flexing my floor muscles definitely gives me interesting feelings though, I end up having my legs/pelvis sort of move around because of it, I like doing it when I've got a plug in as well.
I will wait on your other message though!

>>11174166
A little while of that and I'm usually off to the races! The warm waves will get faster and more intense, they'll eventually change into something more like a resonance or quick pulses. I find that at this stage is when I usually flip to my back or perhaps the fetal position. I also let myself gyrate my hips a bit more and moan freely... It sounds silly, but it's all about releasing inhibitions, letting your body just take over, not to care about how it all looks or sounds. You just need to not care about all that, let the feelings be your only thought. Once I get in that state, the real intense sensations begin. My whole body will start to tense up in sync with the waves generated by the Aneros and my prostate. It'll start as a little twitch, usually visible through my cock twitching, sorta like a dry orgasm, then build and build and build until BOOM! I'm shaking and moaning and just riding that wave like a pro surfer hanging 10! Literal ahegao face on!

>Heck, I was using the Vector when I first put up my message, really gotta force myself to keep on having something there or else I'll get lazy
Hmmmm, were you using the vibrating function? If so, perhaps try not using vibrating toys for a while. I know it sounds counterproductive, but I swear, the vibrations make your body require that kind of brute force "BBBZZZZZZBBBBZZZZZZ" stimulation to just feel anything at all after a while. Sorta like how some drugs require the user to take more and more to feel the same level of "high" after using for a while. Just a hypothesis, mind you.

>>11174171
Hmm, I actually do remember how I felt, and how I did it, so here it is.
I would tense up for about 30-40 seconds, then slowly release, and then midway through I'd have my body go through the rocking? Back in forth? You know, moving around thing, and I'd usually move my hips to the rhythm.
About the moaning and stuff like that, I well, never used to do any sounds, and I still don't, I did try (basically forcing myself, though maybe some were genuine) but yeah.
And on the vibrator, I think I said that before, I go few minutes on-off given that I go through exactly that, stop feeling much, and then when I stop I get this, sort of chill? It's really not strong but, it's the best feeling.I think I'd have more fun with a plug if I wanted to flex myself against it. And I only used the lowest power (which I find still too strong), but maybe stronger is better, who knows, I've only used it like 4 times so.
I wish I had a friend like you who would stay with me and help me through my (most likely) month/year long journey. Being all alone definitely makes it harder I think.

>>11174174
Ah, I've heard of that technique before. I even tried using it for a while. With that technique, your clenching for 30-40 seconds and then releasing slowly is causing your pelvic floor muscles to spasm or twitch due to the slight overexertion, sort of like the same effect you get in your arms after lifting weights or using a weed-wacker/trimmer. Your arms get shaky when trying to utilize fine muscle control right afterwards for a while.
That technique is handy for trying to softly mimic what that "autonomous" spasming feeling is supposed to feel like. However that particular way of doing it just never really got me further than that. I ultimately chose to use that as a stepping stone, and not a full technique.
>And on the vibrator, I think I said that before, I go few minutes on-off given that I go through exactly that, stop feeling much, and then when I stop I get this, sort of chill? ...and I only used the lowest power (which I find still too strong), but maybe stronger is better, who knows...
Hmmmm, I still think you should hold off on any vibratory stimulation for a while, even if you are just doing it on and off. I swear once I stopped using vibrating butt toys, it really let my sensors in there reset.
>I wish I had a friend like you who would stay with me and help me through my (most likely) month/year long journey. Being all alone definitely makes it harder I think.
Aww, you're sweet anon. I believe in you! It can most certainly be an exercise in frustration at times, but once you find your groove and combination of toy type, lubrication, positioning, and most importantly, mindset. You'll start unlocking such good feelings for yourself! I just know it!

>>11174140
You're cute anon.

>>11174189
Thanks, I'll try to find a new way then instead of the holding thing. I don't mind not using vibrator either, not like it did much for me anyways.
Still, I'm just never in the mood. I might as well just try because why not, but I'm afraid I'll just get sleepy since most times I'd do it in the evening, and it's a big time investment, 1-2 hours of complete isolation.
Here I was wishing we could talk about this again some time, gosh darn aren't I lonely and get way too easily attached to people who are nice to me... Oh well.
I'll do my best Anon, it's just tough hearing so many success stories for me, I'm afraid I won't be able to let myself have this, but, enough about me, all I do is complain it seems bahaha.

>>11174131
I'm a different anon, and my comment on /mlp/ also got deleted, and I'm not sure if you saw it, but I'd appreciate your thoughts.

>Is that toy going to be too big for a newbie? The idea has me excited, but the most I’ve ever taken before was probably like 3 inches of girth.
>Would a water based lube work okay, or does it really need to be coconut oil or shea butter for it to be a good time?

>>11174147
Seconding the vibrating comment. At first the vibs can help you distinguish your nerves but you will want to get away from the vibrator and on to a Aneros or other bent device asap. The vibrator is just too much at first. Once you git gud with the Aneros like folks here have said, then reintroduce vibration.

>>11174197
>>Would a water based lube work okay, or does it really need to be coconut oil or shea butter for it to be a good time?

No you can use whatever lube you want, but water lube does not last as long in my experience. You need more of it, more often. I find silicone lubes to last very well, but sometimes they work too well, and can be difficult to clean.

>>11174199
Alright, it has be stowed away, and in stead I've put my Helix on my desk, maybe that'll help me to try it out more. I wonder if it would be a good idea to clean it and leave it on my desk before if I'm to spend a few hours there. Washing it beforehand is definitely the most tedious part for me.

>>11174191
>Thanks, I'll try to find a new way then instead of the holding thing.
You can still use the holding technique for sure! I was just saying that particular technique ended up just being a part of my journey. This is yours though, and if you find that helps you get things feeling good, then definitely keep at it while also attempting other techniques too.
>Still, I'm just never in the mood. I might as well just try because why not, but I'm afraid I'll just get sleepy since most times I'd do it in the evening, and it's a big time investment, 1-2 hours of complete isolation.
Hmmm, I'm wondering if there's something larger at play here regarding your struggles with arousal. I think I read in your discussions with another Anon earlier that you took a few months break, during which you weren't horny at all. Was this break voluntary? Were you just very busy with life? Just curious because that anon that replied to you is correct, the human body definitely has ways of suppressing sexual desire if it feels necessary to do so, typically in situations of high stress.
>Here I was wishing we could talk about this again some time, gosh darn aren't I lonely and get way too easily attached to people who are nice to me...
We're still chatting, but I do have to head to bed soon-ish. This thread will hopefully be up for a while though.
>I'll do my best Anon, it's just tough hearing so many success stories for me, I'm afraid I won't be able to let myself have this, but, enough about me, all I do is complain it seems bahaha.
Don't, and I mean absolutely DON'T compare yourself to anyone else when it comes to this sorta stuff. I got caught in that trap several times throughout my attempts with anal play/orgasm. You just simply can't let yourself get hung up in that comparative mindset. You're not complaining! All I see in this conversation so far is a sweet anon that reached out and asked for help from another anon that shares in a common interest. I don't see a complainer.

>>11174190
Y-you too

>>11174197
Oh yeah! I think I caught your comment right before it was deleted! Hi other anon, nice to see you!
>Is that toy going to be too big for a newbie? The idea has me excited, but the most I’ve ever taken before was probably like 3 inches of girth.
The Helix is roughly 3in inches in circumference, so probably around an inch or so wide/tall. I'd say it's a great toy for a newbie to anal play/prostate stimulation! It is fairly approachable. I say go for it!
>Would a water based lube work okay, or does it really need to be coconut oil or shea butter for it to be a good time?
Water based lube is mediocre in my opinion, it dries out too quickly and just doesn't offer much in the realm of playtime. Water-based lubricants struggle with butt play especially because, well, your butt is designed to remove moisture from the stuff inside of it! So it ends up zapping the water right outta the lube. Silicone based lubricants are a no-no with silicone toys like the Syn series from Aneros, or any silicone toys really. It can damage/break down the rubber/silicone construction of the toy, especially the silicone used by Aneros. You won't notice the damage right away, but over time it WILL start to break down with constant exposure. Not to mention the health aspect of inserting a bunch of artificial chemicals and petroleum products used in making silicone lubricants right into an organ that is specifically designed to absorb whatever is in there! It just doesn't sit well with me. Besides, I've found that shea butter and coconut oil both last longer and create a much slicker layer around whatever you I'm using. Plus, with coconut oil at least, you can pretend you're at a naughty luau on a tropical island, drinking a pina colada! It's a nice scent! Hehe

>>11174210
Hehe. Does "sleepover" ring a bell?

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shalom, horsefags
please remember to post a pic now and then

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>>11174220
Ah, you're right! Lemme see here...

>>11174219
I wasn’t one of those anons but that was immensely hot and I want in so badly.

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>>11174236
This could be us.

>>11174238
It could be… as long as you promise to be gentle with me. It’d be my first time.

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>>11174236
Heh, not much sleep seems to happen at sleepovers...

>>11174243
Mmm, not for a long while, I bet. But imagine the post sex cuddles after we’re all exhausted~
I want to fall asleep in your arms… in your scent… and then do it all over again in the morning.

>>11174163
What a massive faggot, no wonder his wife left him.

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>>11174247
Mmm, that sounds like quite the picturesque and comfy scenario anon. I'd sleep like I haven't slept in ages if that were the case.
Of course, you laying there all cute like puts you in prime neck nibbling and ear whisping zone~