is it fetishising gay men to let the local fags have a bump of our coke if they kiss each other and let us watch?
Wrong flag
>>42333725yoai afab flag
>>42333725I don't do drugs but I'd be down.
>>42333725nah theres nothing wrong w having a few hobbiesyou can join too if ur cute
>>42333725yes but it is still based to distribute coke around your neighbourhood
So I wanted to discuss something about trans spaces in general. Not mtf, not ftm, not enby stuff, just trans in general. Trans here includes nonbinary and thats actually something I wanna vent about too.Is anyone else feeling just sck and tired of trans people not even seeing gender critical ideas about trans people seeping into trans spaces via enbies and enbies also trying to segregate themselves from binary trans people? People keep saying that truscum are the problem, but it seems to me from everything I've personally seen in my spaces and my algorithms that transphobic enbies, puritanism, label seeking, egg/babytrans vulnerability, refusing to hear people out, binary trans butch erasure, weird stigma against trans men (at least some people get this right now), political extremism, exclusivity in general, and tokenism of brown and black people that are the problems.Surely its not just me. Is anyone else seeing this in more safe-ish city spaces and/or online? Do people get what I'm talking about? Its extremely frustrating.
>>42333719I mean if anyone would listen that would be one thing. But y'all (in the big lefty cities or at least mine) won't chill out and listen a little. We've also got this weird neolib thing going on like... people put brown and black people on a weird pedestal. On TDOV, I heard people put allies above trans people in general because they were so focused on saying the right things, that they only mentioned black and brown people and allies. Like its cool we wanna help then, but all of us should be uplifted. I don't know how to explain this one well, but I promise I am trying to explain a genuine issue that I've heard black and brown people be frustrated about. But I can't talk about it because there's this weird puritanism, this holier than thou thing in the community.>>42333708You're on a bad path. You're potentially highlighting another problem with our toxic af community; going from far left to far right on a dime or seeing far left and immediately going far right.Extremism is all too common. Please just chill. Give people time to understand their gender and discuss things. This isn't the way. Neither of these weird polarities are right. They just appear to be because no one talks.
I’ve literally never had a single problem in real life from a trans med. Yet trans*mascs act like they’re the most hateful problematic fatphobic racists MAGA voters you’ve ever seen, before explaining that trans women are male women, and trans men are female women.
>>42333322I'm confused and I don't understand what specifically your complaint is? You think enbies are trying to bring gender critical ideas into trans spaces? Why would they being doing that? What are the gender critical ideas you're concerned about?
>>42333854Talking is a waste of time. You will never understand your gender through dialogue.
>>42333322Of course cis ideas would infiltrate the trans community if you let cis people into the trans community
when should one start fatmaxxing? i always had been skinny and low body fat percentage. now i have been on e for 7 months. i wonder if it is time to gain some weight. >t.ranny 180cm 65kg
>>42330402>65kg youre already fat
>>42333533>20.1 bmium no you stupid fucking anamoder, she isn't
>>42333597both of you are fat
>>42330402i cant explain it but this cat kind of looks like mwahanon
>>42333668I, with my 35 bmi am absolutely fat and love it, but 20bmi is absolutely not fat.
did FFS take anyone here from passing a lot of the time but occasionally getting misgendered to passing all the time? give me hopefuel
>>42332460what? i'm just asking a question.
>>42332407No i went from passing all the time to passing all the time.
>>42332407what about 0% of the time to 100% of the time
i really want ffs someday even though ive never been gendered male and my bf doesnt think i need it. hopefully i can look better
>>42332407FFS works, if you're really worried make sure to get a good surgeon
Is any other foreign tranny debating staying in your own country till things cool off politically for trans folk ?
Being (newly) single kind of sucks ass but at least I get the new experience of a guy on tinder asking me to give him a wedgie
>>42333172No yeah we very vaguely discussed kinks then he opened with wedgie
>>42333187>giving lil bro a wedgie as gender affirming care
>>42333202He was cism (unlike my ex)
are you gonna do it?
>>42333640Absolutely not, especially since he unmatched me after presumably getting off (I was engaging and redirecting away from the direly unsexy stuff in hopes that I would later get sucked off but honestly I was relieved)
>start doing DIY EEn in December>can't tell if my balls have shrunk because it's cold where I live or because the estrogen is actually working
>>42330155just get a blood test? you zoomers are useless>>42333406>what docome back in a year or two
>>42333571but thats too long
>>42333592yes, what did you expect?
>>42333623i was expecting for there to be some sign of it working. i was expecting some sort of difference
when my balls started shrinking/not working it was physically painful. I was getting sporadic cramp-like pain for 1-2 months. I think this is common
>Why do chasers treat me poorly??!??!!Because if I don't your warped brain will see me as weak, you'll lose respect for me, lose interest and break my heart. More than anything I want a storytale romance, but trannies aren't capable of it. Behind every dickhead chaser, there's a line of evil trannies who made him that way.
>>42331944ok bro how's r9k these days
Fair.. but when you troon out that isnt my fault for seeing you as a weak loser
>>42331944>storytale romanceThe term is FAIRYtale romanceYou knowCuz fairy means gay
>>42333619>tfw no fae prince bf
Accidently got really drunk and high and told literally every single friend (both IRL best friends and online friends) in a big group chat that I'm trans or non binary and want to go by they/them. Then told a few friends in private I'm trans.I'm too scared to open up my messages now, I saw a few previews and my friend said she's happy no matter what I do and that we should go shopping, a few other people seemed maybe supportive. A lot of my friends messaged me asking if I was okay or needed to talk but I just ignored them mostly.I feel like I fucked everything up and I honestly just want to crawl in to a hole and disappear forever, for reference I'm a detransitioner/repressor for like 4.5 years now (prev 5ish years on hrt)i also wrote a big letter to myself begging myself to transition even if I don't feel like it in the morning
>>42329104i started even later (30) and while its not ideal its still better than repping
take your HRT again, retard
nona don't retard, start HRT again, you've already done the hard part now of cutting out all the people who would leave you! Enjoy your life <3
>>42329050drunk you is right, stop repping start living nonajust get on the juice at least
Bro just say you blacked out and we’re probably joking and call them dumb for buying it. Cmon dog I shouldn’t have to spell it out to u
Would you date a transbian neet that wants to absorb herself into your life and learn about the things you like and become very very attached to you?
>>42331580Yes
>>42331596Cute
>>42331600hmm i am not trans or a woman i fearso alas we must both suffer
can i suffer too
>>42331651No
sissifying myself at low dose estrogen plus other things (clothing, decoration, beauty stuff, even entertainment) is so fun, youre very horny but in a gay way ahhh
>>42333181glad you found your optimal levels to be a coomer and somewhat transition
>>42333181What r ur levels sissynona?
>>42333181Everyday we stray further from god
>>42333378no idea but im taking 2.5mg/day
In my objective understanding of cis society, i have come to one very harrowing realization for cis women. There is nothing sadder, more pitiful than a cis woman who has forsaken family for career. Its simply not natural. And you can tell, you always can, no matter how they phrase it, the resentment of having chosen career over family echos from their soul. Whenever the topic comes up, its easily noticeable how the things they say about birth and kids, about how they want no part in it etc etc etc, its all just harrowing, deep, severe cope. The pain is in and between their words.They shouldn't be at work, they should be having kids, raising them, sharing happy and wonderful moments with them. They crave it so deeply in their soul. Cats are no true replacement for their biological imperative. They are fundamentally the most earthly of creatures, cis women desire deep down to be like mother earth, and procreate. To work away in some office building, is like ontological suicide for a cis woman..If you know any cis women in your family or friends circle who are working, please remind them that their clock is ticking.
>>42331708Did you just tip your fedora while mansplaining the female biological imperative? Did you really just do that? Wow, just, wow.
>>42331708>stop seething, get breeding
>>42330292
please actually kys, you're a man larping as a lesbian and this post proves it
at this point I'm convinced office retard is a psyop by TERFs to make transbians look worse
/lesgen/ is the lesbian general for all cis women and trans women (MtF) to discuss lesbian relationships and topics.Be kind to each other and report/ignore trolls who attempt to divide trans mtf lesbians and cis lesbians as a community. This includes transphobic bigotry, femmephobia, butchphobia, racism, and anti-c4t/t4t slop. This is nice thread. :)QOTT>Favorite fast food slop meal of choice?>Do you keep any secrets from your gf?>Would you want to know if your gf was being unfaithful?>Have you introduced your gf to your parents?tagmap: https://tagmap.io/tag/%2Flesgen%2Fdiscord: https://discord.gg/bAnVMAGPNRold thread: >>42279925
>>42335111>>42335111trips of truth. JorHON 58 is fucked
new thread>>42335213
>>42335111I genuinely cant even imagine what could happen that would affect me besides riots that extend 20+ miles out of the city
>>42335465Didn't he dock your Food stamps
Jordan licking toilet!
Never found a game more relatable than this one
Heather was one of my first crushes
>>42329136Same
>>42325961Its been my favorite game sinve i was like 13My heather figure and collection of all the ps2 sh games are like prized possessions for me
In my restless dreams, I see that board /lgbt/.
>>42333302Husstuss
can someone give me a rundown on SRS?my country is offering me free SRS and initially I was hesitant but after somme consideration I realised that being pre op is stopping me from feeling like a real woman... I have to do it, no matter the cost. I don't care if recovery is painful, I don't care if there's a risk I'll be botched, I can't pass up this opportunityI have no idea what my options are regarding techniques and surgery, but any advice would be welcome
>>42331803Which country? I can probably find something.
>>42331811UK...
>>42331803>>42331879your doctor is expecting you to come back with things like>i understand that it will be constantly infected>i understand that it will be painful to attempt to use it for sex>i understand that it is likely to shrink and not be usable for sex>i understand that it will not be lubricated>i understand that it will need one hour of dilation a day for life(these are all false btw)
>>42333472in UK/EU? idk nona some of these might be true
>>42333485well idk none of them are true wrt my vagina but they are all often repeatedthere's a bit of self-fulfilling prophecy if your doctors believe it though (no need to examine for granulation if it can be blamed on not dilating enough, no need to treat infections if they can just do soap douches, etc.) hopefully you can research enough to fight them on shit like that.