Did y'all stuck with male underwear or swapped to girl ones? Since haven't gotten surgery I'm still sticking to tighty whities lol
>>42163462I rarely use underwear
>>42163462I typically wear female briefs at this point. Honestly they're just more comfortable to me considering I'm not too big and am a grower. I don't really tuck, but it keeps stuff in place better. Also, usually when I get home from work I change out of my manmode clothes, so I like not having to swap my underwear.
>>42163462i just wear the calvin klein panties or tucking underwear outfit depending
>>42163462i wore boxers for years and also refused to wear a bra. would highly not recommend. switching to briefs reduced genital dysphoria immensely and it's much more comfortable with a sportsbra. but yes, i stuck with male underwear.
>>42163462i wear female panties because i am post op and i have a vagina
Homura editionPrevious: >>41924395>QotTWho's your waifu/husbando?Tagmap: https://tagmap.io/tag/%2Fbigen%2FFAQ:>Am I bi if I like women and femboys/traps?>Am I bi if there's this one member of the same-sex I'm desiring, but normally I like the opposite sex?>Am I bi if I sexually like both sexes, but only interested in romance with one of them?Yes, sexual attraction to both sexes is bisexuality.>Do you have presents ready for me Santa?Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>42162274Sorry to hear that. Set aside the ED issue, there’s really no excuse for being a lazy lover, in my book. As with most things in life: you get out what you’re willing to put in. Goes for both partners though. >complains about having to use finger or tongueCould be that he feels inadequate for having to resort to this to satisfy you? Might be worth doing some work on that. As for ED, might be head issues but also might just be fitness. If the latter, put him on a cardio regime. It’ll be good for him.
>>42162044>>42162274Unironically break up. ED is one thing but if he can't even help you get off, he won't get any better in bed. You have to find a partner who gives a shit.
>>42162044I want a wife who's bisexual and will have girlfriend, ideally the wife of a friend.An arrangement like this should help, no? Like I'll never a 100% female cameradery while male so it'd be cruel to block my wife off from that on an intimate level.>>42162274Oh it's a more basic issue, he's demoralized (/ depressed) and/or stuck on some overly constrained narrow idea like "I have to act like this to be manly in bed", like thinking there could be a ritual or a method to intimacy. Like actual very much "him" issues that you may exacerbate here and there, but that he has to solve and be aware of for there to be hope of a solution. He probably needs male friends to become aware of it, I don't think a woman can explain how to be a more functional man to a man.Sorry to hear that, they compound though. Also it is unnatural for the majority of men to only ever be intimate with 1 person, that messes them up. I've been like your guy and it brought that relationship to its end.It's all so brutal lol.
>>42163893>An arrangement like this should help, no?Not her, but no. I'm bi, gf is bi, we've discussed having same-sex partners on the side for fun. But we absolutely wouldn't do that if our base relationship was not sexually satisfying. Having a partner who cares about getting her off would only grow the resentment that she has towards her boyfriend.
>>42164078Fair. I tried to correct the first part of my reply in the second, I think you're right that it's not a solution for gross sexual dissatisfaction.I didn't think of how it's something that may provide more satisfaction on top of a good sexual dynamic, but if either or both are insecure / dissatisfied sexually with the other then it could make that worse too.>for funThat's the point I disagree with, I think there's a real qualitative difference and the potential benefit is more than just "more fun" or "enjoyment".But you're right that having same-sex partners (or more partners in general) can in various circumstances exacerbate existing relationship issues.
basically i just want to understand chasers. also, trans people, would you date chasers?for ftm and mtf
I would date a chaser if they where charming and only had eyes for me once we started dating. There's nothing wrong with being Trans attracted as long as your not weird about it!If they where hollering at literal femboys tho or where reppers id run for the hills.
>>42164062ok thank you, this is the kind of take i was looking for on here and i agree with you
>>42164061yesss this wasnt just meant for cis men i meant it in terms of all cis people who specifically go for trans people
I can give a million reasons. I guess I just think women with penises are neat. And theyre built for being humiliated and degraded which is something Im into.>>42164062Yeah this is why I will never tell my trans gf about my attempts at getting a femboy bf. Would be too embarrassing anyway
>>42163829conceptually i would prefer dating a chaser but in practice ftm chasers are questionable goods
this is not the place to ask such a question, but i feel like stopping hrt because of my brother's suicide and because i'm not really happy with how things are going. my brother was just a freshman kid in uni when he killed himself with a shotgun. he was both academically gifted and worked very hard (had a ridiculous amount of money which we found afterwards).i was sort of banking on him being the smart sibling in the family and then i could just sorta be a gay brother/sister/whatever and do whatever i wanted. but now, i feel compelled to take his "place" after what has happened and that taking estrogen isn't serious enough for that goal. i feel i should just stop because it's likely to interfere with what i'll be able to really accomplish later on in life.feels like taking e is a joke, basically.
>>42162721>>42162809thank you for writing so much it's very, very helpful. thank you
>>42162396taking medicine isnt a joke. i dont think that sentiment really makes sense
>>42162396i don't have much to add; the other anons got it right. i just wanted to say i understand and relate to that impulse, the feeling that taking estrogen and transitioning is the indulgent, self-serving choice and that repping/detransing is responsible and mature. i understand feeling like e mellows you out and makes you less sharp, too. but i think, and pardon me if this is off the mark, based on the way you describe yourself that you wouldn't have transitioned if you really truly thought that taking estrogen would necessarily make you weak and unsuccessful--even if you didn't think of yourself as the smart sibling, you clearly have a strong sense of responsibility and loyalty to your family and your own success, and if you believed estrogen was going to make you incapable of fulfilling your responsibilities you would never have taken it in the first place. when you chose to transition, you made a logical decision; trust your past self's rationality. you've already worked out the answer to this question before. i'm really sorry for your loss. wishing you and your family peace
>>42162396> i was sort of banking on him being the smart sibling in the family and then i could just sorta be a gay brother/sister/whatever and do whatever i wanted. but now, i feel compelled to take his "place" after what has happened and that taking estrogen isn't serious enough for that goal. I totally get this line of reasoning and it makes sense but I don’t think stopping E is what he would have wanted. Also you’re not your brother, you should absolutely get your shit together if you feel compelled but your path to success is not through emulating him it’s on your own path. A key element to success for anyone is to self improve and to support their mental health. Detransing isn’t going to improve your mental health if anything it will lead you towards a mentally unhealthy state of mind and will become another millstone attached to your throat. Right now focus on honoring your brother’s legacy by being the best person YOU can be, not becoming the best person HE was. You will make it through this and I am sorry for your loss anon, life is a bitch any I can’t even say that I would not have the exact same feelings if my overachiever brother died. Give it time and in time you will endure and if you treat yourself right you’ll succeed in ways nobody could imagine right now. Do not hurt yourself when you’re already wounded Days like this happen to all of us, your brother probably misses you too. Stay strong and true to yourself and in time you’ll have no difficulty in making him proud
In all seriousness, dont, I have a sort of similar experience, havign repped my teen years after my dad died because I felt i had to become like him. This was when i was 13 years old, many years passed since. And no, Im not like him at all, he was succesful, stable abd had a good career. I became a substance addict before turning 18, have no career prospects and have developed mental issues from spending years with burnout, self hatred and no sense of self. Point is, you wont become your brother, you dont have to. Its ok to grieve, but trying to become someone else, especially with dysphoria as a factor, will only work against you nona
why are poons suggestible like women? if you call them foids for long enough they just give up and start acting like it
>>42164034obviously its because we want your 2 incher soo bad
prev - >>42099900human-made boymoder editionqott: have you ever drawn your own boymoder?
>>42161654i havent yet. should i?
>>42163613maybe! it’s always nice to have new boymoder pictures that aren’t ai generated
If you rub a tranny penis long/hard enough they WILL have an orgasm no matter how violently or loudly they scream, cry, or protest your actions. Finish the job you start.
>>42162559Pass
>>42162565bro im not gay
>>42162584Yeah bro, me neither
>>42162558icl i cant imagine being anything other than a bottom
>>42162675sounds like a problem with your imagination
What stopped you from accomplishing this?
fear :(i mostly made it once i graduated high school, though
>>42164041>I transitioned because kids put gum in my long hairOr you could have cut it short, but that would have ruined the fantasy, wouldn't it, lil jeep?
>>42164057retard
And what's stopping you from accomplishing this?
Crazy religious mother
>tie hair up>shoulders look fine>let hair down>shoulders look massive and I want to kill myself for ever thinking I passWhat causes this?
top tranners do you like femdom where you dominate a bottom chaser or are you not a fan of bdsm?
gay troll but also nobody likes chasers who, as a population, dont know how to clean out their asses.
>>42163630trannies are gay trolls
>>42163617of coursewhat's the point of topping if I'm not going to be dominant and make him moan like a b (iatch)
I’m mtf transitioning in college for 15 months I think and wondering, is it greedy for me to wish I was 5’3” or smthn? I’m 5’5”, and even then more like 5’5.5”. I know there’s a lot of poor trans ladies who are like 6 feet which desu if you can lean into that is rly hot and a lot of trans dudes who are like 5 feet tall, which blows, but I kinda wish that was me. Idk I already look very young for my age so I guess that might be a bad idea, but there’s certain things I get minor dysphoria over that when I think about it I feel greedy cause of other trans ppl.
>>42163962its an irrelevant fantasy desu dont stress about thoughtcrime
>>42163962Why does it keep autocorrect idk to fucking desu. I think that was idk but it keeps autocorrecting
>>42163983T B H corrects to desu. S O Y corrects to onions. S M H corrects to baka.
>>42164067Makes senze I say desu a lot but that’s retarded and fucking lame
I’m two years HRT and still manmoding. How do I get out of this funk? Sometimes I try dressing the way I want or wearing makeup and it looks okay, but the moment I see a camera it breaks me. Even looking at my reflection the wrong way makes me explode with self hatred. I don’t even get the chance to wipe my makeup off because by the time I’m out of those clothes I’ve already cried the worst of it off anyway.I don’t know how to escape. Help. I know I don’t pass and I probably won’t ever pass unless I get FFS (which I won’t ever have the money for anyway) but boymoding constantly won’t help me either.
>>42163837I have a couple things I like that are sort of cute,,, there’s one hoodie I love and yes I know hoodiemoding isn’t really girlmoding properly but it’s really cute and I got complimented on it once so it does make me feel a little better I guess…
>>42163857you're mansplaining to a tranny what it's like to be a tranny idk what you want me to say besides "yup">>42163837this. one step at a time
>>42164035Op here.Just so we’re clear, that reply wasn’t mine.
>>42164043thanks for clarifying :)
phew im glad my unsee died
qott: what's your hot take? let it rip fuck it
yeh yeh poor boo fucking hoo women i heard that before
i heard mono is running for the presidency in 2028
>>42163684autism is a superpower.
>>42139511>men to femenyou will NEVER put on your stillsuit like a native
Ftms are insanely chill for the amount of vitriol they get on here I'm ngl
>>42163027Because they are pretty and it makes ugly bottoms seethe
>>42163027every time i've personally encountered a ftm theyve been super chill
>>42163027>>42163041it's mostly weirdo or repressing ftms posting about themselves if you ask me
>>42163108mtfs are choosing nightmare mode unless they pass
>>42163080contrary to common belief the only mtfs i've seen pass irl are agp
Happy holidays editionQuestion of the day: Are you going to a new years party?>FAQ>What is a femboy? What is a twink?A femboy is a male that pursues a feminine appearance for himself whilst still identifying as male. A twink is a male with a slender figure and a youthful appearance, usually with little body/ facial hair>Are femboys trans?The majority of femboys are cisgendered. Femboy is not a 'stepping stone' to trans, it is a stand alone identity.>Can trans post here?Trans people are welcome to post in /fbg/ and identify as trans twink/femboy if they want, but this is not a trans thread. Posts should not be about 'transitioning' and discussion of hormone usage should be restricted to skincare applications.>Can twunks and otters post here?Yes>I'm not twink or femboy but I am an enjoyer of them, can I post here too?YesComment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>42161804if you want to make some more substantial changes get one of those tiny razors for the brow and a brow pen. But be careful to not take of too much, and learn what works for your face/works with the look you wanna go for. You'd be surprised how much they determine your look.
>>42160811The way you push for people to take hrt is honestly fucking disturbing.No having slightly less facial hair isn't worth growing tits and becoming infertile.
>>42163633its worth it
