Trans women are fully real women because they, just like cis women, never think about whether their actions will negatively affect others. They only think about themselves.
>>40958788>I love about tgirls is their innate ability to make everything about themselvesNot just that, but what they do seems to need to be at a detrimental to others.Take the shitty red/green posts for example>Red: Positive to transGreen: Detrimental to cis
>>40958838>im passinguh huh
>>40958641too much!
>>40957759This is true, my parents are depressed that I’m trans and I still haven’t thrown away my meds, cut my hair, and begun wearing manly man clothesI truly am despicable
>>40957759It's like I'm listening to my parents. This is exactly what they say about me when they're mad at me. Gee, thanks for the validation I really am a real woman, OP.
TL;DR, what are the signs of someone who has been working on bettering her BPD symptoms?I'm a bi trans woman (i know), and all my partners in the past have been either extremely distant, extremely EXTREMELY clingy, or in a polycule (and waited to tell me until after we started dating LMAO).I honestly don't mind a BPD woman, i'm self aware enough to admit i like the attention and feeling like im not going to be left behind (i have some BPD tendencies myself but i'm very actively handling it). I just can't handle the 24/7 communication, the hypersensitivity to totally innocent things, and the lack of personality outside of "PLEASE DOMESTICATE ME I DONT WANNA THINK ANYMORE BARK BARK BARK" which is admittedly very hot as a kink, but good god it is tiring to handle 24/7.I know im basically asking for tips on unicorn hunting, but i intend to be with this hypothetical person for a long time, so i dont mind the extra effort. If it helps, I fit all of my own criteria, am set up for a good job in the future (like, pay for all my own surgeries and still make it home in time for christmas, good, if i manage to make it into a union), am absolutely willing to put in the effort required to make someone feel comfortable, am a 6.5/10 on a good day, and have pretty much gotten over my major mental issues (brainworms etc) aside from being lonely sometimes.i have a bit of a more in depth idea of what i would want in a girlfriend, but i don't think it's necesarry to add rn.
>>40959480do you already have a person in mind or are looking for someone?
post your pre/post HRT photoshere is me, I used to look like a fucking chudjak before HRT
>>40936404The boymoder is calling for rape as well?
>>40936409cute nerd>>40938568Crazy aunt energy but still cute>>40938772Submissive nerd cute>>40938803badass hotness>>40940468hot af>>40941248Goth...hot>>40941720Super cute>>40944879Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>40959175>Goth...hotthank uu
>>40959472Tbh I'd let you do whatever freaky rituals with me
>>40953734Wow, so it actually happens for some people and it's not just a myth
Why does the average FTM's idea of looksmaxxing involve becoming as grotesque and unattractive as humanly possible?
>>40950422>MTFs: either look like a real woman, or an lanky autistic looking twink with long hair>FTMs: become total freak abominationswhy is this?
>>40959388males are just thoroughly ugly
>>40950422Its an acquired taste
Pooners Don't Put Any Effort Into Transition And The Ones That Do Do not Associate With Trannies Poons Who Pass Will Have No Tranny Friends In Real Life They Will Just Pretend To Be Real Men . Pooner FemBoys Only Do It So They Can Talk About Herself More But Don't Want To Be Men. Ugly Poons Are The Most Authentic Trannies And Enjoy Being Trannies Passoid Poons Hate Themselves And Wish They Were Men
>>40958305Worst light novel title ever desu.
Listen upMuch of these "conservative" people are brainwormed by specific wordsThey see the word "equality" or "rights" and they immediately react in disgust because they associate it with left-wingersBut the word "freedom" is okay because, in their mind, that's THEIR word, even though it means the same thing as those other ones.Think about it.Instead of marriage equality, let's say freedom of marriage.Instead of trans rights, trans freedom.These terms would be semantically correct, anyway, with the added bonus of mindbreaking haters.
>>40959366Really most of these people don't have a problem with trannies even if they don't know that, they are just part of the tribe that likes certain words and doesn't others. MAYBE they feel like they want everyone to be "normal" again in which case it needs to be made clear that trannies are a funny and uncommon exception that can be very supportive of a "normal" society.People who genuinely hate trannies also exist but because of the way media works most of these people are just in it for the 24/7 spectacle that is modern politics.
>>40959366It's because trying to control other people's speech is an infringement of *their* freedoms.You could try saying "please call me this" instead of "you will call me this", and see how that goes.
>>40958473Guess what, then they'd start saying "freedom is woke". They already pretty much think that already.
>>40959419Yeah it really is that stupid, I get "why can't you be a femboy faggot" a lot which is just... ok so they sympathise with the desire to be feminine and even think maybe it could be fun, JUST DON'T YOU EVER CALL YOURSELF A GIRL BECAUSE THAT WOULD MAKE YOU A DEMOCRAT.
>>40959433I don't think it's stupid. I think it's a legitimate concern. People don't want to slip into some eventuality where they lose their job, or the government throws them in prison or takes their kids, because they didn't follow the speech code.People want to have the choice to be courteous, not to feel a sword hanging over their heads.
Heck yeah doood! He's just as valid as any other boy!
>>40957866>bf tries to do something nice for his gf>she goes all pms on him and ruins the relationshipwomen amirite lmao
>>40957969>something happens to a woman good or bad>it needs to screech about it to everyone within a 4000 mile radiuswhy are roasties like this? it's so strange how they aren't remotely human.
>>40957969>Cutting up someone else's stuff that they got as a gift without asking is "doing something nice">One argument will ruin the entire relationship
>>40958119men are psychopaths
>>40959077We all know goddamn well the "man" who gave a toy surgery is a mentally ill pooner.And OP isn't any better>satanfan12This must have been the post Matt and Trey saw that led to the latest south park
>>40956413she's trying so hard to hide how much she seethes but I can see it. It become more and more obvious as she writes on
>>40958856Im maybe considering it. I just wish i could get a straight bf >>40958885>>40959037Oh yeah no doubt she’s coping a little bit, she had to clarify that hes “bisexual” and “no man would like an icky tranny like they like me because im a real wombyn”>>40958933Maybe
>>40959441why would straight men date gay men?
>>40959445Not taking the bait
>>40959486do you really think taking estrogen makes you not a gay man anymore?
What is sex like?How has your gender and orientation influenced yours sex life? How did you discover who you wanted to be with?What are your fetishes /lgbt/?How do you meet other people to discuss this stuff with
>>40958140Gonna give you some honest answers as a 33 year old long time sex haver as both genders and orientations:>What is sex like?Amazing, joy at feeling accepted, euphoria at discovering new things. Gives you energy, makes life feel worth it.>How has your gender and orientation influenced yours sex life? Gender - for me my female gender (I'm MtF) was correlated with being submissive, being penetrated, and seeking to put my partner's pleasure first. Although I still have a dominant side that comes out with even more submissive (transs women)Orientation- I'm bisexual, and a submissive bottom with some ability to switch. It took until 30 to figure out gender and orientation completely and i am still figuring stuff out. I have a higher than average sex drive and it's a primary motivator for me in life.>How did you discover who you wanted to be with?Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>40958140>What is sex like?I've never had it>How has your gender and orientation influenced yours sex life? How did you discover who you wanted to be with?It's never existed and I found out through porn exclusively>What are your fetishes /lgbt/?Being loved and held and having my humanity affirmed>How do you meet other people to discuss this stuff withHere and r9k are the only places I know of that have incel trannies that want to kill themselves like me
>>40959044you deserve real love
>What is sex like?i liked it for a while, but i'm not sure anymore. i think i'm just broken but when it was good, it was amazing. becoming one with someone you love and making each other feel good is a really special feeling. i used to go without eating for days (i didn't have anything to clean with) just so that my husband and i could have sex.>How has your gender and orientation influenced yours sex life? How did you discover who you wanted to be with?i'm mtf and lost my virginity to a girl from my high school for what was essentially a shits-and-giggles sort of thing. i liked the experience of, like, being a united body at the time, but i regretted it almost immediately the next morning and i hate myself for it to this day. after that (some time later) i had sex with a friend (mtf) because she wanted to and while it was mostly okay in the moment i regret that, as well. it was only when i got together with the man who is now my husband that i think everything really clicked for me. i guess that doesn't really have anything to do with my gender or orientation but i don't know if either of those things had a real impact on anything. sex sort of just happened to me; it wasn't something i was seeking deliberately.>What are your fetishes /lgbt/?i'm pretty vanilla. i'm too embarrassed and ashamed to divulge the one fetish i think i really have. it makes me feel bad.>How do you meet other people to discuss this stuff withinternet, i guess, or close friends? i don't generally talk about it so i guess i don't know.
>>40958140>What is sex like?v fun when i like the other person enough>How has your gender and orientation influenced yours sex life?made it very (too?) accessible. pre-transition i was a virgin and i suddenly found that i could have sex with many of my friends so i was a whore for a bit, i realised that, while fun, its not fulfilling without a deeper connection>How did you discover who you wanted to be with?trail and error>What are your fetishes /lgbt/?violence unto me. the worse i feel the better. or the complete opposite, i want to be treated with love and care or brutalised>How do you meet other people to discuss this stuff withidk sowwy
You would be totally fine with being a feminine male if it weren't for the jews brainwashing you into believing otherwise.
>>40959447>>the romans and greeks were homosexualthis part is a liea few pieces of art + text by rich people attesting to homosexuality shows that they were literate and that rich people got to bend the rules, not that homosexuality was mass tolerated
>>40959227I have no idea, the only reason I thought being trans was bad is because I thought the 'mones shortened your life by a lot so they should only be used in the worst cases, but they don't so being trans sounded awesome.
>>40959396Oh shiver me timbers, the horror!
>>40959211What to the Jews actually want? Everything chuds don't like is always being pushed by them, but... why?
>>40959455Society in those days could barely break even on population with everyone fucking like bunnies, now we don't have that problem so there isn't the same obligation to breed like a maniac
Why don't transgender women go after autistic men? They would make each other much happier.
Because trannies hate men
>>40957165Every autistic male is an egg
because men hate trannies
>>40959417If that were the case, there would be no trannies in the first place.
>>40959452...why do you think trannies hate ourselves?
I'm such a stupid troon. I have a lovely cis gf and I can't stop thinking about and longing for dick. I'd never cheat on her, but I really want dick :(Toys aren't the same
>>40959444A unicorn is born today
>>40959444I have a large dick, let me out it in you
She doesn't me to get fucked by anyone else.
god: ummm don't be gay!you: ummmm i'm gonna be gay because i want poop on my dickexplain?
>>40959409>t. believes in le divine inspiration of the bibleHave you ever heard of bart ehrman not tryna be mean but gay christians usually have bad reasons for being christian
>>40959437I’m not gay or Christian I just enjoy actual exegesis that doesn’t rely on childish absolutism about what texts which claim divine inspiration are canon and which are fanfic
>>40959449That's a lot of words to say that you're basically an atheist so talking to you about anything related to religion is a complete waste of time
I talk to Abrahamics about the matter of his creed not to people playing devil's advocate for gay sex
>>40959460The feeling is mutual have a good one inshallah
How do we fix the absolute disaster nightmare that is FTM optics? At least a handful of people see trans women as women, I don't think anyone on earth sees trans men as men.>inb4 PLAP PREGNANCY BREED retardsMake your own thread.
>>40959128Ps someone should be my boyfriend
>>40959089TH is a cis polish man
>>40958113I've been visibly ftm for 10 years and I haven't been surprised yet
>>40959237Because you call those "surprises" incels
>>40957266das a cute kitty
/lesgen/ is the lesbian general for all cis women and trans women (MtF) to discuss lesbian relationships and topics.Bee kind to each other and report/ignore trolls who attempt to divide trans mtf lesbians and cis lesbians as a community.QOTT:>Have you ever been gifted jewelry by a partner? Have you gifted jewelry to a partner? What kinds of jewelry do you enjoy?>Do you think cheaters deserve a second chance? Is cheating ever justified?>Do people ever think you and your gf are friends? sisters?tagmap: https://tagmap.io/tag/%2Flesgen%2Fdiscord: https://discord.gg/bAnVMAGPNRold: >>40928439
>>40959005Just because we're attracted to the same demographic does not mean there is splashback. Society treats men and lesbians differently. We do not date the same people except for the intersection of bi women but these are wildly different experiences. Policing mens sexuality isn't about policing what they're attracted to its about controlling their behavior (don't be an antisocial rapist freak)
>>40959110post ass dear I'm losing my patience
browsing this board makes me think I would be happy dating someone that's acewould you be happy dating an ace girl?
Wow, thread really went off the rails about... porn...?>>40959347Honestly no. Im allo with a fairly strong libido. There's just something about the playfulness and sense of desire that I need. I need to want and feel wanted in a very intimate way.I actually spent a long long time pulling that particular topic over due to recent relationship issues. I always shrugged it off as "its just sex" until I was stuck in a dead bedroom scenario and found myself feeling increasingly lonely.Not saying my partner needs to be able to match my level of freak, but there's gotta be *something* going on.>>40953043>Have you ever been gifted jewelry by a partner? Have you gifted jewelry to a partner? What kinds of jewelry do you enjoy?Yes and yes. I like shiny asymmetric stuff. Necklaces are my favored by far, followed by bracelets and then earrings.>Do you think cheaters deserve a second chance? Is cheating ever justified?Nope. Cheating at its core constitutes a breach of boundaries in the relationship. Of your partner doesnt respect your boundaries, then you simply cant maintain the trust thats needed for a healthy relationship.I dont think its ever justified - if you NEED someone else, leave your partner. I can understand it in extreme situations, but that doesnt make it justified.>Do people ever think you and your SO are friends? sisters?Friends, yea. Sometimes not even that, people will think we dont even know each other or just met. Thats... how far things have fallen apart. *sad*
>talking to cute queer girl I have a crush on at the club >we're drunk and sharing my bag >she jokingly pretends to put her fag out on me>tell her dead seriously to do it>she instantly presses it hard into my forearm between tattoos>most turned on I've ever been>ask her out, she says she's ace>few days later she mentuons a guy she's fuckinghow an I gonna hide this from my mam for the rest of my life
i will never be a woman. i will never be trans. i'm just a man who takes estrogen and that's okay
>>40957519then what are we
>>40957536How are you going to call A man who calls himself a man a tranny?
>>40957608because he acts like a tranny and is one. So it's a tranny saying he isn't a tranny. If he is a man he wouldnt take hrt. He wouldnt even be on this side. So he is le tranny!
>>40957577an abomination
>>40953966nta but giving an example: jk rowlingoh to be a successful author and millionaire who can lounge at home all day and stay relevant by making fun of those weird moids who think they could ever be like me
