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TL;DR, what are the signs of someone who has been working on bettering her BPD symptoms?

I'm a bi trans woman (i know), and all my partners in the past have been either extremely distant, extremely EXTREMELY clingy, or in a polycule (and waited to tell me until after we started dating LMAO).

I honestly don't mind a BPD woman, i'm self aware enough to admit i like the attention and feeling like im not going to be left behind (i have some BPD tendencies myself but i'm very actively handling it). I just can't handle the 24/7 communication, the hypersensitivity to totally innocent things, and the lack of personality outside of "PLEASE DOMESTICATE ME I DONT WANNA THINK ANYMORE BARK BARK BARK" which is admittedly very hot as a kink, but good god it is tiring to handle 24/7.

I know im basically asking for tips on unicorn hunting, but i intend to be with this hypothetical person for a long time, so i dont mind the extra effort. If it helps, I fit all of my own criteria, am set up for a good job in the future (like, pay for all my own surgeries and still make it home in time for christmas, good, if i manage to make it into a union), am absolutely willing to put in the effort required to make someone feel comfortable, am a 6.5/10 on a good day, and have pretty much gotten over my major mental issues (brainworms etc) aside from being lonely sometimes.

i have a bit of a more in depth idea of what i would want in a girlfriend, but i don't think it's necesarry to add rn.
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>>40959480
do you already have a person in mind or are looking for someone?

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Why do crossdressers pass better than trans women do?
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>>40959469
I keep getting reels about lesbianism on my reels and im not sure how to feel i don’t even like them but they keep popping up are they trying to psyop me
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>>40959517
psyop you into what?

post your pre/post HRT photos
here is me, I used to look like a fucking chudjak before HRT
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>>40936404
The boymoder is calling for rape as well?
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>>40936409
cute nerd
>>40938568
Crazy aunt energy but still cute
>>40938772
Submissive nerd cute
>>40938803
badass hotness
>>40940468
hot af
>>40941248
Goth...hot
>>40941720
Super cute
>>40944879

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>>40959175
>Goth...hot
thank uu
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>>40959472
Tbh I'd let you do whatever freaky rituals with me
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>>40953734
Wow, so it actually happens for some people and it's not just a myth

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Why does the average FTM's idea of looksmaxxing involve becoming as grotesque and unattractive as humanly possible?
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>>40950422
>MTFs: either look like a real woman, or an lanky autistic looking twink with long hair
>FTMs: become total freak abominations
why is this?
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>>40959388
males are just thoroughly ugly
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>>40950422
Its an acquired taste
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Pooners Don't Put Any Effort Into Transition And The Ones That Do Do not Associate With Trannies Poons Who Pass Will Have No Tranny Friends In Real Life They Will Just Pretend To Be Real Men . Pooner FemBoys Only Do It So They Can Talk About Herself More But Don't Want To Be Men. Ugly Poons Are The Most Authentic Trannies And Enjoy Being Trannies Passoid Poons Hate Themselves And Wish They Were Men
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>>40958305
Worst light novel title ever desu.

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Listen up
Much of these "conservative" people are brainwormed by specific words
They see the word "equality" or "rights" and they immediately react in disgust because they associate it with left-wingers
But the word "freedom" is okay because, in their mind, that's THEIR word, even though it means the same thing as those other ones.
Think about it.

Instead of marriage equality, let's say freedom of marriage.
Instead of trans rights, trans freedom.
These terms would be semantically correct, anyway, with the added bonus of mindbreaking haters.
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>>40959366
Really most of these people don't have a problem with trannies even if they don't know that, they are just part of the tribe that likes certain words and doesn't others. MAYBE they feel like they want everyone to be "normal" again in which case it needs to be made clear that trannies are a funny and uncommon exception that can be very supportive of a "normal" society.

People who genuinely hate trannies also exist but because of the way media works most of these people are just in it for the 24/7 spectacle that is modern politics.
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>>40959366
It's because trying to control other people's speech is an infringement of *their* freedoms.
You could try saying "please call me this" instead of "you will call me this", and see how that goes.
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>>40958473
Guess what, then they'd start saying "freedom is woke". They already pretty much think that already.
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>>40959419
Yeah it really is that stupid, I get "why can't you be a femboy faggot" a lot which is just... ok so they sympathise with the desire to be feminine and even think maybe it could be fun, JUST DON'T YOU EVER CALL YOURSELF A GIRL BECAUSE THAT WOULD MAKE YOU A DEMOCRAT.
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>>40959433
I don't think it's stupid. I think it's a legitimate concern. People don't want to slip into some eventuality where they lose their job, or the government throws them in prison or takes their kids, because they didn't follow the speech code.
People want to have the choice to be courteous, not to feel a sword hanging over their heads.

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Heck yeah doood! He's just as valid as any other boy!
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>>40957866
>bf tries to do something nice for his gf
>she goes all pms on him and ruins the relationship
women amirite lmao
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>>40957969
>something happens to a woman good or bad
>it needs to screech about it to everyone within a 4000 mile radius
why are roasties like this? it's so strange how they aren't remotely human.
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>>40957969
>Cutting up someone else's stuff that they got as a gift without asking is "doing something nice"
>One argument will ruin the entire relationship
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>>40958119
men are psychopaths
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>>40959077
We all know goddamn well the "man" who gave a toy surgery is a mentally ill pooner.
And OP isn't any better
>satanfan12
This must have been the post Matt and Trey saw that led to the latest south park

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>>40956413
she's trying so hard to hide how much she seethes but I can see it. It become more and more obvious as she writes on
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>>40958856
Im maybe considering it. I just wish i could get a straight bf
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>>40959037
Oh yeah no doubt she’s coping a little bit, she had to clarify that hes “bisexual” and “no man would like an icky tranny like they like me because im a real wombyn”
>>40958933
Maybe
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>>40959441
why would straight men date gay men?
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>>40959445
Not taking the bait
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>>40959486
do you really think taking estrogen makes you not a gay man anymore?

What is sex like?
How has your gender and orientation influenced yours sex life? How did you discover who you wanted to be with?
What are your fetishes /lgbt/?
How do you meet other people to discuss this stuff with
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>>40958140

Gonna give you some honest answers as a 33 year old long time sex haver as both genders and orientations:

>What is sex like?

Amazing, joy at feeling accepted, euphoria at discovering new things. Gives you energy, makes life feel worth it.

>How has your gender and orientation influenced yours sex life?

Gender - for me my female gender (I'm MtF) was correlated with being submissive, being penetrated, and seeking to put my partner's pleasure first. Although I still have a dominant side that comes out with even more submissive (transs women)

Orientation- I'm bisexual, and a submissive bottom with some ability to switch. It took until 30 to figure out gender and orientation completely and i am still figuring stuff out. I have a higher than average sex drive and it's a primary motivator for me in life.

>How did you discover who you wanted to be with?

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>>40958140
>What is sex like?
I've never had it
>How has your gender and orientation influenced yours sex life? How did you discover who you wanted to be with?
It's never existed and I found out through porn exclusively
>What are your fetishes /lgbt/?
Being loved and held and having my humanity affirmed
>How do you meet other people to discuss this stuff with
Here and r9k are the only places I know of that have incel trannies that want to kill themselves like me
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>>40959044
you deserve real love
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>What is sex like?
i liked it for a while, but i'm not sure anymore. i think i'm just broken but when it was good, it was amazing. becoming one with someone you love and making each other feel good is a really special feeling. i used to go without eating for days (i didn't have anything to clean with) just so that my husband and i could have sex.
>How has your gender and orientation influenced yours sex life? How did you discover who you wanted to be with?
i'm mtf and lost my virginity to a girl from my high school for what was essentially a shits-and-giggles sort of thing. i liked the experience of, like, being a united body at the time, but i regretted it almost immediately the next morning and i hate myself for it to this day. after that (some time later) i had sex with a friend (mtf) because she wanted to and while it was mostly okay in the moment i regret that, as well. it was only when i got together with the man who is now my husband that i think everything really clicked for me. i guess that doesn't really have anything to do with my gender or orientation but i don't know if either of those things had a real impact on anything. sex sort of just happened to me; it wasn't something i was seeking deliberately.
>What are your fetishes /lgbt/?
i'm pretty vanilla. i'm too embarrassed and ashamed to divulge the one fetish i think i really have. it makes me feel bad.
>How do you meet other people to discuss this stuff with
internet, i guess, or close friends? i don't generally talk about it so i guess i don't know.
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>>40958140
>What is sex like?
v fun when i like the other person enough

>How has your gender and orientation influenced yours sex life?
made it very (too?) accessible. pre-transition i was a virgin and i suddenly found that i could have sex with many of my friends so i was a whore for a bit, i realised that, while fun, its not fulfilling without a deeper connection

>How did you discover who you wanted to be with?
trail and error

>What are your fetishes /lgbt/?
violence unto me. the worse i feel the better. or the complete opposite, i want to be treated with love and care or brutalised

>How do you meet other people to discuss this stuff with
idk sowwy

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You would be totally fine with being a feminine male if it weren't for the jews brainwashing you into believing otherwise.
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>>40959447
>>the romans and greeks were homosexual
this part is a lie
a few pieces of art + text by rich people attesting to homosexuality shows that they were literate and that rich people got to bend the rules, not that homosexuality was mass tolerated
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>>40959227
I have no idea, the only reason I thought being trans was bad is because I thought the 'mones shortened your life by a lot so they should only be used in the worst cases, but they don't so being trans sounded awesome.
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>>40959396
Oh shiver me timbers, the horror!
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>>40959211
What to the Jews actually want? Everything chuds don't like is always being pushed by them, but... why?
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>>40959455
Society in those days could barely break even on population with everyone fucking like bunnies, now we don't have that problem so there isn't the same obligation to breed like a maniac

Why don't transgender women go after autistic men? They would make each other much happier.
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Because trannies hate men
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>>40957165
Every autistic male is an egg
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because men hate trannies
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>>40959417
If that were the case, there would be no trannies in the first place.
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>>40959452
...why do you think trannies hate ourselves?

I'm such a stupid troon. I have a lovely cis gf and I can't stop thinking about and longing for dick.

I'd never cheat on her, but I really want dick :(

Toys aren't the same
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>>40959444
A unicorn is born today
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>>40959444
I have a large dick, let me out it in you
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She doesn't me to get fucked by anyone else.

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god: ummm don't be gay!
you: ummmm i'm gonna be gay because i want poop on my dick
explain?
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>>40959409
>t. believes in le divine inspiration of the bible
Have you ever heard of bart ehrman
not tryna be mean but gay christians usually have bad reasons for being christian
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>>40959437
I’m not gay or Christian I just enjoy actual exegesis that doesn’t rely on childish absolutism about what texts which claim divine inspiration are canon and which are fanfic
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>>40959449
That's a lot of words to say that you're basically an atheist so talking to you about anything related to religion is a complete waste of time
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I talk to Abrahamics about the matter of his creed not to people playing devil's advocate for gay sex
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>>40959460
The feeling is mutual have a good one inshallah

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How do we fix the absolute disaster nightmare that is FTM optics? At least a handful of people see trans women as women, I don't think anyone on earth sees trans men as men.
>inb4 PLAP PREGNANCY BREED retards
Make your own thread.
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>>40959128
Ps someone should be my boyfriend
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>>40959089
TH is a cis polish man
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>>40958113
I've been visibly ftm for 10 years and I haven't been surprised yet
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>>40959237
Because you call those "surprises" incels
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>>40957266
das a cute kitty

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/lesgen/ is the lesbian general for all cis women and trans women (MtF) to discuss lesbian relationships and topics.

Bee kind to each other and report/ignore trolls who attempt to divide trans mtf lesbians and cis lesbians as a community.

QOTT:
>Have you ever been gifted jewelry by a partner? Have you gifted jewelry to a partner? What kinds of jewelry do you enjoy?
>Do you think cheaters deserve a second chance? Is cheating ever justified?
>Do people ever think you and your gf are friends? sisters?

tagmap: https://tagmap.io/tag/%2Flesgen%2F
discord: https://discord.gg/bAnVMAGPNR
old: >>40928439
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>>40959005
Just because we're attracted to the same demographic does not mean there is splashback. Society treats men and lesbians differently. We do not date the same people except for the intersection of bi women but these are wildly different experiences.

Policing mens sexuality isn't about policing what they're attracted to its about controlling their behavior (don't be an antisocial rapist freak)
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>>40959110
post ass dear I'm losing my patience
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browsing this board makes me think I would be happy dating someone that's ace
would you be happy dating an ace girl?
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Wow, thread really went off the rails about... porn...?
>>40959347
Honestly no. Im allo with a fairly strong libido. There's just something about the playfulness and sense of desire that I need. I need to want and feel wanted in a very intimate way.
I actually spent a long long time pulling that particular topic over due to recent relationship issues. I always shrugged it off as "its just sex" until I was stuck in a dead bedroom scenario and found myself feeling increasingly lonely.
Not saying my partner needs to be able to match my level of freak, but there's gotta be *something* going on.
>>40953043
>Have you ever been gifted jewelry by a partner? Have you gifted jewelry to a partner? What kinds of jewelry do you enjoy?
Yes and yes. I like shiny asymmetric stuff. Necklaces are my favored by far, followed by bracelets and then earrings.
>Do you think cheaters deserve a second chance? Is cheating ever justified?
Nope. Cheating at its core constitutes a breach of boundaries in the relationship. Of your partner doesnt respect your boundaries, then you simply cant maintain the trust thats needed for a healthy relationship.
I dont think its ever justified - if you NEED someone else, leave your partner. I can understand it in extreme situations, but that doesnt make it justified.
>Do people ever think you and your SO are friends? sisters?
Friends, yea. Sometimes not even that, people will think we dont even know each other or just met. Thats... how far things have fallen apart. *sad*
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>talking to cute queer girl I have a crush on at the club
>we're drunk and sharing my bag
>she jokingly pretends to put her fag out on me
>tell her dead seriously to do it
>she instantly presses it hard into my forearm between tattoos
>most turned on I've ever been
>ask her out, she says she's ace
>few days later she mentuons a guy she's fucking
how an I gonna hide this from my mam for the rest of my life

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i will never be a woman. i will never be trans. i'm just a man who takes estrogen and that's okay
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>>40957519
then what are we
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>>40957536
How are you going to call A man who calls himself a man a tranny?
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>>40957608
because he acts like a tranny and is one. So it's a tranny saying he isn't a tranny. If he is a man he wouldnt take hrt. He wouldnt even be on this side. So he is le tranny!
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>>40957577
an abomination
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>>40953966
nta but giving an example: jk rowling

oh to be a successful author and millionaire who can lounge at home all day and stay relevant by making fun of those weird moids who think they could ever be like me


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