I hate interacting with other trans people irl, I've never interacted with someone who transitioned as young as me, but every one I deal with i always feel like they're so dismissive of my dysphoria and any issues eith my body just because I'm smaller and it's super upsetting to be venting and basically get dismissed and told how lucky I am.
>>42329912Sounds like maybe you're just obnoxious and insecure
>>42329742i was thinking there was some hope for me :[ i hope everything goes well for u anon
>>42329963Being tall is fine if you look like a tall woman
>>42329912honestly it sounds like something to address in therapy, because it will ultimately come down to how you relate to your own body. by your own admission you are stealth so clearly you pass enough for cis people to pay no mind. i think this stretches into the boundaries of dysmorphia rather than just being dysphoria. i’m sorry, i know how it feels to hate your own body.
>>42329992You're probably right i am getting a new therapist because my surgeon for srs wants me to have one, I'm sure I'll mention this at some point with her. It's frustrating desu knowing from experience I pass but still having image issues even if they're far less than before I transitioned.
New Year's Editionprevious: >>42044782 >>42079478 (died prematurely)Goal of the thread: Consider the things you want to improve or accomplish, whether long- or short-term. What small steps can you make towards those goals?Daily goals can be repeated. Remember to keep score, it can only go up!>What is this thread for?Getting better is hard, and sucks. A lot. It does not get easier doing it alone.Share resources and experiences with combating depression, anxiety, personal issues, achieving or maintaining a healthy weight, etc.>Why is this thread /lgbt/?Struggles with mental and physical health are an indisputable part of /lgbt/ life, be it from dysphoria, social pressure, heartbreak, or just unfortunate lifestyle choices.>Notes to consider:Please be civil. Shame is your greatest enemy in fighting urges of self abuse (be it sh, drugs, or just self deprecation). Relapsing into bad and unhealthy habits is to be expected, the goal is to increase the average amount of time it takes between relapses. Any improvement is a victory no matter how small. Your worth and right to get better are non-negotiable. And most importantly:WE ARE NOT THERAPISTS, WE DON'T REPLACE MEDICATION>Note on adviceComment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>42328196>>42328374You might as well pop another hundred of bucks for a quick consultation with a lawyer then. Don't be an idiot
>>42328706>hundred of buckshundred bucks
Coming to the painful conclusion that my BF will never be as authentic to me as I wish he were. I know I don't have the right to know everything. I am speaking up about being curious about his person in an entirety, anything and everything, and am never judgemental. He is what I consider the best partner I could possibly imagine. And I am radically communicative about my activities and thoughts with him myself, which he does appreciate a lot. Catching him doing things as small as they may be and him never mentioning it, even upon inquiry? Makes me feel like he is hiding more than I will ever know. I assume I need to let it go and accept the sadness this arises and concentrate on something more worthwhile than what might just be romantic fantasies.
>>42329624It does sound like you’re looking for a level of reassurance from your boyfriend that isn’t realistic. You should not rely on a partner to regulate your emotions. A lot of interpersonal advice will have you thinking that you can control other people’s behavior by acting right, but that can give you unrealistic expectations about what you can control and make you feel responsible for other people’s behavior.Maybe your boyfriend can’t reassure you as you want because no other person could, but maybe he’s making you worry for a reason. Either he’s just more emotionally distant than you want (very common in men) or he’s keeping something from you that he doesn’t feel like telling you because he knows it will upset you. Experience has taught me that it’s easy to expect too much from a partner, and that can cause problems, but also the people we date can have trouble communicating in a way that can make little problems way bigger and uglier than they need to be.
I'd like to troon out but given my faceshape i'll always be pretty ugly.I know its silly but i dont want to do it unless i have somewhat of a gurantee that i'll turn cute afterwards.
Is interracial gay rape an /lgbt/ issue?
It’s been 9 months and in the beginning, the thought of stopping HRT was scary because of how much progress I made over the years but as time has passed, I’m now developing an urge or feelings again that I felt before I started HRT; that are happening now. I need to know if this is possible to avoid and escape. I have Jesus in my life, I pray everyday, and I don’t present feminine anymore, I deleted all platforms that encourage femininity and influence, and i dropped supporting friends about it. If you have any supplements, strategies, sources, or anything that can help me rid of these feelings permanently.. I would be very grateful.
>>42324624I’m srry to be so indecisive here but I just feel like I hit a wall ):
Who here is a Christian transwoman? and if so, how long have you been transitioning and are you attractive and blend in with society?
>>42327354there are thousands, if not millions of Christian transwomen across the globe. OP is no different from them: they live their life with peace and joy now that they have accepted their true selves.
>>42324604>How can that be is what I’m getting at? :/ How can god be kind if he wouldn't be accepting of our own desires and free will?
>>42322549>god isn't real budDoes it matter if he is real or not? I'm an atheist and I understand God more clearly than most faithful do. I just don't agree with it. I don't need to have any crisis of faith over what God would want of me, which is utmost fealty and submission. It's pretty clear in that book he apocryphically wrote.
Any other trannies who can't function alone? Self-development, hobbies, self-care, all flies out the window without someone else
>>42328626well i mean how do you know you're gonna be functioning in a relationship if you haven't had one?personally i'm a mega c-ptsd superloser who thought i had no utility to anyone or anything and literally couldn't walk to a mailbox alone without crying (yes really and for years)... BUT THEN!!! my bff moved in and now we've been living together for like 12 years and she has a decent job and we both are living better than any other point in our lives and make art and music and stuff together and it's great most of the time.
>>42328668>it's great most of the time.how/when is it not great
>>42328728more of a complex question than you might imagine and something i think summing up might undermine the truth of by nature of raising more questions than it answers. there are really simple things like having to work a 9 to 5 never being ideal for anyone or health problems causing issues (i am partially disabled), and then there are more complicated things stemming from nuances of our dynamic that can result in arguments or worrying about failing ourselves or one another.the friction needed for a healthy relationship that helps promote the growth of both individuals isn't always plainly and obviously fun, though is frequently necessary for growth and provoking more meaningful interactions. some of the 'bad' parts are integral to the 'good' parts, so what i might complain about could also develop into a story about an important learning/bonding moment. neither of us are what the other wanted, romantically speaking - but what we thought we wanted out of a romantic relationship was driven by desire that had not been examined enough to realize our expectations and desires never equated to what another person actually is or offers. it's kind of like when you produce a track - no one actually imagines a full song and just goes about instrumenting it into reality, it's born from a lot of experimentation and experiences, and often the product of many happy accidents that maybe weren't immediately happy. we make better music together even though it is sometimes painful and confusing and we step on each others' toes or egos. i mean i feel like for emotional realization and general "quality of life," what's "not great" may actually be integral for developing and realizing what is 'ideal', which grows and changes every day. it's at its worst obviously when there is a lack of harmony following the friction - often when she has been depressive for too long a streak and i've become too high strung trying to help untangle it or motivate myself
>>42328631duh thats why u spam the board even tho everyone hates you
>>42328315this is me but im also too nervous and ashamed of myself to be in a relationship or even have friends a lot of the time so i just kind of do nothing by myself most of the time and wait to die
where is it edition>qott: why did no-one else make a thread for so long am i the only one who is desperate
why are you horny
>>42328349the usual tranny pedophile
>>42325828god, i would fuck the shit out of it.and then cut up its thighs.
>>42328591I'm not judging you but what about this fetish gets you off? I always thought fart fetish is mostly of the "I want her to fart" type rather than "I want to fart".
>>42326741sorry i fell asleep heheuhh i honestly really dont knkw i have a bunch of kinks and im very open to everything. mostly i just love to serve my purpose it gives me a greater joy than any sexual pleasure so being good makes me really happyotherthan that uhhhhh petplay obviously thag one is huge but like more on the psychosexual side like idrc for dog ears unless you want them on me so like more like breaking sown someone mentally into submission (read warhound youll understand) uhh boots cutting im not like hugee into maso cause im a pussy but i like letting others do what they want with my body and k love seeing scars. uh also free use i love free use or like cnc or whatever idk. honestly i just want to serve thats what gets me off lol. cuddlefucking would be nice too but yeah praise and degration im huge on degration idk? is this anything
/lesgen/ is the lesbian general for all cis women and trans women (MtF) to discuss lesbian relationships and topics.Be kind to each other and report/ignore trolls who attempt to divide trans mtf lesbians and cis lesbians as a community. This includes transphobic bigotry, femmephobia, butchphobia, racism, and anti-c4t/t4t slop. This is nice thread. :)QOTT>Favorite fast food slop meal of choice?>Do you keep any secrets from your gf?>Would you want to know if your gf was being unfaithful?>Have you introduced your gf to your parents?tagmap: https://tagmap.io/tag/%2Flesgen%2Fdiscord: https://discord.gg/bAnVMAGPNRold thread: >>42279925
poor people culture is voting for trump then complaining about rich people mocking you
Poor people culture (above 90 iq) is accepting the world wasnt made for you and refusing to participate
JorHON wouldn't vote for Harris/Walz because she thought Haitian immigrants were going to steal her $58(She's a swing state voter in a critical district btw)
Poly fags are why we lost the election
>>42328856this. most trannies need an acclimation period so they can be sure you see them as women before using their dick. it can take from a month to a year
what to do if im a chaser but i dont actually like trans women, i like cis women, but because i am lonely and only ever talk to trannies here i fantasize about them
>>42328185ROK is too far away, m8
>>42328152>and did you get a bf after that?yes. But a few years in, not immediately.I love the results (and lowkey resent not having started earlier) but the process wasn't quite smooth, though smoother than the horror stories I sometimes read on this board.
>>42328152go after post op ones idk
>>42328185are you actually a korean tranny
>>42328095do i look female enough for you?
Why does my bf say I am cute when I am naked? I don't understand
>>42325797they were clearly asking op, are you retarded or trolling?
>>42325708He wants to put something in your butt.
>>42325708I tell girls they look so pretty when i look them in the eyes with my dick in their mouth, same concept probably
>>42325757op is probably actually ugly so she is confused
>>42329835Theres nothing confusing about it. Men will fuck anything no matter how ugly it is
qott: good morning, monday morning, do you have a case of the mondays? q4c where would you bring your tranner for a date on a monday afternoon? q4t do you have a case on the mondays?https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A4B0pLDqYqIhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XASNM1XEQPs
>>42330009Hippo!!
>>42330032i doubt that, there is always a bigger fish in the pond
guys don't call me cute, only women do
adopting a tranny lurker on this thread
Morning anons
Accidently got really drunk and high and told literally every single friend (both IRL best friends and online friends) in a big group chat that I'm trans or non binary and want to go by they/them. Then told a few friends in private I'm trans.I'm too scared to open up my messages now, I saw a few previews and my friend said she's happy no matter what I do and that we should go shopping, a few other people seemed maybe supportive. A lot of my friends messaged me asking if I was okay or needed to talk but I just ignored them mostly.I feel like I fucked everything up and I honestly just want to crawl in to a hole and disappear forever, for reference I'm a detransitioner/repressor for like 4.5 years now (prev 5ish years on hrt)i also wrote a big letter to myself begging myself to transition even if I don't feel like it in the morning
>>42329210Or just any other kind of dissociative disorder. Really common for trannies because growing up dysphoric often leads to dissociation simply to survive.
>>42329180im autistic you ODD shitbag. DO THE WORK
>>42329246sorry :(, probably therapy didn't stick because I'd usually avoid the gender issues and so I spent every therapy session playing it close>>42329225thanks anon, I think I used to be but the last few years I've turned in to a pretty bitter, self obsessed person that uses others. Hopefully I can improve that.>>42329235>>42329210I do have a lot of issues with dissociation but not DiD as far as i knowanyway so im not just using this as a way to talk about my favourite topic (how miserable and cool i definitely am like a tranny dostoevsky character)does anybody have any advice on discussing this stuff with people close to you? I was really fucked up when I sent my messages and I barely remember what they say and I'm terrified to even look but I imagine my friends will have a lot of questions (though its been a running joke forever that i'm trans so desu it might not actually be that shocking)
>>42329050You need to do damage control and say that you aren't actually trans and just were really drunk and said things that just came to mind, but aren't actually trans. You fucked up
I sometimes tell people that i used to want to be a woman when i was younger and they usually think of it as a neat factoid.
The official/lgbt/ Minecraft server is extremely cool. Vanilla java 1.21.11. post your Minecraft username in the discord for a speedy whitelist https://discord.gg/8vKpdT8C9XVideo: https://youtu.be/Pym8NuAGUv4
>>42326676this server makes me forget my troubles
Girl penis has got to go
>>42327985>creativeoh so there's no point in joining
>>42328540Yeah, community is nice. Its just ruined by Karter and his emotionally charged authoritarianism
>>42328700omg yes fuck karter i can't believe he's been paying to host this server for so long what a jerk!! he totally ruined this server by umm.. uhhh... using creative mode to build train tracks?
who are you missing right now?
I really miss someone on i met from soc who I talked to every day for months. Ended on new years. I hope he is safe and has a roof over his head.
>>42325968A girl i met on here
>>42325968My ex from years agoMy friend who stopped talking to me for a big partThis girl I just started talking to because she's at uni rn and I want to talk to her
I miss spiceI loved her
I miss a little twink lesbian
what's going on here? when did my son become my daughter? when did this become normal?
>>42328876Is that terence tao? I like his analysis textbook a lot!
noooOOOOoooOOoooOOOOO the heckin geeeeeeeeeennnnnnnnnnneeeeeeeeeeesssssssssssssyou need to breed! ur dad is the math man on twitter!! wtf the west is falling noooooooooooooo
>>42328876tranny genes are smart genes, whatever reasoning that has
>>42329151Are you retarded? He is not "math man" on Twitter, he is one of the smartest people alive today and it would be a shame if her elite human capital spermies weren't saved
If you want to hurt a chud talk to him about his relationship with his mother. It’s like asking you guys what is your relationship with your mother. Trust me it works
>>42326530youre projecting.i love my mom, and her dementia bums me out.
>>42328670>>42328722How isolating
Isnt chuddery a kind of debt the present pays to the past? It always manifests as a fixed attachment to ancestry. Good or bad doesn't matter as much as the bond of kinship does. Strong fillial loyalty is the ground upon which chuds grow. And a weak bond allows the seeds of rebellion to flourish as the child must accept responsibility for his own creation and sever the umbilical cord himself, thus inverting the primary power relation, thus setting in motion a series of inversions in the course of a life of which the transsexual one is only a single possibility/moment.
>>42329441chuddery is "anyone who doesnt care about [current thing] and doesnt conform to whatever corporate retardism people divide themselves over"
>>42329441I just hated because I was bored and had no friends and the only place I found community was /pol/
