me and gf (we are transbian couple) never have sex. it was only few times. how many of you are the same and what did help you with that? examples of toys maybe? we are both seems to be okay with not having sex tho. both mostly bottoms. it’s just strange and it would be nice to try to have it sometimes ig
>>42106243Just get someone to come fuck you sometimes? I don't see the problem.
I have this fear that someone is giving subtle signs they do not want to have sex and that afterwards I will be a rapist. No means no and I wouldn't ever try after the first no, wouldn't pressure somebody, wouldn't try to get with someone drunk etc. However I am socially stunted and don't read people like at all so I think it's inevitable someone's body language will say no even though they said yes and then afterwards I go to prison. During sex I feel like a cold blooded terminator, not in a cool way I'm just autistic One time I had a girlfriend and we were in bed watching stuff. I put her hand on my crotch and started groping her boob and she told me she didn't feel like it. I was like "oh my bad" and stopped and then she started apologizing like 5 times. My heart started racing and it felt like she was trying to convert me into a rapist pressuring her even though I was cool with not having sex and was trying to show I didn't mind.
>>42105286i think it was put into my drink but i don't know what it wasi don't know if i said yes either
>>42099833Just setup a safeword before fugging and dont do it outside of long-term relationships.Dont plow drunk people either but that's jist for your own good. Anyone can claim rape if they were boozed when you shagged and they can bring that up 5 years after the fact if you get money-rich or influential in any way and ruin your life.
>>42099833a rapist is someone who doesn't listen when their partner says "I don't feel like it" or "stop". Subtle signs are irrelevant and missing them doesn't make you a rapist. If someone genuinely didn't want to continue having sex, they would say so in explicit terms.
>>42101023so true asking for consent is like the hottest thing ever yes make me ask for it make me tell you i want it holy shit
>>42099833People who are raped often make consent really unsexily explicit. They will ask. They will make it very clear. And that's fine.Sex is supposed to be fun. For both parties. If you need explicit consent to be comfortable, do it. It is merely an affectation about a fairy tale psychic connection that makes people in this culture biased against explicitly asking for consent. If you make a habit of explicitly asking for consent, you will be more right than most people in this culture.
/lesgen/ is the lesbian general for all cis women and trans women (MtF) to discuss lesbian relationships and topics.QOTT>Goals you have for the upcoming year?>What is the worst lie you’ve ever been told?>Do you / your gf enjoy going camping?tagmap: https://tagmap.io/tag/%2Flesgen%2Fdiscord: https://discord.gg/bAnVMAGPNRold thread: >>42076713
white women do be like this
>>42105192culvers is so fucking good
>>42105192can confirm. that was my gf when she went to the cheese man at the farmer’s market. white girls are like mice.
>>42102981you have a cute figure. you look soft and cuddly.
Putting my butch to bed so I can go finish making one of their Christmas gifts (it's a little plush andalite from the animorphs series)>>42105313I wish we had them here. I dream of what those curds are like. We have Tillamook near-ish me that does cheese curds, but they're not commonly fried here
Christmas Edition II: The Reckoningprevious: >>41869583 >>42044782 (Fell off the catalog)Goal of the thread: Food and cooking is a core pillar of self care. It is self expression, sustenance, social interaction. Enjoy a homecooked meal from fresh ingredients, with others, if you can.Daily goals can be repeated. Remember to keep score, it can only go up!>What is this thread for?Getting better is hard, and sucks. A lot. It does not get easier doing it alone.Share resources and experiences with combating depression, anxiety, personal issues, achieving or maintaining a healthy weight, etc.>Why is this thread /lgbt/?Struggles with mental and physical health are an indisputable part of /lgbt/ life, be it from dysphoria, social pressure, heartbreak, or just unfortunate lifestyle choices.>Notes to consider:Please be civil. Shame is your greatest enemy in fighting urges of self abuse (be it sh, drugs, or just self deprecation). Relapsing into bad and unhealthy habits is to be expected, the goal is to increase the average amount of time it takes between relapses. Any improvement is a victory no matter how small. Your worth and right to get better are non-negotiable. And most importantly:WE ARE NOT THERAPISTS, WE DON'T REPLACE MEDICATION>Note on adviceComment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>42103749i don’t think there’s too much more to share. semester ended recently so most of my immediate stressors are gone. i guess the only thing is that i’ve been feeling very iffy about my body lately (tranny) and shaving reminded me of just how bad it is and then i saw a 10/10 passoid and it just set me off. thanks for your concern in some random bumper though, i was mostly venting to the void and didn’t really expect a response
I keep feeling like I have to break up with my boyfriend because there was too big of a red flag. He used something against me randomly that I'm really insecure about. I trusted him with it, and he acted like he understood and empathised with me at the time. It was a fucked up thing I confided, but I still thought he understood me.It reminded me too much of what my Dad would do. Lovebomb and then randomly turn on you, trying to hurt you the best he could, before going back to lovebombing.But idk if I'm just crazy. Idk if this is part of the paranoia and the aversion and fear of love that he's put into me. God I really hate him sometimes.Idk if I can trust him again after this. I feel like I have to be careful with my words and guard information now. I hate it.
The holidays always give me a deep sense of melancholy that I can't really shake off.Feels like I'm waiting for the other shoe to drop.I hope you all are doing okay.>>42038891>Don't worry bunon, I'm okay!That is very good to hear.>Alright, let's make it more explicit. Try imagine the different settings you'd work inOkay, I can do so.>Example, a workshop, I can manage.>an office, Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
a good night for a /cig/
>>42079478I’ve actually improved my diet a lot thanks to threads like these.
Sometimes I look through my photo gallery and see a picture of my gf and it makes me happy. I used to get off to hurting woman and would jerk off to torture porn, had a history of being an abusive asshole as a teenager and would forcefem theyfabs/ femboy type ftms I dated until they started identifying as cis female. but unlike the cis girls I’ve dated I’d never want to genuinely hurt her or be to rough with her. I love her and want to treat her as kindly as anyone possibly can. she is so special to me and I’d never want to hurt her. I love her so much.
>>42093255I'm 5'7 but I stand on my tippy toes all the time because I'm autistic...
>>42097231Region? T. Same
>>42102840NoAll mtfs are like this
Why has this thread devolved into arguing instead of discussing why trans women are so hot. Even if they are dealing with a lot and clearly struggling by existing they are still some of the most beautiful people you will meet
>>42106182I wish I had a boymoder to date and rub my dick on
In an average day, i hear about 200 anti trans slurs a day
in an average day i watch about 200 animation memes a day
>>42106090Same but it’s just me staring into a mirror and screaming at myself
>>42106121The trick is break all mirrors
>>42106116Cant you just watch the anime
stopped being a puppygirl and rping with strangers on the internet . started going out more and acting like a normal person and i immediately became lonelier and sadder. do i need to go back?
>>42105232you can do both nona, be normal irl and a puppygirl online
>>42105252it was more fun when i was a puppygirl irl too tho
>>42105299just keep it in the bedroom like most kinksters do, save it for scenes
>>42105299how do yoy puppygirl irl?do you wear the ears, tail and collar?do you woof at randos?
>>42105742yeah. obviously not at work, but parties and other stuff like that i would do the whole puppy thing
You aren't hated because you're trans. There's no such thing as transphobia. You're hated because you're ugly and don't pass. When trannies were males they got called loser, incel, creep, etc. because they were ugly. Then they started larping as females and the insults simply changed to troon and ywnbaw. But it's for the same reason. Even the most hardened" transphobic" chuds simp for trannies who do pass like Sayuri Matar, finnster, and picrel because they don't actually give a fuck about their transness just their attractiveness (or in your case lack of it)>waah wahh that's just sexualization it's also transphobicYeah grow up, in this world you're either sexualized if you're hot or insulted if you're ugly. That's how it is for everyone trans or not. But nobody calls women sexualizing Henry Cavill or Robert Patterson "cisphobia"
>>42103772Im well read, can be reasonably charming, just because im ugly strangers in the street will glare. Tbh its everyone, hospital workers are the worst, i hope more hospital staff get attacked
>>42105983Thankfully my ancestors left bongistan over a century ago so I'm good
>>42106039Well thats not fair
>>42093186Talk yo shit qing
>>42097308Shut the fuck up I know you're ugly nigger
I'm going to start identifying as a bottom. Then I will find a switch and fuck her brains out, just completely demolish her pussy. My reasoning is that bottoms are despicable while switches+tops are heroes and I need to do something nice for them.
transition isnt worth it
>>42104771You have to really hate being gay for transitioning to be worth it. If you're okay with being homosexual you'll probably regret transitioning.
>>42104808what if you arent homosexual
>>42105792transbians aren't real, just take your HRT nona. after a few years you'll understand why women like men
>>42105829a meta attracted turboautogynephile used her earthshaking booming male voice to use speech to text and hit post with her hairy oversized hon thumb
>>42105872heheh.... time to pull my ultimate move... (depicts you as the ugly wojak)
Czech hunter edition Previous thread>>41888225Comics we know of, all ofwhich are named Kaito Shuno:https://www.webcomicsgeneral.top/Other archives and lists:https://tagpacker.com/user/lgbtwebcomicshttps://webring.gay/list.html?id=0Feel free to recommend new webcomics that are not in the lists, but don't be lazy, please include:Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>42101313This episode was absolute cinema
https://sparkscomic.net/
>>42102585He was so excited to tell him about his day… :(
https://www.rideordiecomic.com/Season's greetings courtesy of mars~
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being a visible tranny fucking sucks, I want to be stealth so bad and never even have to bring up the fact that I'm trans to anyone ever again, If i cant pass In like 4 years I'm honestly just gonna hang myself not even joking, I'm so done with everyone seeing me & immediately making assumptions about me, they probs think im some sort of weird fetishist or that I want to trans their kids or some retarded shit like that, I just want to be left the fuck alone & life my life as a normal person, I'm done with the trans & lgbt community, you guys fucked our optics up so bad that I'm genuinely considering killing myself, thanks a lot !! hope you faggots are happy, Merry Christmas btw.
>>42104300>nooooo you cant make shit up!>but here is a bunch of made up bullshit i am going to keep telling you that you believeok pedo. remember to do us all a favor and ack in 4 years when you still dont pass, hons like you are more of an opticsnuke than whatever the algorithms baited you into seething about
>>42104155>GAC 8>Steensma et. alLol kys psyop
>>42104344im a pedo for saying that children can't consent? lmao, I cant even make this shit up, you guys are genuinely so retarded
>>42104457dont forget to rope in 4 years when you’re still a walking opticsnuke :) and please keep your rapestick out of the women’s bathroom, little girls are in there.
>>42103988Poopy
Would you date a transbian neet who budgets $200 a month for food in a coastal city?($13 for takeout cheese pizzas, eat half of it per day, ~7 a day for ~200 a month)
>>42105350What like I'm your pet or something...? What makes you think I'd immediately melt if I'm commanded to do that and cooperate with you? It's not like I'm extremely easy to order around or anything...
>>42105552I know what you're doing. This is the text equivalent of wagging your ass. Degenerate bitch.
>>42105101im the original person who replied. there would be weekly, if not daily check-ins. besides, i doubt it would be difficult to convince you with a little bit of attention. >>42105552i mean look at yourself. easy.
>>42105760If its just online attention its not rly gonna work>>42105710I'm generate...
>>42105921You're so bad at playing pretend
cc/album#TEAEo5mziOPGI have 19 bideltoid 32 waist and 36 hips and im 5'9i dont need to be perfect but i wanna know if im fucked
>>42105274wait how can u still see it, i thought timer went out?>You're a skinnyfatwhys everyone pointing out the fact im chubby. im not retarded lmao
>>42105480I didn't need to see it
>>42105494lol ok, ur kinda bad at trolling no offense. it doesnt really hurt when i know ur just bullshiting
>>42101596anyways heres the pics again if anyone else wants to judgecc/album#0PzlkO4ZiYqx
>>42105600yeah ur a hon
would you want your transgf to have armpit hair? what about hair around her pp? and around her balls? what about hair around her butthole?Im gettin laser whole body but there are some spots Im doubting what to doas a boymoder myself I find it hot on armpits, pp, balls, pussy, ass, no matter the gender. but for me personally theres some hair I want to get rid of 100%: ball hair, hair ON pp, not in the base, and most of butt hair. I was thinking of leaving a little ring of ass hair around my butthole cause thas so hot imo and is so much less of a problem to shave and deal with
>>42099453Unpopular opinion: I think body hair on fem ppl is hot asf. The more the better Idc where it is as long as the face is clean (Im not actually gay lol). The only problem is that I rly like licking/worshipping so it might get a bit annoying in that way.
>>42099453No hair below the neck, no balls either for that matterT. Hairy man
>>42104688>below the neckSo I can keep my beard then, right?
>>42104830If you can grow a beard im not interested anyway so whatever
>armpit hair>hair around her ppAbsolutely delicious. sniffsniff>around her buttholeDunno...>around her ballspreferably not
