would a tranny date a very nice and masculine chaser who takes estrogen for a fetish but has no desire to transition or be feminine and doesn’t want to talk about it?
>>42365276Where do you live?
>>42365261Nigga u already transitioned, why would you be on e and looking for a tranny are u retarded?
>>42365283germany
>>42365302I don’t live as or identify with trans tho, I’m just a normal cis dude with this one weird quirk
>>42365321Nien
I'm older and have been transitioning for a decade so I don't fit into any of the trans discords. The same goes for irl trans groups and those are filled with theyfabs anyway. I don't have a single trans friend. I tried dating a trans woman but she didn't even want to spend the holidays together. I wish I had a close friend who would want to visit me and hang out with me or at least talk to me regularly. But I also feel like I've been isolated for too long and don't know how to talk to people anymore.
Why do chasoids always have to make things weird?
>>42363551Just shooting their shot, I guess.
>>42354747This mentality is cancer.I have friends IRL ranging from 16 year olds to 50 year olds. I'm 36.You angloids have psyopped yourselves hard on this thing. All of you, not just trannies or queer people.Age groups are supposed to interact with each other, not to be siloed into echo chambers. Oldfags can learn new things from newfags and newfags can learn from the mistakes of the oldfags.Seriously people, throw this mentality into the garbage disposal where it belongs.It's nothing wrong for a 30yo to have a chat with an 18yo for fuck's sake.
>>42365185I'm a pedophile though is it okay for me to have non sexual conversations with children sometimes ill teach them something small something to get them thinking happens at the train station a fair bit
>>42365284>I'm a pedophile thoughNeah. You're just one of the many shills who is interested in keeping age groups apart.Angry foid upset being outcompeted by younger models or a glownigger? You decide.
Do you seriously believe "straight" men date trannies?Even if your 100% convincing, post op, 10/10...we know. We always know. He might never say it or even alude to it, but he knows. He gets off to the idea of fucking a dude who looks like a girl. That's all you are. A fetish. And every guy who fucks you is 100% gay. Don't give me the bisexual cope, fucking a dude makes you gay. And all trannies are dudes.
>>42362497yeah and its one thing to marry a man and another to suck a dick once, but neither is 100% straight
>>42362513>and im gaywhy dont you just fuck men who look like men then lol. ur gonna be like "i do" and its gonna be epic!!!
>>42363916>why dont you just fuck men who look like men then lolBecause men who look feminine are hotter to me.>why?!?!?!?!?I dunno, I'm just fucked in the head and find that hot for some reason?
>>42361823>Even if your 100% convincing, post op, 10/10...we know. We always know. He might never say it or even alude to it, but he knows.He knows because I told him. He knew me (online) when I was still just questioning. He's always known I'm a tranny.>He gets off to the idea of fucking a dude who looks like a girl.Nah, he gets off to the idea of fucking a woman who used to be a boy. HI know because he can't help but to tease me about it when he's balls-deep in my vagina.>That's all you are. A fetish.Nah, he loves me too.>And all trannies are dudes.Why? How is someone with boobs and vagina and a fem voice a guy?
>>42361823>He gets off to the idea of fucking a dude who looks like a girl.Correct, remember in school when you bullied other kids by calling them girls? >you hit like a girl>you throw like a girlIts like that, but now you get to bully them for taking dick like a girl, moaning like a girl and quivering like a girl. Its a powertrip. But ofc you know they like and its all fun and games.
How do fellow reppers feel being around regular trannies?Saw Castration Movie and the theatre was packed, easily the most trannies I'd ever seen in one place. I even got to sit beside a couple since there were so many people. Looking back on it, it felt weirdly good to just be around half-decent trannies for a while. Do I just make a bunch of troon friends and live vicariously through them, or am I retarded and am just going to increase my own chances of trooning out?
>>42364215Is telling your therapist worth it? I've considered it before but it seems useless to me, I don't see a lack of insight they could give me other than encouraging me to transition.
>>42364948different anon but I did just that.And the horror face on my therapist convinced me to rep for a while.Until I realized she's just dumb and trooned out anyway.Funny thing is that we met years later and she didn't recognize me (which I took as a compliment). She then congratulated me for the courage but also admitted she doesn't understand anything from any of this.
>>42364992That's crazy, what kind of therapist is seeing clients while not understanding anything about gender identity? Glad you're doing good now anon but holy shit, that just seems like awful luck.
>>42364948It's worth it in that you have a place to vent.I purposefully found someone who works with LGBT clients, and I said right up front that I had dysphoria, was questioning my gender, all that. She was supportive, helped me contextualize my feminine aspects without diminishing them. But as soon as I started saying I might self medicate, I got the audio version of >>42364992's look of horror.I suspect a lot of therapists who work with LGBT really just work with LGB and T who have already transitioned. The agony of indecision blinds them. That's why they either encourage you to troon out or just reject the idea completely. It's so far removed from their experience that they don't have the capacity for nuance.
>>42365052>awful luckNo. It's actually very common.>>42365275 is right.To add, you have to understand this shit is very rare.And the advent of DiY has opened up situations that literally didn't exist in a clinical sense just a decade ago.There is no data on DiYers, for instance.I "registered" to a psychiatrist just so the two years can pass and have a legal paperwork trail that's acceptable in court so I can get name and ID change. But there's zero clinical data on me (and I'm glad that is the case, but it also means the doctors have no idea).Trannies like me are right not to trust the doctors (they would've either repped me harder or hondosed me) but then I don't get to blame them for being clueless either. Since we don't clue them in.Mind you, this will get worse, not better. There are far more DiYers now than when I decided to stop repping. Nobody has any idea how many DiYers are, let alone have any clinical data.
>be me>35yo>5'6">never grew facial hair>almost no body hair except pubic areas>basically no musculature>only ever had sex a few times, some of them sexworkers>the last time i did it with a sexworker she told me i have a feminine body after we fuckedis it over, guys?
>>42362266take the pink pill and transmaxx bro
>>42363399bruh
Why is that guy there? That's a white guy, he is not oppressed
>>42365056the white one his "harder" while armed
>>42365092harder minorities are armed to impress
>>42365186trannies and black people with guns makes me hard desu
>>42365056he had his penis mutilated and it radicalized him, he and his gender face oppression every day
newly single trans girl twinkhon looking to get fucked in the ass from guys on grindr.. who has a good method to get me loose like i was b4 i got with my cis ex gf, it’s been 2 yrs since ive had real anal.
>>42363608kill youself lol
>>42363608>spit on hand>pinky, index, thumb, inded+middle>insert dickSo easy
i'm on the fence about getting ffs. i would benefit from chin and jaw reduction but i feel like the most clocky thing about my is by far my body. i don't know if i can justify dropping 30k on surgery that will only improve my appearance a little bit? i have massive shoulders, basically no hips, wide neck and long ass arms. my face and height are probably my most passing features. WHAT WOULD U DO?
>>42364567face is what everyone looks at dingus. if ur face passes then its pretty hard not to pass.
>hrt still works after 25-
>>42357948i started hrt at 32, it's not so black and white.
>>42363544are these actually good measurements?
>>42357948It's shopped
>>42365227no, any underbust over 30in is ngmi
>>42364934cute!
Happened last year.For context, we both like mostly women > my friend and I (both girls) slept together in my bed (something I did with other friends before btw)>well, she slept, I didn't, it was hella hot in my room> start clinging to her in the morning> she doesn't move me away > pet her head while she's full body on me> touch gently our skins here and there, even thighs, while saying stuff like "how smooth" "did you use razor or silk epil?" etc.> at some point with my head on her chest while she gently pinches my hip > reach for her ear and emit a timed little moan as she pinches> needs to leave eventually> we never talk about that anymore > down bad for her> saw her only once after thatComment too long. Click here to view the full text.
We text each other regularly, but nothing related to that day
WTF are gay people real? And I'm not gay?? For years I've been operating on the belief that sexuality is not deterministic due to my own experience, to wit: I'm a straight guy who has no problem with non-straight fantasies, (they're really hot) and theoretically no problem with having a gay experience. I'm not attracted to men, but part of me always wondered if that was my personality or conditioning, like I could be gay if I wanted. Nonetheless, it made no sense to be considered gay because historically speaking, I would be called straight as a primarily straight man with some gay temptations. The only logical conclusion I could draw was that sexuality involves socialization, and the terms are deeply flawed. (e.g. bisexuals are "part gay" which doesn't fit the definition of gay)Lately though, I've come to the realization that my sexuality is actually derived from masturbation, which started much earlier than any other type of experience. That explains why I'm repulsed by men but see no contradiction in fantasies, it also explains why I'm not falling over myself to sleep with zillions of women. Am I destined to be a masturbator for all times, and where the fuck do I fit in the sexuality spectrum? Are true gays really that way from the womb?
>>42363606>reportedyou mean, there are far more than the existing definition can support. Nothing about me fits the definition of bi except that I'm capable of doing things straight people supposedly cannot do.
>>42363645I mean, yeahBisexuality is a one-drop ruleIf you can tolerate scenarios outside of heterosexual disgust or homosexual disgust, then you're neither.It's really a catch-all for many types of fetishes and sexualities, including, I think, AGP (which people insist is a "straight" fetish but seems highly counterintuitive to be that). It's why bisexuals aren't going to ambivalently want transwomen, men, women, or transmen; it's not about wanting every form of human, that's more of a pansexual sub-bi sexuality.
>>42363133youre not straight, youre pansexual. literally the vast majority of people are pan.
>>42363713lolnothey aren'tdo you have a single fact to substantiate why literally everybody will fuck anything but a small percent won't, when the reverse appears true?
>>42363729LOL you actually think pan people just randomly fuck everything? fuck this board has gotten stupid. everyone is selective, but when faced with a actual billion possible partners, odds are you will find one of the same gender that you will fuck. pan doesnt mean you have no standards or preferences, just that your eligible partners includes a much wider group, even if you would reject 99.9% of the group.
I’m an HRT femboy and I’d love to settle down and get married one day. I know that a lot of men find femboys sexually attractive, but is that the same for romance as well? Are boys like me boywife material or is that just a fantasy? I’d cook and clean, take care of him and the house and maintain my beauty and femininity into old age as long as he marries me and fully commits but I’ve never seen a boy like me in a loving marriage, is that actually possible? Would you guys ever settle down with a femboy or are we just fuckmeat? And are there any real examples of these kinds of marriages?
>>42364854not everyone wants kids, blackpill betty
>>42365127True. Still, you have to find the ones that are willing to date us publicly which is also rare.
to divorce you maybe. you'll grow out of this femboy shit, you'll stop typing :3, you'll stop looking barely legal, and they'll get bored and go fuck some other 18yo. guaranteed.
>>42365214I’ve done it, it’s definitely possible. you just have to live in a big liberal city where nobody gives a fuck
>>42365233being a femboy to me is my full on identity, I’ve never been masculine and I’d be more likely to transition than I would to “grow out of it”, either way, not all men are pedos who want barely legal looking partners. surprisingly there are normal men out there but they’re not on here of course, there’s not a fuck ton of them but they exist. It’s important to be realistic but nothing is fully black and white in this world it’s not fully amazing or fully fucked
Exercise Editionprevious: >>42162119Goal of the thread: Go out for a walk, or try to get any other form of small exercise (walking stairs for 5 mins for example)Daily goals can be repeated. Remember to keep score, it can only go up!>What is this thread for?Getting better is hard, and sucks. A lot. It does not get easier doing it alone.Share resources and experiences with combating depression, anxiety, personal issues, achieving or maintaining a healthy weight, etc.>Why is this thread /lgbt/?Struggles with mental and physical health are an indisputable part of /lgbt/ life, be it from dysphoria, social pressure, heartbreak, or just unfortunate lifestyle choices.>Notes to consider:Please be civil. Shame is your greatest enemy in fighting urges of self abuse (be it sh, drugs, or just self deprecation). Relapsing into bad and unhealthy habits is to be expected, the goal is to increase the average amount of time it takes between relapses. Any improvement is a victory no matter how small. Your worth and right to get better are non-negotiable. And most importantly:WE ARE NOT THERAPISTS, WE DON'T REPLACE MEDICATION>Note on adviceComment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>42364226>look like this at 19, about 60kg, no estrogen or anythinghow did i manage to go from no-ass, to no-ass AND estrogenized-male fat distribution??????
i just give upgonna disappear nownot gonna even try living anykorework sleep eat repeatthats all i needcya folks be good
>>42364226>>42364249you gained weight while only having been on hrt for 4 months. Just because your levels might be in range doesn’t mean your fat distribution is instantly feminine.
HOW DO I KILL MYSELF WITHOUT ANYONE NOTICING?srs ansers please
can someone explain to me like the retard i am how people get boyfriends?i mean, if you're a gay guy or a tranny, isn't it absolute social suicide to ever show interest in a guy?
Dad found my underwear and hasn't said anything yet. Gonna kms from embarrassment
>>42365062Im wearing boxers rn. also quit being weird.
>>42365138You're the one who made a thread about your dad finding your super secret little panties. You want him to fuck you.
>>42365163pics
>>42365183you've been nothing but a perv and an annoyance what makes you think id send?
>>42365250cause i want to see and you're probably cute in them
