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>be me, gay boy growing up
>get crush on boy
>tell him
>he freaks out and calls me a faggot, tells everyone at school
>get bullied for years by everyone
>turn 18, transition
>like men but afraid of trying to date them
>tell everyone I'm attracted to women
>go to college lgbt group
>cis girl starts chatting with me, she's really nice
>after a while she asks me out
>say yes because I don't want to be rude
>go out to dinner and watch a movie with her
>she's cool and smart and fun to talk with so I have a good time
>she compliments me a lot and I like being liked even if I'm not attracted to her because fag

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>>42038811
THAT'S AWESOME NONA

Seasonal Edition
previous: >>41713438

Goal of the thread: Consider the things you want to improve or accomplish, whether long- or short-term. What small steps can you make towards those goals?
Daily goals can be repeated. Remember to keep score, it can only go up!

>What is this thread for?
Getting better is hard, and sucks. A lot. It does not get easier doing it alone.
Share resources and experiences with combating depression, anxiety, personal issues, achieving or maintaining a healthy weight, etc.
>Why is this thread /lgbt/?
Struggles with mental and physical health are an indisputable part of /lgbt/ life, be it from dysphoria, social pressure, heartbreak, or just unfortunate lifestyle choices.
>Notes to consider:
Please be civil. Shame is your greatest enemy in fighting urges of self abuse (be it sh, drugs, or just self deprecation). Relapsing into bad and unhealthy habits is to be expected, the goal is to increase the average amount of time it takes between relapses. Any improvement is a victory no matter how small. Your worth and right to get better are non-negotiable. And most importantly:
WE ARE NOT THERAPISTS, WE DON'T REPLACE MEDICATION
>Note on advice

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>>41994681
You sound burned out, Anon. It sounds like a lot of people trauma dump on you? I would much rather focus on those you feel don't give you enough time, though.
>i cant talk to people get attached only to get sidelined because I dont understand how to speak or they dont undertsand how to think
These bits in particular. What do you mean by not understanding how to speak?
>>42000629
What happened, Anon?
>>41997995
I'm happy to hear that you're working on it, and of course I wish you nothing but the best. If there's anything particular on your mind don't hesitate to speak up about it though, ok?
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>>42011161
Don't worry bunon, I'm okay!
>I don't even know where to start.
Alright, let's make it more explicit. Try imagine the different settings you'd work in. Example, a workshop, an office, other people's homes, a computing center.. with few people, with many. Even if you can just "hell no" a couple of those we can hone in.
>I don't really have many a lot of skills developed in those areas.
>I guess I would try it if the opportunities were more available.

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Short post because more >>links would exceed the spam filter limit
>>42014983
What makes you feel like you should?
>>42015228
I'm excited for you, Navy. Things are finally moving for ya.
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>>42033642
Fucking hell, I genuinely feel for you, Anon.. there's not much beyond hair transplants I am aware of, you could also try >>>/fa/18613072 (/fa/'s hair loss general) for more resources, but I can't vouch for their helpfulness since I don't often go to /fa/.
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>>42038576
So it’s not like you’re skipping appointments on purpose, but missing an appointment really fucks with your self-esteem. And because you grew up not seeing doctors about this stuff, falling behind on seeing a doctor now doesn’t feel that wrong to you.

I know what it’s like to have a medical problem that interferes with my ability to do certain things on my own. I’m autistic, and I wasn’t diagnosed until I was in my late 20s. And there are times when I make mistakes that I know had something to do with the fact that I’m autistic. That used to really bother me. It was scary, it was frustrating.

I think what would help you is to troubleshoot the stuff that your medical issues are interfering with your ability to do, and build failsafes into your routine. Make a plan B and a plan C. That way, if something unforeseeable happens, everything doesn’t go to shit. Like, set a bunch of alarms and reminders about what time it is, or write things down on a card or a piece of paper for when you can’t talk. Or use a text-to-speech app. Getting things done in a non-standard way doesn’t mean doing them wrong. Adapt, improvise, overcome. Show yourself you aren’t as helpless as you’re afraid you are at your lowest moments.

But remember, just because something goes wrong doesn’t mean you aren’t doing your best. And don’t be mean to yourself. Let other people say mean things about you. Don’t do it for them.
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>>42007561
What's up, Anon?
>>42007601
Relatable as hell, I hope you get to look forward to a vacation soon.
>>42010099
Midriffs are nice!
>>42025843
Jesus Christ what in the unholy sloptcha hell is this?
No clue what game they are playing but the meta sure keeps changing..
>>42021061
I understand how crushing it must be, having to deal with external pressure, labels that don't feel quite right to begin with, loneliness and regrets all at once. You're overwhelmed. Doom spiraling is only natural in this situation. You have my heartfelt sympathy, things are tough with so much on your plate. I wanna try hold your hand a little through this, because I am confident you can make it through all this, past be damned. Let's take a step back for a moment before we pick things back up. Remind me, did we ever talk about online friends/communities? It's not something I can help a great deal with.
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I had one final post in the works past 1 am, so consider this a little treat before I'm off to bed: Yesterday marked the 3 year anniversary of /sig/, the first thread having been >>28777091. I am beyond proud of this little community of ours, and myself. Thank you everyone, and cheers to more years to come... Looking back, seeing each and every one of you, and remembering the many, many kind souls that came and went.. it was all worth it.
>>42026391
I'm happy for you, Anon! These things are always tricky when ED is in the mix but if you are ever scared of slipping we can try to give you an impartial perspective.
>>42029012
Christ, I'm just glad you got patched up quickly.
>>42026544
>i can't talk about being addicted for example
Makes sense, but I assume something led you to seeking out substances to cope, right?
Do you feel there are particular "roots of evil" you never felt comfy/safe talking about?
>>42029883
>Hi SH anon back again just passed 500 days which is good.
Holy fuck, that's an amazing milestone, super proud of you!
>I'm not sure if I really have much of any future or stability in my life.
Wanna talk about what's up, Anon?

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playin league of legends all alone by myself while I wish i was under some boys blankets on his smelly boysmell scented bed with boysmell pillows and boysmell blankets wishing he was kissin me and touching me and
god I hate bein so touch starved I need a boy
any chally boys w.wan to carry my loser ass...
t. spanish boymoder

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>"Sorry but I don't really like masc dudes"
>"I'm not masc lol I'm a bottom"
>looks like this

Every time. Why is this so common?
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>>42037597
is there something that happens in utero that makes straightoids retarded?
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>>42035709
he's got some nice titties and pink nips though
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>>42035709
masc and fem is mainly about personality and presentation for fags
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>>42035709
it's crazy that men actually look like this
I tried to work out for years before transitioning, and I was never even close to this masculine
men are like a different species
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>>42038919
sure hon

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Retro edition

Question of the day: what’s your typical lunch like?

>FAQ
>What is a femboy?
A femboy is a male that pursues a feminine appearance for himself whilst still identifying as male

>Are femboys trans?
The majority of femboys are cisgendered. Femboy is not a 'stepping stone' to trans, it is a stand alone identity.

>Can trans post here?
Trans people are welcome to post in /fbg/ and identify as femboy if they want, but this is not a trans thread.

>Why dont I ever see femboys irl?

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>>42037724
enjoy your tits, tranny
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>>42037724
How old are you, do you want boobs & do you live with family?
If you’re a grown up who lives on their own & you don’t want boobs just get a regular hrt prescription from an endocrinologist. Try skipping the regular doctor and calling a endocrinology clinic for an appointment to bypass time wasting closeted bigots
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>>42038247
late 20's, i'm moving out soon and living alone. i was just going to buy it online to avoid all the hassle.
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>>42038629
Oh I don’t even know how to get hrt online sounds like you know what you’re doing
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I’m mad at my boyfriend so I have no one to send nudes to let alone a reason to take them :T

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In a new (European) country as of late having moved from the US and I really want a boyfriend but idk if A-guys here like trannies (even passoids like myself) and B- how to I find a guy who will indulge my weird fantasies (calling him older brother, him being nice to me and holding me gently)
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>>42035506
>(calling him older brother, him being nice to me and holding me gently)

maybe start with the last two before bringing up the first one
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>>42035506
where in europe are you? the answer to A will depend on that but unless you're somewhere very remote or conservative you can probably do it. can't really comment on B.
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i would be up to lol
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>>42035506
hi
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>>42035506
no there isn't, but depends on the area. as a passoid you'll maybe get a mediocre looking and mid personality bf

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>>42038529
I get chest breadth at bustpoint = 558px, bicristal breadth = 563px, but those are visual measurements and include soft tissue, of which there's visibly more at the iliac crests than at the bustpoint. Even if you pretend those measurements don't include soft tissue, the typical female ratio is 0.975 bustpoint:bicristal.
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>>42033376
No. unfortunately, from the thumbnail alone I saw this phenotype.
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>>42037515
what is your height?
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>>42038910
170 cm
55kg
30.5 inch underbust
26.5 inch waist
33 inch hips
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>>42033376
sex

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oh mein gott ze thread was gelöscht
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Why did you delete your discord
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>>42037503
You already look close to average cis woman, looking like the left is only possible for a tiny % of women that the rest of women are envious of
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>>42038332
I miss when being slightly athletic/ not fat was considered normal for woman
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>>42038805
Even being thin af most women wouldn't have the whr ratio of that drawing OP wants to look like
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>>42037503
how do people keep forgetting this is julie

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I've hated fags all my life, but also I realized, ever since i was a child i have been feeling attracted to women, as a woman. I've had crushes on other females and really I could say I like them more than males. But i really, really don't wanna be a part of you guys. I also used to look up girls kissing on YouTube when i was around 8-10 years old and watch for hours. I hate myself for this. I hate liking women. What should I do?
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theres a lot to unpack here
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>>42038935
lol thats what u get for being a phobe u fuckin dyke
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>>42038935
what reason is there to hate yourself for liking women
if you don't want to be "a part of you guys" you don't really have to involve yourself in the community very heavily

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OH MY GOD I NEED A BOYFRIEND SO BAD

i want one to protect me, care about me when i’m down, listen to my autism talk about my current hyperfixation. i want to be there for him, when he’s down, i want to ground him, i want to surprise him, make him happy with food, cuddle with him, listen to his heart pounding when i put my head on his chest

RAHHHHH IM GOING TO FUCKING KILL MYSELF
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I wish that could be me but instead I have to transition and be a needy trans girl too I'm sorry
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>>42038953
You won't get one if you keep posting coal like glegle. Gwnbam
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>>42038953
r u hawt

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Despite being a tranny I mostly just see myself as a feminine male in a sexual context. tfw no bf who praises me for being his beautiful faggy prince and tying me up and letting me lick his cock as a treat
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>>42038828
Be my toy. I have needs you know...
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>>42038846
tell me what you got and i will say if it works
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>>42038876
A lil over 6 long
5 girth
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>>42038860
If that's what it takes. What makes you happy, makes me happy.
;p
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>>42038971
What would make me happy is you showing off to me

POST WHAT YOU GOON TO AND GUESS LETTERS!
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him and nothing but him. also like heavy dom/sub stuff. and like gt. I like vocaloid fukase.

>>42038071
bi cis femme I thinkk

>>42037915
straight cis man
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>>42037915
>you all are supposed to guess letters omg!!! read the rules ajskldfjksdl!
no :3
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>>42038542
> straight cis man
meta attracted agp cism sexuality it's overrrrr
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i dont goon anymore, too much guilt
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>>42038630
lock in and goon

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chuck’s suck and cuck edition
qott: what’s something that has made you feel crazy?
prev - >>42021167
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>>42039147
blue collar job?
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>>42039151
no im naturally hideous
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>>42039137
yes
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i pulled it as far as it would go and it just hurts, how is this supposed to feel good?
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>>42039140
I dated a girl with bpd once and she cheated on me :( weird that someone like that can also be codependent

What causes honfidence?

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i love coming across weird trans women who abuse their dicks to the most disgusting shit you can think of. the type of gooner that jerks it to cartoon porn and feet and stuff like that. most of them are bottoms so i think they are the cutest ever when i make them melt like butter and enable their porn addiction by giving them everything they want. im the worlds first chaser for gooners
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Stay away from the child porn gooners.
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>>42034688
I love male gooners who act like junkies for getting their dicks sucked
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>>42035209
That's me hello
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>>42034688
Daddy:<
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>>42034688
hi please adopt me and feed me porn and let me huff your feet


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