Tell me what you do to cope when your mental health is bad
>>42382114I got some ice cream and cuddled my plushie. Youre lovely, thanks for the kinf words :)
>>42382719>FF14Is this the mmo final fantasy?
>>42384653>ketamineOh God, please try to cut down anon, please... that stuff is no good
>>42377836cut and burn, then i get dysphoric over having such a fembrained coping mechanism so i cut and burn some more
>>42378336oh shit kira is japanesu for killeromg this makes it all the more cringe I love it
Did anybody else struggle to accept they were dysphoric prior to transition?I did everything I could to keep myself in denial for quite a while. Stuff like:>I don't hate my facial hair at all, I just prefer being shaved and feel disgusting when I'm not, and it definitely doesn't feel wrong>I don't hate my genitals, I'm just don't care about it and it's sometimes annoying, and it definitely doesn't feel wrong>I don't actually want to be a woman at all. I'm just aware of what can be nice about being a woman, because I'm an open minded man>I definitely don't mind having a body bigger than that of almost all women. I should be confident of it in fact, as other men would envy me
>>42384668So then do I have BDD? I don't think I'm particularly delusional about what I look like. I'm tired of hating my body.
>>42383467>I didn't even know I was repping for such a long time because I didn't even consider myself as transgender because I thought I could never pass, but I definitely wanted to be a woman.did this for about a decade because retarded sites like this one
>>42385042i actually did for a decade too lol. i also was still ashamed and embarrassed that i used to be trans whenever i remembered before realizing that i still am. i don't really know why, i just couldn't accept that about myself
>>42384708Why specifically do you hate your body? If it's because it's a male and not female body, then that's dysphoria. I can't tell you whether youre bdd though, but you haven't hinted towards that really being the cass
I resolved to transition because I thought that objectively, male features and male developments look ugly and unbecoming on me. When I have long hair and no facial hair, my "flaws" like having a small mouth or short small chin and generally a slightly recessed face actually looked kinda good. But when I tipped the scale the wrong way by having short hair or putting on a pair of glasses I looked like a weak gay nerd. I think if I worked out and went on steroids I could have looked masculine in an attractive way but that seemed so far away and scary compared to hopping on E to preserve my feminine features and hopefully cultivate more. I think I just went for the easier route established by precedence of my entire dating life and sex life to that point where I am admired for being pretty and I was too scared to learn how to be sexual in a different and new way as more of a man.
my insurance covers laser and electrolysis and i want to use it to get rid of all the hair on my legs and butt and genitals but i feel so gross and ridiculous going into a spa run by and entirely staffed by cis women and walking in there as a non passing boymoder like how did those of you who got laser hair removal get over this feeling? i just want to feel pretty but i feel so weird and ashamed.
>>42386772unfortunately my mother doesnt love me so thats not an option
>>42386860id just bring my bf if did it again. do you have a person like that to bring since that would work too
>>42386865no i have nobody
>>42386865This works for my gf but that's just because I have a very unnerving presence
>>42386899:c
why are zoomers starting to hate us again?
>>42381361>>42381384that's a clear drop thozoomers are more homophobic than millenials although it's weird how trans acceptace actually rose a bit at the same time? doesn't seem like that in the slightest
Also I like how most of this thread is transgenders thinking this is about them when OP image states it's about homophobia not transphobia.
>>42383261pedophiles most of the time aren't attracted to adults at all, it might as well be a separate sexualitynothing wrong with promiscuity unless you don't protect yourself from STD'sthe last sentence is just bullshit, no nigga, most homosexuals indeed don't do that shit, i'm pretty sure there's only been like two or three cases of something like that happening
>>42380620It's because of the mass psyop facilitated by leftists against "New atheism". They associated atheism with terms like "cringe","sexist", "islamophobic" because atheism was inconvenient to their pro-islam and anti-west views. Now that the natural predator of religion had been silenced by these leftists, religious attitudes have become more acceptable.
>>42380620SJWs
Holy shit do I regret it>Be cism 28, 6'3">Used to date girls into petplay>Can't hear the sound of a catbell without getting pavlov'ed>Intense longing for gf (male)>Tfw all of them have become puppygirls so have to cope with one>Join a bunch of Discords till I found one nearby>Find hot twinkhon in my area>Soft skin, long wild hair, eager to please>She invites me over to her place>Surprisingly clean place>No dog bed or cage or weird shit like that, only spotted dog bowls in the kitchen>Sitting on the bed together>"Wruff wruff">Get confused what sound he just madeComment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>42383485are you op? go shower rn
>>42381914god this is depressing af
>>42383485Adults are unironically debating this
>>42383485These are very valid points
There is no such thing as too much tongue from a twinkhon.Some men dying of thirst while others drowning.
>All I have to do is stop believing that I'm dysphoric>All I have to do is admit it to myself that I actually do enjoy being a man>All I have to do is internalize that I don't want to be a woman in any way>All I have to do is stop thinking that I got cheated by fate because I'm a man>All I have to do is stop blaming my issues on something as arbitrary as my birth sex>All I have to do is stop believing that the grass is greener
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>>42383632These thoughts must be fake or a maladaptive coping mechanism, because they all appeared in my 20s. I feel like it's disingenuous to call myself either trans or dysphoric
>>42383693Is this actually worth reading?
>>42383674Someone surely hasn't seen any cis people. Both cis men and women love being their birth sex
>>42383674>>42387062"Enjoy" and "love" may be a bit too extreme terminology.Cis people are perfectly comfortable with their birth sex. So comfortable that they never question it when suffering the common pitfalls of their birth sex.Even weirdos like me (I take E for looks reasons) are still comfortable being men. That's what being cis is. It's not a pure joy (or love or w/e), it's just absence of dread or discomfort.
your physical appearance is altered to fit your ideal, most beautiful, passing self BUT you have to wear a gigantic "they/them" pronouns pin at all times for the rest of your life. do you take the deal?the pin is about the size of an apple, has the NB flag in the background. it magically appears on your clothes no matter what so youll be wearing it at your wedding, your parents funeral, etc
>>42385834>do you take the deal?No. I am not that bad.
hell yeah
I'd literally just be wearing a pin with my pronouns on? Based
Hmm
>>42385834Without question. I'd just be perceived as a quirky woman-lite theyfab at worst which is infinitely better than feeling clocky.
post your bingos
>>42381515what is a macro fursona
this is me...
>>42383402I can’t tell how genuine this is
I think I'm done on 4chan for today, cya when I decide I'll tell evryone im killing myself for the thousandth time. (I cut too slowly so it always hurts too bad to cut deep)
>>42381833
is laurie kirk trans or not? /g/ needs to know the answer to this pressing matter
>>42384644>knows how to program>tranny bangs>flatchestedbut on the other hand her voice sounds beyond what men can accomplish unless she was already a troon prior to puberty, plus her frame and face are pretty smallIf I had to guess I'd say she's a woman.
>>42384953if u think bangs are a tranny thing you need to go outside
>>42384807>these people can barely code and dont have an innate interest in the stuff outside of classeither they're there on daddy's money and will be kicked out of CS within 2-3 semesters (and switch to english or business) or are top 10% of every class they takethats my observation from group projects and working as a CS department tutor
>>42384972They don't mean anything on their own. Same as how a woman programming doesn't automatically mean she isn't a woman.But it's a clue towards someone being a tranny when other clues are present too since women are generally much less likely to have a need for covering up male pattern baldness (hence why it's called male pattern baldness and not people pattern baldness or gender neutral pattern baldness).
>>42384953>voice sounds beyond what men can accomplish unless she was already a troon prior to pubertit sounds like a pretty standard trained tranny voice honestly, i don't think you're very knowledgeable on this
pls not hug boxing for this nona im 5,6 19 and 140 lbs
>>42386606FUCKING EVERY ONE SAYS THIS MY IS MY MIDFACE SI DAMN FUCKING LONG IM GONNA DIE
>>42386652theres ways to shorten it with makeup. i also have a long ish midface and wish i started earlier but whats done is done so dw about it too much. i feel u tho
>>42386634That isn't really ironic. Most people are using drugs of some sort at any given moment, either recreationally or medicinally.
Yo I have a long midface too can I also get hug boxed
>>42386710My bad I’m retarded with language
I’m sorry edition Previous thread>>42063173 >>42295165Comics we know of, all ofwhich are named Kaito Shuno:https://www.webcomicsgeneral.top/Other archives and lists:https://tagpacker.com/user/lgbtwebcomicshttps://webring.gay/list.html?id=0Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Pls don’t die while I sleep sniff
>stumble across Love Is Loading on one of the terrible aggregator sites>yet more German yaoi in the German yaoi moldWhy is there all this German stuff but not, like, French or British?
>>42383042Isn't Heartattack British?
>>42385093Yeah, but I meant stuff that isn't a hate crime.
>>42380724Boneshell
Is there any point in transitioning if nobody will ever view you as a woman? I mean I have semi passing potential, I even maybe have potential to pass as an unattractive woman. But nowadays everybody is focused on transvestigating every person they see so that likely won’t last long. And society hates trannies so fucking much, 50% of human kind wants to stone us to death and 49% view troons as confused men, 1% actually view us as women. I don’t want to be viewd as a confused man, I’d only transition because I want to BE a woman in body, mind and soul, which involves being viewed as such by others. Is it really worth it? Isn’t it better to just keep repping until it gets too unbearable then rope.
>>42386881>the majority of people are either psycopaths or sociopathsNo. Just the majority of cisfs.I had no idea pre-transition just how common this is. The black pill is much more valid than I'd ever dare to admit under my real identity.
>>42386929Disagree. I worked in upper management across many industries. Male or female is irrelevant. These are some of the most vicious people around, and they control society. I believe the difference in psycopathy between men and women is individual competence and acknowledgement by society. A psycopathic woman isnt punished in anyway, infact it's rewarded and there are entire institutional systems set up to encourage such behaviour. But that doesnt mean male psycopathy isnt also destructive, its just more often held to account.
>>42386717making steps to transition even if you know you wont make it is better than dry repping in many ways, as a repper i was totally dead inside. there is a peace in knowing you tried everything you could
>>42387029^^thisAlso, sometimes you find out you were wrong.I thought I "knew" I wont make it. Now I'm browsing skirts lol.>t. malefailed so hard that it's comical
>>42386990>upper managementI certainly won't dispute that. I will just argue that it's a feature (?!) of the profession itself. To get there you have to be vicious.I was referring more to normie stuff among normie people. Women's viciousness is straight up praised while men's kindness is mocked or taken for granted.Still very glad I transitioned, but I expected to have other kinds of philosophical questions if I ever make it. Oh well.
I induced lactation for breast growth and my bf has been drinking the milk. He thinks I haven't noticed, but I have and it kind of weirds me out. Should I say something?T. Mtf
>>42384986It's funnier if I believe it's true so that's what I'm going with :)>>42384690Interesting. Tried pio or anything?
>>42384690I'm Latina too that doesn't make it any less weird. Los does se andan tragando la leche de tu pecho y te preocupas mas por qué el se la toma en lugar de cocinar con ella? Estás en serio? Mira, los dos hagan lo que les guste, yo no los juzgo, pero ni te hagas como que si la situación entera no está completamente rara y un poco asqueroso
>>42382214Taking an antipsychotic to make your boobs bigger seems kinda nuts
>>42386977If it was then they'd stop taking it if you think about it
>>42381487>He thinks I haven't noticedimagine not going>ok babe, time to find out if it's indeed watery or like cereal milk>no butts, this is important science we're doing here, and also your tiddy needs to be in my mouth daily, end of story
booked therapy -- because enough is enough, im sick of wasting years of productivity to depression -- and the receptionist over the phone scheduled me to meet with the one obviously trans psychologist who "enjoys working with clients who identify as LGBTQIA" in the clinic.i dont know how this is going to go but putting my sex as male and my pronouns as he/him on that intake chart was the easiest fucking decision in all of my 4 years on estrogen manmoder life. i hope she doesnt get angry at me for being on diy estrogen. i think that would make the therapy pretty ineffective.i dont care that a thread died for this, it was probably as shitty of a thread as this one anyways. cant wait for therapy.
>>42386813rare cultured user on this websitehope your therapy goes well if you are op
>>42386866not op but thx, its nice talking about music genuinely on here again since /mu/s been a cesspit of underage korean girl pics for yearsif you want another cool collab check out merzxiu, merzbow and xiu xiu obv, people hate this one but i've always had a soft spot for it
>>42386895ive found the best place to talk about music is anywhere but mu as wellhaven't posted there in like 8 years lolei come at noise from the grind side of things, so i haven't listened to that albumi will check it out
>>42386962/mu/ was so good pre 2016, i miss my /daily/ friends :c tempted to make a music thread here but who knows how jannies will feel about thati fw some gorenoise stuff but i dont feel like flashbanging myself with that atm lel
>>42387037op summoned two oldfags with merzbowive been b& for shitposting a few times and it's not really relevant to the board so doubt they will let you
>>42386207no, both are just waiting to pass so they can escape t4t and be with a cissoid.
>>42386232I don't find cis people (or trans people with bottom surgeries) attractive. Their configuration turns me off inherently.
>>42372686its a blender!!
>>42386519Idk some of those post-glansplasty dongs look pretty good, I bet you get some medical tattooing and it would be difficult to tell at a glance.
>>42380023No
