New Year's Editionprevious: >>42044782 >>42079478 (died prematurely)Goal of the thread: Consider the things you want to improve or accomplish, whether long- or short-term. What small steps can you make towards those goals?Daily goals can be repeated. Remember to keep score, it can only go up!>What is this thread for?Getting better is hard, and sucks. A lot. It does not get easier doing it alone.Share resources and experiences with combating depression, anxiety, personal issues, achieving or maintaining a healthy weight, etc.>Why is this thread /lgbt/?Struggles with mental and physical health are an indisputable part of /lgbt/ life, be it from dysphoria, social pressure, heartbreak, or just unfortunate lifestyle choices.>Notes to consider:Please be civil. Shame is your greatest enemy in fighting urges of self abuse (be it sh, drugs, or just self deprecation). Relapsing into bad and unhealthy habits is to be expected, the goal is to increase the average amount of time it takes between relapses. Any improvement is a victory no matter how small. Your worth and right to get better are non-negotiable. And most importantly:WE ARE NOT THERAPISTS, WE DON'T REPLACE MEDICATION>Note on adviceComment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>42335867I get you. There’s nothing wrong with that. There’s an aesthetic dimension to it. You want to be with a hefty guy that’s nice, and not just because you think only hefty guys are nice.
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are there any neets here, how the fuck do i recover from this, i fucked my life up so bad
Considering that it applies to things that I actively want to do, the fancy term for my problem is probably executive dysfunction but what it feels like is being lazy and stupid and I hate it. I wish that I had a cute wife that would put me on a leash, and force me to do things and feed me and give me forehead kisses.>>42338375I am also stuck in NEEThood and don't see many ways out so I can't help with that but something I do that makes me feel better about things is doing microjobs on the internet. It's usually surveys and stuff like that and they never pay more then $5 but seeing money deposit into my account makes me feel more competent and the idea of me getting an actual job feel less like a mountain summit.
>>42338375what's your story?
Why can't you just be a feminine man? I would accept you as that.
Why are we still arguing with this retard? Please move on or at least sage, Jesus
>>42337471Yeah I’m like Stallone or chuck Norris or whatever
>>42338434PLEASE stop shitting up the board and learn to sage wtf is wrong with you?
>>42338427Oops sorry
>>42337750same but it isnt working so im just an ugly man with boobs now
majority black schools in America should all have daily drag queen storytime - as in they should spend a full hour of each day getting read to by drag queens - from kindergarten to 12th grade. It would benefit our nation collectively.
I like this idea.
>>42337043sounds fun and would reduce the murder rate down. win win
>>42337043>European goes on the gay board to larp about America and being American
so femboy is just the millennial/zoomer term for sissy right? I mean we all saw the femboy convention photo. They look no different from boomer sissies just 20 years younger.
>>42335515 all the gay femboys just troon nowadays
>>42337106It's not even just the gay ones, it's all of them. It's pretty hard to resist something that will make you prettier by giving you bettter skin, softer hair, and keep you from pretty much ever going bald. The tits are just unfortunate side effect.t.not strictly gay about to troon.
>>42337106Because they are troons.
>>42335158Femboys are just feminine men. As long as their well shaved and cute!~
>>42335379the 50/50 split is between the femboys you see who are actually pretty (almost always either FTM, MTF boymoders, or children), and the few ugly femboys who lack the social awareness to not post their face online. there are vastly more who know they look cooked and limit themselves to larping and posting uwu programmer socks pics
QOTT:Were you also lonely with no thread fOR 3 DAYS???>Reminder: This gen is for cis homosexual females (lesbians). All trans-related or bisexual posts are considered off-topic and should be directed to other generals or threads. No discussion of male (XY) anatomy.Discords:>OG Discord: https://pastebin.com/P644WESi>clg2 Discord: https://pastebin.com/1ct1Fcag>clg3 Discord: https://pastebin.com/emrpgWM8Previous thread:>>42163750
>getting frustrated with girl I'm committed to isn't talking to me>trying to be patient but >had to deal with people insulting my appearance, my addiction being made public (I'm sober now but no one cares) and the fact I'm a low income wagie>one of the few girls who was nice to me in school (her bestie) even insulted me>her crazy ex sent gf to wait by my car at work and tried aggressively tailgating as I left>ex bought a gun and engaged in content about fantasizing about shooting me>ex is stalking my account and scrutinizing my hobbies>not a peep from her>last message she sent was a message that basically amounted to "I'm sorry you felt that way" to a heartfelt apologyI'm cycling between being giddy leaving messages for her and then this bitter, upset feeling in my throat
I think I'm starting to dislike bisluts even more than I dislike moids
I'm up! Farming time! I'm getting obsidian armor for my main character today. Shit is expensive.
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I think Ill move to a middle eastern country.I dont pass for shit in my country, but last time I was there, I passad flawlesly, no problems at all going to the bathroom, no man talked to me at all, they all talked with my friends first and I could see their lustful eyes on me.
The fact that Iran is more tolerant of trans than gays exposes what's really going on and that conservatives want gays to transition - they are just only honest about it in places with no Jewish influence.
>>42338455op yearns to become a statistic
>>42338459only if you are agp, hsts is tolerated everywhere but Saudi Arabia
Drag queen storytime hour is overall beneficial to society and teaches kids that adult gays exist and that some people are gender non conforming and its ok for them to exist too if they are gay or gender non conforming. The people who disagree with drag queens reading in schools disagree because they want to restrict gender expression and sexuality and force kids to all pretend to be straight and never ever dare to act or dress outside implicit gender roles.
>>42337024a lot of parents have no idea how to take care of childrenthere's no license you need to have a childas long as you are empathic and patient and willing to be critical of yourself and others, you will do good
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To normies drag is inherently sexual like burlesque
>>42338436to normies being gay is inherently sexual and being gay means you cannot be around kids cuz you sexualize them at all timesyou cannot win with normiesyou just have to BEand take up space
>>42336795agreed!
IDK if I am trans but I am running out of time (20) and it might be over. I still look somewhat girly. Do I troon out? Or am I just GAMP? I thought I was trans when I was 14-18 but then I got a gf, and went to the gym so I stopped wanting to troon out. Should I just date an agp baddie?
>>42337228Only transition if you're attracted to men
>>42338245RETARD RETARD RETARD RETARD there's actually a growing number of femoid chasers.
>>42337696lux pascal transitioned at 27, ik she was hsts twinkmoder and luckshit bankmaxedd, but still.
>>42337405Babe if you’re having trans thoughts for years on end and need to actively repress them as early as your teens you are trans and you will end up needing to transition. You really wanna slowly masculinise? It keeps going for like years it fucking sucks.
>>42338368What's more surprising is that she has been in the same relationship since she was 19.Also really nice that her husband stayed through her transition.It's quite sweet to see partners sticking around through such a harsh experience, even if made easier by her relatively massive wealth (or access to wealth, w/e).
I FUCKING hate looking like a moid with a fat ass and shitty moobs bit no but it makes me look completely gimped as a manmoder it's fucking infuriating and so soul crushing. Like everyone I talk to KNOWS my body is fucked but can't pin it but they still despise it.At this point I almost wish I was a fatass so that way if I had a gut people would just think I'm a fat man BUT NO and my face is so obviously moidly I barely malefail. HRT really is a fucking psyop, 15 months and this is all I get...Anyone in a similar situation wanna rope together? We could die and be happy as 3rd gender untranny valley freaks
>>42334698it cant be that bad. show us nona
NO! My boyfriend carried me on fortnite tonight so were basically married hence no ass todai
>>42334938Boyfriend here. Please kindly piss off
>>42334698doesn't sound THAT bad how are your thighs?
>>42334698I didn't read all that but why did you post a picture that's literally me
https://youtu.be/bbLukULBTbU?si=4uocVZeDGQai2T27So is this the new transmasc national anthem?
Who knows. It could be
I'm not killing myself just to prove a point.I'm depressed since I was born basically, trans,, and autistic, working a wagecuck job, with love, but I still have aa few friends.I really want to kms, my friends always say : "no dont kill yourself, you'll find someone some day, things will get better." but I know it wont, and killing myself feels like wasting an oportunity to tell them when I'm, really old:SEE? I was right, noone loves me and my life still sucks, nothing changed.
>>42338412>I'm not killing myself just to prove a point.this got me through most of my lifejust existing out of spite
Found out that someone I had kissed at a party had an open cold sore and simple type 1 herpes they knew about but didn't tell me. And now I have a cold sore.Am I ruined now? Like beyond the struggles with being trans in and of itself, because of this am i just unable to get a boyfriend?
>>42337004damn that does suck actually. do the immunosuppressants lead to outbreaks?
>>42337065Yeah, in my case at least. my first active flare was when I started lupus medication and they kept coming back every three weeks or so. I haven't had a single one since I started valacyclovir, though, and that was years ago. I'm not that upset about it though. It's the easiest medication i've ever taken side-effect wise. though it is a giant horse pill.
>>42336161When I get tested I specifically ask them to test for it and it sometimes comes up positive other times nothing. Never had a cold sore ever.They share the positive result data to track trends
>>42335978I had cold sores on my lips all the time growing up. Since I moved out of my father’s house 4½ months ago and went no-contact with him, I eventually stopped having them. Haven’t had any new ones in two months.Conclusion (sample size = 1, though, so grain of salt): reducing the psychological stress in your life may decrease or even eliminate your incidence of cold sores, even if you are a carrier.
>>42338359true. or your dad was doing something to you
My dad is in jail for rape but he never raped meDoes that mean I'm uggo
yes
He became aware of another
>>42332362"daddy didnt love me" rape edition
>>42332362
>>42335804:(>>42336376What does this mean>>42336592Well he did beat me up and spit on me but I think he loves me despite it all. My mum who is abusive too I don't think she does however.>>42337067He's not aussie
agp: sheephsts: wolves
>>42338131no, hsts are rapey bottoms who think straight men want to fuck disguised gay men
>>42338091They don't just target men
>>42338192what?
>>42338154No, those are jeeps larping as hsts. The difference is unmistakeable once you recognize it.
>>42338387no, that's the M.O. of an HSTS
state in a loud and empathetic tone, just the following: "Jumanji!"
>>42338010I can't tone my posts very well, I wasn't trying to ask in a hostile way. It made me really curious because the thread felt mysterious
>>42338073the tone struck me as haughty and suspicious
>>42338099I will work on the way I phrase things
>>42338118please do
>>42338389fuck you
