New Year's Editionprevious: >>42044782 >>42079478 (died prematurely)Goal of the thread: Consider the things you want to improve or accomplish, whether long- or short-term. What small steps can you make towards those goals?Daily goals can be repeated. Remember to keep score, it can only go up!>What is this thread for?Getting better is hard, and sucks. A lot. It does not get easier doing it alone.Share resources and experiences with combating depression, anxiety, personal issues, achieving or maintaining a healthy weight, etc.>Why is this thread /lgbt/?Struggles with mental and physical health are an indisputable part of /lgbt/ life, be it from dysphoria, social pressure, heartbreak, or just unfortunate lifestyle choices.>Notes to consider:Please be civil. Shame is your greatest enemy in fighting urges of self abuse (be it sh, drugs, or just self deprecation). Relapsing into bad and unhealthy habits is to be expected, the goal is to increase the average amount of time it takes between relapses. Any improvement is a victory no matter how small. Your worth and right to get better are non-negotiable. And most importantly:WE ARE NOT THERAPISTS, WE DON'T REPLACE MEDICATION>Note on adviceComment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>42270777>It's just pathetic.I understand that this disdain for your situation, but I don't think it pathetic at all, you are in a shitty situation and have not been given the tools to aptly resolve it, so you ask for help. Being stuck is not a weakness of character, often it is just a lack of critical resources. I am glad you came. To recap, you are lonely and want to make meaningful connections with people,>Earlier today i got criticized for something(rightfully so) and before i could even process>i'm also too retarded to even work and support myself.you consider yourself incapable (in what ways? how does your "retardation" manifest?), consider getting a job I assume (what are your qualifications?)>I would also like to troonwanna transition,>I'm feeling very overwhelmed right now> it mentally i already started to swear before catching myself in surprise.and need help grounding yourself/cope with emotions as the crop up. I do think Panty raises a good point with trying out therapy, but we do have resources that might help you on top.There's multiple fronts to tackle at once here so I will try simple, would you perhaps wanna try and find people who share your interests, it's a common hack getting to know people if your location allows.>>42271510>>42271840Being over 30 myself I assure you it is by far not as bad as it seems, but I get *why* you set that goal like this. I think that big, overarching, abstract goals like "fix life" lack concreteness though and can often make our lives miserable, this is why I tend to stress the utility of SMART goals ITT. If you want we can try and subdivide the nebulous goal of getting shit together into smaller goals that feel more attainable, because without a concrete set of small goals the pressure will only build for you.Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Alright, enough for tonight.>>42273205That first thing at least sounds horrendously suspicious, yeah. What the hell?>I'll give it a try. I can start this weekend.Do tell me how it went! And I'm glad you have the funds secured now for the bar, so that will make things easier during shitty weather conditions.>Nah, I didn't really make any connections. I know, I'm a loser ;-;Not at all, Anon. But in that case my first question would be the usual one of "what are your interests, and where could you go where people can bond over it?">What makes you see it as a boon?>Most people don't want to hear my manifold infantile jokes and the environments are never appropriate for me to make them anyway.My trick is actually precisely to foster an environment in which my humor is appreciated, and choosing my company to consist of people who enjoy my presence. Sure, it means not everyone can vibe with me, but those that do genuinely enjoy my presence so much more, and it becomes a game to adjust/tweak my jokes to their tastes in turn, it adds a playful dimension to relationships. Also, people's humor can tell you things about their general boundaries and subjects of comfort, and it can also be an advantage for some people to steer clear of me, I think.>>42274523>luckily my bloodwork is mostly normal and i do not have liver cirrhosisOh thank fuck, nothing but the finest vibes for your goals, Anon.>>42277634Hey there :v, haven't seen you in a bit! I suppose you are venting, but something must be weighing on your mind, wanna talk about it?Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
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Wish there was a way to kill yourself without dying. I just dont want to experience reality as much as i do. Its fucking boring and annoying. Day in dat out. Oh i wonder what will it be tomorrow? Wake up, jerk off and then either wall around for 5 hours or play on the computer till sleep. Great dude. Just what i wished for, exactly as was promised. Working sucked too to be fair. Education stank too and i was horrible at it. I just want to have memory blackouts. Cant imagine a nicer feeling than to wake up tomorrow only to find out that i cant recall the last 20 years and i'm this much closer to death.>Oh but what if you changed and did that and this.Won't work. I'm low IQ and psychologically mutilated. Nothing will ever get better. I wish i hadn't quit drinking.
Gonna post something decent after some more rest.Goodluck everyone!
I'm a cis dude, mid 20s, pretty fit and never really thought about medically transitioning but lately I've been having some questions about myself. Throughout my whole life I've been told I was supposed to be born a girl. My mother cried when I was born because she really wanted a girl and I was her last chance (I'm the youngest in a family of all boys). The women in my family are really conventially attractive. Lately, I've been having weird dreams where I'm biologically female and it is messing with me. I really do feel that I was born in the wrong body and that I should have been born with a vagina not a penis. I feel wrong every time I look at myself but I have zero desire to medically transition. I don't want to be a "trans woman", I want to be a biological woman and have everything that comes with that. But my fantasies are bizarre and perverse and make me wonder WHY I feel this way? Do I truly wish to be a woman or am I just drawn to the idea of myself as a woman because I naturally find women attractive? In all my dreams I notice that I am not an "ugly" woman but instead a very beautiful attractive one.
>>42315118Fraternal birth order stuff means you're more likely to be a fag
>>42315118Have you actually sat down an read Blanchard? Even going to the bathroom is autogynephilia
>>42315124is it though? i also fantasise about being a woman sometimes but i'm pretty neutral toward my current body. it just feels like a nice fantasy, or an extension of my heterosexuality.
>>42315118Don't know if it's worth mentioning but I'm not a virgin and have only ever been with cis girls. But every time I see a girl I'm attracted to I have to ask myself "do I want to be WITH her or BE her?"
>>42315160Okay yeah you have dysphoria
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>>42315372she didn’t hit anyone
>>42315382Is the bait tasty?
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Can we add samael to the bean team
>>42315372You can be killed just for hitting regular people with cars sis. It makes no difference if they an ICE agent or they're a regular 300 pound American. They all locked and loaded sis.
It’s been 9 months and in the beginning, the thought of stopping HRT was scary because of how much progress I made over the years but as time has passed, I’m now developing an urge or feelings again that I felt before I started HRT; that are happening now. I need to know if this is possible to avoid and escape. I have Jesus in my life, I pray everyday, and I don’t present feminine anymore, I deleted all platforms that encourage femininity and influence, and i dropped supporting friends about it. If you have any supplements, strategies, sources, or anything that can help me rid of these feelings permanently.. I would be very grateful.
Being a woman is rad and the idea of detransion is terrifying for me. I will never understand how someone can prefer repression over simply being a woman.
>>42313573I really value my family’s time and presence and I was in place where I wasn’t ready to have that taken away from me so that I can transition fully.. I was too hurt and defeated
It’s funny how people turn hood the moment they get roasted
>>42314067hurt and defeated how, what happened?
>>42314992I was just going through termination and on top of that, I reached days where I felt stuck and regretful and about transitioning so I put myself in a limbo state where i didn’t fully present male but didn’t present fully female and rather, I boymoded instead for the 3.6 years I was on E
Jason of /cum/ editionPrevious: >>42092689>QotTWhat other boards do you browse besides /lgbt/?Tagmap: https://tagmap.io/tag/%2Fbigen%2FFAQ:>Am I bi if I like women and femboys/traps?>Am I bi if there's this one member of the same-sex I'm desiring, but normally I like the opposite sex?>Am I bi if I sexually like both sexes, but only interested in romance with one of them?Yes, sexual attraction to both sexes is bisexuality.>What's the difference between bisexual and pansexual?Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>42311930I held off workers that showed up to my rental property for whatever, asked for clarification, come to an understanding and the rent corp sends two rats along with the workers, proceed to rat, now rent corp claims I must allow inspections because there's a term in the contract about the home being subjectively clean and a catchall for inspections and someone saw my house was messy so they've been coming at me all "comply or lose your home".They've already showed up uninvited 5x with 2 people each time and I just figured out the way to rebuke them in legalese this evening.
>>42308543yep!
>>42313248what's his lore beside mental illness?
>>42313391posting food, reading isekai light novels, playing vidya, being bi
Alexis "Rev" Pickett and his bf glorified and had an interest in mass shootersHe said that it was a coping mechanism for some abuse he had, and even called some criminals "heros". People went through his phone and found various pics of Harris and KleboldHere's some sourceshttps://wkkg.com/local-news/shelby-county-girl-accused-of-plot-for-school-shootings/https://www.indystar.com/story/news/crime/2026/01/07/court-docs-17-year-old-alexis-rev-pickett-planned-shelby-county-school-shooting-on-discord/88063202007/It's believed that because of this and other incidents that the tcc, or true crime community tags have been removed from Tumblr. I don't particularly like the decision, but if it could save lives it'll be worth it.Message For Jannies: no this is not off topic I saw two threads about Aiden Hale once and they didn't get removed
>>42314743>I'm not a womansure, repper.just take the pills and trust the process.
>>42314955No stop, I'm not into this
>>42314968nta, but how come you went from planning to be an hrt femboy to just being guy into trannies? what changed?
>>42315048I wanted to be a cute femboy but there's just too many cons, like growing tits, and others noticing me getting more fem, or discovering my hrtI don't even want to be a femboy now, it's just not for meI think that hrt femboys should put more thought before taking e too, it's not magic
>>42315083glad to hear you are figuring out what would be best for you
>>42314947I'm just saying it might not be a trans specific thing. You know how many XX ciswomen look like Meg Griffin?
>>42314999i think its entirely irrelevant to wanting advice on how to have a less dysphoria inducing figure
>>42314926Trust me this is way cheaper and higher in calories than buying fast food shakes. They don't sell the Baskin Robbins monster anymore anyway.Do you intend to take the slower path or commit to the two shakes, pound a day scheme? I have slightly different advice for each.
>>42315015I mean I can do two shakes a day I just gotta get my mixture down right see im an idiot, i dropped out of uni- so its gonna take me some trial and error before I really get the routine down no matter what literature I have
>>42315033Fair enough then. Good luck to you on this
why are AGP trannies always hitting that pose in their selfies? slightly downwards angle tilted to the side + smirk
>>42313221if they're trying to hide their masculinity they're doing a bad job at it
>>42313195AGP's are not really feminine; they're not naturally into posing like girls.
>>42313195sorry
>>42313195Too afraid to show off any proper expressions since they’re terminally online and know there’s a chance of that picture spreading rapidly online and them becoming a collective Manly Male laughingstock if the expression looks cringe instead of cute. It’s ironic really
>>42313242No, they look much worse if they do regular smiles. You're mistakenly assuming because they look bad doing that they must look better doing something else, when in reality they're already using the least bad pose available for their face and body.
Even /tttt/'s queen agrees
>>42314560Exactly.Doesn't just have to be Israel.It's basically at the discretion of the Mayor's office so would be whatever the Mayor deems relevant at the time.
>>42314479MAO ZEDONG IF YOU CAN HEAR MEMY LIFE IS YOOOOURRRSSS
>>42314574>Doesn't just have to be Israel.although that one will be curiously persistent
>>42314675Because Ma'amdani is so pro-Israel?
>>42307818>western marxists didn't have their own holodomorgood
>>42293259>>42301381Um hello hai hai hello aswell :3
>>42293178>t4tIm really into cuckqueaning. I would love my gf to fuck another girl in front of me and have her humilate me. She has a long term cis female friend she had a crush on some years ago. Sometimes the play vidyas together and both have such a nice vibe together, teasing each other and stuff. Kinda like a couple. It makes me incredible jealous and angry but als turns me the fuck on.But my gf is very dysphoric to use her genitals and way to vanilla. Also her cis female friend is probably rather straight and lives several hours away.
>>42310503>>t4t>Im really into cuckqueaningI really hate how rare it is. Like there's a lot of straight cuck stuff out there but it always has a horrible vibes to it
Finishing balls deep inside a tranny and giving them an ego shattering handsfree orgasm with full body quivering while their gf watches and making both of them my gfs
>>42293178Anesthesia
I don’t speak to any of my family members who voted for Trump anymore. I hope you all did the same.
*breathes in*THIS IS MY LOUD VOICE, I USE IT TO MAKE ANGRY NOISES
>>42310334Im the one in my family that voted for him in 2016. He's an israel shill like all of American politics so I don't vote at all.
>>42310443I wish he actually dealt with illegals im tired of being surrounded by them in California everything he does is just kayfabe
>>42314662No instead this is what ICE wastes their time on:In a town only a few hours from me with an incredibly low crime rate and a 37% immigrant population (the rest is white), ice raided a laundry mat and had everyone in it running out of it like a bomb went off regardless if they were white or not. They picked up a 17 year old US citizen doing laundry because he looked Hispanic and sent his family canvasing the street looking for him and calling anyone they could to find out where he is. They still don't know. A bakery and other businesses next door are having to put up "no ICE allowed" signs in hopes it doesn't drive away all their customers because the whole town is terrified goons with guns are just going to run into random public spaces now. https://morristowngreen.com/2026/01/11/will-they-be-coming-back-sunday-morning-ice-raid-sparks-anxiety-in-morristowns-latino-community/I doubt any of the people they picked up were actually deportable or worth deporting.
>>42314303do you believe in the constitution and the principles our founding fathers built this country on?
I am gay, but I have no desire to be a woman.
>>42314687would you say there's a lot of fags out there?
>>42314697absolutely. we shipped several fag pallets per day
>>42314340Why would you
>>42314867I don't believe in the myth of idealized womanhood. I don't believe being a woman is a better life than being a gay man.
>>42314340I have some of those bearing lying around. They're buried in my pile of car parts
are sons shorter than their dads doomed to troon out?
>>42314851well no, ur attracted to women, and they aren't, and that's the bit that has to change, and its also about changing your behavior so you are more expressive and less robotic
>>42314859I'm attracted to women but it doesn't have any effect on my living situation. If I was entirely gay it would mean I was living in a more tolerant place where I would probably crossdress full-time too.
>>42314882>but it doesn't have any effect on my living situation*doesn't have any effect on my actions. I don't pursue women>If I was entirely gay*If I was OPENLY entirely gay
>>42314859>and its also about changing your behavior so you are more expressive and less roboticThat sounds hot too.Unironically would sign up to be a teacher of femininity.
>>42314882we have ways to make that attraction vanish
why do i look thin in the face when i try to present as male but when i try to put on a wig suddenly my face looks fat and obese??
>>42314717how it frames your face probably wider, longer hair makes your face look widershorter hair with less on the sides makes it look narrower
>>42314717hair texture might matter too i looked like shit in a (straight texture) wig but more like a girl with box braids when i was younger
most of you would fuck a cis woman in her pussy with your gock if you could. its just that you were an incel pre transition and dont know how to talk to women so you gravitate towards transbians and men
>>42314488personally i was a gay volcel pre transition so i just dont think this is true for me at leastthough i do know a few trannies this would definitely apply to
>>42314488yeah i would :( i was never an incel and i have done it in the past because ive only had cis women partners but now im post op so i cant anymore and i really miss it... :(
>>42314723Not her but women have discriminated against me my whole life because they have a superiority complex about being a real woman so I actively avoid them. Every single time I meet a woman her life goal becomes to out me, destroy my friendships and relationships, get me fired and homeless because she thinks that weird crossdressing freaks don't deserve to live.Trannies who hang out around cis women should hear what they really think about us - they are cheering for the gas chambers
i had sex with cis girls pre transition and wouldn't do it ever again. My main partner must be a good man who dominates me, and I need access to play with other sexy trans women.That's my current relationship, and he doesn't know anything, but we work great together!
>>42314488>...you were an incel pre transition...LOLLMAOstop projecting and start taking ur pills alice.
