Is this app still hot garbage? I deleted it a few months ago when they added a bunch of new paywall features that even paying the premium subscription wasn't enough for and kept shitting up the UI with constant "tests to see how users respond" that were obviously just looking to see how much shit the users would put up with before deleting. But grindr gives me AIDS just from looking at it and the other apps are either botted to hell or too cishet.
>>42197632Dating apps are for cishets. Meet people in hobby spaces who love the things you love
>>42200407To find guys like me you have to go to local dnd clubs or comicons. I met my tpuppygirl at an arcade during cosplay night while I wore a genshin outfit. >>42200564Everyone using lgbt dating apps is almost all of those things. Stop using apps and go outside.
>>42197632Taimi is fucked and keeps getting worse. The one positive is that I met my ex boyfriend on there and he was overall great. Other than him though, everyone I've met off of there has consistently been weird as fuck and even creepy. Also they keep over developing the app into a black hole. Like they just wanna keep changing shit just to do it. Bro why are you people making me pay a subscription to see only people ive matched with? Why are all you chasers INSANE!? The world may never know...
>>42197632I managed to meet my gf there. But it was a bad app experience even with paying out the ass for premium, won't use it again
>>42201403not everyone is a nerd like you. i dont even know what genshin is.
Ok so for a while I've known my bf is lowkey not very smart but the past few days have been worrying me that he is actually retarded or smth because that feels like the only thing that would explain it.>be me, 22 bi mtf midshit>met bf at a concert, he's cute, nice face and muscular, lowkey would've bullied me pretrans>we started dating a few months ago and have rlly hit it off, he's kind and gentle but rough when i need him to be>a few weeks ago he took me out on an actually date at a nice italian restaurant>when he orders he sounds out "lasag-na" like he's never read the word before>ask him about it after the waiter is gone and he just says he's used to english menus>later we are driving to my parent's house>feeling kinda nervous but he reassures me that it's going to be ok>we get to a light and i tell him to turn left>he turns right>wth why did you do that>he says that he would've had to hold up his hands to tell which way is left and he didn't want to put me in danger while im in the car>wahtComment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>42202023>is he retarded?>it’s all just forgetfulness or not paying attentionis he actually genuinely lacking in intelligent or is he just bad at focusing his attention? it’s not too hard to fix the latter, if the person is willing to, imo.how literate is he? what would he score on a PIAAC test? what is his numeracy like? is he willing to learn new things?i don’t understand breaking up with someone cus they struggle to focus and are forgetful, but i’ve broken friendships with people because they just don’t demonstrate basic literacy or numeracy and seem totally uninterested in changing that
>>42202214I'm 6'1 he's 5'10
>>42202214Op here! We're both 4'6 guatemalans
>>42202481thats lowkey cute thanks < 3
>>42202023He looks totally stupid, but he doesn't seem mean, so take care of him.
I'm in my mid 20s and this is ruining my life. Ever since i was about 12 i masturbated to the idea of being a woman. It was like a daily ritual. I crossdressed ocasionally and masturbated in women's clothes. I know this is autogynephilia. I didn't know the word at the time but once i did it made sense to me. My life up to this point is a blur to be honest. I can't remember anything else about my childhood or teenage years or even up until a couple of years ago. I think i'm bi as well but i've never kissed anyone or had sex. All i can think about now is how much i hate being a man but i feel like it's all because of my autogynephilia and lack of a sex life. The idea of being a woman is on my mind every second of every day. I hate seeing myself in the mirror. I don't get my picture taken. Being called handsome or compared to other men makes me cringe. I know this all stems from autogynephilia but how do i move past it? I take finasteride to stop hair loss and i take antidepressants but i'm still miserable. I can't go on dates and struggle to keep jobs. Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>42196636I feel this exactly anon, while my AGP started much earlier, it is my primary orientation and I will probably never be free of it. It interfered with my ability to maintain relationships for years.Right now I am 3 months on hrt and the reduction to my libido and general feeling of wellness has been nice. I have breast buds which I thought would bother me but they really don't I actually like them. I originally said I'd just try hrt for 2 months but at this rate I may go as long as 6 months before I reassess what I'm doing again. Getting used to spirolactone sucks tho.>>42198294>indulging a fetishAGP is an orientation. It kinda sucks but it's what we got.
>>42200509>AGP is an orientation. It kinda sucks but it's what we got.Correct.It's disgusting that feminists will yell at people for making gay jokes and then turn around and call for autoheterosexuals to be eradicated.
>>42200533How is this any different from being a lesbiangender theyfab?
>>42198294why would indulging in a fetish even be bad? like if it doesnt affect anyone else, why wouldnt you indulge in this fetish? whats wrong with that?i thought i was also indulging in my fetish. have been on e for a year now and dont regret it. my libido is 0 but i still like being on hormones.
i aint readin all that, but if it's any consolation, i'm a cis male who has some form of agp.it barely has any significance to me as of now, but a few years ago i was going through a sort of panty phase which has since fizzled out. i could get back into it at any time though. i have no similarities to troons whatsoever, although i can see how people might not understand the difference between agp male and trannyagp males have feminine traits but are otherwise just regular guys. meanwhile trannies think they're the opposite sex it's totally different and quite honestly makes no sense to me as someone based in reality
why aren't they giving social capital to "FROTTAGECORE"? :((
>>42199901That being said, TikTok and IG are friendly mainly to the dolls and passoid, if you are a 2020 twitter woke tranny then no you won't make it
>>42199214She looks great when she's not making weird faces
>>42199877So you haven’t watched batman 2022 cause if you haven’t you should it’s so good
>>42199272>>42199080>>42199214god i wish i could act like a brainless faggy bimbo like her without cringing or getting flashbacks of being called a faggot
THESE ARE THE DAAAAYSTHESE ARE THE DAAAAYS OF GIRLHOOD
I just broke up with my girlfriend. They deserve a real, healthy woman and not a mentally ill troon like me. But I miss them already. Will you all help convince me that I made the right decision?
>>42200649Holy shit I'm literally going through the same thing. I'm the highest level of mentally ill and it's carving out my brain and making me hollow and want to live alone in the woods and maybe kill myself if I get bored. I'm actually cooked and she deserves better than a negligent schizoid.You're probably just over reacting and projecting your internalized transphobia though OP. There's hope if you just let yourself love. If this is compulsive you probably have a personality disorder like avoidant or borderline, that or rocd. Get therapy either way.
>>42201987Also you probably need medication op. What diagnoses do you have if any?
>>42201857>>42201987Now that I've calmed down a bit (and talked to them some), I don't think I'm going through with it. Maybe I'm just a bad person, but I love them too much to cut them out of my life completely.>>42202028All I've been diagnosed with is Asperger's, but you wouldn't be able to tell. OCD and bipolar disorder run in my family a little bit though, and I have a history of self-harm, suicidal ideation, and eating disorders. I'm also extremely rejection sensitive if that helps any. I may be anxious too.
>>42201987>>42202099Wishing the best for you two
>>42201069>full moon on saturdayhell yeah brother, first blood moon of the year
>19>twinkcelim 67% sure this WILL be my yeari WILL get a bfi WILL be happy
>>42197726are you me
>>42199919yes
>>42200013can we have self cest
>>42200145idk my parents are selfphobic
>>4219772667!
why isnt there more twinkhon porn
>>42197790>if you have sex with consenting adults in a le heckin problematic media coded way it means you want to rape kids!!!!look at this goy cattle
>>42197656Where can I find that
>>42197647i am really into cute twinkhons but don't know where to find the specific kind of thing i'm looking for... e.g. warmfreshpaint as a good prototype>>42200813+1, this
>>42198454i love you
>>42197647wanna make some?
Would you all want to live in a genderless world? Not just free from gender roles, but there would be physically only one gender.
>>42201513Is it male?
>>42201513yes but only if that gender has boobs and a dick
>>42201513What would that one gender look like?
>>42201513No. Ideal world is Fenoxo tier body customization.
Yes. I'd deal with less bs in a relationship and there would be no transphobia. Seems like an upgrade to me.
>wake up in 2026>still a transbianyea, its over
>>42197328And it's your own fucking fault. Tired of this psyop. It's TRANNIES that don't want a long-term relationship with MEN. Men are more than willing to commit, trannies are not.
>>42197328You should stop ghosting them then
>>42197319why? being a transbian is awesome. unless you both dont pass and are brainwormed, then it sucks but not because of transbianism specifically, but rather because of being a non passing tranny without honfidence>>42199540i dont date men but somehow i feel like this is true
>>42199565see>>42199550trannies have this insane urge to ghost people, it's seemingly irresistable. it doesnt matter what you do or who you are, trannies are compelled to ghost
bnup
in 2026 i WILL find an ftm and i WILL put my child inside of her fertile womb
>>42201208I dont envy lil bro
This is so hott
>>42201208Lol you want 2 dad, op?
>>42201208
Why do transbians hate men so much? Imagine writing books and articles about hating men. Just enjoy lesbians ex with your girlcock. Jeez.
>>42199137She isn't a tranny.It is super-cringe when trannies talk about hating men though like they somehow aren't male themselves.Similar phenomenon to brown people calling themselves white supremacists.
>>42201682It's probably some kind of complex where they signal to women: "Men are so… bad, amirite *fellow* women?" There's probably a name for that kind of behaviour. It feels like they're trying to distance themselves from maleness.
>>42201728Of course, talking about struggles with men is a really easy way to bond with cis women
>>42199137You only need to look at Chrischan to understand. Most transbians are not women, they're low value men who conciously and/or unconciously transition to escape accountability. To them manhood is rotten because they are rotten. They project their own rotten soul onto their manhood. Similarly they dehumanize women by projecting onto them their own idealized image of women as infantalized and infallible. It's just end stage performative males. It's why transbians should be avoided at all costs. They're all the threat of the male feminist creep with none of the accountability.
>>42201795no they are not they are just transgender who are into women
>190cm lesbian Is she a tranny?
>>42200373Tall women exist
I get debilitating mental anguish whenever I am reminded I'm AMAB and that no matter what I do, I'll never EVER be AFABSRS won't give me what I want, it won't make me any happierI just want a normal internal reproductive system, I want to menstruate, I want to be able to get pregnantI don't know how to deal with this pain, and it gets worse and worse as time goes on
>>42200351Do you date a cis woman?If you were a straight tranny who wanted to be a trad wife or something, I would have gotten it, but you already have a non-conventional relationship,also periods suck, they can make your pussy infected and make you feel sick. And if you want a kid, adopt
>>42200412>suck it up troon KEK
>>42200412No, but my partner is AFAB, we're st4t. They hate having to deal with it each month, and I'd do anything to swap places with them, because that'd give me what I want, while also releasing them from their suffering.>"If you want a kid, adopt"I will, eventually. It doesn't solve the part where I suffer because I can't get pregnant.>But periods suck!I'd still want them anyway
>>42200505someday the technology will be there, just keep your nose to the grindstone and keep living one day at a time to make the future where anyone can have a period possible
>>42200068Real and same we will never ever ever be women
Does watching anime cause AGP?
>>42201954anime is literally one of the most popular forms of media and EVERYONE has either heard of it, or is watching it.unless the person in question is watching some shit like "i got reincarnated as a girl and i have a harem" or some other genderbend slop theres no sign of it being agp because that would mean more than half the world are agp.
>>42201954no AGP causes anime
>get dressed in cute clothes>take pics>hop on grindr with them>get bombarded by tons of guys and feel pursued and wanted since women my age never show any romantic interest in me since im 5'6 and have a bubbly personality>get a message>respond with fullbody image with face and some sexy pictures>hey i think we went to the same high school>starts asking me how a common mutual that I hang out with is doing>stop replyingfuckfuckfuckfuck. What do I do. I'm not out yet and im just boymoding and doing e injections while i get my laser sessions in and growing my hair out. I feel like everyone is going to know im an AGP pervert or whatever the fuck. Do i just ignore
>>42199561>We were a small class of 6 (4 girls, me and him)So 5 girls then
>>42199579yes, sadly I am one of those. I just don't feel happy enough in my body right now to actually meet and go out with people on grindr. The attention sort of validates me transitioning when i send thirst trap angles where i look "feminine" enough >>42199581YEAH HAHA FUNNY LOSER
>>42199367yeah that sucks when you see or talk to people you know. you could just block them.
>>42199389people like you are the reason 80% of guys on the apps are dl and fuck you then ghost btw
>>42199646you should stop using people like that then i would feel bad about you being immediately identified by somebody you know
