The more I read into FTM dysphoria and FTM dysphoria songs the more convinced I am that FTM dysphoria is a product of AFAB hysteria, penis envy, & AAP adjacent paraphiliaTherefore, the only treatment to calm a femrepper down is to...> ...make her her favourite comfort food with her, > help her meal prep so that she doesn't go hungry during the weekends, > If she wants to be a guy for a day lend her your clothes / see what works for her> Take her to the hairdresser for a haircut of her choice> let her vent about being female, > Help her find a partner of her choice (maybe an FTM or a gay guy or a theyFAB)> clean her room with her, > wash her smelly hair, > then tuck her into her bed before reading her a story of her choice, before you turn off the lights and head back to your flatComment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>42352631Ok fine I will delete this thread and my accountYou cannot expect a repper to think straight they are reppers for a reasonPlus I did say that I didn't wanna date a masculine FTM from the very start
>>42352649You're already over the timelimit for deleting, silly newfag. We could chat regardless, but I'm having a hard time keeping it casual because loneliness
What is done is doneI am not mentally stable enough to text youYou really shouldn't have asked me to text you when I have my own shit to settleLike I don't like to ghost people but when I am not feeling like myself I need some space to calm down and regain my sanity
There were warning signs all over the place and you got to move on
>>42352696Don't worry about it, didn't mean to make you uncomfortable either way. It was just hopeful thinking. Have a good one
Jason of /cum/ editionPrevious: >>42092689>QotTWhat other boards do you browse besides /lgbt/?Tagmap: https://tagmap.io/tag/%2Fbigen%2FFAQ:>Am I bi if I like women and femboys/traps?>Am I bi if there's this one member of the same-sex I'm desiring, but normally I like the opposite sex?>Am I bi if I sexually like both sexes, but only interested in romance with one of them?Yes, sexual attraction to both sexes is bisexuality.>What's the difference between bisexual and pansexual?Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>42351499Women don't want bi men, even the progressive ones.If you are openly bi then your only options are homos or the polycule/nb type of woman that are far too gone.Even if you are a true 50/50 equal attraction bi man then it's better to stay closeted to avoid being labeled as a part of the lgbt
>>42351627>Women don't want bi men, even the progressive ones.>t.bitter gay man spurned by a bisexualAs a married man, who has dated a ton of women, I can tell you this is not factual. Every woman I have told about my bisexuality was fine with it. I never dated guys cuz I wasnt into them like that. No feels. Men are just stunt cocks. living dildos.
>>42350713What is it about the culture that necessitates this?
>>42351499>Boomer ellipses
>>42352609>zoomer argument
I am 18yo neet tranny and I feel like I’m at best twinkhon.I cannot find employment and and Im trying to pass but I’m kind of just doing the same things because I can’t afford to get new things and I’m seeing no difference, am I coping or is passing hard for people with 0 money I’m not like an ugly hon but I just want to be happy.What should I try.If there’s something that like I need to money farm on but is really worth to not be a fucking visiblehon please help I don’t want to go browse r/MTF for tips I would rather DIE.
Makeup
>>42351669how long on HRT? it sometimes takes a few years for it to make a noticeable difference honestly, even in your teens, if you malefail even sometimes as is you're probably moving in the right direction. as for passing i think just generally looking put together makes a huge difference. haircare is a big one. pretty much every cis woman takes good care of her hair, if yours is flat or frizzy or just generally bad it could be a subtle cue that clocks you. bangs can be good if you have the right face for them but get a stylist to cut them, also short hair cut in a feminine way (like a bob or even a pixie) can often actually be better than long hair if you find it easier to make it look presentable. makeup helps too, less is more a lot of the time, avoid overly dramatic looks like thick black eyeliner etc at first until you've figured out the basics.
no one in my life wants me to die which ends up feeling more like a curseevery day is either painful or null, and the next is the same, and the next and the next times a millioni just want it all to stop but they keep saying I should liveisn't that great that I have people who love me. isn't that great I have to cling to this existence. I just want to dream
>>42351912such a mood
pros:>no more browbone (prettier and more passing)cons:>surgery risks (shock hairloss, infection, long-term skin effects(?), uneven shape, possibly more?)>money 6000-9000 eur (i need to jobmax or find a chaser with money, both are hard)>become more ugly due to surgery complications lolmy browbone is not great and not horrible. it is my worst feature, but it is not that prominent. I used to cope that fat will go more into forehead and it diminishes the brow ridge and making it something that is androgynous but not clocking
6 months hrt btwso idk if i should wait with ffs
>>42352577shock hairloss isnt real if ur under 30, infection isnt real if you go to a good surgeon, uneven shape also isnt real if you dont go to facial teamand ur ugly now right? im agp so i only think you should do it if its better than the other options
>>42352589idk if ugly or noti find myself to be mid and cute (i know it isn't true for others they prob wouldn't find me cute)
>>42352585Give it 2 years at least my facial fat is still changing a lot and I've been on e for 5 years (admittedly hundosed to begin with)
>>42352633i have noticed that if fat went away from brow. it wouldn't be noticable at all. did your brow ridge change? also, when did you see most of the changes? sorry i am just curious
I thought I was bi before coming to this board but seeing how much tttt loves women and hates (male) chasers makes me think I’m actually gay.
>>42352129women are beautiful and men are uglyif you have to be told this then yes you are gay
>>42352129This board is mostly straight incels who trooned out because they couldn't get pussy
I'm an adult male into other adult males but I hate gay men and gay male culture and find the idea of using grindr and snuffies or whatever deeply repulsive bcz i'm lowkey demisexual in regards to men or whatever and only ever develop crushes on (intellectual, thin, white, straight) men I've met platonically.. how do I end up dating a man in like a slowburn romantic bl friends-to-lovers way where we spend months not realizing our mutual attraction instead of getting molested by an internet hookup
Ellie im sorry for what i did and im sorry i love you.
>>42352146Be a neurotic asshole for a year and ruin any friendship you possibly could have had. Out her to friends to get her more comfortable presenting fem not realizing how traumatizing that experience is. Get on the bad side of her emotionally abusive friend and have her try to oust you from the group. Become a tranny soon after you stop talking to her and realize how awful of a person youve been and how shes the only one who ever made you feel safe and all you did was make her already shit life worse and how you so desperately want to make everything ok and hold each other and never let go.
>>42352254Kek of course the nigga who was edating a tranny trooned out I hope she stays far away from you
Ellie the cali goth? She was so hot man, she was wasted on a proto troon like you.
Some ppl call me Ellie and I'm low-key looking for a confession like this but I know this isn't about me. If you're not a man good luck otherwise kys
>>42352364The ellie im talking about would have known i was talking about her by the thumbnail. I intentionally picked her favorite color magenta
chasers, would you slip a progesterone pill into your trans gf's butt, so she can be horny for you? i just want to know if this is something that men like.>t.ranny desperate for a strong chaser bf to do this with her
>>42351970fuck you speak for yourself
>>42351970I would
>>42352021I concede this exception>>42352040>>42352044Nope its a fact they only wanna use your holes or pp. They'll only buy you nice things cause they want to use you and will never introduce you to their friends
>>42352170cope faggot
>>42352170Well I'm not like that.
Has anybody had breast implants without being on hormones?
>>42349518Face pretty busted too in these ngl why it's cropped
>>42349546Last one.But yea, now after hrt I have proportional nipples rather than these itty bitty/totally underdeveloped things. Tho I will say even then they're small compared to a cis-woman who's been pregnant or w/e.Part of the reason I did this was not being well informed about hrt (this was back before the zoomer times and when /tttt/ was just getting started and worthless) and thought it would cause ego death or something. But getting BA kind of made me speedrun and I froze my sperm and got on hrt within ~1 year of ba
>>42349518>>42349546>>42349562I need my face between those
>>42349562>>42349546>>42349518Did any of you experience a decrease in nipple sensation after BA? Looking at getting one soon but that's by far my biggest fear
>>42352356I got ba before hrt so I didn't really have sensation before. And I didn't have it after ba. I do now after hrt at least to a much larger extent.
This isn't what was supposed to happen. I knew it would, but I hoped it wouldn't.I never wanted to feel reverse dysphoria. I wanted to be able to enjoy the effects of estrogen.But now, I constantly feel as if my skin is melting off and I'm constantly in a state of panic because of the effects.I really don't want to be a man, but it's what I always was and always will be. My regular dysphoria was fake from the very beginning.I cannot ever be a woman, simply because my very own brain refuses it against my will.I really hate, really despise being a cis man, but I will need to accept it.
>>42349198You can slowly work towards it. It's not like breasts grow overnight, and you can still bind until you're able to get them removed. Who knows, maybe you'll even like them somewhat
Get off estrogen asap. The way you're feeling is not normal
>>42350117At this point I have no other option. This is genuinely killing me
>>42348300It will only get worse after that
>>42338649Is there any way to make this stop without detransitioning? I'm afraid I'll feel like this when I'll start hrt
How come trans jerk their penis off so much?
>>42344683I would tell you if I had one
>>42344952what if they're not clean that day bro
>>42344703can you do this to me
>>42344683Why would I jerk my gock when I can fuck my bfs mouth instead?
>>42352282Hot
QOTT: how many lollipops are in your pocket at any given time? QOTT2: can i have one? previous: >>42185931
>>42352272Its 2010 X
>>42352272They hate to see a man get his derp on
>>42352256Very nice, male eyes and noseI'm going to make a new thread with a GOOD qott
>>42352403
>>42352320Thank you bruhhhhhh >>42352293Indeed bro
this is such a mean thing to say and i don't actually want to gatekeep anyone's journey but i do kinda with lilly hadn't transitioned. like, it goes from an optics win when it's just lana transitioning to kind of an optics loss
>>42348805>As I understood it Andy has already detransitioned.Still calling herself Lilly on her bluesky account that she is active on, and has had appearances on shows/podcasts in the past few months still presenting as female.
>>42350553I can understand your thought process. For me it’s how they admit it if that makes sense. Like if Lana admitted that without maybe a little shame about it or without disgust with her past actions then I’m in the same boat as you. I think for me it boils down to if they are still using the porn terms and are still the same person gooning to that porn even after transitioning. Hot take, I think Forcefemmend is starting to literally replace sissyfication in the porn tags so I don’t fully separate the two. I can understand one is literally doing it private and in secret and the other is at least two consenting adults doing kink play.
>>42351934has lana talked about her past without any shame? i know about it from second sources, i know about lilys past bcuz she straight up said it oultloud on a podcast
>>42352006I have no idea I’m just responding as if she did admit it. But I’m also in the camp of who would admit that openly without any shame in general? Like if I did that, I’m would so ashamed and embarrassed about my past that I would just take it to the grave.
>>42343462even if you buy into the optics line, the mainstream doesn't care about FtMs anyways you'll be fine
Looks like dismissing the "What is a woman?" question for so long ended up biting us in the ass
>>42340396>supreme court judge asks a question>REEEEE NOOOO BLOODTHIRSTY CHUD SADISTIC SUBHUMAN REEEEE>this negative verdict proves that they are animals
>>42349952I pass THOt.chudette
>>42349961Hello there, fellow chuddette.Hugs.Unironically online chuds are now even below tranny chuds and it will never cease to be funny.
>two more weekshow many years have you been posting this thread, anon?>we>>42349875>you have to imagine a definition including 0.1% of people rather than just getting them as exceptions (as there was no issue with that for the past several decades) or we're going to take away your legal or medical rightsyou do seem like a sadistic subhuman, yesTo be clear, i also blame theyfab/theymab tards for this, however the argument was to be lost to begin with
I dont know about you but I dont think I can be equal to cisfoid. That's impossible. All I care is being able to see a woman in the mirror. That's it. Most of those identity questions come from nonpassing. You just have to pass. I dont like having M marker but that's something I can live with.
