--- Last New General of 2024 Edition --->QOTT: A little basic, but what are your New Year's Resolutions (if any)?Tagmap: https://tagmap.io/tag/%2Fbigen%2FFAQ:>Am I bi if I like women and femboys/traps?>Am I bi if there's this one member of the same-sex I'm desiring, but normally I like the opposite sex?>Am I bi if I sexually like both sexes, but only interested in romance with one of them?Yes, sexual attraction to both sexes is bisexuality.>Do you love me, OP?Hard to say, it depends on the kind of love you mean. But if you're here, I probably like you somewhat.>What's the difference between bisexual and pansexual?Only difference is that our flag is prettier.>Am I bi if I have periods where I feel only attracted to women and others where I feel only attracted to men?This is known as the bi-cycle and many bisexuals experience it.>Am I bi or am I 'prison gay' or porn addicted?'Prison gay' is not a real thing and porn addiction does not alter your sexual orientation. You are bi.>Am I bi or pan if I like trans people?Both are able to be attracted to trans people.>I think I might be bi but I can't tell. How can I be certain?Just make a point to check out members of the sex you think you might be attracted to and see if anyone grabs your attention.>Should I be harsh on myself?You should be kind on yourself. Few people will do it for youResource for Bisexuals:https://biresource.org/Previous thread: >>38323392
>>38414062>QOTT: A little basic, but what are your New Year's Resolutions (if any)?If everything goes as planned I won't make it to 2025
>QOTT: A little basic, but what are your New Year's Resolutions (if any)?quit smoking and go to the gym morealso get my motorcycle license
>>38414062>QOTT: A little basic, but what are your New Year's Resolutions (if any)?enjoy time with gf, but also get a publisher deal with some indie publishers so I can leave my day job.t. game dev on my spare time
think I might want to play with the idea of being a little more assertive in my daily life and honestly I see no negatives about it (except it being hard to do)>>38414062>QOTT: A little basic, but what are your New Year's Resolutions (if any)?I've failed every new years resolution so I'm not gonna set myself up for failure by giving myself oneI will however my best this year to create a more comfy home, keep my plants healthy and, if my retard brain allows it, perhaps dip my feet into dating again>>38414081:(
>>38414081I know life is tough anon, but the best thing we can do is struggle with itLive to spite on the world, imagine Sisyphus happy.
>>38414062>QOTTget helf, get loife
>>38414062>QOTT: A little basic, but what are your New Year's Resolutions (if any)?lose weight, draw more, get a cute partner
>>38414473that's a well animated butt
>>38414062>QOTT2025 will be the year of letting go of my toxic relationship I'm still barely inthat will be enough of a challenge, if I get through that breakup 20% functional the year will have been a success
>>38415117Make frens anon, with time they either expand your fren circle or end up discovering someone that loves youIt has worked for me almost 100% of the time
>>38414081I choose to believe you mean you are going through a metaphorical rebirth and turning your life around. Good luck anon
>>38415212the thing is that i gotta be really certain of said cute partner,,,
Can someone help me out with this pls?>>38409691
>>38415690Of course anon, we all have our preferences, ultimately the chances of that happening increase by meeting people.
>>38415717anon you lack elaborationWhat is your goal with him? Just fuck him or something serious?Either way getting to know them first could be advisable.
>>38415749I just wanna fuck. Do I really have to get to know him to do that?
>>38415928It depends on you and thembut if it's from work, getting to know them on a workmate level could be good. It would be awkward to be called by HR for just saying someone at the office "hey want sum fuck?"
>>38414062I've really grown to dislike the word, "Resolution." It's very irrational. But my goal is to read more books. I'm on Confederacy of Dunces at the moment.
>>38415982>he thinks women ever get dinged for sexual harassment in the workplace lol
>>38417402That's what I'm thinking too. Wouldn't he just say, yeah gimme that fug?
>>38414062>QOTTseveral resolutions (so I have less pressure to do THE ONE):- waste less time online (escapism has got out of hand)- be more considerate for my aging relatives- be more present for the respective needs of my bf and twin sister- taking care of my health- do artsy stuff again- getting $$$ somehow- learn to manage my angry temper- shave my head- get better at gardening- get better at cooking
>>38414062>A little basic, but what are your New Year's Resolutions (if any)?Physical:>Kickbox consistently again (metric: 4x/month minimum each month)>Drop 10-15 lbs (will be trivial with kickboxing)>Successfully perform autofellatioCareer:Finish current project and move to something more interestingGet promoted to next levelHobby:Finish three art projects
I want to burn my house and turn into ashes
>>38418039What kinda art projects do you do?
>>38418087I have a few drawings I need to do and a couple partially completed small video game projects. I should be able to get more than three done total but three is my minimum.
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>>38417544I went extreme with the HR thing but what if for example the guy is gay and aint into you, or is a loyal dude with a gf already so he's not interested?
>>38414062>QOTT: A little basic, but what are your New Year's Resolutions (if any)?whoo okay here goes> apply to a 4 yr university> move out of my parents’ place> eat healthier> be more financially responsible> change my legal name and sex> start going jim> get my licensedamn writing out this list made me realize how behind i am in life rifp and i just turned 23id also like to get srs too since its covered by my health insurance but im not betting too much that itll happen this yr
>>38420919OH id also like to practice drawing more and learn french :3
Touch human I'm gonna do it bros
>>38420987Good luck bro
i hate fag hags that is all
>>38414062>QOTT: A little basic, but what are your New Year's Resolutions (if any)?I want to become asexual. I made progress this year by getting on SSRIs, but I need to work harder. Eventually this nightmare will end.
>>38420987You should ask them if it's ok first
>>38414062my new year's resolution is to end the endless cycle of self-hatredi don't think i'll ever be happy, but might as well try to get even a little better mentally by not hating myself that much anymore.
NYR - I want to have a better sex life this year. Get over my lack of initiating and just go for it.Talked with gf about starting group play and we have a few trips away next year so maybe it'll happen then. If I can suck at least 1 dick in 2025 it'll have been a success.
>>38414062>>QOTT: A little basic, but what are your New Year's Resolutions (if any)?I got two:1. I want to get into watching movies more often again - I love independent ones especially but I haven't prioritized it enough this year. Just got out of the cinema from watching Anora though; it's a banger, highly recommend it.2. I want to start doing bouldering. I hate cardio like running or biking but it seems fun and challenging so I'm hopeful.
>>38420748Last time we talked I got to find out that he's single and into women. Seems like he takes the occasional girl home when he goes out too. Honestly I just need some fuk already.
>>38424354If you already did your research and the field is there, grab him by the balls
>>38424437>new years resolution: commit sexual assault
>>38423460Nice, I have a similar goal. My gf and I are hoping to do an MMF and we have a few trips we're taking that may present some opportunities within the next few months.
>>38424562Hey, that's anon's take that the guy would be open to fuck her
>>38424731new years resolution: gamble that the guy whose balls you are grabbing likes you back so you don't get fired
>>38424437>>38424824I'll grab him by the balls for political reasons.
>>38424869>Trump but gay
>>38425037So just Trump?
>QOTTI don't do New Year's resolutions. I take promising very serious and I only promise something that I can do. >>38414653>think I might want to play with the idea of being a little more assertive in my daily lifeGood luck on that! I myself try to do that, but it seems people around me are harder to accept someone who once wasn't assertive being that way now. It's trial and error; sometimes it doesn't worth it, but I don't know. It's this or drowning trying.>perhaps dip my feet into dating againYou sure are a handsome lad. I'm sure you can find someone!
>>38425235Pretty impressive for a gay man to assault women
>>38414062>QOTT: A little basic, but what are your New Year's Resolutions (if any)?1) Lose the weight and stop drinking so much2) Do well in my studies3) Start making more music again
>>38425037>reverse trap Trump
lesbians say that women are better than men but honestly I have dated women before and nothing comes close to my boyfriend. When I dated women, they all sucked at communication, expected me to do everything etc etc. My boyfriend is open and honest, so I dont have to worry about lack of communication, he does everything for me and he will never refuse sex. The "lesbian relationship are better and nicer uwu" thing must be propaganda. I tried to be a 'febfem' but men are just better in my opinion.
>>38427294Also, when it comes to domestic abuse, men will just hit you and that's it.Lesbian go all the way for psychological warfare and the likes.I rather someone hit me on the nose than messing with my mind.
>>38427294>>38427372psyop>>38414062Do people actually use the tagmap?
>>38427437>psyopnot really. it's not for nothing most bi women date with guys.
>>38427437>Do people actually use the tagmap?I've used it, but everyone is just really far away
>>38427478Where are ya from anon?
>>38427478There's some people near me but idk when they even posted or if they still check their messagesGuess I'll just give it a shot
>>38427510I'm one of the folks in Colombia
>>38427294Look up the divorce rates between lesbians, gay men and straight couples at your own peril lmao>>38427372I get your point but being hit is rarely "just" that. I don't think it's possible for a relationship with violence to exist without a psychological component too, like anger or jealousy or whatever.
>>38427750Oh well, I'm not anywhere near that.
>>38427822>Everything just feels right and after having been together for 8 years since she was 14 and i was 20Nice ragebait tho
>>38427822At least make it less obvious my dude You're pedo bait posting in all the threads at once, space it out so it's at least somewhat believable
>>38427815>Look up the divorce rates between lesbians, gay men and straight couples at your own peril lmao>According to available research, divorce rates tend to be higher for lesbian couples compared to gay male couplesIt's kinda obvious straight couples will divorce more often than lesbians and gays since there are a lot more straight couples than gay couples.
>>384278226 years age gap would be nothing if y'all had met when she was over 18, but good for you guys
>>38427953>>38427953>It's kinda obvious straight couples will divorce more often than lesbians and gays since there are a lot more straight couples than gay couples.Do you understand what percentages and per capita mean?
>>38428018crazy, right?Again, having that age gap isn't much when you're in your 30s
>>38428066It's bait, anon>>38427790>>38427841
>>38414062>QOTT: A little basic, but what are your New Year's Resolutions (if any)?mine is to give up and stop trying.
>>38428487I know it's probably not what you mean by that, but unironically giving up can actually improve your life. Once you realize that you don't have to care what other people think of you (within reason) and you can actually just do what you want with your life since nothing matters in the end anyway, it sets you free.
>>38414062>what are your New Year's Resolutions (if any)?Giving up. I'm not going to have any delusions of actually doing anything
>>38429262i'll thank the tsaritsa for the delusion she blessed me with and pray for her to come home. that the kingdom not be forgotten. and those who trespass against be punished. god save the queen.
>>38429289I forgot, I said delusion and posted a fatui harbinger lolGlory to the tsaritsa and glory to Snezhnaya we will get the pyro gnosis this year and Capitano will survive the archon quest and be playable, rest in peace Rosalyne
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oh boy oh boy oh boynew years party soon~>>38425408>You sure are a handsome lad. I'm sure you can find someone!huge anxiety is the main problem but thanksill do my best>>38427437>Do people actually use the tagmap?some guy hit me up from there to talk once and then started raging all of a sudden saying how he "wasn't a fucking fag" after trying to flirt with me for an hour and then blocked me, it was surreal, closet bros are crazy
>>38432176>new years party soon~what kind of party are you attending I'm going to get very drunk and creepy through the city by myself this year (it's a big upgrade compared to previous years)
>>38432672>what kind of party are you attendingmy friend bought a house this year so we're gonna (without having to care about what any neighbours might think) blast dad rock and swedish punk, get very drunk, play some horror rpg my friend picked out, smoke cigars and make some good food together>I'm going to get very drunk and creepy through the city by myself this year (it's a big upgrade compared to previous years)stay safe please, dress warm and have a comfy time
>>38432969That sounds like a good time. Have fun!
>>38432969That pic looked sussy af until I zoomed in
>>38434131I don't know what you mean
>>38434599
Happy new years you qt's
my new years resolution for 2025 is to finally develop the mental willpower to detrans
>>38437298Nooo don't detrans your so sexy aha
>>38437298i did a little bit ago and besides the constant dissociation and inability to feel anything resembling joy it's been pretty freeing
>>38437358yeah see the thing is i cant imagine wearing masculine clothes cutting my hair short growing out a beard etc etc and going all the way back to square one but even as a passing tranny i have doomed myself to a lonely existence because the majority of men would rather be caught dead than to be seen out with me in public regardless of how well i pass or notwith how much i constantly worry about getting clocked out in public and using the womens restroom it rly makes me wonder if transitioning is even worth it at allmaybe if i were ‘queer’ i would find more pride in being trans idk>>38437343thanx anon at least sb finds me fuckable
>>38437719>thanx anon at least sb finds me fuckableYou're welcome. You unironically look really good. I'm sure there's someone out there for you. Good luck
Should auld acquaintens be forgot and never brought to mind?Should auld acquaintens be forgot and auld lang syne?
it's probably a terrible fucking idea to add to contact my ex again despite us leaving on good terms for dumb reasons, right?
>>38438516it would be a terrible fucking idea on new years
>>38438516been thinking about something like that too but I think they moved on so whatever
>>38440042you're right, I should wait a day>>38440092imagine if it was actually us
sorry to do this but I need to vent "anonymously"the first thing I've done after waking up was look up a self harm guide for cutting and emailed my therapist something along the lines of "I'm going to kill myself soon no matter what because I'm genetically wrong and there's no cure or treatment for me"I'm also going to buy some bandages today or tomorrowI don't know if this is a cry for help or not but if this applies to anyone you can think of then message them but don't engage too directly because I know I wouldn't want that either
>QOTT: A little basic, but what are your New Year's Resolutions (if any)?not killing myself desu
First day of the new year and I feel temptation, wish me strength to endure the trials and tribulations I have ahead of me in my quest for purity and cleanliness.
>>38441383>I don't know if this is a cry for help or notIt is.>if this applies to anyone you can think of then message them but don't engage too directly because I know I wouldn't want that eitherDon't put that responsibility on other people. Don't get me wrong, I think it's nice if people want to help like that and all, but the right move is the person with these thoughts reaching out to a professional, like you did - but perhaps in a slightly less extreme way lmao. I hope you get your stuff sorted out anon.
>>38441430killing myself is the myself killer
>>38441383>emailed my therapist something along the lines of "I'm going to kill myself soon no matter what because I'm genetically wrong and there's no cure or treatment for me"Enjoy your vacation, hope you're a Euro with help insurance
>>38441917>Don't put that responsibility on other people.that's what I usually try not to do because I know I shouldn't talk to people about it directly. I did lie to my therapist about being willing to talk to my family or call helplines, etc. when I'm feeling like this>I hope you get your stuff sorted out anon.lmao I'm going to kms eventually
>>38442317>I did lie to my therapist about being willing to talk to my family or call helplines, etc. when I'm feeling like thisWell, there's a good place to start for your next session.
>>38442317>lmao I'm going to kms eventuallyUnlikely. There's no way off this ride.
can enbys of bigen please tell me some retrospect obvious signs that they were non binary and how you feel about gender in generalasking for a friend or something ofc
>>38443245Its kinda weird. I want to present more femme in style and appearance (maybe some mannerisms too in the future) but I don't want to be socially seen as a woman or use womens restrooms or female prnouns and all that. But I dont feel like presenting masc either. For me the perfect life would be looking android or femme enough people will question if Im a guy or a girl. And ill say neither or whatever you want me to be (for friends and partner).Ive been thinking of going on androgens and maybe very low estrogen doses to achieve the 'twinkhon' looks or whatever people call it. But I also like my junk and that's the only part of me I dont want to change so I have to use it plenty and do all the other shit you need to do to keep it healthy and working properly
>>38441383>if this applies to anyone you can think ofWell how the fuck am I going to message myself.
>>38443245well it started with me really beginning to question my gender in like late 2018 early 2019, i was wondering if i was a trans woman and didn't really consider being NB per se?but also like, i'd considered being a femboy or whatever, and like honestly since i was a kid i'd wanted to like, be a rly feminine looking guy.but also it's like, that kind of thing like names and whether im officially considered male or female has never rly mattered to me, and i kinda like androgyny as opposed to like,,, being a typical man or woman.ig the way i feel about gender is like, it's not rly real and i kinda dont have to care about it that much? like,,, yeah i wanna have a certain look and vibe but it doesn't need to be much deeper for me.
>>38414062WE'RE STREAMING UNCUT GEMS ON THE DISCORD IN AN HOUR
every day is a day I'm one step closer to giving myself the most cringeworthy anime bangs. this would have been cute if it werent for the fact that I'm well over 25 and kind of ugly.
>>38444713Do what makes you happy anon.
>MOVIE NIGHTMOVIE NIGHT>MOVIE NIGHTMOVIE NIGHTA reminder that tomorrow at 22 GMT we will vote for the next two movies for Movie Night! If you want you can also give your recommendation by replying to this post>what the hell is "movie night"its a special night where bigen comes together to watch on Discord two movies chosen by the community>when will movie night take place?its FRIDAY at 22 gmt>where do we watch the movies?on the Bigen Movie and Game Night Discord server:https://discord.gg/ZKBmsksg>i don't usually post on bigen/never took part in movie night, can i join?Of course, movie night is open to anyone, just remember to mute yourself during the movies, be civil and have fun!fyi: this is the list of every movie we watched so far:https://pastebin.com/Bc8pqK9h
>>38444896Rocky Horror Picture Show
>>38414062>QOTT: A little basic, but what are your New Year's Resolutions (if any)?Honestly just keep doing what I've been doing for the last few months and weeks.Though some new stuff, like getting a job, adding some stretching to my workouts and picking up Japanese again (yes I am a weeb) would be neat.Anyway, been playing some Witchfire lately and man, it feels great to play Destiny without having to play Destiny.Though the game is a little too difficult imo, may just be a skill issue though.Oh and happy new year everyone!
That is as good a motivation to keep hitting the gym and dieting as any.Also Uncut gems was good
>>38444896Sonic the Hedgehog OVA (1996)
>>38446405thanks-vorpals
Finally saved up enough last year to hopefully get my pilots license this year, i guess that’s my resolution
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>QOTT: A little basic, but what are your New Year's Resolutions (if any)?Fuckbuddy (boyfriend? really where is the line between the two?) and I made the same one. We're pretty sure we've both got ADHD after doing our research, so we're going to look into getting diagnosed and treated, because whatever it is has been affecting our lives negatively.
My boyfriend is my first and his cock keeps getting soft. He's amazing to me but his dick ruins everything.
>>38448568Is it due to nerves or performance anxiety or...?
>>38448592idk what causes it but it's annoying af. His cock gets hard only when it's being directly stimulated. When he's sucking me or playing with my body his cock gets soft. It fucking sucks. If he takes too much time to put the condom it gets soft too idk what the hell is happening
>>38448610Invest in viagra, talk him into it. Some sex shops sell supplements don't get your shit off of a gas station.
>>38448681He took a pill, we waited for 1 hour and it didn't work. Killing myself rn.
kek best thing for me is lose weight for sure
>>38414062gonna quit smoking
>>38450267Proud of you, anon.
>>38444896Sans Soleil !
>>38414062>QOTT: A little basic, but what are your New Year's Resolutions (if any)?I managed to avoid SA and do much much more than expected so this year I'm gonna be tame so I feel good overachieving againI want that digestive disease of mine to be treated and I want to help my partner to move out, and I want to make some money and I want to come out (again)
>>38444896Huh, seems we have actually watched way fewer modern anime movies than I thought.Well, I suggest Suzume then.>>38448696Is he like, seriously overweight or something? Can he maintain a reaction outside of sex or is it the same if he were to just watch porn or something?Either way, if even Viagra isn't doing anything he should really visit a doctor if possible.
>>38451802I hope you achieve those goals. digestive diseases suck so bad...
If dating an at least moderately attractive cis woman were an option for me, I would never even consider men. But it's not. There's something about me that's absolutely repulsive to women. It's probably my low self-esteem. And I hate having to compete for someone's affection. I hate having to compete with others for someone's love. The loneliness turned me into this. I am like starving man who has turned to eating rotten cadavers out of desperation.
>>38452846>There's something about me that's absolutely repulsive to women. It's probably my low self-esteem.Women absolutely can smell desperation. Men can too, but women are much better at it on average.>And I hate having to compete for someone's affection. I hate having to compete with others for someone's love.This is somewhat contradictory, but if you are at peace with yourself and who you are you don't need to compete with anyone. "Competing" for other peoples' affection inherently implies that you think you don't have intrinsic worth.>The loneliness turned me into this. I am like starving man who has turned to eating rotten cadavers out of desperation.Fix your self image issues before getting into a relationship; if you get into a relationship now you're likely just going to self sabotage it anyway.
>>38452846You became bisexual out of desperation. I became bisexual because of porn addiction. I will cease my bisexuality and porn addiction and return to the peace of chastity and asexuality. You will keep digging deeper.
>>38453041>if you are at peace with yourself and who you are you don't need to compete with anyone. "Competing" for other peoples' affection inherently implies that you think you don't have intrinsic worth.I don't have intrinsic worth. Nobody does. But that's besides the point. When approaching a woman, you are usually one of countless guys who want to stand out to her. That shit is literally so demeaning. It's not about wanting to feel special. It's about wanting to be treated like a normal person, and not like a slave on a meat market. It's not like that with men, even with attractive men. >Fix your self image issues before getting into a relationship; if you get into a relationship now you're likely just going to self sabotage it anyway.I'm with you there. I already have in the past, multiple times. I don't know how to fix my brain. I've been in therapy for over half a decade, but it hasn't helped much.>>38453189sneed
>MOVIE NIGHTMOVIE NIGHT >MOVIE NIGHTMOVIE NIGHTA reminder that at 22 GMT we will choose the next 2 movies for movie night!You can give your recommendation now by replying to this post>what the hell is "movie night"its a special night where bigen comes together to watch on Discord two movies chosen by the community>when will movie night take place?its FRIDAY at 23 gmt>where do we watch the movies?on the Bigen Movie and Game Night Discord server:https://discord.gg/K6mJ3fHV>i don't usually post on bigen/never took part in movie night, can i join?of course, movie night is open to anyone, just remember to be civil and have fun!fyi: this is the list of every movie we watched so far:https://pastebin.com/Bc8pqK9h
/bigen/, what do you think of women in uniform?
>>38453243>I don't have intrinsic worth. Nobody does.Regardless of whether you believe everyone or noone has intrinsic worth the point is the same, no? Either way, you assign higher value to women than to yourself by virtue of more people being attracted to them.>When approaching a woman, you are usually one of countless guys who want to stand out to her. That shit is literally so demeaning. It's not about wanting to feel special. It's about wanting to be treated like a normal person, and not like a slave on a meat market.I disagree with this part. Are there women (and men for that matter) that abuse their attractiveness to get attention or sex or w/e from other people? Sure. But if you feel like a woman sees you in the way you describe you can simply walk away - there are plenty of them out there who see you as a regular person.>I don't know how to fix my brain. I've been in therapy for over half a decade, but it hasn't helped much.I'm not a therapist so I won't argue with their work. What helped me a lot is simply focusing on the things that I want and what makes me happy, rather than tying my happiness to the approval of others. Ironically, the less you care about other's perception of you (within reason) and the less you invest in trying to find love, the more attractive you become.
>>38453243>When approaching a woman, you are usually one of countless guys who want to stand out to herI don't really have the personal experience to argue this stuff, but at least considering how it went for the couples around me that doesn't really seem to be the case, in person at least.Dating apps are a completely different matter again and I feel bad for everyone forced to rely on those.>>38453318The same as with men. A well fitting uniform is pretty attractive.Though I guess it depends on the Uniform.
>>38453370>you assign higher value to women than to yourself by virtue of more people being attracted to themI don't know. I am a seething misogynist. I think I hide it fairly well IRL, because I don't have issues interacting with women on a platonic level. But that doesn't necessarily mean that you're wrong here. >if you feel like a woman sees you in the way you describe you can simply walk away - there are plenty of them out there who see you as a regular person.I've yet to meet any. Maybe it just appears that way to me because I don't have a social life. The women I meet have friends, often multiple friend groups. It seems like there's always someone on her phone who could replace me, and that is the case.Please don't act like there is perfect symmetry between men and women when it comes to dating. She's in the position to chose her mate. I am in the position to beg. Did I mention that I fucking loathe women?>What helped me a lot is simply focusing on the things that I want and what makes me happyNothing makes me happy. Everything is miserable. Everything is tedious busywork mixed with pain and humiliation. Life is fucking shit and anyone who puts a child into this world should be jailed. But I digress.>the less you care about other's perception of you ... the more attractive you become.I never learned how to do that. It just stings so much when I embarrass myself. It takes me weeks to recover even after minor screwups, like saying something dumb in a classroom setting. That's why I'm very fucking careful in social situations. And others can smell that. But whatever. I didn't mean to dump all of that on you, sorry. Thanks for the advice.
>>38453671>I don't know. I am a seething misogynist. I think I hide it fairly well IRL, because I don't have issues interacting with women on a platonic level.Nah, people can tell when you are pic related.>I've yet to meet any.Pure confirmation bias and delusion there, sorry to say.>Maybe it just appears that way to me because I don't have a social life.Correct - you are projecting your own negative perception of the world on other people.>It seems like there's always someone on her phone who could replace me, and that is the case.>Please don't act like there is perfect symmetry between men and women when it comes to dating. She's in the position to chose her mate. I am in the position to beg. I'm not saying men and women's experiences are 1 to 1 the same (particularly on dating apps), but once again you are assuming that all women can and do choose whatever, whenever, and will discard any man at a moment's notice. That's just straight up not the case.>Did I mention that I fucking loathe women?Visceral hatred like this easily seeps through. See my first point.>Nothing makes me happy. Everything is miserable. Everything is tedious busywork mixed with pain and humiliation. Life is fucking shit and anyone who puts a child into this world should be jailed. But I digress.I'm sure you're already aware, but you've just outlined the root cause of your misogyny - hatred towards yourself that's then extended to a hatred towards the world as whole.>I never learned how to do that. It just stings so much when I embarrass myself. It takes me weeks to recover even after minor screwups, like saying something dumb in a classroom setting. That's why I'm very fucking careful in social situations. The good thing is that it's never too late to learn. I had much the same issues (probably social anxiety, though I never was formally diagnosed) and homebrewed exposure therapy was by far the best tool for me alleviate it.
>>38453810Forgot the pic lmao
>>38453810>>38453821>you are projecting your own negative perception of the world on other peopleEntirely possible. I didn't get to stay in that precious normalfag bubble that most of the people around me seem to inhabit.>you are assuming that all women can and do choose whatever, whenever, and will discard any man at a moment's noticeYes, men are replaceable to women. That tracks with the cultural norm of men being replaceable in general.>Visceral hatred like this easily seeps through. See my first point.It seeps through here, because I let it. Because why wouldn't I be honest on a Burmeese kitesurfing forum.>hatred towards yourself that's then extended to a hatred towards the world as whole.True. I have grown very bitter. But there's something in the female genome that makes them particularly terrible, even more terrible than the average person is already.>homebrewed exposure therapy was by far the best tool for me alleviate it.I've gotten plenty of exposure, I'm sad to say. It's not that. It's my general mental health, which probably won't get fixed. The meds don't do anything. But again, whatever. I probably won't make it past forty anyway, considering my lifestyle.
>>38453405>at least considering how it went for the couples around me that doesn't really seem to be the case, in person at least.If we're going anecdotal, the only couple if ever been friends with involved the guy getting cheated on by his gf and him taking her back after like two weeks. This wasn't like some fling either, they'd been dating since high school and they were mid-twenties. There's a lesson here. Maybe life has just blackpilled me
>>38453958I mean it's your life. If you wanna wallow in misery you can do that, no offense.>It seeps through here, because I let it.I meant in real life. Even if you aren't quite as open about it as on an anonymous website, people can still tell.>I have grown very bitter.>But there's something in the female genome that makes them particularly terrible, even more terrible than the average person is already.You don't think it's the lens of bitterness rather than (imaginary) genetic characteristics that cloud your perception?>I probably won't make it past forty anyway, considering my lifestyle.I hope you find peace with yourself though, genuinely, and not through suicide. What you're doing now seems like a rough way to live.
ugggggghhh internalised biphobia fucking sucks i wanna cut open my belly and rip my intestines out
>>38454037>If you wanna wallow in misery you can do that, no offense.I'm not wallowing in misery. I'm doing my best to live the best life I can, even though I'm carrying all of this shit around with me constantly. >I meant in real lifeI know what you meant. I've never had any issues with this IRL. Don't undermine my self-esteem further.>You don't think it's the lens of bitterness rather than (imaginary) genetic characteristics that cloud your perception?Genome was clearly metaphorical here. But maybe bitterness was the wrong word for me to use. The world is fundamentally bad, and most other people don't see that because they never had to learn. If that's bitterness then so be it.>I hope you find peace with yourself though, genuinely, and not through suicide.Thank you, genuinely. I will never kill myself, I am too much of a coward. But thank you for the well wishes.
>>38454097Just suck the dick. You know you want to
>>38454097Under no circumstances should you suck the dick, even if you want to
>MOVIE NIGHTMOVIE NIGHT>MOVIE NIGHTMOVIE NIGHTThe poll is now open, no further recommendations will be accepted. The voting will stop tomorrow at around 5 PM GMT, so be sure to vote before then!Here is the link to the server:https://discord.gg/K6mJ3fHV
It should be legally mandated for AT LEAST 25% of guys to be femboys. There aren't enough of them around
>>38455877i would become one if the government mandated free body hair removal sessionsthe bit of greek dna i have makes me so hairy it's just not worth the trouble
>>38456075I wish there was a pill or something to remove your body hair as well. I'm not hairy at all, but the feeling of being smoothly shaven is just fantastic.
Just watched the first episode of the Chernobyl series.I don't know which horror is greater, the radiation or the simply absurd amount of mismanagement.Why the fuck would you be THIS fixated on saving your public image compared to trying not to doom an entire city to death.
>>38456398It's a fantastic show and fairly historically accurate - most of the stuff that's not accurate is usually just changed to make for more dramatic scenes rather than making scientific stuff up or whatever.>Why the fuck would you be THIS fixated on saving your public image compared to trying not to doom an entire city to death.Due to Soviet culture around saving face and trying to project an image about your country being stronger and more well-run that it actually is. Admitting that corners were cut or that there was corruption among government leadership and such were a complete no-go, as that would make you a counter-revolutionary, obviously.
>>38456398>Why the fuck would you be THIS fixated on saving your public image compared to trying not to doom an entire city to death.you see in our great land of eastern europe they arent too keen on humanism and the worth of the individual
Maybe a stupid question but if I am attracted to both pussygirls and dickgirls but not masculinity do I belong here? If not where?
>>38456582The top question at the FAQ on the OP is:>Am I bi if I like women and femboys/traps? >Yes, sexual attraction to both sexes is bisexuality.For what it's worth it's not uncommon to exclusively be into femininity. IMO you can't as a man be attracted to someone with a dick and be hetero (and vice versa for women) - you are either bi or gay,
Episode 2 done. Seems that bureaucrat has at least a shred of integrity. But not as much as the military officer volluntiering to drive the testing truck due to it potentially spelling certain death.Also giving those poor fucks a radiation meter when everyone knows what's gonna happen to them is just evil.>>38456560>>38456567I mean I was aware that things were bad, but it's just wild to see just how far it is taken.We aren't talking about just a few hundred or even dozen people affected.We are talking about potentially millions of lives and ungodly amounts of land that is inhabitable for generations.
gaygen is having an existential crisis
>>38458086It's not a tranny thread. What's it even doing on this board?
Finished Chernobyl.God such a good series, very well spent 5 hours.Can't believe it took the Soviets yars to even start fixing the issue that cause the disaster, why not even fix it quietly?
sometimes i wonder if ppl that i have since fell out of contact w still think ab me even if only occasionally
>Think about looking at porn of women>Look at porn of men againI'm not even that gay. I have a strong attraction to women but men do something for me that women don't. I don't want to have a relationship with a woman only to still have that male craving. Does it go away? I'm so confused.
>>38458376Same but then it turns out nobody does except my bpd stalker
I made a tinder and found out I have like 2 decent photos of myself
>-13 degrees, feels like -20the weather app foretells my doom, wish me luck
>>38458406no it doesn't, you're bisexual. all you can do is embrace it and date hrt femboys to have everything and still retain monogamy.
Happy new year bigen. lets all hope 2025 will be....better :/>>38459001im jelly>>38456398thats one of the best horror series of the past decade, largely because its a true story. The monster isnt some slasher, or ghost, or haunted doll, or alien. It isnt even the giant fucking radiation cloud. the real monster is the human capacity to destroy other peoples lives for personal gain.>Why the fuck would you be THIS fixated on saving your public image compared to trying not to doom an entire city to death.you forget that 'make more money' is ALWAYS number one on the list of priorities for the one percent. Preventing catastrophic death of innocents is....well not even on the list. and it was much more than one city. fantastic series, but there is one episode that i couldnt even watch>>38456560>Due to Soviet culture around saving face and trying to project an image about your country being stronger and more well-run that it actually isCan you imagine russia being so hung up on something like that that they end up biting off more than they can chew and it ends up having the opposite effect of making them look like complete fools on the international stage? good to know that something like that could never happen again >>38455877youve got my vote>>38458295iirc they didnt even have the capacity to clean up a nuclear catastrophe of that scale. they would have had to buy/ acquire the hardware from external sources, which would have given away to the rest of the world that the disaster was way worse than what they were saying. kremlin be like sorry millions of russian citizens, we have pr to look after, enjoy your cancer lmao
>>38459213But my craving is for big strong buff daddies.
>>38459285Holy shit what a cute dude
>>38459343Nice, NTA and femboys don't do it for me either.
>>38459572I like effeminate guys too but I like masculine guys more.
>>38459285>im jellyWhen the cold wind blows through all 3 layers and into your bones it's not as niceIt makes for peak comfy weather though, nothing better than snuggling up beneath a blanket when it's super cold outside (or even better, opening a window for a couple of minutes and then snuggling up under the blanket)
>>38459001Good luck, cunk.
>MOVIE NIGHTMOVIE NIGHT>MOVIE NIGHTMOVIE NIGHTAnd we have the two winners!:>Paul Blart Mall Cop>Rocky Horror Picture ShowSo see ya later at 23 GMT!
>>38462560yeeeeees, time warp bros, we finally win>>38461933ty, tyit was only -10 when walking home so it was way more tolerable
>MOVIE NIGHTMOVIE NIGHT>MOVIE NIGHTMOVIE NIGHTA reminder that in 2 hours Movie Night is gonna start! Here is tonight selection:>Paul Blart Mall Cop>Rocky Horror Picture Show>what the hell is "movie night"its a special night where bigen comes together to watch on Discord two movies chosen by the community>where do we watch the movies?On the official Bigen Movie and Game Night Discord server:https://discord.gg/K6mJ3fHV>i don't usually post on bigen/never took part in movie night, can i join?of course, movie night is open to anyone, just remember to be civil and have fun!fyi this is the list of every movie we watched so far:https://pastebin.com/Bc8pqK9h
>MOVIE NIGHTMOVIE NIGHT>MOVIE NIGHTMOVIE NIGHTGood eveningIts finally time to start another Movie Night! Tonight selection is:>Paul Blart Mall Cop>Rocky Horror Picture ShowHere is the link of the stream, don't be shy and come join us! As always the film will start at 23:10 GMT>https://discord.gg/K6mJ3fHV>what the hell is "movie night"its a special night where bigen comes together to watch on Discord two movies chosen by the community>i don't usually post on bigen/never took part in movie night, can i join?of course, movie night is open to anyone, just remember to be civil and have fun!fyi: this is the list of every movie we watched so far:https://pastebin.com/Bc8pqK9h
>>38454097I've already went through the process of making peace with the fact that I'm trans, why am I agonizing over being maybe bisexual? Wouldnt be surprised if I'm living out a stereotype.
>MOVIE NIGHTMOVIE NIGHT>MOVIE NIGHTMOVIE NIGHTThe second film of the night Rocky Horror Picture Show will start in 10 minutes, feel free to join us!>https://discord.gg/K6mJ3fHV
>>38466484>>38459380fr fr>>38460709when the cold wind blows it chills you, chills you to the bone. but theres nothing in nature that freezes the heart like years of being alone.
Going into the 6th day of nofap, I’m feeling incredibly emotional, anxious and nauseous. I need to power through, temporary pain beats a woebegone, lecherous lifetime. Soon I shan’t be bisexual.
>>38468247Not fapping is really easy if I'm pounding my ass every night with a dildo. It keeps me satisfied and I kinda prefer it lol.
The only way I cum to women is imagining I'm in their position. It can be solo or lesbian too, as long as I can see myself in them. With guys though, it's different. I don't self insert, unless it's masc on fem, then I self insert as the fem.I don't really know how this would affect a relationship and sex with a woman. I'm not really sure how that would work.
>>38414062>QOTDmake progress in my career and get back to the gym more I guess>gf knows I’m bi but recently walked in on me furiously beating my meat to gay pupplay/fetish porn>ended up having a conversation about it>tells me she’d be interested in watching me “play with another guy”been mono up until this point, never even entertained the idea of a threesome. I wouldn’t mind making some tied up fem squirt all over himself though
>>38468875>I don't really know how this would affect a relationship and sex with a woman. I'm not really sure how that would work.You would have an easy time with foreplay, you'd be a natural at it, but you most likely wouldn't have an easy time with penetrative sex.
Is it true that not all men into anal do it because they like the feeling of being fucked but rather as a submissive thing? Because I absolutely love the feeling.
>>38469050How do you figure?
>>38469160You'll have an easier time being penetrated yourself, sorry, but you're doomed to never being fully satisfied ever.
>>38469348What if I'm being penetrated by a big strong guy? I like big strong guys. That seems like it would be satisfying.
bumpy
>>38469901For a time sure, but once you stop feeling like a woman doing it, it'll be ruined for you.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5SXy7G5dtb4bump
would you fuck this bisexual power couple why or why not
>>38473960No, because I do not deserve to have sex, and I do not want to be bisexual anymore, so I am taking a vow of chastity and going on nofap until I die.
>>38473960not. racist
>>38468247but why>>38468833do you cum from that? >>38469039youre a very lucky guy >>38469135nah it feels great>>38473346i wanna use twink butt as my surrealistic pillow
>>38474086>but whyBecause I need to, that's why. Its been making my life worse for near on 12 years now.
>>38474005go to jail.
>>38474001You should take a vow of silence too jfc
>>38474353You are a chronic masturbator who is afraid that other people are healing.
>>38474112>>38474456you have a very unhealthy relationship with sexuality, that much is clear. but becoming chaste is not the answer
>>38474993I already am chaste. I have never, and will never have sex. It's just a formality, in case I ever stop being completely undesirable (lol).
Tried watching Squid GameOnly made it to ep 2 so far and ngl it's kind of a hard watch. Don't really see where the hype came from back then.In other news, it's kinda funny that Rika managed to get first place on the list of "Characters I'd date" for the third year now.Though I do get itSource if you wanna read it https://note.com/_ui12/n/ncf500ef9e3b2>>38475004Dude, do you really think masturbation of all things is THE thing fucking with your life?
>>38473960well??
>>38475325I would need to be reincarnated to be sexually and romantically desirable. If I’m going to loiter in life, I might as well do so morally.
>>38475454>gross mystery meat peoplenah, im good.>>38475751there’s nothing immoral about beating off. humans have done this since antiquity and been fine.
>>38475839They're black you weirdo.
>>38475839Anyone with a conscience could tell you that masturbation fills them with shame. That’s the foundation for immorality.
>>38475325i am always skeptical of those 'flavor of the month' shows. they dont get that way by being good, but rather usually just cause some influencer shouted them out >>38476034bro you are deeply damaged, and not from fapping
>>38476073Ok? Tell me something I didn’t know. Masturbation just makes all of my flaws, the bullets embedded, sting even more.
>>38475936>They're black you weirdo.true.>>38476034but how much of that shame is simply because you were raised in protestant total abstinence land and how much is actually ‘natural?’
>>38476136My parents are irreligious and I’m Canadian.
how many of you have come out/openly show how you really are?
>>38476195I’ve come out to the open minded half of my family, working on showing it slowly with the other half.
>>38414062We are watching trailer park boys on the discord rn
>>38474086>do you cum from that?Yeah, but it's an internal, slow building, full body orgasm with lots of moaning and biting my pillow and stuff lol. My dick stays soft and doesn't ejaculate.The funny thing about not touching my dick is that it makes the anal orgasms far more intense and pleasurable, and I'm willing to make that trade because I like it so much.>nah it feels greatYeah, I love it.
Who up sealing they well with holy light to defeat the tempter?https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=19XuxziBaH4
>>38478280that sounds amazing, how do i do it
imagine spending the night in your vampire gf's twin sized coffin.
>>38479405I'd suggest not ejaculating for at least three days and make sure you have somewhere comfortable to lay. I find that laying on my side or slightly turned towards my tummy with my ass lifted a bit and my arm draped behind my back is my favorite position to toy myself with. I also find that it's much easier to orgasm with a dildo that has some girth. It makes it easier to find the right spot.After that, it's just a matter of practicing and learning your own body. Don't focus on trying to orgasm. Just focus on how it feels in the moment. The orgasm will come on its own. Moan if you'd like, squeeze your pillow, or adjust your position. Do whatever comes naturally to you. You might not reach orgasm the first time, but with enough practice, you will. You can also try smoking weed or eating an edible before a session. It can help you relax and get in the right head space for penetration.When you experience an anal orgasm for the first time, you'll know. Your moaning will get more intense, you might start to spasm—you might even pull the bed sheets out. It will feel amazing. Some people get overwhelmed the first time they begin to orgasm, but don't let up, just relax and enjoy it. :)
Just wanted to drop in to say thank you to the /bigen/ community. Your support and kindness last year made all the difference in figuring myself out. Much gratitude & a happy 2025 to everyone!
>>38479934post your feet
>>38479934>Your support and kindness last year made all the difference in figuring myself outDamn, thats nice to hear. Glad you could figure yourself out more(I thought we were just horny retards so hearing that is kinda nice/fun)
>>38479934>Your support and kindness last year made all the difference in figuring myself outI'm assuming you just did the opposite of whatever people here told you to then. Congrats tho
Yay, Ojama Lime lore compilationhttps://youtu.be/12GXJ8LCiiA>>38475751I feel sorry for you. Hope you can get help somehow.>>38476195I told a pan friend I was bi like a year ago, he may have forgotten though lol.>>38479934Happy to hear things have been going well for you ^^
Hi I'm a virgin but can I still post here?
>>38483552Welcome to the club
Been listening to the Electra heart album again, absolute banger, love it
I FUCKING LOVE TWINKS I FUCKING LOVE TWINKS I FUCKING LOVE TWINKS I FUCKING LOVE TWINKS I FUCKING LOVE TWINKS I FUCKING LOVE TWINKS I FUCKING LOVE TWINKS I FUCKING LOVE TWINKS I FUCKING LOVE TWINKS I FUCKING LOVE TWINKS I FUCKING LOVE TWINKS I FUCKING LOVE TWINKS
>>38485573god i wish this was me but i don't have the willpower to starve myself this badly
>>38485681Same but I want to keep my musclesI'd give anything for my scale to show less without me lifting less
Being bisexual, these threads make me disgusted to be tied to you freaks in some way.
>>38486078how about you tie me then, freak
>>38486078What did we do ;-;
>>38485573I wish that was me but I think im way more skinnier thab them
>>38486078gaygen is way worse tbqh
>>38483619Is that (You) semi
>>38483380where did you get this picture of cunk >>38485573same same same>>38485952time to go on a cut woooooooooooooo cardio >>38479630thanks for the guide anon, i will have to give this a try when i am able
hi babes, gonna stream games (or movies if people want but I'll have to download them) if anyone wants to watch>>38486634>time to go on a cut woooooooooooooo cardioI'll cut you >:(no cardio, bleh, disgusting (I'll blame my asthma for not doing it)
>>38485573Can't wait to finally get back to my place and get into gym again.Time to cut back down to 60 kilos or so, probably gonna take me till June or so.>>38486391Nah, I wouldn't post myself on 4Chan lol.That's the Serbian YuGiOh Youtuber Rata, also known as Rank10YGO.Makes great videos, even has a few on things other than YuGiOh.>>38486634Masterful cropping Kooka lmao
>>38486634You're welcome!
>QOTTI try not to make any resolutions but I have things I want to focus on in the year ahead but I really want to: - finally start getting my mental health together with professional help- lose 15 pounds at least and get back into a consistent workout schedule- finally figure out a direction for my career Hopefully this is the year I'm actually a bit more intentional about intimacy and dating instead of just taking what I can get to quell the loneliness and touch-starvation. Hoping that first point will help.
>>38479625
So I’m basically asexual now, but I will say, nofap made me confident enough to get back to exercising. So even if you’re not trying to escape bisexuality, I suggest doing it.
>>38487893Escaping bisexuality at a gym?
>>38487968No, in my home, with my weights.
>>38487893no shame when you come back to us bro
>>38488223Nah, it would be a horrible shame. I simply don’t deserve to have a sexuality. I’m ugly, mentally unstable, neurologically disabled, completely shut-in and retarded. Literally the only outlet for my sexuality was masturbation, that’s pathetic.
Remember, weed will turn you into a green monster. do you want to get twinkdeath'd>>38486871its what i do
>>38480345Not sure what mental image you're conjuring, but it's flattering and appreciated.>>38482189It's the horny retards that helped the most.>>38482299heh, pretty much
>>38479934Thanks to you too anon. and thanks to everyone else who hangs out in here while I'm at it. 2025, I'm going more bisexual and horny than ever.
>>38490508Hooray for /bigen/, the slowest but also most positive place on 4chan
>>38491028>the slowestboy you haven't seen /n/and I'm sure there's slower boards
Ngl, Squid Game really gets going episode 3 onward.Just finished 7 and yup, actually intriguing now.Also Bumo.
>>38414062hey bigen, have you gotten rid of your dildos after getting into a relationship with someone (irl)?asking for a friend
>>38492323No. My gf likes to use dildos on me (as have most of my exes tbhon).But I have gotten rid of dildos I used on others after ending relationships.
>>38492361But how big are we talking about regarding those dildos?
>>38492323Never owned any personally but if I did I'd probably keep them. If we're gonna be having sex it wouldn't make sense to get rid of potential toys
>>38492375I can take this one pretty easy:https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B0BTPDG2W1/I never managed this one but my gf uses it now:https://www.amazon.com/dp/B09DKCCB9N
>>38491399>oldfag, reading this, having no clue wtf /n/ would even be>I checkwait /n/ was the train board??? I thought for sure the planefuckers and the train and bicycle nerds would stay /here/ until they died. How the mighty have fallen
we watching falling down in the movie server
theres a million wild and wonderful ways to say no
>>384140628 days and 9 hours is insane lmao, why don't ya'll just give up at this point?
When I was a teenager I was flexible enough for autofellatio at least up to the head of my shaft. The stimulation was equivalent to tickling myself but it made me absolutely love sucking dick despite liking pussy and having no actual interest in men.
>>38497940How often do you suck dick now?>>38497199It's a comfy gen who cares?
>wakes up from dream>was a 6'2 butch himbo space marine woman with a buzzcut>was perfectly fine being in the dominant role during sexual encounters >irl have hangups around sexuality, masculinity and the dominant role but as a woman in fantasy it's not problem>irl mostly dress masc but if I had a choice would dress more fem I feel like my issues around my body manifest into agp tendencies. Not strong enough to ever want to transition but still there and it fucks with me. Either that or I just need a butch lady to fuck me up.Do any other bi people relate to minor AGP/AAP tendencies?t. Cis bi man
>>38498047Never. My male pride always got in the way of me acting on my bi fantasies.
>>38498354So you've never done it?
>slavic gf moves in six months ago>makes all my meals>gained 15 lbs (177 to 192) in that time>tell her i really need to eat less>tells me she'll make me smaller meals with fewer carbs>asks me if i'm ok with just steak and vegetables tonight for dinner or if i want more>tell her that it's enough>"vegetables" includes potatoes covered in some sort of tasty sour cream sauce that she madeI love her and the food is delicious but I'm gonna eventually be obese if this continues.
>>38498047>who caresno one clearly lol
>>38497199>one of the only sane threads on the dedicated mental illness board is slowhow unexpected
>>38498257I'm so confused why people keep taking about AGP on this board when it's hopelessly outdated tech...
>>38499332This is so niche and inside that you're probably AGP trans to know this lmao
>>38490481>It's the horny retards that helped the most.can't stop winning
no sleep and hospital exam makes eddin go crazyhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3zGowzzs8dQ
It's so hard to get motivated when it's cold
>be me>been single awhile>meet cute trans girl>never dated a trans girl, but I prefer feminine men so sure why not>go on a few great dates>out of nowhere goes cold and gives me mixed signals. Won’t answer messages or contacts me first just to waffle on plansThis normal? Not sure how to proceed. I thought maybe she was ghosting me for some reason but she’ll still hit me up through text or whatever
gimme tips on food I can make, I'm trying to expand my repertoirecomfort foods are encouraged>>38502318yupactually impossible to do stuff when its coldI've been putting off going to the store for hours now (it won't stop snowing)
>>38502836comfort foods… hmm I’m partial to a big pot of chili on a cold winter day.
>>38503861chili is on the list of great winter foodjust tried making shakshuka (kinda fucked up by letting it simmer too long though) and it kinda hit the same spot as chili desu
>>38502836Feijoada, bazalma flat bread, coconut dal
>>38502836Lasagne isn’t super easy but it is really good and just impressive enough to bring to potlucks
>>38502425Just ask, maybe she’s busy, or nervous about rejection. Most answers to romantic related questions will be received by just being direct
Brown eyes do something to me man, it's like a swirling Stygian abyss I can't look away from
>>38504129Yeah, OP— if you like her, there's no harm in being direct and upfront
>>38498458That's what she's aiming, anon. She wants you fat and delicious.
>>38497940Time to training mobility and do stretching regularly to go back at sucking yourself.
>>38504129Yeah I’m gonna message her and just ask what’s going on. I’m sure she’s got some kind of hang ups or whatever, but I’m willing to work through it if she’ll just tell me what’s up. I’ve tried beating around the bush but clearly that’s not working. I guess I’m worried I’m gonna spook her by being direct but whatever. Better than the flakiness
>>38506064Maybe phrase it like “I really like you and I’ve had a good time seeing you and maybe I’m just tripping but things have seemed kinda distant in our latest messages, everything cool? “
>>38504567:>https://litter.catbox.moe/7f5mzd.jpg
>>38502836french toast. its easy and delish>it won't stop snowingjelly>>38504567Glad to hear that somebody feels that way. really feels like i got dealt the short stick in the eye color dept
>>38504112Lasagne is easy mode once you figure out how to make a good bolognese, imho. It’s literally two sauces, some dough and a sprinkle of cheese and butter for decoration.
>>38504567This, I can't explain it but I feel pulled in by some brown eyes in a way that other colors don't, almost hypnotic>>38508100>french toast. its easy and delishNow there's an idea>jellyAs long as it doesn't melt and freeze I to ice. Its so very pretty when it's freshly fallen>>38508597>>38504112Man, might have to ask mom for her recipe, she makes a banging lasagna>>38504102Dal is lovely, gonna have to try feijoada
>>38502836Caesar salad. It's so fucking easy once you get the dressing down: egg yolks, parmesan, bit of vinegar or acid, some anchovies or worchestershire sauce, oil of your choice, spoonful of mustard if you want, then just toss it in a blender and blend. Rest is just salad and chicken and croutons.
>>38506783That’s good. I was going to wait until tomorrow anyway so I’ll send something like that and post results if any
Are hookups with guys dangerous due to the whole aids issue?
>>38509591yes. but aids isnt really the only concern as theres dozens of diseases floating around out there, and hookup types are the highest risk group to have them. A lot of them are delusional 'antivaxx' types who dont even want to believe these diseases exist, others will just lie about being tested and clean (theyre not) so they can get laid. hookups are still a terrible idea
>>38509591Honestly just chat with people for awhile and block anyone who even suggests fucking without a condom is an option.
>>38509591Just use a fucking condom.
>listening to new Ethel Cain songsGod, why do I do this to myself?
I can't be the only one who pronounces it "big-gen," like "diggin'"
>>38511550Hell yeah, I do this in my head all the time (but maybe I pronounce it more like bigg-en)
>>38511550I pronounce it like Biden but with a G that sounds like a J. I'd rather have your version.
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>MOVIE NIGHTMOVIE NIGHT>MOVIE NIGHTMOVIE NIGHTA reminder that tomorrow at 22 GMT we will vote for the next two movies for Movie Night! If you want you can also give your recommendation by replying to this post>what the hell is "movie night"its a special night where bigen comes together to watch on Discord two movies chosen by the community>when will movie night take place?its FRIDAY at 23 gmt>where do we watch the movies?on the Bigen Movie and Game Night Discord server:https://discord.gg/4D3b4tcP>i don't usually post on bigen/never took part in movie night, can i join?of course, movie night is open to anyone, just remember to be civil and have fun!fyi: this is the list of every movie we watched so far:https://pastebin.com/Bc8pqK9h
Started with season 2 of Squid Game (up to ep. 3), way better start than the first season had.Also god my sleep has been total dogshit lately. Haven't slept for more than 3 hours at a time for a few nights now.>>38515694I'll go with the new Wallace and Gromit, "Wallace & Gromit: Vengeance Most Fowl"Unless that isn't available yet (it should be), then I go with "The Boondock Saints" cause Dafoe is in it.
>>38515694Sonic OVA
New thread I guessExcuse the lame QOTT ^^'>>38517140>>38517140>>38517140
>>38515694Colombus (2017) !
