Any man who dated a BPD whore can relate to this film
Are you being obtuse or are you really that dense?
>>220981316Yes
>>220981316I don't know what obtuse means.
>>220981274>crazy fight >she finally falls asleep in your arms>lay awake shellshocked at the insanity of it allThis was so real
>>220981527It means you are being acute
>>220981613thanks for the compliment, I've been doing my hair differently
>>220981274Actually no. BPD chicks are depressed 80-90% of the time. Rare mania episodes are extremely fun and based if you don't let them spend money.
>>220981591That would suck I would not put up with it. I have a BPD sibling and the yelling and screaming and snapping just fucking drove me right into alcoholism.
>>220981274never watchingyour names are marry adult vids and enemy number onei can will have and shall never stop saying kill yourselves and have every right to threaten you if you anything physically or otherwise anywhere around mei repeatkill yourselves
>>220981274If she had BPD she would have more piercings and tattoos
>>220981678Meds now
>>220981687The fucking wish gave her BPD. By the end of it she tattooed and pierced herself retard
>>220981687But that chick has 1 piercing and no tattoos
I haven't seen either but Obsession looks genuinely interesting with a compelling narrative and Backrooms looks like memeslop
also im not racist but i blame religion and nationalism for overpopulation and will not put up with childish behavior from anyone or anything everits actually impossible for me to because im bipolar
>>220981689Ill stuff you into a sock you wore as a baby
>>220981274The pouty face before banshee mode happens.
>>220981689Ill minceyou into ground meat with my feet and fists
>>220981678>schizophrenia: the post
>>220981689Ill turn you into pavement and then jackhammer that into dust and then asphyxiate your family with it
>>220981687we know of such a being
>>220981755>>220981763>>220981791Im begging ya take your meds
>>220981689Ill set off a dirty bomb in a maternity ward with your kids in it
>>220981802Things got worse after that.
>>220981689Ill start a civil war in a different country and ship you to it in a box labeled rations
>>220981741>>220981755I'm taking a massive shit right now. want me to post a pic of it coming out of my asshole?
>>220981819Obession (2026) is just the idubz story
>>220981689Ill turn your skin to leather and make a really exclusive line of shoes out of itthat i sell for uranium to make the dirty bombs with
>>220981850But a wish didn't make his wife into a demon, she already was a demon.
>>220981857she is the wimp lo of succubi
>>220981689Ill ferment your blood to make molotovs to burn your home church and workplace down with
>>220981854Look at him go!
How many of you can relate to these a crazy bpd ex have said?>I would kill myself if I wasn't so scared>My ex was abusive/raped me>All my friends turned on me, nobody was ever nice to me. Unlike you. >You're like my best friend (after only talking to her for a few days)>How can you even say that?! (pointing out something minor)
>>220981879>she is the wimp lo of succubi
>>220981815>>220981831>>220981854>>220981886Please anon. Take your anti psychotic medication
>>220981902Easily those last 3 every time, with all 5 being occasional. Also saying they love you and want to get married within 2 or 3 weeks of first meeting you.
>>220981274My bdp latina ex would always hit me. She was 5'0 just like Nikki too. A couple of times I straight up punched her back. Never in the face though.
>>220981689Ill set up a tip jar and a salvation army stand and use the proceeds for gasoline to light a fire in every school you ever attended
>>220981902I've lived through all of these lines
Every boy should be given classes on identifying and avoiding NPD/BPDemonsIt will unironically save young men so much grief
>>220981932Oh I see now. This is a middle schooler kek
>>220981689Ill melt the eye lenses of every person youre related to ten generations deep and aside into a whiskey flask for myself
>>220981689actually id just punch you in the face and not even very hardgood day sir
>>220981932>>220981979Do you need a recommendation to a cheap online psychiatrist?
>>220981922Then getting cold on you randomly for no reason.
>>220982446This. And can’t forget being mopey and pouty or irritable but you can’t point it out even in the most supportive and positive way you can otherwise it’ll turn into a fight. Then inversely, if you ever have a slight frown on your face or so much as sigh too deeply at the wrong time, that’s a whole other fight.
>>220982446Every fucking time man.
>>220981924this is how you handle a bitch like this.A girl one tried the hitting shit on me. I looked at her and said "no one fucking hits me. If you do it again, I will knock you the fuck out and leave you"she never thought of doing it again
>>220982446>>220982605>>220982619They get it
>>220982446>wants to marry me one week>ends the relationship the next>then comes back another week later>repeat
>>220981689I'll suck your dick and eat your shit.
>>220982642The worst is the “rules for thee, not for me” shit where they hold your every action and glance and word that comes out of your mouth to an outrageously unrealistic standard that they would be appalled to be held to themselves. Not to mention that a majority of the perceived slights they jump on tend to exist entirely within their head or were a simple miscommunication at the very worst.
>>220982605>Then inversely, if you ever have a slight frown on your face or so much as sigh too deeply at the wrong time, that’s a whole other fight.Also they would do the whole constantly posting talking points about how men should open up more and talk about their problems and how toxic masculinity was bad.
>>220982728>left her text on read because you were too busy to reply>you don't care about me, how could you even do that, I was worried you were ignoring me>she spends the night at a male friends house and doesn't reply to you>ugh don't you trust me? you're being so clingy, I need my space
>>220982772>she spends the night at a male friends house and doesn't reply to youOh boy where to even begin… I mean I’m not even particularly possessive or anything and I don’t mind girls I’m with having male friends from like back in the day and stuff but holy moly I hope for your sake this is some cheap engagement b8 because that’s way over the line hat damn.
>>220982630ex used to always turn down my advances and only got some once in a blue moon. Got sick of it one day and just pushed her down, took out my dick, told her to suck it. Gave me a disgusted look, "No, what are you doing?!" Told her I wasn't asking. She looked caught off guard, then sucked my dick and swallowed. Sometimes you just have to put them in their place. They walk over you otherwise.
>>220982801And to be clear it’s not the “and doesn’t reply to your texts” part that’s the issue here kek
>>220982801oh it gets worse. She told me she broke up with her ex and then she got together with me. Only thing I knew about her ex was he rode a motorcycle. One day at her house I saw a motorcycle outside. >who's bike is that?>oh it's my brother's>isn't he 16?>he has a learner's permit>oh...ok
>>220982877>>220982772The fact that there was more than one incident tells me you didn’t just end it immediately. Why not? Did she get her mental hooks right into you?
>>220982960They fuck like wild animals man. It is difficult to let that go. NTA but I feel his feels in my feels if you feel me.
>>220982988>They fuck like wild animals manOnly times in my life I've cum 4 or more times each night. Insanely good and also slight painful, and gross since she wouldn't clean up and just wanted me to fuck her again immediately.
>>220982818Uh huh yeah uh huh uh uh uh huh yeah what happened next bro I've got my chode in my hand and I'm about to coom bro haha yeah bro COOM a hyyyUUUUge rope of steaming semen bro hehehe yeah what happened next did she say "THANK YOU SO MUCH, SIR, THANK YOU FOR YOUR CUM OORAH" please say yes please tell it all how you put that BITCH in her PLACE bro hehehehe
>>220982877Holy shit, have some self respect man. I’m hoping this is some distant past shit and you’re not this much of a pushover dink nowadays.
i had completely repressed a memory from 15 years ago when a dudes long term gf(6 years) came out with a knife against her throat and swore she'd cut her own throat open if he didnt ask her to marry him right there. 20 witnesses. shes still a complete fucking looneytunes retard too
>>220982988I prefer sex with someone that loves me though. There really isn't a better feeling holding her close, rocking it slowly deeper and deeper, her breath in your ear and legs wrapped around you.
>>220983062so did he marry her?
>>220983062They never change. They go to therapy eventually, but it's just a bandaid.
all women have BPD
>>220983092It's a scale.
>>220983062A lot of bros have this experience which is the real reason this film is resonating. Its not cuz the incel shit, thats what the bpd women want the discussion to be about.
>>220982960Got dumped before and was kinda desperate just be with someone. She was very manipulative though, constant guilt trips, if you care about me you would do this, if you love me you would do that, my ex would have done this, etc etc. >>220983031few years ago. Idk haven't really been in a real relationship ever since and I just end up ghosting girls when I'm not feeling it anymore. Probably not healthy but idk. Can't be bothered anymore.
>>220983082>>220983079a month later his close friends went to their house while they were on a date and packed up all her shit and put it in a moving van. there was a cop and her parents there too. she saw the pig and went fucking ballistic and bit the cop on his finger so hard she hit bone, at which point he whacked her in the head with a baton. the concussion didnt help, said friend eventually had to move to london(ontario) to get away from her and she asked me every time I saw her if he was living with me (she asked everyone that) and asked if she could check to make sure. I didnt let her but a female friend of mine did and she tore that bitches apartment up, threw the TV on the ground, kicked her dog and kicked several cabinets off the hinges looking for him. last time I saw her was like 3 years ago and she gained a lot of weight and picked up a habit of screaming the n-word randomly. literally was smoking out of a meth pipe on a toronto street and get saying "OHHH NIGGER" after each puff. God damn cassandra what the fuck
>>220983152>picked up a habit of screaming the n-word randomly. literally was smoking out of a meth pipe on a toronto street and get saying "OHHH NIGGER" after each puff.I'm sorry for your experience but this is fucking hilarious.
>>220981274This is one of the kpop semen hunters singing voices bitches and like the first thing on her wikipage is about her being The BPD Incarnate.also all of her actual songs she wrote fucking SUCK
>>220983092"All women are bi. The mystery is to figure out whether that's sexual, polar or both."
>bpd is trauma dumping on you about her ex and you realise you're about to have the best sex of your lifeit is worth it bros don't listen to these bozos, just don't get attached. she gets bored of you and moves on to the next guy you just dip out instead of trying to win her back (she is definitely telling him that you are a rapist abuser)
>>220983152>let me just hit that pipe one more time>OHH NIGGERi laughed too much. Theres a homeless guy in my town that yells "NIGGERNIGGERNIGGER" every time someone tells him he cant have money. hes definitely some kind of handicapped but its genuinely funny, I've been called a nigger by him like a hundred times
>>220983181>hey man can I have a dollar>sorry, me a working person, doesnt have a dollar>wow, must be a black man, I should greet him>NIGGERNIGGERNIGGER
>>220983177>(she is definitely telling him that you are a rapist abuser)That would be why you don't do it. I never had that situation but most of my gfs has BPD and the manipulation and seeds of deep seated shame they plant in your brain just ferment and rot you from within. Just find some nice girl and fuck her silly, ez clap.
>>220983079>>220983152>Cassandrayeah that shit tracks
>>220983201he's not doing it because he's like stupid. he does it because he seems to believe that if he provokes someone and that person beats his ass he can sue them for everything they own. now people have been arrested for beating his ass but no lawsuit ever happens as far as I know of and he still seems to believe that as long as he doesnt throw the first punch he is the victim in the altercation, and this includes spitting on people, because "its not a punch".
>>220983169>first thing on her wikipage is about her being The BPD Incarnate.what does it say? >also all of her actual songs she wrote fucking SUCKIsn't she the voice of the rapper? She barely had any lines in songs
>>220983064I agree. That's not guarantedd after you leave the BPD demon though. Could leave and end up with no sexo at all. Could stick around and keep sticking it in her and pray that she doesn't try to stick anything in you. I'm glad things didn't work out with my crazy ex and I found a normal more traditional woman who loves me. Feels good man.
>>220981274You're shit. Psychology is shit. You have nothing to say and aren't admirable in any way.
>>220981274tfw no cute BDP gf to ruin my life
>>220983224>That would be why you don't do it.who gives a fuck what the next guy thinks of you? he's kissing lips that had my cum all over them lmao
>>220983152kek
>>220983177>it is worth it bros don't listen to these bozos, just don't get attached. Good advice honestly.
>>220983224I have no social media so I think I'm safe from being cancelled by her.
>>220983253https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rei_Ami#Personal_lifeher music is bad. it's like she's the asian equivalent of a wigger. a latter day tila tequila if you will
>>220983374yea she's batshit. Probably only fucks white guys while talking about being proud of asian representation or something
Anymore BPD girl stories bros?
>screams and bangs her head against the wall because wrong toppings on pizza>spends hours screaming at me that i ruined her life and will kill herself if I hang up>9 hours straight>hang up>call me crying saying she needs to go to the hospital because she slit her wristsevery 2 months, repeatyes she was incredibly hot and craved my cock sometimes and out of my league looks wise
>>220981274I dated a diagnosed BPD girl. It was a roller coaster and would strongly advise people to not get involved with BPD girls.But no, this movie did not whatsoever depict what BPD is.Good movie, but BPD is not girls making exaggerated faces and doing psychotic shit.>>220981642There are huge hot/cold swings, but that's not making a scene at parties or doing psychotic gore stuff. It's more like everything's going great, you're mutually deeply in love, then the next day she goes ice cold like she could not give a fuck about you and never did.
>>220983946Really makes me wonder why we do it sometimes. There was one I was seeing and my friend kept saying she wasn't worth it, since she'd call at 2am with the same bullshit and I'd have to talk to her until she was calm, which could take 2 or 3 hours. I never got any decent sleep the whole time I was seeing her.
>>220983967Are there any decent movies that do explore BPD women in a realistic way? Or are all the ones that do somehow still try and make the guy look like the ass because Hollywood? Genuine BPD seems like it would make for a good thriller/horror movie.
>>220981657Try not to drink, and don't let them determine your life.I say this as someone with an alcoholic father with a personality disorder.It sounds like faggot advice, but clean living may just be the best thing for you.(Clean living will occasionally make you want to go on a rampage. Don't.)
>>220981657Someday you'll be old enough to just cut them off completely.
>>220983946>craves cock for days at a time>to the point of grinding on me while im half conscious just to get off>fingering herself with my hand at the movie theater>cosplays whoever i wantyes she was a sex demon. but I would seriously not recommend this to anyone. she sucked every last bit of empathy out of my body and made me into a different person. I don't think I can feel emotions for another human being the same way ever again. just being screamed at, held hostage, threatened, for hundreds and hundreds of hours if you add it all together. Until every interaction is just walking on eggshells for years. Knowing that the slightest lapse in tone, tiniest slight, any joke you make, facial expression can turn into a 72 hour nightmare from hell.
>>220981628Kek
>>220984013>yearsYou managed to endure that long? Goddamn bro. I only manage about 8 months.
>>220981274Yeah bro that scene with her in the restaurant getting dirty looks from the other patrons made my asshole clench. women are so FUCKED sometimes.
How do BPD women even function in day to day life and hold a job if they're so ready to snap? I went out with one and I just couldn't fathom how she managed to keep a normal and steady 9-5 job.
>>220984029They fuck their way through their lives, aren't good at holding jobs or living situations. But they are also more likely to explode at the people they can get away with it.they will have trouble holding a job, but they aren't going to throw coffee in their bosses face probably
>>220983985thin line between love and hate and fatal attraction
>>220983974relatable, sleeping when she's sperging the fuck out is like the worst slight you can ever make.
>>220984040Maybe she was lower level BPD, I don't know. She had long periods of being pretty normal and being really happy, but then at some point she'd hit an extreme low where it was like everything was terrible and she kept saying how she didn't want to be around anymore. But then a few weeks later she'd correct and go back to super happy again. Maybe they can just hide it at work since they know they need money to actually keep going.
>>220984053>fatal attractionEven that tried to say Michael Douglas was the piece of shit in that one, which never made sense to me. Original ending was meant to have his wife leave him and then the BPD bitch kills him.
I do not like the ptsd this thread is giving me. Mine was a lawyer that I dated for three years.
>>220984057I think all of these issues blend together and mix together differently in each personsome are more bipolar, ptsd, bpd, in different levels. My BPD foid wasn't prone to cheating at all, but she still displayed almost every other behavior for example.
>>220983734>told me she liked it when her ex beat her>during sex wouldn't stop scratching me unless i pinned her down, wouldn't stop biting me unless i choked her>posted her own nudes online then accused me of doing it>asked me to do rape play with her by "breaking in" in the middle of the night and fucking her while she was sleeping and even if she woke up and didn't want it i shouldn't stop>let me use her like a public toilet but would never give me a blowjob but would swallow if i wanted to cum in her mouth>took it up the shitter>molested by her dad>totally submissive fuckmeat but still proposed we enter a cuck relationship where she would cuck mecompletely insane but totally worth it, was just a fling for a few months because i knew she was crazy from the start
>>220981274>GUISE GUISE WOMEN ARE SUCH ANNOYING METOO VICTIMS AMIRITE BUT I HAVE TO MAKE EVERY POSSESSION MOVIE ABOUT MY TIME DATING SOME ANNOYING FAT CHICK WHO PISSED ME OFF FOR A FEW MONTHSGod shut up already
>>220984071Same with mine, dedicated to me like absolute crazy, but would also break up with me from time to time (only for a week or two though).
I've been too afraid to try dating again, I feel like she's probably gone around telling people I'm a terrible person and not to date me or some shit. I didn't even leave my house for about a month when the final breakup happened. She presents as pretty normal I guess but her friends were also kinda weird and I'd probably guess she's moved on to some other guy now.She seemed to remember conversations in extreme detail too and exactly when they took place, so she'd always refer back to something I said at any time and it was practically an exact quote. It was really weird. Like a "you said on this day that blah blah" and compare it to something we were talking about currently and things like that.
>>220984019she threatened me. ended up splitting my entire life in two and just constantly lying to her about whatever im doing to avoid her exploding. I tried to become the most boring person possible.I had to split off my entire digital footprint in two, and just make up a boring ass backstory for any activity I was doing at any point in the dayshe would get jealous rage if I did anything remotely fun or interesting. Like I better not even be reading a fucking book, watching a youtube video even, literaly fucking ANYTHING EVER that I did was a source of jealousy.
>>220984081 Ssri foid babble *rapes you*
I'm not watching this shit. I read just about two sentences from the plot and I already know it's retarded.
>>220983734>finally got the balls to end it>waah, let's still be friends>fine whatever, actually ended up fucking her a few times afterwards>keeps asking me to do bf shit, driving her around, buying her shit, listening to her stupid problems>gets annoyed when I don't want to hang out with her>"You know, it takes two to make a friendship work">"It feels like you don't care as much as you used to">bitch that's the relationship talk, you just replaced the words>I just want us to do things like we used to when we were together, just without the physical stuff>fuck off
>>220984128Maybe I've just been lucky, the ones I've been with were on a lower level. They still go mad or jealous about shit though, one even used to go outside and scream at my car if I'd spend the morning washing it instead of spending the morning with her.
>>220984157Thanks for letting us know jit. i wanted some breakfast today but I ended up not eating any. *spits on you*
How do women get BPD? Is it something they're born with or is it because their dads left?
>>220984203>one even used to go outside and scream at my car if I'd spend the morning washing it instead of spending the morning with her.so fucking insane FUCK THESE BITCHES
>>220984203>used to go outside and scream at my car if I'd spend the morning washing it instead of spending the morning with her.
>>220981274>Any man who datedI can't relate sorry
What's worse, gf with BPD or mother with BPD?
>>220984217I think it's a combination of being born slightly off and then a series of events following. I was with a BPD girl where both her parents were still married and she had a great relationship with both, so I don't know what the true tipping point is. She'd had a lot of shitty boyfriends prior (gamblers, drinkers, abusers etc) and I was considered the best one by far, but she got rid of me fast over basically nothing. Maybe she was just too used to having seriously shitty boyfriends and want to go back to what she knows.She was also really into shit like getting bitten during sex and I don't mean lightly, she wanted it to the extreme. It could be pretty scary how far she wanted to go and I wasn't really willing to go to the max.
>>220984261Mother, easily. Which reminds me as well, I think it might be hereditary since my ex was BPD and her mother was also very BPD.
BPD isn't realThe criteria is literally like>impulsive>promiscuous>bad at relationships>depressiveAka every bitchy slut foid2/3 of foids are "BPD"
>>220981687MODS
How come BPD is more common now though? It has to be some societal factors
>>220981802red riding hood looking up at that pussy, like she knows it haunted
>>220981696The reason she got the tats was she was copying the ones that sarah had cause she thought that's who bear liked more. Mimicry is more of the psychopathic flavour imo.
>>220984136>has ptsd every time he sees a hot chick make a spoopy smiley face Stfu timmy you ain’t raping no one the BPD fat chicks probably peg you
>>220981689I'll kiss your cheek and wish you good-night.
>>220984517it's a combination of mental illnesses being better understood and thus diagnosed better and also society trending more towards absolving people of any responsibility for their actions. the exact same thing is happening with adhd and autism. all of these things are actually fairly uncommon but if people are raised by shitty parents they're much more likely to exhibit behaviors that are consistent with some sort of mental illness or neurospecial criteria so they get diagnosed with the condition which absolves them of responsibility for the behaviors so they just get worse. i know a ton of adults and children that have been diagnosed with fake conditions over the last few years.
>>220984261Had both sadly. Mother actually got nicer and way less insane after she had a stroke.
>>220984644My brother was diagnosed with ADHD when we were kids.They did a concentration test without medication and a test with medication and he did better without medication.They still prescribed him medication and diagnosed him with ADHD.I think it's a real condition that people suffer from but some doctors are quacks.
Hire a Hooker or Date a Milf if you truly want to stop being an Incel love is overrated
>>220981763Watch it, Maichen.
>>220984707it's ridicolous how many kids are diagnosed something nowadays, basically every other child has dysgraphia and dyscalculia and an attention disorder, either the pollution and the education system are producing retards or this shit gets diagnosed way too easily. It's probably a mix of both
Holy shit this thread is incel central. Fucking losers.
If you truly loved someone you would be perfect for them, you wouldn't let yourself have BPD. You'd make yourself flawless for them...If you don't, you don't truly love them enough...
>>220981274Which women doesn't have it, amirite fellas????
>>220981689Ill poop in your closet
>>220981850Holy shit......
>>220981956Don’t care, the sex was worth it.They are the only chicks why try to keep up with a young males 3 times a day desire to cum.Or will make blowjobs thier personify
>>220982772>>she spends the night at a male friends house and doesn't reply to you>>ugh don't you trust me? you're being so clingy, I need my spacelol if a bitch ever hits you with shit like that she knows you arent the kind of guy to tell her what a relationship is and stand on it.Its a shame so many Dads out there are financial support simps and teach their sons by osmosis that having a girl is basically about tolerating her. Meanwhile, those sons grow up into a world full of Tyrones being broke and slamming pussy.>>220984029Long story short is that they dont. A crashout happens eventually. My sister is BPD and has basically never known long lasting employment, she is a career waitress and substitute teacher. She will work until she is dead with no benefits and due to how she lives I kind of expect her to die before me or possibly my mother.>>220984407BPD is absolutely real. When you meet a BPD girl she will spiral waaaay the fuck out there if she is not taking care of herself and frolic around very high risk people on top of being emotionally wild. Both a normal girl and a BPD one will fuck Tyreese granted but only the BPD one will fuck someone else.
>>220984217It's like how a shitty diet can give someone diabetes, a shitty balance of attention growing up gives women BPDToo litle attention can be mentally fatal to a woman, but too much growing up sets them up for the Mother of All Women Moments when she hits the Wall
>>220981956>>220985085The only problem with BPD bitches is when you don't have another girl to fuck while she's acting up. Well, unless she's the psycho chop your dick off in your sleep kind, but that's pretty rare. Oh, and STDs, but that goes for hoes in general.
>>220985148> >she spends the night at a male friends house and doesn't reply to you>>ugh don't you trust me? you're being so clingy, I need my space>lol if a bitch ever hits you with shit like that she knows you arent the kind of guy to tell her what a relationship is and stand on it.What does this mean? I need help.> a shame so many Dads out there are financial support simps and teach their sons by osmosis that having a girl is basically about tolerating her.>Meanwhile, those sons grow up into a world full of Tyrones being broke and slamming pussy.Yes this was me and my dad but I’m not sure what do to
I hate women now so I’m fucking trannies plus their buttholes taste delicious
>>220985181It means that BPDemon has clocked you for being a guy who will make concessions to get a crumb of pussy instead of a thug who will kick her out on the street in the middle of night because she didn't want to suck your dick.
>>220985200I prefer to die than becoming a homo like you
>>220981274what an annoying film why I even wasted my time , atleast when you are casting make the male lead somewhat easy on eyes and feel this dude was a blabbering retard pussy for the whole movie ,dude was sounding like walt jr from brba .
>>220984217>>220984277Boarder line personity disorder expert here.Just because they have have a “great relationship “ with thier dad doesn’t mean it wasn’t actually very unhealthy.That’s the rub. They don’t understand heathly relationships Becuase what they think is healthy is actully detached abondonment and reattach love they got from thier father and the love bombing from thier mom.And yes it’s due to the dad, but the dad might not have to be gone, it’s usual,y mroe lie,y he was just away at work all the time.They are also usually too close to their mom, it’s actully not heathly to tell your mom about all your boyfriends
>>220984189Exactly. My ex tried to get all the boyfriend service even after the breakup. Of course she would not do her girlfriend services anymore. She was dating someone else, how could i even ask that? Fuck off.
>>220984277> She'd had a lot of shitty boyfriends prior (gamblers, drinkers, abusers etc) and I was considered the best one by far, but she got rid of me fast over basically nothing. Oh you sweet summer child.
>>220984594Timmy means victory jamboy.
>>220985228Nobody said you have to
>>220985181It means you say something along the lines of>That isnt appropriate for someone in a relationship and I dont want to be with someone who believes it is. Do what makes you happy but if you go I am breaking up with you.Then if theres further dialog just say that you mean it because shes probably gonna try to nag out your consent to cuck you. Either she storms out and you are free or she concedes then you make her go spreadeagle in your bed if you fail to shes just starts fucking him behind your back
>>220985349>do what makes you happy.Sounds beta as fuck honestly.Just say no, and tell her to walk or act like an adult
>>220981274Was she BPD or just Latina?
>>220981689i'lll... uh... sorry guys im out of ideas...(o_o)...some weather we're having huh?<(-w-)\
>>220985410Telling her no is a great way for her to stick around and plot some dastardly shit. We all want a girl at the end of the day anyway who chooses us. That mentality anyway is how so many fuckers just keep a bitch around that keeps toeing the line rather than just having their fun and moving on to the next when she irrepairably fucks up.
>>220985420Damn. So Latinas peepee and poopoo all over the place? And you dags say I’m weird for wanting an Asian waifu
>>220985545People say you are weird because you probably live in america and asian women are known to get mogged intensely hard by other races which you have access to.
>>220985515That part. I have a few ex relationships where I said no instead of giving the bitch a true ultimatum and it bit me in the ass. Women will ALWAYS do what they truly feel, you cannot control that, so saying no is just letting her fuel up some other shit to throw you off to the point that she can slip by with something. By telling her you don't play that shit from the jump, you either get a loyal/obedient woman or you find out right away if she's someone whose going to give you push and pull.
>>220985713>Nikki is a perfect representation of latinas!>Nikki shits and pisses all over the place and I’m ok with that! I LOVE TO EAT THEIR SHITTY ASSHOLESYeah, and I’m weird… ooook
>>220981527Kek. Best response.
>>220985758Yeah you get it.>>220985410There are going to be times in a relationship where you gotta let her make up her own mind or at least display loyalty and ditch the whole "Am I dominating her or am I a beta?" shit. Thats one of them because in certain situations just asserting control without a clear conciousness can lead to further issues.Sounds uncomfortable because Tyrone said no and still has his girl but Tyrone is paying for it behind the scenes.
>date PBD girl thining you are going to have amazing sex all the time>she is in bed most of the time depressed and then dumps you and tells all her friends you raped her.
>>220981741Damn, your badass.
>>220984029bpd is not a real disorder, they just pretend to act crazy for attention. when there's no one to observe and react to their behavior they behave normally. or also, if there are real consequences and they know that people around won't stand this type of behavior (like your employer, for example) they won't act bpd as well
my first three gfs were bpd. i just go to bjj class to get abused because the current one is a sub. she makes me choke her and i just pretend to do it because i imagine i am choking myself.
>>220981741What would religion and nationalism have to do with it? You’re acting like people only put pee pee in vagina when a priest tells them to?
>>220981755>>220981763>>220981791>>220981831>>220981854why is this faggot not banned for spam? mods, do your easy ass job
>>220985849Bro you ok?
>>220981902I think the easiest way to spot it is if she can’t maintain any friendships. Like she has a new “best friend” every month and then something minor happens then she is no longer on speaking terms with her and this cycle just repeats over and over
>>220984029they don't or at least not the woman i know. she couldn't finish college, she couldn't hold a job with more than basic responsibilities, couldn't manage her money.and they never learn. in the short term there is some self-pitying soul-searching but in the long term it's always the other person's fault x100, that's why every single one of their exes just so happens to be a rapist or wifebeater.>>220981956i have been saying this for years that it's all well and good if girls get lectured on how to avoid being raped or protecting themselves from aggressive men, but boys need the same warnings about fucking looney toon women running around ruining lives (their own and yours). when men hurt women it's physical and there is evidence. when women hurt men it's usually invisible but men need to know how to see it.
>>220981902>>My ex was abusive/raped meTHEN WHY IS HE STILL IN YOUR DMS
luv me latinas
>>220981274is this horror about relationships and love, as it seems.i cant watch anymore movies about relationships and love, i just wanna throw up at this point, our society has gone to for with this sappy bullshit
White men should racemix with latinas but only let the girls live.
>>220983026based
>>220985885I like being abstruse.
>>220981274There's quite a few BPD women having meltdowns on reddit about seeing themselves in Nikki
This movie reminds me of the webcomic craze of the 2000s where every stupid teenager depicted his self-insert with an "obsessed girlfriend". Just get it in your head that this will never happen and stop spending your money on relationship porn.
>letting a woman's tantrums get to youweak sauce
>>220981819she has a rather unfortunate face, her body is not the best but it's passable but the tattoos, holy shit
>>220987522This. If you can’t handle a BPD woman then no one is forcing you to date one. I can’t even tell my GF has BPD most of the time, she keeps it a secret and she’s very good at hiding it. I think she’s only split on me once, I got blocked like I was nothing.Then I threatened to take legal action against her if she didn’t unblock me (she doesn’t even live in the USA any more, it was obviously an empty threat) and she’s back to loving me even harder than she did before.I think modern men are just too pussified to know that you need to terrorize women sometimes in order to get on their good side. Maybe that’s why birth rates are declining.
>no one realizing the wish didn't give her BPD, it simply enacted the wish based on what Bear meant by "love" because he's emotionally immature and empty inside.>this is why the dinner date scene is so important, her face shows she's clearly feeling vulnerable when she admits how much she loves him, only for him to basically talk about another woman (the real nikki), as well as his question breaking the illusion she thought they were mutually enacting. It was at that moment whatever entity was enacting the wish realized Bear didn't love them back, and began to lose it's shit.>it lost it's shit simply because love is only rewarding when it's two ways, not to mention it was trying it's best to show love according to what Bear meant, and was literally driven insane when it wasn't working because it didn't know any better.
>>220981831fuck this one got me lmfao my sides
>>220987480>BPD women not having media literacyImagine
>>220987588Good observation, anon.
>>220985252how come most BPDs are white women not black though if the dad is the issue?
>>220981727Backrooms actually has some interesting ideas to ponder. But it’s like baby’s first Lynch + Kubrick
>>220987588>man is actually bad>no one realizingno, there's actually a lot of similar to your posts on twitter where people imagine "between-the-lines" fake lore to justify blaming the guy
>>220987695Thank you. I've been telling people this and they can't get beyond "muh BPD".It's really what makes the final scene what it is. She's trying to copy Sarah because she and Bear are connected (immediately shown when she says "My cat just died" even though she doesn't have a cat), so she felt the connection Bear and Sarah were having prior to her death. This was the first time "Crazy Nikki" had new insight about Bear other than his cat, which is why she drew tattoos on herself and started smoking. It was literally desperate to do whatever it could to adhere to Bear's interpretation of "love", but because Bear didn't even know what love meant, the entity ultimately had nothing and was miserable and driven insane.I thought this was obvious but I guess not.>>220987770>man is actually badBear wasn't even bad at the beginning, he was just pathetic. He can't be classified as a villain because he doesn't understand what he's done, which is why he constantly talks to Crazy Nikki as if it were actually Nikki. His breaking bad moment doesn't happen until she quite literally begs him to kill her, and he gets offended by it and leaves. That's when Bear changes from just pathetic loser to villain. Then, the bodies start coming in, and it's all his fault from there on.
>>220981689I'll have a deluxe cheeseburger, hold the mustard, waffle fries on the side and a medium Dr. Pepper.
>WAHHHHH THE BPD GIRL WITH THE INSANELY GRIPPY PUSSY RUINED MY LIIIIIIIFEholy fuck modern “men” are so pussified it’s insane, no wonder your girlfriends leave you. Tyrone the crack dealer might be a nigger but at least he doesn’t complain about his woman’s made-up mental illnesses lol
>>220987872We're discussing the film anon. Thank you for your pointless post though.
>>220987807So in the movie the guy actually knows in the end it's some form of a demon possession but doesn't do anything about it because he's such a chud incel and le bad? Didn't watch the movie, but if it is true then I won't
>>220987894No that's not actually how the ending plays out at all, he finally does have to face the consequences in a manner of speaking.
>>220987915Well I just watched a few yt videos about the plot and it does seem that Nikki is the victim and the Bear guy is chud incel and the bad guy in the situations regardless. Another "men bad" movie. Not gonna watch
>>220981819imagine being hasan and having this creature keep trying to have sex with you, he deserves it but somehow i feel bad for him
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>>220987973>I watched retards that didn't get the movie and based my opinion on thatApply yourself.
>>220987872Brother the hordes of "average" but pathetic men people complain about have their female counterpart and it's not ugly women, it's BPD whores and mentally unstable womanchilds who are attractive enough to get barely competent men to fall for them but too unwifeable that chad won't even touch it because he can get attractive women who are intelligent, fun to be around and are actually emotionally mature. They're both as bad as eachother yet you only criticize the guys. hmm
>>220987997bro you said in your own post that the reason why Nikki behaves in such a way is because of the twisted and ugly idea of love that the stinky incel Bear has, he might not be directly responsible for turning NIkki into a monster because he didn't fully understand how the wish works, but things only happened because of what a vile chud he is. If he was wholesome and good inside (like Nikki) it would be ok
>>220986931>PBD girl
>>220987980i doubt he even thinks about the jomhas at all let alone talk to them at this point
>>220988030I'm glad you clarified that you can't picture an apple in your head, thank you for your contribution.
>>220987706have you ever seen a black woman's behavior? tell me thats not mental illness
>>220987980All Hasan thinks about is sinking his thick turkish spear deep into Asmongold's bussy.
>>220988131woah suddenly you don't write a passage and don't discuss a movie, just unprompted insult. nothing to say anymore?
>>220987056retard
>>220988133What? That is just their culture.
>>220981902Actual suicide attempts via overdosing and cutting count?
>>220988211called out?
>>220985420this is the guy that made the ducktales post isnt it
>>220988209Why waste ammunition on a dying creature?>>220987056Yes and no. BPD has been intermixed with Schizophrenia, and BPD now is basically girls using it to mask their inability to take any responsibility for their actions. The original meaning though did have some merit.
pre-maritial sex and underage drug use is the cause of mental illnessprove me wrong
>>220988325>Why waste ammunition on a dying creature?retard you have nothing to say, fucking nerd.you waffled into thread writing pretentious midwit articles and when were faced with your own contradiction instantly folded, literally under zero pressure, and started passive-aggressive insults. and all of that on the anonymous forum bro, I really hope you are younger than 21 because being adult and behave like this is a disaster
>>220988290called out on what? a disorder that, according to you, doesn't exist? lmao
>Ignoring the warnings about BPD girls cause figured it was an overblown meme>Insanely hot, first few months were incredibly, she was hyper interested in everything I did, sex was amazing, made me feel on top of the world>All of a sudden she becomes distant for no reason, begins to go back on tons of things she said, I literally can't keep up because all her established opinions and preferences have completely changed up>Randomly starts talking about guys she's DMing constantly, clearly trying to make me jealous>Look into the BPD thing, realize she has been literally doing the 1 to 1 script of how BPD relationships play out>Break it off instantly>she loses her mind, spreads my info online, calls up family members saying I raped her and put a baby in her>Luckily she had a history of going to psychiatric hospitals so no one bought into anything and it eventually fizzled out after about half a year of no contactWild thing is I talked to a bunch of people with BPD exes and nothing I said is interesting because they all without fail play out the exact same fucking way every time, do yourself a favor anons, do not get involved with a BPD chick, I don't care how lonely you are, I don't care how hot they are, you aren't special, your dick isn't going to cure the very serious and often malicious mental illness they have. You want some toxicity in your life? You're better off getting an STD cause at least it'll be consistent
>>220988391>you think it doesn't exist, chud? prove a negative to me!bruh
>>220981274Thought about this while watching.
>>220987056ULTRA TRUKE
>>220988379Look who's making the passages now that he's mad. Surprised you had it in you.
>>220981902>Nobody itt has been hit with the "I wish you would just leave me"
>>220988414>Look into the BPD thing, realize she has been literally doing the 1 to 1 script of how BPD relationships play outTherapy is what's killing relationships anon. She was love smitten, but needed someone else to write the script for her because she's "mentally ill".BPD is a medical term for women genuinely in love and we let them get away with it.
>>220981902my ex told me I was pushing her to kill herself cause we disagreed over whether all fast food chains should have drive through windows or not, I'm not kidding
>>220988603that would be true if not for the fact the love part only last a few months at most and then it turns into them trying to actively ruin your life
>>220988622Case by case basis anon, but it does sound like you're speaking from personal experience.Sure, some women are batshit, others are just retarded and encouraged by therapy, and some women do actually still exist that are confident and not retarded.So what happened?
>>220987894Yeah this movie just sounds like another "Barbie movie" situation where idiots pretend it's not intentionally telling the male audience needs to be morally scolded while the female audience is probably vindicated for whatever reason.I too would like to be condescended in my entertainment if I were daft and easily amused by this shit. But apparently I already am just for personally finding this unpleasant. Whatever, it's a skip from me.
>>220988635I'm not talking about women as a whole but BPD women in particular and it is literally all of them, every single BPD relationship plays out the same, the BPD cycle is very well studied
>>220988678>I dated one BPD woman and I know everythingDismissed thank you.
>>220988696>StrawmanConcession accepted
>>220988710There's no strawman here my man, you don't know what you're talking about and it's pretty obvious.
I dated a BPD girl, to make me jealous she tried to hook up with my sister who found it incredibly disgusting, those bitches be crazy
>>220988729nta but he's right https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/borderline-personality-disorder-relationship-cycle
I love women.
>>220988760>nta>linking to the same study he screencappedGo to bed my man
>>220988805except its notsomeone forgot their meddies this morning
>>220988805You lost.
>>220988836>I actually didn't cite sourceGood bait my man you had me lol
>me, 11 years ago, 27 year old virgin>strike up conversation with an attractive 41 year old woman at a local bar. >she looks like a cross between Courtney Cox and Andie MacDowell. She's divorced, still co-habitates with her ex-husband (who is gay, they had a lavender marriage), has a 18 year old daughter. Gives me her number.>Arranged a date a couple days later. I'd never gotten far with women so I figured I'd give it a try, she was really hot and seemed into me.>Date goes well, she invites me back to her place, lose virginity>Have lots of sex over the next week, things seem like they're going well, really enjoying time with her>still have zero relationship experience, so two weeks later I casually ask her (because of our age difference) "where do you want this to go?" just wondering if this is more of a casual thing for her or if she wants something more serious>she FLIPS the fuck out. Screaming, yelling, hitting me, insulting me. I was totally shellshocked, never seen anything like this; her reaction was absolutely insane.>she starts chugging whisky from the bottle, strips off her clothes and walks out the front door totally naked, still screaming at me>holy fuck someone is going to call the cops>her ex husband hears the commotion, helps me coax her back in the house, tells me this sort of thing happens>what_the_actual_fuck.png>spent the rest of the entire night being insulted and belittled by her for having the audacity to wonder about the future of our relationship together because she's apparently in love with me and has abandonment issues>leave because I have to go to work, no sleep, just completely rattled after her meltdown>see her after work>she's apologetic, crying, begging for forgiveness etc>I give her another chance>over the next couple of weeks, things vacillated between her being bubbly and fun to being pissed and manipulative.>Again, zero relationship experience, at the time I thought this was normal.
Since so many people are posting their experiences in this thread I want to know what to do here: Before she became my girlfriend (2 years and a half), we were dating very casually, sort of like friends with benefits type thing fir 6 months, since she'd just ended a 7 year relationship and wasn't ready to jump into something new. She told me he was abusive and would constantly attack her, all that... she'd constantly send me texts during that time at random hours like "Handsome! What are you doing??" or "I miss you"... we live probably an hour away from each other but would see eqch other once a week at minimun. 3 weeks before I confessed my feelings and told her I wanted something serious, she went to a one week trip to another state to visit her sister and stay with her since she "missed her". That but she was also acting very strange, suddenly saying "I hate my town and I hate my job, I might just go ahead and live with my sister and make it there!" and would jump back and forth those days before her trip. Well, she went, came back and then decided to stay. 2 weeks later I told her I don't just want to be a fling but feel like I'm falling in love and want to actually be in a relationship together.She's very much shown symptoms of being bpd (break ups constantly that last a day or two at max, arguments due to miscommunication, "rules for thee not for me", etc). But she's been getting better, since the last time I was the one who told her that I wanted to break up and she seemed to actually get scared of that and begged me to take her back and that we can work things out.Well back to present day, she randomly confessed to me that apparently that week, almost 2 years back when we were friends with benefits, she actually didn't even visit her sister. She went to visit and stayed with a guy she had a crush on in 7th grade or some shit like that (basically before they were even 15). She said they basically had sex all day long.
Yeah my first gf in high school, she was the principals daughter, she was bat shit insane but very hot so you know how it goes...we got called the police on us twice because she was screaming and throwing things and neighbours thought I was hitting her or something.
>>220988675A hit dog will holler. Normal, healthy men would find Bear's behavior pathetic. Because it is.
>>220989060Using sex as a tool is really common for BPD girls which is why they tend to be very good at it but it also leads them very prone to cheating and sleeping around
>>220983062I knew a guy around 13 or 15 years ago who was dating a girl that did the same sort of shit when they'd visit friend's houses. We were all hanging out for 4th of July and she was threatening to kill herself with a steak knife while all of us but him ignored her. Later than day she dragged him off to have sex in one of the other friend's beds, seeing that happen one of the guys went and threw a condom box at the two of them but she refused to use them and got pregnant. They ended up not married but living together until he started balding and getting a bit chubby so she started cheating on him with a guy who was into literally everything he was and even look like him but younger, balder, and fatter. He took her back in the end though, retarded as it is.
>>220989060(Cont) And apparently, she was also still seeing her ex and even going on dates with him during that time, and that her ex actually knew of this week she had with her crush that he went berserk, quit his job to go look for her to only "talk". She said she found her ex once from a distance and he was angrily walking and searching, so my girlfriend and the other guy left the scene quickly.She told me all this, and I didn't even know what to tell her but thought to myself "This sounds too dramatic and retarded, what the FUCK". She tells me to not take it too personally, about the other guy since at the end of the day, I won her (her words), and that she truly loves me. I did let her know several times that I want to either go to couples therapy but she doesn't believe in that and whenever I tell her I'm thinking of going to therapy, she gets angry. She also consantly, CONSTANTLY, accuses me of cheating/infidelity, though I don't even have friends, I just read books and comics all day or shitpost here. She is very attractive, she was even a model back when she was younger (she's late 20s now), so I really have no idea why she's so insecure. She also gets mad whenever she finds another woman "looking" at me.
>>220989117I wouldn't know because I haven't seen the movie. Regardless, I assume it's shit anyway.
>>220989060so what do you need a help with? should you stay with a bpd slut who travels to other cities to have a sex party with random men? idk bro, your call
>>220989043Continued>Things continue in this way, it really stesses me out. I have to walk on eggshells every time I talk to her. she has an eidetic memory of every mistake or perceived error I've ever made, criticizes me viciously and then comes around being apologetic afterward>notice that she spirals out of control whenever she drinks>become extremely paranoid and fearful whenever she has access to alcohol.>she starts involving me in her life in ways I'm not really yet comfortable>For instance, accompanying her daughter to events (Anon will you take my place at this dinner with <Daughter>, I can't go and I think you'd enjoy it more anyway)>Realize that I'm miserable in this relationship, and I'm also terrified of this woman>Everything reaches a breaking point one day when I'm texting her on a Friday morning trying to make plans for the evening, but I didn't respond quickly enough to her text message and she puts me on read for the rest of the day>Panic because she's obviously pissed now but I didn't do anything wrong>Get a message: "I'm downtown at The Whitney and if you care, you'll be here before I leave.">Leave work, go downtown (this is in Detroit) find her at the bar . She's already wasted, making a scene, and all over some guy>Finally reach my limit. I'm ending things tonight, but I need to get her home first. >Attempt to get her to leave the bar. She has an EXTREMELY public meltdown, screaming, yelling, slapping me>People are looking at me. Oh fuck, I realize that they will take her side no matter what. I could get arrested, I could get jumped, or killed. There's nothing I can do in this situation. She will always be seen as the victim, and people will assume I'm the abuser, when it couldn't be further from the truth>She exits the restaurant, still screaming at me. I walk after her, thinking I need to get her home (I should have just fucking left). People are stopping their cars, asking if she's okay and if I'm bothering/hurting her.
>>220981831Fucking kek
>>220981274The difference with mine is that mine basically hated me and didn't care if I walked awayGive her heartfelt gifts? Hated me.Bought her food and comfort. Hated me.Loved her. Hated me.Tried to protect her. Hated me.Tried to put her on a healthier path. Hated me.Meanwhile her degenerate loser "friends" enabled her drinking and behaviour. I actually fucking hate women and their little circles. As we all know, women even so called friends love the downfall of each other. Fucking vile.
>>220989201you assume correctly. but anyone who needs to confirm the impression can torrent the camrip.
>>220989043>>220989309Call Stefan Molyneux, I need to hear 2 hours about this while he gets you to explain what a fucktard you are and then has to spell it out for you anyway.
This all sounds kinda like a girl I work with but not quite as bad. Even other women think she's fucked in the head. Found out she claimed I sexually harassed her, but it went nowhere because there was no evidence and she's done this kind of thing many times before.
>>220989193>I really have no idea why she's so insecureWhat other way can anyone spell it out for you? You are trying to rationalize why someone who is mentally ill feels and does the things they do. It is because they are MENTALLY ILL. There is no rhyme or reason to it anymore than there is to a schizophrenic thinking lizard aliens are trying to insert computer chips into their brains.
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>>220989309>I set my phone to record audio and put it in my pocket, because if I get arrested I need evidence that demonstrates my innocence.>She continues to have a public tirade through the streets of Detroit>Walks all the way from The Whitney to Cliff Bells, screaming at me the entire way while I pursue her>I'm pleading with her to just come home so we can talk>She goes into Cliff Bells, ignores me, and starts ordering drinks>She starts looking for her phone, then accuses me of taking it>"I don't have your phone, it's probably in your purse...">"No you took it.">She yells some more, then checks her purse. Her phone is in her purse.>She stares daggers into me, throws her purse at me, then slaps me across the face and rushes outside.>I'm stunned, people are looking at me and thinking I just did something horrible to her.>I go after her. She is outside; almost running down the street now. She throws off her shoes and keeps going.>I gather her purse and her shoes, take off after her. >For the next four hours she drunkenly stumbles around detroit, screaming at me about how she loves me and I don't care at all about her and this is all my fault.>I finally hit my limit and blow up at her, tell her I can't take this anymore, I'm done, I can't do this, you are putting me through hell.>She threatens to accuse me of rape. "If you leave, I'll be in stirrups in an hour getting a rape kit, and you're going to jail." My phone is recording the whole thing. >I don't know what to do. I just know I need to get her home, and then I need to get the fuck out. >She finally agrees to go home; but she is driving herself and won't have it any other way.>Follow her home, almost hoping that she gets herself in an accident. >Get back home, she continues her tirade, continues drinking. I tell her I'm done, and she needs professional help, I can't fucking help her.>She grabs a bottle of blanton's, runs up the stairs, drinks some, and then throws the bottle at me.
>>220989404i tried but he got angry when i only paid him a single dollar
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>>220989081Oh and btw after that she lied that I hit her and her sister also said she saw me hit her which is insane, I've never hit a girl and especially the principals daughter. She also told other girls that my dick is small so they wouldn't fuck me after we broke up.
Why can't they just chill?It takes a lot of energy to throw a melty.Are they not consciously aware that doing nothing would be better than to freak out?Does their Fight or Flight self-defense mechanism have some wires crossed?Is it that shit test thing they do gone out of control that they can't keep fucking up?Are the the sort of women that got burned up as witches?What is the motivation for this BPDemon behavior? What do they expect to get out of it?>inb4 "muh men"Yes, some men also have low-impulse control and throw violent temper tantrums, but that has a pretty obvious root cause: these men believe that being dominant and violent will secure them a higher position in the social hierarchy., keep the women and children submissive and scare away the other males. Modern Western Culture frowns upon this behavior but that is how most of the world has operated most of the time.Is this the same for BPD women? Do they try to keep the man submissive and scare away other women? Is this an attempt to present oneself as a challenge for a high status male to try and tame them? I would understand if woman's main malfunction was subtle manipulation not outright terrorism.
>>220989639>whisky spills at the base of the stairs. I go to get a towel to clean it up, but she runs down the stairs and slips on the whisky, falling on her leg. >"This is going to be a huge bruise. I'm going to tell them you did it. I'm going to tell everyone you threw me down the stairs.">Realize that recording this conversation is the smartest thing I've ever done in my life.>Get her on recorded audio threatening to accuse me of rape, making shit up about me, and general psychotic nonsense.>She goes to the sink, and picks up a knife, and threatens to cut her wrists.>I grab the knife not so much because I think she'll hurt herself, but moreso because I'm worried she's going to hurt me. Cut myself in the process. >She begins to sober up, then becomes extremely apologetic; begging me to stay. >I tell her that I'm fucking done with this, and I leave. >I immediately call a lawyer and seek legal advice about protecting myself from this freak>She is still desperate to contact me, I'm not responding to her messages or texts. She even calls my mom's place of business and leaves messages there saying that I need to call her because she's pregnant. >She even tries to have her daughter reach out to me and say that "Mom gets like this, she's better now, she's in alcoholics anonymous and she's on meds again">Never responded to her. Never want to see her again or have anything to do with that fucked up family. Anyway, borderline women are fucking insane and will ruin your life. Don't care how hot they are or how good the sex is. They are all fucking crazy and should be in institutions. >>220989404This was my literal first experience with a relationship, and I was dealing with shit I had no capacity to navigate. I don't really care what you would have done in my position; I hope you never have to.
>>220989886>trying to rationalize the behavior of mentally ill peopleits crazy to me how incapable normies are of understanding what mentally ill actually means. You know that time you were black out drunk and shit in your neighbors yard? What were you trying to accomplish with that? Did you think that would get you a wife and happy family> Did you think that would bring you closer to god? This is ho retarded you sound when you are asking why someone who is mentally ill thinks they are bruce lee and attacks some rando on a subway train. They are fucking psychotic and out of touch with reality.
>>220988571Because this is the BPD thread, Daddy Issues is two threads down
>>220981274What film is this?
>>220989947Terrible example
>>220989992Backrooms
>>220990000No it isnt. It is a perfect example. When you were black out drunk you werent think of any larger narrative, you werent even really in control of your own actions, nothing you did had some larger meaning or goal, you were barely even sentient as far as your true personality and consciousness is concerned. You had no idea why you were doing the things you did let alone someone else being able to
>>220989992Death Proof (2007)
>>220990033That's why I used to do cocaine and speed.
>>220990000
As an Israeli, I’ve been dating women since I was 14. Now I’m 28 and married.I’ve had 5 serious long-term relationships (each lasting more than a year).Out of all five, only two were normal.The first girlfriend cheated on me and later stabbed her sister. She even wanted me to defend her in court.The second one cheated and then became a lesbian.The third was normal, but her parents were very religious and extremely controlling — to the point that it felt suspicious.The fourth started off normal but later developed schizophrenia (possibly linked to Ashkenazi genes). She became paranoid, accusing me of spying on her with the Illuminati. She also told me she laughed when her father died.The newest one (my wife) has no red flags so far, and I really hope none appear. She cooks for me, cleans the house, and has normal hobbies — she plays Might and Magic 8, RollerCoaster Tycoon, and enjoys old Soviet-era TV shows and cartoons.
>>220987056>if there are real consequences and they know that people around won't stand this type of behavior (like your employer, for example) they won't act bpd as wellThis. Every single one of them can turn it off at will for work and nobody ever talks about this. They can spend a sleepless night raging at their boyfriend breaking every plate in the house and then immediately work a 6 hour shift at Starbies being all smiles for the customers. This proves they don't have some hormonal or neurochemical imbalance that makes them lose control. They are always in control and extremely calculating. They simply choose to exclusively pray on their families and partners out of some sick desire to cause suffering to their own tribe and their own tribe alone. One of the great failures of our society is that this extremely common "disorder" is not better understood. I have a theory that it happens when a loved one abuses them as a child, perhaps them getting raped by their own father or brother. But the human mind is able to bury that trauma so deeply that even the BPD woman herself forgets it ever happened on the conscious level. It eventually manifests as aggression against her own partner down the line because, deep inside, they still feel that those closest to them are always the greatest threat. Just my theory.
>>220981274most people who claim or think they were with a bpd probably weren't as they have no idea what a real actual verified bpd psycho cunt is like, that schizos in and out of different states of appearing to have a soul and then turning into a demon within seconds and staying in hat state for hours or days to the extent where you can see the person you know in their face in the slightest.
>>220990122>The newest one (my wife) has no red flags so far
>>220990130Bpd to narsicisim pipeline
>>220981657sounds like for one you're a cunt, so post tits, and your brother very likely isn't a bpd because it's almost always women, regardless or what lying leftist freaks try to claim
>>220990146Yeah, one day she's says she loves you and can't live without you and the other day she's cursing you out and saying the most horrible shit and throwing things - rinse and repeat.
>>220990149I only married her after two years of living together She never ranted about her exs or any of the bullshit She also dost have guy friend's and told me she dosnt believe in that
>>220989201All the weirder how offended you are at the film. Hit dogs holler loud.
>>220981678explain furtheryou've clearly bothered the disgusting tranny jew viral marketers
>>220981274NORMIES GET OUT REEEEEEE
>>220981689I'll batter your throat open with a fencepost
>ctrl + f rapist>3 results unrelated to the movieObsession is about how rapists should kill themselves kek>But let's keep talking about... LE JODI ARIAS
>>220990176well I hope she turns out legit for you bro. You obviously have a pattern of being attracted to bpd women, likely because you mom was bpd and it is an unconscious bias towards them. Only once you realize you have this bias can you correct it.
>>220981741also I'm not a racist but I want every single last third worlder and halfbreed on the planet to be ground into dust, mixed ith cement and sunk to the bottom of the mariana trench
If this was >>>/a/, you can bet the anons could fix the so called BPD girls and live happily ever after.
>>220990122I'm an iisraeli too, and I met my third wife while bayonetting children
>>220990130>serial killers arent actually psychopaths because they can avoid murdering their landlords and bosses at workstfu you goddamn moron. They dont "turn it off." Just because psychotic people can function in society doesnt make them sane. They dont form close enough relationships with other people for those people to see the little inconsistencies in their behavior and thinking patterns
>>220990130>They can spend a sleepless night raging at their boyfriend breaking every plate in the house and then immediately work a 6 hour shift at Starbies being all smiles for the customersand you think this proves they are sane instead of the opposite? Apparently you too are mentally ill (or really stupid)
>>220990285every single plebbitor, tumblrite and jewtube commenter is apparently a world leading expert specifically on "soceoparths" and "phsykerparths".despite never having spent a decade training to be a psychiatrist, nor knowing the difference between them or even be able to define either.
>>220990334>pot meet kettelI am 49 years old and have studied this disorder for over 20 years and written numerous articles and even a full length book on the topic. Nice projection though mouth breather
>>220987973politics aside imagine watching literally any horror movie. I just go read the plot summaries on wikipedia if I'm intrigued by the hook and I have never once thought, "damn I wish I had actually watched that instead!" They are either mindless schlock like Terrifier or preachy, thinly-veiled liberal sermons like Get Out.
>>220981274It's funny but this is true as I've been unfortunate to have dated two BPD girls and it was suffocating but, I'll be honest, they were the best in bed I've ever had, crazy in the streets, crazy in the sheets and miss wearing their crotches like feeding bags while scratching my back with their toenails!!!FACT!!!
>>220990357lol. Then you should know how rarely the "I was insane" excuse flies in court for people accused of committing atrocities. Vast majority of serial killers are literally ruled as sane as part of the judicial proceedings you old dumb moron
>>220990226Thanks My mom has severe OCD and my dad died when I was young, but my grandparents raised me and my brothers.I used to date BPD girls because they were easyMy worst experiences with BPDs actually came from work, not relationships. At least in a relationship you can eventually cut things off and learn from mistakesThe worst part about living in a Jewish country full of simps and pushovers is that BPD women get positions of power so easily. Almost every job I’ve worked here had a BPD manager or HR woman.It’s grim. I can see they only get those jobs because they fuck the CEO or the boss. They flirt with coworkers and give benefits to their favorites. Working under BPD women is worse than being in a relationship with them.Tel Aviv is a very grim place. I just want to go to work, earn a living, and not deal with this retarded gay-ass BPD episode every day.Every time a coworker flirts with me even though she knows I’m married, it makes me cringe.I got illegally fired from my job 4 months ago. I was smart and took a lawyer to the hearings. Now I’m in a major lawsuit against a big company because of this it will probably be on the news soonBtw 99% of the idf girls posted on 4chan are bpds whores
>>220988184cause of the roach stuff?
>>220981902Pretty much. Blamed me for her suicide attempted. Accused me of rape. Has no friends and talks to other people but calls them but pet names, not real names. Told me she was in love with me after like 1 or 2 dates. Currently emailing a lawyer about her ongoing bullshit. It's not fun at all. She's psycho and I wish she actually succeeded at her suicide.
>>220981689I got a friend with benefits who got put on meds and they ruined her. She went from being fun and nuts to boring and uninterested in anything including sex.It's criminal that doctors can just hand these kinds of drugs out to people like candy.
>>220990479Yea, people quote that shit wrong all the time. "Not guilty by reason of insanity" does not allow the person to be released to the public. Usually people who claim this for real are borderline almost unable to even testify, they literally don't get reality. John Hinckley Jr. actually got this, he did 40 years in an insane asylum instead of a prison.
>>220990182>All the weirder how offended you are at the film. Hit dogs holler loud.Not really, I hear about a movie being popular, I give my input. I don't like these gender war ass movies that wanna appeal towards this audience. If you call it "offended" then sure. I wouldn't bitch about this shit if it weren't attacking my sex and assuming I don't understand basic shit like sexual consent. It's borderline just nihilistic bullshit and insulting. You wanna like this, fine, but I'm just pointing out the obvious.
>>220990130>>220987056The original issue i think being ignored with how they can function in a job despite being batshit insane to their bf's and family is that in many workplaces you'd be surprised at how incompetent you actually need to be to get outright fired. It's not uncommon for employers/bosses don't exactly like firing people cause they know to some degree there's a risk of it fucking their life up and they hate confrontation. Take the starbucks example. They're not fucking full blown schizo in some psychosis mentally ill. Their mental illness doesn't impede their ability to put some fucking beans into hot water and milk ffs. Since they can manage basic fucking tasks most jobs require they can often slide by but in the workplace environment of working with coworkers they might obviously seen as problematic or like yeah this bitch is weird i don't wanna be friends with her or interact with her more than i have to. And they're going to get even MORE of a pass with social friction and whatever headaches they do cause cause they are attractive enough women. Unless you work the same job with them you have no idea what it's truly like you're FANTASIZING about how her 8hr shift goes from day to day. Their relationship with their fucking boss isn't also triggering all the trauma around relationships and being loved like a bf or family member would because they're a fucking employer who might barely even interact with them or just a casual level in MOST cases. Have some of them chimped out enough to get fired at one point in their life? sure. Does BPD being a real mental illness excuse any of their behaviour? No.
>>220982801I did that once with a friend of mine who was going through a rough patch after a breakup. She lived about an hour from me so I told my gf I wasn’t gonna come home but I’d leave first thing in the morning and I spent the whole night texting my gf til I fell asleep on my lady friend’s couch. My gf at the time was pissed, and looking back on it a few years alter and yeah, it was a retarded thing for me to do. I’m not malicious though. I didn’t cheat at all. I guess I’m just oblivious to how healthy relationships look
>>220981924>My bdp latina ex would always hit me. She was 5'0 just like Nikki too. A couple of times I straight up punched her back.This except it's my latina wife's nieces. They're 19 and 17 now and they still hit me. My wife and her sister are 5'6 and nieces are ~ 5'0. Womanlets are just more violent in general because people tend to try to grab them more often and their fight or flight kicks in. It's probably my fault since I still manhandle them and throw them on my shoulders.
Isn't BPD now regarded as being often misdagnosed when it's really just CPTSD and most of these people in here complaining about BPD exes are dealing with CPTSD women. There's meant to be critical differences between the two that explains why some people are arguing whether BPD is a bullshit diagnosis when really it's just a misdiagnosis that is only recently starting to become more commonly understood with diagnosing.
>>220991053No you did the right thing it's just all the bad eggs that spoiled it for you damaging the trust in that relationship. Maybe you didn't exactly need to go over though to help her though? maybe you did? Life's not black and white it's full of grey and god willing, you chose to do what you thought was the right thing for a friend when necessary despite the consequences so it was probably not meant to work out if it became a crucial part of why the relationship failed.
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>>220991316It wasn’t although like I said, my gf was pissed and didn’t want to tell anyone why because I was worried it would make me look bad. My gf told me she has trust issues from being cheated on, so I should have respected that better. It’s fine though. My gf is still here with me and I’m far more grateful for that than I’ll ever really tell her
>>220981902I think my brother's ex had BPD. She talked about how much her parents abused her. And then I remember one day she was drunk out of her mind talking about how she would kill herself if he ever left her and how meaningless her life would be without him.
>>220984486fag
>>220989043> she starts chugging whisky from the bottle, strips off her clothes and walks out the front door totally naked,>…zero relationship experience at the time, think this is normal.You are just dumb if you have to be told chugging and walking out nude is normal
>>220989193>she was a model>why is is insecure You are confusing cause and effect
>>220989309Is she black?
