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>In case of urges:
- https://imgur.com/a/nofap-anecdotal-evidence-g4eGH
- Don't peek and Hold your breath for as long as you possibly can. The urge usually pass after that. If not, repeat.
- Horse stance or chair pose: Do it while clenching the abdomen and all legs' muscles, raise arms for extra blood flow redirection. Works both for killing erections or urges.
- Any physical activity.

On long clean streaks many report benefits that transcend current science like a sort of "magnetism" or higher "vibration/aura" that attracts/appeals to other living beings, a higher perception, a stronger and intimidating "aura/presence", a deeper connection with nature, an attractive BO (people usually report it as "pheromones") and more.

>Advices:
- Mental Purity 1.1: Semen Retention acts as a bio-electromagnetic amplifier. Watch the quality of your thoughts because your inner state will get amplified and manifested. Lust is the Ojas killer. Do not engage with Lust.
- Mental Purity 1.2: Keep a journal as a tool for introspection.
- NEVER watch porn of any kind.
- Remove triggers from your life. Masturbation is a bad habit. Break that bad habit.
- Focus on achieving a goal. An art, a craft, competing, etc.
- Meditate and/or Pray Daily. Try a minimum of 5 minutes to start off.
- Exercise/Gym/Sports/Martial Arts. If it is something social even better.
- Good habits like healthy eating, water fasting, dry fasting, sun exposure and cold showers do seem to speed up the process.
- Sublimation: literally using the energy.
- Transmutation: changing the quality of energy to something different. (Surya Namaskara, 8 brocades, Tibetan rites)
- Avoid stimulant drugs such as caffeine or adderall

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Keep in mind that the efferent nerves attached to your testes necessarily means that any lustful thought, image, or sound is necessarily a command to your junk to produce sexual fluids and this is the reason why celibacy is first and foremost of the mind
The root of this entire matter is the mind - without conquering the mind, celibacy is a futile effort
The signals from the brain happen on the subconscious autonomic level
This is why any lustful thought, image, or sound is necessarily a command to the sexual organs to produce sexual fluids (the more intently you look, the higher amplitude of a signal gets sent: body > afferent nerves > brain > efferent nerves > body)
Therefore "Conversion of sexual energy to something" is necessarily a HORRIBLY inefficient process (Not to confuse with Sexual Transmutation)
Fluids will be reabsorbed, but the energy and materials cost to make it vs how much is "taken back" via reabsorption is SEVERELY unbalanced and super net negative
Sexual fluids are made from the cream of the crop of the body's resources - constantly generating them means that you are constantly draining away the cream of the crop of your resources.
Taoist writings said that the sexual organs will even take primacy over nourishing your other internal organs at some point. (Thus, doing a spiritual practice as a coomer is a surefire way to die faster).

Scientific evidence and interesting reads
https://pastebin.com/q4rLprGs
https://pastebin.com/qbTd4Lai
https://pastebin.com/dzA2yCdr
https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/rebooting-accounts/rebooting-accounts-page-1/
https://www.acupuncture.com/education/points/kidney/kid1.htm
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/32356125

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It’s always good to remember why /x/ is the most accurate place for this topic: SR is one of the clearest paranormal inducing topics among all discussed on /x/. It’s a sacred practice that has been the one of the main focuses in every major religion or spiritual practices. The mystical side of it is what we try to focus on.
SR can be also be seen as a political issue. The porn industry is a tool made by the Jews to deteriorate and corrupt societies. Porn works in ways that program new sets of behaviour in its audience and because of its strong addictive qualities they stay hooked. The most important goal for porn’s male audience was and is the release of their semen. As we now know, the disadvantageous consequences of releasing are heavy: a man becomes less of a man, he gets sick and weak, his mind numbed, he will have impotence issues etc. Upto the point his spirit almost dies.
SR is beneficial to make one healthier and stronger, more fit, if you will. So the topic could be discussed on /fit/. Anyone looking for more ways to get fitness gains would benefit hugely from the SR.
Also SR has so many other benefits that it could be discussed in the /adv/ board. These would be topics how it improves one’s social life, mental state, makes more time to be more productive etc.

The biggest benefits of SR are mystical in nature and the whole practice is fundamentally very close to the spiritual side of things. All the other topics in /x/ are left far behind and SR actually makes this board of any relevancy. This is also known by the enemy and they make strong efforts to suppress, hijack, twist to end this discussion.

X-related YouTube videos:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oby08eHpIOw

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# # # THREAD HYGIENE PSA # # #

Starve the shillery.
No attention for them.
No replies.
Focus.
On.
The.
Prize.

(Pro tip > Hide shill posts: Click on the arrow next to the post number, click 'Hide', Comfy.)

Do you struggle with sissy, trans, futa, or other faggy porn?

>>41840401
TRVKE but ankhing, goonmaxxing and actually getting laid come in at a close second, third, and four

https://youtu.be/pQs26c1klAU

oldfag here, Waifu(ism) is purity, to be devoted to one singular concept instead of a multitude of cosmic death fun-guys inside your anus (PORN addiction arises from CDF / the wormpill, google 4chan x archives).

Collecting images to build a tulpa is more pure than to ejaculate to various subfetishes. It also impresses AI researchers.

Once you complete your first cleanse your become A(lpha) sexual, the first kind of sexualism that Adam and Eve practiced.

According to my research, of course.

>>41840381

Last thread inspired my first short streak in years. Only got to 7 days but didn't binge and didnt use porn. Didn't even fantasize really

This small streak felt different to past attempts and pretty easy. In the past i would obsess over nofap threads and constantly be thinking and battling it but this time it has been in the back of my mind. Meditation definitely helped. Today's fap felt intentional although it still wasnt worth it. Gonna go for 21 days this time.

This morning before i fapped i woke up from the most awesome dreams, very vivid and enjoyable. I don't really remember them now but i remember them feeling fascinating and mystical. There was definitely a small sexual part though

Tomorrow in going to taiwan for 3 months. I've been studying mandarin like crazy but using the language is still gonna be really tough and will require a lot of confidence and social skills. I hope SR will help with that. However my porn addiction has definitely always centred around Asian women, especially Chinese women, so I'm a little worried that I'm gonna be overstimulated and full of urges/ tempted by dating apps. Gonna try to keep that under control and will keep a little blog here i think

>>41840629
Interesting, my 4th tulpa manifested this week, as a spawn from the 3rd.
The 1st tulpa thought it would not be possible to have more than three, but here we are.
The 3rd is the shadow tulpa who guard the door to the threshold, and is associated with the color purple.
And curiously, the 4th is related to a small green door. I saw a thread about green doors in the catalog a while ago.
The journey continues.....

>>41840629
There's no need to make it complicated.
Use SR to purify yourself
Then, take advantage of magnetism to find a similarly pure wife
As God intended
This is just intuitive. You know in your blood this is what you do. So do it

Hahahahahahahaha How The Fuck Is Relapsing Real Hahahaha Nigga Just Take Your Hands Off Your Dick Like Nigga Close Pornhub Haha."

>>41841312
Based

>>41841312
Based Tyler the creator reference.

>>41840629
My Tulpa is unironically helping me with the streak, telling me to not jerk off or peek at porn etc whenever I'm about to slip up. She's actually doing it with me too, even though it's miserable for her as well. That's how you know it's true love, and not just a succubus larping, when you feel the sacrifices they make for you then you just know.

Whose gonna Gog or Magog their own load before they get a girl!

All y'all that for sho

>>41841312
jamal calm yourself

Masturbation is bad.
Masturbation with porn is even worse.
Masturbation with porn and ejaculating is a downward spiral.
Masturbating with porn under the influence of drugs and ejaculating. Good job you just programmed your brains reward pathways into a system of external stimuli.

Reprogramming your brains reward pathways takes YEARS, not 3 days of not jacking it to pixels, not a month of not watching porn. It takes fucking YEARS, keep that in mind.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a1Um1Njhe2Y

And if thy right hand offend thee, cut it off, and cast it from thee: for it is profitable for thee that one of thy members should perish, and not that thy whole body should be cast into hell.

>>41842923
>And if thy right hand offend thee, cut it off, and cast it from thee: for it is profitable for thee that one of thy members should perish, and not that thy whole body should be cast into hell.
The first time I read this verse was around 20 years ago and that always stuck in the back of my mind for the exact reason you just posted it, until I programmed my reward pathways (and got propaganda'd by demonic faggots who used misinformation to keep me away from Christ). Ever since I returned to Christ the perspective of this verse returned as well and I must say, after all my years of wandering, I still believe this verse is primarily meant for this practice.

Sidenote: I'm being bombarded by wet dreams almost every day, but these demonic faggots keep losing through logic and I guess Christ saving my sorry ass every time I'm close to being tempted by waking up. The infidelic mind cannot comprehend.

>>41843130
It's good.

After a heroin addict has stopped using heroin intravenously they still get dreams of them injecting themselves for about 5-15 years depending on their usage.

Christ is not Bible stories or other christcuck mindcontrol bullshit.

Christ is truth and love. Period.

>>41843130
>>41842923
Christfags are so fucking gay.

>>41843252
I think it's the opposite actually.
Most of you niggers hating on Christ are literal degenerate buttfucking faggots, ngl.

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Reminder that this guy was retaining his semen

22 days. Definitely my longest streak since I discovered my penis. wagmi

>>41840449
I used to watch trannies when I was bored of my usual fare but once I got used to it it lost its appeal

>>41840449
>Do you struggle with sissy, trans, futa, or other faggy porn?
It's unironically a phase you grow out of. Some people get stuck in it though, they're the same type of people who still try to be goth/emo in their 50s/60s, but also a lot more people these days get stuck in it because you have """you know who""" endorsing it and saying it's normal, so they can't snap out of it as well.

>>41843690
>I used to watch trannies when I was bored of my usual fare
Pretty much me, I ended up wrapping back around to vanilla porn cause after a while you realise it's just degen and wiring your brain to be shit (all porn is but you get my point), you realise you're not just fapping to the thought of a warm hole or some nice looking parts, or imagining yourself doing it, but now it's more emotion based, like you're fapping directly to emotions, with weird kinks/humiliation tied to it which you obviously don't like but keep doing it anyway like some weird kind of self loathing ritual. So at some point you question yourself and you're like "why am I even fapping to this" then you just stop it and go back. You won't find this out for a while though, at first you'll be confused and not know how to process the emotion behind what you just fapped to, but after a while you will learn. Sometimes you just need to get it out of your system, but like I said some people never return from it. It's like going down the world's sketchiest slide that has a 10% death rate but it looks fun as fuck so you risk it, but once you get off you realise it wasn't even that fun and you're like that was stupid I shouldn't have done that. But now the death rate is actually 85% these days, and you have someone who covered up the sign so it looks like 0%. Now you have people being tricked into it that have no idea of the risk.

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42 days

Been having dreams literally every night since like day 30 something, so awesome. You can really tell how much you're losing when you abstain from self harm

>>41840381
Any anons married or in a relationship? Did anyone experience very tuned in gut feeling to possible infidelity? Something that didn't really happen before retention. The pair bonding with this practice I can feel this energy that something is off and it comes out of no where. It got to a point where the more sex we had (trying for child) I started going a little crazy like her energy was negative or vampire like. Thankfully I spent some time with a very feminine female friend and I was reset just like that. Its making me sad a bit as this practice has 180d my attraction and pulls me towards the most meek women. That makes sense though doesn't it? The meek are the best people and what our heart would be drawn to on a spiritual journey like retention.

>>41843851
Yes and no. You're thinking about it from a wrong perspective.
Men have the energy of the sun, which is a giver.
Females have the energy of the moon, which is a taker.

If a female in your life wants to have sex with you several times a day, that means she's feeding off of your energy, it's not intentional, it just signals an off-balance in terms of energy exchange. In short it means she takes more than she gives in return.

>>41842923
Based BogMan spitting wisdom

>>41843192
That's fascinating because I just saw a documentary about a fentanyl junkie who hadn't used in 8+ years and he said he literally gets sexual dreams about sticking needles into himself.

>>41843868
This is pretty spot on how it feels. Like I came out of it with less than I gave. Sometimes almost feels like an automatic response on my end to want to avoid it knowing how I will feel after. The lack of reciprocated energy leaves me in very depleted state after a couple of weeks.

>>41843897
Think of it as a compliment, means you're virile and full of life energy.

But the downside is, eventually you will be drained to the point where you will break and run off just to survive.

>>41843954
Appreciate the kind words and advice friend.

Oooof, I mean I guess I can try, but the thing is how is sex with the wife not the same? That makes no sense in my head, almost like semen retention is only for those not in committed relationships

>>41843992
incel coomer logic.

babby's first time in a relationship thinks it's all about appeasing the woman through ejaculating several times a day. ngmi

>>41844031
We have been married for 12 years you dolt, hahaha, perhaps you need to retain more semen to have better insights and not jump to conclusions

>>41844048
Will do, but you will have to promise me you will form a coherent sentence in the future so I can actually understand what you're trying to communicate.

>>41842426
Your tulpa is starving for loosh.

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>>41844048
>>41844056
Passive aggressive feminine energy on both sides. Humble yourselves. You're men. Act like it.

>>41844056
You seem to be communicating with me just fine. Retaining semen sounds like a single mans thing, because married men have sex with their wives (usually) and not having sex does impact relationships unless both parties have equally low libidos. I have retained semen, I do think its a postive, I do not think its ultimately a life changing endeavor though, and basically pointless for married men, married men should just abstain from masturbating.

>>41844071
You're right.
But you're a faggot for having a hasbik gif on your pc.

>>41844084
You have a point, and you seem wise. Why'd you act retarded at first, lol?

>>41844097
Im still confused on why you think what I initially said is retarted, it basically puts a stick in the tire spokes for this movement, semen retention cant really happen in any form of committed relationships, other than (as I said) abstaining from masturbation temptations. Was it me saying "oooof"?

>>41844119
Ya it can, taoist monks have practiced it for thousands of years.

You do know that you can have sex, fuck and suck as a man without ejaculating in the end?

Didn't they prove that you actually need to jerk of 21 times/month to be healthy?

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>>41844097
I don't know what a hasbik is, but at least you called me a faggot for "spitting in your face". I'll take that as improvement.
>>41844146
Yeah, your mom and I did the experiment together. Didn't she tell you?

>>41844142
Blue ball yourself, eh? That sounds like the ultimate discipline in the semen retention world, haha.

relapsed but it's okay because I learned something new

>>41844183
What did you learn?

If sexuality is based on electrochemistry isn't it then a form of energy? And energy cannot ever disappear, it transforms. So by doing semen retention you channel your build up sexual energy into something else. It would be very unscientific thing to say that semen retention do not have any benefits.
I do think that constant release of your electrochemical energy by a form of ejaculation is a deteriorating act.

>>41844201
I can see how it amounts to a build up of energy, but just holding onto it without any means to put that energy into something else makes it pointless, no?

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>>41844201
They fear the retainers, because eventually we turn into weapons of mass destruction.

>>41844177

If you do it properly you won't end up with blue balls.
An orgasm is more than just squirting semen.
And even if you have blue balls in the end, you can simply redirect the blocked energy to unblueball yourself.

>>41844213
Then use it to something productive. I wouldn't say that it's completely pointless even if you don't use it to anything because mental well-being will become better over time

Feeling depressed after ejaculating a lot in a wet dream. It wasn't even nighttime, just an evening nap. I slept in the wrong position putting pressure on my crotch, had a sexual dream and ejaculated fuck ton. Was feeling weak and physically couldn't get up after it. Is this progress reversed?

Day 4 and I've already noticed a sharp increase from my energy levels. I'm not exhausted and I'm actually able to function without immediately falling to sleep after work. Like a 20% increase

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>>41844350
Sounds like you couldn't retain your semen. Ahahaha XD get it? (pic related, me on the right)
In all seriousness, yes, but not completely. Let's say you're below 3 months, then you halved your progress. You need to fight the orgasm when it hits, read up on how to avoid/cancel wet dreams above in stickies.
When an orgasm hits it's like hearing a burglar breaking your window downstairs and entering. You can get up and fight it or lay down and let the fucker steal everything. Will you fight or perish like a dog?

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SRG humorposting
Each time you fight urges compare yourself to this guy

>>41844350
Is wise anon from the previous thread still around?
Thread 404d before I saw if there was a reply to my post.
>>41840565

>>41844375
I couldn't find anything related to canceling a wet dream in the sticky. Currently I'm on 1 month of SR with no porn (just a few peeks because of 4chan degen). I've had 3 wet dreams since I started retaining. So that means I've made no progress at all?

My longest streak was in 2022 for 6 months, but that was because I was completely obsessed with a girl and porn and masturbating didn't even come to my mind, I was spellbound by this girl. I ended the streak after jacking to porn when she blocked me. After that my max streaks have only been for 1 or 2 months at the max.

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>>41844486
>I've had 3 wet dreams since I started retaining. So that means I've made no progress at all?
Halve progress every time. Do the math. Realize that your issues are more than not touching your dick (for example, what to do with the extra energy/time).
>I couldn't find anything related to canceling a wet dream in the sticky
You're right. Check pic related. Not sure how to implement this in text. I guess it involves breathing along with contracting your perineal muscles. It probably won't work first try, but once you get the feeling it should work to at least minimize release, until you can fully cancel.

>>41844455
>>41844455
I'm not sure what I can say beyond what's already been said. I can't give you a particular diagnosis. Unironically I'd recommend chatgpt. Ask specifically about releasing trauma through physical prcoesses

It sounds like a lot of sex related trauma. Primarily from bpdemon gf who formed your initial sexual imprint, and you need to wipe that slate clean. Why were you attracted to a bpd girl in the first place? What anxieties, insecurities etc, drew you to her, and led you to putting up with that sort of abusive treatment?
But as I said it's not Just self reflection. It's about doing things. Go out and talk to normal women. Have a healthy relationship. Then you can associate sex and women with things beyond just your first bpdemon gf


You'll find lots of resources for this. But the key is it begins with the body. Not just talking. Trauma Release Exercises is a good starting point
Even deeper, you have Tantra. The goal of Tantra is complete reset of the central nervous system. Rewiring it to a higher dimension where every breath feels blissful. But that takes an immense level of dedication
You can start by connecting with your body, and noticing where the trauma is stored.
Apologies if this is not satisfactory. I just don't wish to talk on thngs beyond my understanding

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longtime lurker here. recovering sex/masturbation/porn/degeneracy addict. currently going on 5 days without acting out in any way. i already feel more clarity of mind, more energy and focus, reduced feelings of shame and self-hatred.
BUT.
i know from much experience that this is about the time i start to let my guard down ("yay i'm cured!") and the Enemy slithers right in again.
>"just one peak won't hurt"
>"for old time's sake"
>"it makes you feel so good"
>etc.
>[5 hours later...]
>i am disgusted and ashamed i want to kill myself
you get the idea. so even though it's all gucci right now i'm reminding myself to stay vigilant. i know i'm still an addict and currently enjoying the grace of an easy "streak." and i know the Enemy will attack again, but i'm also marshaling my own forces in preparation.
i know this all might sound schizo but Knowers know that nofap-noporn is really a form of spiritual warfare being waged within oneself. casting off one's lustful and degenerate nature is a battle for self-purification that transcends simply not touching one's dick and not watching filthy videos. it's a battle to reclaim a Godly perspective within one's self.
so Godspeed to you anons fighting this same fight and wish me luck in the days ahead as i know fresh "attacks" are coming.
also tips on how to get through this are appreciated. one anon said he did pushups whenever he felt tempted and that it helped and he also got jacked lol.

>>41844533
>(for example, what to do with the extra energy/time)
I do calisthenics for the physical. programming for the mental and creative, meditation for the spiritual. Is this not enough?

And are you supposed to be doing this testicle breathing all the time or just during meditation sessions?

>>41840381
Is edging wothwhile in any way
as way to charge energy?

>>41844694
Exercise is the best physical outlet as you're releasing the energy. But meditation teaches you hold that energy, calm it down and tame it. Both are necessary.

Even in exercise, there are two types. Strength based, and endurance based. Both are necessary for a proper development of the mind and body.

>>41844822
no

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I have masturbated eleven times so far this year.

>>41844880
Bro I’ve been burning an extra 5,000 calories a week for years… same weight… hell was created and then this guys shows up and makes it so much worse… it’s me bro.

>>41844071
woman, please stop analyzing how anons on here are posting. you're reading into bullshit because you're a female. just stop. you're trying too hard to appear tough when you are not. just relax

>>41844798
>Is this not enough?
You misunderstand. It's about the spiritual growth along the retention. You gain new perspectives, refine skills, etc. In short, keep it up and have faith in yourself.
>And are you supposed to be doing this testicle breathing all the time or just during meditation sessions?
The reason I gave this specific advice was mainly for when the orgasm hits during a wet dream. I don't recommend standing up, but as you're lying down (getting up makes it easy to lose focus on the perineal muscles), you pinpoint that feeling. Don't expect to do this perfectly right away, but eventually you can do it naturally.
Lastly, I'm not sure how I managed to do this with no knowledge, but I'm able to control myself in dreams quite well. This week alone I had 4 dreams where I'm certain were headed towards an orgasm, but I managed to get out of them before anything remotely close to an orgasm happened. As if I were playing an RPG and I made the correct choices.

Shill is back again, have fun guys.

>>41843851
look anon, if ejaculating inside of her is too big of an ask for you then sure, i can step in as a substitute in your bedroom with you and her and pump one in her quick and then you can do whatever and pretend you're fucking her or something i don't know. i can lick her anus a few times and then dump a quick load inside of her and then let you have at it with her you know or pretend you are. one of your responsibilities as a man is to provide your semen to women. if you can't bother to do that then turn in your man card and fuck right off and i'll step in and get the fucking job done since you can't

>>41844625
i bet you lost your shit retard when that retard referred to you as wise anon, and all you did was fucking suggest using chatgpt. fucking retard

>>41844965
I am flattered so many of you are intimidated by me. But ultimately it means nothing because you're a loser that spends his time hating on people on a fucking coomer recovery thread

>>41844213
You definitely get more gains when you trasmute that energy into something productive, however I've still benefited while being a lazy tard

>>41844822
Don't fall for the charging your vril by edging meme. I wouldn't say its probably totally baseless if you were to do it right. But its not necessary nor worth it

>>41844396
Least retarded edger

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>>41844486
This method has helped me with wet dreams in previous streaks.

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>>41843723
>Pretty much me
same but damn, you really articulated this problem so well I now feel like I gained insight into why I have this problem and hopefully can mitigate it or as you said get of that sketchy slide/pull myself out
ty anon

>>41845092
you fucking retard. nothing fully prevents wet dreams

>>41845105
I never have wet dreams. Stop shitting up the thread and projecting your weakness onto everyone else. It's pathetic

>>41845169
>wet dreams arent just something you have naturally
>being underage and b&

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Dude went from "Nooo anon, stop retaining it will give you ballcancer! Plsss I will kms!!" to "Fuck you retard you it's impossible to prevent wet dreams. I don't know anyone who can do this! YOU'RE NOT A WIZARD!"

Peak comedy, right here.

>>41843992
>almost like semen retention is only for those not in committed relationships
almost, you can do retention while married but it comes with a different lot, the name "retention" does little to describe the practice but at this point it's pretty much stuck.
>>41844048
don't waste energy with the resident retard, they get off attacking incels while displaying the most incel characteristics all the time.

>>41843992
>Oooof, I mean I guess I can try, but the thing is how is sex with the wife not the same?
It is the same. But SR is recommended only for sovereign beings. Since you got married, your body is hers now

>>41843992
Read the book "modern sex magick" by Donald Michael kraig and "secrets of western tantra: sexuality of the middle way" by Christopher Hyatt
Both will teach you how to have sex without cumming, and how to have sex in such a way that it doesn't drain you of energy, rather that it rejuvenates you. This will require active participation from your wife.
And before you jump into SR, consider other ways that you're energy is being drained. Do you get angry easily? Do you have any addictions? Do you not sleep properly? All these negative aspects and more are draining, and can be fixed first. Then you can consider sexual purity

>>41844822
>Is edging wothwhile in any way
>as way to charge energy?
You don't charge energy by edging lol. You're just frying your nervous system by indulging in dopamine hits

>>41843868
>Men have the energy of the sun, which is a giver.
>Females have the energy of the moon, which is a taker.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=643BuwQIf5o
The parasite destroys the hosts, and moves on

>>41845537
Stop posting incel content on this general.
Hatred and contempt for women manifests as sexual perversions. You hate women, and you seek out and get addicted to pornography that depicts violence sexual acts being committed against women.
We at SRG are here to transcend that. We celebrate the goodness in women, and ignore the bad, pray for them to get better. We choose women well, and ruthlessly cut off the bad ones.
You are free to ascend with us. But do not drag us down to your depths.

>>41845570
>Stop posting incel content on this general.
SYBAU. Did you bother watching the video? The video creator is also married FYI

>Hatred and contempt for women manifests as sexual perversions. You hate women, and you seek out and get addicted to pornography that depicts violence sexual acts being committed against women.
This is projection. I don't do such things nor do I hate women. I'm operating from pure observation

>We at SRG are here to transcend that. We celebrate the goodness in women, and ignore the bad, pray for them to get better. We choose women well, and ruthlessly cut off the bad ones.
You are free to ascend with us. But do not drag us down to your depths.
I think you need to ascend above your neediness for women. I can tell by how desperate you are by your post

>>41845638
It's white knight syndrome. As we see on social media, women are free to critique men's faults, shortcomings, and flaws, but if you do the same, you're either an incel or misogynist

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>>41844965
Hey man, I do think he's wise. Understanding how we project our repressed selves isn't always comprehendible to people so it got me very curious to know someone's outside perspective who gets that concept.
The suggestion of chatgpt is indeed retarded, however, I've talked with grok, gemini, and gpt and they all more or less say the same thing, which isn't bad, it's just broad.
>learn to recognize red flags and signs of healthy communication
>if there's early signs of emotional upheaval, set boundaries
>healthy passion is about shared excitement and mutual growth
No fucking shit, that's what I look for in people and when I was with my ex that's what I thought we were moving towards. But every girl I've met is just like her or worse. I don't think all women are like that but it's like I'm not interesting to women if they can't use me as a fucking emotional maxi pad
>>41844625
I don't think you're incorrect, everything you said after the chatgpt recommendation is pretty insightful.
>Why were you attracted to a bpd girl in the first place?
It was lovebombing at first, I'd imagine. But I interpreted it as being "needed," "validated," or even simply "seen." At least, that's how I've come to think of it. At the time it just felt like we clicked very quickly, shared the same interests, had similar experiences and desires for the future (so she said, anyway). By the time I was already enmeshed was when the
>Oh by the way, I tried to kill myself and was institutionalized for awhile and I'm addicted to antidepressants, please don't leave me or "I might do something bad"
conversation happened. She'd send me pictures of her cutting herself if I ever did anything on my own or even went somewhere with a family member.
She would have emotional breakdowns, ripping her clothes off and cutting herself then when she snapped out if it, she would turn into a succubus, ravenous, doing crazy shit, stuffing her face in my ass, then begging me to get her pregnant. Whiplash.

>>41845638
No neediness here, friend. Also this is 4chan. Filled to the brim with incels who endlessly bitch about women. It's feminine behaviour. You are just the male version of feminists. Move on. The red pill is for teenagers. Red pill content creators are predators, and insecure individuals like yourself are the prey

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>>41845638
Don't waste energy with the resident retard, they think they speak for everybody in this board but they barely speak for themselves.
Check the picrel if you want to understand their real agenda.

>>41846048
>10 minute read
If you enjoy reading anything written by betas, sure. But this feels like an eternity. Can't you summarize it? I've seen this shit image with these 3 faggots so many times now. It's nauseating. Surely it's just the average EU-regulation tier garbage (empty words).

>>41844177
Blue ball sensation lasts for a few days, that's it.
Because your balls are not used to being full.
You come off as an old child, no offense.
You seem have a really rigid world view with a lot of skeptiscism and your approach of "well prove it to me harder, and i'll believe you" is worth less than absolute dogshit on here.

>>41845570
Dude don't tell people what to post, the fuck's wrong with yous.

>>41846360
Maybe he's farming screenshots for his next jannie application.

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>>41840381
just really curious, but what is the point to abstain ones whole life? if we die anyway, i get that be conquer the lower based desire, but what is the reward for doing so if we just die?

ive been retaining for 4 years now, and ive been offered sex a couple of times, and ive begin to regret not taking the offers, cause i feel like i miss my youthly years to just enjoy.

i have made alot of bad decisions in my life, and have not got the enjoyment/pleasure i feel like, im in my 30s and only had one partner which screwed me over, been lonely and diseased my whole 20s, so it just seems like endless suffering never to have pleasure atleast.

not a bot, just really curious, someone please enlighten me

>>41841312
Based

>>41844151
Thanks for moisturizing my face. Free cream. I'll take that.

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>>41846461
I think the point is to make a wife and kids happen no matter what. Even if you're miserable, honestly. Other men will call me cucked for saying so, but to me, the thought of being 70 years old and childless is so bleak, like I failed my entire ancestry. They could've never understood how hard it is to make these things happen today, but still. So being on SR hopefully gives you some odd combination of more attraction to average looking women and a clearer head so you're not thinking about sex all the time, which hopefully increases your chances with more different women and thus increases your chances of reproducing.

>>41846360
Would you be okay if someone posted porn here?
Redpill engagement bait farming content is basically porn. You're masturbating to the sense of injustice you feel at muh evil women
Ive laid out my reasoning very clearly
Ragebait red pill content, designed to make you hate women, is antithetical to the spirit of SR.
Hatred of women leads to perversions.
Notice how the people who hate on my posts, can never actually argue with the substance of my post. In fact, they are too cowardly to even reply to me. They are like little rats, passive aggressively attacking me without ever confronting me.
Demoralisation shills want you to harbour hatred in your heart and spiritually impair you
I want you to ascend beyond petty grievance
End of the day, choice is yours.

>>41846461
>ive been retaining for 4 years now, and ive been offered sex a couple of times, and ive begin to regret not taking the offers, cause i feel like i miss my youthly years to just enjoy.

Congrats. You allowed bitter incels who never had any choice but to remain celibate, convince you to not have potentially meaningful intimate relationships with women.
Seriously, i dont get how you're not embarrassed to post this. Go and fuck. It's what you're supposed to do.

>>41846703
I watched two minutes of the video, there's 0 hate for women there but he explains the dichotomy of the different energies and how they are not the same.

The problem with you is that you judge a book by the cover and then postulate it to the world as some kind of wisdom.

>>41846197
Jesus fucking Christ you need help. If you can't read an image like that you really ought to seek professional help or just neck yourself. You are wasting our air. Seriously, kill yourself ASAP.

>>41846461
>if we die
>if we just die
I think you need a purpose in life first.
>41846805
You will never be a woman. Also, don't use the Lord's name in vain. He will forgive you if you apologize and repent.

>>41846805
Stop telling people to kill themselves what the fuck is the matter with you

>>41846794
>I watched two minutes of the video
>The problem with you is that you judge a book by the cover
Anon, take a moment to read what you just wrote. Do you see the incredible irony here?

>>41846889
You dismissed it by reading it's title and proceeded to give a sermon on how bad the video is without watching it.

I merely reacted to your superficial lies and proved that you're a fucking faggot who is also full of shit.

>>41846889
Nta, but anon, take a moment to read what the other guy wrote.
>Redpill engagement bait farming content is basically porn. You're masturbating to the sense of injustice you feel at muh evil women
The guy even adds:
>Notice how the people who hate on my posts, can never actually argue with the substance of my post. In fact, they are too cowardly to even reply to me. They are like little rats, passive aggressively attacking me without ever confronting me.
This is pure bait. Nobody is this retarded. Just ignore it like all the "little rats".

>>41846889
>Redpill engagement bait farming content is basically porn.
Anon, take a moment to read what you just wrote. Do you see the incredible bs here?
>>41846956
>Nta
Yes you are, stop samefagging yourself, it's so obvious it's not even funny.

Notice how the demons are lashing out when I point out that hatred and contempt of women directly leads to sexual perversions and deviant behaviour.
The whitepill here is how easy it is to ascend and overtake 90% of men. Just let it go.

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>>41846998
I'm honestly not sure what you mean, but I believe you believe that (whatever it is). Also, here, take (pic related).
I hope this confirms what you believe. Just trying to help another anon out.

>>41846461
>not a bot
Not a bot, just a bot with exactly the same circular argument the schizoshill posts...

It's always the same people shitting up this thread.

>>41847010
The minute you realize it was never about us versus them, you will transcend and win this game, bro.
We are one.
Even the tranny reddit satanists trolling here, one day you will see that it was just a lost brother who was screaming out for help in the only way they knew how.

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>>41847129
>one day you will see that it was just a lost brother who was screaming out for help
Spot on. I don't see any point in getting riled about the trolls on these threads. Maybe they're bored, maybe they hate themselves, maybe they get their jollies from getting under people's skin, whatever. I believe that they know that deep down they're broken and need to make a change and that is just too painful and difficult for them to confront in their current state. Many people like this will stay lost forever but for some there is hope. So I say let them vent their bile here if they want to.
>Not what goes into the mouth defiles a man; but what comes out of the mouth, this defiles a man.
Maybe one of the people who feel compelled to post hateful stuff in these threads will eventually be able to take a real hard look in the mirror and start making that change. It's not easy reclaiming oneself in this way, I can see why people are afraid and lashing out.

>>41847129
>one day you will see that it was just a lost brother who was screaming out for help in the only way they knew how.
Probably the most profound sentence I’ve read in the last threads.

>>41847200
Exactly.
It's like that little boy in kindergarten pulling the hair of the girls he likes.
It's a wrong approach but it's the only thing he knows at that moment.

# # # THREAD HYGIENE PSA # # #

Starve the shillery.
No attention for them.
No replies.
Focus.
On.
The.
Prize.

(Pro tip > Hide shill posts: Click on the arrow next to the post number, click 'Hide', Comfy.)

I hope you faggots are seeing the number this schizo is doing with the general and that if you keep giving it yous it will never stop.
Just ignore and report.
Also you can install the 4 chan x script which has filter lists with which you can trim the crap a lot.

>>41845105
I didn’t say it fully prevented wet dreams did I? Learn to read you fucking retard.

>>41840381
I keep cooming on the 7th or 8th day of retention. I get super horny and it becomes annoying because i can't stop thinking about it. so i eventually break down and release myself. I don't look at porn, i don't even have lustful thoughts most of the time. I just simply do it to stop feeling horny. I tried meditating before bed and that seemed to help a little bit but not enough. How do get the horniness under control so i can make it past the 8th day?

>>41848147
meditate first thing after you wake up
in the afternoon
and before bed

>>41848147
Your energy gets filled up. So you expel it.
Transmute it instead, this is the key.
Channel it, learn to control it.
It is not your enemy.
Dance with the devil, but before selling your soul, smile and walk away.

>>41844694
The feeling of wanting to kill yourself after relapse is too real.

>>41848237
Kill that feeling whenever it arises.
This a journey, where you will fall many times, progress is the key.
If you have from multiple ejaculations a day to rare conscious relapses, you are already winning.
Feeling guilt and shame for being human can be a dangerous downward spiral.
Do not feel defeated after you fall, observe the patterns that led you to stumble instead.

We're all going to make it, and it will be glorious.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xroX6M5BMUA

>>41845223
Based gif.

>>41844396
>I was practicing SR for 8 months!
>...but except not really
Lol

>>41845105
Maybe so, but getting out of them is possible. Train your mind to instinctively hate sexual degenerate acts and you'll immediately realize it's happening and wake up from now on. I've been able to escape 2 so far without emissions.

Living with a woman who is your life partner is the ultimate red pill on this. Until then, stop masturbating and stop looking at porn.

>>41848421
truth be told I think nofap/SR is actually really easy compared to, thinking you're worthy of approaching a woman romantically. the former is doable but the latter is nearly impossible after years of not dating anyone

>>41848448
Our minds often create greater suffering through anticipating future misfortunes than the actual events themselves - Seneca

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z1Fp8OTlCYU

>>41848493
sure, but no amount of nofap/SR is ever going to magically fix approach anxiety. porn use is just a symptom in the first place and there's no way to resolve the underlying problem causing it

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>>41843367
>mfw no alien space princess gf

>>41848499
Yes, it can, brother. Stop limiting yourself, you have infinite potential. You care too much, stop caring.

Fear is the ultimate parasite of the mind, kill it by facing it. Go out and ask a super hot chick out, get rejected. Then you will realize that there was nothing to fear in the first place.

>>41848511
>Go out and ask a super hot chick out, get rejected. Then you will realize that there was nothing to fear in the first place
building up hope only to have it crushed over and over again is why I'm the way I am in the first place. it's not just that fear is the ultimate parasite, it's that some people aren't meant for happiness and partnership because the universe just doesn't allow it for them

>>41848528
Your unconscious is leading your life, and you call it fate.
Break the programming, look deep inside yourself, find the child that was hurt, hug him and tell him he was always enough.
Break the programming.

>>41848562
>Break the programming
no amount of that can control other people's reactions. and to others, no matter what I do in life, I'll always fundamentally be someone who isn't worthy of partnership. SR is basically just a test of will but it can't rewrite fate

>>41848573
You are worthy of love and partnership. And you will have everything you desire the moment you feel like you already have it.

Out of the night that covers me,
Black as the pit from pole to pole,
I thank whatever gods may be
For my unconquerable soul.

In the fell clutch of circumstance
I have not winced nor cried aloud.
Under the bludgeonings of chance
My head is bloody, but unbowed.

Beyond this place of wrath and tears
Looms but the Horror of the shade,
And yet the menace of the years
Finds and shall find me unafraid.

It matters not how strait the gate,
How charged with punishments the scroll,
I am the master of my fate,
I am the captain of my soul.

>>41848614
yeah all that's great and all but love is different. you can't brute force your way into it with will, and without luck, you're basically fucked. especially if you're already 30 years old and spent your twenties not getting any actual dating experience

>>41848147
You have to constantly release the tension near the crotch region until you don't reflexively spasm it often. The perineum muscle needs to be relaxed, google perineum muscle. Too much sitting can increase the spams. There are forms of increasing libido by tensing that muscle, so the opposite follows, so don't let that tension build up. When that tension is release acutely you will feel like breathing in a deep breath, this is a good indicator. If the tension is not fixed then the next best thing your body can do is basically release semen and orgasm. The body has to get rid of tensions otherwise it gets sick.

>>41848629
You're talking to someone who lost their virginity at 23.
You need to stop wallowing in negativity and excuses because you missed out on some retarded illusion someone else imprinted onto you.

>>41848652
>You need to stop wallowing in negativity and excuses
I mean, I'm still going to miserymax and not masturbate. I just don't think anything is actually going to come of it, because it never has in the past.

>>41848667
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJa5Ch0O4BI

Life is nothing but a game, learn to play it.
Your prolonged thought pattern dictates your reality. Break the pattern, change the programming.

>>41840381
Will my retarded fetishes go away if I stop?

>>41848678
>relies on metaphysics
yeah, so it's bulllshit. the only thing that exists is psychology and once psychology is set in a negative way past the age of 25, it can't be fixed. even if I actually beat porn addiction I'll still never find love

>>41848686
Eventually, but not overnight.

>>41848667
You need to learn to love yourself, no matter what you "think" of yourself, love every little aspect of yourself, only then can others start loving you back.
It sounds like a paradox, but this is the nature of high vibrational energy auras.
Forgive yourself for everything, love yourself unconditionally. Watch the universe change overnight.

>>41848697
>Forgive yourself for everything, love yourself unconditionally
Bullshit. Love is meant to be earned, and I know from other people's reactions to me that someone like me can never be worthy of it. Self-love without anything behind it is just narcissism for no reason.

>>41848697
I just want to go back to looking at a picture or seeing a woman in public and letting that be enough

>>41848691
Nobody will ever love you, until you start loving yourself.
The amount of hate you harbor for your own being for not being up to standards of others signals ultimate weakness that is both repelling and disgusting at the same time.
Nobody in the world can love that, let alone be in the same room with that vibration.

>>41848705
Jesus fucking christ almighty, if you and me were in the same room together, I would literally pay money to not be in the same room with you.

So much self hate, nihilism and misery no wonder you can't find love.
And unless you change that way of thinking, you never will.

>>41848712
>The amount of hate you harbor for your own being for not being up to standards of others signals ultimate weakness that is both repelling and disgusting at the same time
>Nobody in the world can love that, let alone be in the same room with that vibration
Exactly, that's why it's an unsolvable problem. Being able to just suddenly start "loving yourself" is a genuinely fucking insane proposition.
>>41848721
I'm glad you agree that it's hopeless. The only point of not masturbating is just to make yourself more miserable, nothing else, it has no more utility than that.

>>41848731
I am smiling right now because I was right.
I no longer feel sorry for you.
You are here for a reason to remind all of us what not to be.
Thank you for existing.

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>>41848751
Glad to hear that, for as much as people preach "self-love", the truth of it is that anyone who can't just magically pull it out of their ass are fundamentally fucked and there's no cure. This is the fundamental problem that religions and psychology can't solve - that some of us just weren't wired for happiness, and no amount of effort can change it because it's an impossible mental shift to make

>>41848788
you're the type of a nigga who scolds his wife for loving their newborn baby because the baby didn't "earn" the love yet, hahahaha

fucking 12/10 troll

>>41848812
That's different, newborns haven't wasted years accumulating wealth and resources but not actually establishing any relationship skills with the opposite sex since being a teenager. They haven't earned justified self hatred through their own inaction, the type that if it won't come from the self, will come from women because they fundamentally recognize you as a passive cuck. You can't just will your way out of them knowing that's what you are, you can't "self-love" your way out of their correct evaluation of you as someone who wasted all the potential you once had.

Newborns are obviously worthy of love because they're all potential and with the right guidance, aren't nearly as likely to fuck things up and earn the same kind of self-hate

>>41848812
He's not trolling.

Misery is like a drug, you wallow in it, eventually it becomes your identity. Soon you learn that you can push every existential problem on your victimhood status, that enables you to stroll through life and do nothing to fix your problems.

It is the ultimate nigger cope, every problem you encounter you automatically conceive as natural occurrence which means that no problem has an innate need to be actually solved.

"I am an eternal fucking loser, because that is ultimately my destiny."

>>41848840
>Soon you learn that you can push every existential problem on your victimhood status
But it's not "victimhood status" if it's just the world giving you what you deserve for being a passive cuck for years (again, my situation, not yours). Pretty much every other problem can be solved, but if you've been a passive cuck during your prime years, you can't turn back time, you've rightfully earned both your self-hatred and women's hatred of you.

>>41848847
>can't get pussy
>hate myself for it

You're shitting up the wrong thread, can you please leave, no offense.

>>41848853
I mean, I'm still committed to doing nofap/SR. And I think having a record of, the kind of people who do it and still hate themselves throughout, is worthwhile because it kind of provides a counter-narrative to the idea that it magically fixes all sexual problems for the kind of sexually frustrated men to undertake it in the first place.
I think that kind of perspective can help others to be more realistic in their expectations of it, y'know, that making effort to cure porn addiction is a good thing - but that if you have chronic self-esteem issues, it won't just magically fix them. If you can't attract a partner, it won't magically make you able to do so.

>>41848862
You do not need semen retention, you need a legit professional psychotherapist.
You have serious fucking psychological issues that you need to take care of, instead you're not masturbating and saying your problems aren't fixed, are you fucking retarded?

>>41848874
babby's first time talking to schizophrenic psychopaths on /x/

enjoy ur stay lol

>>41848874
Here's the rationale, though:
>you can hate yourself and be porn addicted
>you can hate yourself and not be porn addicted

The latter is obviously better than the former, and think about it - the whole reason for mental health care, psychotherapy in the first place is to prevent suicide, right? Porn addiction means higher suicide risk, not being addicted to gooning means lower suicide risk. So it fulfills the same utility.

>>41848892
Misery loves company.
Reddit won't have you, so you come here, lol.

>>41848874
you multi line post for attention. you have an equivalent number of psychological issues, jessica. now please leave

>>41848881
>ur
see global rules

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>>41848919
See, I don't think it's all bad, though. I genuinely do think you can live a somewhat decent life, while actual female partnership is completely unattainable for you for psychological reasons, even with SR. Kicking a Miller Lite heroin addiction that only needs a computer screen or even just looking at an attractive woman in public to be enabled has to be an improvement even if getting an actual partner will always be just out of reach.

>>41848211
you don't transmute you noob retard. you stop identifying with it

>>41848892
Read about self-fulfilling prophecy. You are underestimating your subconsciousness like a pig underestimating a hungry tiger.

>>41848921
I have 99 problems but being a miserable self-hating incel cuck ain't one

>>41848934
Why would I read voodoo magic if my fate is to be alone. I have never gotten attention from females. It is my fate. I have been a passive cuck all my life and this is my punishment.

But at least I haven't masturbated today.

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>>41848949
>I have been a passive cuck all my life and this is my punishment
>But at least I haven't masturbated today
based and self aware

>>41848949
come to terms with that entirely and make peace with it and you'll probably end up a 9+ in your next life if you develop the rest of your mind skillfully

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>>41848957
>in your next life
he doesnt know

>>41848957
I have.
I just want everyone to know that semen retention will not magically fix your issues, like you fuckers keep constantly claiming.

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>>41848957
that's actually fucking brilliant
some form of reincarnation is the most likely probability of any "next life" without any supernatural bullshit so you don't even need any "love yourself" crap to have a better outlook - shit, I think this post genuinely just changed my view of the whole thing

>>41848983
>maybe my next incarnation won't suck this much
>next life: is born in an indian slum drinking cow piss and swimming in cow shit

These threads are kino in a sense that you have extremely wise, affectionate and nice people posting and the other half is literal schizo incel virgins who, if you saw in real life, would make you vomit on the spot. It's really cool.

>>41846703
>You're masturbating to the sense of injustice you feel at muh evil women
Awareness =/= masturbating to sense of injustice. I can almost guarantee that if men had all of the information out there the dating market would look entirely different. Much of the dynamics in the dating market today are the result of asymmetric information. Men have been kept in the dark about female nature and project images of perfection and divinity to the woman, while women are already taught about male nature early on
>I want you to ascend beyond petty grievance
Every post you have on here is a petty grievance. Yet you're here

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>>41848994
>the other half is literal schizo incel virgins who, if you saw in real life, would make you vomit on the spot
literally me

>>41848996
>if men had all of the information out there the dating market would look entirely different
no it wouldn't you confirmed incel (no offense.) women will always own the dating market regardless of what information men have on them. dating is biology first. they are the ones that are sought after for a fucking and that's how it will always be for eternity. women are future proof. that's just how it is my friend

>>41849000
That factually contradicts your own birth.
By that logic you should not be alive, yet here we are, kinda stuck reading your horseshit, fagget.

>>41849000
Women's power in the dating market is inversely correlated to mens' control of their desires and urges. SR baby, this is why we do it.

>>41848448
>thinking you're worthy of approaching a woman romantically.
The problem is you were psyoped into believing they're better than you

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>>41849067
I mean, if you think about it in terms of power dynamics, they are better than me and that's by default. Even with a stable job, being in good shape, having some friends and owning assets etc that still just qualifies as "average" for a dude and if you're average, you might as well just not exist because you're invisible to them anyway

>>41849182
>if you're average, you might as well just not exist because you're invisible to them anyway
Dude, listen to yourself

>>41849182
I just read this three times and I started laughing in real life.
This cannot be real.

>>41849249
LMAO
I really hope he's trolling.

But sadly reality is this is how a lot of men think. Being a man is a privilege, not a right. Man card revoked

>>41849182
Far out, bro. So this is why you wanna transition?
Because females have it easier by default? Sissy hypno cuckold porn has really fried your brain, give it a rest.
And then some faggot comes in and says reddit trannies infiltrating this board is totally not real and a conspiracy.

>>41849182
From a purely psychological perspective, this is exactly why no woman wants you, or will ever want you in their life.
Women subconsciously feel that they are inferior to men, in psychology it is called penis envy.
Therefore comes the conclusion from the female nature; that they see you as less than human, less than even an animal in fact.
It is because you perverse the natural order of things, you ask to lead that which has a natural inclination to follow.
Women hate men like you from the depths of their hearts and it is normal.

>>41847010
This. I love being kind to women. I love them! Kindness works both ways anyway...

>>41849392
Why just to women? Why not everyone anon?

>>41849293
That's a lie. It's because he rejected himself first before any other woman could do it.

>>41849067
>>41849182
lol, it's not a fucking psyop. it's just leagues and ratings. if some guy is a 5 in looks (again looks are all that matter, not money or status), he should absolutely not approach 7's and shit. that's just asking for trouble. but either way, you only approach anyway in any form if they provide the opening and signals. but talking about approaching is stupid anyway because there is supposed to be a natural flow to man and woman interactions. if there is no flow it means they are not compatible and/or one of them is fucking it all up by projecting things that aren't there. working on yourself is all you can do as a person of any looks rating. and do not ever try and game the system. women know when you're being a fucking weasel from a thousand miles away

>>41849566
>women know when you're being a fucking weasel from a thousand miles away
Like how you are writing that entire paragraph? Stop caring about them so much

"Bbbbbut then I won't have gf, which means no wife, I won't be happy, I will be alone, I will..."

Shut yo bitch ass up

>>41849520
I'm kind to everyone, but especially women, they're cute

>>41849602
right it's easy to be kind to them because they have zero offensive capabilities by nature and aren't sizing you up. it takes a spiritual man to be kind to a bigger man because that is an unwritten truce being forged in real time. not that the spiritual man can't defend himself but because it is how reality should be for all beings

>>41849602
>I'm kind to everyone, but especially women, they're cute
Doesn't mean they are automatically good people anon

>>41849616
well good for you anon, you just let everyone know here that you are a shut in that never leave your grandmother's house. if you actually left your house and treated people how they treated you then you'd be in prison right now and you don't even know it

>>41849618
Anon, this sounds like projection

>>41840381
woke up thinking about a crush i had like 15 years ago wtf
shit makes me wanna jerk off to forget about her

>>41842923
not taking advice from anyone with movie posters over his bed. I just can't do it.

>>41848949
>Why would I read voodoo magic
Why would you make shit up, because you refuse to look something up and appear less informed? Your inflated ego is what keeps you from progressing. Just admit you’re uneducated with very high self-esteem portraying is a weak-minded individual for attention.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Self-fulfilling_prophecy

>>41849182
You will never be a woman.

>>41849636
And there's no soul behind his message. Just seems like a dude who wants to hop on the bandwagon and make content he doesn't gaf about

Realize that most of these trolls already art part of online echo-chambers where they boast about their “accomplishments”. These chambers are used to their personality and forgiving towards it, because the members all have some fucked up personality trying to cope like they’re normal. By granting this favorable attention they believe they thrive in that community by maintaining their fucked up perspective of themselves. Even if we try to attack/ridicule/help them, it’s futile as long as they’re part of this echo-chamber.

Uneducated replies will be ignored.

>>41849645
It's pretty crazy how that same schizo incel tranny is literally lurking and posting here every single day, lol

>>41849672
Psychologist here.
It's a humiliation fetish that comes from years of watching porn.

>>41849675
He's an unemployed schizophrenic that hates himself and his life because he's in his 30s and has never been with a woman before, so the only way for him to cope without killing himself, is unironically, to spread his misery wherever he can.

>>41849716
>>41849732
Samefagging.
Obsessed with brown people.
Truly a despicable speciman, this one is.
If you're not getting paid for this, I feel sorry for your parents. They did not deserve this.

>>41849743
Insecure people have to put others down to make themselves feel better about their inherent worthlessness. Especially something that's out of someone else's control, like race

>>41849777
Trips of truth checked as fuck.
Basado extravaganza.

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>>41849780
NTA, but you're asking the wrong question to the wrong person. What you need is a sociologist, which is a different field. Aside from that, India consists of various cultures (it's fucking huge), so your question is too broad for a direct answer. The fact that you didn't even consider this makes me think, as any other educated person, you're a little ego-inflated or retarded.

Instead, I'll give you the answer you want to read, because that's what you want and the only thing you'll understand: they brown (pic related). Next, ask a soccer player how it feels to score a touchdown.

>>41849805
Stop feeding that POS

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>>41849695
>being proud being a borderline slave
>wrongthinkophrenic

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>>41849808
>pos
Pos stands for a "point of sale".

>>41849805
I got banned for using this image here once, kek

>>41849821
Man, that's unlucky. Imagine the fact that I got it from here and have used it multiple times. It's also a great template for for edits.

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>>41849808
I hope you've realized by now that "feeding him" is not a concept he's thriving on. I've already explained it above. It's similar to streamers clipfarming. Just look at the examples between this post and yours.

>>41849743
What, since when wild animals are considered people?

>>41849672
Being normal is not same as being good, retard.

>>41849933
>we
>one schizo virgin tranny

lemme guess yousa "they/them"?

ahahahaha, fucken faggets, not even once

>>41849812
>>41849817
>>41849818
>>41849835
>>41849843
>>41849933

Samefag.
Absolutely worthless, whereas other people have a soul, instead of a soul you have a shit stain that cannot be removed.

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>>41848528
>some people aren't meant for happiness and partnership because the universe just doesn't allow it for them
peak beta nigger mentality
you losers are so exhaustingly gay and pathetic

Imagine how you'll be 6 months from today if you don't fail.

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>retooning for multiple months
>not a perfect streak, some edging, but whatever, 99% honest work
>co-worker tries to play cupid and set me up on a date with another co-worker
>want the whole situation to just go away
>don't want to be rude or blatantly turn down the other girl
>remember gooning repels life
>edge in shower for 15 minutes
>situation evaporates
fuck I love being so smart

>>41849979
You need a little more training in pattern recognition. >>41849843 is not the same as the others you tagged. Keep accusing people of samefagging using your coinflip-method. Surely next time it'll work.

>>41850035
How is telling her you're not interested not smarter than edging for 15 minutes in the shower? It takes less time and you don't have to leave it to chance.

>>41849998
>immediately starts pissing and shitting because someone won't accept is faggot-tier advice
You are literally the other side of the same coin. Guaranteed you've never fucked a bitch not worthy of wearing a bag.

>>41849983
You will never be a woman.

>>41849998
Based truthsayer.

Feels really nice when that faggot gets banned. Geez.

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>>41843992
>how is sex with the wife not the same? That makes no sense in my head, almost like semen retention is only for those not in committed relationships
Onanism is harmful with partner or without.

>All unnaturalness in sexual intercourse punishes both men and women with fatal suffering. All men should understand clearly that artificial infertility is nothing but marital masturbation. Every contraceptive measure harms not only one’s own health, happiness, and future but also causes much suffering for the offspring who may one day be born. Humans are, in every respect, a perfect and purposefully built organism. Every organ in their admirable body structure has its specific function, its precisely predetermined duty to fulfill. The lungs are for breathing, the heart for circulating blood, the stomach for absorbing food and drink, and so on. The function of an organ must in every way correspond to the task assigned to it. To demand from it an activity contrary to this is to abuse it and must lead to pathological changes. If we now transfer this unshakable principle from physiology to sexual life, we must demand that its organs, the male and female sexual organs, fully perform the function assigned to them. Normal coitus must be carried out exactly as the Creator intended. Any change, however clever and carefully considered, in the way sexual intercourse is conducted and performed is an abuse of natural instinct and must therefore lead to pathological changes. In short: sexual intercourse with contraceptives aiming to produce artificial infertility is harmful to health, regardless of which contraceptive method is used.

>>41849636
Fair enough. :)

>>41849652
I do give a fuck, It's like a project for me, mainly for myself but I try to be as informative as possible, it's kind of a side hobby for me, like conquering my fear kinda thing. I actually try. Any feedback is appreciated, negative or otherwise. :)

We're all gonna make it frens.

>>41848686
Yes, you will go back to normal.

>>41850222
TRIPS CONFIRMED

>>41850181
your videos are shit
you sound retarded and look indian
you're ugly and nobody watches your videos
delete your channel

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>>41849274
>>41849645
You're definitely missing the point - trannies are obviously still men, but even worse because they're under some delusion that they can have things easier by mutilating themselves and going against their hardcoded nature. My point is more, history has shown that average men have such low value that in many cases, we're worth more dead than alive (hence why feminists always talk about how they want to bring back war, men aren't lonely enough, etc)
I'm not saying to become a tranny, obviously that's a retarded attempt to subvert nature because you're on the losing side of the value equation. I think part of the utility of SR in the first place, is making you MORE sexually frustrated now that you're not just wasting your energy on porn, so that you can be more aware of where you really stand in the grand picture of things

>>41850233
Are you serious? What did I ever do to you?

>>41850294
Average women are more valuable than average men it's true.
But the "value" here is perverse; they are valued for their beauty and youth, which are markers of fertility. They are used and discarded for their ability to make children, which physically and mentally wrecks them
All individuals can become genuinely valuable by existing in the realm of meaning and value.

>>41850294
I haven't ejaculated in 7 months and my sexual frustration is gone.
I don't even get wet dreams anymore.
You have to stop judging everyone through your own shortsighted lens.
You haven't masturbated in a week and you feel like killing someone.
We are not the same.

>>41850389
>We are not the same
well yeah no shit, I sure fuckin' hope I don't lose my sexual frustration at 7 months because I should definitely be mad after being a passive cuck for so much of my life. the point is to change the programming, right? so why should positive feelings be a part of that, when enjoying passivity and porn too much is what caused the problem in the first place?

>>41850420
I'm genuinely interested. What the fuck happened to you that made you this way?

>>41850306
Your videos are fine, do your thing don't listen to anybody.

>>41850542
>What the fuck happened to you that made you this way?
Probably a combo of enjoying porn too much and not getting laid or dating since graduating college half a decade ago, which obviously isn't normal. But I'm just extremely surprised that, in this thread of all places, the idea that feelings of sexual frustration aren't a fundamentally good thing is even up for debate. I thought that here of all places, the meme that we need to feel "positive" emotions at all times would be recognized as horseshit

>>41850593
>frustration
>fundamentally good thing

How is any frustration supposed to be good?
What the fuck kind of logic are you running on, man?

>>41850593
Your whole shtick is basically being completely obsessed about getting a woman.
You do not belong here, sorry to say it.
Instead of rotting behind a computer, you really need to focus your energy on improving yourself so women will finally notice you.

ok so I want to eliminate sex completely from my life but I have problems that prevent it
>a mother who talks about sex
>TVs in every room in the house that has some type of sexy woman on it most of the time
>never learned to drive
>don't have the cash to really learn to drive
>4chan literally has a porn problem and I visit here almost every day
>video games always have sexy women in them, including monster
>ads have sexy women in them
Its everywhere and I can't escape it, do I just surrender to it at this point? I really have no escape from it, and I fear that if I kill myself i'll just be told "you have to go back and learn to escape from it, you are tainted" I don't know what to do, i'm so lost.

>>41850621
>How is any frustration supposed to be good?
Sexual frustration has shown itself through the history of human civilization to enable greater creative output. The idea that you need to "feel good" as much as possible is how you end up with a porn addiction in the first place, because let's be real, nobody who ends up with that kind of vice ends up there because it feels bad - it's because that flood of dopamine and serotonin feels awesome. When you think in terms of needing to feel positive emotions to keep doing what you're doing, you're literally just setting yourself up to relapse because going back to porn genuinely will feel better than what you're doing.
>>41850637
>you really need to focus your energy on improving yourself so women will finally notice you
Funny you mention that, but that's another trap - obsessively dedicating yourself to self-centered "self improvement" tasks with the idea that women will someday notice it. By the time you're reasonably strong and have a decent store of wealth built up, you'll realize that it's done fuckall for your ability to attract the opposite sex, and that unemployed/abusive men have more value than you do to the opposite sex because they actually learned the subconscious language needed to be perceived as human to them. One of the ways reality runs contrary to conventional "advice", you don't even need to believe me when so many others on /fit/ will tell you that 1/2/3/4 is much easier than not being perceived as an NPC

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see everywhere I look, sexy women that I want to fuck.

>>41850706
It emanates discipline, willpower and delayed gratification.
Women like big men because they feel safe around them.
Women can smell testosterone and adrenal virility in the air.

You need to put yourself in a womans shoes and look at what attributes you have that are attractive to the opposite sex, which are probably none.

I can't imagine what it would be like to be in a room with you, i'd prolly go insane.

>>41850705
yeah, surrender and fuck outta this thread, kiddo

>>41850732
wish i was just a kid, i'm 37 though.

>>41850738
so you live with your parents and don't have your own room, you're also 37 and self-admittedly you have no self restraint to stop touching your weewee.

thank you /x/ i feel like a fucking winner at life thanks to you fucking loser dipshits

>>41850752
i do have my own room, but the internet is filled with women. Also good for you, not everyone of us has the luxery to move out, rent is expensive.

>>41850761
ahahahah nigga just stop touching your dick, nigga like damn hahahahaha

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>>41850728
>It emanates discipline, willpower and delayed gratification
And I'm telling you that in reality, those things aren't considered as anything but "not being below average". Like, think of it this way, in terms of your value being out of shape and weak is a negative but the opposite isn't considered as a positive, it's more neutral, like having a job/house/car/friends/etc. The way it's perceived is as living up to the bare minimum, not some actually impressive thing.
There's a reason women have taken to saying "the best man is just an average woman", because none of this actually establishes you as anything outside the norm, and the norm is functionally invisible. Conventional advice to "work on yourself" needs to be treated with the caveat that it literally does nothing but maybe, MAYBE put you at the starting line - but it would probably still take hundreds of rejections to get anywhere, because again, you're just average if you can deadlift 405

>>41850782
my gf just left after sucking my dick for 2 hours.
i did not come, btw. retaining.

can't relate to anything you say. i am where i am because i earned everything through working on myself 24/7

you have 0 willpower, that's your problem

>>41850782
You're a vaccinated incel cuckold, aren't ya?

>>41850772
There's no way that guy is a real person, right? He must be lying.

>>41850796
>vaccinated
Nope, never got vaxx'd. Honestly, it's amazing that people are missing the point so hard on all of this - the jist is that SR isn't a positive thing, it's the lack of a negative one that's porn and masturbation.
>incel cuckold
Is there any reason to practice SR if you're not trying to unbecome this? No.

The point is that willpower is not an impressive thing that guarantees you'll deserve love just by exhibiting it. Becoming deserving of love as a man is impossible to quantify and many will struggle their whole life without ever actually reaching it. All not masturbating can do is somewhat repair what's been broken by years of passivity, but there's no guarantee anyone will ever reciprocate your will.

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I think it's funny how almost every post's main focus is a woman/women in general. Meanwhile I'm going full celibacy for the rest of my life.
It almost feels like people aren't here to learn/talk how to retain, but need dating/relationship advice.
You're all welcome here, but ask yourself if you're not wasting your time.
Especially since you are all fighting eachother, over women.
Reminds me of highschool.
Fun times.

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damn, this thread got really gay

>>41850865
Guys who retain to use the magnetism to attract women never take issue with full "celibate" people. But full "celibate" people always have an issue with magnetism guys. Curious

>>41850782
>There's a reason women have taken to saying "the best man is just an average woman"
The problem here is you've taken women seriously. Take a high value man, put him with a few normal girls, see how the women back stab each other for his approval eventually.
The main traits that determine success with women are being extroverted and having low inhibition. If you can handle 100 rejections, you'll be able to pull a woman out of your league with ease. Most men can't, especially after MeToo. Easy pickings

>>41850957
>If you can handle 100 rejections, you'll be able to pull a woman out of your league with ease
See, but I honestly don't know how anyone does more than 10 in a row and keeps going, even while retaining. Is it just about building a stronger tolerance to feelings of depression and inadequacy? Or maybe just learning to live in a way that every day feels terrible, and you're so resistant to chemical highs that you can accept it willfully?
It also sucks that every time you fail, people just make fun of you for even trying in the first place. Like everyone is pushing you to just give up at all times

Just relapsed... Fucking hate myself bros. I just feel so lonely and void of female attention, which tend leads to me peeking and fucking myself over. I know porn is not the answer, but goddamn man... What do I do bros?

>>41850909
well....
>>41850728
>You need to put yourself in a womans shoes

Day 875

I get erections and precum if a woman sits in front off me in church. I try to sit behind men.

>>41850999
The trick is to rewire the reward system in your brain. Right now, the fear of rejection is so great that you'd rather not talk to the girl. You need to change it. What you should actually fear, is the loss of opportunity. The potential relationship you could have had, gone because u didn't make the first move. That way it's more rewarding for you to try than not try.
This happens with success, paradoxically

>>41851053
>Right now, the fear of rejection is so great that you'd rather not talk to the girl. You need to change it
See, but how do you rewire anything when rejection always feels worse than not trying in the first place? You mentioned something that really hits the nail on the head, too:
>The main traits that determine success with women are being extroverted and having low inhibition
I think this being reality is what makes "self-improvement" so much of a trap for people like me - you put a lot of effort into it, and come out with strength, money and skills, but also high inhibition because it's necessary to make any progress. So, trying to rewire for higher extroversion and low inhibition feels like a more difficult task than anything else could be, because you put so much effort into wiring things the other way. After 25 it feels nearly impossible, since your behavioral patterns are kind of set by that point.

>>41850865
It's at most a couple of characters bringing the "we need women" memes and often replying themselves to give the impression of numbers, and yeah, they are truly fucking the general up since a lot of people keep feeding them.

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>>41851094
this post just screams victim mentality. you've just got it all figured out, huh?

>>41851094
>See....
Listen at what you are replying to:
>Right now, the fear of rejection is so great that you'd rather not talk to the girl. You need to change it. What you should actually fear, is the loss of opportunity
Or
>Replace a fear with another fear.
Do you really think that is going to lead you some place positive?

>I think this being reality is what makes "self-improvement" so much of a trap for people like me
If you are doing the type of outward self-improvement that provides you with all the tools and none of notions of how to use them, you have been terribly mislead, anon. And you still are if you think such comments in this thread as it is right now is the place for you to find actual real and actionable "dating" advise.
>After 25 it feels nearly impossible
Brother, you are young, if you think your behaviors are set in stone at that point just wait until you hit your 40s.
No, if that is what your heart really calls for then get to work like yesterday, before it's too late for real and not just in your imagination.
Start by reading this book so you can understand better what it means to be a man:
The Quest for Maleness
https://archive.org/details/questformaleness00theu
And if after that you want to dig even deeper:
Under Saturn's shadow : the wounding and healing of men
https://archive.org/details/undersaturnsshad00holl
Last thing I can say is this, whatever you do, do it for yourself, not for that mirage of "a woman is a reward and a validation of me as a man"

>>41851094
>See, but how do you rewire anything when rejection always feels worse
It's just abundance mentality. That's it. Change your thoughts by controlling your mind with meditation. Then you see every woman as a potential opportunity for something beautiful, not rejection
It is hard to become extroverted, that shouldn't necessarily be the goal. It's about playing to your strengths. As for self improvement, focus your efforts on leading an interesting life, that you are happy with.

Also ignore grandpa over here >>41851193 he is jealous of your youthful spirit and wishes to sabotage you, so you become a bitter old fuck that rots on here instead of having a wife.

>>41851182
I genuinely don't know how you could read it that way when it simply states a problem established by a behavioral pattern. Obviously, if I'm talking to someone who has actually managed to take 100 rejections on the chin, they'd know something about how to wire your brain for it, right?
>>41851193
>Do you really think that is going to lead you some place positive?
I don't see how it couldn't, considering that fear is what keeps people from doing things that will kill them. Like, if you think fear has no place, try riding motorcycles - I guarantee you that some degree of fear is necessary to keep you alive.
Now, if you could feel the same kind of fear that keeps you from being hit by a semi truck and apply it to opportunity loss from NOT taking a hundred rejections, you absolutely would become the kind of person who can realistically make it in today's dating climate.

>>41840381
>started semen retention
>read mantak chia
>learned breathing techniques to "circulate" my sexual energy to the heart chakra and solar plexus during edging sessions
>multiple orgasms without ejaculation
>extreme shaking while trying to sleep, apparently "awakened my kundalini"
>women suddenly attracted to be, some even being creepy, asking for my socials
>random DMs from female friends out of nowhere
>my voice became powerful, it became effortless to sing heavy music which is usually very taxing on my voice

the reason why some men get attraction is that they are accidentally breathing in a way that circulates the energy, while most nofappers are only building storing their energy that gets stuck in their navel; you have to circulate it to your heart chakra and solar plexus, cuz they're responsible for sexual magnetism.

head chakra (or whatever they call it) is responsible for manifestation of desires

i've compiled it in a pdf: https://files.catbox.moe/7c5s3s.pdf

>>41851241
>It's just abundance mentality. That's it. Change your thoughts by controlling your mind with meditation
Is it possible to achieve abundance mentality while also realizing that you're actually quite average, and have no "abundance" with which to speak of? Do you need to basically gaslight yourself into thinking you do have some kind of "abundance"?

just realized I am 2 weeks in, last release was by a girl, before that I hadn't fapped in about 10 days or so
semen retention 2026 here we go, last few weeks felt easy peasy
meditation is the key
peeked at porn a few times but didn't reeally feel stimulated, going to try to cut that out entirely

>>41851256
Absolutely. You are a man. A man has sex with women. It's as natural as breathing. The only internal justification you need to bother talking to women, or trying to sleep with them, is that you're a man. You have a working penis.
You don't need to be 6ft5 with 1000000 dollars and a 8 inch dick. You just need to be a man.
I wouldn't really call it gaslighting. It's just reframing things. Really understanding in the depths of your being, that the internal is what reflects onto the outer

>>41850782
405 deadlift is definitely not average
guaranteed less than 0.1% of world population can do it

>>41851269
>meditation is the key
Based knower
Once the initial hurdle of reigning in the monkey mind is is complete, and you can reach deep states of stillness and relaxation, you are going to profoundly change your brain

>>41850705
stop using the internet (final challenge, I know, I'm working on this as well)

>>41851280
>405 deadlift is definitely not average
But being able to do it doesn't make you anything better than "average", in fact, the inverse of not being able to do it makes you weak. Being able to deadlift 405 is the absence of a negative, not an actual positive, same with all the other 1/2/3/4 lifts it's a bare minimum standard

>>41851284
yes brother
what I do now instead of setting an alarm is to just put on the stopwatch and pause it when I'm done and then by the end of the day see how much time accumulated
I go for 1 hour total minimum
would like to get up to 4 hours or so but legs go numb and I've been having back issues from it
but the clarity and stillness has been euphoric
started meditating in 2009 but really gotten into it more lately

>>41851241
>Also ignore grandpa over here
So after you are the schizo of
*. Structured Faps
*. Porn is not that bad
*. Be like Genghis Khan
*. Be like Alexandre the great
*. Youth of power
*. Incels should not expect much
*. We need women
* Wear women's shoes to understand them

And now
* The schizo of dating advise.

See bro? You just make it too obvious.

/srg/ - a thread where people get very invested in arguing with troll posts

>>41851290
>same with all the other 1/2/3/4 lifts it's a bare minimum standard
in what world? by which standard?
for collegiate football players or competitive powerlifters yes that would be the minimum standard
but for regular life? even in the trades most guys can't perform those lifts
you spend too much time online, if a person can do those lifts they are very strong and it's not the absence of a negative, that is a positively strong person
hell even if you can do 5x bodyweight pullups you are strong amongst the humans of earth
you shouldn't set such unrealistic and lofty physical standards, go and explore the world, meet people, witness them, wrestle strangers on the beaches of india, test your might
even if someone can bench 1 plate they are strong in comparison to a woman and the woman will feel the strength of that man in bed and she will be aroused by it because it is contrast to her own softness and feminine energy

>>41851296
1 hour is impressive. I'm not there yet. Most I do is 30 mins a day. I get spacey if i do too much. Been going on and off. You can literally feel the transmutation afterwards. Incredible feeling. I want all anons to feel it
>>41851299
You're getting me mixed up with other individuals.
Now please share every mistake you made in your life so anons know how to avoid becoming like you

>>41851245
>I don't see how it couldn't,
Sincerely anon, it's your freedom, you can keep listening to a very disturbed person giving you dating advise on a celibacy general in 4 chan, or you can read the provided material and dyor, or you can keep carrying on along as normal.
It's your choice, not mine, I made mine about a decade ago.

Now, it's kinda interesting how you replied precisely validating the other anon view that "fear of loss" (aka dependency) is better than fear of rejection but, again, you are also free to keep allowing yourself to be misled.

Just leaving this here for potential lurkers.

>>41851338
You're pushing 50, no family, no kids, spending your spare time discouraging young men from pursuing women and sabotaging them from achieving greatness so they become mutilated like you
Extremely disturbing and disgusting. You are pure evil.

>>41851249
>https://files.catbox.moe/7c5s3s.pdf
what a gem

>>41848996
You got this one wrong anon. We are both projecting. So what what we think of women, is actually us, and what they think of us... is actually them. Think it over, you know I am right.

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>>41840381
>Get mad urges.
>Download dating app just in case I cum in sb else and not my hand.
>Finish signup
>Go to tweak my profile
>App has a "magnetism meter"
>It's capped at 77%
I understand now.
>Delete app and go outside.

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>>41840381
is SR conected to manifestation (if that even works?) If so what are the limitations of manifestation, any anons here experimented with it? trying to see the more /x/-sides of SR and not to get a gf

>>41851311
>you spend too much time online, if a person can do those lifts they are very strong and it's not the absence of a negative, that is a positively strong person
thinking that any of those lifts are "strong" would mean I'm strong and that's just retarded gymbro narcissism. if I can do them, they're just not that impressive

>>41851249
absolute gold link thank you

>>41851633
>We are both projecting. So what what we think of women, is actually us, and what they think of us... is actually them.
In a perfect world, yes

Well you have to realize what asymmetric information is. Most men don't know how women actually are. They project onto women what they want them to be - kind, soft, feminine, moral, loyal, loving. They also project that how they think is how women think. However, women are red pilled and warned about men very early in life. This causes dating imbalance in so many ways. And because by age 25, a woman will have way more interactions with men than men will have with women, most men are just clueless about how they really are. And you either know I'm right, or you don't have much experience. And hopefully now you can understand modern dating issues. Experience the world as it is, not what you wan tit to be. My 2c

>>41851756
>men operate on a romanticized view of women
>women operate on a realistic view of men
tracks
plus, women often also operate on a romanticized view of themselves and other women because culture encourages it. the clash between these perceptions creates the idea that men are straight up inferior as a sex

>>41851756
You know the saying:
Men love idealistically. Women love opportunistically. Is based in truth.

Men:
Romantic Perfection: Men are often viewed as more likely to uphold a fantasy of a perfect partner, placing high value on physical beauty and emotional companionship.

Unconditional Tendency: Research suggests men may adopt a more "agapic" or selfless, unconditional orientation toward their partners.

Disillusionment: Due to high, often unrealistic, romantic ideals, men can experience significant disappointment or bitterness when relationships do not meet their envisioned expectations.

Women:
Hypergamy/Stability: Women often seek partners who improve their lives, seeking security, resources, and potential for a better future, sometimes referred to as hypergamous behavior.

Relationship Focus: Women often prioritize the quality and health of the relationship itself, valuing connection and long-term security.

Conditional Love: The approach is not purely opportunistic in a negative sense, but rather a practical,, or "logical" evaluation of whether a partner provides a better, more stable, and fulfilling life.

>>41851789
Yup. Most men are clueless

>>41851756
or you know you could just a be a real man and train the woman. that's how it works if you have a big dick and are attractive. they will just fall in line retard because if they don't they know they will get dumped for someone who will

Anyone have that pepe image about pushback from shills of ideas that threaten the establishment?

The thread will hit bump limit today, mostly shill crap again, requesting bakers of future threads to clearly specify *SR is about abstinence and celibacy*, perhaps that will help reduce or even stop this off-topic dating-advise-from-drags crap we have seen in the last two or three threads.

>>41851938
you're on the right track but the issue with your suggestion is that that's not what sr is about. sr is literally semen retention. it doesn't technically matter what you do outside of that as that's up to them. easy example is fucking without cumming. it's more than doable and there's some in this general that do that including myself in the past here and there. so perhaps we can adjust your line a bit to reflect closer to the truth but still somehow deter the dating nonsense

New thread:

>>41852312
>>41852312
>>41852312

Added a YouTube video section. Feel free to suggest.

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>>41844533
>not alternating with celestial anal breathing
ngmi

Any bros have any tips for avoiding relapsing? I desperately try mentally but I feel like physically I almost can't help myself

>>41850420
>I should definitely be mad after being a passive cuck for so much of my life.
If you're a passive cuck, it has nothing to do with how much you coom, lol. Try exercising, mate.

>>41840508
>vidrel
that was great

will this make me more masculine and normal? i have a very feminine face and mannerisms and get hit on by guys