>>31923236
Guys of /adv/, is it a bad idea to get involved with a girl who has like 17 online male friends? She has sworn up and down the block that they are nothing but just friends, and that she could never think of them like that, but I just can't shake the feeling that I am going to look like the biggest idiot in the world come a year or two

Both male and female advice needed.
As a 21 yo girl with good savings and wanting family, I gotta choose between:
24 Good genes, kind and gentle, poor (in work ethic, finance, and no property).
Orrrr
22 Shiddy genes, doesn't brush teeth, cold autist, owns land +animals and knows how to manage it all.
They are halfway estranged friends btw

>>31923236
Should I shave my chest and stomach hair completely off or just trim it?

>>31924318
She is attention starved bro. Trust what she says, but know that she will need a lot of affirmations and comforting and effort. godspeed

Once again I feel like just another guy in her rotation. We're supposed to have a "special" bond because we've been friends since adolescence, but the more I see how she behaves with her other guy friends the more I'm left feeling like a simp. I debated even talking to her today and as soon as I did I became sad.

>girlfriend mad and crying cause i wont buy her a microtransaction outfit in her mmo game
I understand its her period but I dont want to pay for that shit out of principle, mtx is fucking dumb and jewish

>>31924318
I'm >>31924462
If you're okay with her potentially telling other guys she loves them and spending as much or more time talking to you then go for it. My friend has a boyfriend who is cool with all of her guy friends and I have no idea how that man does it.

>>31924471
>and spending as much or more time talking to you then go for it.
I mean as much or more time talking to them than you, sorry, my brain is fucked up right now.

>>31924470
I'd break up with a woman who wanted to buy that shit, let alone one who would cry if I didn't buy it for her.

I saw three crows

>>31923236
Replying to the guy in the last thread, but weed doesn't appear to effect my psychosis or hallucinations any more. Neither does coke, which is interesting because coke is what gave me psychosis in the first place.

>>31924515
Were they nice crows?

Women, have you ever hit yourself in the face with a boob?

>>31924530
nta but I have honestly never met a bad crow. I like feeding them.

>>31924530
They were in the birdbath
I didn't want to bother them so I didn't approach

Guys, does your hard dick fit inside the hole in toilet paper?

>>31924563
No

>>31924563
No.

>>31924566
>>31924565
fuck me now

>>31924563
nope

Is woman hate IT guys? They are just "nice guy"

>>31924563
Just barely.

help atoga

he got triggered today by someone that reminded him of his dad and straight up brought up that he was raped, the word he wasn't comfortable saying to me before. I'm stuck trying to figure out how to go forward, as he also sent another message later changing the subject to something lighter while probably waiting for my reply, and I feel anxious and concerned because I care and he doesn't get to discuss deep things with many people especially since this is so personal, so I want him to feel safe as possible with me.

I want to send a supportive message in response and flow into the next topic too. but I am worried saying a supportive thing is not wanted and he might just want me to comment on the new subject, I don't know

>>31924575
eal, but I date exclusively quant engineers

>>31924543
>I didn't want to bother them so I didn't approach
Me and women.

>>31924575
I think IT guys are cool

>>31924581
Get a trip if you want people to read your posts with context.

>>31924589
I'd rather not

>>31924575
Hi ranjesh.

>bathing outside with my crow buddys
>see cute human
>give him all the signals to approach
>he just walks away
sigh, why did I even do my feathers today

>>31924597
YWNBAC (You Will Never Be a Corvid)

Men, would a girl that is intersex with XY chromosomes weird you out? Externally everything is female but I'm unable to have kids.

>>31924581
Since he changed the topic I'd stick with the new topic. You can come back to being supportive when he seems more receptive.

>>31924581
He might have changed the subject if he thought getting too real would chase you off, "this isn't what I signed up for" or something.
You could address the new topic and then circle back around.

>>31924595
Hi. How a u?

>>31924581
you shouldn't say a single word to him. you should listen to what HE has to say. that's what no one ever did for him.

>>31924575
They don't hate IT guys specifically but most of us are safe because we have demanding careers to maintain and can't afford to fuck around. So they tend to perceive that as weakness.

>>31924606
I don't believe in chromosomes so you're just an infertile girl to me.

>>31924606
I don't want kids, so it would be fine with me.

>>31924606
You wouldn't weird me out much if you're 100% identical to a normal girl but the infertility is a nonstarter.

>>31924531
That happened to me once when I was going down stairs without a bra.

Do women under 25 need their bf to be daddy and mansplain to them until they really grow up?

>>31924633
kek

>>31924617
*clap* *clap* *clap* *clap*
*slowly rises from sitting position to stand*
*CLAP* *CLAP* *CLAP* *CLAP*

>>31924633
This is a neutral thread so I won't demand pics for proof but I will let you know that I would strongly prefer pics.

>>31924638
It's not THAT funny...

>>31924635
I do that to my gf who is older than 25

>>31924633
Jeez, how big are your boobs?

>>31924645
it is. did it make a slap sound when it hit you? 10x funnier if it did

>>31924645
Ha ha you're right, you're right, you're so right, don't know what I was thinking, ha ha. Anyway tell me more.

>>31923236
Femanons, how much does the maintenance of a man's hair matter? Can it make or break the overall attractiveness of him?
t. Non-comber

>>31924597
should have brought him a trinket

>>31924652
34H

>>31924657
Kinda.

How do I make a guy feel cramps?

>>31924666
It's actually really important to me. Use conditioner at least.

>>31924666
I personally have quite a big preference for shortish hair. As long as it is kept fairly short thats all that matters to me

>>31924670
force him to eat an entire bag of hot cheetos

>>31924666
>t. Non-comber
Bruh not even for work?

>>31924669
Oh, hi 34H-anon

>>31924670
Food poisoning.

Femanon, WTF is going on with dating? Even the women I know my age are femcels.
My theory is
>radfems spend the last decade telling men they're not wanted
>men believe it and fuck off
>normal women start wondering where all the men went and think men just gave up for no reason
I saw a youtube video about how men are in a crisis because they're not needed and I wanted to see what they had to say but the comments were basically "but they're not needed, fuck off".
>>31924670
Take away all his foods with potassium in them? IDK.

>>31924681
Hey, anon. How's it going?

>>31924675
I shampoo once a week, conditioner if I feel like it.
>>31924679
Hair is short enough to where I don't have to put too much effort into it. Like, if it's blatantly apparent, I'll comb down bedheads

>>31924606
Unable to have kids would be msssively preferred, unless you want and are depressed about it and thus have a hard time coping with it.

>>31924633
You prefer to be braless as a 34H?

>>31924669
>34H
Kitchen sucker femanon?

>>31924374
Neither seems like a good option, stay single. One is not going to be a long term partner, and you're not attracted to the other.

>>31924575
No, I just don't care.

>>31924704
Only when I'm home alone. It's less constricting.

>>31924709
What?

Manons, how much does the maintenance of a woman's hair matter? Can it make or break the overall attractiveness of her?
t. weekly wash only

>>31924694
Could be better, been feeling kinda sick lately. I hope you're doing well.

>>31924666
It would make me think he's an unkempt, dirty dude.

>>31924374
neither, find a middle ground or someone completely different

t. good genes, kind and gentle, decent work ethic, frugal and have property

>>31924728
Are you black? It sounds like that's ok if you're black.

>>31924728
As long as it smells nice, she doesn't look like she's homeless, and it isn't greasy, it's probably fine.

>>31924728
Women can get away with it. Women can get away with everything.

>>31924728
Doesn't matter too much to me as long as it doesn't smell like shit.

>>31924729
I'm alright, thanks. What's wrong?

>>31924728
There were simps for the rat girl from suicide squad. Disheveled is cute, just don't cross the line into lunaticcore.

>>31924691
People lack in person connection and online dating does not work.

>>31924755
The actress is actually pretty cute though. Wouldn't work for some overweight uggo.

>>31924774
Good hair isn't going to help a uggo though. That's the point. Men don't actually care about hair that much (considering our own hair, our suicide rate would be even higher if we did), unless you have like a BPD "fuck my shit up" haircut and even then there's a type for that.

>>31924794
nta but what is a bpd haircut?

>>31924806
Being different for the sake of being different.

>>31924609
I think he was receptive, i just took too long to respond... maybe
>>31924610
Yeah.. I feel this was probably a reason, as he has mentioned it here and there before(the abuse) but I just kept learning more when he was ready to mention it. He has admitted a fear of losing me before, especially after telling me. he has expressed he wants me to comfort him.

When I address the new and then the latter portion, can circling around me in one or two messages by me? or you mean at a later time today circle up?

i do feel like he wants to talk about expressing and engaging in intimacy though, because he struggles with being comfortable having actual intercourse. he described it was gross thinking about it and he felt sick/disgusted, and I think he is feeling guilt/shame/anxiety over his body(trauma) and how he might perform. I am wondering if he brings up intimacy again or his troubles surrounding that would be okay for me to ask more about his feelings and perceptions
>>31924617
anon i have to reply so I can listen in the first place, I don't want to hurt or retrigger him if I tell him I want to listen and he doesn't want to talk about it anymore

How do you cope with having never been attractive and thus having missed out on the enjoyable life that so many other people have?

>>31924832
There is still some joy in life even without romance. Some joy. Some.

>>31924814
>When I address the new and then the latter portion, can circling around me in one or two messages by me? or you mean at a later time today circle up?
Probably the former, otherwise it's just bringing it back up.
>guilt/shame/anxiety over his body(trauma)
Unusual way to frame it, I would think the problem isn't his body but what was done to it. Might be splitting hairs, idk.
>I am wondering if he brings up intimacy again or his troubles surrounding that would be okay for me to ask more about his feelings and perceptions
If it's intimacy in general I wouldn't be the first to add trauma to the discussion, but if it's about the troubles around intimacy then the topic is already started.

I’m trying to support my gf and I don’t know how to make her feel better.
She is a very friendly outgoing person and likes having a lot of friends.
Last night when she got off of work she was walking back to her car and ran into an old friend from college and I guess the dude invited her out to drink at a bar with him and his friends. He then asked “wait you have a boyfriend now don’t you?” And she said yes and he goes “wait never mind,” and said she couldn’t come anymore. Lol.
She feels really shitty about this and I think this has happened a couple times since we started dating. She’s expressed that she hates that she can’t just have friends and that it bothers her that guys just wanna fuck and so forth.

She opened up about it a little bit and told me about it but she kinda dismissed it but I know she feels bad about it. She says she wasn’t planning on going out anyway but that it bothers her that she got dismissed so easily because she wasn’t available.

How do I support her in this kind of thing?

>>31924845
>My gf
Not your thread. Go away.

>>31924845
>she feels shitty because a shitty guy who wanted to use her as a fleshlight rejected her
she's not thinking clearly

>>31924581
TALK TO HIM. Tell him that if there's anything at all you can do to help, you want to, but that you're not sure if he wants to talk or if he would rather talk about something else. Ask him which would be more helpful.

>>31924832
You gotta roll with what you have. I was never rich, I have poor health for unavoidable reasons, if I was ever attractive I didn't do anything with it. But I have talents, I have hobbies, I've had several great friendships. There's no alternative besides just throwing away what you have, which is nonsensical.

Men, I got drunk so I'm easy now. This is your chance

>>31924851
I think she just feels bad that she gets viewed that way when she just wants to be friendly. Idk. She’s not that hung up about it but I know that kind of thing upsets her a little bit

>>31924744
Just feeling tired all the time, brain fog, and my sinuses are fucked but that's normal lol.

>>31924860
I don't like your drinking habits, I don't like how you become when you're drinking, and I think we should just be friends.

>>31924606
>Men, would a girl that is intersex with XY chromosomes weird you out?
Probably not, but do you mind if I ask what your variety of intersex is? Is it Complete Androgen Insensitivity?

>>31924845
fanon here, same thing has happened to me (me being your gf). Just provide a friendly ear she can talk to, you can't say anything to change the situation. Some guys are overprotective and would be tilted after hearing her struggles, other can be jealous that girls won't ever act like that for them. Just be there and listen without negative emotions, she will appreciate it

>>31924866
That's it actually.

>>31924860
The /soc/ thread is waiting. Let's see some tiddy.

>>31924863
Good, I need my walls painted. Will you do your friend a favor?

>>31924845
>she's sad she's taken
This is when you start preparing your next monkey branch.
>>31924855
>he's very reserved about it
>better bombard him about it
Not very bright, also not a very male typing style of you.
>>31924860
I hate alcohol.
>>31924871
What struggles? Seriously.

>>31924876
You use people, you're a user.

>>31924880
>>she's sad she's taken
>This is when you start preparing your next monkey branch.
THIS
sheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeit

>>31924862
Nta but could that be chronic fatigue syndrome? Does your fatigue improve with rest?

>good dick, handsome, tall
>do heavy dose of mushrooms and weed for years
>get psychosis
>small dick from prescribed antipsychotics
>mentally ill
is it over for me?

>>31924882
I will repay the favor

>>31924889
Sometimes, but not always. I don't really have a consistent sleep schedule though, so that could be part of it.

>>31924374
Neither

>>31923236
Does anyone know why imgur is full of retarded leftists?

There's a really, really pretty 6' tall Asian girl in my uni dorm/apartment building. I NEED to ask her out. But I haven't seen her in a minute but I feel like it'd be too weird to go knock on her door unannounced.

>>31924898
Have you considered sleep apnea? How's your thyroid?

>>31924872
>That's it actually
I doubt it would bother me. I couldn't care less about you not being able to have children - I don't want them either. I would have no problem whatever thinking of you as a woman, and I would need no less attracted to you than I would be to an XX woman. The only thing that might make me hesitate for a split second is the question of what kind of sex you like. I'm sorry, I'm going to have to phrase this in the most appallingly crude way(!) but as I understand it people with CAIS are generally born with a perfectly formed with a perfectly formed vulva but no actual vagina behind it (or only the beginning of one). Is that something you've had addressed? If not, what kinds of sex do you like to have?

Women
Just tell me what to do

>>31924905
Not if you seem enthusiastic enough

>>31924904
It's reddit's sewage system.

>>31924845
See this guy >>31924880 is what she is used to, be her support

>>31924904
I think it's because reddit primarily hosts their images there so the images in the "feed" are just from different subreddits, which are generally leftist

>>31924857
>There's no alternative besides just throwing away what you have, which is nonsensical.
I disagree. If you're given a job to do, and somebody gives you a rubber spatula and says 'go mine for coal' I'm not doing that shit even though technically yeah 5 grams of coal per day is more than zero.

>>31924581
Send the supportive message

>>31924905
She's not interested, you're not tall enough for her.

>>31924909
>Women
>Just tell me what to do
Take an overdose of Fentanyl.

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>>31924563
Yes
Easily

>>31924925
holy i love fent

>>31924909
Go into finance, gym and hire escort to learn to fuck. If you do that I am yours

>>31924606
It wouldn't weird me out at all, we could be friends, but I want kids so badly that it would be a deal breaker.
I'll probably die alone anyway so it doesn't really matter what I think.

>>31924906
Doctors suspected sleep apnea after I had a car accident caused by falling asleep behind the wheel, but it was inconclusive. They gave me a CPAP and I used it for a couple years, but it didn't really do anything for me.

>>31924860
I'm really disappointed you drank without me so I couldn,t mix you any cocktails.

>>31924932
I'm sorry, I'm sure you're a lovely girl but >>31924925 already told me to kill myself so I'm booked up

>>31924860
No thanks. I prefer women who don't degrade themselves.

>>31924922
im 5'8 but half white half jap it cant be that bad?

>>31924925
This is basically what women want for men. They want us to die and give them our shit.

>>31924914
>it's ok babe, just tell guys you're single when they ask you to go out drinking with them

>>31924860
Gross.

>>31924938
stop pining for asian women, you could easily get a much hotter white woman

Do you know what's the most disgusting thing in moids?
Their love for anal sex. Just look at porn videos (99% of them are directed at moids) most of them have anal sex. It's totally against nature, doesn't even give them more physical pleasure and only serves their urge to humiliate the woman they say they love

>>31924728
Yes it can make or break it, it matters a lot, women's hair can be so beautiful it is really offputting when a woman takes no care of it.

>>31924948
White women are the worst.

>>31924948
Weebhands.

>>31924938
She doesn't even see you as human, she sees you as a bug.

>>31924952
I find handjobs hotter than anything else for some reason. Anal is repulsive to me

>>31924907
No worries, really! My vagina is actually kind of a hole that goes nowhere, right. I have been doing, uh, exercises to lengthen it and am better with vaginal sex nowadays.

>>31924860
My chance for what?
The screen separates us, even if I wanted to kiss you I couldn't.

Ok ladies.
Norwood 3 or bald?

>>31924933
>I'll probably die alone anyway so it doesn't really matter what I think.
That's the spirit. :)

>>31924952
>It's totally against nature
This will never be a valig and logicl argument for anything.

>>31924909
Love me.

>>31924952
I hear you, but it's not universal. I've done anal, out of curiosity, but I didn't enjoy it as much as vaginal, and haven't really bothered with it since.

>>31924922
maybe, maybe not
I'm not >>31924938, I'm a 5'8" black phd student

>>31924948
I'm talking to a German girl right now that I know through church, but I don't think it's gonna happen + she's only on exchange.

Western women
>I make more money them most men now
>I'm more attractive than the available men
>Most men I meet aren't mature or competent enough for me

many men
>Okay. I get that I'm not economically viable and that my best isn't good enough for you. Best of luck.
>I will go find women who are happy with how much I make and aren't upset with how I conduct my life
>*finds those women in Vietnam/Philippines/Thailand and starts families with them

Western women
>omg that is so GROSS. How can you do that?

Can somebody explain this to me? I genuinely don't know what the fuck they want men to do? This would be like me going on twitter or instagram and complaining that fat people shouldn't be allowed to date until they're attractive enough for me specifically to want to date them.

>>31924971
>I have been doing, uh, exercises to lengthen it and am better with vaginal sex nowadays.
Nta
But what is that like?
Are you able to enjoy it?

>>31924952
Doesn't homosexuality exist in nature?

>>31924978
Male animals do not fuck butts. Moids do.

>>31924952
I'll probably never do anal or even ask to do it. If the girl asked I'd try but I wouldn't be too ecstatic about it. Porn videos are filled to the brim with weird fetishes because it's porn, and the excitement that usually comes with buildup and context in real sex is what brings variety to real sex. Porn's only means of variety is either acted buildup (which sucks because most of it is formulaic and you're not exactly hiring creative directors with enough sexual experience) or fucked up fetishes. The latter is easy and exploitable ad infinitum.

Also while I'm not a fan of anal it's not cool to kinkshame, anon.

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I can't believe Japan made an anime about a male atogan befriending female atogans. This shit is easily the Anime of the Season, maybe even the AotY.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xyd-Jdr3kyM

>>31924991
Only in rape

>>31924990
It really sucked at the beginning, ngl. I've gotten a little better at it but masturbation still kinda feels like homework in a way. It's way better with an actual person.

>>31924952
Most men don't want anal. Most men WOMEN DATE want anal.
Anal is strictly a degradation/power act, it's not an act that belongs in a loving relationship. Not that it should be outlawed or anything, and I'm not even thinly veiling an anti-gay point, the majority of gay relationships don't actually engage in anal very often.

>>31924952
the only time I found anal "hot" was in a threesome video where a guy was fucking a girl and another girl fisted the girl and basically gave the guy a handjob through the walls of her rectum, simultaneously pleasuring him and the other girl. They were losing their minds and it seemed hot.

Otherwise yeah anal is pretty gross

>>31924999
So... anal then.

>>31924575
Kind of related, but last year I started studying ComSci in University and I expected it to be like 90% nerd male and 10% ugly female. It's more like 60% nerd males, 10% chad males and 30% above average to good looking females.
I don't know why so many beautiful women are studying Computer Science but they are. There's like 2 girls in my class of 90 people that could literally be Instagram models. Every single person that sees them would rate them 9.5 or 10, they're like actual models, and they're studying fucking COMPUTER SCIENCE. There's also some really buff guys that you can tell browse /fit/.

I thought it would just be nerds and ugly stinky girls.

>>31925006
>It's way better with an actual person.
Is it actually good? Like enjoyable now?

>>31924989
There's two answers to this: The good faith and the bad faith way. The good faith way is taking what you mean in the most reasonable way possible, and assuming these people exist (they do). And the answer is that stupid and selfish people are just stupid and selfish. It's not logical because there's not supposed to be depth to the logic.

The bad faith view is assuming you're wrong for assuming this (you are, even if technically in a way you're correct). You're making up singular entities in your head based on the sentiments of a loud collective that can be generalized in extremely vague, thus hardly consistent or fully contextualized terms. The problem is that you're seriously believing societal standards to be reasonable in this way when the basis this logic works off of isn't even reasonable to begin with. It's not helping you and the fact you feel like you're mentally trying to wrestle with something related to girls means nothing if you have to be stuck here questioning women in this purely theoretical headspace. Quit it.

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>>31924979
Already do, anonymous female

>>31924971
I mean, obviously, I would have no desire to injure you! I'm very into blowjobs, and fairly into hand jobs, fine with going down on a woman, but not particularly into anal; so, if PIV is, in fact, possible and enjoyable for you, or if some of those other activities include things we would both enjoy doing, then I can't see that your status would be an issue at all. (I do realise I'm getting awfully personal with some of this, but I figured you probably wouldn't ask if you didn't want a full answer!)

I'm guessing they probably removed your testes early in life and put you on HRT? (This is just blatant nosiness on my part now!)

>>31925018
I'm not sure if my experience is really like most girls but it's better than it used to be.

>>31924989
I think you're mostly making up the "western women" attitude, or at least it's not what I see happening around me.
I also don't think most people find it gross if you find a foreign woman and date her. For example, one of my friends met a Vietnamese girl while studying abroad and I don't think any of us ever thought negatively of him for that. Specifically targeting women who are in vulnerable conditions because you think they'd be easier to date is kind of gross.

>>31925034
Aww that is really sad.

>>31924989
It's like a boss who doubles your duties without giving you a raise. They don't think you have any other options and they pikachu face when you do.
>>31925021
>>31925039
#notallwomen

>>31925047
I genuinely have never met a woman IRL who had particular issues around how much money a man she was dating made. I know several women who make more than their partners, including my own mother lol

>>31925014
I hate homosexual moids
>>31925012
>Most men WOMEN DATE want anal
>the majority of gay relationships don't actually engage in anal very often.
So they want to humiliate women but not other men? Really makes me think

>>31925047
>#notallwomen
Glad you agree that this train of thought is retarded either way

My ex's new boyfriend is much uglier than me. Trying to figure out what that means...

>>31925052
For the record that's irrelevant, but I also never said it was about money.
>>31925062
I was being sarcastic, after the last decade men will have zero sympathy for being painted with too broad a brush.

>>31925024
I had internal testicles removed to prevent future possible health issues. I'm on HRT.

>>31924952
I love anal, I always orgasm in 20 seconds but it will hurt afterwards so yeah

>>31924989
The truth is that most men are able to jump over these hurdles that women want us to.
We can't cause we're low value.
Women have deemed us as unworthy of mating and by going to a 3rd world country to find a wife you are admitting you are unfit to find a wife with any standards but that you'll do it anyway.
I think that is what they don't like.

>>31924892
Do you have schizophrenia anon?
Perhaps you can wean out the anti-psychotics.
Tell us your history.

>>31925074
>I also never said it was about money.
Yes you did. Quoting from your post:

Western women
>I make more money them most men now

many men
>Okay. I get that I'm not economically viable
>I will go find women who are happy with how much I make

>>31925074
>I was being sarcastic
Yes I know. I was saying that flipping this train of thought back at them is counterproductive whether or not it's satisfying or justified, and we should know this well by now if our lives revolved around anything more than playing victim.

>>31925085
I'm not >>31924989 I'm >>31925047.

>>31925073
I know this pain, my ex bf is dating a fat bitch older than me. Also she's an oil tank driver by profession

I have a question for women as well as for men.

Three weeks ago I broke up with my gf. We've been together for a month, but we've been talking for 8 months before that. We broke up mainly because she has fertility issues and is worried that I'm not religious. It was her decision to break up, because "she can't give me what I want" (=family) - I'd probably want to stay.

I have a very low self-esteem and don't think I will be able to find anybody as good as her in the future. I'm about to finish uni, my job prospects are not that good (foreign language studies), I wouldn't say I'm that attractive physically or status-wise, but I'm quite charismatic and somewhat romantic and emotional for a man.

I wrote a 5-page letter to her, where I thank for her everything she gave me: the good time, hope, closeness. I also apologize to her for being a coward and leaving her, and also not being who she wanted me to be. I don't mention wanting to get back, but that I will always remember her and she'll be a part of me.

I don't understand myself and why I want her to read that. I guess I want her to remember me well. I want to matter to her, even if I can't be with her. I'm not sure I love her, I've never loved anyone. But life feels meaningless right now.

My friends advise me against it. They tell me I will regret it.


I don't know what I'm gonna do yet. On the one hand - I like her, she's the closest to my ideal partner, but I feel stressed she's out of my league and that later it can turn out that we aren't a good match and can't have children.

I'd like to hear a perspective of a stranger. Thank you.

>>31924989
Modern leftism is all about denying reality and attempting to substitute delusional utopian idealism in its place. They tell women that they can girlboss their way to a 6-7 figure salary and they don't need kids, then when their biological instincts kick in in their late 20s or their 30s, these women try to pivot and find a man, but they're still women so they still want a man who they can see as a provider and protector, even if this goes against every feminist slogan they've ever chanted. But they've pushed a lot of men out of these mid-level positions with their inflated salaries, so the only places they can look for the kind of men they want are CEOs, entrepreneurs, and investors, and that's a limited dating pool. They've also been sold lies about hypergamy, so they believe they can just shack up with some rich dude and he'll give them what they want, but he's just using them.

By the time they realize they've been lied to, if they ever realize it, it's too late. They're in their mid-40s or older, their childbearing years are basically over, and men aren't interested in them anymore. They can either keep girlbossing and pretend it's what they wanted, or they can try to deny this reality as well, but that doesn't work and they'll just end up being used some more by guys who don't care about them.

Feminism is a malignant cancer, and at this point I think it's metastasis is complete.

>>31924989
Women are too well off nowadays and refuse to date a man they see as inferior to them, even though it is mostly imagined. It won't get better until a REAL economic downturn when people start killing each other in the streets over some skewered dog meat

>>31925041
How is that sad? If you don't know what you're missing, you're not really bothered by it.

>>31924892
is this a joke?

>>31925073
She settled because it signaled that attractive guys aren't worth the hassle anymore. Happens.

>>31925092
She supports him emotionally and is probably a net positive in his life.

>>31925047
>>31925039
>>31925021
>>31924989
I know this story sounds totally unrealistic, but I shit you not this happened irl with people I know personally.
>Guy (reasonably attractive normal dude, not a neckbeard) in LTR with his hot hapa gf
>both friends with girl 1 from college. Start hanging around more at chad's house (chad is girl 1's bf)
>realize that girl 2 (chad's other girlfriend) exists
>hapa gf tries to call out chad to the other girls, who just start thinking she's a bitch
>this degrades so much that now even girl 1 thinks guy and hapa gf are just bitches because it might upset the cart with chad if she doesn't, same with girl 2
>the narrative in the group is now is that guy 1 and hapa gf are just uppity cunts and that guy 1 is creepy and was just trying to date up by dating thirdies or whatever and that hapa girl (nice girl, I know her too) is just a greencard grifting golddigger (dude's not well off, and they've been together for like 7 or 8 years)

All this so that white girls could keep pretending their chad's gf. They just hate other raced girls because they're less greedy and scheming than they are and it makes them feel bad about themselves to have it pointed out.

>>31925105
>She supports him emotionally and is probably a net positive in his life.
No. He will cheat on her sooner or later

>>31925093
First of all, half the time when doctors tell a woman she's infertile or will have fertility issues, they're full of shit. I know several women who were told they would never have kids who had multiple children who are all healthy. Leaving her over that is kinda dumb.
Second, you say you broke up with her, but you also say it was her decision. Which is it?

Also,
>get niche degree
>don't already have a job lined up when you graduate
You fucked up. Not surprising, you seem kinda dumb.

>>31925111
I genuinely don't even understand what you're trying to say.

>>31925093
>I have a very low self-esteem and don't think I will be able to find anybody as good as her in the future
>I'm about to finish uni
I hate to put this too bluntly but you're being melodramatic. I'm not gonna ask you rip off the band aid and not feel pain, especially since I don't know what you've emotionally invested into those 8 months, but you cannot live your life assuming one person is the most important thing you will ever have. That's not realistic nor is it healthy, and that belief will prevent you from finding a better future more than anything. It's fine to appreciate the relationship for all that it's meant to you. It's not fine to act as if it's the most important thing that will ever happen to you regardless of whatever your future potentially holds.

I don't know you very well so I don't know if sending that letter is a good idea or not. But if you are going to do it, you should do it with no attachment to however she's going to feel about it, and do it for your own closure alone. Three weeks is a really late and bad window to be sending something like that which is why I somewhat agree to not send it at this point. You should have done it sooner, because now you're just building an attachment issue. But if you can really do it without the attachment issues (big if from the sounds of it) then I'd say fine. Though you don't sound like you can.

>>31925112
Did he cheat on you? If so, why?

>>31925120
Yes, with her
>why
Because he's stupid

>>31925116
>girls hate nice Filipino girl because she told them chad is cheating on them, suddenly decide her long term bf is a creepy passport bro trying to scoop up vulnerable thirdies because white women are out of his league

>>31925129
>Because he's stupid
Lol, not a real reason.

>>31925111
First of all you need to get better naming for your stories so that keeping up with who's who isn't an annoying chore. Second, no one is denying there aren't extremely shitty women who have typical behaviors. But what's practical is always going to matter more than what's true, and what's practical is realizing this shit is a waste of time that only ends in trying to give energy, attention, and character, to trying to deal with the whims of shitty people that won't be accountable. Where has that gotten anyone?

>>31924952
I enjoy anal. I've had orgasms from it and remembering my ex fucking me like that. What the other anon said might be right, though, it's a degradation thing. And I used to watch it in porn too.

Imagine being a white man and having the entire hollywood industry propping you up as an ideal mate
Yet your women still fall to the ultimate, indian seduction and handsomeness.

>>31925137
>t. brainwashed by her ex

>>31925141
when shit fills the water supply you have no choice but to start drinking shit

>>31924839
okay, thanks! will do former I think. yes sorry that's what I meant, what was done to him. he's worried he'll say or do the wrong thing, and go soft right as it is about to happen.
>If it's intimacy in general I wouldn't be the first to add trauma to the discussion, but if it's about the troubles around intimacy then the topic is already started

no he mentioned soneone he has to deal with doing something bad that his dad did which thise sort of actions lead to his trauma and retriggering when he started explaining it more to me.

he has spoken to me about the trauma quite a few tines but he felt comfortable enough to express the R word, which is very painful. before he might have wanted to tell me buthe just said he couldn't say the word t the time. other tines he used other words of similar nature but.. yeah.
>>31924855
I know from before he just wants me to hold him and tell him everything's gonna be okay :( but we live a bit away from eachother
>>31924921
I'm just trying to figure out how to word it since I come off awkward in expressing sometimes

>>31924952
I know a homosexual tranny (Think of a gay man so gay and flamboyant he larps as a woman in order to attract men) who dated a "transman"(woman who larp as man) once just so people would stop accusing him of having genital preferences. He had PIV sex with her and said pussy is much better than ass. Crazy how even a gay man could acknowledge that but straight men think ass is better

>>31925144
>women can't have their own thoughts

>>31925085
>>31925095
to add onto what >>31925095 said. modern Feminism is cancer for society as a whole because as women have joined the work force so they can increase the price of everything. before like in the 1950s one man with a single job could support a whole family (wife & 5 children) now you'd need both the husband and wife working at the same time to support the family. this also means higher taxes for the government but It's not like they use that to help us out.

also it's total BS to say that women make $0.70 on the dollar that men make. it's not true because if it were all companies would only hired women and save a ton of money.

the only way to escape modern feminism, as a man, is to make a ton of money like 100k minimum a year, which is already a challenge. and find a nice woman who has traditional values. and most traditional women aren't in America so men find them is places like Thailand and eastern Europe.

>>31925153
>straight men think ass is better
You sound so boring.

>>31925075
Yeah, that was just me being ridiculously nosey! Anyway the answer to your original question is that I can't see that you having CAIS would bother me in the slightest, and I would just think of you as a woman. Hope dating works out for you!

>>31925160
100k a year is still not enough for a lot of women.

>>31925159
>moids do not brainwash their partners

Is it just me or is there a disproportionately large amount of people with disabilities and disorders in the UK? Whenever I see a video like that on youtube they're almost always English.

>>31925093
>I guess I want her to remember me well. I want to matter to her, even if I can't be with her.
Get over yourself.

>>31925093
>I broke up with my gf.
>It was her decision to break up
Which is it?

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>>31925096
>Women are too well off nowadays and refuse to date a man they see as inferior to them
not true, my dad who made like 12k a year at the time married my step-mom who makes 120k but at one point she made +600k a year on good years. now I get to live in a cool house with a bunch of large dogs.

>>31925144
>brainwashed
Sounds kinda hot.

>>31925023
I'm not white.

>>31925166
Thanks! You're fine, really. I'm honestly not that bothered. You're right, if I didn't want to talk about I wouldn't have asked.

>>31925114
Thank you for the reply. She was quite certain she couldn't have children after her doctor's appointment. She broke up with me, I'm sorry for the confusion... Regarding my degree... Well, let's just say my whole life has been damage control from the get go - I'm not in debt or anything. I live in Europe, you can get a job with my degree.

>>31925118
Thank you for the reply. I know I'm being a little melodramatic as you point out and I will probably still sound like that when I say that she was the best thing that's ever happened to me - in my mind she was, I was never happier, but still feared she'd leave me...

I'm surprised that you think three weeks is late, though. I don't really have any experience in that matter.

>>31925182
It was her, sorry for the confusion.
>>31925179
I'm trying.

>>31925160
>as women have joined the work force so they can increase the price of everything.
how is price going up related to women entering the work force?

>>31925075
>future possible health issues
You mean like cancer?

>>31925185
>anecdote from 30 years ago

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why do I love women so much but at the same time want to dislike them

>>31925171
It's not completely that 'it's not enough for women', it's that it's not enough to live a comfortable life anymore.

Women don't have to live in the real world. They still think that a man should provide for them a 90's family sitcom lifestyle and haven't changed that viewpoint in 20 or 30 years as a group. But men have to live in the real world because they know there's no shot anybody would just give that to them. Most know it's an unattainable fantasy, but women still think it's a reality, and everybody ends up disappointed.

>>31925175
>woman always get brainwashed and even stay that way after they have long broken up

>>31925176
Centuries of inbreeding will do that

>>31925160
>modern Feminism is cancer for society as a whole because as women have joined the work force so they can increase the price of everything
Lower and middle class women have always worked, they just were not compensated fairly for their work - the fight was never to get women working, it was to allow women to get better job and to be paid fairly for their labor.
Not working was reserved for upper-middle classes, pretty much until WW2.

>>31925196
More money going out means more has to come in.

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Why didnt you guys tell me there was a new thread? Mean...

>>31925204
Your dick fighting against your rational mind

>>31925204
You watch anime, therefore you love women for reasons that aren't real and you dislike women for reasons that aren't real.

>>31925204
Involuntary Celibacy

>>31925204
I love women too, I just wish they loved me back

I can't stop crying Why did God put me in this situation if he knew it wouldn't end well

>>31925201
Right. It's not like I could examine them like dudes.

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Which country has the most gorgeous men?

>>31925213
I want to know why there are two threads again

>>31925227
Agartha

>>31925176
It's legitimately all the inbreeding. I say that as an English guy.

>>31925227
All men are inherently ugly

>>31925222
You ever read the book of Job?

>>31925227
Israel

Women can i poke your side boob? pleeeeaaasee?

>>31925195
>She was quite certain she couldn't have children after her doctor's appointment.
My grandmother was told when she was 19 that she would never have children. Ten years later she had seven children, all of them healthy. My aunt, on the other hand, had trouble getting pregnant and went to multiple doctors over it. Over the course of 15 years she and my uncle tried everything they could, including IVF. Checked his sperm, checked her out, doctors never found an issue, but she was never able to conceive. Doctors are full of shit, especially when it comes to fertility.

I agree with the other anon though, even if it was immediately after the breakup I think sending that letter would be a bad idea, but three weeks later it's definitely not a good idea. It's melodramatic and obsessive, and you need to move on. She's decided she doesn't want to date you anymore, so find someone else. Probably best if you do so relatively quickly, since dating after college is much more difficult.

>>31925195
>It was her, sorry for the confusion
Then why did you apologise for leaving her?

I kind of want a bf who would rush into the room, steal a kiss from me while groping me greedily, carry me to the bedroom while ripping off my clothes and then fuck me furiously

how do I make him feel like he isn't chasing me away so he stops worrying

>>31925232
Alain Delon La Perfection Humaine

>>31925236
nta but things ended pretty well for Job.

WHY DO WOMEN HATE ME? SECONDLY MY DAD HATES ON ME FOR NO REASON I DONT GET IT

>>31925247
suck his soul out the tip

>>31925239
It's been far too long since someone has played with my titties (a week)

>>31925205
If she's already making 75-100k and he's making 100k, that's enough to live comfortably. Obviously though, if she wants to be a stay at home mom, that's more difficult, but still doable. But a lot of women don't want to be stay at home moms anymore either.

>>31925227
Netherlands.

>>31925239
Ok. Be gentle though.

>>31925250
>WHY DO WOMEN HATE ME?
because you pay for 4chan premium...

>>31925239
>Women can i poke your side boob? pleeeeaaasee?
If you don't mind me breaking your finger.

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>>31925216
>You watch anime
havent in years

>>31925248
He's dead

Women, would you let someone touch your clothed boob irl?

>>31925245
Women say shit like this and then make their dating decisions based entirely on the guy making lots of money and treating her like trash.

>>31925245
What's preventing that?

>>31924888
>>31924880
She’s not mad she’s taken she’s mad that she can’t have friends without them wanting to fuck her

>>31925262
Fembotcop got tiddies of steel.

>>31925262
Worth it if you have nice tits.

How doI maek her squert?

>>31925254
>a week
we got a stacy over here

>>31925260
Yes! don't worry, i cut my nails and stuff

>>31925262
Honestly, sounds like a sacrifice im willing to make

>>31925245
>Stop, I didn't mean right now! You were supposed to read my mind and know when I want this and when I don't!

>>31925247
>how do I make him feel like he isn't chasing me away so he stops worrying
Stop running away from him.

>>31925265
Yeah, my husband can touch my boobies whenever he wants.

>>31925265
I'd let people touch my bare boobs
My boobs are fan friendly

>>31925280
kek

>>31925247
Be more affectionate.
Why is being a human being so fucking difficult for women?
Every fucking time it's
>how do I make my normal bf feel better about our relationship?
>Have you tried making it seem like you want to be there?
>Oh, no I mean I just want him to suddenly feel better about me not really liking the relationship. Oh btw, if you talk about 'problem solving' I'll get mad, we're just in a active listening phase of me complaining (never gets to the next phase)

>>31925265
Only if we were extremely good friends.

>>31925251
he joked about me devouring his soul but no xxx stuff rn because he has rightful boundaries

How do I make myself as physically repulsive as possible to women. I've stopped trimming my nails and unibrow, stopped shaving my face, anything else i can do

>>31925286
You're imagining an actual relationship but she's asking about her Discord e-relationship.

>>31925289
Just be yourself

>>31925289
Swap bodies with me

>>31925289
you're already posting in atoga so you're basically done

>>31925257
The problem is that there are like 5 billion people who have soul mates and probably already met them that, but because they both make similar "scraping by" amounts, the woman refuses and now they both have to live in squalor when they could have been comfy together if the woman was less greedy.

>>31925242
I feel like I should've stayed and not just accepted her decision. I feel responsible for it...

>>31925241
Thank you for the advice. I wrote the letters to put my mind at ease and order my thoughts. I'm here because I wasn't sure if I'm actually going to send it.

I'm trying to move on - that's why I haven't done anything since the breakup, but I can't help but think that it's cruel for me to walk away like that, even though it was her decision. I'm scared of being lonely.

>>31925265
Yes, my (imaginary) bf

Is there ever a good reason to dump someone? Or am I just too much of a people pleaser? How do I get past that when I think something isn't going to work out?

Women, if you poke your boobs with a finger, how far does it sink in?

>>31924832
You weren't born rich either, so fuck it. It is what it is.

>>31925289
Stop bathing and deodorizing

>>31925303
Same boat mate. I want an answer too. I'm a people pleaser

>>31925304
Depends where, but at the furthest point, about 2 inches

>>31925289
>anything else i can do
Stop washing. Don't brush your teeth. Never change or wash your clothes.

>>31925299
It's not cruel to move on, it's cruel to keep trying to be in her life if she doesn't want that. It just makes it harder for you both to move on and find happiness.

Women would you hide my phone in your bra?

Men
Penis length
Height
Weight
How much can you bench

>>31925304
Maybe a half an inch.

>>31925321
I do it all the time for my bf.

>>31925324
Oh, you mean my peanus? My peanus weanus? That peanus right there with the weanus?

>>31925324
>8"
>6'
>165 lbs
>idk I don't work out

>>31925324
2 hand spans
5'9
150-160 idk
1 plate about 6 times

Pregnant gf broke up with me, looking for a way back.

She has major communication and insecurity issues. Whenever there's a discussion, misunderstanding, hashing out, or argument she just doesn't say anything, stops responding, ignores, dismisses me, guilt trips me and makes the bad guy. So I raise my voice and slam my fist on desks out of frustation (but I have never hit her).

She's had an abortion with her previous ex, and there was some huge drama/cheating there, so I messaged him, because I wanted truths for the sake of the baby. When she found out, she got upset, but got over it. I told her I was on the fence about the situation, her, and she had to do better and show improvement if she wants me to stick around. She agreed, and asked if there was anything she could do for me. I told her to figure it out herself, and that i'll give her her space.

She texts me 4 hours later breaking up with me 100%. Wouldn't return my calls. Blamed my trauma, me messaging her ex, and that its over.

Anything I can do?

>>31925303
>Is there ever a good reason to dump someone?
There are a vast number of good reasons. Anything along the lines of "this isn't working for me and there's no realistic possibility of that changing" is a good reason. "I'm worried it might not work" or "this isn't working but I've done nothing to try to fix it" are generally bad reasons.

>>31925304
About 2 inches where there are no roots at the fullest part.

>>31925334
D.E.N.N.I.S Method

>>31925324
17cm
187cm
61kg
i have never been inside a gym

>>31925321
>Women would you hide my phone in your bra?
Why, are you in prison?

>>31925336
>"I'm worried it might not work"
Why? This is a valid reason imo.

>>31925321
The only way I could really hide it is to put it in the underboob.

>>31925334
>So I raise my voice and slam my fist on desks out of frustation
She's better off without you.

>>31925281
what if I am anxious and bad with words and struggle replying to him hours later? I don't wanna make him feel worse it I say the wrong thing
>>31925286
we aren't normal.
>>31925291
hey our feelings still matter

>>31925273
If she weren't dating you this would be a non-issue because she'd go out with him and probably get fucked.

I need advice on how to stop being a bitch and missing my ex

>>31925343
There can be no secrets between us if I put my face to your chest whenever I get a call. Similarly, I'm going to be sticking your phone in my pants.

I have a crush on my friend and idk what to do.

1. Your gender
2. Gender(s) you find sexy enough to fuck/date irl
3. How much porn is acceptable for your ideal mate to watch?

M
F
Women don't watch porn,* so she can watch as much as she wants, so long as it doesn't turn her gay.**

*Women do actually watch porn irl but less so
**The more porn one consumes, the more likely they are to become bisexual for some reason

>>31925334
>Anything I can do?
After you've done all of that shit? Hell, no.

>>31925354
Whatever you do, don't do any kind of cringy anime confession shit

>>31925324
>Penis length
About 7 in
>Height
5'8
>Weight
215 lbs
>How much can you bench
No idea

Men, tell me something about your peenor

>>31925354
You should replicate your favorite anime confession

Why does everyone hate sperg girls so much? I don't mean the over the top obvious ones but the almost passable ones that are clearly trying

>>31925349
>we aren't normal.
The fact that you even validated my incel ragebait response with a reply means you aren't mature enough for a relationship

>>31925336
What if the realistic possibility of what isn't working for me being years and years away?

>>31925334
Bro you're retarded. Leave the poor girl alone.

>>31925365
We don't? It's the guys you could make an argument for.

>>31925354
Same. Just don't ruin things with your feelings. If it's too much, break it off. You deserve to be happy.

>>31925355
>1. Your gender
F.
>Gender(s) you find sexy enough to fuck/date irl
F/M.
>How much porn is acceptable for your ideal mate to watch?
Ideally no porn whatsoever.

>>31925362
He's two toned

>>31925362
It's two-toned. About halfway down the shaft the color suddenly changes from my normal skin tone to a pale pink

>>31925354
Simply stop having a crush on him/her. That's what I do and I am never disappointed or embarrass myself

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>>31925362
Its veiny but not bulging veins. Like this pic rel

>>31925376
>>31925377
Cute. I'm guessing you're both circumcised?

>>31925299
>I'm scared of being lonely.
This is the only sentence of all you have said so far that has any real value.
You are not going to win her back.

>>31925371
Sperg guys are more easily understood and accepted and get help sooner to develop socially. It's the reverse for women. Every sperg guy I know has a girlfriend/wife or easily understood and fits in somewhere. Sperg girls are seen as weird or stuck up and always dislikes

>>31925382
yes u_u

>>31925355
>1. Your gender
F
>2. Gender(s) you find sexy enough to fuck/date irl
M
>3. How much porn is acceptable for your ideal mate to watch?
Ideally none, acceptable to watch occasionally if I'm not there to fuck him.

>>31925382
Unfortunately so

>>31925362
He's a virgin

>>31925362
My laptop is on top of it at this very moment, separated only by a few layers of fabric.

>>31925362
It's curved slightly to the left

>>31925380
unsettling, if you got a paper cut i think you'd bleed out in seconds

Women, tell me something about your tiddies

>>31925355
M
F
I don't care

Women would you support my balls when they need it most?

>>31925391
nta F but isn't that not good for your sperm?

>>31925334
isn't this what you wanted? you went and asked her ex about the cheating thing because you wanted an excuse to break up with her since she's pregnant

or are you dissatisfied because she got to break up with you first?

>>31925355
1. M
2. F
3. I cannot afford to be picky so she can shlick as much as she wants to whatever she wants

>>31925402
Who cares, it's not like my sperm will ever be inside anyone else.

>>31925239
My sideboob is pretty much just my weird nipples.

>>31925398
I have to shave around my areola before I let men see them. Some of the hair can grow two inches long.

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>>31925374
>Bisexual doesn't like very instrument that turns people into bisexuals
I bet you don't date men who identify as bi either lol (but you have no problem with bi women)

>>31925398
My left one is slightly larger than my right. No one really notices but it bothers me a little.

>>31925402
Yeah could make you infertile if done regularly enough

>>31925362
it cums so much that i've accidentally shot myself in the face many a time