how am i supposed to exist and have fun when all the trans people near me are decked in insanely fashionable style and years into their transition or are engineers or comp sci grads with a tylenol stat buff. how is everyone loaded with cash. i don't understand this at all. i'm literally some absolute nobody in comparison, how do i even compete?
idk vro, coolest tranner i know works at ikea
>>42263275I don't know either but I know that I have to keep trying even if I am also ugly and retarded. I'd much rather be an ugly and retarded woman than a slightly less ugly yet still retarded man, and I'm sure you feel the same way. You just have to accept that some people are gonna look better than you and it really fucking sucks but what're ya gonna do? At least you can learn fashion which is nice
>>42267948Gladly.What are you aspirations and desires, dear?
>>42269110I'd like to learn an instrument, read and exercise more, spend more time outdoors. I don't really care about working other than what I need to support myself.I have dependency issues and would like a relationship that soothes them while maintaining boundaries and improving my capabilities.
>>42267999the people i'm comparing to graduated high honors in engineering (i checked their linkedin lolol) and work at an actual engineering job or own a house at 26...
>hrtrepper>hate foids>can only barely tolerate interacting with men>cant stand being around trannieswho do i even talk to desu, maybe i should learn another language, english speaking people clearly are just impossible to like
>>42268522whats the issue then? i feel the same way as op
>>42268536misanthropy
>>42268553how is that an issue
>>42267853i dont think i shower enough for that so i never went>>42268481i dont use discord
>>42268522>>42268553yes i am partially a misanthrope, problem?just did my injection BTW
like lolwut?calling you a man is transphobic??
>>42264830this really doesn't affect me, I am indeed a fag who uses she/her pronouns and lives as a girl but is well aware her and her bf are two fags in love <3
>>42267852need faglove bf...>t. ranny
Wtf is going on in here
>>42268097mental illness
>>42267852kys
> be me, trans woman> do some sissy boomerhon traaaaa gooner shit> get called a fake trans fetishist> since i'm not trans i start calling myself a cis man on hrt> get called a brainwormed and delusional tranny> i start calling myself a trans woman> do some sissy boomerhon traaaaa gooner shit> ...how do i break this cycle?
>>42265224but i'm only attracted to women>>42266158what should i call myself then?
>>42266307>what should i call myself then?a gooner who gooner too close to the sun
>>42266307>what should i call myself then?A fetishistic, retarded man
>>42266307>but i'm only attracted to womenget gf
>>42267463it's hard :(
There are bottoms who don't use a bidet or wet wipes. They just scrape shit off their ass with dry paper and call it a day
>>42269738meI shit all over trade I don't care
>>42269738I always shower after wiping personally, but yeahplease check out the global rate for washing hands after you've been to the bathroom
Can libertarian boymoders and anarchist trans men/women still be friends despite their political differences
>>42269676political ideologies aren’t even real lol, fucking teenagers are so retarded with their neopronoun ass “politics”
>>42269831I'm sorry for being dumb '-'
>>42269836I do not forgive you.
>>42269676To be Libertarian is to be Anarchist, to be anarchist is to support capitalism. All anarkiddies that don't support capitalism are bootlickers.
>>42269845nooooooooooooooooo
I pavloved my transf gf to only cum when I give permission and I have been not giving it for a week and it seems to have made her dysfunctional. Sweet
>>42267632Hot
I need to know, because it does not make sense to me AT ALL. It's literally like being trans and supporting Trump or being trans and supporting the KKK or being trans and supporting Seth Rogan. I do not understand.
>>42269027doesn't the homophobia of islam makes you wish to quit it? I speak as someone who left christianity because of it.
>>42269207Are you sure you're interpreting the text the right way? Because it takes some amount of wishful thinking to look at Mohamed, his life, the things he got angry at, and conclude >Yeah, that guy was fine with gay people
Because we're all fighting the same fight against the white cis hetero patriarchy and need to stand together and learn About each other by direct contact and not fear mongering western media stereotypes?
>>42268801Projection! You know you have no criticism get new hobbies. Not your body not your life to live, it is our own
The powers that be use us against each other to stop us uniting and going after them. George Carlin did some great bits about this. Fairly simple concept, happens to work.If you're biased to a side then you've fallen for it. Most people do, don't feel bad. But it doesn't have to be that way, you can go your own way and live your real best life without being a pawn in someone else's game where the object is you lose and suffer and keep other people down with you.
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>>42272137Yeah I just appreciate beauty, I don't care what label that gives meI'm either getting a bit ill or it's just the downside of the booze and weed during the holiday season. It's always a rough time despite being so gezellig. That should be fixed by next week though, else it's a visit to the doctorMaybe I'll take some time to ponder other things. You have been on my mind a lot
>>42272209same im the middle but circumsized desuactually my entire body is closer to the middle
>>42272209You're perfect
>>42272232Nice!I feel bad for circumcised people, it's so unnecessary to do. All it does is numb them so sex isn't as good.>>42272238Nah, I'm just alright.
>>42272253I was being dramatic, but still you sound nice
While reading some online posts about SRS recovery I heard that diapers are a good way to ice your groin. I laughed at this, but upon looking further into it, it seemed like a great idea. I proceeded to buy some in preparation and waited for the day to arrive.I got sent home the day of surgery because it was just a vulvoplasty and once the fent and perc wore off all i had was oxy. The pain was tremendous and really hard to withstand, it felt like my penis was still there and screaming in pain, my (now gone) balls were sore and the catheter made me feel like I need to pee at all hours.In response to this I grabbed my trusty diapers and put some sink water into them then into the freezer they went. When they were ready I put the diapers on and it was bliss. It didn't help with the pain much but boy did it turn me on, made me wish i could touch myself but the dressings prevented that. After a couple of days of this the constipation from the pain meds wore off and I REALLY needed to poop. However, I very much didn't want to stand up because the diaper was restricting movement and i was on the tail end of an oxy so everything hurt down there.Eventually it became too much and i tried to stand, in the process the gates of hell opened and flooded my diaper with brown stinky liquid. I quickly discovered that i enjoy this, maybe a little too much.Tldr: SRS made me realize i love crinkling
>>42269575Im trying to resist the urge to do it again, i know its unsanitary so i will wait for it to heal up more but ugh i want to feel that way again
>>42269572Oh no I already love diapers I just don't think this sequence of events happened
>>42269599give in to the urges, and just put on that diaper we know you're gonna do it again
>>42269604Frozen diapers honestly work wonders for reducing inflammation so im wearing them at all times These things happen desu...>>42269628Don't tempt me... oxy gives me such vivid dreams and i keep shitting myself in them cause i am non-stop thinking about it
>>42269824Post frozen diap or gtfo
I just happen to only hook up with trans women because I have a kink for feminizing my partner and I've never met a guy that would take estrogen pills on his knees for me, much less dress fem 24/7...
>>42269361>I've never met a guy that would take estrogen pills on his knees for me, much less dress fem 24/7I could cut my hair and stop taking estrogen for like a week...
>>42269361This is based if you're cisfem and horrifically cringe if you're cismale
Why is Wonder Showzen the only show I've seen from the 90s-2000s with any explicit FTM representation? Am I misinformed or was it really not that common back then? Note: I'm excluding stuff like Mulan where the character is male presenting but doesn't undergo any surgeries or TRT.
>>42269349it was purely hypothetical before 2017 when trans men were invented
"Two and a Half Men" had one too. In one episode Charlie reconnects with an ex who transitioned. And despite how crass the show was it was surprisingly pretty tasteful about it.
>>42269429He had sex with a cis man before transitioning then came back into the guy's life to bang his mom. This should be introductory material for people who wonder how you'd turn out if you were born missing your dick
>>42269349trannies weren't invented back then
We need to start a polytheist equivalent to the temple of Satan and start using it to sue the fuck out of these places.https://www.lgbtqnation.com/2026/01/university-bans-philosophy-professor-from-teaching-about-plato-because-its-too-gay/
>>42269651Satanism is mostly just a lawsuit factory already
>>42269651Basically they are pushing the old Genesis Adam and Eve not Adam and Steve bullshit but with everything now. They are trying to jam Genesis religious bullshit down all of our throats. The very idea that there are only 2 genders almost exclusively an Abrahamic concept. In Hellenic Polytheism Prometheus made man and then Dionysus got Prometheus and Hermes shitfaced and they decided to make even more new people. This is the origin of LGBTQI people and saying there were only 2 sexes and they can only be heterosexual is definitionally religious and viewpoint discrimation
Why wouldn't they do like the Victorians and just selectively translate the dialogues to seem less gay? How are they more puritanical the the fucking Victorians?
>>42269694Because they are iconoclasts larping as bronze age savages and claiming the mantle of "the chosen"
my hair is quite long but its really really flat like 1A and ive had a ''hairstyle'' for years that i really only have to avoid having to go to a hairdresser. its just a side part. i wanna get an actual hairstyle but i dont know what my options are. my face is like pretty long so i cant just do a middle part because i feel like that would just make it look worse.any trannies with 1A hair have some advice for me?ps. im boymoding so i wanna get something more androgynous, not outright feminine.
(>>42269325 continued:)these ponytail methods are the best for home cuts. they make for extremely integrated, flowing layers, better than you'll do by going in and snipping like you're trimming a hedge. feel free to look up "ponytail cuts," but a lot of them needlessly overcomplicate it and tie like 3 ponytails at the same time. you don't do this. you should *not* do this. this will make for layers that don't flow into each other. and don't cut a *low* ponytail either. this will give you dense, unlayered, blocky hair that looks incredibly ugly on tranny face shapes.hope this helps <3
>>42269339i will def look up how to do this and other home cut methods but like arents wolfcuts only for people whose hair has a lot of volume? ive never seen a wolfcut done with completely straight and flat hair
>>42269284maybe in another thread in a few days if i keep procrastinating. im too insecure rn + my hair is greasy kek
>>42269370i thought my hair was really straight and flat when i had a completely unlayered haircut. but in truth, what defines how much "poof" your hair has is how layered it is. you've never seen a wolf cut done with completely straight hair because wolf cuts make your hair seem less straight.cuts should, imo, be decided primary based on face shape, and secondarily, based on hair type. since we have square tranny jaws, wolf cuts look beautiful on us :Dif you don't like how it looks after, you can always grow the layers out pretty simply, by tying a low ponytail and cutting there. that'll kill all layering, which if you want a "straight look", is how to do it. but you shouldn't do this. it'll look bad.but yeah, a wavy hair type and a straight hair type work equally as well for an unlayered and layered hairstyle. the difference between the two is how squiggly it'll look within the style. in design, we talk about big, medium, small, and hair type affects a hairstyle somewhere in the medium range. it's detail, not broad shape.finally, you can ignore all this and just do the unicorn cut, if you still don't believe me that a wolf cut works independently of hair type. unicorn cut is a much more traditional hairstyle, so it should be "safe" for you even if you believe hair type matters for this. but i recommend trying wolf cut first and then if you decide it doesnt work, just migrating into only doing unicorns after.or just go to a hairdresser lol. but these r your options thumbsup
>>42269123 From a 1A afab Get a layered haircut, consider styling your hair with a curler/straightener, use dry shampoo for more volume, tie your hair up or braid it while it’s drying from a shower to give it some shape.In general, too long of a hair style can also flatten your hair down, it doesn’t have to be super short, but anything too far below the shoulders in length will probably work against you
Do you do ballet?
>>42263845yes for years and i still absolutely love it;i wish there was a good forum dedicated to it!
i find feminine performance so repulsive.
>>42263845I'd like to but I was too ashamed as a kid to ask
>>42263845Name if slut?
>>42268909Guille Arrabalhttps://www.instagram.com/guillealoring
