Finally asked out a boy for the first time in my life and got rejected. Fuck my stupid tranny life :(
>>42046396stupid ass tripfag
>>42044896It’s because you like TCOAAL
>>42047870sounds like you are filtering potentially sweet men out in favor of outdated and often harmful gender norms tbqh
>>42045258>he basically said he doubted my seriousnessthat means he thinks you're a whore who will cheat on him. nice job on making a good impression, dumbass
>>42044896Finally asked out a beautiful trans girl for the first tine in my life and got rejected. Fuck my stupid bifag life
How do I get over absolutely fucking HATING how I look in candid photos? It looks like literally a completely different person from who I see in the mirror. Am I that mentally ill that I have completely deluded myself into thinking I look presentable?I just got a thank you card in the mail from a wedding I attended and therein was quite possibly the WORST photo of myself I have ever seen: at night, in the wind, weird angle, flash photo, and it literally just looks like a man in a dress. Is that what I authentically look like? It literally looks like a completely different human being than what I mentally associate with myself, and while I obviously suffer with the same crippling self esteem and self image issues as anyone else here, I honest to go thought that maybe I do in fact pass.It's so fucking over. It's SO fucking over. Holy fuck I'm actually going to sob. I can't wrap my head around how I look so fucking ghoulish in photos others take vs what I see in mirrors or photos I have taken. It's incomprehensible. This is like, what Lovecraft meant with eldritch horror, I wasn't supposed to know. I wasn't supposed to see myself like this, it is forbidden, maddening. Why couldn't they have just sent a thank you card without the most horrific photo I've ever seen of myself.
>>42048380>>42048388Right but it's not like, just looking unflattering, it's literally a whole different human being in the image
>>42048413that honestly sounds liike body dysmorphic disorder, you should probably talk to a therapist
>>42048653Is this the same person
>>42048896looks like it, one is just more unflattering because it's an unstaged candid
>>42048917It makes me sad that the body language of the photo is clearly communicating I don't want a photo taken and yet a photo was not only taken and then sent to me.I feel very sad about this because it has successfully made me feel fucking horrible about myself just as I sort of started feeling less horrible about myself.
And I don't mean shit you really should have known, like getting oilier or losing muscle mass, I mean really niche shit that no one would even think of telling you about, I'll go first: I didn't realize how much lint I would accumulate once I started growing more body hair
>>42047378maybe it's just agp but i kind of like being weaker, like i really get why some girls like being scooped up even more than before
>>42047650The cold thing is so real, its really bad right now my skin gets so dry and it makes that skin sensitivity issue you mentioned so much worse. Crying is also the big one for me, I am way more sentimental and my heart and mind are touched in ways I never even felt before...
>was always weak>always cried a lot>always hated coldMeh
Why is there so much fighting here? Why so much hatred? This isn't what I made this thread for. Let's all hold hands and tell eachother something we like about one another.
>>42047745>the feeling in the body completely shifts. instead of being centered in the genital area, the feeling kinda starts in my gut and expands outward. I used to need to jerk off to feel anything in my body, but like I was just sexting with a guy one night and nearly started convulsing from how intense the sensation was all over my body. its fucking insane.yeah the tummy feeling is such a big difference, it's really crazyalso my fingernails are much more fragile nowthat's basically it
fuck my stupid 30 year old shotacon tranny life
>>42048936Jesus. Please tell me you were born CISBonus score if you are into furry
>>42048936why is the transgender movement normalizing pedophilia
>>42048970there are randomized shota and loli banners at the top of the screen fuck off zoomie
>>42048970>moralfagging about shota on 4chanthe electionwave and covidwave of newfags ruined this website
>be me> tranny boymoder on diy for 6 years> kicked out at 16 for being a tranny (i'd been on diy e for 2 years at that poiny)> crash on friends' couches and work 60 hours a week until i can get my own place> get my own place> work as much as i can> no friends no life> haven't seen or heard from my family in 3 years> mom calls> she apologizes, says she's a fucking theyfab now, wants to meet up> kys freak who the fuck would want to be a disgusting worthless moid kys kys> she sends me a pic> grossest fucking moid i've seen in yearsWhy does my theyfab mother pass better as a man after 2 years of T then I do after 6 years of DIY
>>42048845Reconnecting doesn't mean you have to see him, you could just simply tell him how you feel about his treatment of you and how fucked up he was to you if you think it helps.My dad was similar tho not as bad, took years for me to accept that he'll never apologize for the shit he pulled but I am glad we are able to talk to each other again and to see that he is changed.Didn't want to reconnect initially and made it clear that I want to talk about stuff first and we went from there.Worked for me, doesn't mean it is what you need tho, just that there are options between total cutting out and "forgive and forget"
>>42048684>>42048693If this isn't a larp--and desu being mogged by your lateshit parent is objectively hilarious--I'd say this.Not reconnecting with them because of them some trans bs is petty (even though I totally understand it as a repper who is currently hearing about a family member troon out, it is the most frustrating thing).Not reconnecting with them because they're unforgivable is not petty.I'd be more on the side of trying to reconnect tho, partly cos their perspective might be more accepting now, but also cos you might not have another chance to patch things up, especially if you're moving.We only have a limited amount of time, but that includes the time we have with other people. So you have to decide how unforgivable they are and how much you might want even a casual relationship moving forward. If you try and it works, it was worth it. If you try and it doesn't work, you never have to see them again.
>>42048887Yeah :/ I don't know I shouldn't make these decisions when I've been drinking but needed something to help. Glad things worked out between you and your old man but I don't know if we could ever be close again. Whenever I'm inconvenient she got rid of me, either having me sleep in the porch or locking me in my room or driving me somewhere and leaving me for a few hours. I know she doesn't really want to reconnect and there's always some reason she wants to be associated with me again.
>>42048894I dont know how much of it is me just hating theyfabs for wanting to be irredeemably disgusting moids v me trying to avoid my mother because I don't want to have to deal with her bullshit again. I'm still a fucking wreck from the last time she got rid of me and this time didn't even hurt but I know I can't be around her.
>>42048931Yeah you should think this through sober, maybe no contact is the best for you, but maybe it isn't, explore your own feelings, sober
Despite being a tranny I mostly just see myself as a feminine male in a sexual context. tfw no bf who praises me for being his beautiful faggy prince and tying me up and letting me lick his cock as a treat
>>42046536waow giwtwm so bad
>>42036769need a man who threatens to take my hair as a trophy after he fucks me and kills me desu
>>42047328you were born to serve probably. just accept it so you can work on becoming a good toy.>>42046165i will have this soon lol, i have a puppygirl who's down to serve me alongside someone else. just need to start adding cute girls to my harem.
>>42044680Need this so bad. I need my tranny gf to sit in a cage while it happens though
put your cigs out on my tummy, smoke three packs a day (but smoking isn't hot I just want the burns)
what causes shit like this?
>>42045999I used to look like this before hormones and laser
>>42047785only if you're 400 lbs
i'm trying to hairmax too, any tips anon?
>>42047803It's funny because this skeletal structure is not that far off the ideal bodybuilding/aesthetics physiqueWide shoulders/triangle torso/thin waistTradeoff is that it looks like shit if you are skinnyfat
>>42048926the hips are awful and thebshoulders only look good duebto anglefrauding
My bf locked my pp in a chastity cage and he has the key with him while he's at work so I can't remove it...
>>42048858Good, did he call you a pathetic loser while he locked you up?
sad my bf cant do this at all since i got an orchi.
Am I the only tranny here that just has enough of all these pseudointellectual posts about AGP? I feel like every third posts is about how AGP is a faketrans male fetish and only HSTS have true dysphoria, but also dysphoria is autoandrophobia and it's AGP, or how cis women are super AGP but they cannot be AGP because they're females but also female is an arbitraty cathegory in the definition and the the panties argument comes in... or how it's all genetics and womb stuff and how HSTS are the only truly feminized trutrannies and how they just always pass naturally and if you don't pass you're AGP, or how you're meta-attracted if you like dicks and faceless men but blanchard was a fraud and le cis wombyn do that too... Those ""edgy"" microlabels accomplish nothing. I'm neither a straight man nor a gay man and I simply refuse to be superficially judged through the lens of this stupid bioessentialist theory. We shouldn't do this to ourselves.
My favorite thing are the annoying gooners who have started using the term AGP without even knowing what it was. Had someone tell me not to bring trannies into it when the fucking term was made to classify trannies. They look at you dumbfounded when you mention HSTS or Blanchard at all
>>42048033I honestly don't give a Fuck.I just dress up and wear make up and wear panties and have erections and let troons seethe.
>>42048033>how cis women are super AGP but they cannot be AGP because they're females but also female is an arbitraty cathegory in the definition and the the panties argument comes in... We can't Afab = AAPAmab = AGPif you're afab with "AGP" you just have a fetish for extreme feminisation.
>>42048878not this thread wombynona
Its all a meme people who actually take it seriously are so mindfucked by the board they're never gonna recoverAutists gotta categorize everything
"dude" came from a slang word meaning penis but that original meaning has fallen out of usageFTM are obsessed with penises and want everyone to associate them with penises due to penis envy
>>42047440is it not a word that people use>>42047505How it feels to be ftm and like other ftm's vaginas
>>42047505>How it feels to be a woman
>>42047512>>42048226>REEEE why don't you fit my personal definition of ftm!?
>>42047440i just like saying dude and bruh because i come from an area where that was the slang growing up
>>42048938Where I live it's been a boy thing
>anti-semitic chud>look inside>hates trannies like jews do
>>42048819yeah exactly. people pretending it was a lgbt utopia are coping hard but god would I have preferred to live in that social environment than this one. i could say that our modern society treated trans ppl the same with views abt sex changes from like 20-30 yrs ago but ultimately of course that changed on a dime because its extremely easy to flair up tranny hatred with our paradigms of thought. the natural state of social attitudes on trannies and homos is probably this not-really-caring midpoint. too bad it was only actually compatible with a few societies overall attitudes...
>>42048082Are there actually people who believe there's a jewish conspiracy *against* gender ideology or is it a joke?
>>42048860>modern society treated trans ppl the same with views abt sex changes from like 20-30 yrs ago but ultimately of course that changed on a dime because its extremely easy to flair up tranny hatredyeah but activists and people in the community also rejected the idea of sex changes and the word transsexualeverything got worse from self-id and transgender umbrella stuff
>>42048884its literally the truth if you read anything ever retarded fucking idiot
>>42048884you could make the argumentthere are a lot of jews in the anti-tranny movement
how the fuck does being nonbinary work? i don't have anything against them as individuals nor do i believe in forcing them to "pick a side", but it just doesn't seem to have a logical explanation in my mind. i agree that "man" and "woman" are social contructs, but they have widely accepted traits and norms that make it easy to understand wanting to trade one set of social rules for the other. to me being nonbinary just comes across as mentally ill and/or egocentric because it reads as a desire to reject all expectations for both genders and differentiate oneself from everyone else with a special unique never-seen-before genderif you're nb feel free to explain why it feels right to you compared to transitioning to male/female or being gnc, i mostly just want to understand it better
>>42045608They are agender. Which means no gender identity. While trans and cis are opposite. And even if you fall into one group all ain't gonna be same. And sometimes people who don't want gender roles enforced on them or trans people during transitioning or coping cause not passing etc.
>>42048190Yeah I really should have >inb4'd that exact line I knew a snot nosed little brat like you would say lol
>>42045608i don't personally think of my gender alignment as "never-seen-before", i think it's actually quite rooted in history and tradition even if most of said traditions have faded out by now (which i think is a shame and to the detriment of society)there have been established "person who isnt really man or woman" archetypes in various societies around the world for thousands of years serving various distinct social functions, i just see myself as part of that overarching tendency adapted to a new time & place. and honestly i think it's a better approach to gender variance than the way some trans ppl think you need to act as if there is (or should be) no difference whatsoever between trans & cis ppl of their respective gender beyond purely anatomical factors that should be spoken of as little as possible, which makes them value being "fembrained" or "malebrained" and subsuming themselves into their conceptions of male & female gender archetypes above all else, bc theres no established room in society for diverging from this dichotomy. but maybe im just faketransi don't really care at the end of the day i'm pretty much just mtf with a complex and people call me a woman and it's fine
>>42045947real post except for the spoon part that shit is important>>42045608i live as a woman in daily life bc that's how people see me but i do not really have any connection like spiritually/mentally/emotionally/??? to womanhood (or manhood) so i identify personally as enby. literally only my mom and fiancé know this though bc i don't really get to choose how people see me and i don't mind being a woman at all. it just doesn't feel, like, intrinsic to me or my sense of self, i guess. i'm just sort of me, but my vessel is a woman, lol. that sounds tumblr-edgy but i don't mean for it to be like that.
>>42045636pretty much this desu
q t 3.14s only need apply
>>42048827Who is this biological woman?
>>42048827
>>42048827>>42048841lmao this is a screenshot I took of a hon in my area from Grindr. posted it here a week ago. funny to see it reposted.
from what i can tell i am wholly nb. i feel an immense amount of dysphoria about people perceiving me as a guy. this is basically the only trans feeling i have. when i dress more femme i feel relieved that i am farther away from being perceived as a guy. when ive had people use she/her n stuff i dont feel dysphoria but it makes me cringe because i know i dont pass at all and i can feel how others are just doing a performance just to appease me. if i could id be a theymab but since no one ever takes a theymab seriously i think that being a passing trans woman is my best bet for not feeling dysphoria. also i have good enough features to be able to pass once im on estrogen for a couple years.
>>42045330you never really gave me a proper response
>>42046947i mean its not like you were talking in good faith anyways, itd be nice tho if u came up w valid points other than "grumpy"
>>42046604tbf attention seeking is pretty fembrained
>>42045119>>42045355>>42045433>>42045541why not? you will pass
>>42048889yeah prob but it had more to do w how i felt
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That is what I think of your ethical imperative.
Anyone here in need of a gc2b 4x binder?
>>42048639lmfao
>>42046640doing a bit of winter clothes shopping, i needed some more long sleeved shirts and sweaters. how did your shopping go?
>>42042149if you're doing it right the bumps look more like pecs and you need to wear clothing that helps as well.
