MTFG: Make a thread you lazy troons editionQOTT: What are you doing for this weekend? January blues setting in?
thanks for the feedback, I'll use unsee or catbox next time. Appreciate the advice
>>42328141>Visibly trans.Why not boymode?Anyway. Depending on where you live it may be illegal to not hire someone just bc they're trans, so most wagie-tier positions probably wont care. Same for government jobs.I'd be personally more concerned about muscle loss bc if you dont pass you wont get girl privilege which means they'll expect you to lift heavy shit around and all that moid nonsense.
>>42328167>Why not boymode?Really worried about boob growth making it too obvious and hard to hide>it may be illegal to not hire someone just bc they're transOn paper yes but businesses still dont care and can come up with a plethora of bullshit claims as to why they chose to not hire you. Ideally I dont want a wagie job, they suck and its extremely hard to live comfortably with one
>>42328197True ig. Ginecomastia happens a ton for nontranny reasons. I'd just lie about an unspecified endoctrinal issue desu.If you end up in a highly specialized field they wont care about gender or transness. Thats why so many mtfs are in compsci(partially)
Siiigh. Wish i wasn't ugly and literally looked 1:1 like the chudwojak meme so that i could troon out and become cute.It is what it is.
I fell asleep so making this thread again>Describe your appearance and state your ethnicityTall, slim, dostoevski looking, white.
>>42328285>dostoevski looking
>>42328285depends on whats ur type. pre top surgery?pre hrt?phallo?
>>42328302If i was born afab id never do phallo its a terrible case of grafting straight from elder ringId def do hysterectomy and hrt but not to the point it makes me ugly non femboyTop surgery idk if boobs are big yes if small id just bind until they disappearSo basically this is what my type is
and what do you offer these femboys?
>>42328366Uhm my body soul and eternal loyalty?idk
New Year's Editionprevious: >>42044782 >>42079478 (died prematurely)Goal of the thread: Consider the things you want to improve or accomplish, whether long- or short-term. What small steps can you make towards those goals?Daily goals can be repeated. Remember to keep score, it can only go up!>What is this thread for?Getting better is hard, and sucks. A lot. It does not get easier doing it alone.Share resources and experiences with combating depression, anxiety, personal issues, achieving or maintaining a healthy weight, etc.>Why is this thread /lgbt/?Struggles with mental and physical health are an indisputable part of /lgbt/ life, be it from dysphoria, social pressure, heartbreak, or just unfortunate lifestyle choices.>Notes to consider:Please be civil. Shame is your greatest enemy in fighting urges of self abuse (be it sh, drugs, or just self deprecation). Relapsing into bad and unhealthy habits is to be expected, the goal is to increase the average amount of time it takes between relapses. Any improvement is a victory no matter how small. Your worth and right to get better are non-negotiable. And most importantly:WE ARE NOT THERAPISTS, WE DON'T REPLACE MEDICATION>Note on adviceComment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>42327418You don't accept that kind of loss. I think you need to discreetly contact a lawyer and follow their advice on how to recover some of your money.Sorry your friend has let you down so badly
>>42327418Seconding >>42328074, contact a lawyer and explain it to them. Worst case scenario is they tell you that there's nothing they can do and charge you for a consultation, best case scenario you get your money back.
>>42328074>>42328101It was in crypto so I honestly deserve it. A lawyer won't help me.
>>42328196Did a lawyer confirm to you that it's hopeless?
>>42328252There's no way to prove any of it even happened.
blah blah post your charts, guess letters, rate people, Plus and minus, i assume yall know the deal. Pls dont lazy post
>>42327010Forgot to post my chart oops
>>42319427giving femcel mtf>>42321247the ftm with good taste>>42323085ftm +++ for listening to destroy boys
>>42319427
>>42319427lesbian mtf>>42322377inveracity spotted, definitely a chaser>>42323085bi mtf>>42326923lesbianbolt thrower good
I don't fit in here>>42322377FtM that tries too hard>>42319427<3 Gezebelle, MtF>>42321247Gr8 industrial, cisles?
>QOTT: What's your breakfast beverage?I'm now strictly black coffee in the morning. I don't eat breakfast until late morning so I can intermittent fast. Hopefully I'll either lose weight so I feel less disgusted by myself or be in better shape for when I inevitably troon out as a disgusting lateshit.Previous thread: >>42285773
I had a weird troon dream or maybe two which were connected. In the first one it was basically real life but everyone's names appeared above their head like it was a mmo. My friend saw I had changed my name to a female name and laughed at me and I felt quite ashamed. In the second dream I was wearing this long multicolored silky dress which hung to the body. I quite liked the dress but my "bits" still slightly showed while wearing it so I went online for advice. The only advice I could find was by this old and like geniuely deformed old man. I found him so disgusting it woke me from my dream.I really need to stop looking at this general.
>>42328161Yeah it isn't really a reason to put it off. I think my actual biggest reason to rep is that I live with my parents still.I'm planning to move out next year so I was thinking maybe start hrt this summer or fall and then I'll be in my own place once the changes start showing.
>>42328260Just don't tell them.Let the chips fall where they may.I didn't tell anyone lol. They just noticed when I kinda sorta malefailed.Now I have the problem of how to finally live as a woman. I'll probably do the same and avoid all the cringy "coming out" shit. I have the hearing for name and ID change on the 26th. I guess that's the cutoff date for me being a repper in any meaningful capacity.
>>42328266Thank you. I've been putting it off for so long because I was scared of how my family would react.I should start living for myself yk.I'm really happy for you, I hope everything goes well.
>>42328326>I hope everything goes well.The hearing will go well. I fulfill all of the legal criteria. It's a mere formality.Learning how to dress my age is going to be the nightmare, lol.Also figuring out what kind of ffs I need.It's all a process. I didn't even expect to have these problems. I started with the "let's see if this works" mentality. Then I was at the psychiatrist for an attention related issue (one year into hrt) and casually mentioned the troon stuff and he was like "let's write you a prescription for that so you don't have to bother with the black market shit"One thing led to another and now, 4yrs later, I'm testing dresses and skirts lol. It's surreal.
what's the least painful way to kill yourself?hanging? ODing? i don't have access to a firearm because europe i'm pretty tired of being ugly, iwnbaw, and waiting for hrt to do the very little it does is driving me insanei'm dying a khhv virgin, which i'm sad about, never got to feel the touch of a man before i go, which sucks, but happiness is for the more fortunate anyway
>>42327646look you’re just not photogenic there are a lot of attractive people who are terrible at taking photos or getting their picture taken. If anything thats a good sign you’re better looking in person a photo is a still image that can’t capture your full look. Anyways you’re not ugly if you’re wondering the acne can go away with dieting or prescriptions. Pls don’t kys ;(
>>42324294you'll be fine. keep going. i'm allowed to say this since i have been on hrt for a decade.
>>42327786thanks, i'm probably not going to for now, i was just having a particularly bad day
>>42327859What happened in your day anon?
>>42324294U aren't even ugly lmfao.I think your face will pass desu, not even trying to hugbox.
I once saw a tiktok saying "yeah trans women are women but trans men are men? Cmon" and I can get that to some extent, because cishet men are kinda annoying so they're hated by queers and women, but are most trans men even men??
>>42328321Both points are bad because transsexuals are nothing other than their actual genderThough I can see why there's more concerns for women's safety with cis men pretending to be trans
>>42328331Use frengen or soc, it's not good to be alone
>>42328345it’s even less good to be veltail
>>42328345ive given up on friendship. ill be ok.
>>42328353Ok.....>>42328356Ok, good luck
is it genuinely over for me? So much of my body has been messed up during my early life. Before I even had the chance to process it all and knew about DIY, T and DHT wrecked so many parts of my body. I feel like a cursed abomination with so many flaws and yet somehow my boyfriend still loves me and accepts exactly as I am rn. Don't get me wrong, he would like some things to change too (SRS mostly), but he always reassures me that my appearance, my voice etc. are all fine and normal and that he likes them, thinks they are cute or pretty etc. Yet I've heard different views about those things coming from people online and my own inner critic. It all messes with my head, I don’t know what to think anymore. Maybe I have to go through some kind of ego death to process all of this and be more kind to myself. I don’t know, yknow?
>>42327525>getting a psychiatristgood idea no memeway i look at it is if someone isn't paying my bills or fucking me idc what they think
>>42327584It's just so ingrained and normal and the issue is that the negative views online and my inner critic align :/ but I will really try to change my outlook and try to get some inner peace
it's soooo obvious how I always get replies when I post pics of myself but when I don‘t the thread is dead :x
>>42327967The board is infested with chasers so no shit
>>42327999I guess so
Ballerina twink edition.Question of the day: When will you finally get on HRT? Or are you resigned to becoming expired in a few years?>FAQ>What is a femboy? What is a twink?A femboy is a male that pursues a feminine appearance for himself whilst still identifying as male. A twink is a male with a slender figure and a youthful appearance, usually with little body/ facial hair>Are femboys trans?The majority of femboys are cisgendered. Femboy is not a 'stepping stone' to trans, it is a stand alone identity.>Can trans post here?Trans people are welcome to post in /fbg/ and identify as trans twink/femboy if they want, but this is not a trans thread. Posts should not be about 'transitioning' and discussion of hormone usage should be restricted to skincare applications.>Can twunks and otters post here?Yes>I'm not twink or femboy but I am an enjoyer of them, can I post here too?Yes>Why dont I see femboys irl that often?Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>42327437they can turn into twunks too, plenty of guys want to fuck twunks. its kind of a simple natural evolution.
>>42327631But they cant stay boys without hrt its not possible.>>42327754I really do not believe people want twunks that much. Right now we are here in a twink general instead of a twunk general. There doesnt even exist a twunk general thats how little people want them lol
>>42323416Ballet is cute but unfortunately I'm a footfag and ballet absolutely mutilates feet :(
>>42327901every sport damages feet to be honest. and if ur twink isnt sporty then they are chubby. you have to make a sacrifice!
>>42325458this dude drugged and raped white guys coming home from a club
how is this guy running multiple large billion dollar companies? he literally made conclusion that his son was going to be transitioned off of one tweet? what started it https://x.com/stclairashley/status/2010328765503586572
>>42327125I just want this stupid shit to end. We are all being misled by fucktards in charge doing this kind of shit. Its the kind of shit that no one will care to remember, its that bad.Its the USA's fault for creating the internet.
>>42324356Because running large companies doesn’t require a very high amount of general intelligence.
>>42324356>how is this guy running multiple large billion dollar companies?By being significantly smarter than you. That's the most important part.
>>42327040>he's comparatively a geniuswe are doomed
>>42327591People have always been doing this. Put all the things these people have done some 2000 years ago and we'd call them prohpets, saints and heros. What is an f-35 if not a dragon
You know the format.Include your tag.This thread is for making friends, and is not a general discussion thread.
>>42327425im mtf and in mn and hate life but da post is weird...
>>42327688Nta but do you hate Germany too and want to bond over our shared hatred for this country and its "people"?
>>42327688>>42328278germany is an amazing country and i love living here
>asl18/MTF/New York>aboutbipolar, autistic, single, trans woman>interestsreading, video games, music, playing instruments>looking foranyone to talk to>not looking forboring ppl>discordkillshelterpup
>>42328301And a bureaucrats favourite place to be is in his office. Most people on the other hand would rather shoot themselves than live such a life.
im a boymoder but im probably gonna slowly move onto twinkhonmoding in the next few years and i wanna ask how it is. i know looks are not the deciding factor on wether or not you have a okay life, i need to work on my mental health and social skills too but im just wondering how it is.how do people treat an average looking twinkhon in the modern world(say, uk)?how often do you deal with rude or agressive people and how do you handle situations like that?overall would you say that its better than boy/manmoding?
>>42328234>Social skills are super important. Don't try to transition locked in your room all day, even if you can take good pics of yourself you need to learn how to be a "woman"(thing) out in the worldAccurate and based.The biggest problem too many trannies on this board have is not that they might be hons, but rather that they're shut ins.
>>42328169(1/2)Idk "twinkhon" is a very loose term and I think it depends how you’re gendered first while boymoding. I’m not 100% socially transitioned (I’d never be able to keep a job otherwise), but I’m a nonpassing tranny in the uk with enough time presenting female to give a little perspective.>i need to work on my mental health and social skills too but im just wondering how it isIt’s good you realise this because even the most passing trans women repeatedly mess this up. Mentally transitioning is just as important as physically and socially transitioning and I really recommend you seek a good challenging therapist as you begin to slowly social transition. If anything it’s simply a safe space if the world takes a bit more time than expected to be kinder to you (my experience, I know it’s very easy to want to be a shut-in in the face of anything "scary" you’ll face outside).>how do people treat an average looking twinkhon in the modern world(say, uk)?I was gonna make a big long post but I think >>42328234 is a bit more of a realistic scenario. While I might be "average" from a picture my experiences arent and I’d rather say something helpful than doom and gloom you out, but if you already pass in boymode a little and have any supportive friends you have a fantastic headstart much further than me and will likely cruise through the early transition period fine especially if you live in a big city.
>>42328296(2/2)>how often do you deal with rude or agressive people and how do you handle situations like that?Ok this I can give advice on god forbid it ever happens to you. This happens often to me, a lot of it just annoying rude "banter" you have to and eventually will learn to brush off but I have had genuine aggression from real transphobes following me, yelling at me, recording me, and sometimes getting physical with me. It sucks self-defence laws in the uk are so bad but having a bag with something heavy in it you can swing is maybe as good as you can get, REALISTICALLY though you just walk away, these people always older (much older) and you can easily get away but it still shakes you. That’s why I stressed the importance of having a safe space like therapy go really process this stuff if you can’t find that with family or friends. Praying you’ll never have to face this, I’ve travelled to cities and places where no one’s even glowered at me, but even just for that little extra peace of mind please prepare. I’d consider it an important part of developing social skills.>overall would you say that its better than boy/manmoding?Absolutely. Remember that this is for yourself and your own dysphoria first and foremost. It might take a while to "convince" the public on how you present but you should be feeling the positive changes immediately after starting. Idk I don’t really know how to wrap this up lol. Be safe, I can’t stress therapy enough look into it immediately and don't neglect your mental transition, don’t get scared and sabotage at the first roadblock, you’ll do great, you’ll do absolutely great. Good luck anonette <3
>>42328296>if you already pass in boymode a littlei dont know if i do or not. my language doesnt have gendered pronouns and i dont interact with people often so i really dont get any sort of input from strangers. ive posted my face here(multiple times) and some people say that i look fine or even good and some say that im ugly and look like a man so i gave up on asking others what they think.
>>42328319i mean i have malefailed on 1 or 2 occasions but it was all from old people so i dont count that. 2 guys once asked me if im a guy or a girl at a bus stop so i guess thats something
I wonder what my family would think if they knew I often spend 4+ hours a day compulsively masturbating to sissies getting dominated by women. They know me as the weird "Christian conservative guy" who makes vague pro-nazi comments at family dinners.
>>42327280based
>>42325507>They know me as the weird "Christian conservative guy" who makes vague pro-nazi comments at family dinners.Unless you somehow managed to chad larp (you're posting here, so no, you didn't) they already assume this about you anyway
>>42326623>she should probably just get phalloplasty and be done with itNo one should get that except for fictional characters in body horror movies.
>>42327459And now kayla genuinely enjoys thirsttrapping the far/racist right with angle frauded autoerotic lowres selfies, so you see, clearly not a man anymore! (Though probably jerking to this and..) Hella valid!
>>42327417Congrats for all of that, nona.I'm behind you but on the same path.
thread for telling people which one their artstyle isi go first
>>42327958i see what you mean, and i can mostly agree with the examples you've provided and how you characterized them. but at the same time, line smoothness is mostly a matter of skill, no? the example that comes to mind is bidstrup, since i have a book with his art at home. his lines are pretty deliberate. i would say it depends on the media you work in and instruments you use, if you do a lot of quick pencil sketches you'll become better at it (here's a bidstrup caricature i've found online)
thoughts?
>>42328190fembrained
>every single reply i've gotten was Fwhat gave it away
>>42328289which one are you
If you woke up with her gock inside of you, how would you react?
>>42325384I would gasp with shock then immediately a flood of endorphins, cortisol, and a bit of adrenaline would shock me into a fearful, limp, physically pleasurable nonverbal submissive state while I internally reel in confusion and dismay
>>42327952Abigail Thorn, she's a noted British actress and YouTube personality, and many straight trans women find themselves jealous of her success
>>42327989>many straight trans women find themselves jealous of her successtrust me, we aren’t jealous
>>42328018yeah u r
>>42325384Her chin is fucking brutal jesus christ. Mine is not as bad but I have just as noticeable male features. The game is really so over from the beginning.
