I'm a gay guy but my dream is to find a passing (fully) trans woman to marry me so I can be with someone who is amab but give the appearance of being heterosexual to others. I don't care what parts she has, we will make it work. My family doesn't like me being gay, never has, and this would be a primo loophole.
My feelings about this are complicated. So, is it just purely the penis that you need to ve attracted to someone or simply the fact that they were amab
>>42323887I think it's the behavioral component of being amab. The idea of finding someone who looks like a woman but still has at least a little bit of that fem gay guy energy to them still when you interact with them closely would be just perfect. Keeps the haters away, but gives me what I need. I don't need a penis, I would marry a trans woman with a vagina we could figure out how to make it fun with hands or mouths or toys. Sex is secondary, I want to raise a family, live with someone, and be close to someone.
>>42323919My nigga you might just be bisexual
You know the format.Include your tag.This thread is for making friends, and is not a general discussion thread.
>>42308250i've loved mecha ever since armored core 2. i used to burn super robot wars isos to play on my hacked ps2 do you have any interest in cis men
>>42319813yes it is hot please indulge in somewhat large age gaps. also no not really, German guys are just somehow the worst chaser demographic cuz there is so few actual ones.>>42320349hello not German man
>ASL30/M/PNW>Abouti'm a very boring person. i hate traveling, i don't drink or do drugs (other than smoking weed sometimes), i don't go to concerts or conventions and i don't collect anything interest or really do anything other than exercise, write, and play video games. i'm also demisexual and mongamous >looking fora reason to live>not looking forfalse hope>(free space)i don't know why i keep coming to this thread lol>tagbigsniffin.
>>42323382>hello not German manHey there
>>42285748contact?
don't you hate it when you go to cis women's spaces or hear cis women talking to each other and it dawns on you that you're nothing like them and wnbaw
>>42323999literally just witnessing females interact which each other makes me start bawling
Why she kinda bad tho
>>42323999I mostly just think "wow normies are really stupid."
>>42323999No usually it makes me feel better. Like I always assume I’m missing out and it’s nice to be reminded that I’m not.
it shouldve been legalized when they legalize gay marriage.like what argument is even against that?defect inbred babies? then they shouldve ban retarded people to make retarded babies too.
>>42320276I don't think "christcucks" invented the concept of abuse being bad. Did the Japanese and Chinese tolerate such relationships? Also since there's no god or anything, all "religious morality" is something that humans already felt before.
>>42322174Leave it to an /lgbt/ tranny to be onto legalizing gross fetishes that will be detrimental in life to talk.
>>42317231I don't get it. Was incest legal in medieval Spain?
>>42320225Not that anon, and honestly parent-child incest gives me the ick compared to something like cousins or siblings, but like, it's very possible for both parties to be consenting adults and for there to be no "grooming" involved. Just look at all the femcels online who are into father daughter fantasies. If that kind of person consented does that really mean they got groomed?
>>42319417This is how we get pedo relationships btw. The same argument is going to be used.
Is it possible to develop a female self as a cis man?I'm certain that being a cis man is a sinking ship for me, and that I will be sure to live an empty and depressing life as one, so I need to be able to make being a woman work if I ever want to be happy, even though I am a cis man.
>>42318674My measurements are only this big because I have a wide back. That doesn't change the fact that I've had significant growth for 6 months, as they're already almost a handful, and I do need either tape or a sports bra so that they won't be visible even in baggy hoodies
>>42318634Nta, but personally I find this really hard to determine. First and foremost I want to be treated as a worthwhile person. Whether I'm a woman or a man feels secondary to me, but in most cases I really dislike the social expectations imposed on me due to being a man, but I'm also sure I'll dislike some social expectations women experience if people perceived and treated me as one
>>42312264here we see transphobia in actionif you remove the trans flag and saw this post in a different context with different text, believe me, you'll just think she's an ugly old cis woman
>>42318634if its just a question of passing if i were to transition at this point in my life i would feel pretty lucky. regardless i do feel like i would probably be happier. i do also agree with >>42319915
>>42321358Kinda same, except I have no certainty that I really would be happy, even though I deeply dread such an outcome
New Year's Editionprevious: >>42044782 >>42079478 (died prematurely)Goal of the thread: Consider the things you want to improve or accomplish, whether long- or short-term. What small steps can you make towards those goals?Daily goals can be repeated. Remember to keep score, it can only go up!>What is this thread for?Getting better is hard, and sucks. A lot. It does not get easier doing it alone.Share resources and experiences with combating depression, anxiety, personal issues, achieving or maintaining a healthy weight, etc.>Why is this thread /lgbt/?Struggles with mental and physical health are an indisputable part of /lgbt/ life, be it from dysphoria, social pressure, heartbreak, or just unfortunate lifestyle choices.>Notes to consider:Please be civil. Shame is your greatest enemy in fighting urges of self abuse (be it sh, drugs, or just self deprecation). Relapsing into bad and unhealthy habits is to be expected, the goal is to increase the average amount of time it takes between relapses. Any improvement is a victory no matter how small. Your worth and right to get better are non-negotiable. And most importantly:WE ARE NOT THERAPISTS, WE DON'T REPLACE MEDICATION>Note on adviceComment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>42162119i started college today, over 3 years after graduating highschool. being around all the normal, pretty cis women made me wanna kill myself. everyone at my school is so beautiful. just walking around i feel like such a freak. i just wish i was normal. i just wish i was a normal girl. i didn't say a word to anyone all day except at the end of my classes i waited for all the other students to leave so i could ask my teachers a question. they were both nice. just within my first tiny 60 second interaction with my first teacher she found a chance to give me a sad look and tell me that i apologize too much. just like everybody else does.
twinks are beautiful
>>42319421First, breathe. 4 counts in, hold for 2 counts, 6 counts out. That's it.I'm sorry for your loss. From what you wrote, you were close to your grandma, and her passing broke you.From what I'm hearing:> You're AFAB (Assigned Female At Birth)Or else your parents wouldn't be marrying you off> CSE340 is Computer Architecture> CSE423 is Computer Graphics> The university is Brac university; Dhaka; Bangladesh> Coherent with the practice of marrying girls off.Those subjects when I myself attended a similar university were killer subjects intended to halve the student population.With your grandma's passing, it's obvious you cannot concentrate.Maybe you could get preferred treatment (ie. taking exams slightly later) to mourn your grandma? Western universities do that after a plea to the dean, and they tend to be granted as a one time deferment.Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
I love you all, stay safe.
i am starving myself so that maybe men will like me one day
Should white people (including white tranners) be able to own brown boymoders to keep them safe?
My white tranner GF is 10 years younger than me, shorter than me, and weaker than me. She straps me the fuck down and laughs while striking my tits with a flogger I made out of large zip ties from work. It's great.I fuck her husband while she watches sometimes so it evens out.
>>42323513what
>>42323513>a flogger I made out of large zip ties from workdownright peculiar...
>>42318868i wish my white tranny best friend would own me...shes so much more sociable and successful and smarter then me
no instead as a brown guy, I should be given a white tranny to adopt and own as a housepet
How can someone claim to oppose 'gender ideology' while also believing in a strict system of rules and ideals corresponding to gender.Why do we tolerate chuds using words so irresponsibly?
>>42322368passing is a myth, admitting that passing isn't real destroys your entire ideology, it is the foundational myth of your cult
>>42322368The mental gymnastics required to believe this pig shit makes you sound schizophrenic. No one argues that a flower is only a flower because humans placed a social construct on what it means to be a flower. Or substitute any noun in place of 'woman'. It's only this one subject that earns this type of schizophrenic wrangling that has created an entire industry of authors and quack male scholars to attack women and what it means to be a woman.
>>42323772The subjective relationships between subjects and objects is foundational to dialectics and the fact that you are only aware of subjectivity when it comes to "woman" shows how little you actually understand the shit you're trying to assert your comprehension of.
>>42323820Do actual women believe you're gibberish? I would assume that it is only geared towards the male audience lol>subjectivity when it comes to "woman" There is no subjectivity when it comes to what a woman is. Women are objectively classified and no loser tranny theory changes what a woman is. I would respect you more if you admitted that this is all cope for your male sexual fetish.
>>42321050>Probably 1% of society beliefs a trans woman is a woman. Which means that the difference is not arbitraryGenuinely hilarious thing to say after getting called a parrot
>QOTT: What's your breakfast beverage?I'm now strictly black coffee in the morning. I don't eat breakfast until late morning so I can intermittent fast. Hopefully I'll either lose weight so I feel less disgusted by myself or be in better shape for when I inevitably troon out as a disgusting lateshit.Previous thread: >>42285773
>>42322161I'm not sure. My mother did not love me and obviously preferred my sister and her other children over me. Maybe that subconsciously did something. I was born prematurely too so maybe that had something do with it. Who knows? The grass is always greener on the other side. I like to believe I'm a freak fuck up regardless of the situation.
ya know who aint got de blues? you aint even got an itty bitty morsul o' de blues, ya def wont ever häve de smallest smidgin o' flayvuh, buoy you gwine down befour i leve dis lonesum town, ya hird dat? ya know i get reel määääd wen i meet wunn-o-dem scoundrels widdout de blues like ye umpromptid, i get de knowshum to pull awl my här away off ma heddi am unwell
>>42322161I'm pretty sure it's from my dad's side of the family actually.
>>42321643Black coffee for me too, and occasionally fancy Starbucks coffee on the weekends, like a mocha or a blonde espresso. I used to pound energy drinks all day, but the effects got unhealthy and weening off of them drove me insane. Coincidentally the tranny thoughts became unavoidable after that.>>42322161My mom didn't do shit wrong, other than only having boys, and being too good of a mother
>>42323896For me both sides have assburger tendencies and extreme ocd, cant blame anyone too much
Anons on this board make fun of ftms being into weird, fucked up shit a lot and I used to be like that. But I figured out that what I actually want is gentle vanilla sex with a man, kissing his balls and generally making love to his penis with my mouth. It took half an ego death to admit this to myself.
>>42323674meet a nice boy irl somewhere
>>42323651god speed brother
>>42323701Probably not happening
>>42323674location?
>>42323956Germany
germany is so ass when you try to find a cute bf, especially in the southhow does one even find such peoplemost people here are either cringe or total npcsi want someone who is cute but also confident and fun
>>42323918german guys are not very sexy
>>42323962i hate it how true that is….
thred dead make sure (you) delete the old ones http://lena.kiev.ua/voice/ https://sys.4chan.org/derefer?url=https%3A%2F%2Fbuymeacoffee.com%2Falyssavt%2Fno-explanations-instructions-feminizing https://wiki.sumianvoice.com/wiki/pages/voice-examples/ >pasta:•Tool for visualizing pitch and resonancehttps://acousticgender.space/▶ Resources MTF:--- Full MTF Course ---•L's GuideComment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>42320823really great; maybe just a little strained/nasal, but every time i listen back to this i feel less sure.>>42320826i think i'm really confused...i can't follow where this conversation came from or has gone it feels like we are out of sync
whump
>>42318387nice voice>>42318875your voice is very very cute>>42319005passes u doomerim ftm so judge me off that, im only 2 weeks on T but i've gotten no changes so far, diying so i may or may not have bought saltwater.https://voca.ro/11JaULgIjIZ9
>>42318353me: https://voca.ro/1lfzUFPDREqL>>42319233pass but sounds like a bit of a weirdo>>42320823see above>>42323784gigapassoid but sounds like someone has a gun to your head
https://voca.ro/1aGYxVXqnFF1
Girlremoving FTMs: how does one go about it?
that's not an ftm though. she's just a lesbian
>>42322974i am not seeing any issues with this video
Ngl I feel like I wouldn't hate myself for being male every day for 1.5 decade if I didn't hang out at online trans spaces since childhoodLike every trans space is just an echo chamber of hating their AGAB, and praising the fairer sex for having a prettier bodyAlso I studied the effects of HRT + tranny typologies + read forcefem stories + hung out here for so long, I am literally devoid of other interests, and have the music taste, mindset, and lexicon of the stereotypical trannyHow do I reintegrate into society like a normie? I don't want to meme myself into becoming an estrogenised, emasculated eunuch that would be terrible
>>42321262u r trans confirmed
>>42321250Yeah I don't wanna rant about politics and economics all day longI wanna have the hope of having breasts of my own someday, and the convos I have here rekindle that hope whenever I see the void on my torsoBut it is a pipe dream, I can't possibly give up my dream of having biological kids if I wanna be a feminised eunuch
>>42320832I think you need to cultivate confidence and resilience to anxiety and doubt.Social circles like this naturally just reward or encourage participation in their norms, naturally if you're a cis guy you're kind of low on the totem poll in these situations, and I think if you want to break out of that, you have to just be like, I am who I am, and I don't care how many social points I gain or lose for that, not going to anxiously overthink how much other people like me. Just have to learn to be able to stand on your own like that, and get your self-worth from within, not from other people, because if you lean on that too hard, that's how you end up betraying yourself, becoming a eunuch like you say.Not trying to say like "be a man" but you know what I mean, don't let some chick fuck with you.
>>42321552You ain't a tranny are you
>>42320832Spent more time on human interest websites like rdrama.net that have just enough of a tranny population to make you feel at home without it being the focus
tranny playing cringe horror games
>>42323191i just looked it up it looks incrediblesadly not available on ps5 :(now we ended up playing roblox
>>42323541oh shit youre right its not on ps5yeah its actually the best horror game ive played in years, everything from the sound design/aesthetics/use of atmosphere and the themes the story explores is kinda peakanyways play parkour reborn on roblox if you like mirrors edge
i know someone who got cancelled on garten of banban twitter for drawing garten of banban dadson shotacon
>>42323621i’m so hyped to play it, i’ll play it on the pc when i have the time for it, it looks sooo interestingparkour reborn is stupid fun, thanks
>>42323863yeah if you can play routine at some point my only tip is read everything and pay attention to context clues, the game wants you to think about what you would do if you were in that situationalso im glad you like parkour, even just the ost for the game is soooo good imo