i have 7 credit cards. i have an entire wardrobe full of girl clothes that i never wear because i dont look good enough in them. i just got a mail offer that im preapproved for another card. theres no annual fee so im probably gonna do it. what the hell is creditone bank. i dont know, but im gonna use their money to buy cute dresses to hang in my closet
You know you can just save up the money and buy the clothes outright and not pay interest and therefore have more money to buy more clothes
>>42352548well you are super lucky because Trump said he will cap the interest rate on credit cards at 10% starting at the end of January. He believes that "Well some of them are as high as 30% right? Those people who are paying 30%, they have no idea that they're paying 30%! Its terrible."
>>42352548>i have an entire wardrobe full of girl clothes that i never wear because i dont look good enough in them.MtFs spending thousand upon thousands on clothes and makeup but never wearing them as the real reason they don't pass is that they need FFS instead. Many such cases.Tell me whatever excuses you want but I ain't buying it given the fact that you're not even trying to save up for FFS.
>>42355956Consumerist slave mentality
>>42353533lady what the fuck lol.how are your limits that low lol.i only make 70k a year and have nearly 30k in credit limits lol.
>sorry, providing estrogen is complicated and dangerous>but we can prescribe testosterone
>>42349056Economics is always a consideration. You can make health service a human right, but the price and availability of medical personnel, and how you deploy them with unlimited need is always going to matter. Just look at the price tag of puberty blockers, and you'll know that NHS services around the world are going to be tight with availability to that.
>>42353341Luckily hrt is much cheaper, so should be freely distributed
>>42353914Did you miss the part where NHS is short on E entirely?
>>42355488Source
>>42340800If it helps I know someone in the upper echelons of the NHS and they've admitted to me that every single aspect of the healthcate system is failing. He said the NHS will literally collapse in five or six years and then it'll be sold off. So what happened to water will happen to healthcare. The only way out atm is AI apparently, thats all thats being proposed as a solution
Exercise Editionprevious: >>42162119Goal of the thread: Go out for a walk, or try to get any other form of small exercise (walking stairs for 5 mins for example)Daily goals can be repeated. Remember to keep score, it can only go up!>What is this thread for?Getting better is hard, and sucks. A lot. It does not get easier doing it alone.Share resources and experiences with combating depression, anxiety, personal issues, achieving or maintaining a healthy weight, etc.>Why is this thread /lgbt/?Struggles with mental and physical health are an indisputable part of /lgbt/ life, be it from dysphoria, social pressure, heartbreak, or just unfortunate lifestyle choices.>Notes to consider:Please be civil. Shame is your greatest enemy in fighting urges of self abuse (be it sh, drugs, or just self deprecation). Relapsing into bad and unhealthy habits is to be expected, the goal is to increase the average amount of time it takes between relapses. Any improvement is a victory no matter how small. Your worth and right to get better are non-negotiable. And most importantly:WE ARE NOT THERAPISTS, WE DON'T REPLACE MEDICATION>Note on adviceComment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>42354324i live in a small town so theres no lgbt community at all lol
how do i stop haivng moid rage over things and control myself when met with adversity like work or even losing things(items games aything)i gert mad and lash out easily after that and feel justofied in ym rage
>>42354791So, I’ll say to start that I don’t think it’s helpful to call the anger you feel “Moid Rage.” Joking and self-effacing humor can be a healthy coping mechanism, but from what little I know about managing your emotions, it’s way better to let yourself feel your feelings and find an outlet for them you won’t regret than to try to resist them or reject them. Also, you might feel justified in your anger because you are genuinely being mistreated. It’s very common for employees to get mistreated by customers or other employees and then to be reprimanded for having a human reaction to being done dirty. It’s also common for employers who want to fire an employee for discriminatory reasons (like they just don’t like that you’re LGBT) to establish a pretext to fire you that is not discriminatory (like they’ll claim you did something wrong, or set you up to fail) to get around corporate non-discrimination policies or laws (many of which are still around and potentially enforceable). It’s also possible that when you show anger, your behavior could be perceived as more dangerous or threatening by others if they perceive you as male, whether you are or not. That’s why it’s better to manage your emotions without worrying about whether you’re “in the right” or not. If something is unfair, you don’t need to be mad about it to realize that. And being angry about something unfair doesn’t help you, either. It can get you in trouble anyway like I said, and you don’t gain anything from being ragebaited. So when all that’s left is your emotions, rather than your judgements of them, a great way to calm down is to breathe in through your nose, hold your breath for a count of three, and then breath out through your mouth. You can also search for self soothing, relaxation, and emotional regulation techniques and tools if you want more ideas.
>>42341787>Sister left her job, it wasn't worth it anymore>I was dismissed from an unpaid but potentially lucaritive project, my competence was brought into question by other members (they might have been correct)>Finances more strained than ever>Only 40℅ done with my current studies>Father visiting in March, the tension is already there for the family>Still have nothing worthwhile to show for myself at 25 years old, I can feel my options running out>Struggling with my addiction to distractions, can't be alone with my own thoughts for longMy refusal to face reality is catching up with me more and more like karma.I don't know if this is symptom of depression but at least when I was depressed previously I was still productive.I'm already late for a full nights rest, so I will stop my self-pitying and get some sleep.Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
i hate being a neet so much, im so fucking done. i want to die or be set free
Does heated rivalry understand gay men?
>>42354101Gay men (me) didnt watch it
>>42354945You arent the target audience, sweety.
>>42354101>>42354945literally every gay man i know watched it and loved it, especially the ones who were adults before 2015.
>>42354101No, but that’s because it’s romanticized cornball dramaslop. If the couple was heterosexual it would still be idealized. I’m not fully caught up, but I’ve been entertained so far.
>>42354101>closeted athletespop slop trash, not interested
>dad said that since my mom is gone its time to prove that im a woman and to cook and clear for himo-okay...
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>>42356481huh? i can't quite hear you. speak up a little, will you!?
>>42356481kek fpbp
i might be straight.> be me> transbisexual> assume i'm demisexual?(relevant)> know no man would ever want me (197cm)> "good thing your bi Nona. you should probably just go with other trans girls hahaha"i'm told this a lot.for some reason this makes me cry a lot even though it's true.> years pass, become semipassoid (as good as i can hope for)> get a girlfriend> sexual stuff is always requested by her> feels very icky to me but I assumed I was demi and just hadn't warmed up yet> after months realize not once have i been attracted to her body STILLComment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>42345437Wow so sapphic
>>42354097highly unlikely. she's 197cm. what man wants that?
>>42355130Me, do you have any idea how powerful it feels to conquer a big woman, tame her and actually keep her? It feels like being king of the world, my boy. Not to mention legs from yesterday to tomorrow. I'd start at kissing her toes and it be evening before I'm eating and prepping her butt.
>>42355291Yeah and you look short as shit next to her.And everyone knows in their head your the one getting pegged. I'm not holding my girls hand and feeling like i'm a child in comparison.
>>42355952I don't care, you're a cuck for letting everyone else dictate who you like.
>what is INTERGEN?INTERGEN is a general for intersex people to talk to each other about their experiences or just to hang out>what is an intersex person?Intersex people are those born with any of several sex characteristics, including chromosome patterns, gonads, or genitals that do not fit typical binary notions of male or female bodies>am I intersex?We are not doctors, please seek medical advice, but dont be afraid to ask questions here to maybe understand things better>are trans people intersex?Trans people are not inherently intersex, however an intersex person can transition if they want, “neurologically intersex” is not real as being intersex pertains to the sex organs or hormonal productions>how is this /lgbt/?We share similar experiences of discrimination and social prejudice based on sex and gender norms, even though intersex is a variation of sex characteristics, not a gender identity or sexual orientation itself—————————Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>42342302OMG it could be one of a couple things but suddenly I want to eat everything in sight. It's sustained too. I might should add some cardio to my plans.>>42344882Sorry everyhing's stupid expensive :(
>>42350235>cardioI need a new sports bra now that I think of it, I can’t tell if the old one doesn’t fit anymore or is actively trying to squeeze the life out of me lol But hooray today is a SNOW DAY AND THE ROADS ARE UNDRIVEABLE
I napped it was amazing I feel sooo good my body doesn’t hurt as much right now
>>42353794Bump
>>42353794Glad to hear you feel better! Snow days gotta be good for something!
i haven't come out to my boyfriend as trans yet but he referred to me as his boywife todaycan someone explain? is my cover blown? what should i do now?
>>42355100he knows
I'm a tourist on this board.Can someone explain exactly what the appeal or supposed gratification there is to be found with "docking"?
That's the last step of friendship
>>42356604docking is a meme no one actually does it. i think it was invented by straight frat boys playing gay chicken at parties while shitface drunk
i've tried it and it doesn't do anything, would concur it's just a meme
>>42356604It doesnt actually do or feel like anything. Frotting is also pretty bad
>>42356604docking only exists to take a funny pic, nothing else
> upset over masculine features (AMAB)> Post tranny hate threads to fight the thoughts> Fought the thoughts, hurt self in process> Make pinkpill bait threads> Pinkpilled, feels good, no longer hurt> See self in mirror, get a reality check over my masculine features> Become upset> The cycle repeats, and I reap the dopamine harvest like a chad each cycle
How do trans girls make up for me not being able to touch them down there, do they have some edge over regular girls or is it a worse experience in every way?
>>42356464I'm sure there are girls that fall somewhere inbetween not letting me touch it and trying to put me in the hospital with it. What happened to intimacy?
>>42356522are you being serious? since irl being intimate with a trans girl who is fine with you touching there in a normal affectionate way is actually common. are you falling for internet memes again anon?
>>42352462i've yet to be with a trans girl who didn't let me touch her dick.i'm a femboy though, so i attract different trans girls than most masc dudes.
>>42356538Read >>42356710I'm masc
>>42356710How much difference do you think it makes is someone like me better off with cis girls?
Every time I encounter one they're always the most off-putting, disgusting fuckers alive. They almost seem revel in other people pointing out how gross they are for fetishizing minorities & up the ante too. Do any of them put there feel even the slightest bit of shame.
>>42355961What? And what do you mean by "genital modification"?
>>42355995pichu is a freak that wants to split their cock down the urethra line like a hotdog bun
>>42355974nah wasn't mei clicked the thread because it looked interesting and i wanted to see what was going on in herejust be nice to one another>>42355995my bottom dysphoria as a kid and teen, before i knew what trans was, was redirected into wanting to do diy surgery to get rid of or unrecognizably change the shape of my genitalswould have been better to cut it in half into something that's not a penis anymore than to keep it as it wasnowadays i just want srs or a nullification>>42356005a subincision would have been part of the process, yes
>>42354993Also if anyone else has any response or stories to post for this don't be shy, it's anon anyways.
Bump
Most 4chan posters like vidya, anime, manga, TV, film, music, comics, cartoons, weeb shit, etc. as interests and hobbies.Why not specify what kind or your favorites in your post? It says more about you and will likely net you better adds than just posting "I like /v/, /a/, /tv/, /mu/, /co/, /jp/, etc." in the bio.>ASL (biological sex, or gender)>letter(s)>primary interest>other interests and hobbies>looking for>not looking for>(free space)>tag
I checked out /soc/ for my geographic region. I will say I didn't see any transphobia and the people there even said trans instead of tranny (I don't care really just saying it displays a lack of hostility). Weirdly carries this energy of old 4chan, there is this absence of twitter crossover.On the other hand it just feels so vulgar and gross.
do be careful over there
>asl37/m/us>interestslanguages, games, movies, cartoons, music, comics>fetishesvanilla, oral, incest, futa, tomboy, trap>looking forerotic and caring ageplay with:childhood friend, sister, mom>not looking forbabies/littles, bros/dads, weird/grossabdl/bdsm, hairy/bearded, rape/abuse>anything elseplease don't add if young or taken>TagComment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>asl18/femboy/us (cali)>looking forI NEED FRIENDSSSS! !!!!>tagdiscord: ssxg
>>42356738Fuck off
post controversial lgbt opinions, i'll start:policing people's speech is extremely retarded. by this i mean things like asking people to refer to you as a specific set of pronouns, or getting angry when someone calls you "dude" or "girl", when the speaker's intent is not to gender you, and that's just how they refer to everyone. every time i see someone doing that i get "IT'S MA'AM" flashbacks.
>>42355895>I don’t care about opticsListen you useless fucking nigger. In a democracy, you have to persuade. If you can’t get people to vote for your policy, then it loses. Your little cunty attitude of “fuck em who needs em” just means that you—and all trans people—will lose in the long run, again and again. You’re either fine with that outcome happening for the sake of imagined moral purity (in which case you should kys, retard), or you’re fine with getting rid of democracy just to achieve trans policy (in which case you should kys, fascist).
>>42351795Yeah I know why it's common. I think it's more harm than it is helpful, I have seen women go from an upward trajectory to throwing their lives away and never achieving anything they wanted that would've actually helped them a lot.>>42352483Yeah alcohol use is terrible too but it's a lot easier for someone to maintain their lifestyle with occasional heavy drinking at a bar with friends. It really only becomes a problem if someone ends up proper alcoholic, which in my experience isn't as common with trans women (I know how limited my experience is. Obviously it does happen to people)It's easy to keep alcohol social only, unlike most recreational drugs.
Public nudity should be looked down upon. I live in a US city where it's allowed and our community looks down on people that do it because so. many. turn out to be huge sex pest perverts. Literally saw a local tranner that goes out nude have screenshots of her in a group chat talking about getting a thrill from little girls seeing her naked. It was disgusting to see and I hate that I share a city with people like that.If they want an 18+ enclosed park or beach or whatever feel free. Stop showing kids your penis.
>>42356180>In a democracy, you have to persuade. Democracy is a meme. The average voters preference has almost no correlation with public policy, but high income individuals' preferences mysteriously do. Infiltrating institutions is much more effective. If you believe in the government crushing minorities over the actions of separate individuals then I question your commitment to anti fascism anyway, call me crazy. Seems like majoritarianism is just a sledgehammer to support repression for you.
>>42356769Why would seeing nudity hurt anyone? Seems to me like it's adults getting upset for them.
how it feels to be an autistic autofujoshi tranny
>>42356754My goat
