>the beauty standard for women is being short>but also it's a beauty standard for women to wear heels that make them taller>the beauty standard for men is being tall>but wearing heeled boots as a man will make people assume you're a fag nowadaysnone of this makes any sense
>>40916549yeah people say 5'6" is tall for a woman or whatever but like basically every man is taller than me EVEN IF I WEAR HEELS and i work in a very male dominated industry and always feel so tiny
this post made me spend 10 of my precious minutes checking my height to confirm i am 5'6"
>>40916669OH NO THE LIDDLE POONAH
>>40916240Most people on this board are freaks who believe this shit
>>40914735none of it ever made sense why are men, who have a dick and balls dangling between their legs, expected to wear pants; while women, who have a hole, wear loose and breathable skirts and dresses?why is long hair on top of your head feminine but hair literally anywhere else is masculine?why is shaving even a thing? don't say hygiene because it's the opposite, shaving your crotch increases your risks of getting infections for instance. why is being totally hairless like a prepubescent child seen as attractive?why is being skinny seen as being healthy? research shows people who are slightly overweight are actually healthier on average why are female nipples 18+ but male nipples are fine? how far into transition does a mtf need to be before she's expected to hide hers? when can an ftm show theirs? only after surgery? why can natal males with gynecomastia show their nipples just fine? why are men expected to approach women, when women are the more picky ones? shouldn't they approach men? humans are not logical creatures
>gender>orientation>favorite game and why
>>40917186>bi>hoi4doubtget your transbian ass outta here
>>40916784bisexual mtfdemon's souls (for ps3) because slashing up the monsters is fun and i like medieval castles and fantasy stuff, also the atmosphere is supposed to be depressing but its comforting to me for some reasons
>>40917092>mobile playermobile is literally the worst way to fucking play tetris. that is such bs of u to assume i'd play it like that.
>>40916784>mtf>bi>Disco Elysium Gorgeous art style, most compelling writing I've seen in a game, really interesting setting. Also I used to be a faggot who listened to leftist podcasts or whatever so I thought it was neat that people in that scene did voice work for the game before the Final Cut
>bi>mtf (probably?)>KspThis game is the reason I am who I am today, once you get bored with it, the mods can add a lot of depth and more things to figure out. After modded KSP the only next step for after that is college. This game is why I am on my career path now (its not even in aerospace!)
2 questions for my fellow transbians: How frequently are you intimate with cis women? Do you feel comfortable approaching them?
>>40916762oh idk i'm just a girl now i don't think about it much
>>40916797Ah ok understandable
>>40915069yeah I dont know either. the girl that said that and I had great chemistry too. then there was an "afab trans masc nonbinary person" (their description) who wanted me to exclusively top them when I had told them I couldn't whatsoever. I broke it off with them. This was on taimi and hinge :/>>40915087yeah.. I just kinda put "bisexual" and described myself without thinking of sex because well um.. i wasnt
>>40917665Yeahhh being on a dating app and not looking for sexual intimacy is roughI’ve never used hinge or tiami so I can’t really understand those
>>40915297Did you not notice how I was a victim in that situation? She walked away with an ego boost and I had my appetite ruined.
Post charts, guess the letters, and discuss each other's musical taste! Don't forget to ignore lazy posters.Make your own charts! >https://topsters.org>QOTT: what is the musical genre you hate the most?
>>40914242I dont think there's any panchiko in my topsters. Unless I missed it. I mean I guess I could run an account of my typing to see how often I mistype letters, and then how often I mistype multiple letters in a row, and then whole words in a row without noticing it, and then how often I take no note of my misinputs and select covers from albums I've never heard before, and then have a total blindness to them upon looking back at my topsters. The rate for all must be rather remarkable since the (neccesarily) least likely possibility occurred in my first sharing of a topster. Perhaps I have some new kind of dysfunctional processing error, perhaps originating from this board. If that was the case it would certainly lend credence to lesss measurable proposed dysfunctions like "brainworms". P.S, YOU WIN.
>>40916798using this board less is pretty much an unambiguously good thing lol, i’m glad to hear it >>40914477bi trans woman>>40914242++jeff rosenstock (i’m seeing him soon!)+destroy boyscis lesbian>>40912698transbian>>40912295+weezertransbian>>40912220bi trans womanComment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>40917395thank you misato! getting off of here for the most part is like actually doing wonders for my mental health lol, i hope you've been well!
>>40905586>>40911836damn wish i could meet u two, don't have sum1 irl ta talk about this musicsame bout >>40909348 but less so (only cuz vidya ost, goreshit and machine girl)inb4, not a transbian
>>40917395>>>40914477 (You)>bi trans womanCorrect!
sorry
I don't see any trans women as women
>>40917705not even sorry about it lmao
>>40917705They're men
>>40917716straight trans women are larping gay men, specifically, and they do so because they can't accept being gay
>>40917748at least they put in the effort.
Why do trans timelines make me feel intense jealousy and anxiety? I am a straight late 20s man
>>40916550Men’s glow ups do nothing for me >>40916678>>40916678I’m not fool I know these women pay a lot to look so amazing.>>40916664I don’t even know how to respond
looking at timelines gives me such intense chest pain
>>40916342The further I transition and immerse myself in the trans community, the more I realize that only the top 1 percent of trans women get these trans timeline transitions.Your average trans woman does not get this much of a transformation. Not to say there aren't going to be good results compared to one's starting point, but a full flown shapeshifting anime gender-bender level transformation, that shit is rare.
>>40916747she had ffs between 3 and 4. look at the chin.
>>40916342How do you feel when you see trans women talk about gender affirming care or people treating them like women?
/Big/ - bisexual general : the end of the summer edition>QotT #1: How was your summer anon ?>QotT #2: Any plans for fall ?>optional QotT: what's your favorite autumn activity ?Previous Thread: >>40766952Tagmap: https://tagmap.io/tag/%2Fbigen%2FFAQ:>Am I bi if I like women and femboys/traps?>Am I bi if there's this one member of the same-sex I'm desiring, but normally I like the opposite sex?>Am I bi if I sexually like both sexes, but only interested in romance with one of them?Yes, sexual attraction to both sexes is bisexuality.Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>40872164oh i forgot to reply to this. im 18, and given everyone else's responses i feel like the youngest person ever meme that was trending on tiktok for a bit
Bigen is just some boomer gooner paradise pit
>>40916647I really wanted to see One Obliviscaris, they're from Australia and I'm from France so I don't have many opportunities lel. Also moshed pretty fucking hard to Gutalax and I Prevail, god I miss it already...
>>40916819>Not so subtly hoping for an orgy or something.We definitely do not go to the same concerts kekNot that I would be against the idea per se
Day #72659 of not knowing whether I'm a bi girl with preference towards women, or a homoflexible lesbian
is deltarune too woke?
>>40917194not yet
>>40917215alright toby's one way too woke this time I'll have to share a piece of my mind with him
>>40917033idk its trying too hard to be inoffensive. no spice
>>40917274i think its nice. the story doesnt have to be about any weird culture war stuff and can just exist
>>40917274Do you need kris to wear a Palestinian flag or something? The subtext of gay kids at odds with a small town mayor who’s suspiciously connected to the church & obnoxiously Christian is deep enough for me
I believe that most cultures possess an implicit awareness of autogynephilia, but that most people don't fully understand the concept.In most cultures, there's an understanding of:>There are some heterosexual men, who, for some reason, and in some way, get off on being female/feminine.They don't know in what way AGPs "get off" on this. Is it sexual? Romantic? Aesthetic?It is all three.The easy example would be otaku culture. Ranma for example, is clearly gynephilic, but possesses major AGP traits, he literally dates his female half in two separate chapters.I think wider understanding of AGP would lead to more acceptance, and would generally make life easier for all AGPs, both cis and trans.Question is, how do you make people explicitly aware of AGP?
>>40917068wasn't planning on it
>>40914941I think people frame it in an incorrect way.I think it's as simple as being attracted to feminine people, while also wanting others to be attracted to you as a feminine person.In theory even cis straight men, gay men, straight women, lesbians.But across all of those things, notice that it's just a taboo thing no matter what.
>>40916714>>40916417I know that, that's the part that hurts the most. I chalk a lot of it up to the fact that gender roles are so strict and there's really no nuance in the world, but there's still really no place for me and I know it. I'm still too feminine to understand men, too masculine to understand women.I've tried very hard telling myself I'm just full of shit
>>40915189>>40915251The truth is these people would be considered incel-adjacent freaks no matter what they are, even as gay men. But also I don't think I really believe you.
>>40917532Yeah, the double irony is that the people most likely to oppose a breakdown of traditional gender roles are heterosexual men, which includes AGPs.
Those who are prehrt or early in transition post pics so others can assess their future passability. and even if you’re like 3 years+ into trooning you can still post pics ig idk probably should’ve just made a /passgen/ instead since there’s not one up right now but idk.
>>40915824bro really called compliments "hugbox"soemthing something glass of piss half empty
>>40915773She fucks good too :3
>>40915876genuinely only have partial nudes and IM NOT posting pretransition nudes lmao sorry
>>40915549Cos the timer ran outhttps://unsee cc/album#U7rngdPcdKRm
1 year hrt manmoder. should i even fucking bother doing my injectionunsee cc/album#7ukacWMc7258i know i look like shit but my skull is so insanely moided that theres no point in trying to actually transition. ill just end up an embarrassment to absolutely everyone, even more than i already ami think about killing myself every day bc i look like a man. i really need someone to push me over the edge so i dont have to deal with this ocd troon shit anymore
does it make transbians angry when they see beautiful, happy cis lesbian couples?
>>40910739no because i love my transbian gf >>40910786no because my T is far below 30 ng/dL, which itself is average for a cissie
>>40910739She hit the wall at 18 anyway
>>40913750call me when it's undetectable Lilith
>>40910739No it makes me happy when I see other queer people happy
>>40910739They think “FUCK I CANT RAPE THEM”
If you're a gay sober guy, you live with basically 80% less financial burden than normies. I work as a 50% hotel receptionist and I travel to a different country every quarter while my coworkoids can barely afford rent.
>>40914575Lmaooooooo you're fucking retarded
>>40914646AI filth kys
>>40915608u
>>40915287Werll yeah, I mean, if some super hot 10/10 man was into me
>>40914411Do you not realize this is because of gendered expectations of who does the shopping in the home? Most women are better at spending less on groceries and other necessities because shopping is unironically a skill.
Even femboys mog me and I've been on E since I was 18 (now 20)I hate everything
>>40917286femboys mog you cause to be a popular femboy you need to be feminine. there’s a lot of “femboys” who you don’t know about cause they’re literally just dudes in drag. although same and it sucks
>>40917302Im just exhausted, I hate being a trannyNone of this effort has ever paid off, all I want is to be normal and happy
>>40917286you look like you have good eyes tho, just like you're tired or sad. the sockets don't look deep at all
cheer up you could be 28 like me, i wasted my life. you still have time
>>40917534that’s understandable. it’s tiring to put in so much effort and stress just to try and look like a mid masculine woman if we’re lucky. all that we’ve done and all that we still have to do for a chance of the normal life afforded to a vast majority of people. i’m not helping but i feel your pain
My girlfriend said I better not troon out on her ever or she'll leave me, so I broke up with her for being transphobic. I'm cis lol but it actually made me quite upset because I have other trans friends and it kinda rubbed me the wrong way.What would you do? She's called my phone like 5 times but it just kinda left an ick desu like she revealed herself as a bad person. Too extreme a reaction or wdyt? I don't really want to talk to her anymore.For the record I'm an incredibly gay bi man so maybe I came off as a flamer, or something? I don't know. My only transition desire is transitioning to alpha male.
>>40917446Yes. I think women tend to be more insecure and display higher levels of neuroticism than men.https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC3149680/I am not suggesting this is some kind of ingrained or innate trait. I know that women feel a lot of societal pressures around measuring up to beauty standards because I live as a woman and have women friends I talk to. Obviously we should not apply what we know about a group on average to one person individually.
>>40916613I am a cis man who is dating a trans girl and she said I must never become trans on her. I am a repper and live vicariously through her and this helps keep it bottled up. She doesn't know that I'm repping and as far as I'm concerned she never ever will. :)
>>40917654bait
>>40916613Another reason to not date men. Imagine breaking up with a girl for having brainworms...did you expect a mature and tempered adult with strong self worth and reasonable internal views? She'll be better off with me <3
>>40917654Doing god's work
Do top chasers exist? Also, can you find a chaser bf? Like someone who actually likes you and is not a serial killer. Someone who is willing to be your man and marry you for life?
>>40915642>>40915670I am a normal guy who likes being a guy who has diagnosed bpd.
>>40915712mental illness isnt real
>>40915978Have you seen where you're posting
>>40916307yeah, people are traumatized by others, it's not innate to their brain - the problem is how others have treated them
>>40915229>Do top chasers exist?yeah. most guys want to fuck with their penis. some of us are subs though and want you to sit on it at least.
