i think i'm addicted to cutting. nothing gives me relief like it does. my dysphoria persists despite hrt and i continue to make myself ugly. smoking, drinking, hitting myself, none of it works like cutting does. why can't i stop? have any of you successfully stopped? how?
>>40940526to avoid self harm do things like cold showers and exerciseits not just dysphoria, self harm becomes an addiction by itself
>>40940972oh yeah i already do that. i've devoted my sides and arms to being potential phallo grafts so i only fuck up my tits, thighs, and hips. the more dysphoric it makes me, the more cuts and burns it gets (with the exception of my rapehole, which i also need to preserve for future phallo).
>>40941032being real how is a cold shower gonna helpim miserable and dysphoric, take a cold shower now im miserable, dysphoric and cold
>>40940526You have two options: try to address what is making you cut OR try to minimize cutting damage.My subjective idea would be to get in a safe monogamous bdsm relationship as a pain slut and go from there.>t. not a cutter but keep ending up with friends and gfs who are
>>40941143Cold vs warm showers should be used for different purposes. Cold showers are very useful for discipline and warm showers are useful for relaxation.>>40940526Don't hate yourself OP! You have the power to stop, I know you do! I have friends who stopped their self-harm addiction and I am positive that you can too. Take it 10 minutes at a time and distract yourself with vidya, movies, TV, etc. Instead of telling yourself, "I'm not gonna hurt myself for a year", you should tell yourself "I won't hurt myself in the next 10 - 15 minutes." Every time a thought of hurting yourself comes up, remember that mantra. Take it 10 minutes at a time and soon you'll make it a full year. You can't promise to yourself that you'll never self-harm for a year because you can't predict what will happen in a year, but you CAN promise to yourself that you won't harm yourself in the next 10 minutes because you have control over the next 10 minutes. Take it 10 minutes at a time, you can do it! I believe in you OP! :) Sending you lots of love and support <3
what non-surgical treatments that youve had do you rate the highest and why? pls post your opinions and experiences hereive been thinking instead of gunning for surge i should spend a bunch of money getting my skin and body perfect before i go get cut up, as these can potentially do a lot more relative to what they cost for my quality of life.
>>40936067i bought a gua sha that a pregnant woman pissed on
i also need to know
wow 4chan really be doing nothing for themselves ig
>>409360671. Botox2. Electrolysis3. Getting my foundation/concealer professionally matched4. Eyebrow shaping5. Hair straightening. That's about where I'm at. Filler is next on the list to try.
curious how many people have actually seen surgery videos of upper face FFSthats why im only doing chin>>40936548>a gua shathose are nice but i find using my hands works fine>that a pregnant woman pissed onwhat
People were really putting their pronouns in their email signature. That shit was wild.
>>40940809>>40940365It's just the end goal of Puritanism and virtue signalismThat's why we should have killed all protestants in the 17th century
>>40940883you're acting like the pendulum isn't going to swing back after trump getting outted as a ped
>>40940862the pronoun stuff came pretty suddenly too. It went from niche tumblr stuff to mainstream overnight in 2020
>>40940442no. if you are recognizable as a specific crazy person who has been posting the same retarded shit on here for years and never backing it up, i'm not going to pretend you're not a lunatic just because the words you posted are technically something a non-schizophrenic could in theory believe.
>>40940915I'll be real with you.Frazzledrip could come out and reveal that Trump is standing behind Hillary with a salt shaker in one hand while rubbing his tummy with the other and singing a song about wanting to eat babies, and nothing would change.Trump die-hards will say its AI, or wait for Trump's excuse.Centrists who claim they're "Just democrats from 10 years ago" will bury their head in the sand every time you try to show it to them and call it fake news, and that the real video would only have Hillary and Huma anyway cause the internet said so.The Earth would continue turning and at most some Dems might protest and then it'd die down a few weeks later.I used to believe there was a straw that could break the camels back but when I talk to my RW friends, they STILL twist themselves into a Gordian knot trying to explain how Trump couldn't have possibly gone to the Island but he's probably trying to protect a friend who did go there and that's why he's putting on this charade.I don't think the spell Trump has on this nation can dispel until "nothing ever happens" switches from 'True' to 'False' and I didn't program this garbage reality so I don't know if we can do that.
are the right-wing trans girls still happy they voted for trump?
>>40941233Why are you unironically posting the latest bullshit from that zionist bitch?She's literally just there to distract from the fact that right this very second the IDF death squads are marching through gaza to exterminate the palestinians there.
That's literally it. This is the question. I'm a transgender man and I don't know if gay dudes would actually like me in the same way I like them.Though honestly I kind of doubt it, being a transgender man sucks sometimes because most time whilst trying to find a relationship it's always just a guy wanting to fetishize you. I've been getting desperate at this point, all I want is an actual relationship.
>>40939525get off this board bro this place is not for you. you need thicker skin.
>>40939224I'm bi and I am attracted to the same sort of poonies as I am cis boys.
>>40941117So, women ?
>>40939338Motte and bailey
>>40941142Yes but the irony of pooners is that the most malebrained thing an effeminate small dicked manlet can do is develop a MEF fetish and become a femboy, so the real valid FtMs are those ones.
Does it make men uncomfortable when you look into their eyes while you lovingly suck their cock?
>>40941009Not going to post that in this thread, I'll add you on discord though
>>40941018oki drop ur dc :3
>>40941020compost6969
>>40940984I am a straight man. Do you think i would enjoy getting a blowjob from you?
>>40940605it makes me want to palm the back of your head and push your lips to the hilt
No more guns for trans people
>>40935749omg im so shocked they would use this latest mass shooting as an attempt to try to ban guns from only trans people but conveniently forget all the mass shooting involving white men
>>40940148Well of course they don't care: the guys in charge share the same ideology as the Nazi cult this school shooter retard was into.
>>40936480Shame. It would have been hilarious. Especially if the yiffers were armed.
so many pol monkies here today
>>40937625no firearms no problem, get an Any Other Weaponwe are in the era of drone warfare anyways>>40935749>>40937625my main concern is its a prereq to democide.im wondering how pervasive the democidal sentiment is. im confidently vibechecking that a large amount of americans (including my family) and politicians want all trans people killed fullsend, but dont have the balls to say it publicly.ive not even transitioned yet and just being mildly fem in public makes about 1/20 men look at me like im not human>israelretards in thread, but the gaza situation is relevant, it shows current tolerance for genocide
I’m ok just being a non-hairy, non-balding man.>T.manmoder
>>40941082Non-binary is thing you know. You don't have to be a woman if you don't want to (no-gender). And you can part-time if you want to(genderfluid). And you can just not really know (genderqueer). It's all okay. It's about making you comfortable with yourself.
>>40941082How's your arse then lad
Do you believe in female souls in male bodies?
I'm lucky I got a female soul.
>>40936135I do yes.
>>40936135No. I believe that there are masculine and feminine energies and that some males clearly have a feminine animus and I call those males women.
>>40936135I am oneBut I'm not a womanMy soul is a woman but my biology is a man. Therefore I'm a man
>>40936135idk really. personally doubt it.sure i've had people make observations about my feminine personality traits/habits/etc. since before i even considered transitioning but deep down i still feel like i have a male soul but i'm just like damaged in a weird way. like something didn't click right when i was created.at the very most i would only consider my soul to be some weird in between thing, not quite one or the other.
He's cutting off his boobies this weekend. I usually prefer FtM twinks to have flat chests but idk his tits are so perfect he actually looks hot asf with them
>>40938699>>40938736This capitialization is so obnoxious I have to assume a woman typed it. I hope you're not ftm
>>40938249>>40938249H O L YOLYP L A PLAP
>>40938771Sadly, it's a turbo autist AFaB.Gigafujo
>>40937682TAlso fuck ass mod this stays >>40938249 but my censored silicone gets a ban?
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General for all nonbinary, intersex, questioning, and friends.QOTT: What is your favorite biome?QOTT2: What cultural cuisine do you enjoy the most?
>>40940578You'll find whatever block there is and exorcise it. The behaviours that come naturally to you and bring you joy. They no longer have connotations one way or another. You will find a way of being that frees you not from the burden of labels, for people must refer to you as best they can. But from the expectations of those labels. Your future, your present, shall no longer be dictated by the shame and discomfort or even pride you might feel from adhering to the tenants of these labels. If shine is what you are to do, then that you will, but you do not need to shine if that is not your inclination. If it's your desire to do so then overcome all that prevents you from doing so. Be that physical, mental, interpersonal, situational. You must expand into whatever space you might fill. Fill no more space than you can, and take on the shape that you must take in order to abscond from your duties. Shoulder whatever burdens you must shoulder and you must not shoulder any more. If you choose not to shoulder them, you could instead hip them, or forearm them, or knee them. Never again lament your adherence or lack there of to any category, least of all the appendix that contains all which lies between.
>>40940722thank u anon. deeply. im saving this and will read it back to myself at points in the future. this is not an easy path.
much new music this blessed Friday.....i am listening to the Slipknot anniversary album now but there is also a new shame album, new La Dispute, Big Thief, Fleshwater, Cut Copy, Tchotchke, and many others INCLUDING new Town Portal single which is SO good and heralds finally a new Town Portal ALBUM after six years. i cannot overstate my excitementi hope everyone has the loveliest new-music Friday and that something you have been excited for came out today
>>40940578based blame
>>40941062Good luck anon! Let me give you an even more actionable piece of wisdom for when you've spent time untangling what you find you might wish to untangle. "Don't worry about it."Never repeat this is an accusatory or defensive tone. It is a reassurance for all not least yourself
>be me >tons of self harm scars from years ago>also be me masochist>get horny>meet with self professed sadists >they see my scars >they feel bad and refuse to do anything more than hit medarn
>>40937301sigh. if only one of u actually looked like picrel. god, the things id do to you... there's nothing i want more than to use my muscular, strong body to overpower and sexually torture my partner.
>>40940650>my muscular, strong bodyYou describe youraelf like One Of those tumblr Daddydom erotica Men
>>40940650sorry for being amab? lol
>>40940650i used to look like that but then i got old
>>40940877I’m describing myself>>40940886I don’t mind if you’re a boy. In fact, I think it’s even cuter if you’re a boy who looks like that. Makes it all the more satisfying when you realize how you’ve failed as a male. And your only hope in life is to become my plaything.>>40941106Shit happens
/lesgen/ is the lesbian general for all cis women and trans women (MtF) to discuss lesbian relationships and topics.Bee kind to each other and report/ignore trolls who attempt to divide trans mtf lesbians and cis lesbians as a community.QOTT:>Are you a voyeur? Exhibitionist?>Do you write letters to your girlfriend? Does she write any to you?>Do you collect art prints? Share pics!tagmap: https://tagmap.io/tag/%2Flesgen%2Fdiscord: https://discord.gg/bAnVMAGPNRold: >>40886356
>>40938532hokay bud
>>40938532poly people dont even have real relationships, they just have friends with benefits who they kiss sometimes
>>40938532>and have healthier relationshipsnah
>>40939274I like having both. :)
would you be more inclined to date someone if from the start it was not serious and just temporary?
Should she be given a trans achievement award?She really brought a lot of people to our side
>>40937968Troon Mafia, sounds dangerous. Better get on Blue Sky and show cops threats troons make.
>>40937836>NOOO OUR POLITICAL ENEMIES BEING ARRESTED IS BAD WHAT ABOUT THE OPTICSERINOS!slide harder
>>40937836based queen
>>40937836I need her to shove her pointer finger into the camera like a Smiling Friends character.
>>40937836>underground trans mafiacan anyone on this site recognize a joke?
why is trans humor so violent
>>40939234>there is no reason to dislike chasoids and debatefaggots past uh... dumb
>>40933285Trannies are autistic. This is just how autistic people think. It comes off as overcompensation because it is. That's why these memes suck so hard but trannies mog everyone at making anti-tranny memes. You NEVER see a huss making shit like this.
>>40933285trannies hate themselves and their body so deeply that they lost the ability to care about human beings in general. they see no inherent value in a human life.
>>40936969should have no problem with some stranger randomly killing you then
>>40937227nta but glass houses hon. trannies are an entire group of people that will absolutely lose their shit if you call them she without the s
