/lesgen/ is the lesbian general for all cis women and trans women (MtF) to discuss lesbian relationships and topics.Be kind to each other and report/ignore trolls who attempt to divide trans mtf lesbians and cis lesbians as a community. This includes transphobic bigotry, femmephobia, butchphobia, racism, and anti-c4t/t4t slop. This is nice thread. :)QOTT:>Best place to trespass into? What shenanigans have you gotten up to there?>Are you a fan of street art or graffiti?>Do you enjoy kissing your gf in public and watching people’s reactions when they realize you’re more than friends?tagmap: https://tagmap.io/tag/%2Flesgen%2Fdiscord: https://discord.gg/bAnVMAGPNRold thread: >>41462502
I dated a T4C trans woman and she said I was her first trans partner. She would say transphobic shit and when I got uncomfortable she would say she isn't talking about me and said I'm cis in her mind.
lago growing up in a racist cult explains everything
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Tj5tfyxFC6w
>>41505559Muff goodDo itt. 10 years post
>>41505999whatcha gonna do in each other’s company?
Why don't we do threads comparing body progress anymore?I miss it and I've tried to bring it back but no ones been interested
>>41506878Keep jerking off to them incel
>>41495935>Why don't we do threads comparing body progress anymore?because rate threads and camwhoring is against the rules of the board, and jannies have been more thorough in enforcing that rule latelya lot of these threads tend to get whacked or moved to /soc/ where it is allowed
>>41504291Oh dang alright, thanks. I'll take a better photo next time I try
>>41504266Not yet, lurked a lot but only started posting recently. I'll definitely post in passgen once I'm happier with my body.
>>41507313You can tell from the angles of the tiles and the doorframe that the perspective is distorting the shoulders relative to the hips.
You can see it coming from years away and yet that never meant you could do anything about it. Dying isolated and despised is like a cancer diagnosis where you can only wait for the time the doctor gave you to live to run out and hope you spent your life correctly until then. The suffering you go through will be mocked and celebrated.
>>41507079I'm a 28yo virgin mtf and it's not horrible. Like I went and saw Chainsaw Man Reze Arc tonight and felt really happy afterwards. Granted I went alone but still felt happy. I wish I could form relationships and stuff like normal people but idk, something is wrong with me (I think its autism no meme)
>>41507079I a >40yo virgin
My parents think 35 year olds are "kids", life drags on for much longer than 40.
>>41507418unf, hey bb
why don't you guys find someone to have sex with?
spooky general for intersex people! Previous bread>>41444350~•PASTE BIN•~>what is INTERGEN?INTERGEN is a general for intersex people to talk to each other about their experiences or just to hang out>what is an intersex person?Intersex people are those born with any of several sex characteristics, including chromosome patterns, gonads, or genitals that do not fit typical binary notions of male or female bodies>am I intersex?We are not doctors, please seek medical advice, but dont be afraid to ask questions here to maybe understand things better >are trans people intersex?Trans people are not inherently intersex, however an intersex person can transition if they wantComment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Ridiculous taxidermy bump
Morning bump!!
>>41503806more intersex people that were ambiguous were historically assigned female more often than male, because 1. a man with a pussy offends jesus 2. making a pussy bigger/deeper/wider/functional is easier than making a dick bigger/functional
>>41507938It’s funny that you say that, my dad slipped one day and said something along the lines of>it’s easier to fill a ditch than to remove a pole This was during one of my urology appointments growing up, I doubt they meant anything by it, but like I feel like aside from the testing I’ve paid for and found out on my own I’ll never get a straight answer out of my parents :/
>>41507960your dad is retarded and knows nothing about genital surgery lolclitoral reductions are a lot easier than trying to turn a clit into a dick. if it's not big enough, there's very little that can be done to achieve a penis that can penetrate, become erect naturally, etc. vs. you can make a hole to fuck pretty easily, and can expand existing ones more easily as well. if the dominance is already towards masculine genitals, it may make more sense to remove small vaginal structures and seal any remaining unfused genital stuff, but in truly ambiguous/middle cases or feminine leaning ones, it is much harder to make a boy than it is to make a girl.
Trans woman was kicked out of the womens swimming team for being trans. So she killed herself.
>>41498821This is like a 21 year old killing himself because he can’t play dodgeball with the middle schoolers
>>41498821Middlebury children will rest easier with one less predator on the loose
>>41507999You're not humble, you're just a coward. And an idiot if you think team sports are about 'accomplishment.'
Trannies never cared about women’s sports beforeArtificial outrage
>>41508094Can't a coward also be humble? Can't a team sport be about accomplishment? Seems pretty normal to say yes to both
i dont like having friends. spending time with people doesnt make me feel better, maybe i have fun at the time but ten seconds later its like it never happened. i used to want friends so badly and hated being alone but now its all ive known for so long i just want things to stay isolated forever. i have my computer, i have books and music and movies and shows and people on twitch and twitter and youtube to be parasocial towards, im fine. ill be fine.
>>41502433Most of those 'queer' people are literally just zoomer normies though
>>41505022yeah it's hard to actually find ones that are relatable tbhq
bump
Schizoid
>>41507255doubt it
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>>41506312I hate all alt and emo ftms. I need cowboypoons
>>41506788How long you been on T brother
>>41507268It's about the poonhandles. Of course nothing compresses bones.>so all a binder does is just scrunch up above themYeah I have a pretty severe hourglass aswell. I haven't had the money for shapewear in a while but from everything I've tried I think the only real solution is just severe gymmaxxing & weight cycling.
>>41507366I don't like that I recognize these things. I need lobotomy.
>>41507915Howdy...
Before I start I want to preface that this is a genuine post and I'm struggling to find guidanceI repped for many years because of thisI feel strongly about being good to others. I think it is important to make others happy at all costs. It is how I was raised, to think of others and disregard myself. I know this doesn't really match with how others see things, but in my point of view, it's a moral imperative to limit harm and bring joy, and morally bankrupt and self-centered to consider one's self and own feelings as a priority. As a result, since a majority of the population hates transgender people, (and when I was very young I thought the same of gay people but I think most people now live and let live with them) thus it is a moral obligation for my self as a transgender person to commit suicide, after repping until my parents die for their sake. I struggled back and forth for years with this. Among other things, it helped keep me in the closet for a very long time. But it always sticks in the back of my mind as an "ultimate truth" and that what I am doing trying to live my life is completely immoral, arguably cruel. It's starting to become a recurring, major thought sequence again after a few years of transitioning and managing to find some little happiness, and now I want to rep and look into exit bags despite things going relatively well, abusive relationship aside. Is there a way to end this guilt, or go through with the obligation? I need freedom from this torture one way or another.
>>41506808The flaw in your plan to endlessly suffer to ease the burden on others is that everybody can tell you're suffering and it's making them uncomfortable. You can't live your life like that, and if everyone strove to then the world would be a deeply sad and empty place. Just transition.
>>41506808Trans people are other people too. We need your help.
normally i would just be a terrible person and tell you to kys but i actually relate to this thread a bit so ill be genuineanon/nette, please be selfish, you are too good a person. its ok not to do this, i know thisll sound hollow but genuinely, you do not deserve this at all. just because people think this way (and doesnt even mean you bring them any harm) should not concern you to this level. go to therapy please, talk to a hotline, do not to through with this. please
>>41506808Hey OP this >>41506913 anon is right. I had those exact same feelings and very similar situation. I ended up transitioning. I’m still numb but atleast I don’t feel a deep empty void of nothingness inside me anymore. Please just transition and be my friend. I’ll be here for you. I know it’s hard. That feeling will go away the more you talk about it and work on your safety and being able to transition. It’s ok to not be ok.
>>41506808Nona, go read this VNhttps://nyaa.si/view/1325411Just trust me on this one. Sit down with it, and read it, entirely. You will see what I mean once you're done.
I've been trying to figure out my identity for years by now and every step I take in doing so only uncovers that I completely and utterly lack one.There's no desires, no beliefs, no sociability, no preferences, no sexuality, no gender, no sense of self. All I am is just a collection of happenstances, and the meek attempt at reducing harm towards others.I recognize the person in the mirror, but he's just as much a stranger to me as everybody else is. The world feels stagnant, disjointed, and nothing that ever happens actually feels like it has any substance.There's still hope that I'm just missing something which will make the world make sense, but it all just feels like a deluded pipedream. I hope at least that some people can relate to this, and are able to feel seen and commiserate.
>>41507576>To be trans to me implies a sense of identity, one which I do not possess, nor was ever able to form. I feel misshapen, malformed and repugnantYes, I remember being 14 and first encountering trans people and my first thought was not "Oh, this is what I am" it was "Huh, could I be like this?" There was no recognition in it, just the idea of experimentation, of hoping I found a box I could fit inside that would make me feel like a person. But I think now that im old I realise no amount of experimentation or exploration will make me feel full.
I trooned. The void is still there. It doesn't fix it. It was a worthwhile troubleshoot. The funny thing is I'm so lacking in identity that being years deep into HRT and having an altered body doesn't perturb me. I'm exactly as dissociated but my form is different. I don't think I'd detrans at this point i have almost no preference either way. There are pros to having an estrogen dominant system and pros to a testosterone dominant one. Anyway I wish I had tips about the void but I can't help you there. I tried writing a list of stuff I used to enjoy and upon introspection found every single one of them was a response to some sort of neglect in order to fill a void. So it's all just like the negative space of where some kind of care should have been.
Man it feels good to just be a basic monkey-man and not some mentally ill intellectual.
>>41507910Keep that energy going anon. It's a better way to be
>>41503259>it's impossible to understand conceptsskill issue lol
troons will insist that they are LITERALLY WOMEN despite looking like scrawny male nerds with chad jaws and receding hairlines. meanwhile, pooners will proudly identify as afab xx lesbians who are nothing like those icky cis men. gender ideology is pure AGP male narcissism and you can clearly see the gender difference on display.
>>41507857>pooner>"labels don't matter", as opposed to the troons who say "I am literally a woman"aren't you just, like... proving my point?>>41507864that's because they aren't AGP like TIMs are.
>>41507687Fpbp, OP is a (proverbial and literal) fag and should lurk moar before poasting again
>>41507864No this isnt true, one of the most hardcore binary trans medicalists I know is ftm
>>41507661idk I'm trans and really really bad at driving so it's probably not that
>>41507661Everyone are women. Go look at videos of tribes. They all act like faggots. That's the natural state of humanity. Modern males are not real people, they are homunculi who were created to die in wars and purchase axe bodywash and gaming computers.
trans WOMEN do u have autism and adhd
i have adhd but i have not been diagnosed with autism
i have autism but i have not been diagnosed with adhd
St4t couple where both see each other as basically a guy friend they can fuck.Realistically this can only happen between a gigapasser ftm and a tomboy mtf.Truly think about it. Mtfs are hot because they’re women with autism and personality. Ftms are hot because they’re a guy you can fuck. They would go so well together
>>41507799Please jerk off before making a new thread like this
we are allowed one per board
>>41507458QA WON
>>41507446i'm improving board morale bitch
>>41507458No shit >>41507468Fucking hang yourself on a door knob
>>41507440thats more of a board with a lot of tranny posters
so yah
It's only worth transitioning if you actually end up with a straight husband.
>troon out>pass, fuck year>get bf>he attempts to troon out on me after i move in with him>nope.jpgIt's not worth it, sisters.
>>41507976Meeting troons turns GAMPs into AGAMPs.
>>41506483>HRT 5years>Laser/electrolysis>FFS>BA>OrchiWifed by heterosexual cisgender husband.
>>41506483my husband is bi but ya pretty much. i transitioned in 2014 and we started dating in 2018. being able to date men that aren’t gay is one perk of trooning out.
We all heard of the "gay face" but who else can instantly recognize a chaser by his face? I think the bug like eyes give it away.
theres this chaser that bartends at my local bar and i would lowk let him. like i know its not a good idea but he could make me feel like a woman in a capacity that girls just cant
>>41506167Isn't that diaper baby Sam Hyde
>>41506167Usul ?
>>41506176are you joking??
Do i look like a chaser ?