Red: you pass to everyone else but not to yourselfGreen: you pass to yourself but not to anyone else
>>42044993GREENI'd rather be comfortable with my own image PLEASE I HATE LOOKING IN THE MIRROR
>>42044993Red feels lower risk. I'm already red and like it better than when I was green. Being green got me into bad situations so fuck that.
This is thee most hsts vs agp question ever. Gee idk, do i want to be able to goon or present female to every person i interact with and be treated the way i feel? Huh? Hard choice ig
>>42045041>I'm already redsure you are nona>like it better than when I was greengoing from green to red doesn't happen
>>42044993hmm mental anguish or mental anguish... hard choice.
Hi /lgbt/, I (27 mtf) have an issue with my current bf (27 cism) I've been dating for 4 years. We met in college and began seeing each other 6mo after I had srs, then became exclusive 8mo after. My issue is that I told him I had a body count of 7 prior to us being exclusive because I wanted to seem as experienced as he was. In reality, he is the one who took my virginity because I was too ashamed of my anatomy prior to srs to sleep with anyone else and never felt the need when we were just seeing each other.Recently we were discussing Sinners which has a lot of mention of cunnilingus which I thought was hot and he said I didn't have any recent experience of doing it, which reminded me I told him in the past I ate a girl out on a solo trip while we werent exclusive (it was actually just heavy petting).Now we have lived together for 3 years and settled down. We've talked a lot about life goals and are in alignment so I will likely marry him. I'd be happy to never mention my fake sexual past again since theres no way he could prove I lied, but it still feels bad to keep a secret like this. Do I tell him he is the only person I've slept with?
>>42044691Don't tell. You just make him doubt everything you say, for a good reason desu
>>42044691>>42044751lol i have the exact same problem. Told him when we were still just writing and havent met irl that i had sex just once before with a guy in a major city to not seem ugly or smth. Told him the dude gave me wine and stuff in his airbnb and then we had sex but in reality, I was the one that booked the airbnb and i ate indian food in a jacuzzi and watched iasip all night.we've been together for 3y now and i feel like if i tell him now, he will think i'm lying or smth and that I'm hiding something worse
>>42044691telling your boyfriend you were actually a virgin and he took it is actually a huge mega good idea literally nothing can possibly go wrong I am not even trying to be sarcastic, guys love that shit knowing the girl is theirs and only theirs
>>42044751>>42044823>>42044897Thank you for the advice anons, I’ve never lied to him before so idk how he would react even if he would like the idea of being the only one and as far as I know he hasn’t lied to me. I’ll probably keep it to myself, not worth opening up that pandoras box
Are you okay with dating a bi guy? Would you lez out with him in a 3 way with a woman of your choosing?
>>42043039>What if he just likes trans?That means he's worst kind of bi man possible and women are not interested. (Which says alot because all bi men are psychotic)Stick to troons and leave us alone.
>>42044983That's an obvious terf anon>>42045022Still obsessing over men's sex lives huh?
>>42045056Ew I don't want to catch stds from the monkey fucking sex
>>42044998Again, everyone from straight men & women to literal feminist lesbians say this about bi women so idk what your point is
>>42045076Nobody wants to fuck you anyway, the closest you can ever get is fantasizing about "rejecting" others online
I'm going to start hrt soon. I feel undoubtedly male but I'm curious if this will change once I get on hrt.Also where to find hoodie like picrel
It's gonna happen to you. You're AGP.
>>42045005ur a jenuis
>>42045000It can and it might but it's not guaranteed
I think I want one that looks like this. What sort of chasers do they go forI won't be replying because of the captcha
>>42036114Trannies praise twink traits as "passing", it's so... weird
>>42033102rape
>>42033102>What sort of chasers do they go forWomen
>>42043592True
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after browsing this board for like 4 years i get the feeling you don't believe what you say.half of the people here will tell you outright that the reason they transitioned or "trooned out" is because they failed as guys or saw being socialised as a males as a never ending ratrace into misery (or they were just incel losers), and the other half say they trooned out becuse there is an uderlying fact about the way their brain/endocrine system work tha makes them a "female in a male's body".in the end i am confused about the nature of the whole thing, especialy with a hundred of other factors that could go into the rise of "trans identifying people" in the last 10 years.for me its an easy thing and i will wholeheartedly admit that being a fag is a way simpler mater of identification and explaining (even if my parents no longer talk to me).so if you don't know what a trans person is, how can ppl trust you to give the measures by which they should aid you, protect you, and most of all, know weather you are what you claim you are?maybe im just full-on retarded and im making a mess out of something way simpler than what make out of it, but i would like your opinion on the matter since you are the trans ppl in question
i agree with you that life is easier and you will be more likely to be read as a woman if you are a trans woman and do normative woman things. but you still shouldn't be treated a subhuman if you don't, imo. the indignity of trans women who don't make the efforts you discuss is for sure futile in this day and age.
>>42044709
>>42044722>but you still shouldn't be treated a subhuman if you don't, imoDid I say that? No, I didn't.And no, it's not being treated "a subhuman" by being called "sir".I'm sorry, but "be the change you want to see" is still true.>the indignity of trans women who don't make the efforts you discuss is for sure futile in this day and ageIt's not futile. Some younger tgirl will see this and keep it in her mind.We used to have mentorship in lgbt groups. Now it's all gone in favor of hysteric screeching and endless demands + crabs in the bucket mentality.You mention history but you don't seem to take the lesson from it.The gay guys got what they wanted by also being reasonable and policing the screeching.Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>42043491It's simple HSTS = bitchy gay men who think they come across as women, or grumpy lesbians who think they come across as menIntershit = actual fucked up natural developmentAGP/AAP = every other tranny
>>42044886you totally misinterpreted me. >but you still shouldn't be treated a subhuman if you don't, imothis was arguing against some of the stuff OP implied:>how can ppl trust you to give the measures by which they should aid you, protect you, and most of all, know weather you are what you claim you are?>the indignity of trans women who don't make the efforts you discuss is for sure futile in this day and agethis was aimed at trans women who do not take steps to look normatively feminine. i agree that it is unreasonable, given certain societal conditions, to expect to be called "miss" if you do not do certain things for your appearance etc."policing the screeching" is booing sylvia rivera, who was part of the first real transgender community? i think that you don't understand that "policing" is futile. you're in the boat with every other trans woman, whether or not you agree with how they act as trans women.
This is so true, why do so many femboy/yaoi attracted guys want to insist they're bi?
>>42044395Because they are same sex attracted, you idiot. You can be gay and never touch a man
>>42044395Because comphet makes dating the opposite sex easier and a lot are actually just gynesexual rather than properly bisexual.
>>42044779Men don't experience comphet, stop stealing from lesbians you stupid idiot
>>42044989>Men don't experience comphet, they're only pressured out of same sex attraction and towards opposite sex attraction through a series of complex social mechanisms
Im bi and never had sex with a cis woman. Because fucking passing trannies is still gay but only kinda.
>started crying to my therapist again>had a mental breakdown over my circumcision >she tries to convince me its good I got my penis mutilated as a newborn>I go on a 10 minute tangent about the kikes taking over America and how they've mutilated me and millions upon millions of others I cant take it anymore. What these kikes did to me. And these snakes pretend to be the fucking victims "ME MUM TURNED INTO A LAMPSHADE!!!!"
>>42043802The harsh truth is with my circumcision im one of the lucky ones. Most of the time the damage these kikes do severely shortens the penis and removes the frenelum, or even mutilates the head in a large number of cases.>>42043816Die kike. >>42043966I can't, court mandated therapist.
>>42044524It’s true, like even if I detrooned I can’t be a gay man because it wouldn’t work, and can’t be a hetero man because women would be unsatisfied… the rabbis made me a permanent soldier of Christ and the ptsd of them doing it was horrific. I still have the video of them doing and celebrating it, shits fked up… call me antisemitic Idc maybe yall should stop the chop…
>>42041748You should probably blame Kellogg and the weirdo American Cultural Christianity for that.
I'll tell you one thing, and I'm not ashamed to say it...my estimation of OP as a man just fuckin plummeted
>>42044768That's what I told my therapist she was bewildered she never heard about that sniveling kike and his propaganda campaign to mutilate millions
QOTT: I'm going to the market repbros. Do you want me to pick you up anything?Half the reason I wanted to make this so quick is to thank >>42036241 trip for stopping by. Your posts were lucid and informative, and if wishing I had her results makes me gay, meh, I can live with that.Previous thread >>42017674
>>42044701>r/translater>be me>opens that sub>literally the first post that pops up https://www.reddit.com/r/TransLater/comments/1ppmukx/i_just_like_this_44yo_45y_hrt_no_ffs_no_filter/Fuck! This one is even older than me.It's gonna be a long december. But I'm done with repping. I must know if it's possible for me too.
>>42044830The best repfuel there is baby tranners dressed inappropriate for their age or when they pose next to cis women.Like I said tho, some of them pull it off. You found one one of the better ones. I hate that I recognize her from lurking.She's older than me too. I am getting pretty close to pulling the diy trigger. I need to get in better shape. Fuck our loser repper lives.
>>42044883>I am getting pretty close to pulling the diy triggerI didn't have the balls for that.But I slowly prepped the "weapon". Throughout the year i got the official diagnosis, went through the bureaucracy and the motions and i'm getting closer to the official moment to start. Of course, I can still stop. But I ran out of reasons to stop.>Fuck our loser repper livesI'm probably weirder than the norm here. I'm not even a loser, objectively speaking.Not a shut-in (actual partner, a house), decent job, active in the local community... it's just that I can't get rid of the fact that my thoughts don't feel mine. Or they are mine but click weirdly with the body.I don't even expect this to work, lol.
Even the "bad" examples are actually better than me https://www.reddit.com/r/GlowUps/comments/1o5lm1o/15_years_apart_transitioning_save_my_life29/I wish I could look like this in the summer of '27
>>42044701>partly cos the tranny thoughtskek you mean like your foundational personality >How are you doing?working atm which is annoying as shit because everybody tries to squeeze all of their requests for the holiday pto period into the last couple days before pto, cunts>>42044667>Now where do I get my repfuel?mtfg is literally right there>>42044883>She's older than me toohow old are you bruv>I need to get in better shapeyou basically just need to get to 25-30 body fat % and pick a muscle wasting method
/tttt/ victim edition qott: how long have you been using this board?prev - >>41966595
>>42041325about 2 years now. kinda wish i would have started earlier bc i wouldve been pushed to diy sooner than i did
>>42043819>i think its you lol.depends on who "d" is..but probably ;ppit's maybe an exaggeration to say that i'm "doing better" because i'm still a total basket case but at least i'm content with how i look mostly lol. i would take this over how i felt back then any day.i miss everyone, too.....i went to the server to check in a few months ago but was too scared to stick around long. i wish i could tell everyone how much i love them without having to actually go to them and say so.whoever you are, yourself, i hope you are excelling.....endless happiness to you :) and to everyone else, if you happen to be in contact.
>>42041325way too long and it stunted my mental development forsure
>>42041325>qottprobably around 2 years. I started coming here pretty soon after starting hrt.
>>42041325this site since 2010 (i was 12). this board in particular since 2019 or so? :/im not smart enough for this new captcha wtf
I have OCD and one of my themes is questioning whether I'm transgender, how do I know if this is just an intrusive thought or actually true?
>>42038794Not the op, but how do I even know whether I'd want to be a woman or not?
I have TOCD, told so by a psych several years ago before there was much of any documentation out there. My obsession was "but what if I'm trans" and my compulsion was endlessly scrolling the various reddit trans forums and measuring my body multiple times a day. Sometimes looping between them and not leaving my room to eat for 16 hour days. I've had a resurgence in symptoms lately because I let my diet, exercise, and sunlight exposure slip. I found that the generic "healthy lifestyle" actually did a lot to mediate rumination. No fast food, regular lifting weights, (at least) weekly meals with friends or family, regular sleep times, etc. Now I'm back in the whole and just started Pio (but not HRT) because I just wanna fuck my shit up. Perk of TOCD is you can actively rep it easier (I will never transition). Downside is that OCD isn't limited to T as a theme. After my TOCD diagnosis I just assumed I was gay instead (HOCD) and ended up fucking two different guys that I was not at all attracted to. Then I thought I was maybe just a sociopath, then a pedophile (was gonna kms at this point ngl), then had an oedipus complex. Eventually the themes didn't land on a weird paraphilia and I got a stable life routine. I know transitioning seems like the only way out, but it's not, because you'll start getting the "but what if I'm cis" thoughts. Find actual treatment from an OCD doc or at least make sure the rest of your life is in a healthy state first.
>>42044050How were you sure it was actually TOCD? I'm at a point where I genuinely can't even distinguish whether I'm more afraid of having TOCD or more afraid of being trans.
>>42039363are you a sharty faggot or a gincel faggot
>>42039544>>42039562rogd is real i'm a cis man who developed fake dysphoria but am too stupid to act on it besides take hrt
my husband is a higher state of being when compared to me...
>>42043526yes, it is
>>42043600that's stupidour love is greater than psychiatric buzzwords
What would you do if your inferior being gf accidentally had some sour milk and now has to crap all day? Hypothetical question
>>42044054idk if that happened to me i'd just take diarrhea meds and try to keep myself hydrated with watered down juice, maybe some salt pinched in if neededsuch things happen in life
>>42042768this this this
>what is INTERGEN?INTERGEN is a general for intersex people to talk to each other about their experiences or just to hang out>what is an intersex person?Intersex people are those born with any of several sex characteristics, including chromosome patterns, gonads, or genitals that do not fit typical binary notions of male or female bodies>am I intersex?We are not doctors, please seek medical advice, but dont be afraid to ask questions here to maybe understand things better >are trans people intersex?Trans people are not inherently intersex, however an intersex person can transition if they want, “neurologically intersex” is not real as being intersex pertains to the sex organs or hormonal productions >how is this /lgbt/?We share similar experiences of discrimination and social prejudice based on sex and gender norms, even though intersex is a variation of sex characteristics, not a gender identity or sexual orientation itself—————————Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>42041735Good luck!>>42040382I almost forgot about that time an infamous doctor had everyone staring at their urethras confused.
>>42042284>almost forgot about that time an infamous doctor had everyone staring at their urethras confusedWait what? I don’t use Reddit, like I find it annoying but wait is that a real thing
>>42043312There were a couple posts about it here. I forget the exact details but something about the mildest hint of hypospadias in some of the doctor's MTF patients, but I guess everyone misinterpreted exactly what he meant? But 4chan of course concluded it means all trans people are intersex.Not sure why he's regularly performing genital exams on his HRT patients buuuuut...
>>42044491No, the dumb celebrity doctor did actually say "I'm going to prove you guys are intersex" or something to that extent. He views himself as the hero of trannies and receives endless updoots for it. He's an internet personality with an MD.
>>42044696Ah I’m guessing Dr powers then, the guy seems like a quack :/
q4c: dont you agree that trannies owe you sex if you're nice to them?q4t: sorry, this one's just for the guysprev: idk lmao
>>42045171youMONSTER
>>42045188well are you being nice to them
>>42045171Can you fetishise mine. I'll pay if I have to
>>42045205yes but they want to be punched and choked :(
>>42045212they do yeah. you gotta understand how modern culture is a product of the '50s in a big way. women are conditioned from birth to desire abuse. a lot of them are working through it or finding ways to do it sustainably. a lot of them are not. good luck baby it's hard out here
>>42044916Circumcision is fine though.
>>42044916if only they banned circumcision too
>>42044916at least they can still get gac by hrt i guess
republicans suck so much shit its not even funny just put an amendment in there to ban circumcision and see how these rats act
>>42044957You're so angry lole
