Is there a way to make a trans girl enjoy it when I give her head or maybe just kiss her down there? We never had sex and she seems very dysphoric, so I'm not sure what to do. I don't want to ignore any part of her body because it's all adorable to me, but I don't want to make her cry or something. Some adcive, please.
>>42332012i think there are ways to do it that are less dysphoria inducing. like only interacting with the tip. but idk.
>>42332012"I'd like to give you head. What can I do to make you as comfortable as possible?" (before sexy time ideally)
>>42332012there isn't any guaranteed way that works for every person, but dysphoria is not the opposite of sexual pleasure, it's not like the nerves aren't working for her down there. So you need to take actions to reduce her dysphoria so that she's not distracted by it in a way that's too upsetting to have a good time
I don't think my gf is dysphoric about her penis unlike the rest of her. But I can tell you how to make her feel good without hurting her sensitive skin.
I can also tell you how I made my gf not dysphoric about her penis.
it feels like no matter what ill always have walls up with people or they will misinterpret me as something else. it feels like being trans puts you at such a disconnect with so many people. rn im enbycoping untill i start getting a passing ratio of 60% or higher. it feels like being trans just makes it uncomfterable with cis ppl even allies. if they are allies the most theyll ever do is liten to you talk abt how being trans sucks and go "that sucks" but also i dont have any trans friends. i just hangout w cis girls who are like all bi thats about it. unfortunately i find most trans women in my area to be insufferable or just ppl i dont connect with. the only trans person ive made a deep connection is a trans guy from another country but still i never feel fully seen. idk y
>>42326153this is the usual autism experience
>>42332862but i dont even relate with autstic people... not to be rude but nearly everyone person ive met whos id as autistic is either annoying or only cares about their own thing.
>>42333644this is also the autistic experiencewe don't like each other either
>>42334143if im autistic then its only mild desu.
Yes. Even among other trannies I struggle to relate. And even when not talking about trans stuff I feel like I'm being misinterpreted. It feels like sex is all they can ever think about.
Jason of /cum/ editionPrevious: >>42092689>QotTWhat other boards do you browse besides /lgbt/?Tagmap: https://tagmap.io/tag/%2Fbigen%2FFAQ:>Am I bi if I like women and femboys/traps?>Am I bi if there's this one member of the same-sex I'm desiring, but normally I like the opposite sex?>Am I bi if I sexually like both sexes, but only interested in romance with one of them?Yes, sexual attraction to both sexes is bisexuality.>What's the difference between bisexual and pansexual?Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
I'm past 30 with a slight belly, I've realised I'm either pan or bi recently and I want to test the waters after a full life of dating women exclusively. I'm completely disconnected from the gay world.How hard will it be to bag a nice twink as a 30 something that looks okay and have a decent income?
>cousin a big methhead >had a boyfriend who was also a meth, ‘Getty’ (IDK what the kids are calling it now a days) head>got into a fucking police chase one day >caught with like a KG of that shit>3 years in prison for her>she gets out in 1.5 which is insane; also this is inconvenient for us because everyone in the family hates her(she steals)>show up to our 4th BBQ(she’s trying to get back into good graces with the senpai)>she said she got clean while in prison(yea right)>they gave her some sort of medication(sub or sumo something she said)>it looked like one of those listerine fresh strips>she said she got her GED and working at the Dollar General and needed us as reference for a teller job she applied to>everyone told her no>my bleeding heart sister said yes(this was a mistake)>asks her what happened to Matt?>she said she left him(he still has a bit of time to do, good)Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>42329814Honestly if you advertise it on Tinder you'd probably get some hits before you get banned.Feeld is designed for this kind of thing but you have fewer users and it's buggy.
Being a bi man is based because literally everyone in the LGBT is your dating pool besides lesbiansWell besides all the people weird about bi menOkay maybe it's not that based
>>42333627>thinks I date dudeslol. men are just stunt cocks
uh, sisters? the chuddies are rising up in Europe and attacking transwomen in public..https://files.catbox.moe/nrbzxn.mp4
>>42332123why is he touching her boob tho
>side with paki pedos>be surprised when your own people decide they want you out of society Maybe the immigrants will let you into their brown countries once you lot are kicked out along with them lol good luck
>>42332123>ik this is technically assault but>genuinely very funny>total indifference as he picks the anti-nazi pin off her jacket>holding the anti-nazi pin up to the camera like "look at how depraved these fucks are">her and her friend just carry onwell done chuddy that was retardeed
>>42332123I’m sorry for being a chud
>>42332341>if you oppose childish ideology of "ignore or exterminate any thought of a problem or its depth outside of tiny ingroup hivemind" i will react exactly like a child throwing a tantrum and physically/verbally assault younot the smartest bunch you are, aren't you?
why the bottomest of fags have the biggest penises...
Gay god has sense of humor
>>42333893let me bite it a little and im all yours prettyboy
>>42333840its kinda funny
>>42334123please do
In a battle situation a big penis would be a disadvantage. Big penis havers need to be protected
I am a chaser but just for trans people in general (both mtf and ftm) and I'm not sure why. One thing is that I love anal (of all kinds) and cis people tend to be less receptive to the idea of giving/taking it anally than trans people are,, but also, outside of the sex, I just feel more relaxed around them like I can be myself my mind just feels clear I just really relate to them for some reason... I wish I could help trans people more, I wish there was more time to help them
>>42333692I stopped dating cis girls after I started to chase.But in reality I dated 3 cis, 2 trans girls, and one ftm who then detransed 1 year after we broke
im a trans girl and i love feet
>>42333665elaborate optell us about your interestgreen text or paragraph are both acceptable
>>42333918there's not much to say. i think other trans girls should post their feet.
>>42334027Post your feet
>>42334027post yours firstu better have nice nail polish or else
>>42334115mine aren't attractive post yours
I walked up a castle with my bf today what did you do with your bf today
>>42329546I wanked in a White Castle pretending I had a bf today. Burger was adequate.
>>42329546how tall are you and him
>>42329546NothingBut I am breaking up with my gf today (I'm a dirty androphile and transbiancoping is not working).
>>42329546i woke up next to my hot boyfriend until the sleep wore off and it was my stuffed toy again
>>42333720I'm 6' 2" and my bf is 5' 8"
the autofujo thoughts are back
>>42333770yea because im attracted to the concept of being attracted to being a woman because its the only way for me to cope with a body that i dont like
>>42333749cute but probably a giant can of brain worms>>42333759respectable gooner
>>42333811are u mtf (awesome) or a man (kill yourself)>>42333871the brainworms are not that bad. im normal. i became normal recently
>>42333925>im normalsay it in the mirror three times and it becomes true
>>42334015yeah thats like kind of how i did it
How does one become a whore? I think I'm gonna be homeless tranny soon if I'm not able to whore successfully
>>42333701don't and just get a regular job idiot
>>42333710My circumstances for regular employment are kind of limited and I'm running out of time, I think this is my only way
>>42333701How attractive are you?
it's pretty crazy that these groups essentially have the same condition yet the former get to be normal while the latter are walking laughing stocks who make everyone around them uncomfortable
>>42333776Yes. But it's also brainworms.A lot of tranny spaces are shockingly toxic (this one is pretty bad too, just not as bad). Lots of trannies just won't take the W even when they get it. Depressing.
>>42333815no offense but i know... why are you shortsplaining height to me :sob:
>>42333864>shortsplainingI'm taller than you are! I'm the 5'10 anon! I'm trying to make you feel better!
>>42333874oh mb u sounded short. thank you for trying to make me feel better
>>42333942Do I gotta reach down and pat you on the head?
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>>42335622sarah u don’t really think i don’t sound like a man do you?
>>42335641I could go for hugs too.
Dawgy is one of Pichu's transbians of course she'll side with him
my gyno hasnt hurt in months is anything even happening down there?
>>42335634>what are u gonna do when i bring u on a date give you a big kiss on the cheek and ask you how your day was and ask if i can have one of your french fries
is it fetishising gay men to let the local fags have a bump of our coke if they kiss each other and let us watch?
Wrong flag
>>42333725yoai afab flag
>>42333725I don't do drugs but I'd be down.
>>42333725nah theres nothing wrong w having a few hobbiesyou can join too if ur cute
>>42333725yes but it is still based to distribute coke around your neighbourhood
So I wanted to discuss something about trans spaces in general. Not mtf, not ftm, not enby stuff, just trans in general. Trans here includes nonbinary and thats actually something I wanna vent about too.Is anyone else feeling just sck and tired of trans people not even seeing gender critical ideas about trans people seeping into trans spaces via enbies and enbies also trying to segregate themselves from binary trans people? People keep saying that truscum are the problem, but it seems to me from everything I've personally seen in my spaces and my algorithms that transphobic enbies, puritanism, label seeking, egg/babytrans vulnerability, refusing to hear people out, binary trans butch erasure, weird stigma against trans men (at least some people get this right now), political extremism, exclusivity in general, and tokenism of brown and black people that are the problems.Surely its not just me. Is anyone else seeing this in more safe-ish city spaces and/or online? Do people get what I'm talking about? Its extremely frustrating.
>>42333719I mean if anyone would listen that would be one thing. But y'all (in the big lefty cities or at least mine) won't chill out and listen a little. We've also got this weird neolib thing going on like... people put brown and black people on a weird pedestal. On TDOV, I heard people put allies above trans people in general because they were so focused on saying the right things, that they only mentioned black and brown people and allies. Like its cool we wanna help then, but all of us should be uplifted. I don't know how to explain this one well, but I promise I am trying to explain a genuine issue that I've heard black and brown people be frustrated about. But I can't talk about it because there's this weird puritanism, this holier than thou thing in the community.>>42333708You're on a bad path. You're potentially highlighting another problem with our toxic af community; going from far left to far right on a dime or seeing far left and immediately going far right.Extremism is all too common. Please just chill. Give people time to understand their gender and discuss things. This isn't the way. Neither of these weird polarities are right. They just appear to be because no one talks.
I’ve literally never had a single problem in real life from a trans med. Yet trans*mascs act like they’re the most hateful problematic fatphobic racists MAGA voters you’ve ever seen, before explaining that trans women are male women, and trans men are female women.
>>42333322I'm confused and I don't understand what specifically your complaint is? You think enbies are trying to bring gender critical ideas into trans spaces? Why would they being doing that? What are the gender critical ideas you're concerned about?
>>42333854Talking is a waste of time. You will never understand your gender through dialogue.
>>42333322Of course cis ideas would infiltrate the trans community if you let cis people into the trans community
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>>42332357did the baby survive...?
>>42332595You already know the answer to that question, c'mon.>no, no the baby did not survive.https://youtu.be/vUFmIw3UesQ?si=ShVdpSuN6KQ_igAD
>>42333216I was hoping maybe someone found her in time :(
Chat how do I find a hot autistic butch gf as a femcel?
Eeeeeeee you guys are so coooool! I don’t want to intrude on your thread I just want you to know I support you!! It’s like irl yuri!! Omgomg!!! Ok I’ll go now.. who knows what you guys will get up to when I’m not around..