Most t4ts are for women who are fully out or been on e and have significant developments. i feel like if you're not fully out but you've been on e for 5 or 6 months you're just stuck in this weird in-between where you cannot do a full t4t style relationship but you also have the ability to be super picky when it comes to guys. it's most annoying
>>42182505I still haven't had a good relationship, but I especially didn't find anything that early. You're basically doomed to being single outside of maybe some hookups with chasers (male and trans female).
>>42182505T.9months EI think the only chance is finding another person at a similar stage of transition to you who is bisexual enough to still find you attractive.Which isn't impossible (like I'd be able to manage it if I wasn't too brainwormed to feel secure in a relationship).
now is the time focus on yourself faggot
>>42182505You go girl, max yer twinkhon phase where faggots want u
>>42185295trvthnuke>>42183808:(>>42185352they want me. so do the cisf, interestingly>>42185282>who is bisexual enough to still find you attractive.I'm not exactly unattractive by any means
my boss heard me telling my ftm friend that he's a man and he will never be a woman and he fired me because he thought I was transphobic.
Based sorry for ur firing
>>42185526nobody cares about ftmsgo post on twitter
>>42185526you should have been fired for not being transphobic
>>42185813based who? OP or his boss?
Does /tttt/ watch YouTube commentary?
i watch some danny gonzalez and drew gooden. do they count as commentary?
>>42186730Yes blownbacks is my fav
no nigga we jacking off to cathode ray dude videos
>>42187118I love that dude there's an ftm at my job that looks exactly like him :)
>>42186730I used to and then realized im not white so I don’t have to watch this slop
nonas what are your favorite prog songs?
>>42184399out with you, begone
>>42183407Prog is boring and stupid, listen to cool music like cabaret nocturne
all of this symph prog and pop prog made for omegaboomers to stomp clap hey to urghhh no taste
>>42183407I like the Alan Parsons Project https://youtu.be/i1kGAUGQ938?si=M50gz03g19x-T7Z6
>>42184279>Every time I watch bill bruford play on stage i can't contain myself and start furiously jacking off to him and the thought of using my tongue as his sweat ragNatural reaction at the discipline on display when he plays The Sheltering Sky. Look at him go :0https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n0XSOKQDHTU
Hot allostatic load
Nigger
How do pooners celebrate new year?
>>42186121Good boy! Thats the right answer!
>>42186198Are you drawing yourself there?
>>42186277Yes. Problems?
>>42186300>Problems?Yes. Why didn't you have sex with me yet?
>>42186081based
A regular blowbuddy of mine (20, twink/fem bottom, likes to crossdress, attends local college) got kicked out of his parents on Halloween and I let him crash at mine (pullout couch in living room of 1 BR apartment). On our way to my apartment I made a joke about him paying for rent by sucking me off every other day and cleaning the apartment weekly but he actually has been doing that and cooks dinner and packs me lunch most nights. He even got a french maid outfit and wears it some days when cleaning. He knows I dont want a relationship and hes nearly done with getting enough credits to transfer to a university where he'll qualify for loans and probably be in a dorm. I made it clear if he wants to see other guys I don't care but he can't bring them over and he said he appreciates it but doesnt have time, doesnt like most guys in the area, and said he doesnt mind if I bring other guys and girls over and he can be discreet or join. We may do a MFM bi threesome.Obviously I (33, bi otter top daddy) like this. Never have felt like my balls were drained like this since quitting porn/fapping last decade. This is as fulfilling as when I was with my ex and we were bi swingers on Fetlife. But there is a deep seated fear I can't shake. Can this arrangement fuck me over? If he ever feels like not sucking me off I wouldn't push it (I already, even before he moved in, never pushed it when he didn't want to get fucked). I looked into it and the cleaning thing can be legit barter. I'm thinking of making a rental agreement that does does that and keeps it at that. All my sensitive stuff is locked in a safe and I already use a PO Box. He's borrowed money for groceries but promptly pays me back even though I insist he doesnt need to.Anyone been in a similar situation? Tips? Tricks?TLDR Dream come true for me but want to cover my ass
>>42186778You have a rentboy. Congrats. A few of my friends used to be rentboys. This is common enough in the gay community that the twink probably knows what’s up more than you do from the sounds of it. Just let it ride and enjoy it.
>>42186916I dunno, I've always had to train him on certain things that are usually, I dunno, commonly known like preparing his ass, testing, poppers, PrEP, etc.Any watchouts as the uh renter? CA state doesnt have common law issues, though he should be done with college either next winter or spring 2027.
absolutely disgusting. why are gay men like this
its all ok nona
Which is more hated, gypsies in Europe or trannies in the USA?
>>42186586r u kidding me? gyps are way more hated in europe. even progressive leftists dont like them over there
>>42186934I don't know anything about the world, I'm stuck in my US backwater and I enjoy hearing stories from the imperial provinces
>>42186586the real test is: would you live next door to onegypsies in europe fail this test (although they don't live indoors, really, so maybe moot) and so do black people in the USA, since hardcore progressive leftists still avoid living next to blacksi guess most people wouldn't care about living next door to a trannybut gypsies and black americans are down there with sex offenders, drug addicts and arsonists in desirability of residential proximity
>>42186586A cigányok baszd meg.It's not even a question.
>>42186974the model forgot which minority to insult, ivan,,reboot it
mtftm detrans, how much will i be able to reduce the appearance of gyno by quitting hrt + diet + exercise + binding? i can't afford surgery otherwise my transition wouldn't have failed so badly
>>42184621You can't make yourself look perfect so you're going to make yourself as horrific as possible instead? Why? Imagine that you need 100k a year to live fully comfortably but you can only manage to make 70k so instead you decide to become a hooker sucking dick for 5$ bills. Literally makes zero sense, do you have any diagnosed mental illnesses?
>>42185228if you can't be perfect and passing you shouldn't bother because you only hurt real trans women. it's laughable and embarrassing for someone like me to even try when real trans women exist>>42185182every tranny i've shown my face to told me i'm ngmi, that i'm so ugly ffs wouldn't even save me and i should detroon or kms bc i'm an optics nuke
>>42185361>trusting other trannies
>>42184621no one even answered my question :(
>>42186990you can't pretend to be a man anymoreyour face can't be that bad
Here’s what I found:It’s too late for me. I turned 36 this year and finally ended up with a prescription I should have chased down long ago, but here we are. Was on 25mg spiro and 2mg estradiol daily. Started on Xmas eve, no reason in particular, just thought it’d be easy to remember. Drop four hits of acid today and come to a realization that I am doing so well for myself as a cis guy that this seems like a road I don’t need to go down. I feel like I have a lot of other things in life I should take care of first. I am not even close to where I should be financially. And I get enough unsolicited attention from women that I feel like I’m attractive. So no “male loneliness cope” here either. Idk, I just kinda realized this isn’t as cute or hot as I imagined it to be. I think about sex a lot less and my chest feels tingly. The same videos jerked off too weeks ago don’t even hit right anymore, so I don’t even get the distraction of “everything goes away once I cum” I feel unfulfilled, and I get why women seem like they are never satisfied. I dabbled for a week but I think it’s not for me. The physical aspects I want are too unobtainable at this point without surgeries. And they don’t even turn me on after it becomes who I am, so what’s the point?
>>42180692Honestly... You could be on that shit for a decade and basically just be a eunuch. That's not even hon dosing.
>>42180927Ditto. I have about no sex drive but I still enjoy sex from time to time. It's not like having no sex drive hurts me, just makes compatibility with sluts more difficult with long term relationships. It's not cool to have less sex drive, but I certainly wouldn't give up anything else just to have that. It's just not helpful. Maybe people need a better relationship with sex outside of just acting on urges
>>42184951So you’re saying it’s a very low dose that probably did nothing anyway? So if I just stop taking it, will I be ok after a few days?
>>42181167Friend, its always been down to genetics. It isn't about age. Either you are a luckshit or you aren't.
>>42181198You dont understand why somebody would wait until you are 36 because you are a youngshit and don't understand the world us older folks grew up in. For all of our formative years there was virtually no instructions, no support, and guaranteed social/career/economic/romantic suicide for trooning out.
Should more websites include features that make posting safer for trans women?
>>42186773You'd be surprised how many people legitimately seethe at being assigned a chud phrase. Just yesterday someone sperged out and got a 24hr ban because they couldn't cope with being forced to type "i love sucking cock"
>>42186826lmaoo how do these people find their way onto rdrama
>>42186839Pretty good mix of chuds and non-chuds on the site but it's sometimes hard to tell who is who with all the irony posting and drama-maximizing language
>>42186701ESL-chan... I...
>>42186839They can ping redditors through a site bot so I imagine a lot of new users come from there
>be me. loser transbian>meet a new friend, also a transbian, for the purposes of it being fwbs>the night goes really well and we really click as people>she makes me feel seen and understood in ways ive never felt before>keep talking and hanging out>we both admit we've fallen in love with each other super quickly>we starting saying i love you but we're not dating>I meet her girlfriends (plural) (they are also trans)>we also end up getting along well>I get along a lot better than expected with them>now im falling for all three of these women and maybe theyre all falling for me too>I look at the calendar and realize its been less than a monthHow do I STOP fantasizing about spending the rest of my life with these women? I'm so in love that I get anxious at the idea of it not working out / me fucking it up, because a T4T transbian polycule is like a fairy tale dream for me. I'm too fucking gay. I'm self aware and capable of being normal about this most of the time, but it takes up what I worry is a concerning amount of space in my head. This shit could be the best thing to ever happen to me or it could destroy whats left of my emotional stability. My next therapy appointment is in two weeks and that feels like forever.Art by me also if this sounds familiar no it doesnt
the vast majority of relationships end at some point and the vast majority of the time you'll get into another one at some point. that is the core fact you need to accept and get comfortable with in order to enjoy relationships more freely.
>>42186196Why>>42186335This is helpful. I think I came to accept this a while ago when it comes to regular friendships. I’ve just really struggled with it when it comes to relationships because up until this year I hadn’t been confident enough to actually date, and I grow attached easily. I think actually managing to internalize this for relationships is a lot harder than it is with friendships, though? They are different feelings and love is a much stronger attachment.
>>42186614we must be somewhat psychologically different because ive never found it that hard to internalise and i often feel like i love my friends. i know that's not particularly helpful. I think for me the difference is more to do with commitment than friendship vs romance. If I commit to potentially staying with someone for the rest of my life then it feels deeper, but I basically don't do that. If I haven't committed to someone that deeply, then internally i still feel like we don't owe eachother anything and I just enjoy it for what it is, sometimes without ever even defining it as a friendship or relationship or fwbs
>>42186140They're gonna leave you for the next transbian that shows up, because they don't love you. You're gonna realize this sooner or later, but all a polycue has to offer is quick sex for ugly, fetishistic men who are unable to find love elsewhere. It's best that you leave quickly before you get infected with giga tranny aids
>>42186140I was like this with my genderfluid ftm friend. I didn't want to sex them or anything like that but I got way too obsessed because they were the only other trans person I knew and I guess it creeped them out. I only knew them for a few months.
If you notice gays are stereotypically far more fembrained as compared to trannies, if one looks at their interests, socialization and behaviour, you'd think that it should be the other way around.Gay stereotypes>heavily extraverted, more female socialization>mostly female dominated friend groups>pop culture>make up>theatre>Liberal politics>Normie mediaTrans stereotypes>nerds, usually less socialization as a wholeComment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>42184090this whole debate is disgusting and sexist
>>42184090Istg male/female brain is practically indistinguishable from zodiac signs
>>42184090Sexual orientation is a more important predictor than gender identityGay men are more fembrained than lesbians
>>42184151No wayYou're probably part of Don Ho's Chitalianese mob in XRA
>>42184151youre half italian??? it does not show on your face at all.
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New business idea: somali daycare in Minnesota. I'll maintain an empty building for $4 million, hardly anything to it really
>>42186808>anyone who doesn't share my degenerate ways of thinking is just pretending to please le straights!!!your mind is so laughably narrow
>>42186819A better one: a gift shop that caters exclusively to gay anniversariesoh wait
>>42186669ok, i'm upping the game. from now on, i'm posting a bounty.the anon who'll provide me actionable advice leading to me getting a boyfriend (within requirements, i.e. not retarded/obese/twice my age, and without relying on dating apps), will be rewarded with a net sum payment of one hundred dollars (100 USD) paid out in monero, bank transfer, or western union.>>42186780tldr, it's hard and I don't know how to do it...
y no one help me get bf...ohh right, they're all busy spending new years night with their bf's...
