I wonder what causes being noticeably more uncomfortable as a ftm when called a straight woman vs being called a lesbian.
I am bisexual, this may be relevant
"Lesbian" - you're at least a legitimate queer"Straight woman" - you're nobody
>>40958430Interesting, can't discount the possibility, though I don't put much stock in being openly queer irl and am generally stealth and nervous to even say I have a boyfriend (he's also ftm)
>>40958430Why do people care so much about being "queer"?
>>40957862being called a lesbian makes me more uncomfortable probably because im a little homophobic
god: ummm don't be gay!you: ummmm i'm gonna be gay because i want poop on my dickexplain?
>>40958980also, is this your post?
>>40958989I dont remember but I do love that gif
>>40959006>I don't remember
>>40959017https://youtu.be/BC2dRkm8ATU
>>40952234Well, if a bunch of jews claimed that an omnipotent, omniscient being told everyone to do that then I guess we gotta listen to them.
I fucking hate my gay chudcel life
Is having sex with men an inherently feminine trait?
>>40958805amab + amab = gay amab + afab = straightafab + afab = gay
>>40958951all bottoms are women
okay let me rephrase the questionDoes being a gay man make you inherently feminine
>>40958990no
>>40958990yes, but not because you like men, but because homoosexuality involves genetic sequences that induce intersexuality on many levels from bone structure, to behavior, to voice - it's a broad spectrum though and you also have the fact that women encourage men to repress any hint of femininity when analyzing this
That's literally it. This is the question. I'm a transgender man and I don't know if gay dudes would actually like me in the same way I like them.Though honestly I kind of doubt it, being a transgender man sucks sometimes because most time whilst trying to find a relationship it's always just a guy wanting to fetishize you. I've been getting desperate at this point, all I want is an actual relationship.
>>40957853You're the only one saying it was bad. I just said it WAS.
>>40952694>Maybe people don't like to be judged by their genitalsYea, it's definitely not considered acceptable in a straight couple where the guy says he's grossed out by her labia and says she's too fat. I think it's a more normalized in male culture to shame others bodies, even their own partners.
>>40939224i'm intersex, i was born with ambiguous genitalia and raised female until i hit puberty at twelve and developed male. i'm muscular with XY chromosomes, an extremely deep voice, penis and testicles with a bifid scrotum and severe hypospadias, a flat chest, sparse but distinct body hair, there is no ambiguity in my appearance other than my genitalia which by now has changed from looking ambiguous leaning female to male with a defect that looks female to some peoplei get rejected by most completely gay men for both hookups and relationships even though i'm male in all the consensus ways, because i'm not male *enough*it doesn't matter why you're not male enough, if you don't meet a guy's standard of masculinity/maleness you are permanently excluded from their definition of who's an option for sex and dating. you were born female and no amount of surgeries and hormones can make you into enough of a man to count as fuckable for pure gay men, whether it's being trans or having reproductive developmental errors or being a flamer there is a bar to clear for most gay men in order to "count"you need to accept this and date/hook up people who actually want to fuck you and stop obsessing over their identity label
>>40953978retard
>>40959010:( im intersex too and I just have no idea how to articulate to people. I wish someone would understand..
Staying up crying for the 50000 night cuz i wish i was a boy but im only 5.8 and look too feminine. Ill never be taken seriously unless i pay hundreds of thousands for surgery :(. How do i live like this
>>40958306>only 5’8you realise 50% of men are 5’9 or shorter right?
>>40958306Where did you get the figure "hundreds of thousands"? Top surgery ranges from 10k to 50k for really high quality specialized key surgery. A t vial is only 20 bucks a pop. And the rot sausage (not recommended tbdesu because of how underdeveloped it is), another few 10ks tacked on there. Even then, just t and lifting will take you far. Went from c cup to a cup just by defining my pecs. So its a hard work sorta deal.
QOTT: What are your thoughts on the coordinated, widespread attacks against trans rights and acceptance that are happening right now?last thread: >>40920566
>>40958791It's nearly 1 am and alcohol makes me nauseous. Maybe tomororw
>>40958800that's literally still early and the nausea comes later so you don't have to worry about it rn
>>40958809tomorrow babe, tomorrow
im not womanlike or female in the slightest neither in my mind nor physically. i just dont want to grow up and be a man with all the negative associations thats all. i want to be cute, i want someone to take care of me and like me just the way i am. i want to enjoy my own appearance. i dont want to suffer any more.
>>40958962i know the feel, that's all I've ever wanted.
I'm just wild about trannyand tranny's wild about me!Oh I'm just wild about trannyAnd xe's just wild aboutcannot do withoutxe's just wild about me!
I hope Trump will ban adults from taking HRT before 2028 rolls around. Transitioning is always unethical, no matter the age.
prev. >>40955040qott. Do your chain hang low? Do they wobble to and fro?
>>40958555>You see freshienon post these two eighteenies for the eighteenth-gorillion timeWhat do you do?
>>40958921veer towards him and floor it
groypers are growing in power... kino....
I got on 0DoxyPrep a year ago and it's the most amazing thing ever. Been taking non stop loads with so many hook ups.
Too paranoid to be in a relationship. I know these bottoms are plotting against me i just know it. The looks. The snide remarks. The way they fall silence when I walk in the room. These fucking bastards will pay once I have proof
/lesgen/ is the lesbian general for all cis women and trans women (MtF) to discuss lesbian relationships and topics.Bee kind to each other and report/ignore trolls who attempt to divide trans mtf lesbians and cis lesbians as a community.QOTT:>Have you ever been gifted jewelry by a partner? Have you gifted jewelry to a partner? What kinds of jewelry do you enjoy?>Do you think cheaters deserve a second chance? Is cheating ever justified?>Do people ever think you and your gf are friends? sisters?tagmap: https://tagmap.io/tag/%2Flesgen%2Fdiscord: https://discord.gg/bAnVMAGPNRold: >>40928439
>>40958778why are you replying to a christian tswerf in good faith? unless you're her samefagging
>>40958825I guess, I mean I have been in lgbt and queer spaces for a very long time, and it's the first I have heard about it and it's not just futa or shemale fans>>40958845well, I mean I reply to you and others, too
>>40958845i'm not christian, i agree with controlling male sexuality but I think christianity has done more harm than good for women
>>40958927now post ass?
control over male sexuality will always splashback on lesbians because we're both attracted to the same demographicintersectionality is important
https://voca.ro/1eqG2IqGsiT3Shits gonna be so fucking swag I love getting trans surgeries!!!!! I love my insurance actually letting me get ffs!!!!! I'm gonna fucking get a boob job and my dick cut off next!!!!! Time is going so fucking fast holy shitttttttt
I'm a weak bottom and I keep seeing videos of cruel things happening to people and it makes me feel scared to go out, what do I do :<, even if I simply stopped watching them I still feel scared of strangers now ......
>>40958700Its from the funni song from Kanye West named NHH (nigga heil Hitler) but yes an antisemitic gf is based :3
>>40958729>Its from the funni song from Kanye West named NHH (nigga heil Hitler) but yes an antisemitic gf is based :3ive been dying laughing at this for 7 minuteswho the fuck asks someone this? im sobbing bro
>>40958779Me, the nazi chaser :D
>>40958535post bussy please, brown bottoms are made for loving
>>40958535oh my god youre the most beautiful person ive ever laid my eyes uponi think i love you
>body hair is kind of a turn-off (sometimes hot but depends on situation)>fantasize about being fucked in the ass but never put anything inside myselfi see a lot of people say bisexual people arent real gays am i a fake queer
>>40958930put something in your ass bitchboy
>>40958994>put something in your ass bitchboyit feels so uncomfy though xCi dont have any lube and even in the shower i just cant bring myself to finger myselfi dont know what to do
Do some boys really transition only so they can masturbate to MEF fantasies with other failed male trannies on discord, and also to hook up with filthy animal moid beasts on grindr, all whilst maintaining a fundamentally male identity (even if not consciously acknowledged)?
>>40957817or maybe they're actually just trans and otherwise have weird fetishes more related to social treatment than identity
you can and i have, thought about this all day long for a long time. ultimately there as many varieties of tranny as there are people, you can transition for one reason, multiple reasons or no reasons. and there are people who could be examples of all of it or none. but in general, people do it because for whatever reason it feels better than staying the way they were. even if they eventually detrans, sometimes its like, you just have to have lived it to know for sure, so you dont feel like you missed out on something. like some men are gay for a few years then become straight the rest of their lives. it happens.
>>40957850Thats certainly possible as well
>>40957734Because they're a bit of a terminal faggot, of courseBut consider the following: their core is originally that of a straight male, but due to a combination of nature and nurture (s)he developed an extreme form of sexual incongruency with xer body, requiring xer to take whoremoans so (s)he can self-actualize into a fuller version of her internal sense of selfSaid incongruency was initially accessory but is now a part of xer that can't be divorced from xer core and is maybe even interweaved irrevokably with itCuriously, by at once nurturing a female body and carrying out a male-to-faggotgirl lifestyle, said person feels connect to all parts of xer soul, maybe even integrating it all into a coherent identity -- that of a feminized eunuchSomething like that
shameless bumperino~so you guise don't miss out on leaving you're 2 centz
The male loneliness epidemic hit zoomers so fucking hard that there is an entire genre of boys now that have completely fagged out because they are too delicate for manhood. They have been socially and economically feminized and gone from what would have been completely straight, normal sensitive guys to homoerotic bottoms. Nobody seems to want to talk about it because it would involve swallowing some hard truths but it is clear as day. As a millennial man there is just a prime bussy buffet out there of the most affection craving, nastiest, neediest bottoms.
>>40957818Mmm... yeah that's the whole point
>>40958010im sorry anon i just have low self esteem but you're right
>>40951654>>40954083"I, in my sumptuous flesh, was in myself the fruit of the tree of knowledge; knowledge had made me, I was a man-made masterpiece of skin and bone, the technological Eve in person. I saw myself. I delighted me."- The Passion Of New Eve by Angela Carter
>>40952243>>40952336I know it's not a zero-sum game but this still hurts my miserable repressor heart to imagine
>>40958165Go on tiktok
