Is it ok for a top to invite his bottom bf to boys night?
>>40966444Yeah bro now pass the twink
>>40966444Only if he's not gonna be a faggot about it
>>40966444No do a double date instead. No partners allowed at boys night
how do i find a decent boyfriend when im a mentally ill unemployed loser who doesn’t have anyone irl and doesn’t go outside ;-;people tell me i pass really well. i have a cute, passing, but soft/weak voice, im good at voice training and can do several voices. people seem to find me attractive, im skinny, i a soft, gentle, kind and feminine personality. i introspect a lot and love thinking about the world, and people always tell me im smart and that im really helpful. im creative, and i think i have good artistic taste. i think i have good intrapersonal skills, but i do get really really bad social anxiety. i get hit on a lot irl, not the types that i think i would pair well with though …i don’t want just a sex thing, i want connectionim so mentally ill, incompetent and codependent. is it over for me? i want a boyfriend so bad, im also so scared of men. im so pathetic
>>40966606yeah… it feels so weird having these rants on the lgbt board of all places
>>40966681you too, im sorry you feel that way about yourself ;-;
>>40965912>>40965921you dont look like that THOUGH
>>40966700I just know I'm not always the sharpest tool
>>40965912Idk, where do women like you congregate online other than 4chan, I have the opposite problem
Halloween is around the cornerWhat do you fags like to do on Halloween? What are some good ideas on how a boymoder can enjoy Halloween? Costume ideas?How do you guys feel about the pumpkin meme?Any fun faggot related Halloween stories?
>>40960228would bang holy moly
>>40963616Any of the previously mentioned costume ideas would suit you well, but to add a new one go as Zeus or Venom, either would be killer. Crazy by the way, y'know I wrote that post about you?
>>40963616oh i know you could be my boyfriend for halloween haha wouldn’t that be like really funnyi would do literally anything you ask of me in a fukcing heartbeat
I’m dressing at Baby Saja.
>>40966648He's submissive make him
When you introspect what in your subjective experience tells you that you're trans? Like to you just have an ambient sense you are X gender or what?
>>40966104>what broke me out of it was getting suicidal to the point of making plans and taking actionDefinitely been there, multiple times. Also constantly passively suicidal since around the beginning of puberty. Never made any connection to gender until 20 though, which makes me doubt it.>i was lying to myself to pretend i wasn't hurting.I might be doing this, but I can't tell. Can't discern what's real and what's not anymore.>explore more positive potential emotions wrt gender>explore more positive potential emotions wrt genderI've tried, but it's been a fruitless endeavor. The only reason I'm even considered this to begin with is because of a dream I had about a year ago where I was a woman and felt alive in a way I never did before.>that is, try getting people to treat you as a girl or have a more feminine presentation and see how you reactFeels horrible, but only because I'm aware of how much of a man I actually am. Can't tell whether that's dysphoria though, or me not liking a feminine presentation
>>40966024>fuck off, disabled people don't lose a portion of their humanity!They lose a small portion. But think carefully about what the most exploitable part of a human is. Is it their bodies? Or is it their minds dealing with the pain inflicted via their bodies? I'd say what makes us exploitable is more what goes on inside our heads than our legs or hands or even our eyes. anything, disabled people are even more exploitable and possessable and thus valuable in some ways. Otherwise, rapists would just buy flesh-like replicas because it's easier. Otherwise, nobody would fall genuinely in love with disabled people. What makes us human and valuable(and thus vulnerable) happens inside our minds mostly. I will conceed that value doesn't mean much if you can't own yourself or find a good owner. But it's the 21st century. Even if women didn't have rights(and they do), they'd have men fighting over women online constantly presuming you're not in bumfuck nowhere like the middle east. Historically, where there is patriarchal power, a woman is oppressed to the degree she can't get thousands of men fighting over her. Women getting rights was kind of an inevitability with the advance of communacative technology.
>>40960593It was so long ago that I no longer recall. I wish I did, and I certainly prefer to live life this way compared to falling into degenerate Faragism, but a part of me does wonder what life I would lived had my parents done my due diligence and didn't give me unrestricted internet access that told me that being trans was indeed possible from a young age.i probably still would have changed my name though, but i imagine i would have had a better relationship with my family and would probably have gone onto university and focused on my studies instead of having to spend a large part of my time justifying my own existence and fighting an entangled web of pointless bureaucratic battles just to be mei would probably be a better person than I am now - if only a bit sadder and confused as to how I always end up making friends with women. would i rather be depressed and dysphoric or depressed and female? its an odd question and desu i don't think even i know the answer.i occasionally get depressive spouts of intense regret of transitioning but i just shut it out of my brain, as i vaguely recall failing to do with being transsexual in the first place
>>40960678is pain an emotion?
>>40966307>Never made any connection to gender until 20that's when i consciously voiced the thought for the first time too, minus a few months. i've been on hormones since i was 22, currently about to turn 28. no regrets except not starting sooner.>but it's been a fruitless endeavordo you mean you have no opportunities to present any more feminine in a social context, and no social life or friends to change their pronoun use? or do you mean you've felt nothing positive, not even a glimmer when you have done those things?>Can't tell whether that's dysphoria though, or me not liking a feminine presentationah. yeah. i know what you mean. asking people to call you something you know you're not doesn't make it feel better when they respect it. it feels like being indulged.are you on hormones at all? or have you just experimented with words and clothes?
>cis men want to plap pooners >trans women want to plap pooners>even cis women want to plap poonersWhy are pooners so damn irresistible?
>>40966656yeah I got assraped by my dad, he tried to "fix" me
I don't find them attractive
>>40966669Damn I'm sorry
>>40966686its part of manhood isnt it
Why are afab boys so plappable?
`Does anyone noticed the increased prevalence of memes where the punchline is "I have AGP" (without saying that no-no word).
>>40962748kekthis just reminded me of that AGP as fuck black mirror episodewhere two black dudes who are friends fuck in VR
>>40964385Was this not HSTS?
>>40963694You have such bad reading comprehension it's disgusting. Are you remedial
>>40962445milady
>>40964385How is that even a science fiction story when I’ve done the exact same shit in my real life?
Do we think trannies are genuinely in trouble right now, or will right wingers move on to a new target soon?
>>40966626TELL ME HOWHOW CAN THEY BE WORSE IVE SEEN THE WORST FUCKING HUMAN BEHAVIOURYOU DONT FUCKING KNOW WHAT IT WAS LIKE>>40966637 no it was because they were always racist pricks but kept it hidden and trump emboldened them
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>>40966666>no it was because they were always racist pricks but kept it hidden and trump emboldened themI think it’s so funny when people say this about something like it makes no sense
>>40966702how does it make no sense
>>40966577>>4096663614yo me was on your side back then actually, but you guys turned out to be lying about just wanting freedom
No matter how untransphobic and how much i try to “get woke” and unprogram years of hateful rhetoric I CAN ALWAYS TELL
>>40963742those are men hiding their faces with hair
>>40964002then every woman with bangs is actually a man
>>40964012no, the point is the only reason you see them as women is because the upper part of the skull is the most dimorphic and they are hiding itits like saying that photos of someone with a bag over their head prove passing is real
>>40963523>>40963723Is this a scheme to collect pictures of passoids? Why do people keep posting this?I pass but I'm not worth jorking it to. You can do better.>>40964002>>40964020I pass with my hair up in a high ponytail. Cope.
>>40964020obviously you cant remove every single trace of being a male ever. but you can hide them. no normal person is going to try to lift your bangs in order to analyze how masculinized your forehead is. thats literally how and why passing works.
I'm bi but I don't fuck men. I just suck their cocks and leave.
>>40964254extremely disrespectful to men when
>>40964254I’m bi and attracted to most types of people and sex wise I’m into to pretty much everything from fucking men and women to being fucked but the idea of being fucked with a strap on just seems lame to me like not sexy at all
>>40964254Im bi but I dont fuck men. I just sucked their cock...and sometimes let them fuck me.
>>40964744>and sometimes let them fuck meIt hurts for me lol.
>>40964254A chaser admitting he's bi. Finally.
>be me, straight man>look at trannies>get super hard, they are often my first option >look at normal women>can get hard, but half of the time I kinda struggle to mantain the erection, they aren't as "fascinating" as trannies>not interested in men (cis or trans) so I guess that means I'm not g.a.y....>btw I'm 21 years old and never had sex...How many of your struggle with a similar or the same situation?
>>40965877If it's GAMP, it's more like a bisexual fixation on intersex traits.Most bisexuality is more like "tolerance" of certain sex characteristics that shoves them away from hetero or homo sexualities.Means there's a lot more bisexuals out there but it's considered a "cursed" sexuality for AMaBs so they don't even entertain its truth for them.
>>40965511we are in dire need of a term describing this
>>40965911The most attractive intersex traits are behavioral imo. The gait, mannerisms, whole ass feminine presentation. All that combined with feminized secondary sex characteristics and a passable face.
>>40965935We really do not need more labels, lmfao
>>40965322it's literally just gamp. i'm in a similar situation, i like cis women and effeminate men, but most of all by far i like non-op trans women. pussies are cool, dicks are cool, men are meh, women are cool, dick on a woman is godlike. it's seriously an unfortunate sexual orientation to have because trans people are a small minority. thank god for trans and futa porn and my beautiful whasian girl-boyfriend
Your excuse again?
I'm not an ftmtf
>>40963635Honestly, you have a nice face.>>40963748Nietzshean-induced eastern european supremacism on /lgbt/. I didn't think I'd find thishere
>>40963398I started too late
>>40965129>>40965117>>40965101thanks for thisit fuels hypothesis that i deserve to be killed
all these timelines are fake, its a static image, shes wearing makeup and anglefrauding and probably facetuned the picture.
...fuck.previous: >>40836388Goal of the thread: I will not be fucked with that today.Daily goals can be repeated. Remember to keep score, it can only go up!>What is this thread for?Getting better is hard, and sucks. A lot. It does not get easier doing it alone.Share resources and experiences with combating depression, anxiety, personal issues, achieving or maintaining a healthy weight, etc.>Why is this thread /lgbt/?Struggles with mental and physical health are an indisputable part of /lgbt/ life, be it from dysphoria, social pressure, heartbreak, or just unfortunate lifestyle choices.>Notes to consider:Please be civil. Shame is your greatest enemy in fighting urges of self abuse (be it sh, drugs, or just self deprecation). Relapsing into bad and unhealthy habits is to be expected, the goal is to increase the average amount of time it takes between relapses. Any improvement is a victory no matter how small. Your worth and right to get better are non-negotiable. And most importantly:WE ARE NOT THERAPISTS, WE DON'T REPLACE MEDICATION>Note on adviceComment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>40964438>What is it you wanna improve, Anon?i want abs, a gf, more money, a better living situation and jews to stop making life hell for the working class
>>40963863>A good conversation starter, learning new things!>Oh lord, I fucked up the post! It was meant to say: "So it is something general where you feel like you are being a burden when you are not of direct use yourself?"Yes pretty much, I feel worthless and unworthy if I'm not working in service to someone.I hate being and feeling like a burden, my circumstances make it sting even more now.>If that is the case then a good thing to keep in mind is to not try too hard to protect people from you, if that makes senseI'll try to.It's really hard for me put myself in a situation where I could inconvenience them.>Don't preemptively assume people have something better to do than lend you a hand, is what I meanOh okay, I suppose that's a small adjustment I can make.Thank you for all the responses, it is very much appreciated.
>>40963459>>40964006>Are things gonna change for you because of this appointment, going forward?I guess they already have. it isn't going to kill me. improvements are possible for a small percentage of patients but even if I luck out it's not going to last. it's just going to continue worsening as I age.I'm going to have to apply for disability.with all of the restrictions that bring.>Do you feel like those pamphlets, those procedures, the people you deal with are all sorta.. condescending?it's... more like I'm being thought of as a chunk of meat. a rough, mostly useless piece of meat. something you have to cook for 8 hours to eat. "here's how to start a family", "here's how you can contribute to society", "here's how to be the least expensive member of your category". I'm worthless unless I procreate. I'm worthless if I can't contribute something else for the world to eat in my stead. stay positive. eat your veggies. get your financial aid and wait, patiently, until the day you die, watching everyone and everything surpass you or grow distant.I'm sorry siganon. you don't have to provide any advice. you've done plenty. thank you.I'm going to go to work tomorrow. at least for a few hours.
>>40966546>it's... more like I'm being thought of as a chunk of meat. Have you ever heard of the game mouthwashing? I heard it explores that and other heavy subjects, there's a video essay on it focusing on the disability aspect by a known youtube b lister, if you can't stomach the game might be the last thing you need to see right now, but maybe it makes you feel seen, too.
>>40966583thank you anon. the fact that you saw what I wrote and offered a suggestion to make me feel less alone ismaking me tear up a little. thank you.Ive heard it should be pretty good... I think I'll give it a try.
If you saw a tranny in public with ALOT of self harm scars, (covering her entire arms) what would you think?
>>40959831You can wear high gloves or high mittens or stuff like that that only cover wrists. I knew a bipolar girl in high school who shd a lot at some point and it is what she did
>>40959799from experience bc a lot of pooners have them around here:"i know what that is, huh, goes to show how much people hide in plain sight"
>>40966355you'll be just as pretty as you are now :3
>>40966622:3 ily
>>40959799I'd think "I should try to hit on her" then realize I'm 5'5 and say "man" every time I think about her for a week
Most 4chan posters like vidya, anime, manga, TV, film, music, comics, cartoons, weeb shit, etc. as interests and hobbies. Why not specify what kind or your favorites in your post? It says more about you and will likely net you better adds than just posting "I like /v/, /a/, /tv/, /mu/, /co/, /jp/, etc." in the bio. For example: Video Games: Silent Hill, Fez, Mother, Super Mario World, Metal Gear, Legend of Zelda, Metroid, Deus Ex. Anime: Fullmetal Alchemist, Lucky Star, Cowboy Bebop, Spirited Away, Princess Mononoke, Haruhi Suzumiya. Music: Pink Floyd, The Beatles, The Velvet Underground, Nirvana, My Bloody Valentine, Arcade Fire. >ASL (biological sex, or gender) >letter(s) >primary interest Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>40966479no she doesn't lol get a real medical record noobits very rich coming from all of u who claim others have bpd when u might be the one behind closed doors diagnosing urself being bpd lol
>>40966494then /frengen/ shouldn't have happened in the first place if its the same retards who expect to get added lmao i won't even bother with this retard site anymore maybe them oldfags were right about u retarded niggers
>>40966520that's what i think too i don't know what the anon who started this circus was thinking. this shit should end
>>40965705stop doing drugs.
>>40966553Nah once every 3 or 4 months ill find a friend here and at one point i even found and irl bf
Generally speaking, the factors that make a white woman built for BBC are a fit, yet not overly muscular body. A relatively high body fat% leading to decent meat on those bones. This produces a soft, yet firm consistency that black men love-- where the ass ripples when given a smack. Usually thrower body will be very well developed and she will be flexible and somewhat athletic, often wearing sportswear or athleisure style clothing.Generally she will have full lips, and a smooth even complexion. Finally she will have long straight hair, often kept in ponytails or braids. The makeup is usually subtle yet flirtatious, with glossy lips, and often hoop earrings or bangles. Large tits are not required, small to medium size boobs might fit her frame more. Tattoos should be subtle if present and cute and feminine not overly distracting, bold, or artistic.Many white trans girls easily fall into the "built for BBC" body type and the relatively low maintenance fashion sense. They're also sexually adventurous and playful and predisposed to have anal sex. That's why they have a natural affinity for black men and vice versa.
>>40964211Good taste
>>40964211Shit taste
Stop making these threads
go to africa and test your theory see what happens
Why is every transwoman into BBC?
