Every person I've been with, trans or cis, has said that I'm very attractive and rate me pretty high, anywhere from 8-9.5/10. Where can I meet a pretty trans girl who's also around that rating? I'm not socially awkward or weird or anything of that nature, so its not like im fumbling. i just can't find a cute trans girl irl is basically impossible. but looking online on dating apps is also quite difficult since trans people in general dont seem to use those sorts of apps. I'm guessing most trans girls just stay indoors mostly or stick to hobbies / interests that dont have them interact with a lot of people? which places do i look in online and in person. I dont mind putting myself out there i just dont know what places to put myself in to let a cute trans girl know that i am available and interested in getting to know her better.
>>43142974The way you reached out to her does seem kind of weird and bizarre, to be honest. I think there's some times in life where you just have to accept that you fucked up and move on, and learn to not make the same mistake twice. I imagine it's even harder for you to move on because you viewed so highly of her, and I think that's kind of the issue itself. When you put someone on a pedestal, you begin to treat them differently. And I doubt there are very many people out there, at least reasonable people, who want to be treated that much differently from others. Sorry for your loss.
>>43143286It was because I didn't want her to accept the friend request, the steam account was deleted after the fact. I don't really understand how you extrapolated the second half of your comment from what I said nor does it really fit desu. Sometimes it's better to take things at face value instead of attempting to fill in the blanks with none of the context. Just jarring projection.
>>43143286Also I'll have to disagree with this comment entirely. When you love someone, you're going to think highly of them. Our friendship fell apart for a lot of reasons but it was never a case of one of us loving the other too much. She's stuck in my mind both because she abused me and because I still love her in spite of that fact. She's not on a pedestal in my mind, I truly think she's a pretty bad person due to her myriad of issues and the way she treats people. But that doesn't change that I hurt her as I spiraled in ways I didn't want to. My accountability and desire to change isn't dependent on her getting better or changing. I want to take account for the things I did without worrying about what she did to me.It's frustrating to have people comment on relationships as if one side is always correct and one is always wrong, especially when you lack any context. I don't know what experience you're projecting from but don't assume I share it.
>>43143751>>43143802No need to get offended. My bad.
>>43132626>Every person I've been with, trans or cis, has said that I'm very attractive and rate me pretty high, anywhere from 8-9.5/10. I don't think you will ever get an honest rating from people you know unless they are stonecold autists.
Trying my darndest Editionprevious: >>43093245 (Fell into the void) >>42892152Goal of the thread: Make a shopping list of things that you need, consider if there is any self care things you might be missing!Daily goals can be repeated. Remember to keep score, it can only go up!>What is this thread for?Getting better is hard, and sucks. A lot. It does not get easier doing it alone.Share resources and experiences with combating depression, anxiety, personal issues, achieving or maintaining a healthy weight, etc.>Why is this thread /lgbt/?Struggles with mental and physical health are an indisputable part of /lgbt/ life, be it from dysphoria, social pressure, heartbreak, or just unfortunate lifestyle choices.>Notes to consider:Please be civil. Shame is your greatest enemy in fighting urges of self abuse (be it sh, drugs, or just self deprecation). Relapsing into bad and unhealthy habits is to be expected, the goal is to increase the average amount of time it takes between relapses. Any improvement is a victory no matter how small. Your worth and right to get better are non-negotiable. And most importantly:WE ARE NOT THERAPISTS, WE DON'T REPLACE MEDICATION>Note on adviceComment too long. Click here to view the full text.
I shouldn't have taken Ritalin yesterday afternoon. I pulled an accidental all-nighter. Welp, almost time to take some more Ritalin
I haven't earnestly posted here since I dropped out of uni yet again. I've made progress on the mental health front. My bajillion psychiatric diagnoses got undone, and I got diagnosed with ADHD instead. This is the first diagnosis that feels correct, apart from depression. I'm still coming to terms with the fact that I probably got wrongfully involuntarily committed and (mis)treated for schizophrenia. Feels kinda unreal.Reminds me, I recently stumbled across Dr. Gabor Matè. He's a physician and writer with some really interesting ideas regarding mental health and society in general. I thought I'd share two of his videos with y'all that were pretty eye-opening for me:https://youtu.be/DvUoBswzsTohttps://youtu.be/krZmYALUqhM>>43137537>There is, Anon. Neither you nor the femboys your age that feel the same deserve to die alone, don't you think?I guess my age is just a dumb excuse that I use. One part of me really wants a boyfriend, but I'm genuinely so insecure about my body... and also I'm scared of messing it up again. I keep hurting people by breaking up for no reason, thus leading them on...>>43137586He really is a sweetheart...
>>43137625>Hm, what kind of wants do you think of, what usually gets in the way, internally?Various artistic thingsI have to make a whole thing out of getting conditions right so it takes at least a day to prepare and then hope nothing by chance gets in the way to make me feel like not doing anythingAnd more complicated skilled stuff like drawing and music production feels like a total pipe dream at this point
>>43143153Have you heard the good news of our Lord and Savior "Atomic Habits" by James Clear
>page 8Travel day today, don't think there will be much from me today.
Imagine how satisfying it would be to call an mtf tranny who is utterly convinced he is stealth a male to his face.
>>43143915trans women are shaved men with long hair
>>43143919you dont need to shave to be a woman chud
>>43143919at least you recognized we don't need a wig
>>43143868are you a tranny and would love me to do that to you?
>>43143923show me all the hairy trans women you can
would you come to where the flavor is?
>>43139622hug
>>43136051yeah...
>>43139622let her
>>43136051have her take me to flavortown
how about chocolate chip muffins from a boymoder?
>not comfortable in straight male social or sexual roles >people can tell you are kind of off, but you're not gay enough to own the gay label >fantasize about transition but once you realize the amount of surgery and effort that goes into it you realize it's not for you >can't pick a path, you become a shell of a person>die of alcoholism, last memory of you is your mom finding the amazon prime fishnet drawer
>mild agp>describes crippling gender dysphoriaEverytime with these reppers
>>43143139Unironically what do you think severe agp is?
>>43143793When you can't live as man anymore?
>>43143940And you call this living?
>>43143949Not OP, but the only area of my life that is truly dysfunctional due to having AGP are relationships and sex. So what, I'll die a virgin.
It is not natural to live in societies this big, and for the forests and the spirits to be owned by government is terribly disturbing. I think many of us have a instinctive desire to settle somwhwre on the forest and build own home. After all, humans have a great love for survivalist games. Even something as basic as minecraft shows the inherent nature within man. There is a desire to roam free and CHOOSE where one lives. Be it a mountain, or a forest or creek. Its all just not right that we are ESSENTIALLY forced to live in these big sprawling cities. I think the most natural deaire of man is to find a spot in the forest, to cut down trees, and build a home of rock and wood and maybe clay. That is the most natural nesting behavior of man. But just as pigeons are forced into the rodent role of survival within a concrete jungle, so toi are we humans forced to coexist with this society we have created.
my friends made me dress up as a girl and jerk them off ;-;they bully me cus im shorter than them ;-;
>>43143941can’t relate. Tall 6 food bitch,
I kind of want to try out a urethral ring. Did anyone ever try that? What's that like?
How do i meet twinks with tiny dicks?tiny dicks are so hot, anything under 4" is cute and turns me on
/lesgen/ is the lesbian general for all cis women and trans women to discuss lesbian relationships and topics.Please try to ignore users who post bigotry, are trolling, or otherwise trying to derail the thread.QOTT:>Favorite springtime activities and sights?>Current relationship status?tagmap: https://tagmap.io/tag/%2Flesgen%2Fdiscord (new): https://discord.gg/9vBPy99zSzold thread: >>43126946
no hell below us above us only sky girl pussy
seeing my wifes angelic face every morning and night...faget
gabe newell becomes the POTUS, makes trans women american brahmin
I find it hilarious how the "cis lesbians" make their own general and the first thing they do in every OP is mald about trannies. Pathetic.
>>43136295Has anyone read sapphic poetry? Is it any good?
I'm certain that I'm faketrans and probably have never experienced any true dysphoria, but at this point I don't care anymore Trying my utmost best to strive towards becoming as much of a woman as is possible for me feels like the only dream I am able to pursue. At this point I've given up on trying to figure out the "why?" and only focus on what I need to do to fulfill the "what?" pragmaticallyAlthough, that doesn't get rid of the confusion that stems from not knowing why I'm doing this
>>43143371Just because you've never experienced dysphoria doesn't make you faketrans, particularly if you're autistic. If you've started young enough there's a pretty good chance that you managed to avoid experiencing the downward spiral that is dysphoria. This is particularly true for autists because autists don't develop their innate sense of gender until late teens or early 20s, and the context of today if you're neurodivergent and you've been surrouded by gender ideology and you've woken up with the idea of "I'd just rather be a girl" at the age of 17 and just set about transitioning, then there's no reason you would have experienced gender dysphoria since you never actually repressed. A better way to think about it is how would you feel at this point if you were forced to detransition? If you can't imagine how you'd cope with that then what you're actually afraid of is dysphoria. The bigger issues come from psudo-dysphoria experienced by cis females who think they can escape certain aspects of their feminity by transition, and gender ideologues who refuse to even recognize that even is a neurological aspect to gender.
>>43143371are you happier with your appearance generally? objectively, even if you don't always see it?
>>43143549>are you happier with your appearance generally?Not really actually. Not because it isn't getting better, but because I'm now aware how horrible it is. I never liked my appearance, but I just put up with it and always took the path of least resistance, which meant simply looking like a well guy with good hygiene. Now that I actively engage with my appearance, it just hurts more whenever I'm made aware of how moided I am
>>43143809how long on hormones? do you get misgendered? I was miserable because of pronounced dysphoria during my early years of transition
>>43143881>how long on hormones?Not even 6 months>do you get misgendered?No, although I malefailed a couple of times. It was both funny and awkward when an old man ran to warn me that I was going in the male restroom >I was miserable because of pronounced dysphoria during my early years of transitionCan't really tell whether that's the case for me, as I'm either just mildly dysphoric, or absolutely drowning in it having never known what's it's like to be free of it
I'm not AGP. Is just that my dick gets hard at the thought of having smooth skin, large breasts and wide hips.
>>43140986welcome to the clubt. cis woman
>>43140999Trips checkedSometimes I forget that there are women that want to be women.
I remember as a young man i would brag to girls that i had a big ass like a girl's. Theg laughed
i got those and now for some reason my dick gets hard about men without those things, fml
>>43140999>t. cis womanLarp
Faceapp has trooned more people than any groomer ever could. A genuine cognitohazard.
>>43143241Humble bragging.
>>43143624see this is what I don’t understand. You say that and others in this thread say I’m “pretty”, but I used to post pictures here and people would treat me like a leper. I’ve been treated like ugly trash most of my life, and people are often uncomfortable around me. I post these pics because I used to post the same shit and get laughed at. I don’t know what’s real anymore. i post pictures to test reality, it feels like insane gaslighting
>>43143662Ohh okay so its your personality. Damn :(
>>43143137hrt did make my eyes bigger though, so i think the app making your eyes ever so slightly bigger is realistic actually. ive examined my eyes closely because i found it very surprising since, like you, i thought it would be impossible. im pretty sure the reason my eyes look bigger is that one, my eyelids are simply more open now, exposing more of the eyeball, and this holds true for relaxed expression and various other expressions. and two, my face around my eyes has gotten skinnier in a way thats hard to explain, like the skin is closer to the bone in that area of my face, less fat underneath or something
>>43143662You had feminine face even before transition. What do you mean, people treat you like ugly trash?
Starfuckers editionold >>43129278QOTT: How did you think we'd get by without you?
>>43143769how are you today?
>>43143787every night i go to sleep i hope i don't wake up how are you doing nona
>>43143798I try to stay hopepilled by improving somehow, so alright, just having my "morning" coffee.
that's good, i'm kind of just giving up on everything but i also like coffee
just ate a raw steak with my hands
https://apnews.com/article/supreme-court-conversion-therapy-colorado-92b34295f9ef497a4a1cbeb56c9b74c6
>>43136854Oh haha>I've been beat now I must switch to both sides are bad>sure the GOP might have just started a war, tanked the economy and filled the white house with rapists and pedophiles but BOTH SIDEZ!!!!!You twats have two bits throwing accusations around lile a 16 year old in Salem or both sides are really bad so ignore all the GOP crimes because somehow the dems would be worseFuck you "people"
>>43122284scotus was going to strike this law down no matter what because all they need are 5 conservative votes, 2 of which are guaranteed rubber stamps in every case (alito/thomas) and the rest of which are mostly reliablekagan's concurrence creates a legal rationale for immediately passing a new bill that has the same material effect (psychos operating this particular kind of child torture business must leave colorado and cease marketing it to coloradan parents) with some wording that's irrelevant to that impact modified. it will get challenged again but by the time it makes it back to the supreme court both the court and the broader political situation will be very different.
stop tolerating the supreme court
>>43139690>Projecting bipartisan dogma this hardRocks have better reading comprehension and intelligence. I pity you sincerely. You can show goys how society works but you can't make them not retarded. Womp womp
when I was younger I was forcibly outed at home and my family basically did secular conversion therapy on me, for a couple months until I tried to kill myself. my life is so much better now than it was, but I know that that shit stays with you for life, in some ways. It's horrifying to think about other kids and young adults going through the exact same thing, decades later, when we have the medical research and the social awareness to avoid all of it. It's so cruel and unnecessary. such a betrayal of these kids by the adults in their society.
