Christmas Edition II: The Reckoningprevious: >>41869583 >>42044782 (Fell off the catalog)Goal of the thread: Food and cooking is a core pillar of self care. It is self expression, sustenance, social interaction. Enjoy a homecooked meal from fresh ingredients, with others, if you can.Daily goals can be repeated. Remember to keep score, it can only go up!>What is this thread for?Getting better is hard, and sucks. A lot. It does not get easier doing it alone.Share resources and experiences with combating depression, anxiety, personal issues, achieving or maintaining a healthy weight, etc.>Why is this thread /lgbt/?Struggles with mental and physical health are an indisputable part of /lgbt/ life, be it from dysphoria, social pressure, heartbreak, or just unfortunate lifestyle choices.>Notes to consider:Please be civil. Shame is your greatest enemy in fighting urges of self abuse (be it sh, drugs, or just self deprecation). Relapsing into bad and unhealthy habits is to be expected, the goal is to increase the average amount of time it takes between relapses. Any improvement is a victory no matter how small. Your worth and right to get better are non-negotiable. And most importantly:WE ARE NOT THERAPISTS, WE DON'T REPLACE MEDICATION>Note on adviceComment too long. Click here to view the full text.
updates tomorrow
Spending like 250-300 buckaroos equivalent per month on wegovy to lose weight. I realize that health is an investment in and of itself, but it feels bad every time i go purchase another needle.Doesn't help that it doesnt really feel like it has changed my weight much despite definitely feeling a lesser apettite (I havent weighed myself in a while though)
>>42133552>I hope you are having lovely time between the years as well! I never figured out what to call you, Anon. Would you prefer if I kept calling you just that?i'm spending time with my parents and friends back home, it's been really fun! been drinking and smoking a bit :3 (gonna lock back in when the usual semester starts)i never really thought about a name i can use here, i guess anon works i will come up with smth eventually :D
How do I quit a porn addiction
>>42150051just stop watching porn
ftms what would you do if there was a shy boymoder that came by your house every couple of days asking to be your friend and watch movies and talk with them
>>42147638we would watch kill bill and i would ask her if she ever feels euphoric as a man and brush it off like i'm trying to get my own advice
>>42147638i don't want friend i want to have sex
>>42149378wow aggressive and cuts to the meat of the issue. ygmi
>>42149378I'm not a liar... >>42149379I like sci-fi fantasy and sci-fi horror and historical fiction
>>42149363yayy
Anon, why don't you just take estrogen and present fem, but without all of that ideological identity and pronoun shit?Why is it that everyone's acting like there's some unwritten rule that states you must see yourself and force others to see yourself as a woman? Why not just reap the benefits of a transition, but avoid yourself of all the embarrassing and negative aspects of it?Honestly, the hrt femboy lifestyle has that unparalleled swag to it. You look, sound, behave fem, yet you still insists to be addressed as the gender you were born as. This results in chuds malding by not being able to be transphobic, normies being baffled by the gender nonconformity, trannies seething of how seemingly unbothered you are with all of it.I mean, this is basically what the ladyboys of Thailand are, and they seem to be a lot more happier than the western troons.
>>42150282I mean thats basically what i do? I don't make a big deal about telling people I am trans. If i get misgendered I'd rather leave than cause problems. I have my papers and ID changed to F so that everything goes smoothly whenever I have to show them.It seems like YOUR identity is built around getting attention. Since you seem to think its a positive to have people be malding and baffled where as I perfer to just be living as any other woman. Of course a bunch of sex workers in thailand are straightforward about what they are selling, it's blatantly dangerous and stupid to not be. Confusing that with their actual identity is retarded, find me one who is still pulling that shit after she's retired from sex work (made enough money to get SRS and get a real job and life as a woman)
>why don't you just take estrogen and present fem, but without all of that ideological identity and pronoun shit?Because most people don't really care or see that I'm a tranny. Only those who need to see my ID do and they start to "correct" themselves. Other then that i somewhat pass.If thats a problem for you OP then i got a suggestion: KYS
>>42151472op called you tranny and a troon and basically made a more verbose "why can't you just be a feminine man" posti am with you in answering genuine questions and engaging in honest discussion but this is not that
>>42151493this is 4chan, what is OP supposed to call us "transgender people"? if this was real life I'd expect that, but not on 4chan and yeah the "why can't you just be a feminine man" question is something that lots of cissoids genuinely have a hard time understanding, especially when in their mind, trannies = super fem gay menidk, i get that the culture war is pretty extreme right now but I think you're assuming too much about OP, maybe this is a deliberate bait post, but he hasn't made a fool of himself yet
>>42151530desu unless someone does use the term "transgender X" or "trans X" or some ignorant variation of the latter as a compound word i disregard the idea completely that the poster came here in earnest. someone who respects you would not so wantonly use derogatory language while asking you a genuine question; this has held true at least for threads i have responded to in the past. the image and use of the term "ideological" and phrase "force others to see yourself as a woman" also signify to me dishonesty.i will give you that "tranny" is sort of a neutral word here but it seems that only people who actually know anything about us do use it without the intent to offend. and someone who knows anything about us would know that the feminine-man question is silly and redundant. i could be wrong and i suppose i hope to be, but it is impossible for me to take this thread seriously at present
>talking to guy on discord >has a nice personality so i assume he'll look decent (retarded i know)>shows me what he looks like after a few hours>4/10 balding ugly pectus excavatum freak with a shrimp cock that looks deformed>panic and delete my discord account (was a burner anyway)>don't even send a final messagei used to be pretty ugly myself but he was unpleasant to even look at, like i wouldn't want him as my waiter at a restaurant or something.i feel bad because i used to be incel before realizing i was gay but holy shit most men are so ugly it's insane and no he didnt give me money or anything
>>42149314Im autistic, not retarded
>>42147591bpd sirens(you) deserve to burn like witches.>>42147632you are clearly a bad person, so according to "physiognomy" you must be butt ugly too.
>>42149282Its possible, I mean there’s clothes, makeup, exercise, body care, and plastic surgery if you’re really that upset, it’s possible to look good, I like seeing people who put effort into how they look and really self actuality their appearance, whether that’s a real fat old guy in one of those straw fedoras and a lovely flower shirt, or someone who looks grungy with a lot of piercings and shit, its very possible to look good, especially if you’re able to save up money, or spend time on yourself.
>>42147591A final message would've been nice but considering it was only for a few hours on discord it's nbd. I had a somewhat similar situation a few days ago where I added someone on discord and I ended up deleting my account because I freaked out about acting weirdIf the nona who this happened to is reading this I formally apologize
>>42147591i consider most humans inherently ugly and same problem here so i think i wont ever be able to date anyone
my therapist always asks me retarded questions like "what is a man or woman" and "what would hormones do for you" and "taking HRT wouldn't make you inherently masculine", other professionals have told me "stop trying to be something you're not", "it could be a hormonal imbalance resolved by that and not needing transition", etc. but I am just really tired of their bullshit questioning and it feels like they're trying to get me to just accept being a woman and to love being so. i don't. this new therapist doesn't even know shit about me, i only met her when i was starting my detransition but i'm going to go for it again and just buy off of ugfreak. i can't take this anymorePOON: OUT
>>42150343>>42150388You say that like the men who do those things aren't insufferable about it. It's still a chore even if you're up yourself about it.
>>42149633You should Goebbelsmaxx since you're 5'5
>>42150872i'll look up what that means lol
>therapists are telling me the truth even when it makes me madnature is healing
>>42151441Embody Goebbels' aura
Are terfs angry because they are ugly?
>>42150237Nope, wrong. As soon as they take off the tshirt they revert to men. Terfs are not women by their own definitions.Im sorry you wish to emulate hideous cretins whos only reason for not having murdered you yet is the law of physics
>>42149576Or the bitterness of being ugly is the motivator rather than any good faith stance...
I appreciate trannies presenting themselves as a target to these misandrist harridans and giving us men who aren't ken dolls a break from their constant haranguing that everything is our fault whilst they constantly demand that we do everything and take responsibility for everything while they reap the rewards and only occasionally get condescended to.
>>42149576>>NTA but attacking a woman's appearance when you disagree with her about something is misogynistic.>catty women are the top misogynists on the planetnot false tbqhonky, women have always been the biggest oppressor of women
>>42149296>im a husstuss im a husstuss trust me im a husstuss
>"b-but cis men play league and don't wash and are racist!"Don't care. As a ftm your job is to surpass these men. If you read classics and aren't a sperg you're automatically doing better than like 80% of the modern male population.
>>42144453Except a woman is more likely to be with a man who she hates than a dickless manlet
>>42149520Make the dickless manlet a gayden and she'll be in love tomorrow
>>42144453>If you read classics and aren't a sperg you're automatically doing better than like 80% of the modern male population...doing better at meeting this anons weird personal preference. Neither this nor smoking cigars, drinking craft beers, playing/watching sportsball, etc. will in any way shape or form make you less of a female and more of a male..t cismale who could paint his nails sparkly pink, put on a cute dress and in that moment still effortlessly be more of a man than you could ever be with literally all the effort in the world
>>42149623>Stop stop she's already dead...I sensible chuckle about this every time I catch a ftm or repper crying about how much dudes suck
>>42149623>>42150100
this board would be so cash if we just somehow figured out a way to ban cis straight tourists
you won't pass even if we're not here
>>42151483I think we could use more animation memes too
>>42151498>IT'S ALL ABOUT MEare you 12
other psa thread died so i'm gifting y'all a new one for christmas.DO NOT REPLY TO BAIT.>you should just be a feminine man>all trannies are evil pedophiles>i would never ever fuck a troon because i'm straight and you can't make me>i'm ftm why do mtfs hate us>i'm mtf why do ftms hate us>look at my debunked study from 2004 that proves all fags are pedophiles>dae love bbc and want to be a white sissy sex slave in the bnwo>i'm g and i think we need to drop the t>i'm a real lesbian and i think all transbians are rapehon monsters and all other lesbians think that too btw>i want to breed an ftm and make her my little tomboy bitch>i'm a cishet man and i hate women and i should be allowed to talk about that here because lgbt has t which is transGENDER so this is the gender board and this isn't off-topic>look at my cute little ai boymoder and her ai bottom boyfriend come generate more ai boymoders with meif you see any posts like these, especially if they have a frog or 'jak picrel, they're bait. report it, put "sage" in options if you must reply, hide the thread, and move on.Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>42149708false!
>>42122637>>42122701>>42126180>>42139733>>42148558glad to see the bait containment zone is working kek
i'm sick waaaaaahhh
>>42151317can i rub your belly
>>42151319would that helpit is sinal
I'm sad that women have decided to start a war against menThankfully i'm bisexualI guess i'll become gay instead
it's sad that i can't pick or understand any side of the gender war narrative because i literally don't interact with women in any manner. is there a name for this evolution of inceldom?
>>42149290MGTOW
>>42143100what are you actually talking about though? i have never heard this before. is this some made up incel stuff?
>>42150086women are holes
>>42150086Why is foid defense to always play dumb and pretend they can't see obvious shit ?
I disagree that sterilizing a man makes him female.
>>42151162>>42151162why are you presenting this as a hypothetical half of the board has done exactly this and the content of Joe Chud's character shines through as a dark brown streak to ruin the shred of goodwill he's given to make it that farleaving him is a foregone conclusionyou are lonely by choice, improve yourself
>>42151177half of this board is men in dresses dating traditional conservative men?
>>42151188yeah, you
>>42151205me?
>>42151147im not sure if it matters to you, but technically noone has actually made that claim yet
All rightoid trans women defending their positions and reasoning for siding with people who want them dead reminds me so much of picture related in terms of dumbness it's unreal
>>42150864Suzaku wouldn't have been trusted with the robot to begin with if he didn't side with the Britannians
>>42150864I didn't side with them though>>42150878>imagine life if it was worse
>>42150864>code geassDamn, I have to rewatch the series >rightoid bootlickers are like a bootlickerFr fr
>>42150864>tranime picrel>b-b-but muh heckin heterodox troons
>>42150870
Why are the most outspoken voices for trans people also the ugliest transbians?
>>42150808And why should that be my fucking problem when my rights are being actively restricted right now in much of the world? Sure it's not "as bad" but the fact is it's much, much easier for an average 1st world leftist to do something meaningful to help trans people than to help Palestinians. But they won't do shit. That's my issue.
>>42150823>much easier for an average 1st world leftist to do something meaningful to help trans people than to help Palestinians. But they won't do shit. That's my issue.i think its a false equivalency and if this is really concerning for you, you should push for intersectionality and support these movements rather than bitterly complaining online. Palestine is actively being bombed, starved, and children in the hundreds of thousands are being murdered by a genocidal machine, with israeli figureheads quoting the third reich on their national TV. Transgender people and trans rights do need to be championed, and i'm not going to compare suffering because that's pointless, i think it's just easier to show sympathy when most people are intentionally kept in the dark about trans issues, but that being said, i think a lot of the protest against the fascist united states and uk are pretty central to the trans movement considering the powerful in the anglosphere are using us as a boogeyman.
hey nazis your time will come, hiding behind a star instead of a swastika wont save you
>>42150838>i think its a false equivalency and if this is really concerning for you, you should push for intersectionality and support these movements rather than bitterly complaining online. Palestine is actively being bombed, starved, and children in the hundreds of thousands are being murdered by a genocidal machine, with israeli figureheads quoting the third reich on their national TV. Transgender people and trans rights do need to be championed, and i'm not going to compare suffering because that's pointless, i think it's just easier to show sympathy when most people are intentionally kept in the dark about trans issues, but that being said, i think a lot of the protest against the fascist united states and uk are pretty central to the trans movement considering the powerful in the anglosphere are using us as a boogeyman.
love you <3
Why are ftms so insecure in their masculinity?
>>42151126I feel myself and like myself so that's basically the same
>>42151182I bet you feel yourself you dirty little fuck moppet.
>>42151256Uhm yeah I just said that, that hardly something you could bet on, are you unaware how gambling works?
>>42151260Just give it catchy horse names.>Five hundred on ferocious fingerThough maybe boxing >He'll go down as soon as the other guy is in the ring, no way he'd last through such a ferocious onslaught to his guts and jaw Okay fine, i doubt a gaming commission would approve the bet.Still, fuck moppet. Lol
>>42151326You're mom, nerd
>break up with my boyfriend because I'm not really into him anymore>he uploads deepfake porn of me online>it has 480k views so far with 1239 comments talking about how hot I amRevenge backfired. This was the best thing to happen to me all year.
>>42151262i'm sorry you feel that way(since it's deepfake, they aren't talking about you, btw)
>>42151267shut up nigger
>>42150925You can't win against agps
Link it
>>42151085you think people see others who have deepfake porn of them online as degenerates instead of victims?
