Hey guys. I just see a lot of people online who are bitter about being a virgin/not having a partner. In my case I think it may be because of my relationship to solo-sex/AGP and porn. I have kissed a few girls and have had opportunities to have girlfriends and sex but for whatever reason, I never pursued those paths. I guess I never really felt worthy of having a partner or love, always thinking I need to become better than I am before I am loveable as a person. I am not bitter about my situation and I don't hate the world or anyone because of it. AGP is annoying but not interfering with my life in any meaningful way outside of sexuality and arousal, no dysphoria, no HRT, no crossdressing, no IRL-activities related to it - I am still just a guy with a fetish. Sometimes some lingering feelings similar to "homesickness", a wistfulness, to be a graceful, serene, kind woman is there but no strong emotions. I also "know" that for me personally it's only the sexual kink spilling over into identity, because AGP can be insidious. Also, im oldge (30) and probably a decent looking man so I don't hate my body, even if my brain thinks a female form would probably be preferable. I just wanted to share with you guys, that there are people like me out there too. Not everyone becomes hateful because they haven't been loved and neither do you :)
>>42310053fucking moron
>>42311310Uh sorry I didn't mean to offend you. :(
>>42310535>I would just look like a man wearing a dress and makeup. And I wouldn't be comfortable with that.You are dysphoric. For your own sake, please don't ignore it
>>42307550I'll give the same advice I always give to evreryone on the board:Stop being a retarded repper and take the pink pill already
>>42307550i wouldnt call you agp at all, i think you are just alone and trying to find some "connection", thats it.i also had very healthy hetero relationships with women but also have agp and a desire to be a woman/feminine or whatever you want to call it. mine does not cause dysphoria or self-hate, at least in my case, probably because i am a highly functioning person (at least i beleive that i am). i learned how to keep it a secret as much as possible, though did share it in some select special cases. i did try several things like crossdressing and mild irl-activities but i never thought about hrt, because in the end i also enjoy being a man too. thanks for reading my blog
fuck it just gonna buy it for 560 euros and if it makes too much noise (im closeted with fmaily) im just gonna spam max volume white noise in my locked room
>>42309700home laser is a scam.
>>42309700It's much more effective to get real laser. Check Groupon and look for what places have deals. I spent 300ish USD to get 12 sessions. 1 per month. I grow NOTHING now. I never had full beard, just some chin hairs and sparse upper lip hairs but more than enough to clock me if I didn't shave and pluck every single day. BF would complain that I was pokey when I hugged him in the morning and would kill the mood.Every now and then I get a couple black hairs that were missed but they're super thin and unnoticeable for a couple days. I'll get a touch up one of these days or just DIY electrolysis on the survivorsDont bother with IPL just go straight for alexandrite laser and fix the problem permanently
everyone take the bingo. also i'm not a newfag but i have no clue what ase is tell me
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>>42304483>what is asethis is half remembered and probably wrong but:once upon a time there was an r/traa trans lesbian named ntr4ctr. she made silly memes. Then one day she found r/gender critical and ovarit and began hating herself and by extension all gynephilic trannies and invented the term autosapphoeroticism. He later detransitioned. (As far as I know) The end.
>>42311782What a sad case.If I ever detroon, I'd just go as stealth as I did with trooning out.I don't get people who feel the need to make public statements about shit.
Anybody on this board whose gender dysphoria had a late onset, i.e. starting post puberty or in one's 20s? Personally, I've only started being explicitly dysphoric after a random dream I had where I simply was a woman. Realizing that I was simply a woman inside that dream made me feel like the weight of the world had been lifted off my shoulders and I could properly breathe for the first time in my life. It was the first time I ever felt serene inner peace, and not constantly restless and melancholic. I wonder if anyone experienced something similar
>>42310421It does make sense that your dysphoria got worse in your 20s, as masculinization becomes much more pronounced around that age
>>42310399That doesn't sound like late onset at all, but rather just how you managed to compartmentalize it all
>>42310485Late onset dysphoria definitely is a thing. No everyone knows prior or at the onset of puberty
>>42311823is it though i feel like if i was actually trans it wouldnt have taken 25 years to surface
>>42311870What made you realize at 25? Was it some isolated event, or did it slowly creep up on you?
What is it that causes late transitioners to be overwhelmingly "yuri pilled" and "lesbians", while trans women who transition younger tend to identify as heterosexuals?
>>42310882I dont think you read their post if that's your takeaway
>>42310999repgen isn't enough containment you faggots should be killed
>>42311369I'm looking at timelines from older people and that doesn't seem true at all
>>42311639holy cope
>>42311867You sound like you're trying to convince me to stop though, rather than sharing genuine information, after looking at other peoples experiences it doesn't really seem that bad, I'll never truly pass because I am tall, but I will probably look fine, and I can be happy being a kind of pretty amazon lady
I can’t believe this is where we’re still at in 2026
>>42311146That headline is a complete non-sequitur
>>42311146>one lady dies>WE GOTTA FLEE RIGHT NOWwhy....?
>>42311146I don’t think the murdered her bcuz she was gay, so I don’t get it.
>>42311146>nation is clearly moving to denationalize and forcibly detransition the whole trans population>"this is fine">a fat lady picks a fight with ICE because they are like heckin Voldemort and loses>"AAAAA WE GOTTA FLEE"
>>42311146Unless you're Chinese or Indian, you won't get shit from Canada. Their immigration policies are bitch.
Why would someone who actually look good as a tranny decide to detransition?
>>42310489The NT says it’s a disgrace for a man to have long hair, so he should cut it
Does not look like same person. Is this AI slop? Pictures seem weird and creepy.
>>42310697I assume left person is an interviewer and right is the subject.
>>42310523as a trans lesbian myself i agree. we deserve more scrutiny. some of us are valid but some of us aren't, which is why I'm such a big proponent of gatekeeping.
>>42310489Desire to live past 30s, next question
There are still some people that just want their needs handled and to serve their caretaker right? I have a good job, im alright looking, and practical, but people gasp when I expect things in return from a partner.I want someone who likes being looked after and doesn't mind taking direction, that’s not a flaw in my opinion its normal.I’m not into endless debates or pretending everything’s equal all the time, the roles should be set, I take care of you and you take care of me.You do what’s expected, I make sure you’re comfortable and accounted for. I don't know how I can say it more plainly but It seems impossible to find someone who wants and understands that.I like to think this kind of setup works best for people who can more easily relax when someone else is fully in charge and fully takes care of them. Also im not here to convince anyone.If this bothers you, keep scrolling I don't care to debate the merits of my worldview. I'm mostly asking why this seems so hard to find these days.
>>42305485I daydream everyday about having an owner that took care of me like that :c>There are still some people that just want their needs handled and to serve their caretaker right?yes, a lot..>If this bothers you, keep scrolling I don't care to debate the merits of my worldview. I'm mostly asking why this seems so hard to find these days.its is probably because us, the type of needy type u want never goes outside.. and is already a very low % like, first u need a bottom, then that bottom u need to find them cute, then that bottom needs to have that mentality (only extremely love deprived needy bottoms have this personality). if they are love deprived they problably are ugly (which doesnt fit your criteria) or they never go outside (so they never interact with any other human reason why they are love deprived) + probably have some mentall illnessfor example I have anxiety and start panicking if Im alone in a place with lots of people>asking why this seems so hard to find these days.my life is being at home, going to class and thats it. so even if you asked me where to find others I wouldnt be able to think of an answer?I think the best would be going to anime/videogame events? stuff like that where people that never go outside group all at the same placepersonally I have been going to the library lately to read and see if someone hits me up... Idunno if thats dumb but maybe someone talks to me there..
>>42308829im stupid cute ;_;
>>42309130okay, so why aren't you my petwife yet?
bampu
>>42309209i am. u just have to drop your discord of signal
Does this also apply to gays
>>42311420no
>>42311420No, if you have a dick you're game in the gay world. Also, Tony soprano was loaded, so women would want him regardless
Should I just end it now
>>42311650Everyone can get rib flare regardless of age or sex or weight. It's a breathing/posture issue.
>>42311600>>42311650Oh I get it now
>>42311627okay, but my point is that brainworms are coming from yourself, not other people. it's not other people's responsibility to look a certain way so you don't feel bad. the truth is that even if filters or frauding didn't exist, there would be people in the world who are more attractive or more passing than you. you need to find a way to cope that isn't just pretending attractive people don't exist and projecting your insecurities onto random photos from the internet
>>42311703>>42311342 So yes?
>>42311465Actually insane
New Year's Editionprevious: >>42044782 >>42079478 (died prematurely)Goal of the thread: Consider the things you want to improve or accomplish, whether long- or short-term. What small steps can you make towards those goals?Daily goals can be repeated. Remember to keep score, it can only go up!>What is this thread for?Getting better is hard, and sucks. A lot. It does not get easier doing it alone.Share resources and experiences with combating depression, anxiety, personal issues, achieving or maintaining a healthy weight, etc.>Why is this thread /lgbt/?Struggles with mental and physical health are an indisputable part of /lgbt/ life, be it from dysphoria, social pressure, heartbreak, or just unfortunate lifestyle choices.>Notes to consider:Please be civil. Shame is your greatest enemy in fighting urges of self abuse (be it sh, drugs, or just self deprecation). Relapsing into bad and unhealthy habits is to be expected, the goal is to increase the average amount of time it takes between relapses. Any improvement is a victory no matter how small. Your worth and right to get better are non-negotiable. And most importantly:WE ARE NOT THERAPISTS, WE DON'T REPLACE MEDICATION>Note on adviceComment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Finally have it a little bit better put together for the second term of uni, crammed shit hours before the exams and did alright. Went to the gym today and trying for 3 days a week. Its so surreal not being completely fucking misreable all the time. /lgbt/ did make me go into a little spiral of >tfw no bf but that's it. Still need to fix my sleep schedule, staying up late today so I don't sleep 6pm - 4am.My theory is that after like 3 months of taking vitamin d pills the doctor gave me my vit d levels are good probably for the first time in a very long time. The doctor gave me these massive 50,000iu pills which were very hard to swallow and then I switched to regular pills as I couldn't afford any more.Felt like blogposting,remember to get your vitamin levels checked if you can (if you can...) I went to the doctor because my hair was falling out and I thought I was balding lolz
>>42267633Cooked myself today, a simple dish (penne in a garlic tomato sauce), but filling and tasty.I'm glad I did, in spite of the .. subpar kitchen I had to work with (moving again).>>42268048I think romantic relationships may be too few and far between to be a good place to try and rebuild trust. What about friends? I think building trust with people close to you in a platonic sort of way is probably the best way to go.>>42268568I think it's the kinda white lie to protect your privacy any functioning adult should expect of people. Maybe that's an extreme stance but I was raised with a "nobody is entitled to your personal info" sorta mindset. I think you are doing well on that front.>Been waking up at 4:15Christ almighty..>>42268842>>42269105Oh this is very good, Anon!Noted, and putting it in the resources! I have.. a bit of a to do list I need to work off, actually! I very much appreciate it!>You might want to mirror or archive these eventually in case Kohn’s personal website shuts down.Oh yes I might convert them to markdown and put them in the external posts/blog paste! Good thinking, Anon.
>>42268193>You gonna try not doing it once a week for a start?Probably twice a week, once a week feels like too little>what exactly do you feel you struggle with most?Everything, from eye contact to knowing what to say to people to body language, it's like I'm barely human in that aspectI think it's because I'm neurodivergent
>>42269227It sounds like a good idea, generally. You could try and see if you can opt for a workplace that supports WFH, but the more long-term sustainable solution would be to expose you to the anxiety, safely and at your own pace. Maybe driving with a friend? Even just sitting in the car in bad weather might be a start to get you accustomed. It is a thing that you can rid yourself off with salami tactics like those where you keep pushing the limits of your comfort.>>42269733I'm glad to hear the board games are getting easier, any particular one you enjoyed in particular so far? Just curious about the types you wound up playing!>Basically when I'm not working my day job, I am doing something that might be good for my brain.First of all, that it awesome that you are working hard on yourself! But if it's alright I gotta stress that you must also look out to not burn yourself out, okay?>I hope you get to rest soon!Thank you so much, Anon. My love also pushed me to make sure I don't overexert myself, just had a talk today actually. I'm trying, and the weekend helped a great deal.>>42270143I know the other Anon already asked but just letting you know we're here for you if you wanna talk about it.>>42271430>they relly on me but i cant...i cant love them trulyWhat does it mean to you? Do you feel detached from people, try expressing the ways in which you are, and try recalling how it was in the past for you. I think it is worth exploring what the terms of what you would consider love actually are to understand why you feel like you don't give enough of it. At least that is how I understand you here.>>42274002No biggie Anon, I'm always glad to listen, even if I take a while to respond.
>>42270777>It's just pathetic.I understand that this disdain for your situation, but I don't think it pathetic at all, you are in a shitty situation and have not been given the tools to aptly resolve it, so you ask for help. Being stuck is not a weakness of character, often it is just a lack of critical resources. I am glad you came. To recap, you are lonely and want to make meaningful connections with people,>Earlier today i got criticized for something(rightfully so) and before i could even process>i'm also too retarded to even work and support myself.you consider yourself incapable (in what ways? how does your "retardation" manifest?), consider getting a job I assume (what are your qualifications?)>I would also like to troonwanna transition,>I'm feeling very overwhelmed right now> it mentally i already started to swear before catching myself in surprise.and need help grounding yourself/cope with emotions as the crop up. I do think Panty raises a good point with trying out therapy, but we do have resources that might help you on top.There's multiple fronts to tackle at once here so I will try simple, would you perhaps wanna try and find people who share your interests, it's a common hack getting to know people if your location allows.>>42271510>>42271840Being over 30 myself I assure you it is by far not as bad as it seems, but I get *why* you set that goal like this. I think that big, overarching, abstract goals like "fix life" lack concreteness though and can often make our lives miserable, this is why I tend to stress the utility of SMART goals ITT. If you want we can try and subdivide the nebulous goal of getting shit together into smaller goals that feel more attainable, because without a concrete set of small goals the pressure will only build for you.Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Where's the fat distribution and softness? Does hrt not work the same for them?
>>42311763you dont get fat distribution if there isnt fat in your body, at least half of tranners dont understand that simple concept
>>42311763being a passing black tranny is harder then being a passing indian tranny tbqh. its the same reason why black/brown pooners are almost always passoids
>>42311792I don't think it's true some tranners do nothing and end up with a fem body
>>42311835nta but those alr had a fem body to begin with
>>42311763its kinda funny cus the one on the right is short but hes like fucked anyways. ig even w being short u cant escape a bad build
>what is INTERGEN?INTERGEN is a general for intersex people to talk to each other about their experiences or just to hang out>what is an intersex person?Intersex people are those born with any of several sex characteristics, including chromosome patterns, gonads, or genitals that do not fit typical binary notions of male or female bodies>am I intersex?We are not doctors, please seek medical advice, but dont be afraid to ask questions here to maybe understand things better>are trans people intersex?Trans people are not inherently intersex, however an intersex person can transition if they want, “neurologically intersex” is not real as being intersex pertains to the sex organs or hormonal productions>how is this /lgbt/?We share similar experiences of discrimination and social prejudice based on sex and gender norms, even though intersex is a variation of sex characteristics, not a gender identity or sexual orientation itself—————————Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Good morning the wind howls outside, it’s oddly warm and raining
>>42305988I am awake entirely too early for a weekend and it's a frozen wasteland here.(It's not thaaat bad but it is below freezing.)
>>42307777Don’t worry the weather made a fool of me here
Okay I’m awake again time to go to the store
I’m curious how many people here are immune compromised and have to be kinda precautious about getting sick
This time, it's Strong vs. Smart for the chance to win $5M. Beast Games Season 2 premieres January 7 on Prime. It's out now, go watch it on Amazon Prime! » Watch Beast Games on Prime Video: https://amzn to/49M6RWbPrevious: >>42307447
>>42312019>these transbians will teamup vs youyes i remember mtfg pre covid>>42312007yeah irl that's something best saved for a relationship that is going well
>>42312041i like skinny men but i also like buff men and fat guys and everything in between. i just think the male form is so beautiful.
>>42312052I like hearing this because it makes me think you'd like me through my bulk and cut. I do get a little fluffy.
>>42312039that's impossible i only top so ofc that's what'd happen
>>42312052this is what actual androphilic tranny sexuality is like
makeup editionqott: do you do your makeup? how often?prev: >>42303481
>>42311208in hindsight this was very mean n i apologise
>>42311449I honestly deserve it i was nasty to people all my life. Yeah it sucks but i'm genuinely not a good person and i reap what i sow karmically speaking.
i don't think it was mean enough, it's not enough until he never posts here again
>>42311208if it's a joke, it's not funny anymore and the bit should be let go
it stopped being funny after the first day, if it was ever actually funny at all. there's no reason for him to be here other than him baiting for reactions
