The entire idea of it is silly and down right fetishistic. To remove a "boy" is impossible for another person to do, transition is something that you must do your self.
>>42199297meanwhile in a boymoder's bedroom right now
>>42199297>silly and down right fetishisticThat's because it is primarily a fetish.With that said, there is also a non-fetish view but it's rarer because very few trannies need it.I needed to kill my male ego and I'm grateful to my boyfriend for helping me with that. And it wasn't just sexual, but social too.With his help, my journey was faster and more pleasant. Escaping boyhood was right for me.
>>42200277>>42200405To the wrong person, you are a predator. To the right person, you're a savior. People are different.
>>42199297>anon's first realization that all babytrans lingo is extremely cringe
>>42204136I've never groomed anyone, I've simply had sex with bottoms.
The majority of zoomer trannies were incels who couldn't compete with chad and decided to submit for pussy.
>>42199954I decided to submit (transition & SRS) for cock, not for pussy. Dumb af thread desu.
>>42204191i know i know i know its number 4 its number 4!
>>42199954That's me. Except I'm not a zoomer and I was attracted to men.It worked. I'm no longer an incel/gaycel but a woman who is in love and is loved back.The journey was hard but it was totally worth it. I would have become a Wizard without transition.
>>42204206idiot
>>42204206Faggot fetishmoder
New Year's Editionprevious: >>42044782 >>42079478 (died prematurely)Goal of the thread: Consider the things you want to improve or accomplish, whether long- or short-term. What small steps can you make towards those goals?Daily goals can be repeated. Remember to keep score, it can only go up!>What is this thread for?Getting better is hard, and sucks. A lot. It does not get easier doing it alone.Share resources and experiences with combating depression, anxiety, personal issues, achieving or maintaining a healthy weight, etc.>Why is this thread /lgbt/?Struggles with mental and physical health are an indisputable part of /lgbt/ life, be it from dysphoria, social pressure, heartbreak, or just unfortunate lifestyle choices.>Notes to consider:Please be civil. Shame is your greatest enemy in fighting urges of self abuse (be it sh, drugs, or just self deprecation). Relapsing into bad and unhealthy habits is to be expected, the goal is to increase the average amount of time it takes between relapses. Any improvement is a victory no matter how small. Your worth and right to get better are non-negotiable. And most importantly:WE ARE NOT THERAPISTS, WE DON'T REPLACE MEDICATION>Note on adviceComment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Need to lock in, work starting in 3 days. I don't feel ready, even though I shouldn't have issues doing the job.I guess I'm gonna miss neeting it up but money will be nice anyway, back to waking up at 4:30 : (
>>42198173Happy New Year!>I see! How big is the town you live in? It sounds like you are generally looking in sensible places, you could broaden your search by looking in places relevant to your interests (making more friends which might develop into partners)I live in a decently sized city. Unforunately the gay scene isn't as big as it should be for a city this size. I feel like I'm wrong here, but unless I'm dancing with my friends in a bar, I'm generally quite 'straight passing' which I feel is a turn off for a lot of fem/androgynous guys who are more 'visibly queer'
bump!
>>42198374>Just so I get it, is it about, like, a Ba thesis?Not a thesis, but the research was supposed to replace some elective credits I needed to graduate with my bach degree. I signed up for a class with this contingency in mind, but by the time I got to it, I was already on the waitlist. I'm hoping he just forgot, or something, but after telling me, he was going to send me the information the Friday after the semester ended (and never actually doing that) I haven't heard a peep. If the guy didn't want me in his lab or working with him, he could have just said so already, I wouldn't be offended. I mean, he approached me, he took me to his damn lab and everything. It's also possible I dodged a bullet, there was some weird shit about it all.>Hm, how many hours of sleep do you get with that schedule? Did you try going to bed earlier?Probably about 8-10 hours, depending. Tried going to bed earlier, but ended up reading a bit to try to turn make myself tired. *Oops!* spent 2 hours reading an account of an arctic expedition from the 19th century. Silly fucking me.>Look out for points of friction.Strength training is just miserable for me, I'm not naturally athletic or muscular. Cardio is an easier sell and makes feel ecstatic. I guess getting the clothes is the first thing, having some water, setting up myself with some music, and then getting a timer going if needed. Psyching myself up is the most arduous part. My pullup bar is in my yard, so it's a little inconvenient to have to go out during winter, and constantly having to have the clothes to run outside is a bit fucking annoying.>leverage the social aspects you talked about itIt's harder for me. Not really knowing anyone in the area anymore, having to go far to see cool shit, being firmly against most social media, having a strange sense of humor, and having fairly atrophied (if they were ever developed) social muscles makes it difficult. The degenerate sleep schedule doesn't help.
>>42203939bowump
All replies must contain your tag. This means no replies purely to comment on another's post. >letter(s) >about >primary interest >other interests >looking for >not looking for >(free space) >contact
hii'm an indonesian gay looking for fwbcontact me athttps://x.com/nhantrang_tali
i want friends but im an old social awkward esl weirdo
Love it! No one’s using this dogshit thread the way OP wanted to. Not a single tag
>>42203793This thread fucking sucks I hate you all
>>42204443just post your tag
Is it true that cis autistic women are clingy and obsessive? does this mean im malebrained for being extremely avoidant as an autistic transwoman? I wish I was obsessive instead of avoidant so badly
>>42204215Cis autistic women are many things, including that. Honestly I've met autistic dyke neets and they're scarily close to trans women.
>>42204234but is it most common for them to be clingy and obsessive? I need to know if my autism is fembrained
>>42204215>I wish I was obsessive instead of avoidant so badlyso reali actually do get very obsessive and clingy over people i like but i always just think they hate me and i have to distance myself from themi wish i was the type of person who could express stuff better i guess
why do i bother trying to pass
>>42204379To be at peace
>>42204379focus on your health and happiness first and foremost. if you can be happy without passing then there's nothing wrong with doing that. fuck anyone who says otherwise.
>>42204627>focus on your health and happiness first and foremost What if I had a dream where a voice rolls me "some people choose to be tortured in this life so they have an advantage in the afterlife" so I'll never be able to be happy in this life and when i try horrible external circumstances keep happening that destroy it Not OP also
>>42204698where a voice told* me
>>42204379because you think it'll fulfill youspoiler: it won't
does the tsa gaf about diy vials? i have a prescription vial i can bring but i hate using it because its compounded in a super thick oil and has a very low concentration (honcentration?), so i much prefer my diy vial.
>>42204465Probably a bad idea desu, just bring the prescription one (as well as the prescription just to be safe). Can't speak on if you'll get hatecrimed for being a tranny though, considering the world these days
>>42204481bullshit useless reply
>>42204465I flew with powdered mushrooms in capsules in a vitamin bottle. You can fly with your diy hrt. TSA doesn't give any fucks about some tranny juice. They care about guns, explosives, and weapons. If you're that paranoid, get one of those pouches diabetics use to keep their needles and insulin in
>>42204465I've flown domestically and internationally with DIY vials in my carry on and TSA has never cared.Can't speak on if they care about needles and syringes though, I've never tried bringing those
Do you have a particular sweater or jacket you like? I hope you're staying warm and cozy this winter!Previous>>42197404
>>42204582thats a slampig
Fun fact: slampig translates to slutty in Swedish
>that incel sadness only a twink or femboy could fix
>>42204779
>>42204767what does tranny translate to in swedish>>42204779do they share the bucket of orange paint?
Homura editionPrevious: >>41924395>QotTWho's your waifu/husbando?Tagmap: https://tagmap.io/tag/%2Fbigen%2FFAQ:>Am I bi if I like women and femboys/traps?>Am I bi if there's this one member of the same-sex I'm desiring, but normally I like the opposite sex?>Am I bi if I sexually like both sexes, but only interested in romance with one of them?Yes, sexual attraction to both sexes is bisexuality.>Do you have presents ready for me Santa?Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>MOVIE NIGHTMOVIE NIGHT>MOVIE NIGHTMOVIE NIGHTThe poll is now open, no further recommendations will be accepted. The voting will stop tomorrow at around 5 PM GMT, so be sure to vote before then!Here is the link to the server:https://discord.gg/R2NNBsv3
>>42092689>QotTWho's your waifu/husbando?Wako....
I think it's cute how many bisexual otaku have bisexual waifus/husbandos.
page 10 bump
/lesgen/ is the lesbian general for all cis women and trans women (MtF) to discuss lesbian relationships and topics.Be kind to each other and report/ignore trolls who attempt to divide trans mtf lesbians and cis lesbians as a community. This includes transphobic bigotry, femmephobia, butchphobia, racism, and anti-c4t/t4t slop. This is nice thread. :)QOTT>How did you welcome the New Year?>What changes did you make in the past year that you are proud of? What do you wish you had done differently?>How do you want your relationship with her to progress this year…?tagmap: https://tagmap.io/tag/%2Flesgen%2Fdiscord: https://discord.gg/bAnVMAGPNRold thread: >>42154686
Busting inside theyfabussy (sapphic)
>>42202127thought this said creepy and i got excited
slop day here again, eh?I guess everyone is too busy using the confessions channel in the server as a mini-4chan now.
>>42202349please please please please please PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE
>>42201998Kino
My mom constantly says how "in America you can't disagree with da gays but um if they can be gay then I can disagree too!" Also she's transphobicAnyway, does this mean I can get a future bf/ tgirl gf?She has gay friends btw, no idea about her opinions on them but they seem to be fine together
To add on, she said if you're born something you are that thing (clearly she doesn't think that tgirls have the female gender identity) and she doesn't like fags I guess..............I once told her that I'd prefer a bf over a gf about a year ago but I'm 80% sure that that's been erased from her memory
>>42204340what your mom said was unintelligible, so nobody knows what the fuck that means in regards to your future partnerlots of people don't think "gender identity" is a thing; you said she has gay friends, so how can she dislike fags?i dont get it.i dont get a single post of yours.are you even an adult? 4chan is an 18+ site.
>>42204484I don't get what she says sometimes, obviously she's talking about "wokeness" and cancel culture and how you can't disagree with (in her words)homos or transvestitesI have zero clue on her thoughts on gay men, really it's a mystery Legally I am 18
>>42204340Most normies who are either trnasphobic or homophobic would are rather chill with those who aren't straight nor cis as long as they think the said individual are pleasant to hang around with. Though that might not make them any less homophobic nor transphobic though.
>>42204559Yeah I think she's only fine with gays she's friends withShe won't like it if I was gay I guessAnd she definitely won't see any tranny as their actual gender
anyone else addicted to dysphoria fuel? i love making myself feel bad for looking at real girls and mentally comparing myself
>>42202821Sometimes I wish I was cis, but then I remember periods are a thing and then I'm like "fuck no"
>>42204547i would rather be cis and deal with periods than be a tranny
>>42204549You say that only because the grass seems greener on the other side. Ask any sane cis woman if she would accept the pill that made the periods stop without any drawbacks otherwise, vast majority of them would say "yes" in a heartbeat.
>>42204558it's a necessary evil to so i can have a uterus/have children. i would gladly deal with periods monthly if it meant i was able to get pregnant, nona.
>>42202821yes, i literally look at pics of jenny Kim all the time on pinterest and it makes me happy because she's adorable to me but it also makes me want to die
How can you tell the difference between a real trans person and someone who's just an AGP?
>>42202777>How can you tell the difference between a real trans person and someone who's just an AGP?If they are physically existent, then they are a real trans person, and if your hand passes through them when you try to touch them then that's how you know they're AGP.
how the fuck can someone be an accelerated graphics port?
>>42202777real trannies are AGP. HSTS are by definition gay men. what you may be thinking of is reddit trannies
>>42202837>to me "real" trans women have a womanly aura to them even pre-transition, like a very feminine spirit and behavior. Since i was 13 i would always get randomly asked if I'm gay in any new social setting or people would remark that I'm gay or look gay even once when i was dressed like a typical boy with af1s skinny jeans and a black hoodie lmfao. and when i met one of my internet friends irl he said i had a vibe like i was listening to Britney Spears in my headphones. but i feel like i lost part of my femininity for wanting to be the top in t4t sex. but i also really enjoy being chased by chasers and honestly get more "emotionally" excited by the idea of bottoming for a chaser, and since i was younger i always noticed i would get insanely more turned on from sexting men than women.
>>42204545That's funny isn't it. I can be masculinely styled (short hair, muscular, men's clothing), and someone will still say their something feminine about me. It's like that meme with chad and an incel and they both have the same haircut, but only the incel gets told his haircut is ugly. For example I've gotten, I have feminine lips, feminine eyebrows, look like a clocky tranny, am a pretty boy. All while being styled in a way that isn't even unconventional for a guy.
I regularly come to this board to remind myself that I am not a tranny. Seeing how horrible gender dysphoria really is always reassures me that I'm just overly dramatic and feel nothing like it. I'm really sorry you are suffering so much because of mere chance
>>42197490groomer bait ahh thread
>>42197490>I regularly come to this board to remind myself that I am not a trannyThat's me a decade into repping. Or me ~3 years before I started hrt.You'll join us eventually, nona. And we'll welcome you when you're ready.
>>42204400That won't happen because I'm not dysphoric like you all. Hope your transition is going well though. Wish you all the best
>>42204461>I'm not dysphoric like you allI wasn't dysphoric either. I was just fascinated about being a woman. In the end I just wanted to try. Much to my shock, it worked really well and I'm lowkey upset I didn't start earlier.>Hope your transition is going well though. Wish you all the bestThank you. It has gone well. 14 years into it. Perhaps too well that it alienated me from the online trannies.
>>42204518I wouldn't say I'm fascinated by being a woman at all. I'm sure it is just as mundane as being guy is, and I certainly feel a sense of estrangement thinking about what it would be like. There's just sometimes the passing "what if" thought, just as I may wonder what my life would've been like if I were born somewhere else or in another time period
can someone help me parse this *1995* study? my porn-addled agp brain can't make out complex language like this
>>42204448*are more like female brains than male brainst. ESL
>>42204420It's sad that we will never get quality studies again because leftists think biological aspect of gender dysphoria is irrelevant and nazis don't want trans people to exist at all and want them all dead.
>>42204448dude i got it, i was being sarcastic
>>42204556>i was merely pretending to be retardedbut to what end
>>42204533>againlol>leftists and nazisnothing inbetween, huh?>nazis have influence on what studies are doneyou must be pretending at this point, yes?
