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I thought my chaser boyfriend was straight because he acts straight and says he is but we just had the gayest sex but thats ok because its even hotter than straight sex
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>>42329009
Ahhh
Yes. For most, it's important to cater to the "tranny theater" and call yourself straight despite bisexual/sometimes abject homo leanings.
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>>42330044
My boyfriend is lucky, we had this discussion because he was confused at me calling myself straight when he doesnt feel straight for dating me and I just told him I dont really care for these kind of labels but its an easy way to explain to other people what sort of people I am attracted to, and I am supportive of him and love him no matter what he thinks his sexuality is :)
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>>42329020
>normally i like women but you look enough like a beta bitch faggot that i figured you're basically the same thing
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>>42328073
Thats internalized homophobia. Sad.
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>boyfriend
Then how did he not already know?
>Acts straight
Elaborate?

How do i cope with the fact that everyone hates me and wants me to die?
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>>42330071
You don't like women with buzz cuts?
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>>42330066
my hair is beautiful she's just the world's most insane bitterhon
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>>42329978
>our Schizo Queen would never
yeah ur right shed just start going crazy
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Nobody hates you and nobody wants you dead schizo
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You are pretty ugly doe.

Accidently got really drunk and high and told literally every single friend (both IRL best friends and online friends) in a big group chat that I'm trans or non binary and want to go by they/them. Then told a few friends in private I'm trans.

I'm too scared to open up my messages now, I saw a few previews and my friend said she's happy no matter what I do and that we should go shopping, a few other people seemed maybe supportive. A lot of my friends messaged me asking if I was okay or needed to talk but I just ignored them mostly.

I feel like I fucked everything up and I honestly just want to crawl in to a hole and disappear forever, for reference I'm a detransitioner/repressor for like 4.5 years now (prev 5ish years on hrt)

i also wrote a big letter to myself begging myself to transition even if I don't feel like it in the morning
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>>42329050
You need to do damage control and say that you aren't actually trans and just were really drunk and said things that just came to mind, but aren't actually trans. You fucked up
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I sometimes tell people that i used to want to be a woman when i was younger and they usually think of it as a neat factoid.
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>>42329050
Take your injections nona......the damage is done. Enjoy your new life, there is no going back now.

>Listen friends, I was really drunk, I meant what I said, but I'm just really confused. Please bear with me in this strange time and I appreciate your love and support. I wouldn't dream of changing my relationship with any of you and it would break my heart to lose any of you as friends. But if you can't deal with this or with me, I understand and wish you the best of life. I don't know what the future holds for me but I thank all of you for being there for me....it means more than you will ever know. Love, [your name]

>t. OP

you're welcome OP
NOW GO TAKE YOUR MEDS
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>>42329297
>does anybody have any advice on discussing this stuff with people close to you
If you must do that then be completely honest. Set your fear aside and say the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth. Any lies or omissions from your narrative is what will trip you up. Most normal people will tell you to shut up at some point so expect that you will have to stop talking abruptly before you are ready and that will suck for you. Be careful who you talk to. You should feel the need to talk to them specifically and they must be willing to let you speak.
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>>42329050
i'm genuinely terrified of getting drunk because i've almost done this shit before

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what's the least painful way to kill yourself?

hanging? ODing? i don't have access to a firearm because europe

i'm pretty tired of being ugly, iwnbaw, and waiting for hrt to do the very little it does is driving me insane

i'm dying a khhv virgin, which i'm sad about, never got to feel the touch of a man before i go, which sucks, but happiness is for the more fortunate anyway
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>>42327786
thanks, i'm probably not going to for now, i was just having a particularly bad day
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>>42327859
What happened in your day anon?
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>>42324294
U aren't even ugly lmfao.
I think your face will pass desu, not even trying to hugbox.
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>>42322328
Sodium nitrite, or nitrate (make sure you get the right one)
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>>42322328
line are you in this thread it seems up your alley

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QOTT: how many lollipops are in your pocket at any given time? QOTT2: can i have one? previous: >>42185931
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So this is where you've all been hiding.
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>>42318881
The hips
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>>42314036
G and Dark Empress would get it.
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>>42329991
does it usually work for two trans guys to date?
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>>42330325
In my personal experience every trans guy I’ve gone out with has been extremely non-committal and flighty. The one I’m talking to rn seems chill, but I still have the slight fear in the back of my mind that it’ll just end up like the rest.

i am my boyfriend's property
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>>42329102
i hate these types so much. "waahh im your puppy you own me!" and then they wont obey commands. foh
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>>42325591
Which for you is intertwined with drawings of female children having sex with men.
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>>42329788
would you like male children (femboys) instead?
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>>42328044
i am his property as he is able to enchant me into it
if he couldn't, then i wouldn't be

>>42328060
i have a handsome boyfriend and i am his cute girl
cope and seethe

>>42328109
i transitioned to treat my gender dysphoria
i don't know what you're babbling about

>>42329102
i love him and worship him and he loves me and takes care of me
sorry that true love triggers you
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>>42330400
based nona happy for u

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how is this guy running multiple large billion dollar companies? he literally made conclusion that his son was going to be transitioned off of one tweet?


what started it https://x.com/stclairashley/status/2010328765503586572
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>>42327568
You're acting as if leftists didnt pioneer it lmao
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>>42324445
>superbly owned
this tells me none of what you say matters
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Yearly billions in federal subsidies and grants going into the toilet for subpar products that barely work (if at all) at skyhigh prices. He's the hype man for investors, simply.
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>>42327040
Hi. Tesla owner here. Fun car! But let's talk about his brilliant engineering team:

The app forgets how to send directions to the car about 50% of the time, until it's restarted
There's a recurring bug where all controls fail to render on the controls screen so you have to restart the app to open the trunk
The physical mechanism to open the trunk has failed twice now, on a car from 2021
The high voltage battery has failed three times
They're offering an extended HV battery/motor warranty now but it's priced in a way that implies they're expecting a LOT of just-out-of-warranty catastrophic failures, which makes sense given my personal MTBF for HV batteries is about a year
A holiday update one year introduced a bug that caused the heat pump to freeze up in especially cold weather
Another bug caused the battery to precondition unnecessarily early on the way to a charger, severely impacting range and causing severe range mispredictions

>>42324460
That's the thing. I don't think anyone's actually running the company. Major first mover advantage and some solid tech if they could make it remotely reliable and they're squandering all of it by pissing off EVs' primary customer base and making stupid $120k 7 polygon "trucks" instead of making their existing products better.
Should've stuck to S E X Y.
But at least the car has a whoopie cushion mode to entertain you while you wait for a tow truck because your battery got nerfed mid road trip and now a full charge won't get you to the next charger.
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>>42324373
arguably barely

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In my objective understanding of cis society, i have come to one very harrowing realization for cis women. There is nothing sadder, more pitiful than a cis woman who has forsaken family for career. Its simply not natural. And you can tell, you always can, no matter how they phrase it, the resentment of having chosen career over family echos from their soul. Whenever the topic comes up, its easily noticeable how the things they say about birth and kids, about how they want no part in it etc etc etc, its all just harrowing, deep, severe cope. The pain is in and between their words.
They shouldn't be at work, they should be having kids, raising them, sharing happy and wonderful moments with them. They crave it so deeply in their soul.
Cats are no true replacement for their biological imperative. They are fundamentally the most earthly of creatures, cis women desire deep down to be like mother earth, and procreate.

To work away in some office building, is like ontological suicide for a cis woman..

If you know any cis women in your family or friends circle who are working, please remind them that their clock is ticking.
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Yes. Trans women can take over from cis women in a professional capacity and earn income.
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>>42330292
1. ergo proxy sucks(very rare i’m a anime hater)
2. crazy to think you know better about ppl then them
3. i feel the same thing when ppl ask if im going to have kids I yearn to be a mother and the pain leaks through my lies of disinterest in being a parent but, am too unstable and the current political is too worrisome to even adopt but, i yearn to fall in love and raise a mixture of me and the person i fall in love with but, don’t want to accidentally pass down abuse somehow so having no womb is for the best unfortunately
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>>42330292
I never thought I'd agree with a tranny

New Year's Edition
previous: >>42044782 >>42079478 (died prematurely)

Goal of the thread: Consider the things you want to improve or accomplish, whether long- or short-term. What small steps can you make towards those goals?
Daily goals can be repeated. Remember to keep score, it can only go up!

>What is this thread for?
Getting better is hard, and sucks. A lot. It does not get easier doing it alone.
Share resources and experiences with combating depression, anxiety, personal issues, achieving or maintaining a healthy weight, etc.
>Why is this thread /lgbt/?
Struggles with mental and physical health are an indisputable part of /lgbt/ life, be it from dysphoria, social pressure, heartbreak, or just unfortunate lifestyle choices.
>Notes to consider:
Please be civil. Shame is your greatest enemy in fighting urges of self abuse (be it sh, drugs, or just self deprecation). Relapsing into bad and unhealthy habits is to be expected, the goal is to increase the average amount of time it takes between relapses. Any improvement is a victory no matter how small. Your worth and right to get better are non-negotiable. And most importantly:
WE ARE NOT THERAPISTS, WE DON'T REPLACE MEDICATION
>Note on advice

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>>42328706
>hundred of bucks
hundred bucks
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Coming to the painful conclusion that my BF will never be as authentic to me as I wish he were. I know I don't have the right to know everything. I am speaking up about being curious about his person in an entirety, anything and everything, and am never judgemental. He is what I consider the best partner I could possibly imagine. And I am radically communicative about my activities and thoughts with him myself, which he does appreciate a lot. Catching him doing things as small as they may be and him never mentioning it, even upon inquiry? Makes me feel like he is hiding more than I will ever know. I assume I need to let it go and accept the sadness this arises and concentrate on something more worthwhile than what might just be romantic fantasies.
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>>42329624
It does sound like you’re looking for a level of reassurance from your boyfriend that isn’t realistic. You should not rely on a partner to regulate your emotions. A lot of interpersonal advice will have you thinking that you can control other people’s behavior by acting right, but that can give you unrealistic expectations about what you can control and make you feel responsible for other people’s behavior.

Maybe your boyfriend can’t reassure you as you want because no other person could, but maybe he’s making you worry for a reason. Either he’s just more emotionally distant than you want (very common in men) or he’s keeping something from you that he doesn’t feel like telling you because he knows it will upset you.

Experience has taught me that it’s easy to expect too much from a partner, and that can cause problems, but also the people we date can have trouble communicating in a way that can make little problems way bigger and uglier than they need to be.
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I'd like to troon out but given my faceshape i'll always be pretty ugly.
I know its silly but i dont want to do it unless i have somewhat of a gurantee that i'll turn cute afterwards.
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>>42329918
>You should not rely on a partner to regulate your emotions.
Is that what it is, though? Him and I are just so very close and have such a healthy relationship that this wouldn't have crossed my mind. :(

>control other people’s behavior by acting right
Is this meant to describe subconscious behaviour? Consciously I am eager to to know the love of my life in full so he can be or do whatever he pleases to be with my full support. Partners in crime and time I guess. :D

>more emotionally distant than you want
Doesn't sound like him at all, to be honest ..

>because he knows it will upset you
Maybe I wasn't clear enough about the specific things I like to know. I'm not trying to extract information out of him that he doesn't want to tell me ..
I'm not trying to dismantle his need for privacy.

>it’s easy to expect too much from a partner

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i might actually despise ftfemboys/no t "trans men" more than agp rapehons

at least boomerhons probably have some sort of dysphoria, but these people are literally just women who feel the need to appropriate EVERYTHING after reading too much bl, and make sure ftms can never be taken seriously

i thought all these attentionwhores died after 2021, but apparently some stuck around instead of becoming detransitioners who spread the word about the horrors of changing their name to Ash or Xavier for 6 months

the droves of 50 year olds with sissy kinks are way worse for optics, but something about these women really grinds my gears

mtf btw(feel free to shower with me with praise for my opinions trans guys)
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>>42329455
It's just a tomboy with an extra layer on top.
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>>42329934
>>42330034
It must be nice to be so sure of everything. To be completely honest though, even if I were to detrans, I wouldn't hate what I did to my body, and if I were to somehow, I wouldn't blame anyone but myself considering how I didn't have a trans circle that hyped up my transition. I think that detransers who blame everyone but themselves are pathetic.

Apart from some fat redistribution that I'm not a fan of (which really just means I need to lose weight, nothing irreversible or unmanageable), I quite like what T has done to my body. Whether or not people think I'm trutrans or a woman from an anonymous post means nothing if I can actually imagine myself growing old. Growing old as a woman was unimaginable to me. It still is.

I guess I just shared that anecdote because any mention of ftfemboys reminds me of that little era of my life, yk? Nice to give some insight from someone who used to be part of that group, even if I think my experience is a little different than a lot of the other ones. Most of the ftfemboys that OP is complaining about wouldn't be on here to give their insights since they're mostly on tiktok and instagram, and also are mostly in highschool (They age out of the whole being a boy thing by the time they graduate, usually).

Even during that era, though, I was very conservative in my presentation, meanwhile I knew an ftfemboy in highschool who'd break uniform to walk around with his tits out and a full face of makeup. (I wanted him immensely but one of my cishet friends beat me to it) I wish I could've asked him what his deal was exactly and get some insight into the way that demographic thinks directly from the source, rather than hear speculations about them from people on here. I never met one in person since.
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>>42330321
you talk too much. very feminine
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>>42320271
Foids invading moid spaces.
>mtf btw
I'm sure you'd know about invading spaces as well
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>>42330051
You are more annoying, cishet foid

when should one start fatmaxxing? i always had been skinny and low body fat percentage. now i have been on e for 7 months. i wonder if it is time to gain some weight.

>t.ranny 180cm 65kg

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i’m ftm myself and i don’t care that i’ll never be able to penetrate someone with my tdick i’ll just keep using a strap-on and pretending i don’t have anything down there. i’d even go through a hysterectomy/vaginectomy but the complications look way too painful for it to be worth it. “oh but you can’t feel anything with a strap anon” yeah you probably can’t feel shit with a disgusting frankencock either.
and speaking of that, why do most pooners even want top surgery? most of them are fat so the complete flatness only in the chest area looks extremely unnatural; i get getting a breast reduction but a getting complete breast removal when cis men their size would have small man-tits is retarded, at least lose weight before the surgery.
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>>42329268
>Lives in the UK
Go away thirdie
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>>42329278
The UK is leaps and bounds better than whatever brown shithole you live in
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>>42329287
Uh oh! The jellied ell eater is upset :) ?
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graft scars are hideous
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>>42329327
I've actually just finished eating a jar of pickles cockles. I don't like eel

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noooOOOOoooOOoooOOOOO the heckin geeeeeeeeeennnnnnnnnnneeeeeeeeeeesssssssssssss
you need to breed! ur dad is the math man on twitter!! wtf the west is falling noooooooooooooo
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>>42328876
tranny genes are smart genes, whatever reasoning that has
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>>42329151
Are you retarded? He is not "math man" on Twitter, he is one of the smartest people alive today and it would be a shame if her elite human capital spermies weren't saved
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>>42329903
Yeah one of the smartest people alive today had a tranny daughter, because trannies happen from smarty genes and people like you happen from dummy genes
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>>42329903
why are you so obsessed with making more trannies and spreading tranny genes to future generations so they can suffer. what is wrong with you.

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>can a white chudette like me ever find love...
>i cant stop yearning for a brown womans touch..
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>>42329132
where r u

Probably one of the more successful fatmaxxing endeavors, but it is still triggering my ed hard. Pic included.
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>>42328454
Well I'm probably going to get denied entry into a clinical trial today because of my weight. I also never see anyone with a body similar to mine so all I'm left with are numbers to look at.
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>>42327005
>chinese
>considers self fat
>only 25 bmi
did you know most americans conside 25 to be excessively thin
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>>42329711
Hey I'm at least trying to be healthy here, I don't know if I should be comparing myself to the American standard.
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>>42329874
that's probably a good idea
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>>42327005
fatmaxing is so fucking hard how do you guys do this shit

im 145 5'10 im trying to get to 155 and then back down (is that even going to be enough ??) but eating fucking sucks how do you guys do this shit

also how do i make sure i can still go back to my ed for when im losing weight


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