this should be pretty obvious and yet here we are
>>42380471Wait don't you understand? You do SRS when it's really over. When you're tired of being sexual and just want to pass as a normal woman you have srs. No more sex after SRS cuz you don't feel horny anymore
>>42380188nah, those who don't really want srs shouldn't get it, they should leave the queues for us genital dysphoric trannies
>>42380948i feel horny all the time and it's super fun when i have sex with my bfi would be really sad if i had a pp and could not have sex
>>42380985Congratulations your experiences opposite of mine. I'd love to have my dick on my male sexuality but I transitioned a long time ago, lost my ability to have sex then I got SRS and it really made me totally asexual
>>42380188FtM SRS sucks so I've resorted to being a celibate eunuch insteadIs that ok, m'lady
*student counts as a jobi work as a cafe barista and i'm a uni student
net (student)gonna start working as a programmer in a month tho
>>42380900I am an unpaid intern for a construction company
>>42380900I'm a student but I'm applying for apprenticeships in my field
>>42380900software engineer like the stereotype
software engineering student; ta during the school year and data analyst otherwise
amelia is transition goals fuggen jerdee
>>42380609amelia would send trannies back to lesotho or however the ice is managed
>>42380537I'm sorry anon but there's no way Amelia isn't a terf
>>42380951What about a self hating tranny
>>42381035huh... yeah, I guess I can also accept the "Amelia is a rare british passoid who overcompensates with terf rhetoric" interpretation too
>>42381035Amelia is 100% a femrepper, I know this because I was basically her before I pooned out
Tell me what you do to cope when your mental health is bad
>>42377836I usually just mentally shut down. Dissociation, depersonalization, the whole shebang. I end up focusing on physical things that need to be done - chores... laundry, dishes, work, etc. But my relationships tend to suffer as a result.Sometimes Ill come here and scream into the void. Usually anonymously, sometimes not. Sometimes people around me catch the venting and that's not good.>>42379336:[
I cry into my shark.
>>42380089Food used to be a big source of comfort for me, but being on semaglutide has kind of taken that away from me. I still made myself French toast with cream cheese for breakfast, though.>>42380176I need to get a shark. :(
>>42377836alcohol cigs and cutting myself for a long time, im trying to b a bit healthier recently though so now alcohol and cigs (but less) and trying to distract myself by spending time w ppl
I feel completely crushed now
Post drawings.Any skill level!
bump
I don't draw rn, so I can't participate, but you inspired me to give it a try again
>>42380619whawt should i draw nona?
Would you go to a trans function if your SAer were also there
>>42379879terra is ungrateful. hurts to see people living your dream.
>Have sex with person>They regret it afterwards>"You raped me."Many such cases
>>42377195this seems like the kind of place to get raped by a transbiani do not drink near transbians any more (i am straight! why do they all try to have sex with me???
>>42377195No. But I stay away from other trannies because so many are unpleasant to be around to begin with.
>>42380601aspiring rapist hands typed this post
straight trans women, tell me about your straight boyfriends/husbands
>>42376985my ex told me they weren't gonna troon then did
>>42379387>We've been living together for yearswas living with my trans gf for 5 years before i trooned. Time doesnt make it any less likely, all it does is make the egg crack much harder. Honestly all trans girls should be constantly looking for red flags from their "straight" bfs. The prior fem appearence and dating a trans girl gives him a few egg points, few more and he cracks
>>42376785he's the most racist man alive, pure Aryan GermanI'm a brown Latina tranny who's half Jewish
>>42376785My fiance for a year, dating for 4; is a dork but also really amazing.Like yeah okay sometimes he games too much or his farts smell like shit so i need to aerate the washroomBut he does take such good care of me. His family too. He loves to go on hikes and knows to push me to go with him when im down or depressed. Hes fine at cooking too but Despite being an accountant he has such passion for the small things. It makes me cry sometimes but just seeing the joy when he talks about some random factoid about town history or going to a museum or GPUs even if it goes over my head.And his laugh is really infectious. I feel so safe.
>>42379765The sexuality congruence in between a transgirl and the one who pursues them means that all it takes is that bisexual GAMP to turn inward...
Exercise Editionprevious: >>42162119Goal of the thread: Go out for a walk, or try to get any other form of small exercise (walking stairs for 5 mins for example)Daily goals can be repeated. Remember to keep score, it can only go up!>What is this thread for?Getting better is hard, and sucks. A lot. It does not get easier doing it alone.Share resources and experiences with combating depression, anxiety, personal issues, achieving or maintaining a healthy weight, etc.>Why is this thread /lgbt/?Struggles with mental and physical health are an indisputable part of /lgbt/ life, be it from dysphoria, social pressure, heartbreak, or just unfortunate lifestyle choices.>Notes to consider:Please be civil. Shame is your greatest enemy in fighting urges of self abuse (be it sh, drugs, or just self deprecation). Relapsing into bad and unhealthy habits is to be expected, the goal is to increase the average amount of time it takes between relapses. Any improvement is a victory no matter how small. Your worth and right to get better are non-negotiable. And most importantly:WE ARE NOT THERAPISTS, WE DON'T REPLACE MEDICATION>Note on adviceComment too long. Click here to view the full text.
I forgot to mention I'm like actually openly Bi around people at work now, which is really a relief compared to my last job. Highly recommend it if you're in a safe-ish environment because even if you can't be openly trans, you can at least avoid that aspect of repression.Anyway, I'm gonna mess about with womanmode today because I'll look like a hon but i'll still be happier than manmoding it up>>42377894I hope you're okay. I know the ideation can get bad, but please remember it's an internal enemy, not a helpful voice and whatever is telling you that it is a solution is just trying to deceive you.>>42376678Best of luck Nona, I hope you find all you're looking for.>>42376092Honestly, I wouldn't worry about being "fit enough", early transition or not fully transitioned or whatever makes things harder (I know), but it's not like you have to find someone immediately.It kind of depends on what sort of relationship you're after.
>>42371356>any tricks on tofu?I recommend marinating it if you've got the time and want to prep. You can use plastic bags for refrigeration or any plastic container. Your base should be onions sauce, as the salt content helps draw out moisture while flavoring it. Add spicy sauces, laoganma, sesame seeds/oil, fish sauce, oyster sauce, mirin, vinegar, white pepper, hot pepper/chili, honey, tahini, white or brown sugar as you see fit and like your sauce! If you are using regular ('natural tofu') I recommend either blanching it in salt water for a couple minutes to get a soft and squishy consistency or alternatively covering it in any starch and frying it until crispy. Make sure to cut it into thin slices or small cubes for optimal frying. If you want a meaty umami taste, season your tofu with MSG while marinating or before frying it. Good luck!You can try any of these tips to your heart's content!
goom dorning sig
last time i was here i was in a really bad place talked about some random shit trying to stop the suicidal tendencies. just wanted to say lurking here sometimes helped and after a year i really feel like i made a lot of progress mentally i can barely remember when was the last time i have been this satisfied with the state of my life. the proces was some of the worst stuf ever but im glad i did it. this week i ended up in the er. in short i have a kindey stone 4mm. turns out that i have a pretty high pain tolerence (maybe from the years of cutting (i havent for a full year)). painkillers are a life saver but even thought its agonozing pain im glad ive made progress that i can still hang out with people and smile through it. the process is painfully slow and hard and i want to improve more the quality but after a year i kinda started enjoyign the process and making a new small goal ahead of me to compelte. anyhow thank you all and i wish you good luck even if you fail its part of the process and next time it you will make the progress quivker and mroe of it
good afternoon sig
ropefuel
why would tim curry as frank-n-furter make you rope?
Innocent petite youngshits are reserved for creepy older trans men who chase them. That's the law of the world to come.
How do you fix looking like botw Link?
>>42379977What does that even mean "hungry"
>>42378891dont
>>42380417Those cute little pancake titties are cute. They make me hungry
>>42380439Idk i kinda hate them and feel ugly they remind me of fat men boobs I don't feel like they pass as fem
>>42378891Perfect faggot twink bottom
Would you date a transbian neet who plays factorio sometimes?
>>42380663Thats not my game. I don't use balancers very often, I'm not very good at optimization stuff>>42380669No I tried satisfactory tho
>>42380653why are you posting about me?
>>42380653I want to start a sophisticated logistics network in Taiwan using only transbian consultants. Send me your resume along with your MENSA IQ score and start learning some mandarin.
>>42380675You don't really have to be smart to play games like these. You just have to make a goal and take things one step at a time.
>>42380911I think I testee 135 as a kid but brainrotting has that down tk maybe 125. I have adhd and anxiety and I do not think im a good candidate for your venture, i would not have the focus to self learn mandarin
4tran, does anyone else take clothed-dysphoric-shower-baths to calm down? I know i cant be the only one that does this after a long 13 hour shift of boymoding and having coworkers say the most egregious things about transwomen. I would rather be called a slur than having a coworker talk about the time he almost asked out a passoid transgirl in highschool with supportive parents and that she was going to get srs after graduation. Like "'woaw, haha you almost dated a dumb tranny bitch thats crazy -_-" And its this girl having the life i wish i had. Its like being an obese retard and having a 'buddy' bully a slightly dumb overweight kid for being themselves, with more background systemic hatred and violence. Thanks for the reminder FUCK IWNBAW. Sorry i dont mean to vent, but actual ropefuel ;-;
>>42380585you need help
wtf would you do that for just bathe in the dark (or with minimal light) and close your eyes like i do
>>42380655On that we can agree. Or i could just rope
>>42380787is exactly what i would say if i did not take a very relaxing clothed disphoric shower bath after worknotice the lack of self harm scars? The self care of the shower? I am a very healthy individual.
Feminine trans man get mistaken for being a girl. Is this a common issue for trans people? Do butch trans women also get mistaken for men?
>>42380515this is a cis woman with narcissistic personality disorder
>>42380515>feminine trans man mistaken for being a girl>mistakenProbably because they are right
Sometimes I think people are too hard on pooners, then I remember they're not
>>42380668>then I remember they're notAlso remember that these are not just "harmless teenagers being silly". Law makers and everyone look at these people when banning hrt. They don't look at the middle aged dysphoric person. These pooners are dangerous.
Y'all need to go outside and touch grass
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>>42380592not many. - unless you're willing to get routine dexa scans, don't do more than a single 6 month cycle. pio can cause osteoporosis over long periods of usage.- actually look into potential side effects so you know what to look out for. it's not as safe as HRT, but it isn't super dangerous either.
>>42380592read thishttps://grayoasis com/post/3this medication is useless unless you take at least 30mg and bulk properly while on it. also it is actively dangerous if you use it for too long or have complications. be safe be smart
>>42380805This is obviously an article written by a random, so take it with a grain of salt. But what you're saying isn't even what the article says.>this medication is useless unless you take at least 30mg Not what the article says. It says that 30mg is what was been shown to have an effect in clinical trials, not that lower doses have been shown to be useless.>bulk properly while on it.Weight gain is common on pioglitazone, but not necessarily required for visceral fat loss.
>>42380895it is written by a random but it's a synopsis of the cited studies, of course take it with a grain of salt but you can read the citations if you want if straight from the horse's mouthjust saying that the goal of using pio should be to gain as quickly as possible, if you don't bulk while on it you're wasting your money and medication
>>42380950>if you don't bulk while on it you're wasting your money and medicationDepends on your goals.If you're just getting on it to ditch some visceral fat, bulking might not be as necessary. Nonetheless, it's still a point worth mentioning. ^_^Just thought I'd point these things out, not trying to throw too much shade at you or anything.
