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I want to start girlmoding and voice training at home. I was too unwell to do it earlier and just wanted to dissociate constantly, but biochemical dysphoria relief and my antidepressants have made things better.

So far I've been trying to cope with the whole situation with irony. I couldn't stand being called my deadname, so my parents instead started calling me "Pudding", a weird nickname from when I was a small child. They didn't even use any pronouns, they just said "the pudding". It was so fucking dumb it was funny and it weirdly helped me cope.

If I were to take the leap of faith and start girlmoding at home now, I would unavoidably have a horrible mickey mouse voice for the first couple of months / years. My appearence also wouldn't change at all, I'd still be an ugly gigahon.

If even I struggle to see myself as a woman because of what puberty did to me, why would my parents be any different? I can imagine they just see me as a weird straight twink / faggy boy that loves and idealizes women to the point he wants to be one. If I died in an accident, maybe they would bury me under my deadname without even realizing it's hurtful.

What should I do here? Are there any sort of tests I can do to see how they perceive me?
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>How do you know whether your parents actually see your as your real gender or not?
If you have to ask, they don't. They almost never will.

Now how you want to deal with that is up to you. But what is 15+ years of growing you as a boy/girl is just not going to change in most peoples eyes so its probably not something worth even stressing about that much. If it happens, it's usually over a long time, many years after transition.
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>>41497291
>Now how you want to deal with that is up to you. But what is 15+ years of growing you as a boy/girl is just not going to change in most peoples eyes so its probably not something worth even stressing about that much. If it happens, it's usually over a long time, many years after transition.
i feel like this is what most transwomen don't get. It's too much to ask normies to *genuinely* express and think of you as your target gender the moment you come out. Its easier if you actually have been on hrt like 3y but the reality is that unless you actually were faggy or pass extremely well, most people that knew you from before will consider you still a guy.
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I am 99.99% sure my dad does.
But he's also in jail for extreme rapes.
So...
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>>41497261
Parents tend to always remember you the way you were when you were little. In your case, a genderless dessert.

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incredibly funny that the war against troons was won literally just by pointing to the words & actions of troons. you don’t even need an organized propaganda campaign. they will hand you all the ammunition you need to destroy them & call it “empowerment” & “liberation”. fucking buffoons.
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>>41497011
>caring about optics when cucks will literally make up shit just to hate us
retard
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>>41492640
This is what OP is taking about, lmao
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>>41493997
>Easily. I sound like a woman, have the body type of a woman, and honestly look mostly like a woman its just
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>>41490074
but when the right wing grifter says some shit like "heil hitler we should burn all jews and re-enslave niggers" all of you flock to the comments like "errrm have you ever heard of "Dark humour", liberal"
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>>41490074
OP ask me how I know you're a thirdie jeet

Play with my tongue edition
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Why does anal make me moan like a girl?
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https://litter.catbox.moe/pudqgz81uisqlpw2.jpg
Buhhh
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>>41497254
At least crop out your face so I can pretend it's not gay
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>>41496834
Mmm I wanna rub my cock all up in there
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>>41497254
Cute!

what if there was a group of raving boymoders above your apartment raving 24/7?
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>>41497019
idk i what i do. have just one frame tho for now.
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>>41497068
People say its easy but prompt engineering is a bit more art than science. Just keep practicing and you will start making quality videos soon enough
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>>41495224
join them obviously
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>>41497093
uh it's...... something?
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>>41497294
Not bad. Would go great with a multicolor flashing filter. Also needs glowsticks

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kms
>be me, 19
> 1 year hrt, boymoder
>friends invite me out drinking
>one helpful friend says "they dont card here but if they do just run back and grab [girl]'s id, i know shes a woman but you look kinda similar and shes 22"
>another helpfully says "hm idk but i dont think HE could ever pass as a woman"
>various murmurs of agreement and i end up not going

so do i kill myself here? im not even that fucked for anything but my face, im 5'7 and 120 pounds but just ugly as fuck i guess
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>boymode
>mad that you were treated like a guy
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why are you mad about that? did you tell them that you're trans?
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>>41497218
Men don't lie to make people feel better so if she looked like a woman they'd have said so
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>>41497222
men absolutely lie to make people feel worse though, I would know, I'm a cisman on this fucking board why am i here wtf
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>>41494940
>boymoder gets treated like boy
what's the problem

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/lesgen/ is the lesbian general for all cis women and trans women (MtF) to discuss lesbian relationships and topics.

Be kind to each other and report/ignore trolls who attempt to divide trans mtf lesbians and cis lesbians as a community. This includes transphobic bigotry, femmephobia, butchphobia, racism, and anti-c4t/t4t slop. This is nice thread. :)

QOTT:
>Halloween plans?
>Favorite lyrics or poem?

tagmap: https://tagmap.io/tag/%2Flesgen%2F
discord: https://discord.gg/bAnVMAGPNR
old thread: >>41397366
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iwish i could showthem how much they really mean to me but its too fucking late now illnever get to letthem know ikmfmggfffudhFUCK im such a neglectful fucking drunken asshole iigggghfjdAAAAAAGHH
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>>41494756
nice a thread for straight men to talk about feels
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>>41497167
everyone has already seen it. it's not some hidden gem lmao you have porn brain if you think it's sapphic too
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>>41497267
Well its worth reposting. Its only been a month, calm down. Also "sapphic adjacent" doesnt mean sexual but whatever makes you feel better being an ass about it.
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Anyway i love space princesses and spicy references to Arthurian legend and affairs between knights and queens. And if you do too I appreciate you as well and wish you good night.

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"you lgbs have to support us troons because Marsha P Johnson threw a brick 50 years ago"
"you gays have to support us lesbians against the troons because we took care of you during the AIDS epidemic"
"trans men can be lesbians because Stone Butch Blues"
this stuff is equivalent to christcucks saying that women are sinners because Eve ate an apple.
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>>41497148
Cool psyop bro
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>>41497182
it's funny to see terfs and trannies arguing over who threw one brick in 1969 as if it should determine who gets civil rights in 2025.
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I don't feel any connection to queer culture. It's just millennials trying to mythologize sucking dick. I had nothing to do with any of those protests so why should they concern me?
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>>41497207
it was a nonbinary by the name of storme delaverie, actually
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>>41497148
The real trvthnvke is that trans were never a part of LGB. They tacked themselves on and unwitting allies took LGBT at face value. T has never had a shared struggle with LGB. Get your own movement

For context, I'm a bisexual woman who, probably due to growing up in an abusive homophobic household, is strictly dominant in an often sadistic manner.

I've had no trouble with women, they're quite easy and fun to toy with, but for some reason dudes just have insane confidence and think they can subdue me if they try hard enough.

It's such a turn off when a cocky mf, even though he claimed he wanted a mommy to dom him, starts pounding me and calling me shit like slut to see if they can turn me submissive.

Are submissive boys a thing or are they just performative? ATP I'm gonna give up on men.
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>>41488531
Marry me, right now.
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>>41491940
>suicide soon i expect
do a flip retard
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>>41488531
i begged a woman to ash her cigs on my arm every single time she smoked around me. i'm pretty sure actually sub men exist, i in fact am one of them.
t.subby man
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>>41488531
Yes we do
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>Do submissive boys exist
Obviously they do, finding a guy who wants to sub is about has hard as finding one over 6 foot, some surprisingly women dont seem to have an issue doing that.

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Do all Asian trannies just have phimosis, I feel like every one I’ve talked to has mentioned it. (Probably slightly biased by whites getting circumcised, I’ve seen a few white trannies with phimosis too.)
T. Type two hon.
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>>41496170
why no steroid cream?
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>>41496402
the diagram shows the maximum foreskin retraction possible for each type. normal on left
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>>41495142
Most white people are European and don't get the goysnip
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>>41494700
Does anyone have a spare foreskin, the evil people took mine at birth
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I find it kinda funny that I'm one of the rare uncut troons otb despite being a Jew.

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how many of you guys plan on marrying a trans woman and adopting a child
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>>41496424
What are you talking about "siring your kids" you doofus, go take a shower.
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>>41496212
We're one of the last generation before quality of life plummets for a bit of a time i'm not having or adopting any kids.
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>>41496212
I'm a tranny and I'd never have a child
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Would be great but I get the feeling they think guys who like them are pathetic, due to their own self esteem issues.
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>>41496289
unironically i have a sister but have never breached the topic to her. I know she doesnt want kids herself, but would like it if my bf and I had one so she can play aunt

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how do i explain to my father that im not an anamoder and i just dont like eating
he genuinely thinks im anorexic (bmi 17.2)
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>>41494168
Boost Ultra High Calorie Shakes
This shit was the holy grail for me.
It'll buy you enough time to get your shit together if you have 3 or 4 a day. Its like $60 a week off Amazon but its worth it to fix your body.
Anorexia really fucked up my transition. It got to a point where I was having to giga dose my E because my body wasnt physically capable of processing it, and I used to be able to pass and its been hell trying to get back to even looking like a tranny and not just a cis man.
So just, the $60 a week can be steep but absolutely worth it.
Other things that helped was eating just as many of the little yoplait cups I could stuff into my gaping maw at a time. 140 calories in each little thing.
Also cup ramen with eggs. You can easily get up to 750 calories in a single bowl with 3-4 eggs and a slab of noodles.
Gl on recovery anon.
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>>41494168
>>41494405
Oh yeah also my biggest piece of advice is be patient. It can take a fucking long ass time for your body to fix any organ damage if thats happened and that can be a grueling slog because you'll be eating more than you can handle and not gaining any weight. It will happen eventually tho
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>>41492663
Don't worry, I got the same thing at 25. Some people just want you fat and ugly. If you don't feel the need to eat, you shouldn't.
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>>41492663
based caring father. also
>>41493761
>>41493782
this. you are in fact anorexic
t. former anorexic that used to think this type of shit
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>>41496706
"people" with bodies and minds of swines ,want to bring you down to their level so they can feel ormal

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QOTT: favorite historical period?

most 4chan posters like vidya, anime, manga, TV, film, music, comics, cartoons, weeb shit, etc. as interests and hobbies.

Why not specify your favorites in your post? It says more about you and will likely net you better adds.

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>qott
>letter(s)/about me
>primary interest
>other interests and hobbies
>looking for
>not looking for
>(free space)

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>>41496683
its a riot game, the answer is no
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>>41496683
Nta but if you like tag fighter it's an ok game with pretty fun characters but if you don't like the usual tag fighters shenanigans (extremely long combos, runaway backdash neutral, visual cluster, etc) then absolutely not.
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>>41496725
I see. Haven't played much tag fighters, but I'll give this a shot. Seems like a good way to get my feet wet.
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>>41496725
Oh, and thanks for answering too btw.
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>>41496683
i wasnt the one who answered but whatever other person said was rly well said, and yes the characters r rly fun and unique and the netcode is insanely good its def worth trying! (and its free)

as a trans guy i think that trans girls who are into st4t are quite literally angels bought down to earth and if anything ever happens to them i will walk outside and light myself on fire
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>>41497112
Oh, sorry for perceiving you then. I liked your posts though I had wondered where you went
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>>41497153

Thank you for appreciating my noticably significant levels of autism nona :) Most of what I do is borderline chud-posting though.
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>>41485772
I don't think I'd date a ftm, too many of you guys are terfs. lots of ftms cling to their identities as women and lesbians, hate and feel morally superior to us biological males, and try to remind us of our maleness by accusing us of male socialization and male privilege.
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>>41497195

>"a FTM"
>describes tumblr theyfab

Everytime.
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>>41497208
I've met binary, passing, socially transitioned trans men who were still terfs.

Heterosexual white twinks are looked down in their own countries but popular in East Asia. Now you have Russian dude like the one below tries, quite successfully, to capture the Asian market. Why do Western/European women treat feminine looking men with contempt?
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Bump
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>>41492978
more
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>>41493472
I wonder the people's perception of Asian looks are shaped by makeup
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>>41492886
>russian
>white
NEEEXT! you people are losing your edge
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>>41496749
Found a retard

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When are people gonna realize that Islam and the culture of the middle east are the greatest enemies to the LGBT?
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>>41497185
Ok so they kill homos in their own country what the fuck am I supposed to do about that? There's no way to just dismantle islam
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>>41497185
literally what evidence? all there is is articles from the BBC where detrooners cry that they made the wrong choice and say “iran forced me to troon out :(“

like i said, you need a GID diagnosis to troon out. they’re not going to give that to gay men.
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>>41497200
what is this copy/pasta and why do you think it's relevant
>>41497203
and in other countries, like england.
>>41497209
you can google and find tons of articles showing how they treat being gay as being trans and can look up their views and laws on both things.
just because you refuse to look at anything more than opinion pieces doesn't change the fact that they still treat being gay as worse than being trans and that they treat being trans as just some mental illness.
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>>41497194
they're not doing that they're literally virtue signaling towards the west by letting the companies they buy keep their pride flags because they want to be seen as a credible investor / owner that won't try to change the west.
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>>41497216
you can google and find articles that say north koreans pull trains by hand you fucking dumbass. i never said they treated being gay better you fucking retard. being gay is punishable by death in extreme case, being trans is not. the different things. but since you want to conflate gay men with trans woman so badly like all these other propaganda sites do you can’t fucking tell the difference


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