I always cope by just calling myself straight and HSTS but rn i'm very sick with a fever and god. I'm at least some kind of bi i hate this I can't repress that
>>42165657me
>>42165657What's bad about being bi, doesn't it just means your junk actually works in more situations
>>42168307bisexual men are never nearly as feminine as gay men arethat's why ONLY hsts are truly transgender and actually women
>>42168323Not an argument, sweetea.
>>42165657I totally feel youI got drunk and told my Tgirl friends that she's agp and easy to get and that's not fembrained of her but I missed an injection and I'm so fucking horny I'm debating hitting her up because I need something
When did you realize HRT was grooming psyop and AGP is niche fetish?
>>42167564ok what the fuck seriouslywere you just receptive to estrogen naturally, were you fat previously, i don't know how you could've grown them this fast
>>42169085I have no idea what you're trying to say.
>>42167255Bashful tranny
>>42153350i remember seeing this stupid passoid on fitttts grrr
>>42166196look i hate finn as much as the next bitch but the mainstreaming of agp as both acceptable and attractive is not the worst thing for optics ever.and what i mean by that is that its accurate. finnster is accurate to what this generation of twinkhons is. self interested horny boys in bodies that are increasingly feminine. and agp
I'm agp and a troon but I r/askAGP and all the people invested in it creep me outat least I'm pretending that I'm trutrans, retconning my past to fit my stories about how I was always feminine and so onI'm actually trying to look feminine and good and not cause other people problems or be a optics nuke, I also want to see if my meta attraction is strong enough to date men (I have never dated a woman and I don't feel much attraction to them, also it would make me feel like the man in the relationship which would make me dysphoric)
>>42169834I talk about sex with my husband! I don't want to talk about it with other people.
>>42169767>I'm actually trying to look feminine and good and not cause other people problems or be a optics nukecongratulations on being a somewhat normal and functioning human being. depending on a few other variables you might even be a net positive to society. be aware that this will earn you no small amount of ire from qxeer xnxrchist folks who expect you to serve as a suicide missile against norms that they personally dislike
>>42169767>>42169975What counts as not causing other people problems Asking for a friend
>>42170176not being a hon, not being annoying
>>42170190I assume going in and asking for a bra fitting during busy store hours in manmode is being annoying. Still asking for a friend
I want to be fucked insta : 3bdo_c7
Gay sex edition>QOTT: Have you ever had gay sex?>QOTT2: Did you enjoy it?>QOTT3: If not, why?Last thread: >>42106130
>>42170412>unless you already passlmao
new thread >>42170497
>>42164873do itI'll be jealous but also happy for you
>>42169266I'm a mental wreck repper neet
>>42169442ywnbar
I've gone on a few dates and it was weird. On both they seemed interested in meeting and talking (brought up doing fun things, seemed happy to find someone like them, told me that they haven't really gone on many dates before, etc.) then after the date it's like a complete 180. They're no longer interested in talking, tell me I "might be interesting but it's hard to know for sure", dodge the question when I ask what went wrong.It's kind of depressing me a bit because I think about it so often. I don't know if people are legitimately just lying to my face. I'm not sure if I need to upgrade my fashion or follow some looks-max content or whatever.I haven't spend much time on looks i guess because i've been worried about uni and my apartment but i guess that's no excuse
Are your dating app pictures anglefrauds? Maybe u just look diff irl
>>42170440i sorta look at my face enough that i can't tell if i'm cooked or not. it's like looking at an essay you've written for so long that you don't see the flaws that are glaringly apparent
>>42170461side profile is not good, i have an overbite and a larger nosebridge. From a level head-on view though I actually look fine i think
>>42170461I mean what angle constitutes an angle fraud? I've met people who've done higher angles. maybe I should adjust to throw in more face level photos
Would you date a transbian neet who spends a good chunk of her free time despairing over being alone and obsessing over potential new partners?
>>42166215Why
bump
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Bbhn
Bjuup
how do you choose between the two? i'm a neverpassing hon, and by that i mean no hope of passing whatsoever at any point in the future. i have a very masculine and uncanny face and FFS is extremely unlikely to tip me into passing territory even if i do afford it someday. i can't convincingly manmode because of other aspects of my appearance. i honmode socially, that means using a female name and dressing in women's clothing primarily. this has been the case for coming up on five years now and i've never actually faced violence or anything for being trans, even verbal harassment is something that just hasn't happened to me in three or four years by now. people in public just quietly disapprove but don't really tend to get involved. at the same time it does sort of hurt a lot to feel rejected, i'm super sensitive to it and it hasn't really started to hurt less with the years (if anything it hurts more).i have something resembling a community or group of friends irl who treat me generally well. we just don't talk about the trans thing and never have, they don't seem to have a problem referring to me with a female name and pronouns. i think it helps that my voice is very feminine even if the rest of my appearance leans male. it helps a bit to hang out with them, but my other daily interactions tend to drain me. i have given serious thought to detransition but it feels a bit awkward to broach the subject with people i know irl as i've never talked about being trans with them in the first place. i'm about to start a new job too where i already stupidly gave my female name. should i just make steps towards detransitioning and drop everything and move somewhere else?
>>42164807get srsbecome vagbrohang out with dickbros
>>42164876wish i could afford it. i do have genital dysphoria, i feel like a vagina would look really weird on me because of how unpassing i am though.
>>42164807nice pic
Become addicted to drugs
>>42164902vaginas look awesome on ftms surely even if you look so masculine it would be fine
>How come I've never seen a passing tranny?
>>42170147Every time I see a toupee it looks like shit
>>42170147>why do all the fags i see act like women
>>42170147Wouldn't the passing tranny be these planes since these were the ones who got home unclocked
>what is INTERGEN?INTERGEN is a general for intersex people to talk to each other about their experiences or just to hang out>what is an intersex person?Intersex people are those born with any of several sex characteristics, including chromosome patterns, gonads, or genitals that do not fit typical binary notions of male or female bodies>am I intersex?We are not doctors, please seek medical advice, but dont be afraid to ask questions here to maybe understand things better>are trans people intersex?Trans people are not inherently intersex, however an intersex person can transition if they want, “neurologically intersex” is not real as being intersex pertains to the sex organs or hormonal productions>how is this /lgbt/?We share similar experiences of discrimination and social prejudice based on sex and gender norms, even though intersex is a variation of sex characteristics, not a gender identity or sexual orientation itself—————————Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>42166896So the fact that if you give a pregnant rat megadoses of testosterone it turns her daughters gay (does it, or does it just prevent the lordosis reflex from developing?) doesn't mean every human lesbian developed under the influence of megadoses of prenatal testosterone. Obviously. So, absent evidence a particular lesbian developed that way, why would we call her intersex?Do you think all lesbians are even butch? Do you think all gay men are the stereotypical flamers?Nearly every "sex associated characteristic" exists as two overlapping but distinct distributions, which means you inevitably get individuals who are outliers on one or more traits. Does that mean the entire human population is intersex?
>>42167153this is a silly argument you're makingyou can induce intersex development with exogenous hormone-mimicking chemicals, but not all cases of intersex development are caused by exogenous chemicalswhat that points to is that homosexuality represents a neurological intersex state as an opposite sex development pathway we have gone down to become gay or lesbian>Do you think all lesbians are even butch? Do you think all gay men are the stereotypical flamers?statistically, yes, actuallylesbians and gay men have quite a strong childhood GNC effect, and even as adults they're substantially less gender conforming in other ways, they're even closer to the other sex in physical build and facial features>Nearly every "sex associated characteristic" exists as two overlapping but distinct distributions, which means you inevitably get individuals who are outliers on one or more traits. Does that mean the entire human population is intersex?no, because considering all traits at once, there's a pretty clean separationpeople who make this kind of argument are wordcels who don't get how multivariate traits work
>>42167366>no, because considering all traits at once, there's a pretty clean separationOK I'll bite. Which traits specifically both clearly separate heterosexual males from heterosexual females but that also reliably separate homosexuals from heterosexuals? Is there a published multivariate model?Also what about bisexuals? Are they all faking or is even sexuality a spectrum?
>>42166767I can imagine! No snow here but it's been pretty cold and windy and I'm not a fan of being outside right now.Hope you had a good day off!
>>42169893I did I watched Frankenstein, the new one it was really good
New Year's Editionprevious: >>42044782 >>42079478 (died prematurely)Goal of the thread: Consider the things you want to improve or accomplish, whether long- or short-term. What small steps can you make towards those goals?Daily goals can be repeated. Remember to keep score, it can only go up!>What is this thread for?Getting better is hard, and sucks. A lot. It does not get easier doing it alone.Share resources and experiences with combating depression, anxiety, personal issues, achieving or maintaining a healthy weight, etc.>Why is this thread /lgbt/?Struggles with mental and physical health are an indisputable part of /lgbt/ life, be it from dysphoria, social pressure, heartbreak, or just unfortunate lifestyle choices.>Notes to consider:Please be civil. Shame is your greatest enemy in fighting urges of self abuse (be it sh, drugs, or just self deprecation). Relapsing into bad and unhealthy habits is to be expected, the goal is to increase the average amount of time it takes between relapses. Any improvement is a victory no matter how small. Your worth and right to get better are non-negotiable. And most importantly:WE ARE NOT THERAPISTS, WE DON'T REPLACE MEDICATION>Note on adviceComment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>42162119>>42133552>How are you holding up, Anon?alright. finally got home from the hospital after a gallbladder surgery. i was very afraid but things are mostly fine. a little upset cause i didn’t eat for nearly 2 days and it’s frustrating to feel like i’m losing progress in gaining weight
Is doomposting allowed here
Lowk wanna troon out but also i'm a low value male never had a gf have no friends am short and no good at anything so it feels a bit like a cope/nietzschean death drive/chemical castration desu.>>42166785>What usually lead to your performance issues? Same lack of focus and such?Nah. I dont really get that tired at home bc i can pace around and gst stimulated and stuff but i always give up super easily on things. Tried coding, drawing, writing, jogging, ttrpgs and classic literature but i've never had immediate talent and i just fizzle out within a week or two.I've never once been good at anything. Barely scraped tbrough HS and i dont think i studied once in the entirety of my tenure kek.
bump>>42168118i think so
okay i love you, bu-byeNighty night!
>spending the night on the couch hanging out with roommates>making jokes that would probably get us fired>laughing our asses off>one joke makes me laugh so much I reel back and kick my feet off the couch>roommate catches a glimpse of me and realizes, that in that moment (especially with all the estrogen i’ve been covertly taking) that I kind of look like a girl>realizes that I’m happy and feel safe around people I love>realizes that if I had a womb he would try to get me pregnant and raise a happy family>our relationship changes foreverHow likely is this? Because I’m only transitioning if this is possible
>>42168786i mean i've definitely had boys try to impregnate me but it hasn't worked..
>>42168786Ngl, I hope this is a plosable scenario
this sounds impossibly specific but yea nona somebody's gonna fall in love with you. and it may be someone you're already close to. they already like who you are, after all.
Trannies on this board dont understand why we date them and think we all are sex pests. its kinda sad.
>>42169202>>42169224i'm an average looking feminine autistic guy and i've had trans girls ask ME out. if you're socially assertive enough to make people feel wanted, that'll get you very far.
>>42169288Okay. You inspired me. I need to confidentmaxx. How do I do this? How do I become confident?
>>42169372NTA I’ll tell you things that worked on me no matter guy’s appearance. Complimenting me on anything to start off like my hair, clothes etc. Just being a little assertive like imagine us talking about a random thing, and you move over to sit next to me and a bit close with open body language, you have no idea how much that turns me on.
>>42166989how tall are you and him?
>>42169372In my experience it's not even so much a matter of being confident.A lot of people just want someone who's nice and fun to talk to. As I said before, making people feel wanted will get you pretty far.
> Red: 100% Gay Rights. Gays are fully respected and are treated as equal to straight people. However 0% Trans Right. If you're caught taking HRT or even try to crossdress, you be given the death penalty.> Green: 100% Trans Rights. Transpeople are fully respected and can transition whenever they want and at any age, they can go to gender facility of their choice. However 0% Gay Rights. Gay Marriage is illegal, and anti-sodomy laws are around with the death penalty.
>>42166359is green just iran
>>42168389Iran?
>>42167025>pressing green will obliterate transbians and gaydens>pressing red will also obliterate transbians and gaydensYou know what, on reflection you're right, this is a win-win
I would press the green button; I want a trans gf
>>42166359When you put them side by side it's funny only one requires medical intervention.
I just learned there is a bible story where 42 kids follow this bald dude around making fun of his hairline. Then he gets upset and contacts god so god spawns 2 bears to slaughter the children. Moral of the story be careful making fun of reddit hons on /r/passing and /r/transtimelines. God might smite you for it
>>42169326Were the bears hot at least?
>>42169326squeex is up there as one of my favourite streamers
>>42169359Same same. I feel like he has a stand up comedians energy because I'm always giggling at his antics
>>42169397did you see the one video where he and a few other content creators wrote stand up that they had to perform for a live crowd?squeex's jokes had me wheezing
>>42170004I haven't seen it but I'll look it up.
